Set Apart Podcast

Join Leslie Ludy for a brand new Q&A episode in our Set Apart Relationships series. Leslie tackles challenging topics, like whether online dating is good or bad, how to act around a godly man you are attracted to, and what to do when you are tempted to lower your standards. As Christian women today feel an immense pressure to follow the path of the culture in relationships, it is imperative that we are armed with a biblical mindset to navigate this area in a God-honoring way. Whether you are single, or you are a married woman with a position of influence in a single woman’s life – this practical Q&A will be sure to give you fresh biblical perspective on these challenging topics!

If you’re ready to let go of lukewarm living, tune into this week’s podcast as Leslie traverses the challenging topic of “friendship with the world.” Many voices in our modern Christian culture promote the idea that we will best reach the lost world for Christ when we sidle up to the culture and befriend its passing whims. But what does God’s word state on the matter? In the 20 minutes you spend listening to this episode, you will be deeply encouraged to grapple with what God says about friendship with the world – and you will be freshly propelled to put away this world’s passing pleasures and cling tightly to Him instead. 

Defeat doesn’t have to define your walk with Christ. As Leslie shares, victory is not often realized because the power of the Gospel is not fully grasped in our lives. Walk away from frustrated Christianity and learn the power of “Christ in you, the hope of glory.” In This Episode: Hear the inspiring story of Oswald Chamber’s spiritual transformation. Learn the difference between self-effort and the enabling grace of God. Find out how to begin walking out a life of world-changing triumph, one step at a time!

Counterfeit honesty has infiltrated our culture, telling us to just “be real.” Yet, Christ intended for us to walk in the light as He is in the light, using our words – whether written or spoken – to be filled with grace – not gossip, venting, or ranting. Leslie redefines the cultural view of honesty and replaces it with biblical examples of how to be honest without compromise. In this episode, Leslie shares: How to confess sin in appropriate ways for different settings. How to know whether you need to share with others or with God. Five reasons why public venting is never a good idea. Four individuals who shared honestly about their weaknesses in a healthy way.  

Frustrated with the state of modern masculinity? In this episode, Leslie shares a surprise secret to encourage and motivate the men in your life towards a higher standard. Learn how to champion godly masculinity without criticizing or complaining, and begin to see positive change in the men around you! In This Episode, Leslie Shares: The importance of being a peace-maker and not a pot-stirrer in your relationships with the opposite sex. What God’s Word says about manipulative, nagging femininity and how to keep from adopting these destructive behaviors. The positive impact of encouragement in a man’s life and practical ways you can speak words of life starting today!

For the first time on the Set Apart Girl Podcast, Leslie hosts a Q&A session on the topic of singleness. With questions submitted by young women desiring to live Christ-centered lives, Leslie shares biblical, thought-provoking replies.    In This Episode, Leslie Shares: A biblical response to single women interested in foster care and adoption A reflection on the great women of Christian History and the biblical pattern evidenced in their lives A truth-filled and balanced response for what it means to “honor your parents” as an adult How to handle struggles with self-pity and discontentment in singleness The importance of cultivating a heart of surrender in your singleness, and in every season of life. 

Has doubt clouded your ability to see the faithfulness of God? Forsake trying to figure it out on your own, and instead rest in His unchanging nature. Renew your trust in the God of miracles as Leslie highlights stories and principles from her own life to remind you that the God who parted the Red Sea is the same God who is at work in your life! In This Episode, Leslie Shares: The importance of journaling the miracles in your own life. The enemy’s lies in promoting doubt and disillusionment instead of faith and trust in your walk with God. Faith-building stories that will encourage you to meditate on the fact that God is unchanging and in control!

Are you stuck in comfort-zone Christianity?  Catch a vision for what it means to take risks for God!  Follow courageous saints like Sabina Wurmbrand, Elisabeth Elliot, and others, who hazarded their own lives to promote the Gospel rather than protect their own futures. Leslie contrasts historical Christian missionaries with the self-protective lifestyles so run rampant in the modern church.  She shares inspiring biblical principles that point us toward the radical devotion to Christ we are called to. In This Episode, Leslie Shares: The difference between counting the cost and comfort-zone Christianity Practical questions to gauge how comfortable you are in your Christian walk Stories of saints who have hazarded all for Christ Specific ways to break out of your comfort zone and begin risking all for God’s glory

If you are following Christ, but still haunted by memories of a painful or sin-filled past, this episode will equip you with the tools you need in order to be set free from your past and press forward into the beautiful beginning God has planned for you! Getting past your past needn’t be confusing or complicated, rather the simple truths of God’s Word are straightforward and easy to begin, starting today! In This Episode Leslie Shares: Simple and heartfelt steps of true repentance The tactics of the enemy that can keep us from moving forward in victory Powerful quotes and key Scriptures to keep your mind fastened on Truth Details about the exciting new online course called Fearless Living

In this episode, Leslie tackles one of the most challenging questions that Christ-seeking women wrestle with – how do you confront sin in someone else’s life? With truth and love, Leslie shares three practical principles about living the kind of life that will cause others to be inspired to rise to a higher standard, and how to bring correction in the nature of Christ. In This Episode: How to make prayer your first resort rather than your last turn. How to live a life others will listen to. How to respond to sin in others in a Christ-like way, rather than being ruled by frustration.

How do you live set apart when others don’t seem to understand, or worse, when they mock you for standing up for Jesus Christ? In this Scripture-soaked episode, Leslie uses the Word of God to carefully navigate the waters of what reviling really is. Learn how to rejoice despite emotion and bless rather than harbor bitterness and resentment when you are mistreated for His name. In This Episode Leslie Shares: Biblical principles for how to keep the right perspective when you’re reviled The reality of the war between spiritual light and darkness Three practical tips on how to rise victorious over persecution

The times in which we live can be overwhelmingly bleak amidst the moral decline of our culture, but Spirit-empowered believers can effect true and lasting change – one soul at a time. In part two of Standing for Truth, Leslie offers practicals on how to combat the darkness that threatens our generation. Tune in to hear about the impact one life can have when it’s fully given to Christ. Listen as Leslie Shares: How to overcome the power of political correctness. Where to begin impacting eternity in everyday life. What the Church is capable of if Christians stand for truth.

Have you ever struggled to know how to boldly stand for Truth in the midst of our rapidly declining culture?  If have felt the social pressure to stay silent and allow the trendy, politically correct thinking of our day to rule, this episode will inspire you to rise up and become a virtuous valiant woman who is wiling to stand strong in Christ’s strength – for such a time as this. In This Episode: Hear the sobering reality of our compromised culture and its effects on modern Christianity. Gain inspiration from real-life examples from modern Christian history of those who aligned with truth over popular opinion. Leslie shares personal stories of how she gained courage and boldness.

History proves that Christianity is not for the faint of heart! Whether you are in full-time ministry or just beginning a new walk with Christ, learn how to run the race with endurance by disciplining yourself in the art of spiritual fortitude. Leslie shares her own journey to spiritual strength and how you can improve the core of your walk with Christ in order to finish your course with joy!  In this Episode Leslie Shares: How to follow the example of the Christian greats. How to exchange self-pity for spiritual fortitude. How to discern between the tests of God or the threats of the enemy. How to refuel your energy the right way.

Honoring parents and other authority figures has become an unpopular idea in today’s world. But what could happen if we as Christians chose to walk a different path and re-discover the lost art of godly honor?  This week, Leslie shares how the Lord revolutionized her relationship with her parents, and how you, too, can embrace the lost art of godly respect to see positive change with your parents, spouse, or church leaders. In this Episode Leslie Shares: The agenda of the culture to persuade youth to disrespect their authority figures The biblical principles of honor and respect that bring life and blessing How honor adds beauty to a Christ-centered love story How to build honor back into your relationships

In our non-stop world, chaos has become accepted - and even celebrated - among many Christians today.  But a careful study of Scripture and of creation reveals that God is a God of order, not chaos.  In this encouraging and practical episode, Leslie shares her vision for a well-ordered lifestyle that begins with a renovation of soul.  Peace, structure, and beauty aren’t just far-fetched poetic ideas, but part of God’s Heavenly pattern for our spiritual and practical lives. In This Episode Leslie Shares: Examples from those who created beauty and order in any environment The dangers of over-spiritualizing chaos How Christ structured His days Practicals for helping you spiritual sloppiness for a well-ordered soul Practicals for creating order and peace in your daily lifestyle as an outflow of your relationship with Christ

In our self-focused society, the idea of “people-pleasing” has become something to be avoided at all costs.  Our culture tells us that unless we protect ourselves and put limits around serving others, we’ll end up burned-out and unhappy.  In this eye-opening episode, Leslie explores the real truth about what God’s Word says about people-pleasing (hint:  there’s a right way and a wrong way!) and offers practical insight on how to serve others with joy and strength instead of burnout and stress. In This Episode Leslie Shares: The inspiring example of the proper heart-attitude for serving, as seen through the story of Mary and Martha How to serve without succumbing to emotional and physical burnout Biblical principles for living a poured-out life and relying on a limitless Source of strength

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Feminine mystery is often an elusive concept, but it doesn’t have to be. In this straightforward episode, Leslie encourages you to embrace God’s pattern for feminine mystique. Grasp the beauty of true feminine mystery that doesn’t imitate the coy, shallow, flirtatious traditions of the world, and gain the practicals to make mystery work in your life as He intended!   In This Episode Leslie Shares: What feminine mystery is … and isn’t The honest truth about flirting, selfies, online dating, and more Three key truths on how to incorporate feminine mystery into your character The difference between authenticity and discretion

Purity is the secret ingredient of every beautiful, Christlike love story. But there are many misconceptions about what purity is, and how to have the kind of purity that goes the distance. Purity it’s not simply a “rule” to follow, but a treasure that must be protected out of love and devotion to Jesus Christ. Leslie brings clarity to what true purity is and shows you how to discover a purity that works! In This Episode, Leslie Shares: The correct concept for purity The significance of the marriage covenant The difference between a commitment and a covenant to Jesus Christ

Contrary to popular belief, God designed men to reflect His strength and sensitivity. Yet in our topsy-turvy world, biblical masculinity has been twisted into a counterfeit version of manhood. Join Leslie as she rallies Christian women everywhere to encourage men to rise to the calling Christ has laid on their lives, and learn how to champion the men in your life toward Warrior Poet manhood. In This Episode Leslie Shares: What women truly desire in a man The biblical pattern for Warrior Poet manhood Practical ways to encourage men toward Christlikeness

Is entertainment ruling your thoughts, managing your time, and shaping your walk with God? Learn how to keep a firm grasp on pop-culture entertainment by loving the Lord with all your mind, heart, soul, and strength. In this episode, Leslie shares her own story in returning to an undivided heart and placing pop-culture in its rightful place, by placing Jesus in His. In this Episode Leslie Shares: How to tell if pop-culture is an addiction in your life The subtlety of compromise Scripture to redirect your gaze back to Christ

The poured-out life is not a calling for the Christian elite. Rather, it’s a privilege that Jesus has invited every single woman to participate in becoming His hands and feet to those around us. Gain inspiration to take the first step of obedience, and pour out everything for the One who poured everything out for you. In This Episode Leslie shares: Her adoption stories A sobering glimpse at the needs in the world today Biblical principles that exemplify the poured-out life

If we could ask the Christian heroines of yesteryear what woke them up in the morning, they would simply reply, “Jesus Christ.” In this episode, Leslie stresses the importance of living with an eternal focus in order to impact the Kingdom of God. Join Leslie, and gain perspective and practicals in order to begin exchanging temporal pleasures for eternal impact. In this Episode Leslie Shares: Two characteristics of carrying an eternal focus Her own wake-up call to refocus on living in light of eternity How to exchange temporary pursuits for an eternal perspective Practical questions to test your spiritual eyesight

In this episode, Leslie challenges us with the question: whose applause are you living for? If you want to be set free from the culture’s popularity rat race, this episode will inspire you and help you exchange a temporal focus for an eternal one. Learn the difference between self-built radiance and Christlike radiance and begin living like only Heaven is watching, starting today! In this Episode: The popularity pitfalls in today’s Christian culture Questions designed to pinpoint whose favor you’re living for How to implement a radiant, Christ-focused mentality into everyday life Plus, examples from history about Christians who lived for an audience of One

What if God, the King of the Universe, invited you to His banqueting table? Prayer is an open invitation to spend time in the presence of the King of all kings to gain the peace, joy, and strength that each day requires! In this episode, Leslie shares truth-based principles that she has learned from her motherhood and ministry journey that will show you how to keep prayer an essential to your lifestyle.  Be Encouraged as Leslie Shares: The dangers of justifying busyness over spending time with God How to seek God through prayer in the spare moments of your day The importance of choosing God time over “me time” Jesus’ methods for thriving with a full ministry lifestyle

If Christianity has ever felt stuffy, somber, or strict – listen as Leslie imparts the beauty of true set-apartness. Establish how to keep from the extremes of self-imposed legalism and self-focused liberty. You’ll see that a vibrant, joyful relationship with Jesus Christ doesn’t manifest itself in a list of “dos and don’ts.” Rather, the abundant life found in Him is not governed by law but by Love Himself! In This Episode Leslie Shares: How to replace duty and obligation with joyful surrender The key to being set free from the bondage of legalism Using freedom in Christ for His glory … not your own How to tell if a conviction has become an idol in your life

In a day and age where discernment is sadly lacking, Leslie reveals the desperate need and imperative call for today’s Christian women to regain godly discernment. In this episode, Leslie contrasts trendy, popular messages in modern Christianity with the principles of God’s Word.  You’ll gain practical, biblical advice for making God’s Word the cornerstone of your ideas and beliefs, and learn how to combat our post-modern confusion with God’s rock-solid, unchanging Truth. In This Episode Leslie Shares: The important role of God’s Word in discerning today’s modern messages The opinion that matters most in areas of discernment Common discernment pitfalls for today’s Christian women Practical steps to become a discerning woman

Insecurity is a struggle countless women can relate to. But modern fix-it messages that promote a “just be yourself” attitude that are far from the true help that women need. In this episode, Leslie goes beyond the popular, self-focused solutions of today, and instead establishes the truth that our identity is found in Christ. Discover how to joyfully become the person God created you to be, and gain lasting confidence that is only found in exchanging self-esteem for Christ-esteem! Be Encouraged as Leslie Shares: The confusion found in the “be true to yourself” movement The lasting difference between self-esteem and Christ-esteem The joy found in embracing the season of life you’re in The power of finding your ultimate purpose in Jesus Christ

“Beauty doesn’t come through outward efforts, but from an inward surrender to Christ.” In this episode Leslie further unfolds the vision for heavenly femininity in answering practical questions that every Christian woman has faced when she looks in the mirror. Learn how to steward your body and adorn your appearance with lasting beauty that grows more beautiful with time. In This Episode Leslie Shares: The biblical basis for bringing God glory through inward and outward beauty The difference between stewardship of the body and preoccupation with external appearance Practical questions to prayerfully evaluate your focus in health, fitness, and appearance The secret to beauty that never fades

Feminine beauty is more than discovering new makeup techniques and skin care regimens. In this episode, Leslie shares the best way to enhance your physical beauty —  by cultivating true loveliness found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. Appeal, allure, and charm will fail even the most stunning of women, but the elegance and radiance of a woman who fears the Lord will endure for eternity.

In this powerful and practical episode, Leslie shares five qualities that are a must in the makeup of a set apart woman. When incorporated into the fabric of your soul, they will enable you to flourish in whatever season of life you’re experiencing, whether single or married. Be Encouraged as Leslie Shares: The truth about satisfied singleness The secret to a fulfilled marriage The beauty of being an others-focused woman The appeal of reverent and discrete behavior

If you are a single woman, chances are you’ve felt discouraged or frustrated by the state of modern masculinity.  In this encouraging episode, Leslie offers hope-filled, Biblical answers to two common questions that Christian single women ask:  “Do godly men really exist anymore?” and “How do I know if a man is truly Christ-focused and marriage-ready?”  Using candid real-life examples and practical insights, Leslie shares helpful principles for guarding your heart, protecting your feminine mystery, and testing a man’s true character. Listen as Leslie Shares: The focus of a Christ-centered man Character traits to look for in a potential spouse Advice on choosing patience over panic in seasons of singleness The potential dangers of digitally-based interaction

In part two of the Set Apart Relationships series, Leslie continues to share beneficial tips to practically prepare for a marriage that withstands the trials of life and the attacks of the enemy. Sharing candid and funny stories, Leslie reminisces over the early years of her marriage.  She shares how God got a hold of her heart in fresh surrender as she realized that marital bliss wasn’t found in a white picket-fenced home, but in entrusting her marriage dreams to Him. Listen as Leslie Shares: The importance of cultivating tensile strength today How to strengthen the marriage you already have The beauty of entrusting your marriage dreams to Jesus Stunning examples of surrendered love stories

What if there was a guidebook on how to prepare for a successful marriage? It is beautiful to know that the Author of romance, God Himself, has left us principles through His Word that can lead and guide us into all truth in the area of romantic relationships and godly marriages. In this new podcast, Leslie shares an inspiring vision for what God created marriage to reflect, and helps you lay the foundation for a marriage that will go the distance! In This Episode Leslie Shares: Personal vignettes of her love story with Eric The counter-cultural way of ensuring a marriage that lasts How to place Jesus Christ above all other loves Relationship roles that beautify a relationship

The book of Proverbs has much to say on the weight of our words. As set apart women it is imperative that we use our words to bring the life and truth of Jesus Christ to all we encounter, yet how easy it is to succumb to the temptation of gossip. Using biblical support paired with stories from her life and ministry journey, Leslie speaks about the life-giving wisdom of guarding our tongue in contrast with the devastating affects of gossip and slander. Beginning today you, too, can be a channel of speaking truth into the lives of those around you. Listen as Leslie Shares: Practical ways to keep gossip out of your life The difference between giving counsel versus giving place to gossip How to keep your prayer meetings free of slander The importance of speaking in light of eternity

Selfies, tweets, texts, Facebook friends … What’s a set apart girl to do in today’s digitally-driven world where there are so many distractions from Jesus Christ? Social media can be a great tool for the Kingdom of God – but it can also pose many pitfalls for Christians. Evaluating the hot topic of technology from both Christian and secular viewpoints, Leslie offers practical advice in how to honor Christ with smartphones, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and more! In This Episode: The importance of honoring Jesus with our words - both written and spoken Biblical advice on blogs, selfies, and other social media platforms The dangers of digital flirting Setting healthy boundaries around social media

Loneliness is a feeling many of us prefer to avoid at all costs.  But what if the very thing that causes so much discontent is actually a purposeful blessing from God?  In this encouraging episode, Leslie helps us gain heavenly perspective, joy, and strength through seasons of loneliness.  

Many modern women scoff at the seemingly impossible standard of godly womanhood presented in Proverbs 31. What if instead of being threatened by this “superwoman” we studied her in light of what God’s Word actually says about her? The biblical vision for virtue is entirely breathtaking because it is founded upon the character and nature of Jesus Christ. Tune in to hear Leslie shed light on the real heart behind the Proverbs 31 woman, and how you too can become a valiant woman of godly character!

Dear sisters, Freedom from fear is not just possible, it is biblical! In this episode, you will learn how to stand on the steadfast promises of God to gain victory over anxiety and worry. Leslie shares her personal battle strategy to wage war on fear and anxiety to rise up and conquer in Jesus’ name. C.T. Studd once said, “Only one life, ’Twill soon be past; only what’s done for Christ will last.” Join the ranks of those who have been freed from fear to glorify and serve Jesus Christ with the precious life they have been given. In a culture where fear and anxiety have been given too much power in paralyzing Christian women, it is high time we submitted our thoughts, minds, and bodies to the lordship of Jesus Christ and boldly walk forward … smiling at the future!

Amy Carmichael, missionary to India, once said, “If I slip into the place that can be filled by Christ alone, making myself the first necessity to a soul instead of leading it to fasten upon Him, then I know nothing of Calvary love.” True, Christ-centered friendship is a rare treasure, and a woman who seeks to point her friends to Jesus is a gift to those she encounters. Friendship is more than simply learning someone’s likes and dislikes; instead, friendship is selflessly pointing to Jesus as the one who has the right answers. Listen as Leslie talks about making the deliberate choice of directing friendships back to Christ rather than self.

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