3 Assertive Things To Do When Your Partner or Parent Refuses to Take Responsibility with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
So infuriating, frustrating, and downright irritating when the difficult person in your life will not take responsibility for anything that goes sideways. Nasty! Here are three things to do that can help.
Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships · Rhoberta Shaler, PhD
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Show Notes
SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®
with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor
3 ASSERTIVE THINGS TO DO WHEN YOUR PARTNER REFUSES TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
It's so infuriating, right? A difficult partner, or parent, refuses to take responsibility for anything that isn't praise-worthy. S/he will step right in if they can take credit for something good, though. But, when something goes sideways, it's all you, all your fault , right?
You don't mean to, but you may well be enabling that difficult person, that #Hijackal. Enabling is something you can stop doing! That's the good news.
You deserve better than a relationship that keeps you down, and supposedly responsibility for all sorts of things that you didn't do, think, or say!
Today's episode will give you insights into:
- why Hijackals® have to make everything your fault
- what you can do within yourself to stop enabling poor behavior
- what to say when a Hijackal makes things your fault, especially things that aren't at all.
- eight questions to ask yourself about the patterns in your abusive relationship
- why it is essential to get help as soon as you can
I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.
Let's talk soon. I can help. Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE for only $97.
I hope this empowers you to make positive changes NOW.
Talk soon.
Rhoberta
Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,
The Relationship Help Doctor
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