SFR 264: Paul And Stacey Martino Show How To Build A Solid Sense of 'Self'...

I think one of the hardest pieces of being an entrepreneur speed of evolution, right?

I'm not even the same guy I was six months ago

In fact, about a month ago, I was chatting with my wife, and she goes, "What's wrong? can tell something's wrong!"

And I was like, “Uhh, I can just feel one of those phases coming up. I feel another major self-development phases is about to happen again, " and she's like, "Oh, okay."

 

...and she knows what that means.

FINDING YOUR SENSE OF SELF!

Being an entrepreneur means that you’re continually breaking and rebuilding yourself over and over again.

One of the biggest issues I find in this game isn’t, “Hey, what model should I go try and execute?”

That's NOT where people mess up anymore!

People mess up in their actual execution of the model

A lot of things I'm doing right now are things I first learned about funnels, (probably six years ago) before ClickFunnels was even out…

I'm executing are tactics that I learned FOREVER ago, but I’m growing I developing, and becoming a NEW person, a NEW individual - at an intense pace…

 

...which can be kinda tough on ANY relationship!

And who cares how rich you end up alone and hating yourself…

RELATIONSHIP DEVELOPMENT

Stacey and Paul Martino are the REAL DEAL. They’re kinda the unofficial agony aunts of Russells Inner Circle.

Their programs have saved 10,000 marriages from divorce.

Almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation…

But Paul and Stacey have a 1% divorce rate from their programs - which is Super cool!

They’re masters at helping people NOT just have a relationship with their significant other, but also with themselves.

 

So I asked them to share about kinda a unique theme…

I asked them how to become self-confident as an entrepreneur

I'm NOT saying you need to lack self-confidence to benefit from what they’re about to reveal...

However…

Entrepreneurship is the best self-development course you NEVER opted into.

And you’ll notice a lot of entrepreneurs, (the further they get into this game), have A LOT of confidence in who they are and their message…

... and it's MOSTLY because they've been through the wringer and gone through lots and lots of self redevelopments…

 

And with that much rapid change in who you are, and so much growth and development, ‘ the self,’ and the core of who you are, starts to get stronger and stronger and stronger.

So I asked Paul and Stacey

• How do you gain a stronger self of self?
• How do you gain self-confidence to actually execute all these models that I teach?
• How do you grow rapidly while still maintaining your important relationships?

PAUL & STACEY - THE INTERVIEW

I’ve NEVER done an interview like this - this is a BIG deal in the entire history of Sales Funnel Radio.

 

*This is a VERY powerful episode*

You’re gonna learn how I’ve been able to do A LOT of things recently.

So I want you to stop and take notes…

If you're driving, pull over and take the opportunity to really take this in.

 

I know it's a little sidebar, (maybe a long intro here), but you have to understand that while I teach so much stuff on the podcast, (and some of you guys have been very loving on that)...

The biggest reason why people don't actually have success with this game is that they don't know how to be authentic with themselves and they have no relationship with themselves - so they can't trust their actions.

 

So it doesn't matter what I teach, they can't even do it.

So without further ado, I wanna welcome Stacey and Paul Martino, thank you so much for being here!

Stacey & Paul: Wooh! Thanks for having us even, yeah. So excited to be here, yeah!

Steve: I'm pumped, you guys are here!

I'll be honest, I'm gonna be really jealous if everybody leaves my podcast to start listening to yours after this is over.

 

Paul: That won't be necessary….

Stacey: Everybody can listen to both! I listen to both.

Steve: Yes, that's good, it's funny...

So the Inner Circle meeting that we just all had together, immediately my wife and I watched your session again, (and, I think, a third time), it's just super powerful stuff.

I'm really excited for you guys to be here 'cause it's exactly what I was saying in the intro…

It's very challenging for people to learn to trust themselves

I was the shy kid, and no one knew that I was this raging storm on the inside 'cause I was afraid of speaking.

 

And so much of me doing this game, (I love it so much), is NOT just 'cause of the products, but because of the personal development that happens with it.

I know that that may not be much of an intro for what you guys really do, so could you tell everybody what you do?

Stacey: Yeah, awesome, so Paul and I are the founders of Relationship Development, and basically, Relationship Development is personal development for your relationship…

Every single day we help people create their unshakable love and unleashed passion using our unique methodology where it only requires ONE person to do the work to transform ANY relationship…

 

Our methodology works for:

• Marriages
• The Relationship You Have With Your Kids
• Your Family Of Origin
• Business Relationships
• Clients