SACRED SINGLENESS

Today we discuss peace

In today's episode we discuss peace.

Today we celebrate Resurrection Day

In this episode we discuss Joy

In this season we discuss the fruits of the spirit.

In this episode I answer a few questions sent to me from my fellow listeners .

Today in Sacred Singleness we discuss Gratitude

In this episode of Sacred Singleness we discuss how to Build and not Compete while on relationships.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness we are clearing up some areas of the last episode that seemed to stir up some feathers . Triggers are unhealed areas. Lets heal these wounds my loves.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness we discuss Dating, drifting and the difference between covenant and convenience

In this episode of Sacred Singleness I discuss my gratitude in these 36 years of life.

On this episode of Sacred Singleness we discuss relationships. A topic every one seems to be consumed by these days.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness we discuss how to wait in expectation and a God who heals, restores and pours.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we discuss the devils tactics that he utilizes to derail you from your walk.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we’re having real, honest conversation about locking in with God and leaving lukewarm living behind. This isn’t about perfection or religion; it’s about surrender, discernment, and choosing God fully, not selectively. We talk about distractions that look good but pull us off course, why partial obedience keeps us stuck, how the enemy works subtly, and what locking in with God looks like practically. If you’re tired of going halfway with God and feeling spiritually drained, this episode will challenge you, sharpen your discernment, and call you deeper into intimacy and obedience with Him.

In Season 4, Episode 1 of Sacred Singleness, we step into the new year without pressure or reflection only peace, clarity, and trust in God’s timing. A gentle reminder that singleness is sacred and becoming is happening now.

Season 3 was truly personal for me. I opened up about some of the deepest parts of my life; my past relationships, my childhood wounds, my single motherhood journey, and the way God has been healing me piece by piece.I talked about my 13-year relationship with the father of my son, how I lost myself through lies, narcissistic abuse, and betrayal, and how God protected me through it all. I shared how being the oldest child shaped me into someone who became hyper-independent, and how my father’s absence taught me to overperform and fear abandonment.I also talked about how God revealed my future spouse to me, how I’m trusting His timing, and how I’m learning to prepare instead of interfering. I opened up about my struggles as a single mother; the guilt, the exhaustion, the fear of dating again, and the moments when I feel like I’m not enough for my child.This season, I learned how to love myself again. How to grow spiritually while I wait on God’s promise. How to let go of counterfeits, how to heal, and how to walk boldly in my worth.Season 3 was raw, honest, and emotional, because this season of my life is personal. But it has also been a testimony of God’s protection, His patience with me, and His love guiding me through every chapter.

In this episode, I talk about where I am right now in my journey; still waiting on God’s promise but choosing not to wait passively. Instead of sitting still or wondering when things will happen, I’m focusing on my spiritual growth.I share how I’m praying more intentionally, studying the Word, journaling with God, guarding what I allow into my spirit, and deepening my relationship with Him. Waiting used to feel like being stuck, but now I see it as preparation; a season where God is refining me, healing me, and building the woman I’m becoming.I remind myself that I don’t need a relationship to feel loved or chosen. I am already loved by God, already seen, already worthy, already secure. Learning to live loved right now helps me walk boldly in my worth and say no to things that don’t align with my purpose.The heart of this episode is this: I don’t want to waste the waiting; I want to grow in it. This season is helping me become whole, grounded, and ready for what God has ahead.I end with a prayer asking God to continue strengthening me, guiding me, and helping me walk confidently in this season while I wait for His perfect timing.

In this pause episode, I share how God led me to Job 39 and the reminder I didn’t know I needed. What looked like a simple chapter about animals became God telling me He’s working in the hidden places, strengthening me, freeing me, and lifting my perspective. This episode is my moment to breathe, trust, and remember who God is in my life.

In this episode, I open up about how heartbreak, single motherhood, and years of surviving instead of living caused me to lose pieces of myself -my spark, my joy, and my identity. I talk about the moment I realized I was no longer showing up for me, and how God began guiding me back to loving myself again.I explain that self-love isn’t selfish; it’s spiritual. It’s seeing my worth through God’s eyes, giving myself grace, resting without guilt, and protecting my peace with healthy boundaries.I share the practical steps that helped me rebuild who I am: speaking God’s truth over my life, rediscovering the things that bring me joy, seeking healing, and reconnecting with the dreams I had before the pain.I end by reflecting on how loving myself prepared me for healthier relationships and a healthier future. Once I began loving myself again, I stopped settling, I stopped shrinking, and I started walking in the fullness God created me for.I close the episode with a prayer over every woman who also needs to learn how to love herself again.

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about the unplanned journey of single motherhood and the emotional weight that comes with it. I share the moments where I’ve felt defeated, overwhelmed, and afraid that I’ve let my child down, wrestling with the fear of passing on my own childhood trauma and trying to stay strong even when I’m breaking inside.We talk about the exhaustion of being the sole caretaker, the fear of dating again after so much disappointment, and the heavy reality of experiencing heartbreak as a mother rather than just as a woman. I also share the tension of balancing life, motherhood, and the guilt that rises when my 10-year-old reflects his anger or struggles when I try to live a little for myself.This episode is for every single mom who feels tired, guilty, or unseen, a reminder that God has never left your side, even in the hardest moments. You are doing better than you think.

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my 13-year relationship with the father of my son a relationship that looked stable from the outside but was filled with narcissistic abuse, lies, manipulation, infidelity, and emotional and physical pain. I share how the enemy used that relationship to chip away at my identity, confidence, and joy... but how God never left my side through any of it.Through betrayal, financial struggle, depression, and anxiety, God kept me safe. I was never homeless, never jobless, and never fully broken because His hand covered me even when I couldn’t see it.This episode is for anyone who has stayed too long, loved too hard, or lost themselves trying to hold a relationship together. It’s a testimony of God’s protection, strength, and deliverance — and a reminder that when enough is enough, God gives you the courage to walk away and the grace to rebuild.

In this heartfelt episode of Sacred Singleness, Maite opens up about the emotional weight of waiting on God’s promises. She calls it faith fatigue, that place where your heart grows tired of believing for something that hasn’t yet come to pass.Through honest reflection and relatable moments, she reminds listeners that even the strongest believers like Abraham, Sarah, and Hannah faced seasons of exhaustion and doubt. Yet, God was still faithful.Listeners learn practical ways to fight faith fatigue: being honest with God, feeding your faith daily, staying connected to community, celebrating small wins, and most importantly, resting in His timing.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness, Maite talks about one of the biggest challenges in the waiting season, the temptation to settle for something that looks good but isn’t God. She reminds listeners that counterfeits often show up when we’re tired of waiting, feeling lonely, or losing faith in God’s timing.Maite breaks down how to recognize counterfeits, why we’re tempted to settle, and the real cost of choosing “almost right” over God’s best. Through relatable examples, she explains that counterfeits usually bring temporary comfort but long-term confusion while God’s best will always bring peace, clarity, and alignment.She encourages listeners to stay rooted in prayer, walk in discernment, and keep becoming the woman God called them to be. Because when you know your worth, you won’t fall for distractions.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we shift from waiting on the promise to becoming ready for it. After learning how to trust God’s timing in Episode 4, this week focuses on what to do in the meantime, how to let God shape you into the woman He’s preparing for that covenant.You’ll hear a real, heartfelt talk about how preparation is not punishment but purpose. Maite breaks down what “becoming” truly looks like spiritually, emotionally, financially, and relationally. She reminds listeners that while you’re praying for your future husband, God is also inviting you to grow, heal, and mature into the woman who can carry the blessing well.This episode teaches that waiting is not about idleness it’s about preparation. It’s not about proving your worth it’s about partnering with God to become whole. Because when the promise finally arrives, you’ll realize the waiting wasn’t wasted… it was working.

In this deeply personal episode of Sacred Singleness, Maite opens up about the moment God revealed her future spouse, not once, but twice, in the stillness of her life. She shares what it’s like to receive a promise that hasn’t yet come to pass, and the tension of trusting God’s timing when nothing seems to be moving.This episode explores what to do when God reveals something to you, how to pray for your future spouse and yourself in the waiting, and how to balance hope with surrender. Maite speaks from the heart about learning not to interfere, not to cling too tightly, and instead to rest in faith; knowing that what God reveals, He will fulfill in His perfect timing.

Today in Episode 3, God is healing things that started long before I ever dated anyone.

Welcome back to Sacred Singleness. This is Episode 2, and today we’re getting real. I want to share a story that’s close to my heart, because I know so many of us have been there. You meet someone you prayed for, things are going well, you think, ‘Lord, is this finally it?’ … and then suddenly, it doesn’t work out.Sit back and let's dive in.

Hey family! it’s me, just popping in to say thank you. When you hit play in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, Germany, the Philippines, Ghana, Nigeria, India, Jamaica, and South Africa I feel it. And to those of you listening in Kenya, Trinidad & Tobago, Brazil, France, and Australia, you’ve become part of my daily prayers, too.You’re not numbers to me. You’re the friend driving to work, the mom folding laundry, the student winding down, the single heart choosing hope. Your messages, shares, and quiet amens keep me showing up even on the hard days.I’m honored to sit with you in this season, to laugh, heal, and wait well together. Thank you for letting my story meet yours. I’m praying over you, your home, your heart, your future, that God meets you tenderly right where you are.Love you, truly. 💛

Hey family! Welcome back to Sacred Singleness. I’m so glad you’re here today. We are stepping into Season 3 and I’ve titled this one This Season is Personal.Now listen this isn’t just another catchy title. It’s real. Because this season of singleness? It hits different. So grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s dive in… because this one, my friend, is personal.”

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Season 2 ends by tying it all together; we’ve exposed the enemy’s tactics, but now it’s time to walk in victory. This episode reflects on what we’ve learned and previews Season 3: This Season Is Personal, where I dive deep into the core of my trauma and share my own story; counterfeits, wounds, and how God revealed my spouse. It’s not just teaching anymore; it’s testimony.

Episode 10: When the Devil Attacks RelationshipsThe enemy loves to attack anything that looks like unity; friendships, family bonds, community, and even preparation for godly marriage. This episode breaks down how division, offense, and isolation weaken love and how to protect your connections with prayer, boundaries, and forgiveness.

The enemy doesn’t need to destroy you; just distract you. This episode exposes how constant busyness, social media, and noise pull you from purpose. Learn how to slow down, refocus on God, and protect your peace in a world that glorifies hustle.

In Part 2, we shift from pressure to peace. Learn how to replace fear with faith by standing on God’s promises. You’ll walk away equipped with practical tools and scriptures to silence anxiety and trust that your future is safe in His hands.

Part 1 of this two-part series dives deep into the fears that keep singles restless; fear of being alone, fear of missing out, fear of failure. Through real 2025 examples, you’ll uncover how fear paralyzes and how faith breaks its hold.

After the counterfeit comes shame. This episode talks about the guilt and regret that try to keep us stuck. You’ll learn the difference between conviction and condemnation, how to forgive yourself, and how to finally walk free from shame’s heavy grip.

The enemy often sends distractions that look like blessings. This episode exposes counterfeits relationships that give you butterflies but steal your peace. Learn the red flags, how to let go of “almost right,” and how to wait for what’s truly God ordained.

I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG*****In this pause episode of Sacred Singleness, we unpack the reality of cycles those repeating patterns that keep us stuck in the same mistakes, relationships, and mindsets. From toxic dating patterns, late-night compromises, or constant comparison on social media, cycles show up in the everyday lives of women, men, and single parents. We explore why the enemy uses cycles to wear us down, how biblical stories like Israel in the wilderness, Judges, and Peter reveal similar loops, and what happens when we let cycles steal hope and purpose. With real 2025 examples, laughter, and honesty, listeners are given practical tools to break free: naming the cycle, identifying triggers, replacing destructive habits with truth, leaning on accountability, and depending on God’s Spirit over willpower. The message closes with reflection questions and prayer, reminding us that while the enemy loves cycles, Christ gives us the power to break them and walk in freedom.

I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG**** In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we expose how the enemy uses discouragement and doubt as quiet but powerful weapons to weaken faith. Discouragement often creeps in during waiting seasons, disappointments, or delayed dreams, whispering lies like “God forgot you” or “you’re not enough.” Through biblical examples of Moses, Elijah, and Thomas, we see that even strong believers wrestled with doubt yet God always met them with reassurance. Practical tools are shared for pushing back: being honest with God, remembering His past faithfulness, declaring Scripture aloud, surrounding yourself with encouragers, and staying focused on purpose. With encouragement for women, men, and single parents, the episode closes with reflection and prayer, reminding listeners that discouragement may visit, but it doesn’t get the final word hope in Christ does.

I DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO THIS SONG ****In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we unpack how comparison steals joy, distracts us from God’s plan, and makes us feel “behind” in life. Through real-life 2025 examples, biblical truths (Galatians 6:4, Hebrews 12:1, John 21), and encouragement for women, men, and single parents, the message reminds us to stay in our own lane, practice gratitude, celebrate others, and trust God’s timing. The episode closes with reflection and prayer, calling listeners to reject comparison and walk confidently in God’s unique plan for their lives.