Raising Christian Kids

Phil and Diane Comer and their son, John Mark, founded Solid Rock: A Jesus Church, a church filled with young families in Portland, Oregon. They also launched Intentional Parents International to help parents raise the next generation of passionate, all-in-Jesus followers. Phil and Diane have been married for over forty years and have four grown children and a growing cadre of grandkids. During this episode, Phil and Diane explore how they have dedicated their lives to equipping parents to raise the next generation of passionate followers of Jesus. They share their journey from new believers to intentional parents and discuss the impactful resources they've created, such as the Intentional Film Series, their book Raising Passionate Jesus Followers: The Power of Intentional Parenting, and unique events like the Motherhood Retreat. They dive into vital topics like cultivating genuine faith at home, maintaining strong biblical values in an anti-Christian culture, and establishing heartfelt family traditions during Christmas. Key Takeaways: Having an authentic relationship with God: As Phil emphasizes, children learn values from what is taught and from what they observe at home. Demonstrating an authentic love for Jesus and integrating faith into everyday life creates an environment where children naturally embrace their faith. Intentional teaching and training: Proverbs 22:6 implores parents to "train up a child in the way he should go." Phil and Diane stress the importance of guiding children intentionally, providing an environment where Jesus remains the central focus. Navigating challenges with faith: Diane's testimony of losing her hearing and wrestling with her faith was an impactful lesson for her children. It showed them the importance of leaning on God through trials and developing an intimate relationship with Him. Creating meaningful traditions: From reading the Christmas story to incorporating family worship, Phil and Diane share practical ways to introduce and sustain faith-based traditions that reinforce biblical teachings and bring the family closer to Christ. In a world increasingly characterized by anti-Christian culture, Phil and Diane's approach provides a beacon of hope for parents striving to keep their children connected to their faith. This episode serves as a reminder that intentionality lies at the heart of successful parenting and that building a strong spiritual foundation at home is crucial for the next generation! Diane & Phil’s Website & Podcast. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Sandra Stanley received her Bachelor of Science degree from Georgia Tech and Master of Arts from Dallas Theological Seminary. Sandra has a heart for foster kids and foster families, as she and Andy have been foster parents since 2010. Much of her time these days is spent working on various writing projects and continuing her involvement with Fostering Together, the foster care initiative of North Point Ministries. Allie Stanley Cooney graduated from Auburn University with a degree in Communication. She completed the North Point Residency program and simultaneously earned a Master of Christian Education degree from Dallas Theological Seminary. With a decade of experience guiding students along their spiritual journeys, Allie is passionate about empowering middle school, high school, and college students to embrace a life devoted to following Jesus wholeheartedly. During this episode, Sandra and her daughter Allie discuss their inspiring new book, Meet Me in the Middle: 8 Mother-Daughter Conversations about Life and Faith. Delving into the dynamics of the challenging middle and high school years, our conversation centers around fostering strong, faith-driven relationships between mothers and daughters. We explore their book, which provides invaluable insights and practical advice on navigating crucial topics such as identity, comparison, stress, and decision-making, all through the lens of Philippians 4:4-9. Episode Highlights: Navigating teenage years: Sandra and Allie emphasize the importance of open communication during middle and high school years. They explore how building a strong relationship can pave the way for meaningful conversations, especially during challenging times. Biblical wisdom with Philippians 4:4-9: Discover how this scripture provides a roadmap for living out one's identity in Christ, offering practical steps for both mothers and daughters to strengthen their faith and relationship. Tackling real-life topics: The book covers essential topics like comparison, stress, identity, and decision-making. Sandra and Allie offer practical advice on celebrating others, leveraging personal gifts, and guarding one's heart and mind. Resource for all generations: Whether you're a mom, grandma, aunt, or mentor, this book offers valuable insights that can benefit any woman nurturing a young girl's spiritual journey. Sandra’s Website, Instagram, Facebook, & Twitter. Allie’s Instagram & Twitter. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Head of AI at Gloo, Steele Billings is a seasoned professional in faith tech ecosystems. With a career spanning major technology companies and startups alike, Steele has been instrumental in building technology infrastructure for faith causes. He holds a business degree and has roots in computer science and design. Steele is committed to leveraging technology to fulfill God's purpose. Steele lives in Memphis, Tennessee, with his wife, son and daughter. During this episode, Steele dives into the nuances of artificial intelligence (AI) and its impact on Christian parenting. With his extensive background in technology and faith, Steele helps unravel the many questions parents have about AI, mainly how it influences our children and intersects with our faith. Together, Lee Ann and Steele discuss the concerns surrounding relational bots and the role of the Church in educating families about AI. Key Takeaways: Understanding AI in a faith context: Steele defines artificial intelligence as autonomous computing, likened to a computer's ability to interpret tasks beyond explicit instructions. He highlights the current landscape of AI, discussing how it moves from narrow AI, where machines perform specific tasks, to a potential future of super AI, where machines could surpass human capabilities. Addressing parental concerns: Many parents express uncertainty about artificial intelligence and its influence on children. Steele emphasizes that while AI presents risks, it also offers opportunities for enhancing learning and productivity. Parents are encouraged to seek education on AI, set boundaries, and communicate openly about technology use grounded in faith with their children. Biblical guidance and faithful AI development: Steele stresses the importance of approaching AI with discernment, guided by the Holy Spirit. He introduces Gloo’s mission to create faith-centered AI tools, emphasizing the development of technology that aligns with biblical values and supports relationships between individuals and God. Practical tips for Christian parents: To help manage the risks and harness the benefits of artificial intelligence, Steele suggests parents engage in discussions with their children about AI's role in our lives. A mindful approach can help reinforce the value of human relationships, underpinning interactions with technological advancements. This episode is a valuable resource for Christian parents navigating the complexities of raising children in an AI-driven world. Parents can foster a strong Christian environment that embraces innovation and spiritual growth by incorporating faith into technology discussions. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

"Understand the design, the blueprint that God gave us for children and recognize that their inherent worth and dignity is found in them being made in the image of God. Not in their behavior. Not in their obedience or disobedience." - Amanda Erickson. Dr. David and Amanda Erickson are the founders of Flourishing Homes & Families, a ministry that educates, empowers, and equips Christian parents to lead their families through parenting principles rooted in Jesus's teaching. With David’s background in theology and Amanda’s love for child development, they’re passionate about helping parents find harmony at the intersection of Jesus-centered theology and modern neuroscience. David previously served as a pastor and spent fourteen years as a seminary theology professor. During this episode, Dr. David and Amanda both discuss their new book, The Flourishing Family, which intricately weaves scripture with neuroscience, offering parents a fresh and insightful approach to raising children in faith. They elaborate on their ministry’s dedication to educating and empowering Christian parents using parenting principles rooted in the teachings of Jesus, combined with insights from modern neuroscience. Key Takeaways: The Ericksons detail their evolution from foster parenting to raising their own children, realizing the importance of aligning parenting strategies with the model Jesus provides for love-filled communication and conflict resolution. They emphasize how concepts like attachment theory align beautifully with spiritual teachings, encouraging a trust-based relationship between parents and children. Addressing common parenting struggles, like discipline and obedience, the Ericksons offer insights on handling typical childhood behaviors without resorting to authoritarian tactics. They advocate for patience and self-control, urging parents to cultivate a desire for obedience rooted in understanding and trust rather than mere compliance. Flourishing Homes and Families provides valuable resources, including a "Child Development for Christian Parents" guide, that help parents understand children's developmental stages and respond with grace and guidance. They also offer group mentorship and one-on-one coaching to support parents on their journey. "We want our children to grow at the pace that God has called them to, at the way that he has designed them to so that they begin to produce the fruit that we are pouring in to see later in their lives." – Dr. David Erickson. The Flourishing Homes & Families Socials – Instagram & Facebook. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Don & Suzanne Manning have over 30 years of parenting experience and 7 kids of all ages. Together, they are passionate about helping families rethink how they do family, one relationship at a time. During this episode, Don shares his journey of developing Crazy Cool Family, a ministry dedicated to strengthening family relationships through love and intentional parenting. Discover how his book Crazy Cool Family and two guides guidebooks Creating Family Culture and Building Family Relationships, can transform your home into a haven of faith. Key Takeaways: Emphasize relationships: Focus on building strong, loving relationships within your family. Recognize that parenting is not just about rules and discipline but about forming deep, meaningful connections with your children. Adopt a crazy cool family approach: Embrace the concept introduced by Don Manning, which suggests parenting should follow God’s unconventional wisdom—focusing on love and relationships above all. This means sometimes doing the opposite of what the world suggests (e.g., responding with forgiveness when feeling angry). Promote family culture: Work on creating a positive family environment or culture that fosters growth and connection. Think of it as a greenhouse in which strong, healthy relationships can flourish. Model God’s love: Be your child’s first model of God's love. By being forgiving, generous, and loving, you provide them with a solid foundation to understand their identity as beloved children of God. Encourage sibling relationships: Invest in and promote strong sibling bonds. Move from conflict to cooperation by teaching your children how to support and invest in one another. Discipleship focus: Ensure that your parenting emphasizes living out your faith in front of your children. Understand that your children will learn about their faith through both what you say and what you do. Equip yourselves with knowledge: Utilize resources such as books and guides that encourage building family culture and strong relationships. Engage with ministry materials: Consider using structured materials like Crazy Cool Family's session guides for personal reflection or group study to deepen your understanding and implementation of these concepts. Check out Don’s resources here and receive a special offer by using this link: Crazy Cool Family Special Offer. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Renee Hodge earned her BSN from Bob Jones University (BJU) and worked as an RN for five years. She then joined the staff of Answer’s in Genesis in 2004 and worked as the executive assistant to the CEO for 15 years. The Lord gave Renee a passion for Christian education, which led her to found and launch Answers Academy in 2017, a strong, biblical-worldview, apologetic school. Since then, she has obtained an MS degree in educational leadership from BJU. Laura Allnutt is the director of educational curriculum at Answers in Genesis. She is also an adjunct English professor at Trinity Baptist College and formerly taught at Pensacola Christian College, where she earned a BA in English and an MS in English Curriculum and Instruction. She also holds an MFA in writing from Fairfield University. During this episode, Renee and Laura discuss their amazing curriculum that is revolutionizing Christian education. They both share their journey of developing a curriculum that sets a new standard for Christian education, emphasizing a strong biblical worldview and critical thinking skills. Key Highlights: Unraveling the need for depth: Renee reveals the inspiration behind creating the curriculum, addressing the lack of deep, substantial biblical education prevalent in many Bible classes and homeschooling programs today. Defining the unique edge: Learn how the curriculum differentiates itself by focusing on a comprehensive biblical worldview, starting right at Genesis and extending through tailored grades up to 12th grade. Empowering Christian youth: Discover the impact this curriculum has already made, as parents, students, and churches have provided rave reviews about the profound biblical knowledge and maturity it fosters. A look inside the curriculum: Laura walks us through the structured progression from kindergarten to high school, emphasizing chronological learning, critical thinking, and practical application of biblical truths. Integrating life skills and faith: Both guests underscore the importance of integrating rigorous academic content with strong biblical messages, ensuring that students not only learn the text but also confidently live out their faith. Don't miss out! Tune in and discover how Answers in Genesis is paving the way for a brighter, faith-filled future. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“The number one factor or force that contributes to influence is time by quite a large margin. Whoever spends the most time with your child is going to have the most influence.” – Israel Wayne. Israel and Brook Wayne are both homeschool graduates and homeschooling parents. They have eleven children ranging in age from 24 to 3. They are the founders of Family Renewal and co-writers of Pitchin' a Fit: Overcoming Angry and Stressed-Out Parenting. During this episode, Israel and Brook share invaluable insights on influencing your child's life, managing parental anger, and instilling a biblical worldview. Israel provides practical tips on reclaiming time and managing media, while Brook offers heartwarming strategies to replace parental anger with positive reinforcement. Key Themes: Building influence through time: Israel kicks off the conversation by highlighting the importance of being the primary influence in your child's life. Time spent together is paramount. The data revealing that the average mother spends only an hour a day with her children—and fathers, a mere 29 minutes—serves as a wake-up call. Israel passionately advocates reclaiming time from other influences, like school and media, to foster stronger parental bonds. Positive affirmation vs. anger: Brook shares personal stories about the pitfalls of using anger as a tool for parenting. Through her journey, she learns that anger does not produce the righteousness of God. Instead, she emphasizes the power of love, gentleness, and positive affirmation to guide kids towards godliness. Managing media and screen time: With technology being a double-edged sword, Israel focuses on teaching children to be producers rather than passive consumers of media. Technology should be used to add value and contribute positively to the world, not just as a source of amusement. Cultivating a biblical worldview: A robust biblical worldview is likened to wearing clear, scripture-tinted glasses. Israel emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive in shaping their children's perspectives through daily interactions and teaching based on God's Word. “For the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” – Brook Wayne. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode, Lori and Lee Ann tackle some of the most challenging questions kids might ask. From the reality of God to navigating conversations about sex and deciphering the Bible's authenticity, Lori and Lee Ann provide practical advice, valuable insights, and rich resources to help parents nurture a solid Christian foundation in their children. Episode Highlights: Handling Kids’ Doubts About God's Existence: Your child comes home questioning, “Is God real?” Lori and Lee Ann offer invaluable advice in addressing this with both younger and older children. They discuss how to explain the nature of God—His spiritual essence, the historical reality of Jesus, and using examples like the wind and gravity to convey the evidence of God’s presence. Teaching the Importance of Sexual Purity: What do you say when your teenager asserts, “Sex between two people who love each other is okay”? Lori and Lee Ann address this hot-button issue by discussing God’s design for relationships, the spiritual significance of sex within marriage, and the importance of grace and redemption. They reflect on lessons from the purity movement and how to convey God’s high view of marriage without alienating your kids. Combating Perceptions of the Bible as a Fairy Tale: How do you react if your child labels the Bible a fairy tale? Both ladies tackle this question by emphasizing the importance of apologetics, historical validity, and the unique nature of the Bible. They point to resources such as Answers in Genesis and the work of historians. They explore ways to engage your child in meaningful dialogue, reinforcing the Bible’s authenticity and relevance. Key Takeaways: Engage in open, honest conversations with your children. Ask questions to understand their doubts and guide them thoughtfully. Equip yourself and your kids with resources to defend and deepen your faith. Books like Raising Kids to Follow Christ by Lee Ann Mancini offer practical applications for everyday parenting. Recognize and address the pressures from society while providing a foundation of grace and truth in your family discussions. Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

"Your actions may speak louder than words—let your love for Jesus be the loudest message your children hear." – Rhonda Stoppe Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”! During this episode, all three ladies dive into the concept of the parenting toolbox, sharing invaluable tools and cherished experiences that can strengthen your journey as a Christian parent. Key Takeaways: Rhonda’s toolbox- love God with all your being: Rhonda shares how the cornerstone of her parenting toolbox is to love God with every fiber of one's being. She reflects on how her personal journey to deepen her love for Christ—through daily scripture reading and fervent prayer—became the most impactful way to draw her children and grandchildren closer to Jesus. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of a genuine, fervent faith. Michelle’s toolbox- authenticity and sincere faith: Michelle shares heartfelt narratives about her experiences as a grandma and step-grandma. She emphasizes that the greatest tool in any Christian parent's arsenal is authenticity. She recounts instances where her authentic faith spoke louder than words, teaching her grandchildren the essence of true Christian living. Her reflections on 2nd Timothy 1 highlight the enduring influence of a sincere, unmasked faith. Oreo cookie and yes-no sandwich communication: Michelle unveils the Oreo cookie communication technique—an ingenious way to couch constructive criticism between layers of positive reinforcement. Meanwhile, Lee Ann introduces the yes-no sandwich, a method designed to assure children’s desires are acknowledged, even if they can't be immediately fulfilled. Both techniques aim to foster a nurturing and positive family environment. Living simply and loving deeply: Rhonda captivates listeners with the story of her transition from a city dweller to life on a debt-free ranch. She describes the rustic charm and the significant sacrifices made to follow her husband's dream. This story exemplifies faith in God's provision and highlights the profound message of living simply and prioritizing what truly matters. As the episode wraps up, the recurring theme is clear: raising strong Christian kids is about embodying Christ’s love, living out an authentic faith, and employing practical tools to nurture your children's spiritual growth. The discussion is saturated with encouragement and grace, offering hope and practical wisdom to every parent striving to lead their children on the path of righteousness. Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books. * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

As an education freedom advocate, Sam’s mission is to help parents and their children emancipate from our modern school system. A successful Hollywood film actress, writer, and producer, Sam stepped back from her own career to immerse herself in the home education of her three young children for over a decade. Recognizing the brokenness of our institutional system led Sam to understand there is much more to education than academics. As a prolific author, podcast, radio host, international public speaker, and home education mentor, Sam is dedicated to teaching families how to educate differently. During this episode, Sam shares invaluable advice for those considering homeschooling, exploring everything from making a flexible plan to understanding that children learn at their own pace. Comparing homeschooling to potty training, Sam reassures parents that they won't "break" their children by providing a customized education. Sam and Lee Ann dig deep into the evolution of homeschooling, critique the traditional school system's focus on creating dependency, and highlight home education's economic and social benefits. Key Takeaways: Public school myths: Sam argues that public schools are intentionally designed to control and standardize education rather than promote individual thought. Real-life success: Many high-profile, successful individuals—often dropouts—testify to the pitfalls of traditional schooling. Financial realities: Homeschooling can be cost-effective, and resources are more accessible now than ever. Encouragement for future homeschoolers: Dive into homeschooling with thorough exploration and keep an open mind. Even if you opt for public schooling, get involved in school boards to positively influence the educational system. So, you want to homeschool but are unsure where to start? --> Connect with the Homeschooling Community: Engage with parents already on the homeschooling journey to gain valuable perspectives and support. Flexible Planning: Create a structured plan for homeschooling, but remain adaptable if certain methods don’t work for your child's unique learning pace. Overcoming Fears: Embrace the idea that children learn at their own speed, likened beautifully to the different timelines seen in potty training. Never fear you will "break" your child by following a paced, relaxed approach. Sam’s Website and books: They’re Your Kids, Teach from Love & Words from Warriors. * * * * * * * * Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

How do you think having a mentor can impact your journey as a parent? Candace is a dedicated follower of Jesus Christ, wife, and mother of three adult children. She is also a visionary women’s ministry leader, disciple maker, and experienced Bible study teacher with a strong understanding of women’s needs. In 2021, she founded MomQ, a Christian Mom Community based in Austin, TX. Their mission is to equip moms with biblical wisdom to build strong families and raise children of character. During this episode, Candace discusses her amazing organization, MomQ, and how it can support moms all over the world. Highlights of the episode: Uncover the essence of this community-driven group that focuses on authentic conversations, biblical wisdom, and holistic support for moms. Learn about their unique approach encapsulated by the "Q" – which stands for quotient, enhancing moms’ spiritual and practical knowledge. Support for the whole mom: Understand how MomQ differentiates itself by focusing on not just parenting but also supporting marriages, personal well-being, and self-care. Listen to Candice discuss why grounding a mom's identity in Christ is crucial for enriching every aspect of her life. Real talk on relevant issues: From dealing with mom guilt and easing anxieties to understanding the purpose of parenting through Deuteronomy 6:4-7, Candice and Lee Ann delve into pressing challenges with a biblical lens. Get insights on mental health, resolving conflicts, and why God allows suffering. Encouraging overwhelmed moms: Candice shares heartfelt advice for those swamped by life's demands. She points to powerful scriptures like Isaiah 43:1- 3 for comfort and emphasizes the importance of community, urging moms to join supportive groups and seek trusted mentors. Exciting developments: Discover MomQ's fresh venture into video-based curriculum launching this fall, designed to support churches and broader Christian communities. Lee Ann and Candice weave together personal experiences, biblical principles, and practical advice to fortify your parenting journey and deepen your faith. Tune in now to hear the full conversation, and don't miss Candice's encouraging words on prioritizing what matters in your family life! You can learn more about MomQ and connect with Candice by visiting momq.org or following them on social media at @momq512. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

If you're a parent or mentor who's guiding young hearts towards Christ, you do not want to miss this episode! J. Warner Wallace is a Dateline featured Cold-Case Detective, Author, Speaker, Senior Fellow at the Colson Center for Christian Worldview, and Adjunct Professor of Apologetics at Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), Gateway Seminary and Southern Evangelical Seminary. During this episode, J. Warner discusses his groundbreaking new book, The Truth in True Crime. J. Warner’s unparalleled experience in true crime offers a unique perspective on human nature and the universal quest for the truth. Key Takeaways: Discovering the Hidden Truths: J. delves into how our children are often exposed to a culture that dismisses Christianity as outdated or even harmful. Learn how to equip your kids with the knowledge and resilience they need to stand firm in their faith amid an increasingly critical society. Unearthing Life Lessons from True Crime: He explores the compelling connection between his experiences as a detective and the fundamental principles of Christianity. His book Person of Interest talks about why Jesus still matters when the world rejects the Bible and includes 15 crime stories that show why Christianity describes us as humans the way we really are. Understanding the Importance of Marriage: Addressing a pivotal yet controversial topic, J. reveals the data-backed benefits of traditional marriage and its crucial role in human flourishing. This segment is particularly valuable for parents guiding teens and young adults toward making wise, intentional choices about their future spouses. Balancing Truth and Grace: One of the most challenging aspects of Christian parenting is teaching children to balance the fullness of truth and grace. He provides a powerful framework for fostering an environment where both justice and mercy thrive, echoing the perfect love of God. Engaging the Youth: J.’s book isn't just for parents; it's a must-read for teens and young adults too. With true crime emerging as a highly engaging genre, it's the perfect gateway to deeper conversations about theology, morality, and Christian living. 🎧 Tune in to get a unique blend of true crime intrigue, practical life lessons, and Christian apologetics that will surely resonate with you and your teens. J. Warner’s Website & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Looking for a fresh, grounded approach to Christian parenting amidst the chaos of modern life? Brenda L. Yoder is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, school counselor, speaker, and author of Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. She’s also authored Fledge: Launching Your Kids Without Losing Your Mind, Balance, Busyness & Not Doing It All, and has been featured in The Washington Post, Guideposts, and Chicken Soup for the Soul books. She hosts the Life Beyond the Picket Fence podcast and co-hosts the Midlife Mom Podcast and Midlife Mom Facebook Community. Brenda specializes in faith, life, and family beyond the storybook image. During this episode, Brenda discusses her latest book, Uncomplicated: Simple Secrets for a Compelling Life. Brenda, who has experience from life on a simple Amish farm to in-depth mental health counseling, sheds light on how to lead a purpose-driven, family-centered life in today's fast-paced world. Together, Brenda and Lee Ann discuss how the simplicity and resilience found in traditional, hands-on experiences can benefit family life in our overcomplicated, tech-heavy society. Key Takeaways: Life skills rediscovered: Brenda identifies essential life skills, such as problem-solving, prudence, and self-control, which are crucial for raising resilient and faith-grounded children. Common-sense approach: Through relatable anecdotes and practical wisdom, she explores how common sense, backed by both neuroscience and biblical principles, can guide parents in nurturing their kids effectively. Building values: With compelling arguments, Brenda underlines the importance of teaching values like interdependence and responsibility, showing how even simple family chores can have a lasting impact. Mental health insights: For parents struggling with anxiety and overburden, she draws from her counseling expertise, providing doable strategies to regain peace and focus on what truly matters. Practical and scriptural ties: Each chapter in Brenda's book ties practical advice to scriptural foundations, offering a holistic and faith-affirming perspective that's bound to inspire Christian parents. Ready to turn your chaotic routine into a meaningful, peaceful, and faith-filled family experience? Learn how to uncomplicate your parenting journey and instill confidence, resilience, and faith in both you and your children! Brenda’s Website, Instagram, & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“When we detach value from certain behavior and attach it to what Christ says is the most valuable, then we're not sending our kids back into that comparison trap.” – Lee Nienhuis Lee Nienhuis is an author, speaker, and Bible teacher. She co-hosts the Martha & Mary Show and the You Can Tell the Children podcast with Bible2School. Lee’s books Brave Moms, Brave Kids and Countercultural Parenting are a clarion call for parents looking to raise wholehearted Christ followers. Lee and her husband, Mike, have four kids and live in West Michigan. During this episode, Lee Nienhuis discusses her newest book, which she co-authored with Shannon Hopkin, Comparison Girl for Teens, and how it can help teens navigate the complex world of teenage comparison and peer pressure. Lee shares practical tips and steps parents can take to foster an environment of support, affirmation, and biblical values, steering their daughters away from the pitfalls of comparison. Key Takeaways: Focus on having regular and meaningful conversations with your teenagers. This can help build a trusting relationship where they feel comfortable discussing their struggles and triumphs. Model positive behavior and be mindful of your own comparisons and criticisms, especially in front of your children. Avoid self-deprecating comments about your appearance or abilities. Instead of comparing your teenagers to others, highlight and encourage their unique strengths and talents. Praise their efforts and the qualities that make them special. Emphasize biblical values by helping your children understand their worth through the lens of their faith. Use biblical statements of value and worth that emphasize God's love and purpose for them, independent of societal metrics. If you realize you’ve made unfair comparisons or set unrealistic expectations, sit down with your child and apologize. This models humility and the importance of seeking forgiveness. Be proactive in managing your teenager's time on social media. Encourage offline activities that build self-worth and community. Teach your teens that success isn’t solely about academic achievements or career milestones but about being in the center of God’s will and being faithful, kind, and loving individuals. Invest in helpful resources like the Comparison Girl for Teens. These tools can provide structured guidance and topics for family discussions that foster spiritual growth. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“So, the argument I make is let's try to be ambassadors of the kingdom of God around issues of sexuality and gender. And so, ambassadorship should be characterized by these 3 c's: it’s conviction, it's civility, and it's compassion.” – Dr. Mark Yarhouse. Mark Yarhouse, Psy.D., is the Dr. Arthur P. and Mrs. Jean May Rech Chair in Psychology at Wheaton College. Dr. Yarhouse has spent several years promoting dialogue between people who view the topic of sexual identity differently. During this episode, Dr. Yarhouse dives into the complex and often misunderstood topic of gender dysphoria and how parents can navigate these conversations with their children. He emphasizes the importance of the "3 C's"—conviction, civility, and compassion—when addressing issues of gender and sexuality from a Christian perspective. Additionally, he discusses the valuable resources available through the Gender Identity Institute at Wheaton College, aimed at supporting families dealing with these challenges. Key Takeaways: Importance of addressing misinformation about gender identity. The 3 C's: conviction, civility, and compassion. Culture warrior and cultural capitulation models. Ambassadorship as an alternative model. The importance of respectful dialogue with those holding different views. Equating approach towards gender dysphoria with approaches to other beliefs (e.g., atheism, alcoholism). Difference between chapter-and-verse Christians and those who follow broad themes from scripture. Parental support strategies for kids suffering from gender dysphoria: Reducing fear and anxiety. Developing a Christian understanding of sexuality and gender. Seeking professional help if needed. Resources and services provided by the Gender Identity Institute of Wheaton College. The importance of having open conversations about gender from a young age. Potential causes of gender dysphoria and the most popular theory: intersex condition of the brain. Validation of the experiences of individuals with gender dysphoria. Differentiating between genuine gender dysphoria and cultural trends. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

What do you think of the idea of starting a prayer with "amen"? How do you think it might change the way you approach prayer? Beth Guckenberger and her husband, Todd, live with their family in Cincinnati, Ohio, where they serve as Co-Executive Directors of Back2Back Ministries. After graduating from Indiana University, the Guckenbergers moved to Monterrey, Mexico, where they lived for 15 years. Between biological, foster, and adopted children, they have raised eleven children. Beth is the author of eleven books, including adult and children’s titles. She travels and speaks regularly at conferences, youth gatherings, and church services about reckless faith. Her style is based on storytelling, and she draws from her vast field experience as a missionary, Bible teacher, and parent for illustrations of biblical concepts. During this episode, Beth explores the transformative power of starting prayers with "Amen" and delves into heartfelt stories and biblical insights from her latest books, Start with Amen and The Heart Who Wanted to Be Whole. She shares personal anecdotes and valuable lessons on parenting, spirituality, and equipping children with tools to face life's challenges. 🎙️ Key Points: The importance of addressing the root causes of a child's behavior rather than merely focusing on their actions. Negative behaviors are often rooted in deeper self-image issues and lies believed by the child. An exercise of focusing on truths from the Bible to positively influence a child's belief system. The concept of the "Christian F-word" - The word"Fine" challenges parents to foster deeper conversations and connections with their children. The inspiration behind her beautifully illustrated children's book, designed to teach kids about spiritual warfare and the power of God's truth - the book is a resource for parents seeking to introduce their children to complex spiritual concepts in a relatable way. Encouragement to parents, reminding them that the journey of raising Christian kids is long but filled with opportunities to reinforce core values and spiritual truths. ✨ What You’ll Takeaway: The transformative power of beginning your prayers with "Amen." Strategies to connect with your children on a deeper level and address behavioral issues at their core. How to introduce your children to the concept of spiritual warfare in a loving and non-scary way. The importance of instilling biblical truths in everyday conversations. Beth’s websites: Reckless Faith & Back2back Ministries. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Why should you homeschool? Monica Swanson is a popular blogger (monicaswanson.com), host of the Monica Swanson Podcast (formerly the Boy Mom podcast), and author of Boy Mom, Raising Amazing, and her newest book, Becoming Homeschoolers. During this episode, Monica shares her experiences raising her four sons in Hawaii and delves into the joys and challenges of homeschooling. She discusses the reasons why families should consider homeschooling, dispels common misconceptions, and provides valuable insights into creating a strong family dynamic through homeschooling. Key Takeaways: Reasons for homeschooling: Relationships with kids. Academic performance. Customized education. Enhanced sleep quality for children. Avoidance of school-related negative aspects like violence and bullying. Protection from cultural influences and worldviews. Addressing common reasons for not homeschooling: Resources available for working parents. Obtaining help and support for homeschooling and creative ways to balance work and homeschooling. Considering alternative options during times of personal or family crisis. Downfalls of transitioning to homeschooling at the secondary level and not at the beginning: Changes in the current educational landscape Introduction of anti-biblical concepts in elementary schools Challenges of transitioning children to homeschooling after they are influenced by public school dynamics. The importance of establishing the homeschooling rhythm from a young age. Takeaways from her book Becoming Homeschoolers: Providing a comprehensive guidebook for families. Offering encouragement and inspiration. Emphasizing the life-changing experience of homeschooling. Mentioning the value of education beyond academics. Encouraging parents to give their children an education and a family life they will appreciate in the future. Monica’s Book Website, Author Website, Facebook, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We can't just stop at transforming the mind. We can't just have our kids act like Christians. They might say the right thing. They may know what to say to make mom and dad happy, but we want that heart transformation.” – Lauren Gaines. Lauren Gaines is a wife, mother, author, and teacher. She is the creator of Inspired Motherhood, a thriving online community equipping parents to raise up the next generation with boldness. Lauren has a unique parenting approach, as she’s a busy mom of three children and holds a master’s degree in school psychology. Her newest book, Unshakable Kids: Three Keys to Raising Spiritually Strong and Emotionally Healthy Children, equips parents to raise strong kids even in a broken world. When Lauren isn't writing, you can find her enjoying the outdoors with her family, experimenting with her camera, or putting on a variety show with her kids. During this episode, Lauren shares her insights on parenting and discusses the importance of an authoritative approach to raising resilient and unwavering children. She dives into the key areas of mind, heart, and identity, offering practical tips for nurturing strong Christian kids in today's challenging world. Key Takeaways: Rising anxiety in adults and children, including those in the church, and Lauren's personal experience with anxiety and its impact on her children. Recognizing overwhelming feelings in parents and children and seeking to address anxious behaviors. The importance of addressing the mind, heart, and identity in raising strong Christian kids. Using the cognitive triangle to identify feelings, thoughts, and actions. Ensuring a transformation of the heart, not just actions or behaviors. Teaching children their identity in Christ and building self-esteem from a biblical perspective. Bringing God into everyday life to develop a personal relationship with Him. "I'll be happy when" mindset and its impact on happiness. The importance of savoring moments to experience gratitude and living in the present. Reflecting on the importance of slowing down and appreciating the little things in life. The definition of authoritative parenting as warm, sensitive, and balanced. Balancing love, discipline, and autonomy for children as they grow. The drawbacks of wanting to be too much of a friend to kids than a parent. Lauren’s Website, Inspired Motherhood Website, Instagram, & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“The last thing is scripture and prayer. It's a practice, more than a technique. It's a demonstration of being obedient to stay connected to God.” - Rhonda Stoppe. Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”! During this episode of Digging Deeper, all three ladies share insightful advice and practical tips on managing stress, maintaining composure, and navigating the aftermath of lashing out in anger. From understanding the impact of emotions on both parents and kids to embracing grace and seeking forgiveness, they offer valuable guidance for parents seeking to create a peaceful and loving environment for their families. Key Takeaways: Impact of parental stress on children's behavior. Understanding the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses in stress. Effects of parental lack of regulation on children and practical ways for parents to regulate themselves and their children. Importance of deep breathing and bilateral stimulation tapping. Incorporating prayer and scripture to cope with stress. Lessons from the behavior of Christ in stressful situations. Importance of mindful awareness to understand anxiety triggers and being able to identify and address personal triggers and fears. The danger of allowing stress to manifest as anger. Understanding and addressing personal idols affecting stress responses. Modeling healthy stress responses to teach children productive coping skills. Intentional alignment with Christ's perspective. Making amends without making excuses for outbursts. Seeking forgiveness from children and setting an example of humility. "Make amends, don't make excuses. So, the best question you can ask is, 'Tell me how I hurt you when I responded that way.'" - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield. Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Investigation is critical for our kids to understand and not to be afraid of it.” – Lori Wildenberg. Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of MOMents, both ladies dive into the complex theme of deconstruction and how it relates to teenagers and their faith. They explore the signs parents can look out for, the stages of questioning, and how to support and guide teenagers through these challenging times. Both ladies also emphasize the necessity of fostering open dialogue with teenagers and encouraging critical thinking while remaining rooted in biblical truths. Offering solace and reassurance, Lori and Lee Ann emphasize the power of prayer and the role of the community in providing steadfast support during times of spiritual turmoil. Key Takeaways: Understanding deconstruction versus investigation. Investigating and questioning the faith and the importance of not being afraid of investigation. Transition from investigation to dissecting biblical truths. Emphasizing the importance of prayer. Addressing signs and symptoms of deconstruction. Recognizing the importance of understanding autonomy in teenagers. Establishing a family mission statement and rules for disobedience. Identifying social and personal factors contributing to doubt. Addressing the impact of personal wounding on faith, understanding grief, and responding to deep emotional loss. Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Hannah Pierrou is a long-time photographer, designer, and artist. She started the shop and publishing company Treehouse Storytellers as a way to bring wholesome and biblical resources to parents and their children. She is passionate about spreading the Gospel and helping fellow parents train up their kids with a biblical worldview. Hannah and her husband and three kids live in the Colorado foothills on a small hobby farm. She is also the host of the new and growing Treehouse Storyteller podcast. During this episode, Hannah delves into the inspiration behind her new book, Miss understood, as listeners will be drawn into her heartfelt account of receiving a divine calling to write the story and its uplifting message about God's promises. Through her beautifully illustrated book, Hannah aims to bring hope and restoration to the next generation by rediscovering the true significance of the rainbow in a biblical context. Hannah also touches on topics such as parenting in a "sideways" culture, equipping parents with solutions, and instilling biblical foundations in children's lives. Here are some key takeaways and tips from this episode: Focus on biblical principles: Encourage kids to understand and live by the foundational truths of the Bible, instilling them with a sense of purpose and faith. Embrace Hope and Restoration: Through stories and illustrations, convey the hope and restoration found in God's love, emphasizing redemption and forgiveness. This can be done through engaging books, art, and everyday conversations. Compassionate Communication: Teach kids to embrace compassionate and empathetic communication, reaching out with the love of Jesus to people from all walks of life. Cultivate a God-Centered Home Environment: Create a nurturing home environment where biblical values are not only taught but practiced, encouraging kids to seek God's promises in their daily lives. Hannah’s website, podcast, Facebook, & Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Teenagers have a huge influence on each other. Let's equip them to be disciples for Christ! During this episode, Lee Ann reflects on her own teenage years and the influence that friends had on her decision-making. She shares insights on how to raise teenagers to be the best disciples for Christ and equip them to share His message with others. She also elaborates on five key points to help parents and guardians guide their teens in becoming counter-culture warriors and strong Christian ambassadors: Cultivating a home environment rooted in faith: Lee Ann stresses the importance of fostering a heavenly atmosphere within the home through prayer, worship, and engagement with Christian materials. Emphasizing honor and serving others: Encouraging teens to honor their parents and others, thus learning the value of serving God and honoring those in authority. Choosing friends wisely and extending unconditional love: Assisting teens in making wise choices in friendships and demonstrating unconditional love, even towards those who may be challenging to love. Initiating conversations about God: Helping teens engage in meaningful conversations about faith and providing them with resources to navigate discussions with their peers. Role-playing and preparation: Supporting teens by role-playing scenarios they may encounter and preparing them to address challenging situations with love and wisdom. In a world where the secular culture often challenges Christian values, it's crucial for us to equip and support our teens in becoming counter-culture warriors, sharing God's love and truth with their peers. The article mentioned: “10 Social Issues and Problems That Trouble Today’s Teens” by Charissa Chamorro with CSW. “How often do you pray at home, study the word of God, listen to worship music, prepare to serve others, read Christian materials, or watch Christian movies? Do you have a family mission statement or a disciplinary contract? Do you, as a family, discuss how you will serve others and the community? Is your family active in church? All of that is so, so important!” – Lee Ann Mancini. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We wanted to encourage girls that they're designed to have good friendships. And the source of that is God.” – Blythe Daniel. Blythe Daniel is the co-author of Mended, and I Love You, Mom!, which she wrote with her mother, Dr. Helen McIntosh. She worked for Harper Collins Christian Publishing in marketing and publicity and now enjoys her work as a literary agent. Calyn Daniel, one of Blythe's daughters, is a middle schooler who loves spending time with her friends and family, including her older sister, Maris, and twin brother, William, who is also an author. Calyn believes girls need to know who they are in Christ, how to navigate friend groups—especially when they change—and how to not lose sight of who God has made them to be. Together, they wrote the book Let’s Be Friends: A Tween Devotional on Finding and Keeping Strong Friendships, which offers tween girls helpful advice on how to find and maintain beneficial friendships with faith at the forefront. During this episode, Blythe and Calyn share their insights on why they decided to write this book and how this book can serve as a guide for girls who may feel lost in their friendships with friends, family, and even God. Developing meaningful friendships is a vital skill for tween girls, shaping their emotional and spiritual growth and empowering them to positively impact others with their unique talents. This book guides girls in distinguishing between healthy and harmful friendships, navigating conflicts, staying authentic, and exploring other essential aspects of friendship. Each section features heartfelt wisdom on friendship and includes carefully chosen Scripture verses, words of encouragement, and reflective questions with ample space for personal responses. Blythe’s Facebook & Instagram / Calyn’s Facebook & Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Listening to God speak to us through his holy spirit will help us to have a robust prayer life, where we learn how to be in conversation with the Lord.” – Lee Ann Mancini Do you ever find yourself repeating the same prayers, feeling like your prayer life has become more of a routine than a sacred privilege? How can we, along with our children, engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God that fill us with joy, keeping us connected to the Almighty, the great I Am? During this episode, Lee Ann discusses the significance of prayer in our lives and the lives of our children. She shares her personal reflections on the depth and meaning of prayer, acknowledging the challenges and the desire for a more profound connection with God. Lee Ann also explores the ways in which parents can engage in genuine and meaningful conversations with God and how they can guide their children to experience a rich and impactful prayer life. Key Takeaways: Realizing the significance of genuine and meaningful conversations with God. Recognizing the routine nature of prayer and the desire for a deeper connection with God. Exploring different ways and times to pray and highlighting the need for consistent and frequent prayer. Introducing the concept of praying in different personalities for a deeper connection with God. Referencing biblical instruction on how to pray. Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging God's holiness and aligning with heavenly principles in prayer. PRAY - Praise, repent, ask, and yield. Encouraging the use of simple and varied prayers, including praise and gratitude. Utilizing the Psalms as guidance for prayers, showcasing a wide range of human emotions in communication with God. Encouraging support and intercessory prayers for others to foster a robust prayer life. Resources mentioned: Praying through Every Emotion, by Linda Evans Shepherd & Praying Personalities, by Janet McHenry. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Most people's biggest problem with homeschooling is they don't really believe that they're good parents. And that's why the subtitle became How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators because you are an amazing parent because you are the parent that God created specifically for that child whether by birth or by choice. God put that child in your family. " – Leslie Nunnery. Leslie Nunnery is a prominent figure in the Christian homeschooling community. As the co-founder of Teach Them Diligently, she has dedicated herself to providing resources and experiences to strengthen Christian homeschooling families. Leslie is also an accomplished author, with several books on parenting and homeschooling to her name, including Teach Them Diligently: Raising Children of Promise and Heart School: How Amazing Parents Become Excellent Home Educators. In addition to her writing, she is a sought-after speaker and the host of the Teach Them Diligently podcast, where she shares her expertise and passion for educating and equipping parents to realize their call and execute it well. During this episode, Leslie shares her unique perspective on homeschooling and parenting. She discusses how her new book differs from other homeschooling books and how it can benefit all parents, regardless of their approach to education. Key Takeaways: Common misconceptions about homeschooling: Fear of not being "enough" as a parent and educator. Shifting the focus to understanding the primary mission of homeschooling. The mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of children. Homeschooling is a tool to complement the mission of discipleship. How Heart School can be used as a tool to help see the alignment between the educational outlet used and the family's call. Emphasis on being amazing parents to become excellent home educators. Addressing parental doubts and instilling confidence in the parenting role. “Teach Them Diligently is here to really help reorient families to see their main mission is to disciple and shepherd the hearts of their children, bring them to Jesus, and then homeschooling actually becomes a fabulous compliment for that.” – Leslie Nunnery. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Why should you be taking a parenting class? During this episode, host Lee Ann Mancini dives into the importance of parenting classes and the profound impact of raising children in the Christian faith. She discusses the essential role parents play as spiritual leaders in their children's lives and emphasizes the significance of equipping ourselves to be the very best for our children, instilling in them a deep love for God and his word. Addressing the importance of continuous learning and growth, Lee Ann encourages listeners to view parenting as a calling, blessing, and honor. She emphasizes the impact that proper parenting can have on shaping children's future faith and, ultimately, the preservation of Christianity. Lee Ann also acknowledges the challenges of raising children in today's world and offers a compelling argument for the necessity of equipping oneself through parenting classes. Key Takeaways: How parenting classes can help you increase your knowledge in becoming better at the craft of parenting. The importance of educating ourselves to become the best spiritual leaders for our children. Being chosen by God to raise children in His image. Imparting values through actions and words and showing commitment to living out and sharing faith. Preparing children for their divine purpose. Instilling unwavering love for God and His Word and equipping them to stand firm in their faith. The need for planning and training to raise spiritual champions. Being proactive in training children against spiritual warfare. Necessity for good planning and diligent implementation. Making disciples as instructed in Matthew 28:19-20. “To prepare them for the Lord's divine purpose for their lives, we must instill in our children a deep, unwavering love for God and His word.” – Lee Ann Mancini. Order Lee Ann’s parenting guide book here – Raising Kids to Follow Christ: Instilling a Lifelong Trust in God. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“The peace that prayer brings is that it's really less about answers and it's more about access. The fact that we have this privilege of being able to go to God. And so, as we pray, we become more like Him.” – Janet McHenry. Janet McHenry is a national speaker and the author of 26 books--seven on prayer, including the best-selling PrayerWalk and her newest, Praying Personalities: Finding Your Natural Prayer Style. She coordinates the prayer ministries at her church in Reno and serves on the California leadership team for the National Day of Prayer. A former high school English teacher, she and her high school sweetheart husband Craig raised their four kids in the Sierra Valley, where he is a rancher. They love nothing better than watching their adult kids and grandkids play whiffle ball in the backyard or kayak on nearby mountain lakes. During this episode, Janet discusses the importance of prayer in children's lives and shares insights from her book Raising Personalities: Finding Your Natural Prayer Style. She elaborates on how different biblical praying styles can help parents understand their children's unique approaches to prayer. From problem solvers to peace seekers, Janet provides valuable advice on fostering a natural and enjoyable prayer practice for kids. Key Takeaways: The four main categories of biblical praying personalities: problem solver, friend of God, organized lamenter, and peace seeker. How biblical figures exhibited the different praying styles (Moses, Gideon, Abraham, Daniel, and Josiah). Observing children's personalities to identify their natural prayer style. Navigating children towards their natural prayer style to make prayer more natural for them. Addressing specific scenarios for different prayer personalities (dinner time prayer, introverted children). Overcoming time constraints and lack of knowledge on how to pray with children. Incorporating personal quiet time with open-handed prayer. Following the example of Paul as an "on the run intercessor" to navigate daily challenges. Take the Praying Personality Quiz here to help you discover how God designed you to connect with prayer. Janet’s Website, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Pinterest, & LinkedIn. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“When we look at our actual homes, really the question to ask is, ‘How is screen time affecting my home - does technology bring my family closer together?’” – Arlene Pellicane. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books, including Parents Rising, 31 Days to a Happy Husband, Calm, Cool, and Connected, and Screen Kids. Arlene has been a featured guest on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, and Focus on the Family. She hosts the Happy Home Podcast and lives in San Diego with her husband and their three children. Arlene is passionate about helping families on an array of topics. One of her missions is encouraging parents to remember that they control screen time and technology usage in their homes! During this final episode of disciplining month, Arlene dives into some important topics from her book, Screen Kids. She elaborates on the following key points on how to confront technology issues when disciplining: Our confusing culture today teaches us that electronic devices are educational and that they help our kids connect with other kids—which can be true, but our kids then lack emotional skill sets. Tips on imposing new rules: Prepare for resistance, try to make screen time as specific as possible, and have an end goal in mind. The benefits of reducing screen time in small incremental sections vs. all at once. Apologize and take responsibility for being “soft” when they get upset by your new rules to reduce screen time; admit you were wrong for letting them take advantage of their screens. Advice in disciplining a child who continues to abuse the digital rules – review the different types of rules that have failed, get other perspectives from parents or friends on how they deal with this issue in their home, and be willing to open your mind to other solutions. If it isn’t working, it’s time to try something different. Don’t be afraid to give consequences, and don’t extend the deadline. Allow the experiences and consequences to discipline your children. Arlene’s website, Instagram, & Happy Home University. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

If we are not responsible for our children’s actions and behaviors, then who is? Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. As parents, we tend to think that our children’s actions and behavior directly reflect our parenting skills or lack thereof. And in some instances, this may be true. We may find ourselves as adults making excuses when we behave badly in front of others. But we are not responsible for how they act; we are responsible to them – meaning, we have a responsibility as their parent or caretaker to teach them, guide them, and emulate good behavior, especially when disciplining. When they deliberately choose to do wrong when they know they shouldn’t, it is not always our fault, and sometimes, they must suffer natural and logical consequences. Natural and logical consequences are great tools in our disciplining arsenal. Although we are not entirely responsible for our children’s actions, there is one area in life where we are held responsible. The laws of society say that parents are legally responsible for their minor children’s actions in civil and criminal court, regardless of whether it was intentional or accidental. This is another reason to ensure children we are disciplining our children early so they understand that their family is at stake in more serious matters. “For he who does wrong will receive the consequences of the wrong which he has done, and that without partiality.” – Colossians 3:25. During this episode, Lee Ann elaborates on these helpful guidelines to remember when disciplining children: Be clear about our expectations and what is expected of them. Provide guidance and support without being overbearing. Let them make mistakes and learn from them – don’t rescue or bail them out every time. Encourage them to be independent and responsible. Instill values like honesty, integrity, and respect for others. Encourage them to think for themselves and make their own decisions. Be patient as they learn to make responsible choices, and don’t forget to praise them when they do. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“It’s never too late. God changes people at any age; he changes little children, he changes, elementary-aged children, he changes teenagers, he even changes adults; so, we’re really grateful that God’s grace permeates the heart of any person.” -Scott Turansky. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Dr. Scott Turansky is the co-founder of the National Center for Biblical Parenting and the author of over 15 books. He is a professor at Concordia University, where he teaches the master’s level parenting class to students who will be social workers, counselors, and ministry professionals. During this second part of the two-part episode series, Scott continues to share his wisdom and expertise regarding effective disciplining to help parents reach children’s hearts. He specifically emphasizes the effectiveness of taking a break versus a time out and the benefits of parenting with firmness and consistency. Scott elaborates on the difference between a break and a time-out and how a break is much more effective than a time-out. Taking a “time out” is not a good parenting model because it’s a punitive punishment like a timed sentence that a child has to serve for a “crime” they’ve committed. Taking a “break” is more effective because it is based on repentance in the Bible, and it transfers responsibility to the child by letting them come back on their own terms when they feel like they’ve had a change of heart. “There comes this point when time and conscience and the Holy Spirit work in a child’s heart, and they come back and say, ‘Okay, I’m ready.’ That’s what we’re looking for – that’s the power of the break.” -Scott Turansky. Scott shares tools parents can implement to help improve communication and effectively reach their obstinate teenagers when disciplining. First, there has to be a relationship between the child and the parent. Although parents should have empathy and sympathy for their child, they must also have firmness and consistency when disciplining to be most effective for long-term results. He shares real-life examples of children who have had a heart transformation through a balance of consistency and firmness. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Understanding the action point is a crucial idea that will help parents be more powerful and significant when working with their children.” -Dr. Scott Turansky. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Dr. Scott Turansky co-founded the National Center for Biblical Parenting and is the author of over 15 books. He is also a professor at Concordia University, where he teaches the master’s level Parenting Class to students who will be social workers, counselors, and ministry professionals. During this first part of the two-part episode series, Dr. Turansky discusses what he offers for families at Biblical Parenting University and shares important teachings from his book, Parenting is Heart Work, to help children have heart-based obedience. Biblical Parenting University is an online university where parents can take different parenting or coaching classes. These classes help parents learn how to take biblical principles and apply them to the parent-child relationship to teach children how to get things done and to help children develop essential life skills. Scott shares three important teachings from his book to help children obtain heart-based knowledge and obedience: Parents need to go into their children's hearts—the three components that they need to reach are their children’s desires, emotions, and beliefs. Parents need to recognize they are the best counselors for their kids IF they have a good plan. The best way to help your children overcome behavioral issues and temperament is to get some training as parents first because the parent knows the child more than anyone else. Consider your action point – every parent has an action point, and when you stop talking and start acting through practical application and exercises, children can learn what they need to do in their own hearts versus what they don’t want to do. Scott also details the “coming when called” exercise as an effective disciplining tool for children who don’t have an internal sense of obligation or tend to constantly argue instead of saying yes when called. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We do not need to be ‘punishing’ our children because Christ already took the punishment.” – Sarah R. Moore Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Sarah R. Moore is the author of Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science, and Better Behavior and the founder of Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. She’s a public speaker, an armchair, a neuroscientist, and, most importantly, a mother and a daughter of Christ. Sarah is a lifelong learner with training in child development, trauma recovery, interpersonal neurobiology, and improv comedy. As a certified master trainer in conscious parenting, she helps bring joy, ease, and connection back to families around the globe. During this episode, Sarah discusses how emotional safety and connection can be used in our parenting to discipline more effectively and more like Jesus! She elaborates on the following key points from her book, Peaceful Discipline: Some of the many ways Jesus taught people throughout the Bible can be used in parenting when disciplining children. We can teach our children the story of Zacchaeus from the Bible. He was a tax collector known as a bad guy who sinned often; instead of punishing and perishing him, God taught him through emotional safety and connection that there was another way. Jesus also taught through parables – it was always connection-based, and these stories illustrate what God’s love is like and how to live for God. We all have a part of the brain called the hippocampus, which allows everyone to be a natural storyteller and create narrative memories. When we directly access the hippocampus part of a child’s brain, it is emotionally safe for them, and we are using a tool that Jesus used himself. Jesus took all the punishment for all his believers; therefore, we do not have to punish our children, although there are consequences for their behavior. When we look at our children, we can see our father’s face in Heaven. “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” – Romans 8:1. Sarah’s social media: Instagram, Facebook & Facebook Group, YouTube, Pinterest, & TikTok. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Another issue with disciplining today is that way too many people think of it as punishment; discipline is training for righteousness; discipline is walking with!” -Kathy Koch. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Dr. Kathy Koch is the founder and president of Celebrate Kids and the associate co-founder of Ignite the Family. She regularly speaks at conventions, schools, churches, and pregnancy resource centers, where she has influenced thousands of people. Dr. Kathy is a popular guest on Focus on the Family radio, and her podcast, Celebrate Kids with Dr. Kathy, is among the most popular parenting podcasts. She is also an author of many books published by Moody Publishers. Throughout this episode, Dr. Koch shares advice on disciplining, understanding strong-willed children, and the most problematic issues with disciplining children today. Key Takeaways: The discipline of wisdom can be defined as agreeing with God, a perspective God brings to a topic, and applying truth – wisdom is using the right with the right motive for the right outcome. Ways to address a strong-willed child when they continue arguing, talking back, or ignoring their parents’ directives. A strong-willed child is not bad when they have self-control, self-respect, and respect for others; having a strong will is a great characteristic for decision-making and leadership. What a strong-willed child wants is power, control, and victory. Advice for disciplining and understanding strong-willed children: Keep a written record of when your child argues, talks back, or ignores you to help determine if it’s situational. Avoid saying “no” when your child asks a question; replace it with “when and then.” Most problematic issues when disciplining children today: Overwhelmed parents. Consequences differ from punishments. Technology. Dr. Kathy’s Books & Resources Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“If we want to understand what biblical discipline truly looks like, we need to look at Jesus, and we need to see how Jesus disciplined his disciples.” -Angela Harders. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. In this second part of the two-part episode series, Angela continues to share her wisdom regarding the controversial passage, Proverbs 23:13-14, which states, “Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die. Punish them with the rod and save them from death.” Angela explains how the four proverbs (this verse included) were written by King Solomon, addressing his sons in hopes of training them to one day be King. The book of Proverbs is meant to address adults; it is not a parenting guide for toddlers. Proverbs 1 states right from the beginning, ‘these are the proverbs of Solomon;’ these are NOT commandments from God! The word “child” in Hebrew refers to a legal adult that is typically between the ages of 13 and 17, and people in this age group were considered adults back in ancient times. Therefore, if there are any claims of a child being punished with a rod, it is for committing a crime and about a legal adult. The word “rod” is meant to be a figurative rod in many circumstances throughout the Bible – it is not always meant to be a physical rod. But one thing we know for sure: the Bible never tells us as parents to hit our children with rods! Angela also discusses some tools to help you interact with your children, such as modeling, teaching, showing compassion, forgiveness, and correction, as Jesus interacted with his disciples. She also elaborates on the benefits of giving children a choice instead of giving them commands. This technique removes the power and control dynamics of a child wanting to argue back. It also empowers the child to make decisions and become a better critical thinker. Connect with Angela: Peaceful World Schoolers Facebook Instagram YouTube Rumble TikTok Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We need to remember that when we see the word discipline in the Bible, it does not mean punishment; that word means to verbally teach or instruct; it does not mean physical punishment at all!” -Angela Harders. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Angela Harders is a certified special education teacher, an international best-selling author, and the founder of Pax Ministries. She left a toxic school environment to practice Peaceful World schooling with her own children and to inspire other families to do the same. Angela empowers families to live with faith and freedom through her organization, podcast, books, courses, coaching, and more. During this first episode of this two-part series, Angela discusses her inspiration for writing her book, Gospel-based Parenting, and the truth behind the misconception of physical punishment in the Christian world. Angela explains that the phrase “spare the rod, spoil the child” does not come from the Bible but from an erotic poem! The correct passage from the Bible is, “He who withholds the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently,” which can be found in Proverbs 13:24. Parents should understand the meaning of this passage from the Bible correctly to be able to apply it when disciplining. Angela also details the three different types of consequences with real-life examples: contrived consequences (punishment), logical consequences, and natural consequences. She acknowledges the misconception regarding gentle parenting and emphasizes that even though it is “gentle” parenting, children still experience consequences. They get natural and logical consequences, not physical/emotional-based responses such as spanking or unrelated offenses. Here’s how to connect with Angela: Peaceful World Schoolers Facebook Instagram YouTube Rumble TikTok Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Discipline literally means to teach. And Jesus disciplined by how he lived his life, not by lecturing, punishing, and sending his disciples to their rooms.” -Kirk Martin. Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. Celebrate Calm founder Kirk Martin has helped almost one million parents stop the yelling, defiance, and power struggles with the most strong-willed children. He is also the host of the Calm Parenting Podcast, and he offers a multitude of resources and packages on his website for you and your child’s specific needs. During this episode, Kirk elaborates on the following key points to help discipline children, especially those who are strong-willed: Ways to overcome apathetic children who don’t want to change their behaviors. The benefit of giving impulsive or anxiety-prone children the tools to succeed rather than getting angry at them for not behaving right off the bat. How to make mornings more fun for younger kids – a treasure hunt or challenge in the morning can be a positive motivator to get them to want to get up versus telling them they have to get ready for school. Connection breeds cooperation – we can connect with children on things they are interested in and use that as a tool to connect and discipline them more effectively. Spark internal motivation using a mission and mentor tactic – getting another adult in the child’s life to spark motivation or have them do activities that they are good at to motivate them to want to do well in school. Some of the major things that parents often do wrong when disciplining their children – reacting emotionally and taking things personally. Stop the power struggles with your strong-willed children, and check out Kirk’s Calm Parenting Package, which includes 30 hours’ worth of resources, from 13 different programs to help you discipline more effectively. Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Discipline, instruction, and guidance… what do you think when you hear those words? Are you ready to dive back into the world of Christian disciplining? Raising Christian Kids has decided to re-release our disciplining series, which was originally released in March of 2023. We feature experts who share their knowledge and are passionate about helping parents and caregivers navigate the rough waters of disciplining. We cover many topics, such as disciplining strong-willed children and children with varying cognitive abilities, the different types of consequences, and the most problematic issues parents face in today’s chaotic society. The wisdom that’s shared will hopefully help you raise children who are teachable and obedient to you and, most importantly, obedient to God. During this episode, Lee Ann will dive into what she believes can be the first step in disciplining: creating a discipline plan for your children. Some tips to help you begin your disciplining journey: Pray for guidance – ask God to help you develop a discipline plan that best serves the children in your care. Get input from your children – ask them what they think would be helpful to learn and consider their suggestions as you develop your plan. Be consistent with your rules and expectations. Avoid physical punishment. Use logical consequences. Be patient, and remember that your children are still learning. Explain to them your reasons for disciplining them. Apologize to your child if you lose your temper. Always show love and grace towards your child. Once you develop your plan, you can consider what areas of your life you need to work on and create a list of specific goals you would like to accomplish. Once you have your goals in mind, start working on a daily or weekly schedule to help you stay on track. Include regular Bible reading and prayer time, and ensure your other outside activities support those goals. And don’t be afraid to ask for help from a friend or mentor who can help to hold you accountable. Hopefully, we can all learn to discipline with a positive attitude, a humble spirit, and a servant’s heart! RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“I was seeing the books that were at the library, and it just became very obvious to me that the world is not shy about putting out their agenda to our children. So, we should also, as Christians, not be shy about giving our worldview to children. I wanted to come up with something that would help kids and parents have conversations about Jesus.” – Brenna Milleville. Brenna Milleville is a wife of 10 years and mother to her 4-year-old, Grace. After attending a Christian conference in 2016, she was called to start a Christian apparel company and ellyandgrace was started. Seven years later, Brenna and her team have printed and shipped over 500,000 pieces of apparel around the world from their Missouri-based office and over 30,000 Christian embroidery kits that help women relax. They recently launched the So Loved Book and Doll Collection, created to help teach children important biblical concepts in a relatable way. During this episode, Brenna shares the heartwarming story behind her creation, from her inspiration at a Christian conference to the launch of her beautifully crafted books and dolls. The collection focuses on teaching important biblical concepts in a relatable way and offers parents and children a unique avenue to explore faith together. Through this engaging conversation, struggling parents are assured that they are not alone in their endeavor to guide their little ones toward a deeper understanding of Christ's teachings. Brenna details the collection's three books and dolls, each thoughtfully crafted to explore essential biblical concepts like the Fruit of the Spirit, forgiveness, and more. The inclusivity of characters and themes ensures that children from various backgrounds can find relatable representations, fostering a sense of belonging and understanding. She also imparts valuable advice for aspiring business owners, emphasizing the significance of passion and originality in any venture. Her testimony inspires individuals contemplating their own entrepreneurial journey and instills a sense of purpose and resilience in facing the challenges that accompany business ownership. Brenna’s Instagram, Facebook, & TikTok. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Conflict is normal, and there is nothing wrong necessarily with your relationship if you have conflict. So, there's nothing wrong with your family if you have conflict. There's nothing necessarily wrong with your marriage if you have conflict. There's nothing necessarily wrong with a child and a friend if they have conflict. Conflict is part of life. Conflict in itself is not good or bad. What makes conflict good or bad is not its presence, but our practices in the midst of its presence.” – Donna Jones. Donna Jones is a national speaker, author, and pastor's wife with over three decades of ministry experience. A graduate of UCLA, she's spoken in twenty-six states and on four continents. During this episode, Donna talks about handling conflict in a healthy and peaceful way within our families. She shares insights from her book Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, emphasizing the importance of humility and the common mistakes that make conflicts worse. Donna discusses how parents can teach their children to handle conflict and communicate effectively. Key Takeaways: The impact of conflict in a divisive world and the desire for healthy conflict resolution and peaceful family life. The importance of humility in conflict resolution and how humility shifts the dynamic of conflict from a power struggle to a joint problem-solving approach. Being dismissive of others' concerns or opinions and the importance of active listening in conflict resolution. Normalizing conflict and teaching children it's a natural part of relationships. Modeling conflict resolution at home while encouraging open communication and critical thinking in children. Check out Donna Jones blog here! Donna’s Website, Instagram, & Facebook. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“If you have already disqualified yourself from spiritual leadership because of mistakes you've made and you've committed that there's so much shame that you can't lift your eyes off the floor, don't push that away because you want to be able to move forward through that because healing is possible.” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield. Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional who helped countless women build “no regrets lives”! During this episode, all three ladies discuss the challenges and strategies of raising children in a home where one parent may not be actively engaged in the spiritual growth of the family. They provide valuable insights and practical advice for fathers who may not know how to be the biblical educator in the home, as well as mothers who may bear the weight of being the sole spiritual leader. They also share their personal experiences and stories of hope, encouraging listeners to never give up and to continue expressing love and faith in their families. Key Takeaways: Importance of father's spiritual leadership and overcoming disqualification and mistakes. Initiating and building spiritual muscles and practical steps for fathers to start leading spiritually. Encouraging mothers to seek support within the church community. Avoiding emotional incest and venting to children. Seeking out godly mentors and spiritual father figures. How the division in spiritual leadership can affect children. The significant influence of parental faith and behavior on children. Testimonies and examples of perseverance in faith with emphasis on continuous prayer and demonstration of love. Trusting in the power of faith and the possibility of change in the spouse. “You can't pray for the Holy Spirit to convict your husband's heart to be a spiritual leader if you're resenting him that he's not a spiritual leader.” – Rhonda Stoppe. Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of MOMents, both ladies explore the crucial topic of supporting family members through mental illness. Lori offers valuable insights and practical advice for parents, guardians, and grandparents dealing with children and loved ones facing mental health challenges. From fostering open communication to recognizing the different levels of mental illness, you will hopefully gain valuable wisdom to help support your family members. Key Takeaways: Normalizing the struggle of mental illness to validate a child’s experience. Avoid toxic positivity and provide a safe space for the child to express their feelings. Offer different perspectives on struggles during moments of peace and calm. Encourage open communication and understanding rather than lecturing. Recognize and address different levels of mental illness, seeking professional help when necessary. Educate siblings on the struggles of their brother or sister without breaching confidentiality. Foster a supportive and cooperative sibling relationship. Encourage understanding, cooperation, and the celebration of each other's uniqueness to prevent competition. Avoid comparing or pitting siblings against each other, which can heighten mental illness. Avoid shaming or guilt-tripping when addressing mental illness. Grandparents should be supportive and encourage open communication, especially when grandchildren share serious concerns. Establish trust by respecting confidentiality and offering empathy if unable to sympathize directly with the situation. The importance of embracing the messy nature of life and parenting. Lori’s resources: Messy Hope: Help Your Child Overcome Anxiety, Depression, or Suicidal Ideation, Messy Journey: How Grace and Truth Offer the Prodigal a Way Home, & The Messy Life of Parenting: Powerful and Practical Ways to Strengthen Family Connections. Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We don't live in a simple age. We live in a very complicated age. And I think we really need to learn how to embrace simplicity in part of our lives and learning to rest. And that that means learning to say no to some other things.” – Rhett Wilson. Rhett Wilson, Sr., a professional communicator, loves telling stories, connecting great ideas with people. He has served as Senior Writer for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, Senior Communications Director for Leighton Ford Ministries, and runs his own business, Hendrix Communications. He also serves as a bivocational pastor of Spring Hill Baptist Church in Lancaster, SC. During this episode, Rhett shares insight from his book, The 7 P's of Prayer. He discusses a simple prayer strategy using 7 words that begin with the letter "p" to pray for his children. Rhett also dives into the concept of prayer for purity and the significance of guarding our homes from negative influences. He shares impactful stories and explains the unique approach of his book, offering practical advice for enriching prayer lives. Rhett also addressed the modern challenges that families face, emphasizing the importance of guarding our homes and lives against negative influences. Key Takeaways: Description of the 7 words that begin with the letter "P”. The benefits of praying thematically or topically for children. The speed of society as the greatest threat to the health of families and the impact of digital world and breakneck speed on modern discipleship. The mnemonic for the word "REST" and its importance in prayer for purity. Tying the concept of rest and holiness to the Old Testament concept of Sabbath. Importance of establishing healthy boundaries and simplicity in life. The need for parents to filter messages and set standards for what comes into their homes. The significance of monitoring children's use of technology. “Kids go into an educational system, entertainment, and their phones where they often hear a message diametrically opposed to the Christian message and the gospel of Jesus Christ. If parents are not vigilant about filtering those messages and having some standards of what comes into their home, all of those other things are going to influence them or disciple them more than what they are taught at Sunday school.” – Rhett Wilson. Rhett’s Website, Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“And my hope and prayer is that through Special Grace, we might be able to feel a little bit less alone. In the prayers, I deliberately wrote them all saying our child, not my child. – Elrena Evans. Elrena Evans is the author of When I Go to Church, I Belong and Special Grace: Prayers and Reflections for Families with Special Needs. She is a mother of five and lives in Pennsylvania. When she's not writing, she enjoys spending time with her family, dancing, reading, trying to learn how to garden, and making spreadsheets. During this episode, Elrena Evans shares her journey of raising a child with special needs and her inspiration behind writing her book, Special Grace: Prayers and Reflections for Families with Special Needs. Elena's candid account of navigating the challenges of parenting a neuroatypical child during the pandemic offers hope and reassurance to parents in similar situations. She also discusses her heartwarming children's book, When I Go to Church, I Belong, which emphasizes the importance of inclusivity and meeting the diverse needs of children within the church community. Key Takeaways: Seeking prayers for specific situations not found in existing prayer books. Addressing the increase in families dealing with special needs children. Encouragement for stressed-out moms and where to find strength and the importance of feeling supported and not alone in the journey. Emotional involvement in the prayers due to personal experiences. Reading certain prayers for when parents feel like they're failing in different aspects. The hope that all children feel welcome, loved, and that they belong in church. “ That's my hope and prayer for all children everywhere, that when they show up at church, they will see the hands and feet of Jesus, and they will feel loved, and they will know that they belong.” – Elrena Evans. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

"I want to be vibrant in every season of life. I want to continue to serve you. I want to show them a way, a framework of saying this is how you continue to allow your life to be used by God in every season, even the second half." – Dawn Damon. Dawn Damon is a best-selling, award-winning author, national speaker, podcast host, life coach, and CEO of BraveHearted Woman. There, she offers coaching, online training, and other resources to help awaken and cultivate the vision of women dreamers. Her latest book, The Making of a BraveHearted Woman, hit number one on the best-seller list. During this episode, Dawn, mother of five, grandmother of 12, and great-grandmother of two, shares valuable insights on how women can pursue their dreams and grow in faith while navigating the journey of motherhood. From finding purpose in midlife to empowering young moms to prepare for the future, Dawn's wisdom is a beacon of encouragement and empowerment for all women. Key Takeaways: Dawn's observations of women transitioning into midlife and the common desire to remain vibrant and purposeful in the second half of life. Becoming a role model for the younger generation and to continue serving God in every season of life. Embracing the significance of every season of life and not allowing it to be wasted. Leveraging wisdom and experience to influence and impact the world. Encouragement for young mothers to recognize and cultivate their individual passions and talents. Emphasizing the importance of self-care, rest, and time for personal development while raising children. Tips for maintaining health, socialization, and engagement in activities to keep moving forward. The BRAVE acronym: Bold vision, Real identity, Able mindset, Virtuous speech, and Execute action habits are the five fortitudes, or inner strengths, required for success in the second half of life. “Keep being faithful with the little things and the little people, and eventually you will be ushered into the next season of your life that's just filled with so many other great opportunities." – Dawn Damon RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“If you look at how our behaviors are built, it starts with our relationships, experiences, and genetics. From those three, you get these beliefs that influence your thoughts and your emotions that are automatic throughout the day, which influence your behaviors. So, if you want to truly change your behaviors, you begin with gratitude because it changes your perception, changes your belief about something, and changes your thoughts and emotions.” – Dr. Danny Huerta. Dr. Danny Huerta oversees Focus on the Family’s initiatives that equip mothers and fathers with biblical principles and counsel for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. He is a bilingual psychologist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of 7 Traits of Effective Parenting. Dr. Huerta has maintained a private practice in Colorado Springs since 2003 and has served families through Focus on the Family since 2004. During this episode, Danny shares his insight and practical advice for raising healthy, resilient children rooted in a thriving faith. Dr. Huerta discusses the reasons for writing 7 Traits of Effective Parenting, including the need for practical steps for parents and the lack of a roadmap incorporating important principles for effective parenting. Danny also outlines the assessment, What Are Your Parenting Strengths? and how it provides a means for parents to determine their top strengths, possible strengths, and areas of growth as parents. The 7 traits of effective parenting: Adaptability: Be open to adjusting to your child's changing needs and behaviors. Show them flexibility while establishing consistency in routines and rules. 2. Respect: See your child clearly with love and care. Recognize their unique personalities and affirm their value and worth consistently. Intentionality: Be purposeful in your interactions with your child. Take deliberate steps to spend quality time together, engage in meaningful conversations, and foster a strong bond. Steadfast Love: Demonstrate unconditional love, support, and presence for your child, especially during challenging moments. Your consistent love provides a secure foundation for their growth. Boundaries and Limits: Establish and communicate clear boundaries guided by love and respect. Provide the necessary guidance and correction to shape your child's behavior and character. Grace and Forgiveness: Embrace a culture of forgiveness and grace within your family. Teach your child the importance of acknowledging mistakes, seeking forgiveness, and extending grace to others. Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude in your family. Encourage expressions of thankfulness, foster a spirit of appreciation, and model gratitude in daily interactions. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“We've been so exposed the last few years to cancel culture. It's, "If I don't agree with you, I'm going to get louder and more dominant, and I'm going to tear you apart." And how do we model to our kids that we are called to love through that process?” – Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield. Three women of Christ on a mission, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield, Rhonda Stoppe, and Lee Ann Mancini, have joined together to share empowering Godly advice, information, and encouragement for everyone who is raising the next generation of warriors for Christ. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield is a national speaker, author, podcaster, and a licensed professional counselor of 27 years. Rhonda Stoppe is a best-selling author, speaker, and podcaster who has helped countless women build “no regrets lives”! During this episode, all three ladies tackle the question of how parents can help kids stand up and stand strong in their convictions in a world filled with peer pressure and differing ideologies. They discuss practical strategies for navigating disagreements within the family, facing pushback in public schools, and dealing with friends and family members who may challenge their faith. Key Takeaways: Encouraging kids to live out their convictions in the face of disagreement from family members. Acknowledging the challenges of having family members who reject faith and teaching kids not to be judgmental but to instead live out their faith in front of them. Emphasizing the importance of modeling peaceful and accepting behavior within the family. Praying over kids and encouraging them to walk in a manner worthy of their calling while at school. Teaching critical thinking and the ability to engage in intelligent conversation about faith. Encouraging kids not to worry about negative opinions from peers, as it's only for a short period of time. Encouraging an unoffendable attitude and gracious response to differing beliefs. Modeling curiosity and showing genuine interest in understanding others' viewpoints. “What we always taught our kids is don't be angry with a blind person for being blind. If they don't have the mind of Christ, then they don't see life with a biblical worldview. So rather than being self-righteous, pharisee, and judgmental, live your faith in front of them.” – Rhonda Stoppe. Resources: Rhonda Stoppe’s books & Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield’s books. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Honestly, if there's one thing that I pray for daily, I pray for the Lord to give America solid Christian families where husbands love their wives and children are raised in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” – Alex McFarland. Alex McFarland is the leader of Alex McFarland Ministries and a religion, youth, and culture expert. He is also the creator of Viral Truth Clubs, and has authored or co-authored more than 20 books, including The Assault on America: How to Defend our Nation Before It’s Too Late!, 10 Issues that Divide Christians, The God You Thought You Knew, and more. He is the Director of Worldview and teaches in the School of Practical Government for Charis Bible College. Alex currently co-hosts Exploring the Word on the American Family Radio Network and the Truth and Liberty TV broadcast and is the host of The Alex McFarland Show. During this episode, Alex shares his expert knowledge about the vital role of Christian families, the impact of his latest book 100 Bible Questions and Answers for Families, and the importance of equipping and empowering young people. Key Takeaways: Content from his newest book, focusing on parenting and addressing difficult topics with children. The book's influence on families, particularly children's interest in biblical discussions. Emphasis on the importance of godly men in families and a call for men to be committed to their role as the priest of the home. Acknowledgment of the need for both Christian husbands and fathers to raise counterculture Christians. The vital need for more strong Christian churches. Anticipation of revival and a call to action to protect children from negative influences. Background and growth of the Equip Retreat Camps: The approach concerning discipleship and apologetics at the camps. Children's capacity to understand deep truths and their appreciation for substantial teachings. Aim to provide a meaningful and impactful learning experience for youth. Encouragement for multi-church events to rally Christians and spread the message of Christ. Alex McFarland’s Website, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, & YouTube. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“But to make our home a reflection of heaven on earth, we also need to be thinking about God's characteristics, who he is, and how we can demonstrate that in our homes. How can we ultimately have a sense of security, a sense of peace and protection, a sense of order?” – Lori Wildenberg. Once a month, Lori and Lee Ann will discuss complex topics regarding parenting and disciplining. Lori Wildenberg is a national speaker, a licensed parent-family educator of over 25 years, and an award-winning author of six Christian parenting books. Lori also leads the popular Moms Together Facebook Community Page and Group. During this episode of MOMents with Lori and LeeAnn, both ladies discuss how you can make your home a reflection of heaven on earth. They explore spiritual, emotional, and physical aspects, emphasizing the importance of prayer, meditation, and modeling virtuous behavior for our children. Key Takeaways: Demonstrating God's characteristics and encouraging the Fruits of the Spirit. Modeling a close relationship with God and including children in spiritual practices like singing praise and praying. Being able to manage fear, anger, and sadness. Reflecting God's holiness in emotional responses. Building trust in God during challenging situations. Physically, room by room, anointing oil and praying over each room. Incorporating scripture and crosses in the home. Placing plaques and Bible verses throughout the home to create visual reminders of Jesus. Emphasizing the importance of forgiveness in the home environment. “I do believe the reason that God has given us the emotion of anger is so that we can understand what perhaps injustice looks like for someone else, see that we can stand up to that bully. Things like that, those are good things. That's a good way to express anger. That's a holy way.” – Lori Wildenberg. Lori’s Website, Facebook, Moms Together Facebook, Moms Together Facebook Group, and Instagram. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

Mary DeMuth is an international speaker, podcaster, and author of nearly 50 books, fiction and nonfiction. As an avid Bible reader, she has guided many people into the Scriptures to supercharge their faith. Through God’s healing, Mary has overcome a difficult past to become an authentic example of what it means to live a brand-new story. She loves to help others “re-story” their lives through the books she writes. Mary lives in Texas with her husband of 33 years and is mom to three adult children. During this episode, Mary talks about the vital role of impactful communication and how to empower adult children while maintaining a strong, supportive relationship. Mary shares insights from her book, Love, Pray, Listen: Parenting Your Wayward Adult Kids with Joy, offering practical advice, biblical perspectives, and even a free resource of personalized prayers. She addresses the complexities of modern parenting, covering topics such as differing political views, approaching concerns about adult children, and leveraging scriptures like 1 Corinthians 13 to guide parenting at any age. Key Takeaways: Discussion about the challenges of establishing healthy boundaries and managing expectations with adult children. The shift in the parental role from control to support and advisory. Misconceptions about perfect parenting and the need for adapting to changing dynamics. Importance of impactful communication at different stages of parenting. Advice for setting up healthy communication patterns with young children to carry into adulthood. Emphasizing the shift from control to relationship-based parenting as children grow older. Navigating differing political views within the family. Dealing with adult children heading down the wrong path and how to approach the situation. How Scripture can help navigate parenting adult children. The application of love as the most important virtue in parenting. Mary’s website, free resources, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, & Podcast. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.

“Can we just be challenged enough to say, "It's going be dirty and messy and hard, but at the same time, would we want to go to heaven any other way?" And if we want to raise kids, I pray for my kids every day that they chase after the God-sized dreams. But if we want that, then we have to do that ourselves - we have to model it. And so, my challenge for myself and my family and for all of us is to envision that.” – Cynthia Yanof. Cynthia is a wife, mother, podcaster, blogger, and everyday girl who is committed to not taking herself too seriously. She hosts the popular MESSmerized podcast and spends her days laughing, parenting, and praying for her family to chase after their God-sized dreams. Her first book, Life is Messy, God is Good, is available now on Amazon. During this episode, Cynthia discusses the impact of adoption on family dynamics, the importance of living with the end in mind, and the transformative power of faith. Cynthia shares personal stories of parenting struggles and triumphs, highlighting the need to challenge oneself and live life unafraid of getting messy. Key Takeaways: The lies parents believe, such as being defined by their kids' successes and failures, feeling inadequate, or seeking universal acceptance. Navigating the messy moments of parenting with faith and humor. Empowering parents to align their beliefs with God's truth. Encouragement for parents to help their children envision their future through exposure and support. An anecdote about Cynthia's son's struggles with reading in first grade and how it led to unexpected positive qualities in him as a teenager. Emphasizing the importance of believing in God's plan for children, even in difficult times. Cynthia's experience with foster care and the transformation it brought to her and her family. The impact of adoption on the family's dynamics and the spiritual growth resulting from stepping out in faith. The inspirational story of a secret service agent during the 9/11 attacks, emphasizing the idea of not going to heaven in a clean suit. Encouragement for parents to live each day with the end in mind, embracing the call to do the hard things and model godly perseverance for our children. RCK social media: Facebook Join our Facebook community group! Instagram Pinterest Love this episode? Please leave us a rating/review and share this episode with a friend! You can find a list of all our episodes here.