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Episode 254: Dating for shared interests
Episode 254

Episode 254: Dating for shared interests

PsycHacks

November 20, 20225h 2m

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Show Notes

Many people often approach dating through the lens of shared interests. While there is a grain of wisdom to this perspective, it ultimately doesn't make a lot of sense to do this. And there are two main reasons for this. First: shared interests are factual disclosures, and factual disclosures do not increase attraction or chemistry (which is what people are generally looking for in a relationship). And second: your interests (and your partner's interests) will change in time. If the basis of your relationship is your shared interests, how will it continue when those interests inevitably shift?

#dating #attraction #relationship