Probably True

Constantly beset and bedevilled by the feeling you're Not Doing Gay Right? (Or trans, or non-binary, or bi, etc, etc) Me too! A little look at what it means to be visible, who decides if we're doing it right, and something about a Findus Crispy Pancake that will probably put you off your dinner. Don't let the straights get inside your head, they'll only make you boring.Monkeypox: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CgQC8CYvpZa/Probably True on YouTube! https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube  Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord  Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[TRIGGER WARNING: CONVERSION THERAPY] Ex-outreach pastor for notorious Ex-Gay religious organisation Exodus Ministries, George, shares his story of how, when he tried to 'pray away the gay', he ended up gaying away the pray. Eventually. George's book, My Gay Church Days, is available now, and you can reach him via his Insta account, @MyGayChurchDays. Let him know I sent ya. ;)---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it worse to work in a boring 9-5 or get someone off in ten minutes and go back to bed? It's called a blow job for a reason, Stephanie. Stories of an amateur tart trading Gentleman's Services for a haircut, thoughts on happy endings, and the only kind of healing you get from crystals. ---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTube Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[CONTENT WARNING: Sexual and emotional abuse; thoughts of suicide.]Michael tells how his local priest insinuated his way into the lives of his devout family, before manipulating and abusing him over many years, how he managed to break free, and the difficulties he found when trying to hold those responsible accountable. A heavy listen, a story of abused power, suffering at the hands of people who consider themselves above the law, and the institution that enabled them. You can find copies of Michael's book at a variety of booksellers worldwide (where possible, use one of the smaller, independent ones), or by going to https://www.behindsacredwalls.com/ If you've been the victim of similar abuse by a priest or other religious figure, you can contact SNAP at https://www.snapnetwork.org/, or if you're a survivor of sexual violence of any kind, there is help available from https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ in the UK, https://www.rainn.org/ in the USA, https://fullstop.org.au/ in Australia, or by searching for similar in your country. --Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTubeJoin the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscordTranscripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The continuing non-binary adventures! A story that involves Mario Lopez, broken zippers, and the kindness of strangers. Or, how a vulnerable moment led to something beautiful. And slinky. And SWISHY. SO FLIPPIN SWISHY!I've just realised there's not even any sex in this one. Oh well. ---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers, and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscordTranscripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When the sex is that good, you can forgive them for almost anything... But is it good enough to keep going back, despite theft, armed robbery, and... a man asleep in a chair...? Demitri Wylde thinks so, especially as he got a video souvenir of the good bits.Check out his writing, podcasts, and sexual deviance right here, or just search for 'Demitri Wylde' wherever you want to find him. (And if anyone finds the video, please send me a link. For science.)---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access, stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTubeJoin the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscordTranscripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Probably True guide to Gay Saunas: What to expect, good etiquette, and some basic hot-tub maintenance.Roll on up for slime, sex and a sad story of a slippery mobile phone. Some say it's still there, waiting to be claimed by anyone brave or foolhardy enough to try... -Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access. stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Wonky YouTube videos: https://bit.ly/ProbablyTrueTubeJoin the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscordTranscripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From wandering into Heaven as a 15-year-old to living, loving, (and shagging) under the shadow of HIV in the 80s and 90s, Matthew Hodson, HIV activist and underwear model (or so he says), has plenty of stories to share. Including how he made a tidy profit the night he was unburdened of his virginity, and what happened when a journalist told his mum he was living with HIV.AIDSmap.com - @MatthewHodson on Twitter. - @MatthewhodsonLondon on Instagram---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Get exclusive content, early access. stickers and more by supporting Probably True on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscordTranscripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join the Probably True Discord chat thing: https://bit.ly/probtruediscord It's important to know whose rules we're playing by, and whether or not they work for us. The joy of queerness is that if they don't work, we can change them. And also we get free tacos on Tuesdays. Commemorating a sexy encounter, a shiny bicycle, and a wanky explanation about what works for you might not work for me, why that's ok, and what I can do about it. Also, don't be afraid to tell people how you feel. Or be afraid, then do it anyway. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Join the community on Discord: bit.ly/probtruediscord For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @scottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Boarding school shenanigans, first love, and overflowing pens: Elder Queer George shares some of his many adventures as a Good Boy turned badass.Enjoyed George's tales of debauchery and decadence? Drop him a line and tell him: [email protected] of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The final part of the Love Languages miniseries, brought to you from my mum's spare room, in the grand tradition of Christmas.Whether it's buying my way into relationships, compensating for my company, or just getting caught perving on a stranger by my boyfriend, gifts are a complicated part of life and love. ---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The next episode in the Love Languages miniseries looks at Quality Time: If you care about people, spend time with them. (There's a bit more to it than that but, admittedly, not much.)Also: Why it's not a good idea to suffocate feelings with DimSum; how I'm part canine; and a general warning about drum circles.COMING SOON: The Probably True Ask Me Anything Christmas episodet! Get your questions in to [email protected] before December 20th to be involved, and be sure to provide your postal address so I can send stickers to everyone who submits a question I end up using.---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Part 3 of the Love Languages miniseries looks at Words of Affirmation: How to craft a compliment, how to make it all about them, and how to take (a compliment) like a pro. Also, Jurassic World, Americans, and getting addicted to saying nice things about people. It's like heroin, but not actually like it at all. --- Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Good cuddles don't have to mean adequate diddling. Physically touching another human is extremely good for your mental health. It's got something to do with sea creatures. Possibly.Thoughts on non-sexual physical contact, intimacy, and an epiphany in crushed velvet.---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love languages: What are they? How do we use them? Can I have some cake? If I do it like this, will you be finished before the next episode starts? These and other questions will be answered in the first of a five-episode mini series looking into the many different ways we can tell the people in our lives how much we care. Or, if you're anything like me, realise that someone you dated years ago was really into you, but it went horribly wrong because you didn't share a love language.PROBABLY TRUE LIVE! I'll be on stage, telling stories at Common Counter in Shoreditch, East London, from 7.30 pm. Tickets are available at http://probtruepodlive.eventbrite.co.uk and they're selling fast, so HURRY!Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love, laughter and lobbing shoes: The story of a gay couple's journey to start a family, including temper tantrums, sneaky social workers, and a LOT of wine. Paul's podcast, Adoption Adventures, is available in all reputable podcast places, and on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.---Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you come out as Non-Binary? How do you know if you are, or not? Can I get a sponsorship deal after mentioning talking about my genitals so much? All these questions and more, answered with a resounding "I don't know. Sit down and have a biscuit."-----Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Created to remind all of our queer siblings that we are none of us alone.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  For early access, exclusive content, stickers and more, support Probably True on Patreon at Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, story submissions, and all things Probably True can be found at ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my conclusion.'Hating Peter Tatchell' is available now on Netflix and is definitely worth a watch.Check out http://petertatchellfoundation.org to sign up for the newsletter, and for details on Reclaim Pride.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences. Those experiences include: the quest for the mind-blowing orgasm; A celebrity lion at Burning Man; and Fear and Quilting in D.C.An episode about drugs, sex and a desert full of hippies. Amongst other things.TheNakedTruthFilm.comInstagram.com/jasondecker42/Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What it means to be visibly queer when you're surrounded by boring people: Creating a Queer Nation, having fun at the Olympics and a potted history of The X-Men. Sort of. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck.Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes), going gay without moving a muscle, and giving the boys tips on their technique. As it were.Nevo's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nevozisin/ and their new book, The Pronoun Lowdown: https://www.nevozisin.com/books/pronoun-lowdown-Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As lockdown restrictions start to ease, social anxieties and a lack of conversation materials cause awkwardness and general confusion. Can you lose your flirting mojo? What happens when you send an awkward email? The best thing to do is go home and eat a Twix.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn: It all started with some unusual glasses and some fairly innocent photos, but ended up learning to love your disability, exploring some niche fetishes, and celebrating the things we do to pay the bills. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping. The main thrust (lol) is to make the whole thing a team effort, not just a sprint for the finish. Of course, we can't talk for long about sticking body parts into one another before bumping into our old friend Toxic Masculinity.  Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal. From family fights to under a literal spotlight, Mike talks us through some of the moments where he kinda came out, but also didn't. It's complicated. But it probably didn't need to be.My Best Friend's Journal is Oprah (no, not that Oprah)'s favourite podcast, and is available at mybestfriendsjournal.com/. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True is the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of. A quick and silly glance at some of the things about being gay that they don't put in the brochure. Also, use more lube. Seriously. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[CW: Substance abuse]Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen. Cups of tea, for example. Paper towels, perhaps. Sometimes even various bodily fluids. Still, it's good to be helpful, and important to be polite, right? Sexual health advocate Tom Hayes shares stories, resources and some particularly gross details of his adventures.You can find out more about Tom's work at http://beyondpositive.org and annoy him on Twitter at http://twitter.com/PositiveLad Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

'Tackling' the 'important' issues of queer lockdown. Or just talking about w*nking for a few minutes. Either way, this episode looks at self-medication via masturbation, strategies to avoid boner burnout, and asks "do you need to get consent from someone before masturbating over them? (Hint: No, that's weird. And possibly sexual harassment.)Erotic audio Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/latenightlistenStories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time. Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com  Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time? What happens when your Friends With Benefits want to become more than that? All these questions and several more answered by Martin Harding as he tells the story of his journey into polyamory, and the fun he's had along the way. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The postman sent me off on a bit of an existential spiral, there's stuff coming at my head, and I've got a wizard in my pants. Another normal week in lockdown. A wonky look at the basics of code-switching, the secret signals we all give off, and a visit from my granddad, who died many years ago.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Three different coming-outs, a traumatic experience in a sauna, and something that is DEFINITELY not a candle. Max Appenroth shares stories of transmasculine life, an often-overlooked part of the LGBTQ community.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True: ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Drugs: Just say maybe. Stories of why it's not great to mix the funparts and funny stuff. All the filth you've come to expect, this week with a side order of Devil's Letteuce. Grab some snacks, put on some ambient music, and let's make an evening of it. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it’s a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Support the show on Patreon: Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue Transcripts, submit a story, and all things Probably True:  ProbablyTruePodcast.com   Some fool on Twitter: @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Singer, Songwriter and TikTok "star" Jay Malsky shares a couple of Christmas-themed stories to get you through the holiday season: One is a tale of strange vengeance served (very) cold; the other a heartwarming (or at least, leg-warming) tale of trying something new.Listen to Jay's (very fun) music on Spotify. CHRISTMAS LIVE STREAM: Sunday 20th December on Twitter (@scottFlashheart) and Instagram (@scottlovescake) at 6pm GMT.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com / @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A dramatic interpretation of some of the things that might possibly have gone through my head during sex. Featuring the debut performance of My Squeaky Bed. Thanks to all the boys I've slept with who might see themselves in this dramatic rendition. It is definitely you personally I am talking about.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com / @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"HIV is the best thing that's ever happened to me" is not a phrase you'd expect to hear, but when listener Bryan contacted me with his story, World AIDS Day seemed the perfect time to share it. Sometimes the best thing in the world is the worst thing we can think of, as it can help reframe our problems, and help us get the help we didn't realise we need.Get all of the HIV-related episodes of Probably True in one place right here: https://bit.ly/probablytruepodhiv Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com / @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When our own actions haunt us, who can we turn to for forgiveness? Queeks co-host Cody talks about a Trial By Dick, the unexpected weight of a panicked decision, and how, sometimes, we get a chance to make things right for others and for ourselves.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com / @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A guide to DEFINITELY NOT having sex in public, because that's a NAUGHTY CRIME. And some thoughts on what to do if you decide you want to BREAK THE LAW, what it means to be community-minded when shagging in public, and why it can be seen as a bit like a heist movie: Get in, get it done, get out and no-one is any the wiser. Also, Americans tend to be too loud at everything. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.  Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.   Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue /   ProbablyTruePodcast.com   / @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"What would your mum think?" is one of those questions thrown at porn stars and sex-workers in general. Neuroscientist and Person of Porn Leander decided to find out. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.  Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.   Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com   / @ScottFlashheart  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why the thrill of the chase stops being thrilling after a while. Planning messages to hot guys weeks in advance probably isn't healthy for a relationship; sometimes it's hard ot admit that he's just not that into you, and why does that part of my body smell like that?Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.  Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue / ProbablyTruePodcast.com / @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After literally some demand, I caved and started an Onlyfans channel! https://onlyfans.com/latenightlisten - For the equivalent of a cup of coffee a month, you can enjoy some artisanal audio erotica. From my dirty mouth to your sexy ears. Join up, tell your friends share it far and wide - I've got bills to pay. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A quick trailer for the Probably True Podcast: Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In celebration of the 100th episode of Probably True, here are a few weird euphemisms for sex that I found while doing my research.I hope you enjoy them as much as I did.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\  @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Handsome, charming, talented museum worker and lockdown internet celebrity Sacha Coward talks us through some personal history, including how he learned he was gay from a medical textbook; how he learned about bumsex from his mum; and all the things he had to unlearn as he realised being gay wasn't a shameful thing.Recorded live via Zoom as part of Rise & Shine Podcast Festival in March this year, this episode has some audio issues but stick with it if you can.How to be a better black allySacha's Twitter: http://twitter.com/sacha_cowardRise & Shine: https://www.riseandshineaudio.com/Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are thirsty messages a sign of deeper hunger? Is honesty in sexts the best way to go? What are the drawbacks of hugging smelly people? Does anyone have any Chianti? These and several other questions pondered in an episode on the importance of touch, and what happens when humans are deprived of it.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way. Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time. Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\  @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A damaged mic cable means no new episode this week, so while I wait for the new one to arrive, here's a re-run of an old episode from Season 3, titled Respect.The tale of my first Grindr date, ways to avoid green tea spray, and a gamer's perspective on doing 'bum stuff'. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\  @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love, loss and late-night bus stop shenanigans. Paul Burston, author and host of literary salon Polari, talks about his route into activism, the community spirit (and boring meetings) that come with it, and why "So many men, so little time" is a phrase with a deeper meaning.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everything you wanted to know about squirting water up your nethers. And several things you probably really didn't.All about cleaning 'house', planning your orgasms and why, sometimes, accidents happen. Why are some Hygiene Products scented? Do you need a 'fresh' minge? What would the masculine equivalents be?You might not want to listen to this one while eating, tbh.Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After a few heavy-yet-important episodes, it's time for something a bit more fun. Please join me in a lovely chat with the enchanting Michael Hollick, as we talk pulling at The Proms, accidentally starting a taxi service, and some thoughts on why, after 50-something years of experience, it's clear that kindness isn't just useful, but necessary. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Someone ruined sex for me, and now I'm doing the same for you. LIVE SHOW - SAT 2ND MAY - TICKETS AVAILABLE: https://www.riseandshineaudio.com/festivalSome thoughts on hair growth during lockdown, a moment of asking for money, followed by part of a recent standup comedy routine I performed online with Strange Brew Comedy (https://www.facebook.com/strangebrewcomedynight/). Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The second part of my HIV chat with Handsome Doctor Seán Cassidy and his lovely Irish accent. We bust some HIV myths, and talk more about PEP, PrEP, seroconversion and other interesting HIV-related things.This episode was made possible with the generous help of the BPA Pulse Fund and the Wellcome Trust. Additional music from ZapSplat.com Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.Always interesting, definitely amusing, Probably True - the repeatedly-award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and engaging way.Much like its creator, it is a smutty-but-charming collection of personal misadventures working to make the world a better place, one silly, sexy story at a time.Patreon.com/ProbablyTrue // ProbablyTruePodcast.com \\ @ScottFlashheart Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.