Please Me! Podcast with Eve

In this episode of Please Me, Eve introduces The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure—a proven, clinically informed system designed to help men and women prevent and improve common sexual health challenges before they become long-term issues. From erectile dysfunction and vaginal dryness to low libido, decreased sensitivity, and performance concerns, Eve breaks down why these experiences are not just a normal part of aging—and what’s actually happening in the body when sexual function begins to decline. At the core of sexual longevity is a powerful truth: sexual function is deeply connected to blood flow, consistent stimulation, and nervous system regulation. When these systems are supported, pleasure, confidence, and connection don’t have to fade—they can be maintained and even improved over time. Eve introduces a prevention-first approach to sexual wellness, showing why what you do now directly impacts your future sex life—and why waiting until something is “wrong” is the biggest mistake people make. About the Course: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure is a 3-module, self-paced course designed so you can take control of your sexual health from the comfort and privacy of your own home—no need to work with Eve directly to experience the benefits. Inside, you’ll find: Module 1: Women’s Sexual Health HacksTargeted strategies to support arousal, lubrication, sensitivity, and long-term vaginal health Module 2: Men’s Sexual Health HacksPractical tools to improve erectile function, stamina, performance, and confidence Module 3: Safety Sexual Health HacksA critical, often overlooked component focused on nervous system regulation, safety, and sustainable pleasure—because true sexual longevity requires both physical function and a regulated, responsive body This private client blueprint is designed to help you restore, maintain, and protect your sexual function for years to come—without guesswork. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The real root cause behind declining sexual function (vascular health) How to improve arousal, sensitivity, and sexual performance naturally The role of the nervous system in pleasure, safety, and intimacy How to prevent vaginal atrophy and erectile dysfunction Why a proactive sexual wellness routine is essential for long-term pleasure Ready to Go Deeper? Unlock the full method here: The Sexual Longevity Protocol: The Private Client Blueprint for Lifelong Sexual Pleasure The Sexual Longevity Protocol Course - Please Me! Not ready for the full protocol? Start here—free—and begin rebuilding connection, sensation, and pleasure from the comfort of your own home: 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices⁠The 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices - Please Me!⁠ Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Please Me Podcast, host Eve Hall sits down with renowned certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart for a powerful conversation about seduction styles, intimacy, sexual communication, and authentic connection in relationships. Marla, founder of Velvet Lips and co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference, shares insights from more than two decades of studying human sexuality and helping individuals and couples improve their sex lives. Together, they explore the three seduction styles and explain how understanding these styles can transform attraction, dating, communication, and intimacy. Rather than manipulation, seduction is about recognizing your sexual strengths and using them to build genuine emotional and physical connection. This episode explores how visual, auditory, and tactile seduction styles influence the way we flirt, attract partners, and create deeper relationships. Listeners will gain practical relationship advice, sexual wellness insights, and dating guidance for creating stronger emotional and erotic connections. Whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding seduction styles can help you communicate better, increase attraction, and build more fulfilling intimacy. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • The three seduction styles: visual, auditory, and tactile • How to identify your seduction style and your partner’s • Why seduction is about authentic connection—not manipulation • How communication improves intimacy and attraction • Common sexual challenges couples experience in relationships • Strategies to reconnect with a partner sexually and emotionally • Dating advice for singles looking for deeper relationships • Why shared values are essential for long-term compatibility Website:velvetlipssexed.com Website:https://pleaseme.online Socials & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content):https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

in this episode of Please Me!, we dive into women’s sexual wellness, intimacy, and confidence with Jennifer Fonseca, a nurse practitioner at Liquivida Wellness. We discuss how to navigate changes in sexual health due to aging, perimenopause, medications, stress, and lifestyle factors. Jennifer explains advanced treatment options such as Morpheus RF microneedling, vaginal fillers, and how holistic care combined with open communication can enhance intimacy and confidence. Jennifer also shares her approach to creating a safe, judgment-free space for patients, empowering women to advocate for themselves, and maintaining sexual wellness well into later life. Topics Covered Vaginal health concerns: dryness, painful intercourse, and tissue changes The effects of stress, hormones, and mental health on sexual function Aesthetic and functional treatments for vaginal rejuvenation Featured Treatments Morpheus RF Microneedling – Tissue tightening and collagen stimulation (with a recommended 72-hour intimacy wait) O-Shot – G-spot injections designed to enhance sensation Dermal Fillers – Support for labial structure and confidence Partner communication and introducing new experiences in the bedroom Holistic approaches to sexual wellness and long-term vitality Roleplay exercise modeling healthy communication Practical advice for women to advocate for their sexual health How to Connect with Jennifer Fonseca Website: https://www.liquivida.com/wellington Instagram: @LiquividaWellington How to Connect with Eve & Please Me! Website: https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact: https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon – Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content: https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Eve sits down with Xanet Pailet — former healthcare attorney turned sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and retreat leader. After leaving a 20+ year marriage that had become largely sexless, Xanet began a transformative journey of healing sexual shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection. At age 50, she realized that desire doesn’t disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship. Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy Why repair is critical in long-term relationships The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices How to start difficult conversations about sex Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection Intimacy Equation QuizA playful conversation starter to explore your intimacy style: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com Website & Retreats: https://passionateintimacyretreats.com Books: Living an Orgasmic Life The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org. Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon – Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices