E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex
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Show Notes
Ask a sex therapist is back!
Have you ever Googled something about sex and then immediately deleted your search history? 🥵
In this week’s episode, Vanessa (a sex therapist with 20+ years of experience) and Xander (her ever-curious, regular dude husband) answer your most personal, pressing, wait-am-I-the-only-one? questions about sex, intimacy, and everything in between.
Here’s what we’re diving into:
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Is it weird if my partner and I don’t kiss during sex? (Pretty Woman, anyone?)
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What exactly is pegging?
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Is it normal for other things to be “better than sex”?
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Can using a penis pump have consequences?
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Should you get a vasectomy? (Xander’s in the club!)
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Postpartum sex — what are men really thinking?
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Can responsive/spontaneous desire be taught? Like can you switch your type?
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Resources Mentioned:
Ultimate Foreplay Guides 👉🏻 https://vmtherapy.com/foreplay
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