Passion Struck with John R. Miles

You’re doing everything right—so why does it still feel wrong?In this powerful solo episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles launches the new April series Purpose by Design by exposing a hidden force shaping modern life: the Invisible Scoreboard. It’s the system of metrics you didn’t consciously choose—but that quietly defines how you measure success, spend your time, and evaluate your worth.From chasing productivity and responsiveness to optimizing for external validation, many high performers are unknowingly winning the wrong game—building lives that look successful on paper but feel misaligned in reality.Through a deeply personal story and a transformative framework, John reveals why this gap exists and introduces a new way of thinking about success: the ROI of Aliveness. This episode challenges you to rethink what counts, reclaim your time and attention, and begin designing a life that actually feels like your own.Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is consistently ranked among the world’s top business, mindset, and self-improvement podcasts.Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/winning-the-wrong-game/Explore guided prompts, reflections, and a companion guide for this episode at: https://TheIgnitedLife.netThank You to Our SponsorsLimited Time Offer – Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code PASSION at huel.com/passion. New Customers Only.Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show!Connect with JohnKeynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_MilesChildren’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/In this episode, we discuss:The Invisible Scoreboard: How modern life rewards speed, availability, and output—while quietly ignoring what actually makes life meaningful.Winning the Wrong Game: Why high performers can feel disconnected despite success—and how inherited metrics shape your identity and decisions.The 20,000-Mile Wake-Up Call: A defining personal moment that exposed the hidden cost of chasing external validation.The ROI of Aliveness: A new way to measure your life—not by what you produce, but by what your life actually feels like to live.The Alignment Gap: Why burnout and disconnection often stem from a mismatch between what’s rewarded and what truly matters.The 10% Reallocation: A simple, practical strategy to reclaim your time, attention, and agency—without blowing up your life.Support the MovementEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.comDisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if your exhaustion isn’t a personal failure, but the result of invisible systems shaping your life?In this episode of the Passion Struck podcast, I sit down with Wharton economist Corinne Low, author of Having It All, to unpack one of the most misunderstood challenges of modern life: why so many of us feel depleted even when we’re doing everything “right.”Corinne introduces a powerful idea called “the squeeze”—a period where demands on your time, energy, and identity all peak at once, while your resources lag behind. Careers demand more. Parenting expectations intensify. Household responsibilities don’t disappear—they become invisible.The result? A life that feels full… but not fulfilling.Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web and is consistently recognized among the world’s top business and mindset podcasts.Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/the-economics-of-exhaustion-modern-burnout/Explore guided prompts, reflections, and a companion reflection guide connected to this episode at: https://TheIgnitedLife.netThank You to Our SponsorsLimited Time Offer – Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code PASSION at huel.com/passion. New Customers Only. Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show!Connect with JohnKeynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_MilesChildren’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/Get the book Having It All: https://www.corinnelow.com/bookIn This Episode, You Will Learn:How invisible “deals” shape your career, relationships, and identity—often without your awareness.Why do people stay in unsustainable arrangementsHow societal expectations distort your choices,What it means to design your life around your personal utility function—the things that will actually matter at the end of your life.Support the MovementEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.comDisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the real crisis of our time isn’t stress, burnout, or even anxiety—but a loss of meaning?In this powerful episode of the Passion Struck podcast, I sit down with Arthur Brooks—for the third time—to explore his most urgent work yet: The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness.Arthur reveals a striking trend: since 2008, rates of depression and anxiety—especially among young, high-achieving individuals—have surged dramatically. But beneath the surface, he argues, this isn’t just a mental health crisis. It’s a meaning crisis.We’ve built a world optimized for achievement, productivity, and constant stimulation—yet increasingly disconnected from the deeper human needs that make life feel worth living. In this conversation, we explore why success without meaning often leads to emptiness, how modern life pulls us away from purpose, and what it actually takes to build a life rooted in coherence, significance, and service.Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web and is consistently recognized among the world’s top business and mindset podcasts.Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/arthur-brooks-the-meaning-of-your-life/Explore guided prompts, reflections, and a companion reflection guide connected to this episode at: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/why-we-are-losing-the-war-for-meaningThank You to Our SponsorsLimited Time Offer – Get Huel today with my exclusive offer of 15% OFF online with my code PASSION at huel.com/passion. New Customers Only. Thank you to Huel for partnering and supporting our show!Connect with JohnKeynotes, books, podcast, and resources: https://linktr.ee/John_R_MilesChildren’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/Get the book The Meaning of Your Life: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/the-meaning-of-your-lifeIn This Episode, You Will Learn:The Psychogenic Epidemic: Why college-educated young adults are experiencing a crisis of meaning despite having the "most going for them".The Left Brain Trap: How modern life overemphasizes productivity and logic while neglecting love, connection, and transcendence.Love and Service as Anchors: Why meaning is not found in what you achieve, but in how you relate to others and contribute beyond yourself.Technology and Disconnection: How constant stimulation and digital engagement are quietly eroding our sense of meaning and belonging.Transcendence and Purpose: Why connecting to something greater than yourself is essential for long-term fulfillment and wellbeing.Designing a Meaningful Life: Practical ways to realign your life toward purpose in a world that constantly pulls you away from it.Support the MovementEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.comDisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.