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Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

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How to Feel Calmer When Your Child Doesn't Do it Right

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explains how the childhood wound of injustice can shape parenting patterns and trigger reactivity. She describes how growing up in rigid, high-pressure environments can lead parents to become overly rule-oriented, inflexible, and reactive when their children struggle to meet expectations. Marcela shares how this wound affects both parents and children, and offers practical shifts to move from pressure to support, from rigidity to flexibility, and from reactive parenting to secure parenting. This episode is part of the six-part series on understanding your inner child to transform your parenting. If you’re ready to stop reacting in anger, understand why your child’s behavior triggers you so deeply, and become a more secure parent… this episode is for you. Your child is not the problem. The wound is the pattern. And once you understand it, you can change it. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class. @highimpactclub @hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Mar 31, 202625 min

Transforming Shame into Conscious Parenting

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how shame-based experiences from childhood can quietly shape the way parents react to their children today. She explains how this wound is created, how it shows up in parenting through embarrassment, harsh correction, and defensiveness, and how parents can begin changing the narrative with more awareness, regulation, and safety.

Mar 17, 202637 min

It's Not Your Child, It's Your Abandonment Trauma

In this episode, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how it silently shapes your parenting reactions. She explains how shame, embarrassment, and defensiveness often stem from old wounds — and how awareness and new skills can help you stop passing it on to your children. DM “peace 25” on Instagram to access the free class and learn how to become a secure parent.

Mar 4, 202637 min

Calm Down Your Child’s Triggers With the P.E.A.C.E. Process

In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the B-E-A-C-E process, a practical framework to help parents calm triggers and manage their children’s emotional responses in a respectful way. Whether you're dealing with reactions during tantrums or stressors caused by trauma, these tools are essential for fostering emotional regulation and security. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Feb 3, 202636 min

How to Calm Down BIG Emotions in Your Child.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to calm children's big emotions without resorting to yelling or punishment. She introduces the concept of behavior levels, explaining how understanding these can help prevent meltdowns. Marcela emphasizes the importance of recognizing early signs of anxiety and defensiveness in children and offers practical strategies for parents to address these behaviors effectively. The episode is part of a five-part series aimed at helping parents raise emotionally secure children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Jan 20, 202625 min

How This Father Ended the Cycle of Reactivity. Marco's Story

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier interviews Marco Hansell, a client who transformed his parenting approach from reactive to secure. They discuss the challenges Marco faced, including feeling disconnected from his son and struggling with co-parenting dynamics. Through HIC Parenting, Marco learned emotional regulation, mind sight, and positive discipline, which helped him create a more peaceful family environment. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and seeking support to improve parenting skills. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Jan 6, 202638 min

How to Repair With Your Child After Yelling

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of repairing relationships with children after moments of reactivity, such as yelling. She emphasizes that meaningful repair can prevent damage to the parent-child relationship and enhance children's self-esteem. Marcela shares insights on how to repair from a place of self-compassion rather than shame, offering practical steps and scripts for parents to reconnect with their children. She also highlights the role of storytelling and role play in helping young children understand and process these moments. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Dec 23, 202524 min

Tools For Instant Calm Every Parent Needs to Know.

Marcela Collier shares tools for instant calm in parenting, focusing on understanding reactivity as an inner world issue. She introduces the Anchor method, emphasizing body awareness, naming emotions, and connecting to sensory tools. The episode highlights the importance of nervous system regulation and offers practical steps for parents to regain calm and presence. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Dec 16, 202527 min

Why You Yell Even if You Don't Want to.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, head coach of HIC Parenting Education Agency and host of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, explores the root causes of parental yelling and reactivity. She discusses the "fire alarm" and "pressure cooker" reactive cycles, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's relationship with anger. Marcela introduces a four-step system to break free from reactivity and highlights the significance of a secure relationship with anger, where parents acknowledge, listen to, and constructively mobilize their anger. The episode encourages reflection on personal anger patterns and offers resources for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Dec 9, 202523 min

The Path of Becoming a Secure Calm Parent With Your Kids.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the challenges and paths to becoming a secure, emotionally regulated parent. She emphasizes that every stage of parenting is difficult and requires choosing the hard path of developing emotional regulation, mindset, and positive discipline skills. Marcela shares a story of a single mom who transformed her parenting approach by mastering these skills, leading to a more peaceful family environment. The episode encourages parents to break away from reactive patterns and offers a free class to help them develop necessary skills. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Dec 2, 202519 min

How to Let Go of Control Parenting Your Child

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of letting go of control in parenting and embracing trust. She shares insights from Dr. Delany, a psychologist and relationship coach, on how trust can lead to a more peaceful parenting experience. Marcela emphasizes the need to trust in our training, our children, their process, and their choices, while also anchoring ourselves in core values or beliefs. She offers practical advice for parents struggling with control and encourages them to face their trust wounds to foster healing and growth. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Nov 25, 202519 min

The Most Powerful Parenting Decision That You Will Ever Make.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the transformative power of choosing healing in parenting. She shares personal stories and insights on how unresolved childhood trauma can affect parenting styles and emphasizes the importance of awareness, emotional regulation, and seeking support. Marcela introduces a simple system to help parents break away from reactivity and parent with peace, offering a free class for further learning. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Nov 18, 202523 min

How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids Using Mindfulness.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how parents can break the cycle of yelling at their children by practicing mindfulness. She emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's inner voice, challenging critical thoughts, and developing skills like mind sight and emotional regulation. Marcela also shares insights on how curiosity and compassion can transform parenting approaches, leading to more peaceful and understanding interactions with children. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Nov 11, 202522 min

The Secret to Not Be an Anxious Parent and Raise Your Child With Peace.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses overcoming parental anxiety by choosing freedom, one of the six daily choices from the book "Building a Non-Anxious Life." She explores how parents can change their relationship with time to reduce anxiety and improve their parenting experience. Marcela shares personal stories and practical tips on creating space for freedom, managing schedules, and setting boundaries to foster a healthier family dynamic. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Nov 4, 202523 min

Bring Peace to Your Parenting With This Daily Choice

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the importance of choosing connection to build a non-anxious parenting life. She shares personal experiences and insights on overcoming loneliness and societal pressures, emphasizing the need for community and support in parenting. Marcela also introduces Dr. Deloni's six daily choices for a non-anxious life, focusing on the choice of connection. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Oct 28, 202535 min

Anxiety Free Parenting By Embracing Reality.

In this episode, Marcela Collier discusses how to embrace an anxiety-free parenting life, even if diagnosed with anxiety, ADHD, or autism. She shares insights from Dr. Delonis' book "Building a Non-Anxious Life" and emphasizes the importance of choosing reality and emotional regulation skills. Marcela encourages parents to break away from reactivity and control, and to face reality with acceptance and empathy. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactclub@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Oct 21, 202521 min

Parenting on Edge? How to Stop The Hidden Alarm.

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses the hidden alarm of anxiety in parenting and how it affects our ability to parent with peace. She explores the root causes of anxiety, such as limiting beliefs, trauma responses, chronic unmet needs, and lack of boundaries, and offers insights on how to address these issues to create a more peaceful parenting experience. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Oct 14, 202529 min

3 Steps to Be the Best Parents For our Children.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, shares three essential steps to becoming the best parent for your children. She emphasizes understanding behaviors as communication, combating negative bias, and balancing quality and quantity of time with kids. Marcela also discusses the importance of breaking away from reactivity and offers resources for further support.  If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Oct 7, 202518 min

How to Manage Traumatized Kids' Behaviors.

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, discusses managing behaviors in traumatized children. She shares insights from her experience in therapeutic foster care and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma's impact on the brain and the need for relational safety. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Sep 30, 202534 min

Behaviors in Autistic/ADHD kids. How to Handle Them With Care

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier discusses how to handle behaviors in neurodivergent children with care. She emphasizes understanding the purpose behind behaviors and adapting environments to support children's unique needs. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Sep 23, 202523 min

How to Teach Children Self Control With Emotional Intelligence

In this episode, Marcela Collier delves into the intricacies of teaching children self-control through emotional intelligence. She shares insights on understanding the root causes of unexplained aggressive behaviors in children and introduces the three pillars of emotional intelligence: body awareness, coping strategies, and emotional vocabulary. Through the story of Darryl, a child struggling with aggression due to past bullying, Marcela illustrates how therapeutic play and consistent practice can transform a child's ability to manage impulses and communicate feelings effectively. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Sep 16, 202538 min

Know What Your Child Needs Using The I.D.E.A Method

In this episode, Marcela Collier introduces the I.D.E.A Method, a comprehensive strategy to identify and address the needs of children, particularly those who are neurodivergent. Drawing from her extensive experience as a therapeutic provider, Marcela emphasizes the importance of understanding behaviors as expressions of underlying needs rather than problems to be solved superficially. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.

Sep 9, 202530 min

The Secret to Calming Down the Worst Meltdowns

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela shares her insights on managing intense child meltdowns. Drawing from personal experiences and research, Marcela introduces the concept of "personal attunement" as the key to calming these challenging moments. She emphasizes the importance of prioritizing a child's feelings and sense of safety, addressing underlying causes, and fostering a secure environment through co-regulation. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent.They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Sep 2, 202525 min

The Only Parenting Responses You'll EVER Need

In this episode, Marcela Collier, a certified parenting coach, delves into the four unique differences that influence children's behavior: biological, sensory, emotional, and thought processing. Learn how understanding these differences can help you respond to your child's needs without yelling, and bring peace to your parenting journey. If you’re ready to stop yelling, stop reacting in anger, and finally feel calm and confident when your child has a meltdown… this is for you. Your child’s behavior isn’t the real problem.That's the message. And once you learn to see it that way, you’ll stop fighting your child… and start healing your relationship with them. So don’t wait. DM me “peace 25” on Instagram right now and get started with the free class.@highimpactaz@hicparenting Because your child doesn’t need a perfect parent. They need a safe one. And that parent can be you.  

Aug 26, 202537 min

How This Mom Stopped Yelling at Her Child

In this episode, Marcela Collier talks with Christina, a parent who transformed her parenting approach through HIC coaching. Discover how Christina overcame reactivity and anxiety to foster a secure and calm environment for her child. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

Aug 19, 202535 min

3 Signs You're Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child

 Join Marcela in this insightful episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast as she explores the three key signs of raising an emotionally intelligent child. Discover the importance of calmness, connection, and communication in fostering social-emotional development. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class  

Aug 12, 202533 min

How to Stop Power Struggles Using Neuroception

In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela discusses the concept of neuroception and its significance in understanding children's behavior. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the different types of safety—physical, emotional, psychological, and relational—and how they impact children's actions. The conversation explores the roots of parental reactivity and the necessity for parents to cultivate a sense of calm and safety within themselves to effectively support their children If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

Aug 5, 202528 min

5 Ways to Build Secure Attachment

In this episode, Marcela discusses five essential ways to build secure attachment in children, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing relationships, ensuring emotional safety, maintaining consistency, understanding the needs behind behaviors, and focusing on emotional regulation rather than control. Through personal anecdotes and practical examples, she illustrates how these principles can transform parenting and foster a secure environment for children to thrive. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

Jul 29, 202535 min

How to Raise Secure Kids and Heal Avoidant Attachment Using Mindsight

In this episode, Marcela discusses the impact of insecure attachment styles on parenting, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. She explains how childhood experiences shape emotional responses and parenting behaviors, emphasizing the importance of emotional availability and connection.   If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs.In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm.✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no."✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class  

Jul 22, 202526 min

From Disorganized to Secure Attachment

Marcela shares why kids act out and why the behavior is not the real problem. She explains how parents can help their kids feel safe, loved, and understood. If you want to stop yelling and reacting in anger, and instead become a calm, confident parent who knows exactly how to respond during your child’s chaos… join our FREE class: The Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs. In this class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop angry reactions and respond with calm. ✅ How to get your kids to listen even when you say "no." ✅ How to raise emotionally healthy kids who feel safe and loved. 👉 Tap here to watch the free class

Jul 15, 202515 min

From Anxious to Secure Attachment

Marcela helps parents see that their child’s behavior isn’t the real problem. She shares why kids act out and how parents can help them feel safe and loved. 🎉 Free Class Invitation: Want to stop angry reactions and raise secure, confident kids? 🎥 Watch our free class: Break Free from Angry Reactions and Raise Secure Children with the Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs ✅ Learn our signature system to stay calm during your child’s chaos ✅ Find out how to say “no” and still be heard ✅ Start raising emotionally healthy children today 👉 Tap here to watch now

Jul 8, 202514 min

The 3 Elements of Secure Attachment

Marcela shares how parents can raise secure kids who feel safe, loved, and calm at home. She explains what really causes behavior problems and what parents can do instead of yelling or punishing. 👉 Want to stop yelling and reacting in anger? Join Marcela’s FREE class to learn her Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs. ✅ Stay calm during your child’s chaos ✅ Get your child to listen without yelling ✅ Raise confident, emotionally healthy kidsSign up here 👉

Jul 2, 202524 min

How to Teach Kids to Be Kind Through Mindsight. PART 2

In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the essential elements of teaching kindness to children. She emphasizes the importance of secure attachments, the role of mirror neurons in emotional development, and the need for parents to foster receptiveness over reactivity. By creating a fun and enjoyable environment, parents can build strong interpersonal relationships with their children, ultimately leading to the development of empathetic and kind individuals.

Jun 24, 202520 min

How to Teach Kids to Be Kind Through Mindsight. PART 1

In this episode of Parenting with Understanding, Marcela discusses the challenges of raising kind children, emphasizing the importance of self-kindness and understanding one's own mind through the concept of mind sight. Drawing on the work of Dr. Daniel Siegel, she explains how children's behaviors are influenced by their beliefs about themselves and how parents can help them develop a positive self-perception.   The episode also introduces practical tools like the Wheel of Awareness and the SIFT process to foster emotional awareness and kindness in children.   If this episode helped you understand your child more deeply, you’ll love Marcela’s free class. In this class, you’ll learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs so you can:✅ Stop yelling and respond calmly even during your child’s chaos.✅ Know exactly how to say “no” and still get your child to listen.✅ Raise an emotionally healthy child who’s ready for the real world. 👉 Click here to join the free class now

Jun 17, 202534 min

How to Help Children Heal From Bad Experiences

In this episode, Marcela shares how kids can heal from hard times like yelling, divorce, or even losing a pet. She tells real stories and explains why kids act out—and what parents can do to help. If this episode helped you understand your child more deeply, you’ll love Marcela’s free class. In this class, you’ll learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System of Needs so you can: ✅ Stop yelling and respond calmly even during your child’s chaos. ✅ Know exactly how to say “no” and still get your child to listen. ✅ Raise an emotionally healthy child who’s ready for the real world. 👉 Click here to join the free class now

Jun 10, 202535 min

How to Get Any Child's Attention With 2 Power Communication Strategies

This episode helps parents understand why their child’s behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shares two simple ways to help kids calm down and listen better. Want to stop angry reactions and become the calm parent your child needs? Join Marcela’s free class and learn: ✅ How to stay calm when your child is having a hard time. ✅ How to get your child to listen—even when you say "no." ✅ How to raise kids who feel safe, loved, and ready to face the world. Tap here to watch the free class now 

Jun 3, 202522 min

How to Raise an Emotionally Healthy Child

In this episode, Marcela shares how kids build emotional health, even when they cry or get upset. She explains how parents can help their child feel safe, calm, and understood during hard moments. 🎁 Free Class Invitation: Want to know exactly how to help your child during tantrums and big emotions? Join our free class: The U.S.E Method to Correct Any Behavior with Ease ✅ Learn how to stop angry reactions and stay calm ✅ Know how to talk so your child listens—even when you say “no” ✅ Raise a confident, emotionally healthy child without yelling or punishments 👉 Tap here to watch the class now

May 27, 202530 min

How to Reparent Yourself to Become a Secure Parent

Marcela talks about how parents can feel calmer and happier by giving themselves what they needed as kids. She shares how this helps children behave better too. 🎓 Free Class Invitation: Want to feel calm and help your child behave without yelling? Join Marcela’s free class, and learn simple steps to become a calm, confident parent. 👉 Tap here to watch the class now

May 20, 202520 min

Why You Keep Losing With Your Kids (Even When You know Better)

Marcela talks about why parents lose their cool even when they know better. She shares how to stay calm and help kids listen without yelling. 🎓 Free Class Invitation: Want to stay calm when your child melts down and get them to listen without yelling? Join Marcela’s free class, The U.S.E Method to Correct Any Behavior with Ease, and learn simple steps to become a calm, confident parent. 👉 Tap here to watch the class now

May 13, 202520 min

How to Calm Down an Aggressive Child Peacefully

Marcela explains why kids have big behaviors like hitting or yelling and what parents can do to help. She shares real stories and simple tips to stay calm and support your child when they’re upset. 🎓 Free Class Invitation: Want to stop angry reactions and learn how to respond calmly to your child’s behavior? Join Marcela’s free class, The U.S.E Method to Correct Any Behavior with Ease, and learn how to raise confident, emotionally healthy kids with peace and connection. 👉 Tap here to join the class

May 6, 202531 min

I Coached 14,151 Parents Who Wanted to Stop Yelling. This is What I Found

This episode helps parents understand why yelling and power struggles keep happening at home. Marcela explains that your child’s behavior isn’t the problem, and shows how to fix it so you can have more peace with your kids. Want to stop angry reactions and feel calm even when your child is upset? Sign up for Marcela’s free class and learn the Parenting With Understanding™ System to help your kids listen, build a happy home, and raise confident children. Click here to join the free class now!

Apr 29, 202520 min

4 Signs You're Having Healthy Boundaries With Your Kids

This episode helps parents see that their child's behavior is not the real problem. Marcela shows what kids really need and how to use kind and clear rules to help them grow. 🎁 Free Class Invitation: Want your kids to listen without yelling or punishments? Take our free class and learn the Parenting With Understanding System of Needs. You’ll learn: ✅ How to stay calm, even during chaos ✅ What your child really needs when they act out ✅ How to correct behavior without fear or harshness ✅ How to raise confident, kind, emotionally healthy kids 👉 Click here to watch the free class now You can become the peaceful, secure parent your child needs.

Apr 22, 202519 min

Your Child's Behaviors isn't the Problem. This is How to Fix It!

 Sometimes kids act out, but it doesn’t mean they’re bad. In this episode, Marcela explains what your child’s behavior really means and how you can help them feel safe and understood. ✨ Free Class Invitation If you're tired of yelling and want to feel calm, confident, and close to your kids — this free class is for you. You’ll learn the Parenting With Understanding System of Needs, a proven method to help you: ✅ Respond to your child’s needs accurately every single time ✅ Spot a power struggle coming and calm things down before they get wild ✅ Correct any behavior for the long term, so you see less of it ✅ Become a secure parent who calmly responds instead of reacting 💻 Sign up for the free class here

Apr 15, 202518 min

How NOT to Be Your Parents With Your Kids

This episode helps parents learn how to stop yelling and fighting with their kids every day. Marcela shares real stories and shows how to help kids behave better by understanding what they need. Tired of yelling, repeating yourself, and feeling frustrated when your child doesn’t listen? In this FREE class, you will learn:✅ How to stop reacting in frustration and start responding calmly.✅ The exact words to say so your child listens—without threats or punishments.✅ How to raise an emotionally healthy child who is confident and accountable. 👉 Grab your free spot now!  

Apr 8, 202522 min

How to Get Children to Behave Good. Preventative Discipline

Many parents feel like they are always putting out fires—tantrums, power struggles, and kids who just won’t listen. In this episode, Marcela shares how to prevent misbehavior before it starts, so parenting feels calmer and easier. Tired of yelling, repeating yourself, and feeling frustrated when your child doesn’t listen? In this FREE class, you will learn: ✅ How to stop reacting in frustration and start responding calmly. ✅ The exact words to say so your child listens—without threats or punishments. ✅ How to raise an emotionally healthy child who is confident and accountable. 👉 Grab your free spot now!

Mar 25, 202529 min

Discipline vs. Punishment: How to Guide Your Child Without Breaking Their Spirit

Many parents want to teach their kids right from wrong, but they don’t want to scare them or break their confidence. In this episode, Marcela explains the difference between discipline and punishment and shares practical ways to guide kids without fear or shame. 📢 FREE CLASS: Break Free from Angry Reactions & Raise Secure Kids If you’re tired of snapping, yelling, and struggling to stay calm, this free class will help. ✅ Learn our 4-step Parenting With Understanding™️ System to replace punishment with peace. ✅ Finally know how to set boundaries that your child actually listens to. ✅ Raise emotionally healthy, confident kids—without fear or punishment. 🎯 Click here to sign up now!  You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s break the cycle together. ❤️

Mar 18, 202530 min

Do you have a Hyper Child or Sensory Child? How to Calm them Down FAST

Some kids just can’t sit still! They jump, climb, run, and crash into things all day long. In this episode, Marcela shares why these kids act this way and how parents can help them feel calm—without yelling or punishments. 💡 Free Class: Break Free From Angry Reactions & Raise Secure Kids Parenting a sensory-seeking child can feel overwhelming. But you don’t have to do it alone! In my free class, I’ll teach you my simple 4-step system to help you stay calm, set boundaries, and raise an emotionally healthy child—without yelling, threats, or punishments. ✅ Learn how to stop reacting in anger and start responding with confidence✅ Find out what to say so your child actually listens to you—even when you say “no”✅ Get the tools to raise a secure child who feels safe, loved, and understood Spots are limited! Grab yours here  

Mar 11, 202525 min

How to Have an EASY Routine with your Picky Child

Getting your child dressed, brushing their teeth, or eating breakfast shouldn’t feel like a battle—but for parents of sensitive kids, it often does. In this episode, Marcela shares why picky kids struggle with daily routines and gives simple ways to make mornings, meals, and bedtime easier. 🎉 Free Class: Break Free from Angry Reactions & Raise Secure Kids If you feel frustrated when your child resists daily tasks, you’re not alone. Staying calm is hard when everything turns into a meltdown. That’s why I created a free class to help parents like you break free from angry reactions and respond with confidence. In this free class, you’ll learn: ✅ How to stop reactive parenting and stay calm—no matter what. ✅ How to communicate so your child actually listens—even when you say ‘no.’ ✅ How to raise emotionally secure kids who feel safe, respected, and heard. 🎉 Sign up for the free class here

Mar 4, 202521 min

How to Discipline Your Child Without Damaging the Connection

Disciplining kids can feel really hard. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can set rules and teach their kids without yelling, punishments, or hurting their bond. Want to Stay Calm and Discipline With Love? If you find yourself snapping, yelling, or falling into old patterns, you’re not alone. That’s why Marcela created a FREE class to help you break free from angry reactions and discipline in a way that works—without damaging your connection. ✅ Learn the 4 steps to go from reactivity to calm responses.✅ Get kids to listen—even when you say "no."✅ Raise emotionally strong kids who feel secure and loved. 🎟 Click here to register for free! 

Feb 25, 202523 min

How to Calm Down an Angry Child Using the 5 Love Languages

When kids get really angry, they don’t always know how to calm down. In this episode, Marcela shares how parents can use their child’s love language to help them feel safe, loved, and ready to talk instead of yell.   🎁 Free Class – Break Free from Angry Reactions & Raise Secure Kids!If your child’s big emotions trigger your own, you are not alone. In my free class, you’ll learn a simple 4-step system to stay calm, set firm limits without yelling, and help your child feel safe enough to listen.   ✅ How to stop reacting and start responding with confidence✅ The key to setting boundaries in a way that your child actually listens✅ How to raise an emotionally healthy child who can handle big feelings 💡 Click here to sign up for free!  

Feb 18, 202523 min