Other Men Need Help

In this bonus episode, we share a special conversation between Mark and Anita Rao from the show Embodied. Together, they unpack how shame can limit male friendship, why many men funnel emotional needs into romantic relationships, and what it looks like to practice a different kind of closeness—one ritual, text thread, or brave conversation at a time.For more on Embodied: https://www.wunc.org/show/embodiedSubscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets, stories, and essays: https://markpagan.substack.com/Find us on Instagram to look at pretty pics: https://www.instagram.com/othermenneedhelp/Subscribe to us on YouTube to watch our flicks: https://www.youtube.com/@themarkpaganAnd, for ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

In this bonus episode, Mark talks with writer and critic Jason Bailey about his new book on James Gandolfini—a revealing look at the man behind Tony Soprano. They dig into masculinity on screen, Gandolfini’s quiet emotional power, and why his legacy still shapes how men see themselves today. Plus: a reminder to check out this year’s Other Men Holiday Gift Guide.Other Men is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Mae Nagusky is our associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is our lead engineer. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group.Get your copy of the 2025 Other Men Gift Guide: https://markpagan.substack.com/p/i-asked-men-about-the-most-meaningfulFind us on Instagram to look at pretty pics: https://www.instagram.com/othermenneedhelp/Subscribe to us on YouTube to watch our flicks: https://www.youtube.com/@themarkpaganAnd, for ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

In this mini episode, Mark revisits the strange emotional landscape of March 2020 and the onscreen embrace that so many of us were craving as we look ahead to our upcoming virtual event on April 23rd, featuring a conversation with Jason Bailey, author of Gandolfini: Jim, Tony, and the Life of a Legend.Join us as we talk action heroes, parasocial dads, the power of a good hug, and why James Gandolfini still feels like he was ours.Other Men is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Mae Nagusky is our associate producer. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group.JOIN US for our virtual chat with Jason Bailey, author of Gandolfini: Jim, Tony, and the Life of a Legend—a deep discussion about the legacy of Tony Soprano, fatherhood, the reevaluation of male sex symbols, and a whole lot more. This event is online, it’s free, and we’ll be giving away copies of Bailey’s book to lucky attendees. RSVP for this conversation—April 23rd @ 7:30pm ET: tinyurl.com/yj45ezc7

While Other Men is under construction, Mark answers a listener’s question about navigating a workplace softball league—and the lingering anxieties of being picked last. From sweaty banyas in Coney Island to team dynamics on the field, this mini episode explores competition, camaraderie, and finding your own way in spaces that don’t always feel like home. Plus, we share a special invite to an upcoming event on masculinity, fatherhood, and Tony Soprano.Other Men is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Mae Nagusky is our associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer.Original music by Fulton Street Music Group.Got a question about masculinity? Share your ask in our anonymous form and we'll answer it on the pod or Substack: bit.ly/4bOg0yxJOIN US for our virtual chat with Jason Bailey, author of Gandolfini: Jim, Tony, and the Life of a Legend—a deep discussion about the legacy of Tony Soprano, fatherhood, the reevaluation of male sex symbols, and a whole lot more. This event is online, it’s free, and we’ll be giving away copies of Bailey’s book to lucky attendees. RSVP for this conversation—April 23rd @ 7:30pm ET: tinyurl.com/yj45ezc7

This week, we're revisiting a classic episode in anticipation of the first, of many, virtual talks. Join us for a special virtual chat on November 19th at 7:30 pm ET with designer and journalist Natty Adams along with host Mark Pagán, live on Other Men Need Help’s Instagram! Don’t miss this chance to hear more behind-the-scenes stories and ask your own questions.In this fan favorite episode from our second season, Mark reflects on the awkward journey of finding his personal style, battling insecurities, and navigating a world of wide-legged pants, body hair, and fashion faux pas. Along the way, Mark meets the man who wrote the book on dandyism, Natty Adams, whose insights on men’s fashion and body image lead to a surprising, heartfelt connection.Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets, stories, and essays: https://markpagan.substack.com/Find us on Instagram to look at pretty pics: https://www.instagram.com/othermenneedhelp/Subscribe to us on YouTube to watch our flicks: https://www.youtube.com/@themarkpaganAnd, for ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

This week, we've shared seven tropes in masculine discourse we’d like to see changed in the next seven years. In this special Other Men-I, host Mark Pagán shares one more topical term that's he's privately been ruminating on changing.We’re working on Other Men 2.0 and really, really need your input on how we can make this a series, digital platform, or service that work best for you. It’ll take just a few minutes and all feedback is valuable. Thank you: https://forms.gle/U3MBciccFfJLhmuj6Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets, stories, and essays: https://markpagan.substack.com/Find us on Instagram to look at pretty pics: https://www.instagram.com/othermenneedhelp/Subscribe to us on YouTube to watch our flicks: https://www.youtube.com/@themarkpaganAnd, for ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

Other Men is seven years old. We've learned some lessons on masculinity over that time and in today's special episode, we share those tenets.We’re working on Other Men 2.0 and really, really need your input on how we can make this a series, digital platform, or service that work best for you. It’ll take just a few minutes and all feedback is valuable. Thank you: https://forms.gle/U3MBciccFfJLhmuj6Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets, stories, and essays: https://markpagan.substack.com/Find us on Instagram to look at pretty pics: https://www.instagram.com/othermenneedhelp/Subscribe to us on YouTube to watch our flicks: https://www.youtube.com/@themarkpaganAnd, for ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

Mark is getting married. And in the final episode of the season, he investigates the one wedding tradition that he’s been having an issue with. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. This episode was produced by Caitlin Mae Burke and Ben Goldberg. Caitlin Mae Burke, Ben Goldberg, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

In his search for someone, anyone to talk to about his complicated road to becoming a father, hopeful dad Kirk enlists Other Men to help document the solitary, but optimistic journey many men face in infertility spaces. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. This episode was produced by Ben Goldberg and Navani Otero, with production help from Cierra Franco. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

He shot! He scored! And then…? What happens to an athlete’s identity when age and new responsibilities ask him to add “former” to his title? Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. This episode was produced by Navani Otero. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

What lessons from childhood are you still trying to make sense of? Zak comes across a decades old photo that leads him to literally relive a middle school rite of passage. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. This episode was produced by Zak Rosen, with production help from Caitlin Mae Burke and Shaneez Tyndall. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

Who gets to be on the cover of your romance novel? In the hunt for a greater range of culturally desirable body shapes and identities, Mark meets with Ronald, a recently single man who has decided to take the way the world sees him into his own hands. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. This episode was produced by Rebecca Seidel and Shaneez Tyndall. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. You can find Ronald Young Jr.’s upcoming podcast, Weight for It, wherever you listen to podcasts. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

Hello, it’s me… season 4 of OMNH! Danny confronts a bald truth while within feet of an iconic pop star - which sets off a chorus of responses from Mark and other men exploring the jarring gap that exists between how they picture themselves and the photographed reality. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are lead producers. Navani Otero is producer. Shaneez Tyndall is associate producer. Rebecca Seidel is lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is lead editor. Our researchers are Bei Wang and Shaneez Tyndall. Tuck Woodstock is this season’s sensitivity listener. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Daniel de la Huerta. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

Other Men Need Help is back with season four: That’s What I Look Like?!. Join host Mark Pagán for a new season of Other Men Need Help where every episode tells the story of an image – the self-created cover of a romance novel, a concert photo revealing a surprise bald spot, or a staged groomsmen photo unveiling the longing for physical intimacy amongst some men. Six episodes about six men and six photos. Starting May 18, we’re going to hear what they see.

We revisit an episode with one of our favorite guests and share some updates. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Episode illustration by Iga Ścibek.

Today we’re sharing an episode of a new show from Ten Percent Happier called More Than a Feeling. It dives into the confusing, exhilarating, and messy world of human emotions — and how to make sense of them. Why do we have emotions and how much should we pay attention to them on any given day? Can we learn to skillfully choose which emotions to listen to and which ones to just let move on by? In More Than A Feeling, host Saleem Reshamwala goes on a real life quest to find the answers to these questions. He’ll experiment with neuroscientists, dive into stories with historians and philosophers, and document how musicians, therapists, hairdressers and airplane pilots work with emotions. In this More Than A Feeling episode, called Get Me Out of Here, OMNH host Mark Pagán goes deep on one emotion: fear. Specifically, his own fear of riding the New York City subway. And we follow along for the (actual) ride. Listen to More Than A Feeling wherever you get your podcasts, and follow them on Twitter at @podfeelings.

Deck the halls, light the lights, unwrap the… whiskey stones? Prompted by uninspiring gift guides for all the men in his life, Mark and a chorus of voices explore how the holidays, gift giving, and masculinity collide. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are our lead producers. Navani Otero is our producer. Cierra Franco and Shaneez Tyndall are our associate producers. Rebecca Seidel is our lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is our lead editor. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

In this month’s bonus episode, we hand the podcast reins over to our friends in Bangalore, City of Women — a show that looks at the calculated strategies, backdoor negotiations, and often absurd lengths women go to have fun and feel free in their city. City of Women is written and produced by Radhika Viswanathan and Samyuktha Varma. Associate Producer, Menaka Raman. Music, sound, mixing, mastering by Erwick D’Souza. Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are our lead producers. Navani Otero is our producer. Cierra Franco and Shaneez Tyndall are our associate producers. Rebecca Seidel is our lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is our lead editor. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL info go to othermenneedhelp.com.

In this month’s bonus episode, Other Men Need Help celebrates Halloween with the help of a magical drive-in theater and Pumpkin Spice Podcast’s Rob Schulte to find out what happens to boys raised on a diet of mass murderers and VHS-era slashers. Be afraid? Other Men Need Help is executive produced, hosted, and written by Mark Pagán. Ben Goldberg, Caitlin Mae Burke, and Rebecca Seidel are our lead producers. Navani Otero is our producer. Cierra Franco and Shaneez Tyndall are our associate producers. Rebecca Seidel is our lead engineer. Ben Goldberg is our lead editor. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. To learn more about Rob Schulte and Pumpkin Spice Podcast, check out robkschulte.com. For more info about Mahoning Drive-in Theater, check out mahoningdit.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

Throughout the four years of making Other Men Need Help, we’ve only had one sobbing, physical moment during an interview. In today’s bonus episode, following an unexpected in-flight experience, Mark returns to a tender moment recorded in 2017 prompted by a TV patriarch that deserves canonization, and checks in to see if it still resonates. Hosted, written, and executive produced by Mark Pagán. Lead producer is Caitlin Mae Burke. Produced by Ben Goldberg and Rebecca Seidel. Cierra Franco and Shaneez Tyndall are our associate producers. Our lead engineer is Rebecca Seidel. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

What did you give up to fit in as a boy? In this month's bonus episode, Mark chats with Rajat Mittal about abandoning Whitney Houston, what wheels have the most stud swagger, and the “period picture books” that led to the creation of Rajat's vibrant newsletter Boyish. Hosted, written, and executive produced by Mark Pagán. Lead producer is Caitlin Mae Burke. Produced by Ben Goldberg and Rebecca Seidel. Cierra Franco is our associate producer. Our lead engineer is Rebecca Seidel. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group with additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

If you could freeze a favorite memory with your best friend in time — would you tell them what that memory is? Inspired by a moving chat with Paul about his childhood best friend Dave, Mark wraps up Season 3 by revisiting some of our OMNH besties and asking them to share their friendship’s most indelible memory with the podcast, and now — the world. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets, Facebook to meet our friends, Twitter to talk to us, and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

Do all friendships age well, like wine, or are some just corked? When Tim and Logan’s twenty year friendship starts to turn to vinegar, Mark hosts a friendtervention to see if the legacy is worth upholding. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

Mark heads down South to spend a weekend with two faithful friends - Pastors Brian and Hugh. Over BBQ, sermon prep, and countless cups of coffee, these spiritual leaders unpack the isolation of being behind the pulpit and how they hold space for each other in a way no one else can. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

Mark is Cleveland-bound to help an Ohioan named Seth avoid falling into an alarming trap that snares other men - declaring their romantic partner to be their best friend. With words of wisdom from women who’ve found themselves on the other side of this equation, Mark does his best to guide Seth toward a more suitable close pal that he doesn’t share a bed with. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

When a breakup leaves Mark craving affection from an amigo, he takes to the sky, hoping for the famed operatic embrace from a friend upon landing in an international airport. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

Intermezzo? Intermission? Seventh inning stretch? Whatever you want to call it, we’ve got a brief message and musical treat for you as we stretch our legs and get ready for a wild second half to season 3. Enjoy the music that has inspired the show - your very own 3 HOUR OTHER MEN NEED HELP PLAYLIST! Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Looking for the PERFECT fit for your 5’8” or under frame? Go to ashanderie.com/othermen and add promo code OTHERMEN at checkout for 15% off.

While out west, Mark gets a surprise two-for-one reconnection with some pals from his comedy past, and overhears a phone call that sparks his curiosity about his own fear of picking up the phone. Do Other Men have the same phone phobia? Become part of the team and support us on Patreon. Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart. Want to help Jason Saenz? Medical expenses are UP and he can still use help to cover his treatment and bills. Find out more info about donating here. Jason also recommends supporting Triumph Foundation, an org that helps children, adults, and Veterans with spinal cord injury/disorder to triumph over their disability, Special thanks to RUTH CHAN for her children’s book insights. To learn more about Ruth and her work, go to ohtruth.com.

What three little words have Mark tongue-tied around his friends? They're not the ones you think. Mark goes to long-term and long distance BFFs Darnell and Dimetrius to puzzle out his fear of a certain phrase (calling on perspective from a chorus of Other Men) and hear what's made their friendship work for fifteen years. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to https://othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

Go west, young men! Mark takes a trip out to Los Angeles to reconnect with a long lost high school classmate to see if he was "the friend who got away", while seven-year-olds Frankie and Indio share the tricks of maintaining a bi-coastal best friendship. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. For ALL your info go to othermenneedhelp.com. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions. Episode illustration by Carmela Caldart.

Season three starts with a hello - or, in this case: a secret handshake. Childhood best friends Brian and Dimitri tell Mark what's kept their connection over three decades and across an ocean, which opens to a chorus of men exploring how greetings serve as the unique fingerprint of each best friendship. And did you think we’d start the new season off without some singing?! C’mon, you know us better than that. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for monthly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. Original music by Fulton Street Music Group. Additional music from Blue Dot Sessions.

We’re baaaaaack. This summer, join host Mark Pagán for a new season of your favorite award-winning deep dive into the whys, hows, and oh mys of masculine mythology. In the past, we’ve the untold stories about financial insecurities, the messages you foolishly send to get your ex’s attention, and finding love at any age. This season, we’re meeting your best friends. #OMNHS3

Take care of yourselves, and give your heart a little break with this very special episode of Other Men Need Help. In this follow up to Season 2's Boy Talk, Mark and the team catches up with one of our favorite people, Richard Cardillo. We find out what's transpired in Richard's love life since last we spoke, check in as he plans to take the plunge, and ask what compromises he'll make for true love (hint: it might involve "the figure skating channel".) Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

We’ve got big news for all you listeners—Other Men Need Help has collaborated with WNYC’s Nancy on Richard Cardillo’s story from our Boy Talk episode. It’s beautiful and has some WONDERFUL updates. You can listen to the full episode here. We’re revisiting our Boy Talk episode and maybe share some of our own surprises with you this week. Keep those eyes on your podcast feed. Boy Talk: Mark creates a weekly hotline with his friend Richard, as they chat about showing up late to the dating scene, taking a chance on new love after loss, and the necessary grooming rituals in middle age. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

WE ARE LIVE AND SO ARE YOU in this month's bonus ep. Join us onstage as we listen to secrets from our friends Karolena Theresa, Henry Alford, and Thirst Aid Kit. Recorded live at Caveat in October 2019. Enjoy because we're now running off for the next few months to finish season 3 of OMNH! Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. Show links: Karolena Theresa Henry Alford Thirst Aid Kit

For our two year anniversary, we're finishing up a two-part episode with yet another diner interview a buncha of talented, sensitive guys. In this month's bonus episode, Mark meets with Tim Manley and Naje Lataillade to talk about why their work helped launch Other Men Need Help and why a teenage audience might've been the early key to getting it all started. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. Special Show Notes: The Feels Tim Manley Naje Lataillade

Guess what? We've got a surprise bite-size bonus episode for you! On the anniversary of the death of one of our favorite screen hunks, Mark talks to four Pagán women in an attempt to solve a long-standing family mystery. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

It's our two year anniversary, so here's a two-parter! In this month's bonus episode, we're time traveling back to 2012, when a poorly recorded conversation with a personal hero in a diner, in a town with a confusing name, lit the fuse for Mark's exploration of men and connection. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics. Special Show Notes: 4:48 - The New York Mills Arts Retreat and Regional Cultural Center 5:00 - Raymond & Lina (Mark's short film) 6:53 - John Porcellino 7:53 - "Pretty personal work by pretty personal folks": Pryor Convictions by Richard Pryor Life is Good by Nas *Dirty Plotte *by Julie Doucet Freddy Stories by Melissa Mendes 9:10 - South Beloit Journal by John Porcellino 9:30 - Nora's Place Mark's video about NY Mills Arts Retreat

August’s bonus episode is all about HAIR: Long beautiful hair Shining, gleaming Streaming, flaxen, waxen... you get the picture, as Mark tags along with Isaac to get a haircut, and waxes rhapsodic about his own days as a salon boy. Plus, Jiji Lee shares a hairy tale of her own. Special thanks to our friends at (le) poisson rouge. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

In this month's bonus episode, our very own Rebecca Seidel shares a cautionary tale that makes Mark reflect on an ill-advised pickup routine from the past. Plus, we have the DELIGHTFUL Alison Leiby telling her own cautionary tale LIVE. Special thanks to our friends at (le) poisson rouge. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

In this season two closer, Mark does the impossible - keeps his sanity while listening to all the hold muzak in the world, finding homes for 33 unclaimed vehicles, and answering a lifelong question of "are you my brother?" TAKE OUR SURVEY! Help us make this show better! It just takes a few minutes and you'll make us grin and jump around like House of Pain. Enjoy this bonus video as a thank you! Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Mark asks if being the baby brother suuuucks by looking at his family where there were not one, but two little-wittle-baby-brothers-oh-you-so-cute-in-your-little-suit-with-your-little-girlfiend-stand-over-there-so-we-can-take-a-picture. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Mark goes on a quest along the beaches of Portland and Southern France to speak with two men and ask the question, "comment dites-vous 'a guy who still wants to be friend's with his ex's dad?'" Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Mark creates a weekly hotline with his friend Richard, as they chat about showing up late to the dating scene, taking a chance on new love after loss, and the necessary grooming rituals in middle age. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Your partner makes more money than you. What do you do? Mark meets a few men to learn about their economic insecurities and looks for some answers, as he fights to keep his own series of numbers a mystery. SPOILER ALERT - it does not go well. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

After years of hiding behind clothes, Mark seeks out one of the leading authorities on dandyism to ask for some pants and to share some secrets. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Based on his recent experiences, every old man in the world wants Mark to look like them. In this premiere episode of season two, Mark asks a group of fellow brown men to examine who they wanted to look like versus who they look like now. Warning - there will be singing. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

Nas from The Gender Knot Podcast and Mark have some questions for you. Are you ready? Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

For this month's bonus episode, Other Men Need Help looks at the posters on your wall and asks what your mother has to say about them, featuring an EPIC story by Shalewa Sharpe. Special thanks to our friends at The Kraine Theater. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.

For this month's bonus episode, Other Men Need Help goes live! AGAIN! This time we're looking at the blind spots of other men on first dates featuring stories by Aparna Nancherla, Richard Cardillo, and Isaac Oliver. Special thanks to our friends at The Kraine Theater and (le) Poisson Rouge. This episode hosted and produced by Mark Pagán. Associate producers are Ben Goldberg and Rebecca Seidel. Logo & episode illustration by Iga Ścibek. Become part of the team and support us on Patreon! Subscribe to our newsletter for weekly secrets and Instagram to look at pretty pics.