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The “Fun Deficit”: Why We Forget How to Enjoy Life as We Succeed
How Personal Pain Impacts Business Performance: Louize Yafai
Wikipedia Founder: AI and the Future of Truth
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he’s learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world’s largest source of information. Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives. If you’ve ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it. Connect with Jimmy Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Manipulated at Work? The Hidden Cost of Being Too Empathetic
Gaslighting isn’t just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader. Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks: The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being If you’ve ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Handle a Bully With Ken Sterling
What do you do when a high-stakes negotiation turns aggressive? In this episode, Ken Sterling—EVP at BigSpeak, USC professor, and legendary dealmaker—reveals why the loudest person in the room is often the least dangerous. Ken grew up on the rough streets of New York, where he learned that negotiation wasn't just a business skill; it was a survival tactic. He shares a harrowing story of surviving a literal gun to his head at age 15 by using the very principles of leverage and influence he uses to close multi-million dollar deals today. If you want to move from "amygdala hijack" to a position of absolute calm, Ken’s TILT Framework is your roadmap. Connect with Ken Sterling: Website: BigSpeak.com Book: Tilt: Trust, Influence, Leverage & Timing LinkedIn: Ken Sterling Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Mindset & Strategy Behind Massive Career Negotiations
What if the biggest thing holding you back in negotiations isn’t your strategy — but your mindset? In this powerful masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we bring together multiple expert voices to unpack what really drives success in negotiation—and why confidence, belief, and ambition often matter more than tactics alone. You’ll hear from Wies Bratby, founder of Women in Negotiation, whose clients have achieved an average 93% salary increase, alongside business coaches and legal experts who reveal how mindset shifts, communication skills, and relationship-building can transform your career and life. This episode goes far beyond surface-level tips. It dives into: Why most people aim too low—and how to start asking for what you actually deserve The hidden impact of underpayment and how to reposition your value How confidence, not just competence, drives breakthrough results The role of networking, collaboration, and an abundance mindset in long-term success Practical ways to set boundaries and navigate difficult conversations with clarity You’ll also learn why negotiation isn’t just about money—it’s about identity, self-worth, and the courage to step into bigger opportunities. If you’ve ever hesitated to ask for more, avoided a tough conversation, or questioned your value, this episode will challenge your thinking and give you the tools to move forward with intention. Because at the end of the day, the best opportunities aren’t given—they’re negotiated.
From Chaos to $745M: What It Really Takes to Build Something Big
What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It’s messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you’ve heard. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders never talk about. Cas and Mike pull back the curtain on entrepreneurship’s harshest realities, sharing: How embracing brutally tough conversations transformed their business (and marriage). The secret mindset shifts that separate those who rise from those who burn out. Why falling in love with the hardest parts of your journey can become your ultimate competitive edge. This isn’t just another success story. It’s an honest look at the intense emotional cost that comes with high-stakes entrepreneurship—and a masterclass in how to survive the darkest moments of building something great. If you’re grinding day after day, wondering why success still feels impossibly far away, this episode offers the reset and insights you never knew you needed. Welcome to the real journey. It’s time to start shoveling. Hit play now, and discover what success truly costs. Buy The Book: Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story About the Entrepreneur’s Messy Path to Success Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Tell Stories That Actually Land - Allegra Solomon, John Moore
You can have the best facts in the world, but if you’re a bad storyteller, your message will never land. In this special Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we go deep into the art and science of Storytelling. You’ll hear from two experts with completely different lenses: Allegra Salomon, an award-winning fiction writer, and John Moore, a master of LinkedIn communication and IT marketing. Whether you are writing a book, prepping a keynote, or trying to win a deal on LinkedIn, these strategies will help you move from being "just another voice" to being truly unforgettable. Connect With Allegra Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/there-s-nothing-left-for-you-here-allegra-solomon/7c35def4fe3bc669?ean=9781961897441&next=t Website: https://www.allegra-solomon.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goldengxl/?hl=en Connect with John Moore Follow John on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Forget Tactics — Rapport Gets the Deal Done
Conflict doesn’t have to break relationships—it can actually strengthen them when handled the right way. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we explore the art and strategy of building rapport in even the most difficult conversations. Featuring insights from experts across law, business, and high-stakes negotiation, this episode reveals why connection—not control—is the real key to influence. You’ll learn how top negotiators stay composed in tense situations, use curiosity to uncover what’s really driving conflict, and ask the kinds of questions that make people feel heard and understood . From emotionally charged disputes to everyday workplace friction, the ability to build rapport can completely shift the outcome. But rapport alone isn’t enough. This episode also dives into the balance between empathy and strength—when to collaborate, when to hold firm, and how to position yourself strategically without damaging the relationship. Whether you’re navigating tough conversations at work or looking to sharpen your communication skills, this episode will give you practical tools you can use immediately.
Winning Against Narcissists: Why Logic Fails — and What Actually Works
Narcissists don’t negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You’ll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and beyond. Whether you're navigating divorce, workplace conflict, or family drama, this episode offers practical tools to handle narcissists with confidence, clarity, and control. If you’ve ever felt powerless with a toxic person, this is your roadmap to take your power back. Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Rebecca's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why 90% of People Fail at Networking (The “More Contacts = More Success” Lie)
What if the reason you’re being overlooked isn’t your performance — but your relationships? In this masterclass episode, we unpack the uncomfortable truth most high achievers avoid: doing great work isn’t enough. If you’ve ever watched less qualified colleagues rise faster, felt invisible in meetings, or wondered why your career isn’t matching your effort, this conversation will hit home. Featuring insights from relational intelligence expert Ronen Olshansky and leadership veteran Mark Miller, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about networking, influence, and leadership. You’ll discover why “networking” feels fake (and how to fix it), how small acts of generosity can transform your career trajectory, and the mindset shifts that turn relationships into your greatest competitive advantage. We go beyond surface-level tactics and dive into: The hidden reason top performers get passed over — and how to change it How to build authentic, strategic relationships without feeling transactional Why asking for help is actually a powerful act of leadership The concept of “co-elevation” and how to create a network that actively lifts you The leadership habits that multiply your influence — both in conversations and in life Whether you’re a heads-down operator ready to step into leadership, or a seasoned professional looking to deepen your impact, this episode gives you a clear, practical roadmap to stop being overlooked — and start being remembered. Because success isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you bring with you — and who’s willing to speak your name when you’re not in the room.
The Truth About Success: It’s All in the Messy Middle: Alexis Redding
We love hero stories where everything works out—but those stories are actually hurting the next generation. In this episode, Dr. Alexis Redding, a leader at the Harvard Graduate School of Education and co-author of The End of Adolescence, reveals why our "triumphant narratives" prevent us from connecting with young people. After reopening a "lost" 50-year study, Alexis discovered that the loneliness and uncertainty we see in Gen Z today are identical to what college students felt in the 1970s—we’ve just forgotten how hard it actually was. If you’ve ever felt like you didn’t belong or you’re struggling to give meaningful advice to others, this masterclass on memory, bravery, and "micro-mentorship" is for you. Connect with Dr. Alexis Redding: Website: AlexisRedding.com YouTube: Professor Redding Books: The End of Adolescence and Mental Health in College Social Media: Instagram and LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Three Steps to Regain Control When Emotions Take Over
What if the real reason you freeze in high-stakes moments isn’t a lack of confidence — but a nervous system trying to protect you? In this powerful conversation, somatic coach and author Jay Moon Fields reveals why so many high-performing professionals sabotage themselves in the moments that matter most — and how to reclaim control using the intelligence of the body. Drawing from over 20 years of work with Fortune 100 leaders and organizations like Apple, the United Nations, and Patagonia, Jay shares the surprising truth behind people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, and overthinking. You’ll learn why your body often knows what’s happening before your mind does — and how learning to listen to those signals can transform the way you lead, communicate, and negotiate. Together, we explore Jay’s powerful “Hey, Wait” framework, a simple yet profound method for pausing in the middle of stressful interactions, reconnecting with your internal experience, and showing up with clarity instead of fear. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why high achievers often freeze, overthink, or people-please in critical moments The body signals that reveal when you’re abandoning yourself in conversations How to interrupt emotional hijacking before it takes over A practical 3-step method to stay grounded during difficult feedback, negotiations, and conflict Why learning to say “Hey, wait” can radically change how you relate to others — and yourself If you’ve ever walked away from a meeting thinking “Why didn’t I say what I meant to say?”, this episode will give you the tools to stop freezing, trust your instincts, and show up with presence when the stakes are highest. Because the most powerful conversations don’t start with better scripts — they start with better awareness of yourself.
The Power of Productive Failure (And Why You Should Seek It Out)
Failure isn’t a setback — it’s the fastest path to growth, clarity, and real success. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we dive deep into the idea that the most important breakthroughs don’t come from getting it right — they come from getting it wrong and choosing to move forward anyway. Entrepreneur Jeremy Delk shares his journey from small-town beginnings to Wall Street, revealing how losing big, taking risks, and embracing uncertainty shaped his success. Alongside him, learning scientist Manu Kapoor introduces the concept of “productive failure,” explaining why intentionally stepping into discomfort is the key to mastering any skill — from negotiation to leadership. Together, they unpack why the hardest conversations are often the ones we have with ourselves, how authenticity accelerates better outcomes, and why action — not overthinking — is the real catalyst for progress. This episode will challenge the way you see failure, push you to rethink your approach to growth, and give you practical insights you can apply immediately. Because the goal isn’t to avoid failure. It’s to use it — on purpose.
How to Become Indispensable in the Age of AI
In a world of mass layoffs and AI automation, your reputation is no longer enough to save your job. In this episode, brand and behavior strategist Howie Chan explains why "personal branding" is a trap that turns most professionals off—and why you should focus on becoming a Professional with Influence instead. Howie spent 20 years in corporate leadership before being laid off, an experience that led him to develop the Behavioring Blueprint: a framework for making yourself indispensable. If you’re tired of "dancing on TikTok" advice and want a science-backed way to win in the new economy, this masterclass is for you. Connect with Howie Chan: Podcast: Influence Anyone Newsletter: Influence Anyone Free Email Course: The Behavioring Blueprint Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Networking Fails — and What Real Relationship Strategy Looks Like
What if everything you’ve been taught about networking is missing the point? In this episode, we sit down with relationship strategy expert Andy Lopata to uncover why real professional success isn’t built in networking events — it’s built in intentional relationships. If you’ve ever felt that traditional networking advice feels transactional, awkward, or even a little manipulative, Andy offers a refreshing alternative: a strategy rooted in authentic connection, trust, and long-term value. Drawing on decades of experience working with global organizations and leaders, Andy reveals why most professionals focus on the wrong things when building their networks — and how shifting your focus from tactics to relationship strategy can transform your career. You’ll learn: Why “networking” is only a tiny part of building meaningful professional relationships The 7 stages of professional relationships — from recognition to advocacy How the Relationship Matrix helps you move from passive connections to intentional influence The real reasons people choose to help their colleagues — and how to ethically leverage that dynamic Practical ways to influence without authority in siloed organizations Along the way, Andy and Kwame unpack the psychology of influence, the blurred line between personal and professional relationships, and why authentic curiosity — not manipulation — is the real key to building a powerful network. If you want stronger alliances, greater influence at work, and a relationship strategy that actually works, this conversation will change the way you think about connection. Tune in and discover how to turn everyday interactions into lasting professional relationships that open doors for years to come.
Stop Waiting for a Better Job: How to Create One Where You Are
What if the key to loving your work again isn’t changing jobs — but changing how you show up? In this episode, workplace strategist and bestselling author Elizabeth Lotardo reveals why fulfillment at work isn’t something your boss, company, or circumstances can give you. Instead, it’s something you create through self-leadership, mindset, and personal ownership. We explore why so many people leave jobs searching for meaning — only to discover the problem follows them — and how reclaiming control of your work experience can transform everything from your energy to your opportunities. You’ll learn practical strategies to: Navigate difficult workplace dynamics without damaging your reputation Set boundaries and advocate for yourself effectively Turn everyday frustrations into opportunities for growth Rediscover purpose and engagement in the role you already have Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed by workplace politics, or simply craving more meaning in your career, this conversation will challenge how you think about work — and empower you to take the driver’s seat in your professional life.
The Psychology of Money: Why “Enough” Is the Hardest Decision
Money isn’t just about numbers — it’s about the stories we tell ourselves about success, freedom, and what “enough” really means. In this thought-provoking conversation, bestselling author Morgan Housel ( The Psychology of Money ) reveals why our financial decisions are rarely logical — and why understanding our emotions around money might matter more than understanding money itself. From envy and social comparison to ambition, contentment, and the pursuit of freedom, Morgan breaks down the hidden psychology shaping how we earn, save, spend, and measure our lives. Together, we explore why chasing more doesn’t always lead to happiness, how expectations can quietly become a form of “psychological debt,” and why the richest people aren’t always the ones with the most money — but the ones who’ve learned what enough looks like. Morgan also shares powerful insights on long-term thinking, the difference between knowledge and lived wisdom, and why some of life’s most important lessons can only be learned through experience. If you’ve ever wondered why money can feel like both a tool and a trap — or how to use it to build a life that truly aligns with your values — this episode will challenge the way you think about wealth, ambition, and success. By the end, you may not just see money differently — you may see your life differently too.
How to Negotiate Intimacy Without Killing the Mood
Communication is the foundation of every relationship, but how do you talk about the one topic everyone is afraid to mention? In this episode, Caitlin V—a renowned sexologist, researcher, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger—reveals why most people hit a wall when communicating their intimate needs. Caitlin has spent over a decade helping men and couples overcome anxiety to build deeper, more authentic connections. If you’ve ever felt like your relationship communication is "playing singles tennis" instead of doubles, this masterclass on eroticism and vulnerability is for you. Connect with Caitlin V: Book: HarderBook.com Website: CaitlinVNeil.com YouTube: "Caitlin V" Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why the Quietest Person Often Wins the Deal
Silence can win you the negotiation before you even say a word. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian speaks with mediator Amy Mariani and leadership expert Elaine Lin Herring about the hidden power of silence in negotiation and leadership. They explore how intentional pauses, body language, and thoughtful communication can reveal critical information, shift dynamics, and move conversations toward resolution. Amy shares how silence often prompts the other side to reveal more than they planned, why people feel compelled to fill quiet moments, and how subtle cues — like facial expressions or gestures — can signal discomfort or hesitation. Then Elaine expands the conversation to the silence we learn in our workplaces and relationships, and how reclaiming our voice can reshape leadership, collaboration, and negotiation. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why silence is one of the most powerful negotiation tools How to read body language—even over Zoom A practical way to break complex conversations into manageable parts How leaders can create cultures where people feel safe to speak up Sometimes the most powerful move in a conversation isn’t what you say—it’s when you choose not to speak.
The Cost of Staying Silent—and the Leadership Power of Assertiveness
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes Ivna Curi to discuss the art of assertive communication in negotiations. Overcoming numerous setbacks, the duo dives deep into the core of being assertive without losing warmth, an essential skill for both personal and professional life. Ivna shares invaluable insights from her extensive experience helping professionals, with a particular focus on women, to speak up confidently and effectively. The episode is packed with actionable strategies, practical examples, and proven techniques to master assertiveness in the workplace and beyond. What will be covered: The four components of assertiveness: expressing oneself, showing respect, maintaining calmness, and being effective. Common myths about assertiveness, including perceptions of aggression and conflict. Replacing negative communication habits, such as complaining and assuming, with actionable, solution-focused approaches. Connect with Ivna Follow Ivna Curi on LinkedIn Assertive Way Institute LinkedIn page Assertive Way website Ivna's podcast: "Speak Your Mind Unapologetically." Ivna's Ted Talk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Carmine Gallo: How to ACTUALLY Tell Good Stories - Storytelling Mastery
You can have the greatest idea in the world, but if you can’t sell it, it doesn’t exist. In this episode, Carmine Gallo—Harvard instructor and author of the global bestseller Talk Like TED—explains why most business presentations fail before the first slide even appears. Carmine has worked with executives at Amazon, Google, and Microsoft to prove that great speakers aren't born; they are made through practice and a specific, repeatable structure. If you've been relying on data and bullet points to persuade people, you are working against the human brain, which is wired for stories. Connect with Carmine Gallo Website: CarmineGallo.com New Audio Original: Viral Voices LinkedIn: Carmine Gallo Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Real Reason Younger Employees Leave (It’s Not What You Think)
What if the biggest workplace conflict today isn’t about skills or strategy — but about generations misunderstanding each other? In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into the complex dynamics of the modern multigenerational workplace and uncover why generational conflict is often misunderstood — and how organizations can turn it into a powerful advantage. Through insights from organizational behavior expert Chris DeSantis and leadership researcher Quincy Penn, this conversation challenges common stereotypes about “Boomers,” “Gen X,” “Millennials,” and “Gen Z,” revealing how perception, bias, and cultural upbringing shape the way we work, communicate, and negotiate with one another. You’ll discover: Why many generational conflicts are perception-driven rather than reality-based How bias and “conversational coordination” reinforce workplace stereotypes Why younger professionals often value dialogue and autonomy over hierarchy The surprising research showing major differences in motivation between Gen X and Millennials Practical ways leaders can create cultures that engage every generation in the workforce From loyalty and leadership to flexibility and the future of work, this episode explores how generational diversity — when understood correctly — can become one of the most powerful drivers of innovation, collaboration, and organizational growth. If you’ve ever wondered why colleagues from different generations think, communicate, and lead differently — and how to bridge those gaps — this episode will change the way you see workplace dynamics forever.
Seemingly Positive Things That Make Bullies More Powerful
Buy the Book: For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation In this episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with Lucia Kanter St. Amour to discuss the complex dynamics of negotiating with bullies. Lucia, an expert in negotiation and mediation, shares her personal experiences and insights on handling bullying, drawing from her new book "For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation." Through engaging storytelling and practical advice, the episode explores Lucia's approach to negotiation, emphasizing the importance of building coalitions, understanding emotional dynamics, and strategizing effectively against high-conflict personalities. Using real-life examples, they delve into the societal roots of bullying, offering listeners valuable tools to manage these difficult conversations. What will be covered: Lucia's personal experiences with bullies and how they shaped her negotiation strategies. The societal roots of bullying and its prevalence in adult interactions. Practical negotiation techniques when facing bullies, including building rapport and understanding emotional dynamics. What listeners will learn: How to identify and respond to bullies using effective negotiation techniques. The importance of coalition-building and having allies when negotiating with difficult personalities. Strategies to maintain composure and protect oneself in high-pressure negotiation scenarios. SEO Friendly Keywords: negotiation techniques, negotiating with bullies, handling difficult conversations, mediation strategies, emotional dynamics in negotiation. Connect with Lucia Lucia's Podcast: Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation Book Synopsis: FOR THE FORCES OF GOOD Buy the Book: For the Forces of Good: The Superpower of Everyday Negotiation Web: Pactum Factum Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Fear Controls Your Negotiations — and How to Use It Instead
Fear is often the invisible force shaping our biggest decisions — and our toughest conversations. But what if fear isn’t something to eliminate… but something you can learn to negotiate with? In this powerful masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with political strategist Sarah JanTausch and executive coach Jeff, two experts who unpack how fear quietly influences negotiations, leadership, fundraising, and everyday conversations. From imposter syndrome and perfectionism to the pressure of asking for money or advocating for yourself, they reveal why even the most accomplished professionals still feel fear — and how they move forward anyway. You’ll discover how successful negotiators turn fear into fuel, why perfectionism can sabotage your results, and the simple techniques that help people navigate high-stakes conversations with confidence and clarity. In this episode, you’ll learn:• How to recognize and negotiate your own internal fears before a difficult conversation• Why imposter syndrome shows up for high achievers—and how to act despite it• The role of incentives and perspective in understanding the other side of a negotiation• Practical ways to practice negotiation skills in low-stakes situations• Why making the direct ask is often the most powerful move in any negotiation• How to pause, respond thoughtfully, and avoid reacting from fear Whether you're negotiating a salary, pitching an idea, fundraising, or navigating difficult conversations at work or home, this episode will help you approach those moments with greater courage, awareness, and skill. Because the truth is: the most important negotiation you'll ever have… is the one happening inside your own mind.
Post-Traumatic Growth: How to Turn Trauma Into Power With Rachel Druckenmiller
Most people talk about resilience. Rachel Druckenmiller lived it. Six weeks into a global pandemic, while trying to save a brand-new business, Rachel was out for a run when she was literally hit by a Chevy Silverado. Two days later—with a spinal fracture and wearing a back brace—she was on Zoom teaching leaders how to find hope in uncertainty. But this isn't just a "hustle culture" story. In this episode, Rachel reveals the deep, often painful work of Post-Traumatic Growth. She explains why we often choose the "safe" path of being muted over the brave path of being seen, and how a brush with death finally gave her the courage to stop silencing her own voice. Connect with Rachel Druckenmiller: Website: RachelDruckenmiller.com Hire Rachel to Speak: Booking Form Listen to her Music: Available on Spotify Instagram: @unmutedlife LinkedIn: Rachel Druckenmiller Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Conflict Negotiation: THE BEST TACTIC to Build Trust
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company How do leaders navigate tough conversations, build collaboration across political and community lines, and handle high-stakes negotiations? In this insightful episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Mayor Tony Roswarski (Lafayette, IN) and Mayor Erin Easter (West Lafayette, IN) to explore the art of negotiation in city leadership. Together, they break down: The power of finding common ground in divided communities Active listening as a tool for trust and persuasion The challenge of misinformation and how to counter it in public discussions Emotional intelligence in leadership—how to repair missteps and foster collaboration The hidden power of relationships in negotiations Whether you're leading a team, managing community disputes, or handling difficult conversations in your daily life, this episode is packed with practical negotiation strategies you can apply immediately. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Trying to Be Right. Start Trying to Be PERSUASIVE
If you think you’re logical in conflict, think again—your brain is quietly sabotaging you.In this masterclass episode, we unpack the hidden psychology of bias and how it shapes every difficult conversation you have—at work, at home, and across cultural lines. From in-group vs. out-group dynamics to microaggressions, emotional triggers, and the fight-or-flight response, you’ll learn why disagreements escalate so quickly—and how to interrupt the pattern in real time.This conversation goes beyond theory. You’ll discover practical tools to:Humanize the person you disagree with (even when it feels impossible)Respond to perceived bias without escalating the conflictShift from arguing about the past to negotiating the futureSlow down reactive “System 1” thinking and engage intentional reasoningUse curiosity to disarm defensivenessTalk about how you’re talking—so the conversation actually improvesYou’ll also explore a powerful truth: every interaction is intercultural. What you see as “common sense” may simply be your conditioning—and recognizing that can change everything.If you want to be more persuasive, more self-aware, and more effective in high-stakes conversations, this episode will challenge how you think—and show you exactly how to do better.Because winning difficult conversations doesn’t start with changing the other person.It starts with mastering yourself.
The Only Way to Get the Truth Without Being Confrontational - With Michael Reddington
Stop Accusing People of Lying. There’s a Better Way to Get the Truth. What if I told you that most "gotcha" moments in a negotiation are actually failures of leadership? In this episode, Mike Reddington, a certified forensic interviewer and author of The Disciplined Listening Method, reveals why you should never accuse someone of lying—even when you know they are. Mike has spent his career in high-stakes environments where evidence was often nonexistent, and he learned that a lie isn't an insult; it’s actually intelligence in disguise. If you want to stop being a "shallow strategist" and start earning the truth, this masterclass on disciplined listening is for you. Connect with Mike Reddington disciplinedlistening.com michaelreddington.com Buy the book: The DisciplinedListening Method Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Leaders Fail (and How to Become the One People Respect)
What makes someone inspiring instead of infuriating—and can you learn the difference? In this masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian brings together three elite leaders—a Columbia professor, a public affairs executive, and a championship-winning coach—to reveal what persuasive, service-driven leadership really looks like . You’ll learn how to manage egos (including your own), lead with vulnerability, build trust through listening, and turn everyday moments into opportunities for influence. Inspiration isn’t a personality trait. It’s a practice—and this episode shows you how to build it.
Win Yourself First — Then Win the Deal
What if the key to winning negotiations isn’t pushing harder—but designing better conversations? In this masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, three expert voices challenge the way we think about negotiation. You’ll discover how conversation design creates clarity and momentum , why mastering your inner dialogue is the foundation of high-impact deals, and what must change in the negotiation industry to make these tools accessible to everyone. From mental models and emotional intelligence to facilitative leadership and democratizing negotiation skills, this episode delivers multiple perspectives on the same challenge—so you can build your own powerful style . If you’re ready to transform the way you think, listen, and lead, this conversation is for you.
THIS Is Why You Struggle to Change — And What to Do Instead
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, KJ Lavan, neuroscience growth expert and CEO of KJL International, will show you how to change your negotiation style for the better by understanding your brain. You'll learn about the transformation levels of your mind and how to use them to your advantage in any negotiation. Follow KJ Lavan on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/kj-lavan-1739ab226/ Book: Why Is Your Reason For Being https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/why-is-your-reason-for-being-kj-lavan/1132169201 Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
The 8 Personas of a Toxic Boss: Which One Is Yours? With Dr. Laura Hambley
What happens at work doesn’t stay at work. It follows you home, ruins your sleep, and drains your energy. In this episode, Dr. Laura Hambley, a leading organizational psychologist, reveals the alarming rise of toxic workplaces and why "profit-at-all-costs" culture is back with a vengeance. After researching thousands of cases, Laura identified the 8 Personas of a Toxic Boss—from the "aggressive abuser" to the subtle "gaslighter" who pits teams against each other behind the scenes. If you’ve ever felt like you were "walking on eggshells" or suffering from Sunday night dread, this conversation is your roadmap to getting back in the driver's seat of your career Connect with Dr. Laura Hambley https://www.instagram.com/drlaura.live/ https://www.facebook.com/Dr.Laura.whereworkmeetslife https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlaurahambley/ https://x.com/DrLaura_ https://www.tiktok.com/@drlaura.live Pre-order: I Wish I’d Quit Sooner: Practical Strategies for Navigating a Toxic Boss Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Chasing Investors — Make Them Chase You
What if the difference between getting funded and getting ignored comes down to how you negotiate? In this masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, two seasoned investors reveal what it really takes to attract capital—and close the deal. Angel investor Cindy Englefield shares how she’s backing high-growth female founders while teaching entrepreneurs how to de-risk their pitch, build trust, and avoid taking “bad money.” Then Chris Hutchins, founder and investor, breaks down the psychology of hot deals—how to create urgency, leverage timing, and negotiate strategically without looking desperate. You’ll learn how to tell a compelling story, engineer momentum, focus on the terms that matter, and position yourself as the opportunity investors don’t want to miss. If you want to raise money—or simply negotiate with more confidence and leverage—this episode is your playbook.
“Just Believe in Yourself” is a LIE: The Hidden Mechanics of Confidence
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this enlightening episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes David Hulman, the founder of Self Belief Chief, to discuss the pivotal role of self-belief in successful negotiation and conflict resolution. David shares his insights on how self-belief isn't just about a general sense of confidence, but rather a tailored confidence in specific areas of life and negotiation. Highlighting the science behind self-belief, David introduces listeners to the six sources of self-belief and innovative techniques like the reliable peak pattern and the scratching technique. These concepts are designed to help negotiators harness their true potential by relying on proven methods and transforming past disappointments into empowering experiences. What will be covered: The six sources of self-belief and how they can bolster negotiation confidence. Understanding the reliable peak pattern to achieve consistent peak performance in negotiations. The scratching technique and its application in overcoming past negotiation disappointments. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stop Talking: How to Use Silence to Win Any Deal
Most people think negotiation is about having the last word. They’re wrong. In this episode, international deal-maker Varun Sharma reveals the counterintuitive secret he learned across 12 schools, 3 countries, and years of high-stakes government diplomacy: Silence is your greatest superpower. Varun has negotiated everything from luxury hospitality deals to international tax treaties between nations. He joins Kwame Christian to explain why the "typical" aggressive shark-mentality actually kills deals, and why being radically honest is the fastest way to build $90M levels of trust Connect with Varun Varun's LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Beat Burnout Before It Beats You: What Experts Say You Must Do
Pressure doesn’t build character—it reveals it. In this Negotiation Masterclass, three world-class experts break down what it really takes to perform when the stakes are high. Dr. David Arrington challenges conventional leadership, showing why executive presence is about focus, reassurance, and resilience—not authority—and why 360-degree success is the antidote to burnout . Chris Hutchins dives into the psychology of stress, explaining how unprocessed pressure sabotages performance—and how mastering your mindset changes everything. Matt Abrahams brings it home with practical tools for thinking fast, speaking confidently, and turning tough questions into opportunities for connection. If you want to lead stronger, think clearer, and communicate smarter under pressure, this episode delivers the blueprint. Because pressure isn’t optional. How you respond is.
Why Smart, Capable People Freeze — and How to Break the Pattern
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this gripping episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian welcomes self-defense guru Tony Blauer to delve into the intricate relationship between fear and negotiation. The conversation explores how fear impacts decision-making and performance, emphasizing practical mechanisms for mastering fear in high-stress situations. Tony shares insightful stories and psychological frameworks, equipping listeners with strategies to convert fear into a dynamic driving force. Their discussion reveals how understanding and negotiating with oneself can drastically improve handling confrontational scenarios, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their negotiation prowess and emotional resilience. - Exploring Tony Blauer's concept of "Making Friends with Fear" and its application to negotiation - The role of self-awareness and stress inoculation in mastering fear in sudden violent or high-pressure negotiations - How to practice and apply fear management techniques in professional and personal situations Listeners will learn: - Strategies to enhance negotiation skills by managing personal fear and self-talk - The importance of maintaining focus and presence in achieving a flow state during negotiations - Practical tips on translating fear into constructive energy that enhances performance and decision-making in high-stake scenarios Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Tony Follow Tony Blauer on LinkedIn Blauer Tactical Systems LinkedIn page Blauer Spear website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Speak Up When It Matters With Dr. Sunita Sah
In this episode, Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician turned organizational psychologist, reveals the hidden costs of excessive compliance and how it silently destroys your self-worth. Learn why we mistake compliance for consent, how social conditioning traps you in silence, and the psychology of "insinuation anxiety"—the fear of offending others that keeps you stuck. Discover the true power of defiance, the skill of saying no without guilt, and how to reclaim your voice, your values, and your authentic self. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Dr. Sunita Sah sunitasah.com Buy The Book Defy: How to Speak Up When It Matters Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why You Can’t Flourish Alone - With Daniel Coyle
What if everything we’ve been told about self-improvement is wrong? In this episode, Daniel Coyle, the New York Times bestselling author of The Culture Code and The Talent Code, reveals why he "stopped the presses" on his latest book to change its entire focus. After years of studying high-performers, Daniel realized that flourishing isn't a solo sport—it's a shared experience. We dive deep into why the modern world feels so isolating and how "late individualism" is hitting its limit. Daniel explains the scientific definition of flourishing: joyful, meaningful growth shared. In this episode, you’ll learn: The "Stop the Presses" Moment: Why Daniel changed his book’s subtitle to focus on the transformative power of community. The Vulnerability Reflex: Why a Navy SEAL commander says the four most important words a leader can speak are "I screwed that up." The Death of Perfection: How to embrace imperfection as the core of creative energy and growth. Mattering vs. Success: A look at Zingerman’s $90 million "community of businesses" and how they prioritize soul over scale. The Humanist Revival: Why AI is forcing us to rediscover what it actually feels like to be alive. If you’ve ever felt like your morning routine or "grind mindset" was leaving you empty, this conversation will show you how to find the "shared improvement" that leads to a truly rich life. Connect with Daniel Coyle Website & Social Media Links: https://danielcoyle.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-coyle-32830310/ https://x.com/danielcoyle https://www.facebook.com/danielcoyleauthor/ Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni!Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anythingincogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
How to Keep Going When It Gets Hard With Shawn French
If you’ve ever felt like quitting, this conversation will help you keep going. In this episode, we sit down with Shawn French, creator of The Determined Society, to break down what it really takes to push through setbacks, stay disciplined, and keep moving forward when life gets hard.Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni!Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anythingincogni.comPersonal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Shawn French: • Instagram: @theShawnFrench • Podcast: The Determined Society (Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The Science of Fun (And Why It Matters More Than You Think) with Dr. Mike Rucker
Most people burn out chasing success… but what if “fun” is the missing ingredient for sustainable growth? In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Dr. Mike Rucker (behavioral scientist, author of The Fun Habit) to unpack the science of fun, why chasing happiness can trap you on the hedonic treadmill, and how small “micro-moments” of joy help you build resilience, connection, and long-term performance. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect With Dr. Mike Rucker michaelrucker.com Buy the Book The Fun Habit: How the Pursuit of Joy and Wonder Can Change Your Life Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Inside the Mind of an FBI Informant - The Story of Tipper X
EKwame Christian and Tom Hardin (Tipper X) explore why ethical breakdowns happen before anyone can see them—inside private rationalizations. Tom explains how to reduce risk by addressing the Fraud Triangle and creating a culture where people feel safe surfacing pressure, uncertainty, and gray-area requests. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Tipper X tipperx.com Order the book: Wired on Wall Street: The Rise and Fall of Tipper X, One of the FBI's Most Prolific Informants by Tipper X Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why Avoiding Conflict Costs You More
What if the biggest deals you’re negotiating aren’t across the table—but inside your own mind? In this powerful Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, you’ll hear three world-class experts tackle one shared truth from completely different angles: success in business — and life — comes down to mastering difficult conversations. First, behavioral economist Melina Palmer reveals the hidden brain biases silently sabotaging your goals — optimism bias, planning fallacy, bike shedding, and the “I’ll start Monday” effect. You’ll learn how to outsmart your own psychology, negotiate with your future self, and finally follow through on what matters most . Next, startup CEO Naved Iqbal, PhD, dives into one of the hardest conversations a founder can face: telling a co-founder their equity needs to be reduced. Through raw storytelling, he breaks down how conviction, fairness, and radical transparency can preserve trust — even when the stakes are high and the outcome uncertain . From negotiating with vendors as a David facing Goliath to aligning with your spouse before taking entrepreneurial risks, you’ll discover how clarity and honesty become your greatest leverage. Finally, negotiation specialist Nicole Davidson pulls back the curtain on what really happens in mediation. She explains why the key to unlocking deadlocked disputes isn’t having better arguments — it’s asking better questions. You’ll explore cognitive biases, subconscious decision-making, and the power of stepping onto the “balcony” to see your negotiations more clearly . This isn’t theory. It’s practical wisdom from experts who’ve lived the tension, faced the fear, and navigated the toughest conversations of their careers. If you’re ready to: Stop procrastinating on your biggest goals Handle high-stakes conversations with integrity Build stronger partnerships at work and at home Make better decisions by understanding how your brain really works Then this masterclass is for you. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
Negotiate Like a Thinker, Not a Talker
Unlock the hidden negotiation advantage you never knew you had. What if the very trait you’ve been told is holding you back is actually your greatest strength at the bargaining table? In this powerful Negotiation Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian curates three eye-opening conversations that challenge everything you think you know about introversion, persuasion, and performance. From bestselling author Matthew Pollard’s journey from terrified door-to-door salesman to the #1 rep in the largest sales organization in the Southern Hemisphere, to expert insights on energy, silence, storytelling, and strategy, this episode reveals why introverts may have a natural edge in sales, networking, and negotiation. You’ll discover: Why introversion isn’t about shyness—but energy. How systems and preparation outperform “winging it” every time. The storytelling framework that can make you 22x more memorable. How silence, listening, and strategic pacing become persuasion superpowers. Practical ways introverts (and extroverts) can negotiate more effectively. Whether you identify as an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this episode will reshape how you see communication, confidence, and influence. Because success doesn’t belong to the loudest voice in the room — it belongs to the most strategic one. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
Stop Feeling Powerless at Work: How to Manage Up Without Messing Up
Managing up is not about flattery. It’s about influence, and taking control of your career before someone else does. Order Now the Book: Managing Up: How to Get What You Need from the People in Charge In this episode, Melody Wilding—executive coach, professor, and author of Managing Up—joins Kwame to unpack one of the most overlooked (and misunderstood) career skills: learning how to manage your boss. If you’ve ever felt invisible, undervalued, or like you're doing everything right but still not moving forward, this conversation will shift your entire perspective on leadership at work. You’ll learn: • Why “being a team player” might be damaging your reputation and future • How to set boundaries without making enemies or risking your job • What managing up really means—and why it’s not the same as sucking up Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Melody melodywilding.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn The Ultimate Negotiation Guide Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race! Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Reinvent Yourself Before Life Forces You To - With Kym Ali
Reinvention isn’t a nice-to-have — it’s survival. In this episode, Kym Ali breaks down how to recognize the warning signs before things fall apart, how to audit what’s no longer working, and how to pivot with clarity (instead of panic). Get the key takeaway: reinvent before life forces your hand — so you stay in control of your identity, income, and impact. Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Kym Follow Kym on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Don’t Wait to Be Noticed—Get Remembered. Advice from a Top Relationship Strategist.
You’ve done the work. You’ve checked every box. But somehow, promotions pass you by, your ideas go unheard, and less qualified people keep rising faster. Why? Because in today’s world, connection beats competence. In this episode, you’ll learn why being excellent isn’t enough—and how to start building the kind of strategic relationships that actually move careers forward. Our guest is a top relationship strategist who has coached leaders around the world on how to turn their network into a true competitive edge. You’ll walk away with practical tools to be remembered, respected, and recommended—without ever feeling fake. If your work isn’t speaking for itself, maybe it’s time to let the right people do the talking. Connect with Ronen Book a call with Ronen Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Negotiate Anything:Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan:https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it.
The Hidden Cost of Wealth: How Money Rewires Your Mind With Dave Verhaagen
We unpack the hidden psychological costs of wealth: why “more” stops feeling like more, how status reshapes identity, and how to stay grounded as your life upgrades. In this episode, Dave Verhaagen breaks down what money can quietly change—your motivation, relationships, self-image, and the way you define “enough.” If you’re building success (or chasing the next milestone), this conversation will help you keep your peace while your life expands. Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Dave Dave's Website drverhaagen.com Dave's Books Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Negotiate Your Salary EXACTLY Like This (3-Step Script)
If you’ve been doing “more than your job” but your pay hasn’t changed, this episode breaks down the 3-step salary negotiation script that turns your hard work into a clear business case your manager can say yes to. In this conversation, Yota Trom shares a practical method to prove you’re already operating at the next level using a simple Excel self-evaluation worksheet—then shows how to connect your impact to measurable outcomes so the company sees the upside in paying you more. How to build a self-evaluation worksheet (current role vs. next role + proof) How to identify whether you’re actually eligible for a raise/promotion before you ask How to handle the “you haven’t been here long enough” objection with a business case How to quantify impact (the “show them the money” approach) so leadership pays attention Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Yota Want to get paid what you’re really worth? Apply for 1:1 coaching with Yota → https://www.paywhatimworth.com/leadership-coaching Need clarity on your value? Download the free value-clarity workbook → https://www.paywhatimworth.com/workbook For confidence, visibility & career growth follow Yota on LinkedIn→ https://www.linkedin.com/in/yotatrom/ Want a personal brand that opens doors? Learn how to build one → https://www.yotatrom.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!