Narrative Podcast

Join Tim Croll and Oleg Lougheed as they delve into the transformative power of storytelling. Discover how narratives shape our lives, influence our decisions, and connect us with others. Oleg shares his journey from Russia to becoming an entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of curiosity, relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves. Tune in for insights on embracing life's chapters and finding richness beyond monetary success. #storytelling #entrepreneurship #personalgrowth #narratives #relationships #curiositylife #richness

In this episode, Tim Croll and Rich Perrotti engage in a heartfelt conversation about life's transitions, personal growth, and the power of reflection. Rich shares his journey from a career in technology to his work as a poet. He's written a Christmas poem the last 48 years! The discussion touches on themes of love, loss, and the impact of AI on humanity, offering listeners valuable insights into navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience.

In this episode host Tim Croll chats with Jonathan Heston and they explore the profound journey of navigating life's "shaking seasons." They discuss how embracing uncertainty and engaging in authentic dialogue can lead to personal growth and a deeper sense of purpose. Discover how to balance surrender with co-creation and build meaningful relationships that support your growth. #Narrative #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #EmbraceUncertainty #JourneyToPurpose #ShakingSeasons

Join us in this heartfelt episode as we delve into the inspiring journey of Shela Gronik. From facing homelessness to finding hope and purpose, Shela shares her transformative story of resilience and faith. Discover how she overcame life's challenges, redefined her identity beyond material success, and now dedicates her life to helping others through her nonprofit work. This episode is a testament to the power of perseverance and the impact of living a life filled with purpose and love. Connect with Shela: https://www.heroesneveralone.org/ Connect with Narrative: https://narrative.live/

In this episode Tim Croll and Ashley Ljesevic explore the journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Ashley shares her experiences as a multi-sport athlete, detailing her transition from a promising basketball career to embracing new paths in life. The discussion delves into the challenges of identity, the importance of introspection, and the power of storytelling. #SelfDiscovery #PersonalGrowth #endurance #narrative #Inspiration #Storytelling #Introspection #FaithJourney #Journaling #CourageToChange #AshleyLjesevic #PodcastEpisode Tune in to hear Ashley's story and get connect with her here: [email protected] https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyljesevic/ https://www.endurancediaries.com/ Stay connected with us at https://narrative.live

In this episode, Tim Croll and Lantz Howard delve into the profound journey of self-discovery and authenticity. They explore the importance of being over doing, the challenges of maintaining genuine relationships, and the transformative power of truth-telling. Join them as they discuss how to navigate life's waves, balance personal and professional life, and embrace the art of becoming whole. Connect with Lantz: www.lantzhoward.com [email protected] Connect with us at Narrative: www.narrative.live

In this episode, David Price shares his transformative journey from overcoming a troubled childhood and drug addiction to achieving success in the business world. He emphasizes the importance of aligning actions with dreams, the role of awareness in personal growth, and the necessity of taking consistent action to build a meaningful life. David discusses the significance of creating sustainable routines and the lessons learned from his recovery process, ultimately encouraging others to never settle for less than they deserve. Connect with David: Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/DavidPriceOfficial LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidpriceofficial Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidPriceOfficial Hope you enjoyed this episode! Stay connected with us at https://narrative.live/

Join Tim Croll and David Homan as they delve into the art of building meaningful connections and purposeful communities. Discover how David's journey from a small-town upbringing to becoming a global CEO was shaped by his commitment to service and authenticity. This episode explores the power of networking, the importance of vulnerability, and the strategies for creating a supportive network that thrives on trust and shared purpose. Tune in to learn how to orchestrate your life and elevate your personal and professional relationships.

Join Tim Croll and Emily Kile as they dive into the transformative power of personal narratives. Discover how Emily's journey from aspiring doctor to wellness advocate reshaped her life and career. Explore themes of resilience, growth, and the importance of crafting your own story. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that challenges societal norms and encourages you to embrace your unique path. #personalgrowth #WellnessJourney #Inspiration #bittertobetter Connect with Emily at https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilykile/ We hope you enjoy this episode! Connect with us at Narrative

In this episode, we dive into the critical role of emotional intelligence in the business world. Join us as we explore how understanding and managing emotions can enhance leadership, improve team dynamics, and drive organizational success. Our guest, Chas Sampson, shares insights from his journey, emphasizing the power of empathy and self-awareness in navigating workplace politics and building strong, cohesive teams. Additionally, Chas discusses his impactful work with veterans, helping them secure the benefits they deserve through his organization, Seven Principles. Tune in to discover how emotional intelligence and a commitment to service can be your keys to thriving in today's competitive business landscape. To connect with Chas Sampson: https://sevenprinciples.com/ [email protected] And search "Chas Sampson" on social media channels.

In this episode Tim Croll and Shawn Whitson explore themes of personal growth, entrepreneurship, and the importance of values in defining success. Shawn shares his journey from viewing himself as a 'screw up' to recognizing the value of his experiences and the lessons learned from failures. They discuss the impact of childhood narratives on work ethic, the false narratives surrounding money and success, and the importance of community and connection. Shawn introduces Acts Social, a new social media platform focused on positivity and gratitude, emphasizing the need for a supportive online environment. Check out more from Shawn at www.actssocial.com Thanks for listening! To connect with Tim or Steve go to www.narrative.live

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Steve “Moby” Leitch was a swimmer before he was a Moby, a man before a ministry leader, and a wanderer long before he ever became rooted. Born into the world of evangelical Christianity—his father preaching alongside giants like Billy Graham—Steve grew up in the polished halls of faith, where sin was unspoken and perfection expected. But he found more belonging in the locker room than the pews. While swimmers laughed freely, churchgoers seemed like porcelain. And so he drifted. Trying to fit in led Steve to addiction—first to connection, then to substances, and finally to isolation. By his mid-thirties, life had collapsed around him: divorced, bankrupt, estranged, spiritually lost. In 2010, broken and under a tree in Kentucky, he surrendered. No fireworks. Just a decision. One that began a 15-year transformation. Piece by piece, Steve rebuilt—his faith, his body, his family, and his purpose. He gave up drugs, then alcohol, then corporate America. In their place came morning devotions, ultra-marathon swims for recovery causes, handwritten messages to family and friends, and a social media presence not for attention, but for legacy. Now a grandfather, “Moby” uses his swims, storytelling, and scars to remind others: God created you for a purpose. Don’t miss it.

Ryan Woodruff grew up a quiet and shy boy, shaped by constant moves and a fractured home. With no father figure and a mother working multiple jobs, Ryan built his identity on survival and self-isolation. A sense of direction came from the film Full Metal Jacket, which introduced him to the idea of brotherhood in the military. He joined the Marine Corps in 2005, seeking belonging and purpose. But war delivered trauma, not healing. Alcohol and avoidance became his coping mechanisms, stretching through deployments and into civilian life. Years later, at rock bottom—newborn twins at home, a beloved service dog killed, and his father’s sudden death—Ryan faced a choice: destroy everything or rebuild. He chose to rebuild. It started with one man’s invitation to a veterans' group. From that quiet seat in the back of the room, listening to others’ stories, Ryan began to share his own. Sobriety brought hollowness at first, but slowly, Ryan rebuilt—through faith, fitness, family, and community. Today, he helps others navigate that same darkness through his work at Clear Path for Veterans.

Jonathan Heaslet has been many things over the years. An economics & mathematics major, military, minister, healthcare executive, and more. Jonathan never planned on taking the long way around, but life has a funny way of handing you detours. He spent years chasing certainty, believing that success was a straight line—only to find that some of his best moments came from the unexpected twists. As a kid, he thought confidence was something you either had or didn’t. He learned the hard way that confidence is built, brick by brick, in the moments when you push forward despite the doubt. "The hardest thing isn’t knowing what you want," he says. "It’s believing you deserve it." There were times he wanted to quit, times when the silence after trying felt unbearable. But he kept showing up, kept putting in the work, even when no one was watching. He realized that failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s just another stop along the way. Now, looking back, Jonathan doesn’t claim to have all the answers. But he knows this: the world doesn’t owe you an audience. You earn it by being real. By being honest. And most importantly, by showing up.

"How 'abby' normal is your normal?" This powerful talk with Dave Guyor from our 2024 Narrative Summit dives deep into the loneliness epidemic, the impact of technology, and how we can reclaim the art of meaningful relationships.

In the glamorous world of high-powered executives, Kellan Fluckiger seemed to have it all – wealth, success, and influence. But beneath the Armani suits and corporate victories lay a man drowning in cocaine addiction, failed marriages, and a desperate need to prove his worth to a mother whose harsh discipline had left deep emotional scars. For decades, Kellan rode a destructive roller coaster of success and self-sabotage, making and losing fortunes, ruining three marriages, and struggling with thoughts of suicide. His teenage daughter once told him matter-of-factly that they expected to receive a call about his death any day. Then came the night in August 2007 when divine intervention arrived through an unlikely source – a reality TV show about addiction that mysteriously replayed itself on his television. What followed was an otherworldly experience where Kellan was forced to witness scenes of suffering from his life for 18 hours straight. He emerged with an unshakeable conviction to change, throwing away his drugs and embracing sobriety. Weeks later, at a Yo-Yo Ma concert, another divine nudge led him to propose to a woman he barely knew – a coworker named Joy who would become his guardian angel. Despite his messy past and addiction issues, Joy saw something in him others missed. Together they walked away from their careers and embarked on a challenging journey of healing and transformation. Now, seventeen years later, Kellan is a different man – an author of 20 books and a coach helping others discover their purpose. With Joy as his business partner and wife, he works to reach millions with a powerful message: no matter your past, you matter, and it's never too late to make the difference you yearn to make in the world.

Chris Bolinger grew up in a high-achieving family with three accomplished older sisters and parents who modeled excellence in everything they did. As the youngest and only boy, he was somewhat spoiled but also inherited the family's drive for achievement and discipline. While this upbringing instilled many positive traits, it also led to two significant challenges: an excessive self-reliance that made him believe he was in control, and a tendency to value achievements over relationships. After a successful career in tech that culminated in selling his WiFi company for a substantial sum in his forties, Chris embarked on several ventures including investing in a Christian movie and starting a business to help small church leaders. Both ventures failed financially. During this period, his marriage of 26 years also ended, serving as a wake-up call that his approach to life needed to change. The turning point came when Chris joined a men's ministry program at his church that required a two-year commitment to meet weekly with a group of twelve men. Initially reluctant, this experience transformed his perspective on relationships, particularly with other men. He realized that instead of trying to "fix" relationships like problems to be solved, they needed to be invested in and nurtured. He also developed a deeper, more meaningful relationship with God beyond the transactional one he had maintained previously. Today, Chris lives between Florida and Ohio with his second wife, Libby, and focuses on intentionally building relationships through shared experiences like playing trivia, coaching high school tennis, and spending quality time with family. He's learned that while failure is inevitable, what matters most is not just getting back up, but understanding why you fell and using those experiences to help others facing similar challenges. His life now centers around the belief that relationships, not achievements, are what truly matter.

Growing up in Michigan, Scott's early life was marked by dramatic changes. His family went from financial stability, with his father running a successful chiropractic practice, to severe hardship after a failed business relocation. Between ages 8 and 18, Scott lived in 13 different houses, including a period in a tent, and his family relied on their faith community for basic needs like food. The instability peaked when his mother temporarily left with his younger brothers, leaving Scott with his father and older brother for about a year and a half. When his mother returned, Scott's father told him and his brother to never discuss what had happened – just move on. This created deep-seated false beliefs in Scott: that he had to figure everything out alone, and that conflict would make loved ones abandon him. These beliefs affected his marriage and other relationships well into adulthood. The turning point came at age 36, when his spiritual mentor John asked him a pivotal question during a work meeting: "What's in the gap?" after noticing Scott's disproportionate reaction to a situation. This question, combined with becoming a father himself and wanting to give his children a different experience than his own, motivated Scott to seek help. He spent six years in counseling, working through his childhood trauma and false beliefs. Today, at 52, Scott leads organizations helping other men, particularly fathers, through similar journeys. He runs "Dads on Tap," a nonprofit connecting fathers at local breweries, works with "Man in the Mirror" focusing on spiritual fatherhood, and has written a book called "A Dad's Bible Journey." His story demonstrates how awareness of our "gaps" – those places where our reactions don't match the situation – can lead to meaningful personal growth and healing. Check out Dads on Tap - www.dadsontop.com Connect with Tim Croll and Steve Gohl - narrative.live Join the Discord to keep the conversation going! https://discord.com/invite/pKXYuda9Hu

Growing up poor in backwoods Kentucky, Chris "Harp" Harper lived between two destructive narratives: believing he could become entirely self-sufficient and feeling utterly worthless. After losing his brother to a drug overdose and his mother to cancer, with an alcoholic father in the background, he became determined to overcome his circumstances through any means necessary. His drive for success led him to become outwardly confident and charismatic, but inwardly he was deeply insecure. He would lie about achievements, manipulate relationships, and do anything for attention or validation. This pattern continued until after a research trip to Eastern Europe, when feelings of emptiness led him to attend a church service - initially just for "the chicks and the chicken." Two months of hearing the gospel brought him to a life-changing realization: he had not only rejected God but wanted to be God himself. This insight led to a transformation where he learned to "die to self and live for others." The change wasn't immediate, but through surrounding himself with mentors, reading voraciously, and deliberately practicing kindness, he gradually reformed his life. Today, Harp is a husband, father of four, and leader of the Better Man Project. He practices intentional kindness by encouraging three people daily and maintains an inspirational voicemail message that once prevented a pizza delivery driver's suicide. His message now centers on finding abundance in ordinary life, countering the pressure to live an "Instagram-worthy" existence. Perhaps his most significant transformation came through serving others - like spending Saturday mornings cutting his future wife's grandfather's grass. What started as an annoying chore became a cherished routine, so much so that years later, when he preached at the grandfather's funeral, he wished he could still spend those Saturday mornings in service. Check out the organization Harp works with: www.betterman.com And for more from Harp, follow his Substack: https://charper.substack.com/p/saying-thank-you?r=1qr116 Connect with Tim & Steve - www.narrative.live Join our Discord to keep the conversation going! https://discord.com/invite/pKXYuda9Hu

From a young age, Star was plagued by a deep-seated belief that no matter how hard she tried, she would never get what she wanted in life. This stemmed from heartbreaking experiences with her father, who would make promises to her but then fail to follow through. When Star was 10, she asked her father for a bike, but after months of waiting, the bike he finally gave her was much too large. Other requests were met with similar disappointment - her father would tell her to just wait, but by the time he followed through, the opportunity had passed. These patterns reinforced Star's conviction that her efforts were futile. This belief carried into Star's adult life. Despite graduating college with honors, she struggled to find a good job, eventually settling for an internship-level position making the same pay as high school students. Star was devastated, feeling like her achievements were mocking her. She began a years-long battle with depression and crippling self-doubt. At age 27, Star had a transformative moment. During a retreat, she was faced with a choice - join a lifeboat and potentially survive, or go down with the sinking ship. In that instant, Star chose to live. She heard God whisper to her, "Choose to live, and live passionately." This was a turning point that broke the hold of her depression. The road to healing was not easy. Star had to carefully identify the root beliefs driving her despair, relying on practices like prayer, journaling, and defining her emotions. Bit by bit, she was able to let go of her long-held conviction that hard work meant disappointment. In its place, she developed a new trust in God's plan rather than her own efforts. Now, Star is dedicated to maintaining daily habits that keep her grounded and at peace, like meditation and self-care. Most importantly, she is committed to choosing passion and purpose in her life, no matter the circumstances. Her advice to others is to embrace the healing process, understanding that life's challenges often contain the seeds of growth. With her newfound perspective, Star is determined to write a new narrative for her life - one filled with hope, not despair. Star's Channel: @BookofStar Connect With Tim & Steve: narrative.live Follow us on IG and Facebook @narrativelive Join the Discord to continue the conversation! https://discord.com/invite/pKXYuda9Hu

From an early age, Mike Hatch learned to believe he was unworthy of having his needs met. Growing up in a tumultuous Christian household, he witnessed his parents' marriage fall apart, culminating in a pivotal moment when he and his brother had to call 911 during one of their fights. This experience led teenage Mike to conclude he was entirely on his own. This belief shaped his relationships into transactional exchanges, where he helped others solely to gain their approval. His unmet emotional needs and feelings of unworthiness eventually led to a pornography addiction. The turning point came when his fiancée caught him viewing pornography, throwing her engagement ring and two Bibles at him before walking out. Rather than ending their relationship, this moment became what Mike calls "God's lifeline." His church community surrounded them with unconditional love and support, showing Mike that he could be fully known – flaws and all – and still be accepted. This experience transformed his understanding of worth and relationship with God. Today, more than 20 years into his marriage, Mike serves as an executive coach and pastor in Pittsburgh, helping others find the same freedom he discovered. He describes the transition from his former life to his current one as taking off a heavy backpack – no longer burdened by the constant pressure to perform or gain approval. His focus has shifted from taking to giving, from seeking approval to holding space for others who are struggling. Mike emphasizes that the key to similar transformation lies in authentic connection with others and a relationship with God, noting that "the opposite of addiction isn't sobriety – it's connection." Connect with Mike: LinkedIn @mikehatch02 Connect with Tim & Steve: narrative.live Follow us on Facebook & Instagram @narrativelive Join Our Discord Server! discord

When Clint Hatton was 12, his world crumbled as his father's affair tore apart their seemingly normal Southern California family. His mother's subsequent suicide attempts and a failed family relocation to Montana left young Clint with a deep-seated belief: he was completely alone in life. This false narrative drove him into drugs and alcohol by his early teens. By 21, he was caught in a nine-year meth addiction. Though he managed to hold down a job in car sales, his first marriage ended in divorce. Then came transformation. At 31, Clint found faith, quit meth cold turkey, and began building a new life. He married Amaryllis, had three sons, and spent 17 years as a pastor. The old wounds seemed healed, replaced by a sense of belonging. Their oldest son Gabriel was their pride and joy. A prodigy who soloed in an airplane before he could drive alone, Gabriel earned his pilot's license at 17—the youngest possible age. He was also a talented guitarist and photographer who graduated high school early. Then came September 23, 2019. After flying a friend back to college in Arkansas, Gabriel encountered unexpected weather. Like Kobe Bryant's helicopter crash, spatial disorientation claimed the young pilot's life. "We have two choices," Clint told his family the next morning. "We can get trapped in the tragedy, or we can choose life—living the way Gabriel lived." Though they chose life, the old narrative of abandonment clawed its way back into Clint's mind: Where was God? Why wasn't his family protected? But this time was different. Though Clint's faith wavered, he discovered something profound: God's presence never shifted. Even in his anger and grief, love remained constant. Through a tight-knit community of friends and family, Clint learned that his childhood narrative was wrong—he was never truly alone. Today, Clint speaks and writes about his journey, helping others overcome their own false narratives. His most urgent message? "There's not as much time as we think. Live intentionally, love deeply, and remember—you're never alone." Connect with Clint: clinthatton bigboldbrave.us Connect with Tim & Steve: narrative.live Follow us on Facebook & Instagram @narrativelive Join Our Discord Server! discord

In this episode, Tim and Steve reflect on the past few months of Narrative and discuss the influences that weigh on us in a false narrative. We know instinctively that everyone wants to own and be the author of their own story, but not too many people feel like they have that control with the different factors that are going on in our world. Connect with Tim & Steve: narrative.live Follow us on IG and Facebook @narrativelive Join our Discord to continue the conversation! https://discord.com/invite/pKXYuda9Hu

Garry VonMyhr, a Michigan-based serial entrepreneur and father of four, never saw himself as having an alcohol problem. Like many, he viewed drinking as a normal part of social life and business networking. But as the COVID-19 pandemic dragged on, Garry found himself questioning this ingrained habit. "I started feeling sluggish and less present with my kids," Garry reflects. "I realized I wasn't being the dad I aspired to be." This awakening sparked a journey of introspection that went beyond just alcohol. Garry began scrutinizing all aspects of his lifestyle, from his diet to his media consumption. "I needed to question everything," he explains. "There's big money behind many societal norms, and not all of them benefit us." Garry's decision to quit drinking wasn't about battling addiction, but about reclaiming control over his health and setting a positive example for his children. He swapped alcoholic beverages for non-alcoholic alternatives and focused on whole, home-prepared meals. The impact was profound. Garry experienced increased energy, improved sleep, and enhanced mental clarity. His stress levels plummeted, and he felt a renewed sense of happiness. Initially concerned about how sobriety might affect his business relationships, Garry was pleasantly surprised by the support and interest he received. "The stigma is fading," he observes. "More people are realizing that the downsides of drinking outweigh any benefits." Garry's story serves as an inspiration to challenge accepted norms. He encourages others to examine their habits and make conscious choices about what they consume, both physically and mentally. "Take time to reflect without technology," he advises. "Evaluate your inputs - your food, drink, entertainment, and social circle. Gradually replace negative influences with positive ones." Connect with Tim and Steve: narrative.live Follow us on IG and Facebook @narrativelive

Raised in a conservative Christian homeschool environment, Greg's journey led him from the cornfields of Missouri to the bustling streets of New York City and the rigorous world of the Coast Guard. Greg's foundation is built on his Christian faith, but his experiences taught him to question and refine his beliefs without abandoning his core values. Greg advises to "enter every conversation with the assumption that you might be wrong.” As a marketing director, endurance athlete, and father, Greg embodies the art of balancing professional ambition with personal well-being. He emphasizes the importance of consistent habits: regular exercise, a healthy diet, quality time with family, and an insatiable appetite for learning. "People who are balanced are more productive in their working time than people who aren't." Greg challenges the notion that success requires sacrificing other aspects of life. His approach involves setting clear boundaries between work and home, ensuring he's fully present in each role. Greg's philosophy extends beyond personal development to a broader worldview. He encourages others to view themselves as heroes in their own stories rather than victims of circumstance. "A hero says, somebody else caused this evil to come upon me, but I will fight back and change the narrative that I have," he explains. Greg advocates for "willfully engaging in elective suffering" as a path to growth. By consistently pushing our limits – whether through physical challenges or intellectual pursuits – we expand our capacity to handle life's everyday difficulties. Our lives are shaped not just by the circumstances we face, but by how we choose to respond to them. Examine your own narrative, seek truth diligently, and craft a life of purpose. To Connect with Tim and Steve: narrative.live Follow us on Instagram and Facebook @narrrativelive Join our Discord to continue the conversation! discord

Born with nerve damage on the right side of his body, Jake Fedida faced a world that wasn't designed for him. As a child, he hid behind his mother's leg, ashamed of his differences. But a chance encounter with his hero, Derek Jeter, changed everything. On August 6, 2003, ten-year-old Jake met the Yankees legend. To his surprise, Jeter thought Jake's unique way of playing baseball was "awesome." This simple affirmation from his idol transformed Jake's perspective overnight. "That was all I needed," Jake recalls. "I said, screw you. My hero thinks I'm cool." From that day forward, Jake embraced his differences. He developed a philosophy of "don't sweat the petty stuff," focusing on what truly matters. His physical challenges became a source of strength, teaching him to approach problems creatively and value diverse perspectives. Today, Jake is a successful voice actor and staffing professional. He spreads positivity wherever he goes. Jake's message is clear: "Don't talk yourself out of something just because of an internal belief that you may or may not be able to do it. Just go for it." Jake's story reminds us that our differences can be our greatest strengths. By embracing what makes us unique and surrounding ourselves with supportive people, we can overcome any challenge and inspire others along the way. As Jake puts it, "If you make the decision not to quit, then good things will happen." His journey from shy kid to confident adult proves that with the right mindset, anything is possible. Connect with Jake: jakefedida.com Connect with Tim or Steve: narrative.live Follow us at @narrativelive on IG or Facebook! Join the Discord for more conversations about your narrative: https://discord.com/invite/pKXYuda9Hu

"If the creator of the universe knows everything you're ever going to do and everything you ever might do. If you're so bad, why would he make you? Obviously, it's a rhetorical question, because, he wouldn't." - Mike Stapleton Mike had a pretty rough childhood, dealing with sexual abuse and later his parents' separation, which left him feeling a constant sense of shame and insecurity. He didn't feel safe and developed what he described as split personalities. Michael was the person he had to be daily, coping with the challenges, while Mike was the confident guy he aspired to become. When Mike got to college, he had a major turning point. He decided it was time to stop playing the victim and blaming his parents and past for his troubles. Mike realized that it was up to him to take control and "figure it out." Meeting his wife was a huge influence on this shift. She encouraged and inspired him, helping him reconnect with people and trust again. Now, Mike has found a church community that backs his efforts to be the man he believes his wife and daughters deserve. Mike’s journey is all about overcoming past traumas and creating a fulfilling, authentic life. His story shows how powerful it is to take control of your narrative and live true to yourself. Connect with Mike Stapleton: 904-502-1952, [email protected], StapletonConsultingServices.com Join the Discord Channel Let's Connect: www.narrative.live LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"There's something about real community. If you have real community and real friends and allies and people that understand and want to understand your story and what your life's about, that's huge." - Steve Gohl Life is not perfect for anyone. It may seem as though someone you know has it all but I promise you they too have faced hard times. What do you do in hard times? Do you journal? Do you have a community to lean on? In this new format we’ll be offering how to advice once a month in addition to all the great stories. We talked about journaling and the benefits of unplugging long enough to actually think about what is going on. Tim shared about totems and how they can remind us of our wins. And of course, we talked about the passion we have behind this community we are building and the benefits of different perspectives that come from a supportive community. We announced our new Discord channel for all of us to connect and support each other. The podcast is full of stories of people who have overcome their false narratives only to craft new ones that serve them and their families. It’s not always easy to ask for help or share your full story. Discord gives us all a safe space to pour into each other and remind each other it’s going to be ok. Join the Discord Channel Let's Connect: www.narrative.live LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"You won't profit unless you implement. And if you take the word profit out and you want to put in the word success, you won't have success unless you implement." - Vance Morris "You're going to college" said Vance Morri's parents and he didn't question it. That's what you were "supposed to do right?" Go to college, get a job, and eventually retire. Vance had success at Disney and then a retirement community. Until he didn't. Vance wanted to do things his way and the standard didn't allow for any deviations. Vance soon realized he was a lousy employee. After years of working in the hospitality industry and honing his skills in customer service, Vance made the bold decision to transition into entrepreneurship. Drawing inspiration from his experiences at Disney Institute, he founded his own franchise cleaning carpets. Vance's unique approach, rooted in his personal journey and professional expertise, has earned him a reputation in delivering experiences he can charge top dollar for. At the core of Vance is the desire to implement and be in control of his time. It was like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. Listen to the episode to hear what almost ended it all just three days after signing paperwork to own the franchise. Join me in exploring Vance Morris's transformative journey and discover the power of resilience, determination, and unwavering belief in oneself. To Connect with Vance Morris: DeliverServiceNow.com Let's Connect: www.narrative.live LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"It's not something that I can change from my past, and I wouldn't change my past. My past has gotten me to where I'm at today." - Jen Pointer Growing up, Jen Pointer's identity was shaped by a false narrative that she had to conform to societal expectations and define herself through external achievements. She felt the pressure to follow a traditional path of success, leading her to believe that her worth was tied to her job title and accomplishments. A pivotal momentS came when Jen faced significant "bends in the road" that challenged her preconceived notions of identity. After experiencing blow after blow around 2020 including a divorce and losing her father and cousin, she realized that her true happiness could not be found in conforming to societal norms. This shift in perspective prompted Jen to embrace the courage to make necessary changes and start over, paving the way for a journey of self-discovery and reinvention. Jen Pointer now crafts her life by aligning with her authentic self and values personal fulfillment over external validation. Through her experiences of growth and transformation, Jen inspires others to embrace the power of rewriting false narratives and creating a fulfilling life that reflects their true essence. Join us as we explore Jen's journey of self-discovery and reinvention on our latest episode. To Connect with Jen Pointer: [email protected] or LinkedIn: @Jennifer-Pointer Let's Connect: www.narrative.live LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"Be the encourager for everybody. That you want for yourself." - Vinnie Fisher Vinnie Fisher has a captivating journey from a childhood marked by poverty and dysfunction to becoming a successful entrepreneur and mentor. Vinnie shared how he initially believed the false narrative that "I need to escape my family"due to his circumstances, define his future, but his determination to excel in academics and sports set him on a different path. Despite facing adversity, Vinnie found inspiration in his wife, Debbie, who challenged him to confront his manipulative tendencies and strive for authenticity. However, it was that pivotal "bend in the road", with his now wife Debbie, that truly shifted Vinnie's narrative. Through forgiveness, particularly towards his father, Vinnie experienced a profound personal transformation that allowed him to embrace empathy and love. This turning point not only shaped his character but also fueled his passion for guiding others, especially those over 45, to stay engaged and reinvest their wisdom in the next generation. Today, Vinnie Fisher is a beacon of wisdom and encouragement, advocating for the importance of being present and finding contentment in the here and now. His journey of overcoming challenges and embracing authenticity serves as a powerful reminder to savor each moment and focus on the positive aspects of life. Through his mentorship and entrepreneurial ventures like Mentor Academy, Vinnie continues to inspire others to craft a life filled with purpose and impact. To Connect with Vinnie Fisher: VinnieFisher.com or IG: @VinnieFisher Let's Connect: www.narrative.live EpLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"Everybody has a story to tell regardless of what they look like, regardless of where they come from." - Mike Thomas Mike Thomas, a man whose journey from an emotional childhood to a purpose-driven adulthood always placed him in a position to fight for the underdog. Raised in a challenging environment, Mike's older brother, Bub, was born with Aperts Syndrome. He had physical deformities but was not mentally challenged. Throughout school, Mike tried to include his brother. He hated the idea of anyone being left out for whatever reason. Thus was born, "I have to fight for the underdog." Mike recognized that everyone has a story to tell and he strives to help people do just that. He looks up to his brother as a true hero. Despite every day waking up and knowing his story was going to be different, Bub formed friendships and strives to lead a positive life regardless of his disabilities. Mike's different careers have propelled him towards a path of self-discovery and personal growth. His journey from adversity to empowerment serves as a poignant reminder of the strength that can be found in embracing life's challenges and staying true to one's values. Now, as Mike reflects on his past, he reveals how his experiences have shaped his advocacy for marginalized individuals and his commitment to building a business that aligns with his deeply held convictions. By prioritizing his roles as a devoted husband, loving father, and steadfast follower of Jesus, Mike has found fulfillment in mentoring others and creating a life that reflects his true essence. To Connect with Mike Thomas: @MichaelLThomas or email [email protected] ThomasMediaGroup.co Let's Connect: www.narrative.live Socials: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"What does God say about me? And what God says about me is that because of Christ and what he did for me, I am good enough." - Warren Mainard Warren had an abundance of confidence that he could do anything. But when Warren's kindergarten teacher identified Warren Mainard as having dyslexia, he was forced to repeat Kindergarten. The message Warren took from that was he was flawed, he'd never be good at school, and school was easier for the other kids. We discussed how the teacher taking action FOR Warren felt AGAINST him to Warren. Warren was a man whose childhood struggles with dyslexia shaped a false narrative of inadequacy and self-doubt. Warren soon learned to focus on other aspects of school and life like being the class clown and tennis. Listen to his "bend in the road" in college and the young lady who challenged him on his grades. He realized he just learns differently! Through introspection and faith, Warren discovered that his true calling and identity were not defined by external achievements but by a higher purpose, leading him to redefine his life's mission and impact others in profound ways. Today, Warren Mainard continues to inspire and lead as the national director of Impact Players, dedicating his life to empowering men to excel as husbands, fathers, and leaders. His journey through hardship and self-discovery has shaped his approach to life, emphasizing the importance of resilience, faith, and personal growth. Warren encourages listeners to embrace their own unique journey and find purpose beyond the limitations of societal expectations by asking 2 simple questions. Listen to the end to learn what they are. To Connect with Warren Mainard: [email protected], www.impactplayers.org and LinkedIn @Warren Mainard Let's Connect: www.narrative.live Socials: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"My true purpose, my true mission in life, is masculinity, marriage, and mindset." - Matt Clark Matt Clark shares his childhood struggles with imposter syndrome in baseball, shaped by a false narrative that he didn't measure up. Growing up Matt grappled with feelings of inadequacy which is common today due to societal pressures and the impact of social media. Despite putting on a brave front and a successful career, he felt like he was constantly falling short of expectations, leading to a deep internal conflict. However, a significant "bend in the road" shifted Matt's childhood narrative, prompting a journey of self-discovery and faith. Through introspection at an online retreat and hard conversations with himself, Matt found healing and emotional release, redefining his identity and self-worth. By challenging past insecurities and societal influences, he began to reframe negative beliefs and build confidence in his true self, ultimately finding freedom in accepting and embracing who he is, a child of God. Now, Matt is actively crafting a life centered around faith, personal growth, and inspiring others to overcome imposter syndrome and strengthen their marriages. By sharing his story and experiences, he aims to empower men to strengthen their relationships, masculinity, and mindset through spiritual development and self-improvement. Through initiatives like the Driven Champion Mastermind, Matt encourages individuals to embrace their true identity, give their best without fear of judgment, and live authentically in alignment with their beliefs. To Connect with Matt Clark: [email protected] Let's Connect: www.narrative.live Socials: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

"It's who I know that gets me in the door, and it's what I know that keeps me there." - Neil Twa Neil Twa shares how a false narrative of a scarcity mindset, around money, shaped his perspective on life from a young age. He saw other's with money so he just had to figure out how he could get some too. Discover how his early experiences of getting out of town set the stage for a journey of self-discovery and growth. Then, a significant "bend in the road" altered Neil's trajectory, challenging his beliefs and pushing him to reevaluate his goals and aspirations. Neil shared that in the midst of hyper growth within Sprint, his marriage failed and transformed his outlook on life and set him on a new course. Now, Neil is actively crafting a life centered around family and truly pouring into others. Neil's past experiences have shaped his present-day values and priorities, offering valuable insights and inspiration for listeners seeking to navigate their own paths to success and fulfillment. To learn more about Neil Twa: VoltageDM.com/ Neil Twa's Podcast: Business Builders Let's Connect: www.narrative.live On Social: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/narrativelive/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Narrative_live

Gerry Wilson was an only child. She watched her father work 12 hour days. She saw her parents sacrifice to provide an idyllic childhood. Somehow she learned that she needed to be a good girl which meant being perfect and she didn't want to let her parents down! Gerry grew up and got married. Eveything seemed in place until her fairy-tale marriage took an unexpected detour, she found herself at a crossroads. The cracks in her perfect facade revealed a new path filled with twists and turns, challenging her to redefine her narrative. She began teaching at a preschool. She had a friend and co-worker remind her, not to let this divorce ruin her. She also chose to focus on the fact that she wasn't without skill and opportunity. She ended up earning her masters in English. Fast forward to today, Gerry Wilson is a self-proclaimed late bloomer recently publishing her novel at 82 years young. She shows us that it's okay to stumble, as long as we pick ourselves up and keep moving forward. To Connect with Gerry Wilson: FB @GerryWilson, www.gerrygwilson.com Substack: Stories I am Old Enough To Tell To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

I knew Kathy Izard's episode was worthy of revisiting. We discussed the powerful theme of "My Work Is My Identity." Kathy's early years were dominated by a high-achieving, picture-perfect family facade in Texas, where ambitions were high, and family struggles were kept behind closed doors. Discover how these early experiences forged a false narrative that conflated personal value with professional success, setting the stage for a profound personal journey. Hear about the pivotal "bend in the road" that challenged everything Kathy thought she knew about success and self-worth. A combination of her husband’s unexpected health crisis and a transformative play about mental health vividly reshaped her perspective. This episode reveals the moment Kathy began to question the entrenched beliefs of her upbringing, leading her toward a path of profound personal healing. Now thriving in a life redefined by purpose beyond work, Kathy shares how she's crafting a new narrative centered on intentional living, community service, and deep relationships. Listen as she pointed out the importance of trusting your inner voice, embracing life's unexpected turns, and the importance of rewriting your story. Don't miss this inspiring journey of resilience and change. You might just find the courage to question and reshape your own narrative. To Connect with Kathy Izard: KathyIzard.com or WomenFaithStory.com To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

I sat down with Gery Deer, diving into the early narratives that shaped him from a young age. Growing up surrounded by specific societal and familial expectations, Gery discusses how these early influences scripted his life in ways he didn’t initially see. Ever wonder how much of your life is shaped by what you're told you should do versus what you want to do? Gery hits a major crossroads during his college years, where everything he thought he knew about his path comes into question. From losing scholarships to shifting academic and personal relationships, his “bend in the road” was all about challenging what you thought was your set path. It’s a revealing look into those life-changing moments that force us to step out of comfort zones and ask the hard questions about who we really want to be. Fast forward to today, and Gery is actively redefining what his life looks like, focusing on authenticity over compliance. Whether it’s navigating the responsibilities of caregiving or shifting career gears, his story is a powerful reminder of the importance of staying true to yourself, even when life throws curveballs. Tune in and get inspired by Gery’s journey to take control of his own story. Maybe it’ll spark some ideas on how you can reshape yours too! To Connect with Gery Deer: Facebook: Official Gery L. Deer Insta: @officialgeryldeer LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gerydeer/ Gery's Podcast: Old Nerd In The Gym podcast And the articles we mentioned: Deer In Headlines II: What we both knew. - https://jamestowncomet.wordpress.com/2023/06/12/what-we-both-knew/ (Award-nominated piece I wrote last year about the day my father realized he was dying.) Deer In Headlines: Caregiving with dignity - https://www.xeniagazette.com/2017/10/04/caregiving-with-dignity/ Deer In Headlines: Anticipatory Grief. https://www.xeniagazette.com/2023/03/09/anticipatory-grief/ To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

JC Chanowsky's early years were filled with traditional Sunday dinners at his Italian Grandparent's house until upheaval struck, leaving him feeling unanchored and prone to bullying. How did a young JC navigate the chaos of constant moves and a family split? Tune in to discover the adversity that influenced his formative years. As his personal life spiraled, JC found mentors in unexpected places. A friend’s father became a makeshift role model, offering stability during turbulent times. And his stepfather, who would prefer to talk sports but left no need unmet for JC. After hitting rock bottom, JC made a life-altering decision to join the military, which led him not to the Army, but to the Navy. He shared the critical skills that he learned that transformed his approach to both business and family life. Listen as JC shares how military discipline became the cornerstone of his success now in life and business. And learn about his strong bond to his father that has developed over the years. To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

"If I do everything right, life will turn out well", this is the mentality that turned Josh into a bit of a people pleaser. Being a people pleaser is how he ended up in an unhealthy marriage. And in business, because Josh could figure things out, he noticed the expectations of him at work entailed more than just his job description. And guess what? Life didn't turn out well. Josh grew up in Northern NM being home-schooled with his 9 other siblings. His only other friends were his parent's friends' children. That environment grew social awkwardness in Josh. But once his family moved back to Norther MN from the Minneapolis area, he was thrown into public school. It became obvious to Josh that he didn't have that social hierarchy, that others understood. Josh learned to be risk-averse. Through his divorce, getting remarried, starting a business, and having children Josh has learned how to have boundaries to keep people pleasing at bay. Now he'll take calculated risks in relationships and in his career. He shared all about that transformation in this episode. To Connect with Josh Latterell: JoshLatterell.com or ElmDigital Marketing.com To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Have you ever witnessed a child rebelling against their parent? Like, the more the parent says "This is the right way", the more the child continues to try to do it their way? That's kind of how Geoff Wollerman was growing up. He got the message early that you get married and find a job and that is how to find success in life. He rejected this ideology. In high school, he started down a rebellious path. Plus, he's an idea guy so his mind was always racing with ideas, and drugs and alcohol gave him a break! He felt out of place and ahead of his time, at the same time. He didn't finish high school until later he earned his GED. It turns out all the searching he did until about his 30's (when he graduated from college) was all for this moment in life. Now Geoff is using all of his English language skills to start an IT company. Listen to hear what he now defines as a successful life and what he is doing with these maxims: “Life is what happens to you when you're busy making other plans.” Language is Everything Don’t try to change ppl Know yourself Reuse plastic as much as possible Time and space are more important than money and success Fake it till you make it but don’t bulls**t a bullsh**tter Love is Slippery Find the one thing. Be sure it’s the one thing and then give it 150%. But be 200% sure it’s the one thing. Play by all the rules and then break all the rules Connect with Geoff Wollerman on LinkedIn: @GeofWollerman and check out his IT company TruenodeTech.com To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

When Tammy thinks back to her upbringing all she can do is offer empathy for her father. Her biological father made some very bad choices. But did that make him a bad man a bad person? Tammy knows how his parents were and understand how they shaped who he was. You have got to hear about her upbringing and things she can remember from a very early age like 2 years old. Tammy's mother was careful to never throw her biological dad "under the bus." Her mom was wise enough to know that in time Tammy would glean the truth. But in response to her mother never saying her dad was a bad man, Tammy learned he had just made bad choices. She is able to apply that to the general population now! We all get to make our own choices and believe the perception we have created. Adversity can breed character-building. Tammy is almost drawn to challenges but sees them as an opportunity to grow. We are all in charge of our destiny within our choices. We can accept or change our perception. Quotes from the episode: Chief Tecumseh Words of Wisdom: “When you rise in the morning give thanks for the food and for thejoy of living. And if you see no reason for giving thanks, then the fault lies only in yourself.” William Shakespeare: “A Jack of all trades is a master of none. But often times, is better than a master of 1.” To connect with Tammy: arenatrainingfacility.com or [email protected] To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Growing up somehow Susun Finn understood that she needed to be the smartest person in the room but because she was a female, it was important not to outshine the boys. Susan got pretty smart and worked as a food scientist at a Dairy Farm. Susan ended up leaving that job to take care of her 4 children and the others who had adopted their family. Unfortunately, one day her mother was in a terrible accident and she became her mother's full time caregiver. Susan was so busy taking care of those who depended on her she eventually surrendered to "Just being 'ok' was ok!" She gained wisdom through those years...some of it coming from her children. Susan is proud of her education and no longer thinks it's bad to shine too brightly. In fact, she uses that knowledge to help others to shine brightly too! To connect with Susan Finn: [email protected] or www.riseabovenoise.com Check out her free resources: Digital Marketing Resources and monthly free webinar: Upcoming Digital Marketing Webinars and Workshops To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Why narratives? Because every story matters. You know, so many people ask, "Is this a Christian podcast?" This is not the focus but what we know about personal development is that it usually includes an aspect of Spiritual, Mental, Physical, and Social growth. Some stories have a strong message from one of those areas, religion may just be easier to notice. We are so grateful to everyone who has shared their stories. We also hear "Why share MY story?" In each episode we explore 3 components, what WAS the core belief, what was the bend in the road that shifted you, and what daily practices keep you on course with your new narrative or foundation. Sharing encourages others like a chain reaction. That chain reaction starts when a listener hears a way towards accountability and realizes it's never too late to make a new start with change. Psychologist Stanley Milgram found that 80% of people do not have the psychological and moral resources to defy an authority's order. We want to equip you with the resources you need to craft a new narrative! And lastly, we are most like those that we spend the most time around. We love you spending your time with us and we'd like to do the same in return with a Men's retreat in Michigan. Will you join us? Click on the link for details! Apply to Share Your Story! Register for Men's Retreat April 27th To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Melissa Van Oss, watched her grandparents as she grew up, they represented the perfect couple. They complimented each other and one was never far from the other. Their example of a life long relationship became Melissa guiding light for her life. However, when she looked to her parents for that same example she saw divorce. She shared how she processed that loss and how it changed her view of what she wanted for herself. She knew she wanted to wait for a connection that would last. In her waiting, she grew quite independent. Melissa crafted an identity of her own, that did not depend on a lifelong partner. She'd love to get married, had many long-term relationships, but she wasn't going to settle. And as she explained, her grandmother was independent and that example gave Melissa encouragement to go from country mouse to small town to city mouse now in D.C. Melissa shared her daily practices for developing personally and in business as she waits for Mr. Right. To Connect with Melissa VanOss: [email protected] on all social @AuthorMelissaVanOss, LinkedIn @MelissaVanOss, and https://linktr.ee/melissavanoss To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Tyler Schmoll, self-proclaimed "gap filler" and human version of Curious George got vulnerable about how those personality characteristics ultimately made him close his business. Tyler had gotten good at filling the gaps, doing those things others didn't want to do. Or when things went arye, he was "Johnny On the Spot" willing to help in any way, shape, or form. At the same time being curious, "How do we, how can I, solve this problem?" It all came to a head when he saw his wife struggling due to his desire to fill gaps at work and at home. He shared how it felt to him, as that identity, of being a business owner, wasn't his anymore. He doesn't see it as a failure because he chose his family and that was the right decision by him. Tyler offered a unique perspective of reacting vs. responding. Connect with Tyler Schmoll: [email protected], or on FB: TylerSchmoll, and IG: @Tyler__Schmoll To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live

Rob Hohmann's dad did a good job protecting his family and country, and Rob was watching. He too wanted to be a protector. He fell in love, got married, and before the year was up found himself getting a divorce. He felt like he'd gone from hero to zero. But like a true hero, he didn't give up on life and love. He learned the lesson of "What may seem like a short coming, could be a blessing in disguise." Actually, the same year his divorce was final he found himself promising vows to another woman. An animated Italian woman who embraced him. He now has the privilege of protecting them. But not just them. Listen to how Rob became a hero again. He is today, who he thought he'd be - reliable, protective, go to bat for others. You may be surprised how he does it though! Rob Hohmann's Digital Business Card: RobHohmann.com text: 813-943-9683 To Connect with Tim Croll or Steve Gohl: www.narrative.live