27. “I don’t care about what he wants, I just want to win the argument”
Tami's $250 trip to Target led to a huge blow-up with her husband, Mike. It ended with her storming out of their home and coming to me for help. For Tami and Mike, money is a weapon to use against each another's annoying habits and hobbies. They say they're making jokes, but the reality of the situation isn't funny at all. It's deeply toxic.
Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi
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Show Notes
It all started with a splurge at Target. Tami spent $250 and tried to hide it from her husband, Mike. He likes to make digs and police her spending habits. She likes to make jokes about his bad purchases. They’re sparring over gas station snacks and unused kayaks, and each “win” gives them the satisfaction of saying, “I told you so.” These seemingly minor annoyances are covering much deeper resentment issues. As you’re listening, think about the habits you and your partner have. Ask yourself: are they serving you?
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