Mention It All

Leva Bonaparte, fresh off of one chaotic Bravo season and in the midst of another, returns to the podcast to debrief on all the Charleston mess. She shares her perspective on why Southern Hospitality is really clicking in its second season, and what it means to see rising ratings on both of her shows. She discusses navigating her tricky role as a boss on and off the show, and why she’s happy to receive fewer midnight texts. Later, she chats through some of the biggest dramas on this season of Hospitality, and how she feels about securing a reunion for this season. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is joined by Betches cofounder Sami Sage for a deep dive on the dynamics at play this season on RHOBH. They unpack Annemarie’s questionable approach to joining the show, and why Crystal’s alleged insults really aren’t that bad. They also chat through Kyle’s ~life journey~ and where this season ranks overall. Earlier in the episode, they catch up on the RHOSLC reunion, and break down an exciting RHOC filming update. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back for one more RHOSLC recap this season, breaking down the epic third part of the reunion. First, he unpacks the news that Monica will not be returning to the show next season, and why it’s ultimately probably a good thing. Back at the reunion, Angie makes a strong case for herself, while Monica struggles to find the right tone, and even Andy isn’t having it. Heather also closes the loop on Black Eye-gate, but is everyone satisfied with her apologies? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back with a solo episode, which he begins with a complete rundown of all the Ls Annemarie has taken over the RHOBH esophagus debacle. Has anyone ever flopped harder? Then, he reacts to the news about the latest Vanderpump Rules spinoff, which looks like a true crime series in the making. Later, he dives into this season of The Traitors, and examines how the non-Bravo players might be underestimating the Housewives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Between Married to Medicine and The Traitors, Phaedra Parks has never been more booked and busy, but on today’s episode she stops by the studio to chat with Dylan about it all. They get into Phaedra’s two-decade journey with reality TV, and why M2M felt like the right opportunity years after departing RHOA. Phaedra breaks down the dynamics of the Married to Med cast, then shares the hectic process of joining The Traitors. Between these two projects, she also shares her views on accepting blessings and letting things happen when they’re meant to… and throwing shade when it’s appropriate. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode, Dylan is joined by Miami housewife and three-peat Mention It All guest Dr. Nicole Martin. It’s a new season, and they’ve got a whole new set of topics to dive into, starting with WTF happened at Nicole’s Mamacita Luncheon. She discusses navigating tricky relationships with the Miami OGs, and why she’s hoping for some new women to hang out with next season. She also opens up about the unexpected loss of her father, expecting a second child, and how the show has changed her as a person. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To cap off a busy week, Dylan is back for a solo episode that starts with the latest Tres Amigas updates. Then, he turns his attention to the RHOSLC reunion, where Monica’s post-finale still seems a bit muddled. Does she even want to salvage her spot on the show? Later, Dylan recaps this week’s RHOBH, with a focus on Annemarie’s weird obsession with Sutton, and Kyle’s heartfelt moments with Morgan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a new year, and a new Lisa! On today’s episode, RHOM star Lisa Hochstein returns to the studio to chat with Dylan about everything that’s gone down this season. She shares her current mindset about her divorce, and the frustration of how the women have handled it this season. She also breaks down the chaos of the Mother’s Day brunch, and how she navigates her friendships with some complicated ladies. Later, she teases what’s still to come this season, and her exciting business ventures. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Still reeling from Vanderpump Rules’ tragic loss at the Emmys, Dylan hits the studio with fellow Bravo socialite (ew) Gibson Johns. They get into the burgeoning feud between the former Tres Amigas ladies, and what it might signal about the next season of RHOC. Then, they discuss the recently concluded season of RHUGT, and why it only sort of worked. From there, they go long on this season of RHOP, which returned from the holiday break to little acclaim. Finally, they diagnose the problems of Beverly Hills this season, along with what’s working. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As the whirlwind first week of the year continues, Dylan is joined by Samantha Bush to recap the latest happenings around the Bravoverse. They have updates on Monica’s whole… situation, featuring a leaked video that calls her entire personal storyline into question. They discuss why her tactics threaten the whole framework of Real Housewives, and where we go from here. Then, they pivot to this week’s new episodes of RHOM and RHOBH, where things are (slightly) less chaotic than RHOSLC. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s the first week of 2024, and we may have already gotten the best episode of the year? Dylan sits down to unpack the mind-blowing finale of RHOSLC, where the cast and the editors united to create something truly special. From the Reality Von Tease timeline to the most important social media reactions, it’s a full deep dive with all the need to know information. Later, Dylan speculates on Monica’s future with the show, and why this episode hit so hard. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s the final episode of the year, and Dylan celebrates the occasion by giving out some very real awards for Bravo achievement in 2023. But first, he discusses Alexis Bellino’s chilling Christmas gift from John Janssen, and why it’s especially ironic given her comments at BravoCon. Later, he names the nominees for categories like Ill-Fated Attention Grab of the Year and Best Love Triangle, before getting to the top prize for Franchise of the Year. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kelly Killoren Bensimon is back on a Housewives show for the first time since 2011, and she’s back in the studio with Dylan to recap it all. They talk about her decision to return to the fray, and her lack of expectations for RHUGT. She also discusses her frustrations with Kristen’s host/fan/producer energy, and the crux of Luann’s Ranger game issue. Later, she shares her love of Cameo, and whether this is the end of the reality TV road for her. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As the Potomac cast works through their issues in Austin, Dr. Wendy Osefo returns to the podcast with her takes on the current season. She chats through her evolving approach to the show, and how her position in the cast has changed as well. She also assesses her feelings on Robyn’s, along with other cast controversies from this season. Later, she dives deep on her issues with Nneka, and why this conflict has hit different from past situations on the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Before heading home for the holidays, Dylan couldn’t resist recapping RHOSLC, and somehow, the season finale is almost upon us. But first, it’s another hectic week in Bermuda, with Monica and Meredith sharing their very different version of events re: Angie’s Greek Mafia rumors. After analyzing Monica’s questionable read on her position in the group, Dylan digs into Whitney’s blowup over Heather’s book, and finishes things off with a dramatic reading of the infamous boudoir photoshoot section of Bad Mormon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back for another Monday episode that starts, unsurprisingly, with a bleak update on Kim Zolciak & Co. Plus, Dr. Tiffany Moon has weighed in on Sutton Stracke’s esophagus, and she’s right (as always). From there, Dylan gets into the first three episodes of RHUGT: RHONY Legacy—the title is a mouthful, but the show is unexpectedly great. He salutes Kristen Taekman’s brave return to the fold, and evaluates Ramona’s likely last Housewives appearance. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s been a busy week, and Dylan kicks off this solo episode with his initial thoughts on the trailers for Vanderpump Rules and The Traitors. Then, he recaps a wild night at the RHUGT premiere party, where the guest list raised more than a few eyebrows. From there, he gets into recapping this week’s Beverly Hills and Miami episodes. On RHOBH, Annemarie is hovering somewhere between flop and snooze, while over on RHOM, the group’s patience for Lenny drama is wearing thin. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 incredible seasons into Married to Medicine, Dr. Jackie has been through it all, and she sits down with Dylan to get into it. They start by discussing the careful balancing act of career, activism, and reality TV, and Jackie explains how she’s made it work for so long. Then, they go deep on this season’s issues within the group, and where things might go with Quad. Later, they chat about the upcoming reunion, and what makes M2M reunions so iconic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2023 has been a whirlwind year for Ariana Madix, and on today’s episode, she stops by the Betches studio to recap it all with Dylan. They discuss the creation process of her new cocktail book, and why it felt like the only way she knew how to share her story. Dylan also gets details on Dancing With the Stars and Ariana’s upcoming Broadway debut, along with how she’s feeling about the impending 11th season of Vanderpump Rules. They also chat about how reality TV has changed her, and how she’s staying grounded through it all. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Armed with a drink and an upside-down jacket, Dylan does his best to unpack Denise’s epic performance at Kyle’s weed dinner, along with Sutton’s questionable attack strategy, Annemarie’s less-than-promising entrance, and Kim Richards’ emotional return. Then, he weighs in on Meredith’s bathtub meltdown on RHOSLC. Earlier in the episode, he shares the latest update on RHOC’s season 18 casting picture. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As this season of RHOM heats up, Guerdy Abraira returns to the studio to break it all down with Dylan. They chat about all the ways this year felt different, and Guerdy gets real about her experience with tackling cancer and fake friends at the same time. They also discuss some other events within the group, like Alexia’s evolving relationship with Adriana and Kiki’s relatable feelings about being single. Later, Guerdy reflects on her cast’s runaway success, and how reality TV has changed her. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Amid a wave of new Bravoleb podcast deals, The Grio’s Jared Alexander returns to the podcast and helps Dylan break down the tangled web of iHeart deals. They also discuss the latest piece of Bethenny journalism, and what she does (or doesn’t) have in common with Erin Brockovich. Later, they dig into this season of RHOP, and Dylan has a revelation about his feelings for one of the cast members. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a sad day, as Dylan reacts to the news that Taylor Armstrong will not be returning to RHOC next season. After musing on what this could mean for the rest of the casting picture (Alexis? Vicki?), he jumps into recapping Beverly Hills and Miami. On RHOBH, we get our first look at Kyle’s cursed dynamic with Morgan Wade, as Sutton asks more questions at the latest Dinner Party From Hell. Over in Miami, Larsa maintains frontrunner status in the Worst Friend Awards, while Adriana gets a surprisingly emotional moment. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As Ariana dances into the DWTS finale and Sandoval is booted from Special Forces, Dylan sits down for a solo catchup. He roasts Kim Zolciak for her latest clickbait scheme, and discusses Andy’s shifting attitude about exposing his kids online. Then, he dives into this week’s RHOSLC, which features some good, old-fashioned 1-on-1s. While Meredith and Lisa debate the definition of “threat”, Monica does damage control after Pioneer Day, and Whitney struggles with a painful loss. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fresh off a long weekend, Dylan is joined by Ryan Bailey to get up to speed on all the latest Bravo happenings. They discuss the latest update on the Chris Bassett cheating rumors, and why Potomac could use some help with storylines this season. Then, they get into RHOM, where there’s almost too much storyline to fit into one show, and marvel at how the editors are holding it all together. Later, they get to Denise’s RHOBH return. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After a quick rant about the state of Black Friday deals, Dylan digs into Variety’s list of the most powerful women on reality TV. After offering some alternative suggestions, he pivots to the latest distressing news about Kim and Kroy, and urges them to get their sh*t together. Then, he recaps the latest RHOSLC, where marriages are being workshopped and Monica seems to be in a darker place than usual. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s a day filled with Bravo updates, and Dylan starts with the RHOSLC reunion seating chart, which might offer a clue about the future direction of the group. Next, he digs into RHOA casting rumors, and the NeNe vs. Bravo development that could give us a repeat of a classic cast. Later, he recaps RHOP, where Ashley finds herself cleaning up her own predictable messes once again. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan finishes off the week with a double dose of Housewives recaps, beginning with the Beverly Hills ladies’ last day in Vegas. He gives Kyle and Mauricio his blessing to go their separate ways, and salutes Erika for being more vulnerable than… ever? After a quick reenactment of Sutton’s instantly iconic “name ’em” moment, he pivots to Miami, where all eyes are on Larsa as she bungles the rollout of Guerdy’s cancer diagnosis. Dylan ends with some words of caution for Lisa, as she moves into the next phase of her post-Lenny life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode, Danny Murphy returns to the podcast to chat about rude BravoCon encounters, Lisa Hochstein’s latest venture, and of course, RHOSLC. They recap Monica’s latest scene with her mom (and LD Millionaire’s subsequent tweets), Angie’s surprising integration into the group, and Lisa’s sudden position on the outskirts. They also question Mary’s future on the show, as she appears less and less each week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To kick off the new week, RHOP OG Ashley Darby returns to the show with lots to discuss. She and Dylan discuss the impressive rise of Potomac, and tie up some loose end from BravoCon re: Captain Jason and that Owen Wilson fling. Then, they dig into the new season of RHOP, starting with Robyn’s intense tough love session. Ashley then discusses where she stands with some of her cast, including her complicated relationships with Wendy, Mia, and Candiace. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s an action-packed episode to finish off the week, and Dylan dives right in with a breakdown of Heather and Monica’s dueling Beauty Lab lawsuits. Then, he tries to make sense of Sutton’s Magic Mike freakout, and adds some context for what didn’t make the final edit. He also unpacks Alexia and Todd’s confusing dynamic on RHOM, and all the nightmarish drama at Shep’s house on Southern Charm. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode, it’s back to regularly scheduled programming with a RHOSLC recap. First, Dylan shares some IRL insights on the SLC cast’s interactions at BravoCon, and speculates about Monica’s next move. Then, he gets into the drama of the week, with Lisa and Monica at each other’s throats at both of Whitney’s events. Later, he has a few stray thoughts on this emotional season of Southern Charm. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fresh off an exhausting weekend in Vegas, Dylan returns to the studio for a breakdown of all things BravoCon. He recaps the good, the bad, and the ugly (Nick Alain’s decor), rating the panels, revealing behind the scenes WWHL moments, and discussing the most eligible bachelor in town—Captain Jason. Finally, he shares his sweetest interaction of all time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Real Housewives of Miami are back, and OG Alexia Nepola is back in the studio to talk through the premiere. She and Dylan unpack her attempt at turning over a new leaf, and why true friendship with Adriana is unlikely. They also reflect on Alexia’s decade in the Bravo spotlight, and how the experience has changed her. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode, Dylan is joined by podcast host and bestselling author Danny Pellegrino, who’s already in the holiday spirit with his new book “The Jolliest Bunch.” They get into the pre-BravoCon drama, including Joe Gorga’s comedy scam, Ramona’s removal, and what the schedule may reveal about future plans. They also unpack the latest episode of RHOSLC, the RHOBH premiere, and Danny’s diagnosis of the problems with the RHONY reboot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s BravoCon week, but before Dylan can head to Vegas, he hits the studio to break down Vanity Fair’s supposed bombshell article about Bravo. What new information does it actually contain, and what does it reveal about Bethenny’s anti-Bravo crusade? He finishes with some final thoughts about the RHONY reunion, and salutes Frank Catania on his engagement. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To celebrate the new season of RHOBH, Dylan is joined by Kiki Monique, host of the new Betches podcast Pop Crime. After a quick debrief on Britney Spears’ memoir, Dylan and Kiki get into Kyle’s WWHL appearance, and her strategy for handling her separation. They recap the premiere episode, and break down Erika’s evolving journey around empathy. Later, they unpack Dorit and PK’s joint statement on their marriage. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back for another episode of Bravo news and recapping, starting with the “meh” news that Lauren Manzo is getting divorced. After that, he digs into Mauricio’s latest rumored romance with a DWTS pro. Later, he recaps the premiere of Winter House, with a deeper look at who in this cast has game, and who’s just cringe. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan kicks off the week with an episode full of RHONY new and old, starting with Dorinda and Luann’s confusing appearance on WWHL and a plea to end the SAG strike. Next, he unpacks the details of a new lawsuit that centers on Bluestone Manor. Later, he recaps part one of the RHONY reunion, where Sai’s position in the cast feels less and less secure. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back in the studio with Ryan Bailey, and they kick things off with some big news about Kim and Kroy’s divorce—who pays alimony if no one is making money? Then, they break down an extended RHOBH teaser that features Dorit’s vision quest, Rinna’s resignation email, and Erika’s miracle menopause weight loss. Later, they recap the social media updates to Angie and Monica’s feud, and why Monica’s mom isn’t doing herself any favors. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is joined by the newest addition to the RHOSLC cast, Monica Garcia, to talk through her experience this season. She discusses her shifting opinions of the ladies as she got to know them, and where things really went south with Angie. She also opens up about her complicated relationship with her mother, and what it’s been like to relive it on TV. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan sits down this writer and Bravo aficionado Louis Peitzman for a wide-ranging discussing on finales, premieres, and the uncertainty looming on the 2024 horizon. Louis shares his most anticipated upcoming show, and they discuss why the recently concluded RHOC reunion is such a good template for what the format can be. Then, they get into the RHONY finale, and take a broader look at what did and didn’t work in this grand reboot experiment. Lastly, Dylan and Louis chat about this reason of RHOSLC, and what Mary’s presence highlights about the “friend of” archetype. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan hits the mic solo for a double Housewives recap, but first, he’s got some strong words for Mary Cosby after her WWHL appearance. With his rant in the rearview, he breaks down the journey of the Angie K rumor, and Monica’s fascinating relationship with her mother. Later, he shares his final thoughts on the RHOC reunion. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back from the long weekend, Dylan invites Betches’ own Amanda Duberman to talk Bravo. They start with the report that Kim Zolciak has moved on from Kroy, and what this season’s Winter House cast means for the future of the Bravo universe. Then, they dive deep into this season of RHONY, and why the treatment of Jessel in recent weeks has been so hard to watch. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

All good things must come to an end, and Dylan finishes off the RHONY season 1 rewatch journey with a thorough analysis of the (one-part!) reunion. From Alex and Simon’s complaints about the edit to Luann and Ramona’s questionable excuses for their behavior, it’s a walk down the memory lane of RHONY. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As the Bravo schedule fills out for the fall, Dylan sits down to talk through what’s going to be a busy few months. He weighs in on the big debates from the first RHOC reunion episode, and crowns a surprising winner of part one. Then, he picks apart the new season trailers for both Beverly Hills (suddenly Kyle’s marriage situation seems interesting?) and Miami (which obviously looks great). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A few weeks into this season of Southern Charm, Olivia Flowers stops by the studio to chat with Dylan about how it’s going. They discuss the increased pressure of coming back for a second, and how her position in the group has shifted. Olivia also talks about what it’s like to film with an ex, and how she navigated a potential new relationship with Rod this season. Finally, she unpacks that bizarre sit-down with Taylor, and where this season is headed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To kick off the week, Dylan catches up with the RHONY ladies upon their return from Anguilla, and questions whether Sai’s dismissal of Jessel is a soft launch of her leaving the show. Earlier, he shares the latest on Kyle and Mauricio’s relationship status (if anyone cares). To finish things off, he unpacks Bethenny’s reality reckoning update, and why it’s not our problem anymore. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan is back in the studio with Ryan Bailey, host of So Bad It’s Good, and they kick things off with initial reactions to Tom Sandoval’s podcasting debut. Will he commit to the podcaster life, or is this just one more desperate attempt to cling to fame? (It’s probably the latter.) Then, they recap the RHOC finale and ponder how far Tamra will push Heather before Fancy Pants decides to pack her Bravo bags for good. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dylan returns with a solo episode full of updates, starting with Ariana and Mauricio’s DWTS premiere performances, and who’s already in danger of going home. Then, he picks apart the RHOC reunion looks, and marvels at the technological advances in reunion backdrop technology. Later, he recaps another great RHOSLC episode in Palm Springs, where the drag makeup challenge leads to a full-cast breakdown. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices