Marriage Made Easier

What's Up Real Ones! After so many discussions about the Oscars this week, we decided to share our thoughts on the matter and break down what it means to protect your woman and how a quick decision can drastically impact your life.

Imagine you are dating someone for a couple of months and everything is going great! Just when you think it's time to take things to the next level and make it official, the person you're dating decides they aren't ready for a relationship and call it quits. In this episode, we break down the truth behind some break-up statements that just don't make sense!

What's Up Real Ones! Who said don't go to sleep mad? Is that really something that most of us can keep our word on? In this episode, we share some of our recent struggles of falling short of properly handling conflict even though we have all the tools and resources to effectively communicate and resolve conflict. Sometimes, challenges arise that set your relationship back but it doesn't have to stay there. We discuss how to acknowledge your faults and address the problem with love.

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we wanted to touch on the importance of allowing men to be vulnerable and comfortable enough to speak their truth, without the fear of being judged as "soft". We unpack the history of this negative mentality and how we can set the tone for a better future for emotionally intelligent men!

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode, we discuss the cause and effects of putting your children before your spouse and how detrimental it can be for your relationship. Sit back and relax while we unpack this very touchy topic.

What's Up Real Ones! It's February and we are celebrating Black History Month and The Month of Love! In this episode we wanted to breakdown and discuss the importance of "fighting" for your relationship after seeing so many people on social media say, they are no longer fighting to make their relationship work. We wanted to clear the blurred lines of what it means to fight for your relationship (making a determined effort) and how to be intentional with you words, actions, and resources when you going through those tough times.

What's Up Real Ones! When trust is broken in relationships, most couples suffer from Negative Sentiment Override (NSO). NSO is when you believe everything your partner does is negative or has a hidden agenda. In this quickie, we discuss some solutions that can help you turn those negative interactions into positive ones!

What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode, we wanted to open up a dialogue on a very controversial topic, "Should a woman take her man's last name when they get married "? After putting up a post on our social media platforms asking this question, we quickly realized that we needed to go more in-depth on this topic and share our perspectives.

What's Up Real Ones?! We're back at it for another week in a row! This week wanted to dedicate to a few of our real ones and answer some very deep questions that was sent to us in hopes to salvage their relationships.

What's Up Real Ones! It's been almost two years since Covid has came in like a catastrophic storm and flipped our lives upside down. Unfortunately, a lot of couples have suffered from this devastating disease, that has lead to breakup and divorce. In this episode we wanting to discuss some of the factors contributing to the demise of relationships and how you can "vaccinate" your relationship to help during these difficult times.

What's Up Real Ones! Happy New Year! 2022 has arrived and everyone is excited for a new year, new start. In this episode we wanted to catch up with you guys and share our thoughts and goals for 2022!

What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we wanted to share some of our own personal struggles with identifying and accepting each others parenting styles. We also dive into what we believe influenced our parenting styles and provide research based tips to help you if you are struggling to flourish in this area.

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to break down a clip we saw on social media about "cheating respectfully". This topic got a lot of attention when we discussed it on one of our Instagram Live, so we wanted to circle back and share our point of views on why we believe this is such a toxic way of thinking.

WELCOME BACK! What's Up Real Ones?! We've been gone for a minute but we are back and excited to talk to you all again! In this episode we discuss the reason why we took such a long hiatus. We are also dropping some very important gems that will help everyone leading into the holiday season and new year to become the best version of their self NOW!

What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we discuss how important it is to spend quality time with your partner after having a baby. Most couples experience some form of neglect in their relationship after having their first born because the relationship becomes child focused. This sometimes leads to separation or divorce if it's not properly addressed and fixed. Listen closely as we discuss how having our baby girl impacted our relationship and things we did to be intentional about being attuned with each other.

What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we had the opportunity to chat with author and speaker Micheal S. Sorensen about his book, I Hear You. Micheal breaks down the "Art of Validation" and how learning this method and be life changing in all areas of your life!

What's Up Real Ones! Have you ever caught yourself arguing with your partner over something that happened months or even years ago? If so, you're not alone. In this episode we discuss why it's so important to resolve those issues (big or small) immediately. And how to set boundaries to avoid those same issues from reoccurring in the future.

What's Up Real Ones! Nine years ago we decided to embark on our spiritual journey together and get baptized. We didn't know it then but that decision would be the best decision we made for our relationship. Shortly after we entered a storm so powerful that had we not laid our spiritual foundation when we did we wouldn't be where we are today. In this episode we share our testimony of how impactful it has been for us to build a relationship with God together and how it covered our union during the most difficult times of our lives.

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to take it back with a classic, after seeing a post on social media about a petition being signed to cancel Destiny's Child Cater 2 U song. We were so confused by the topic we had to break down the lyrics and share our thoughts!

What's Up Real Ones! We are back and ready to fill you in on all the details of why we've been MIA! We appreciate all the love, support, and patience while we got ourselves together. So, we decided to dedicate this episode to our REAL ONES and answer a few of your questions that we thought would be helpful to so many individuals! Be sure to visit our site www.realationshipspodcast.com and check out our first custom piece from our REAL LOVE COLLECTION, our REAL LOVE DEFINED T-shirt!

What's Up Real Ones! Today we are celebrating our 5th year anniversary! So, we wanted to share with you the top five things we learned about ourselves and marriage in these last 5 years. Be sure to listen all the way through because we are definitely dropping gems that can help you and your marriage.

What's Up Real Ones! Have you ever noticed yourself comparing your relationship to others on social media and tv? Well if so, your not alone. So many individuals find themselves caught up in the fantasy of living up to someone else's reality. In this episode we discuss how harmful this action is to your relationship and how you should focus less on those around you and more on the person with you.

What's Up Real Ones! Most of us have heard of the 5 Love Languages, and for those who haven't, you're in for a real treat! In this episode we had the pleasure to speak with the creator and author of the 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman. We dive deep into what the 5 Love Languages mean and how having a clear understanding of them can transform not only your relationship but your personal life as well.

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we had the opportunity to sit down with John and Julie Gottman and discuss the key principles of Dr. Gottman's book The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work. The gems they're dropping will surely help your marriage to not only survive but THRIVE!

What's Up Real Ones! I'm sure we have all heard about the tragic incident where a young lady thought it was a bright idea to put gorilla glue in her hair. Although we don't recommend using glue as a hair spray substitute, we thought this episode would be a great analogy of how you can use the word GLUE to keep your relationship strong and bonded. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=en

What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we decided to share our personal thoughts on the controversial topic of submission in marriage and how breaking down the biblical definition helped to change our opinion on the subject. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=en

What's up Real Ones! Do you find yourself being drawn to toxic individuals? In this we discuss why it is that so many people stay in toxic relationships and how they contribute to the toxicity without even knowing it. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=en

What's up Real Ones! After receiving a message from one of our Real Ones about this topic we thought it would be interesting to discuss and get your feedback on how long is too long to wait for marriage? Some people believe that 6 to 12 months is enough time to determine if you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner. In this episode we share our opinion of what is the "right" time and determining factors to pop the question, "Will You Marry Me". Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast Follow us on Instagram: Podcast- https://www.instagram.com/realationshipspodcast/?hl=en Asha- https://www.instagram.com/ashastill/?hl=en Devon- https://www.instagram.com/stillinthegame/?hl=en

2020 has been an emotional roller coaster for all of us. In this episode we recap all the highs and lows we experienced this year and discuss our goals for 2021! Click the link below to learn more about our patreon launching January 1st, 2021. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

What's up Real Ones! We decided to dedicate this episode to you, as promised. We receive so many questions asking for advice on how to get over an ex, dealing with a long distance relationship, to how to spice up a dwindling relationship. After going through all those messages we figured it was only right to answer all those questions and more in this episode. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the bumpy ride! Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

What's up Real Ones?! In this episode we are exploring one of the many principles we learned from reading, Dr. John Gottman's book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work". We discuss the acts of turning towards or turning away from your partner and how catching your partner's "bid" can make or break your relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

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In this episode we discuss Dr. John Gottman's theory of the four horseman, after reading his book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. We dive deep into what causes the four horseman to arise in your relationship and how you can resolve issues stemming from the four horseman to avoid separation or divorce. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

After taking a month long hiatus, we felt it was time to share our story of getting pregnant but unfortunately having a miscarriage. This is a very sensitive topic that so many women experience, which is why we decided to share our personal story to help us with our healing process. While also being able to resonate with any other woman or couple that has dealt or is currently dealing with this traumatic experience. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

After months of contemplating if we wanted to discuss this topic, we decided to put our pride to the side and talk about the impact cheating had on our relationship and how it almost ended our marriage. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

It's hard to over look the fact that the world has been driven by double standards since the beginning of time. In this episode we thought it would be interesting to share our perspectives on some of the top double standards in relationships. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

In this episode we dive deep into a much needed discussion about blended families. We give our experience on the good, bad, and everything in between! Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

Growing up our parents always told us not to shack up before marriage. However, we chose to do the complete opposite and moved in together dating for a year. In this episode we discuss our experience on living together before marriage and how it affected our relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

How do you define a toxic relationship? In this episode we dive deep into what caused our relationship to become toxic. And we share the steps we took to resolve toxic learned behavior from our past, in order for us to have a loving and respectful relationship. Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast

In a world full of "Influencers", it can be hard to weed out the real from the fake. In this episode we discuss what it means to be an influencer and how important it is to know the values of the people you choose to follow.

If you like it, then you shoulda put a ring on it! In today's episode we're discussing how to determine if the person you're dating is worth building a future with, or just a booty call!

Finances are on of the top leading causes for divorce. with that being said, let's discuss how to handle financial issues in your relationship. So you can make that money and not let it make you!

As we discussed in episode 6, being in a long distance relationship is hard work and requires a lot of patience. However, you can feel just as distant being in a relationship with someone who lives with you if there is a disconnect between the two of you. In this episode we dive deeper into the topic on why some people become distant in their relationship and how you can redirect your love navigation if you do.

Are you struggling to keep your relationship a float because the miles between you and your lover? Whether your required to take a boat or plane being in a long distance relationship is a lot of work. In this episode we share the details on how we managed to overcome the distance between us while living in separate states.

Is there a perfect time to have children? In this episode we share our experience with waiting to have another child and how it put a strain on our relationship.

Making a REALationship work with just two people is hard enough. So why make things harder by adding others to the equation. In this episode we discuss the importance of limiting the amount of people involved in your REALationship.

Before you say "I Do" you should ask yourself a few questions that will determine if that Do should be DON'T. In this podcast we are diving deep into why we questioned our decision to get married when we did. Listen closely because our couples exercise will help you from making the biggest mistake of your life!

Have you ever thought to yourself, "Why am I dealing with the same bs in all of my relationships?" Have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are contributing to those issues. It's a hard pill to swallow but truth is we all have baggage that we carry into relationships. This episode we will discuss our overweight suitcase full of problems and how we managed to unpack our issues one by one.

In today's world a lot of relationships focus on how others perceive their relationship rather than how it really is. After experiencing years of ups and downs, we decided it was time to share the "REAL" about relationships. In this episode, we give you the background of who we are, how we met, why we decided it was time to share our story with you all, and what L.O.V.E means to us. Be sure to listen all the way through because the gems we drop at the end will definitely have you taking notes!