Episode 692: Procrastination, Self-Sabotage, and Saying No with Elyssa Smith
Make Some Noise with Andrea Owen
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Show Notes
Trauma-informed life strategist Elyssa Smith joins me to unpack procrastination, self-sabotage, reparenting, and the art of saying no, topics that shape how we show up every single day. Together we explore how these patterns are rooted in our nervous system from a young age, why they’re often survival strategies in disguise, and how compassion is the foundation for lasting change. As this conversation highlights, “There is another way of being, and I am going to be curious about it.”
Elyssa’s stories and strategies will give you permission to start small, with what I call “turtle steps”, and remind you that self-compassion is always the key. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did!
What you’ll hear in this episode:
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Procrastination: why it’s more than just a “bad habit” and how it often stems from trauma (4:26)
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Reparenting: practical and surprisingly simple ways we can support our own emotional healing (15:46)
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Self-sabotage: how it shows up, the role shame plays, and the importance of gratitude and self-compassion when facing it (29:59)
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Saying no: why choosing yourself is part of the healing process and how to start saying no without drowning in guilt (43:47)
Resources from this episode:
Elyssa’s Facebook Group: Stress Less Lounge
Existential Kink, Carolyn Elliot PhD (book)
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