Make Discomfort Your B*tch

I sold a house. Traveled solo for a month. Lost relationships. Built new ones. Made mistakes. And guess what? I was okay. The season four finale of Make Discomfort Your Bitch is about walking new paths — and learning not to let your most reactive parts decide they're wrong just because they're uncomfortable. New chapter? No. New book. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if faith doesn't begin in certainty, but in our willingness to sit with discomfort as a sacred teacher — one that guides us toward presence, humility, and purpose? In this episode, I sit down with Rabbi Melinda Bernstein, a freelance rabbi and spiritual guide, to explore how life's hardest moments can become pathways to deeper faith and connection. Together, we talk about what it means to hold paradox — grief and gratitude, faith and frustration, surrender and strength — and how the path to resilience often asks us to soften rather than strive. If you've ever wrestled with your beliefs, questioned what's next, or felt the ache of spiritual exhaustion, this conversation is for you. It's an invitation to rediscover faith not as certainty, but as a living, breathing practice of returning — again and again — to presence and wholeness. MORE ABOUT MELINDA: Melinda Bernstein is a freelance rabbi, ceremonialist, and embodiment teacher who guides people through life's most intimate thresholds — grief, love, loss, identity shifts, and spiritual awakening. Drawing from Jewish wisdom, Kabbalah, trauma-informed practice, and decades of lived experience, she helps others meet discomfort without collapsing or hardening. Her work centers on nervous system repair, emotional maturity, and returning to wholeness through grounded presence rather than performance. Discover more: MelindaBernstein.com Facebook LinkedIn Instagram MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if self-awareness isn't something we think our way into - but something we feel our way back to? In this episode, I sit down with Kat Conrad, a leadership consultant and incredible human, for a deep and practical conversation about what it really means to develop self-awareness. Together, we explore how reconnecting with our bodies opens access to the wisdom, grounding, and connection we so often try to find through overthinking or overdoing. Kat shares powerful tools and insights to help us slow down, tune in, and trust the messages our bodies are sending—so we can move through the world with more presence, agency, and compassion. If you've been craving a more integrated, sustainable way to lead, live, and relate, this conversation is your invitation to come home to yourself. MORE ABOUT KAT: After two decades in executive roles and advising over 100 CEOs, I founded Katalyst Consulting around the simple truth that bigger awareness creates better business. I show small business leaders that mindfulness isn't separate from strategy—it IS strategy. My first awakening came while managing multiple teams during explosive growth in hospitality. Despite outward success, I was so burned out that my hair started falling out in patches as my body literally rejected the relentless pace and constant chaos. When my business coach Janice introduced me to mindfulness and energy management, it was like finding the operating manual I never knew was available. I discovered that sustainable success in business doesn't just require strategy and systems; it demands leaders who are self-aware, present, and grounded. Today, I help small business owners untangle overwhelming challenges and build pathways towards their goals. Through my signature CLEAR Method, I blend strategic consulting with mindfulness coaching, guiding clients to replace chaos with clarity, turn endless workweeks into focused productivity, and build organizations where people enjoy showing up and success stops feeling like such a struggle. I've always been the natural organizer and problem-solver, from mediating playground disputes to unraveling complex business challenges. Now I use that gift to help CEOs optimize their businesses from the inside out to achieve the growth they want while keeping their sanity and values intact. Website: https://www.mykatalystservices.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherine-conrad-phx/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if the discomfort we avoid is actually the doorway to the life that's trying to emerge? In this episode, I sit down with Venus O'Hara—sexual wellness educator, author, podcaster, and creative force—to explore what it really means to allow ourselves to be transformed by life. We talk about the unease that comes with shedding old identities, leaving familiar structures, and choosing pleasure, presence, and aliveness over control. From navigating reinvention as a solopreneur to trusting the body as a source of wisdom, this conversation invites a deeper relationship with discomfort—not as something to fix, but as something to listen to. If you're standing at the edge of change, feeling the stretch of becoming, or sensing that your body knows more than your mind is ready to admit, this episode is an invitation to soften, stay, and let yourself be changed. MORE ABOUT VENUS: I create content on sexual wellness and healthy living via YouTube, my podcast, and my website. As a solopreneur, I collaborate with editors, designers, and VAs to bring my vision to life. In 2009, I left luxury real estate and launched VenusOHara.org, which led to three published books and international media features in The Guardian, El País, Catalunya Radio and more. Since 2010, I've also worked as a commercial actress and model in global campaigns for Volkswagen, Ikea, FIFA, Sprite, and Pfizer. My collaborations with leading sexual wellness brands began in 2014. Today, I produce educational content, consult on sex tech, and develop products and wellness apps. I host The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast (top 5% globally) and create ASMR meditations on Insight Timer. My latest book, Orgasmic Manifestation, has been featured in El País, Apple News, Grazia UK, and Bustle. Currently, I focus on courses, digital products, coaching, and pleasure education. https://www.linkedin.com/in/venusohara/ https://www.instagram.com/venusohara/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

This week, I had the privilege of sitting down with Corey Leak, host of The Existential Podcast, and this one goes deep. We talk about everything — from his journey through a cancer diagnosis, to the realities of working in DEI in today's world, to his powerful story of faith deconstruction and how it shapes the way he moves through discomfort. It's one of those conversations that doesn't tie things up neatly — it opens them. We explore identity, growth, courage, and what it really means to stay human when life tests you. It's raw, rich, and full of the kind of insights that stay with you long after listening. MORE ABOUT COREY: I'm a 47 year old cancer survivor, husband and father spending my time contending for a better world. Instagram: @coreyevanleak MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What happens when you're the only one in the room — the only woman, the only Latina, the youngest voice at the table? In this episode, I sit down with Maria Brewer, former U.S. Ambassador and longtime State Department leader, for a deeply human conversation about what it means to navigate spaces where you don't always see yourself reflected. We talk about the power of naming the uncomfortable, how to reality-check your experiences when things feel unclear or isolating, and the importance of bringing what's subconscious into awareness so you can coach yourself through challenging moments instead of getting stuck in them. Maria shares candid reflections from her diplomatic career — the courage it took to stay grounded in her values, to lead with integrity, and to find belonging even when she was breaking new ground. If you've ever found yourself in spaces where you felt like the "only," or if you're learning to move through discomfort with self-awareness and strength, this conversation is a masterclass in resilience, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. MORE ABOUT MARIA: Accomplished global leader and twice-confirmed U.S. Ambassador with 29 years of distinguished Foreign Service experience. Now leveraging expertise in leadership and executive coaching to help individuals "Bloom Where Planted" by navigating challenges, seizing opportunities, and achieving lasting impact. LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/maria-brewer-b100m Website: https://paperbell.me/maria-brewer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrewerCoachingServices MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

A TIME SENSITIVE NOTE FROM SUNDARI: A Healing Doula Academy Winter Scholarship In honor of Anandi Malcolm, A Healing Doula Academy is offering one Full and one Partial Scholarship for its Winter Cohort. Founded by her daughter, Grief & Death Doula and Author Sundari Malcolm, this spiritually rooted training prepares Grief and Death Doulas to hold space through ancient ritual, modern grief care, and soul-centered guidance. Recipients will receive lifetime access to the Academy's online, and self-paced, certification program and a personal mentorship session with Sundari. Apply by November 15th Recipients announced November 17th Learn more & apply Feel free to reach out to Sundari at [email protected] with any questions! Now for our scheduled programming... In this week's episode, I sit down with the luminous Sundari Malcolm - grief expert, author of Grief Gems, and founder of A Healing Doula Academy - to explore what it really means to quiet our lives and listen for our own wisdom, especially in seasons of grief. Sundari shares how grief can untether us from who we thought we were—and how simple, ancestral practices can anchor us back to ourselves. Together, we talk about why stillness isn't avoidance, but an act of deep care, and how tending to grief can become a portal to transformation, freedom, and truth. If you've ever wondered how to hold yourself through loss - or how to begin again - this conversation will meet you where you are. MORE ABOUT SUNDARI: Sundari Malcolm is the founder of A Healing Doula Academy, an online training program for Grief and Death Doulas rooted in ancient ritual, spiritual wisdom, and intuitive care. She is the author of Grief Gems and a recognized Grief Expert with the For Grief Speakers Bureau. A lifelong practitioner of spiritual care, ancestral healing, and ritual, Sundari's work is informed by both personal loss and deep spiritual lineage. At 27, after nearly a decade as her mother's caregiver, she lost her to breast cancer. Four years later, she lost her father to brain cancer. These profound experiences transformed her path and ignited her devotion to guiding others through death, grief, and the rebirth that follows. Today, Sundari has trained and mentored grief and death doulas around the world, offering a lineage-based approach that honors cross-cultural traditions, sacred ceremony, and intuitive energy care. Her teachings blend reverence for the ancestors with practical tools for navigating life's thresholds. A Healing Doula Academy, an online training program for Grief and Death Doulas rooted in ancient ritual, spiritual wisdom, and intuitive care Author of the book Grief Gems and a Grief expert with the For Grief Speakers Bureau. BIPOC Grief Educator for The Dinner Party. Instragram MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

NOTE: IF YOU'RE IN THE PHOENIX AREA, SARAH AND CORINNE WILL BE SIGNING COPIES OF THEIR BOOK AT CHANGING HANDS (PHX LOCATION) BOOKSTORE ON NOVEMBER 21ST! What if the moments that break us open are the same ones that reveal our deepest creative power? In this episode, I sit down with Sarah Carter and Corinne Shark, authors of The Skies Are Full of Us and hosts of the Spiritual Pyros podcast, for a luminous conversation about the arc of life we all travel — ruin, rise, and return. We talk about the courage it takes to tell our stories honestly, how their own creative process became a dambreaker for healing and expression, and how each of us has the ability to transmute hurt and harm into creative energy — the kind that fuels Good Work in the world. If you've ever wondered how to alchemize pain into purpose or turn your own story into a force for connection and light, this conversation will remind you that wholeness isn't about perfection — it's about returning to yourself, over and over again. MORE ABOUT CORINNE AND SARAH: Corinne Shark is a storyteller, dreamer, and wild soul forever in search of adventure. Her writing is equal parts anthem and memoir fueled by the glow of honesty and the power of women finding each other by finding their own voice. As a recovering rule-follower who exchanged her death-grip on certainty to return to the wide-open wandering of her Arizona desert, she has deep convictions about what constitutes a good taco, stopping for sunsets, and always needs more ice. She is forever sending up flares and lighting bonfires on the bluff for women telling the truth about their lives - even if only a whisper, even if only to themselves. Sarah Carter is a writer, poet, and artist. Her writing explores the evocative dynamic between poetry and life, creatively braiding story, memoir, and myth into a language of holistic embodiment, and feminine empowerment. She grew up on an Arizona horse ranch and spent most days stowed away under giant Mesquite trees, imagining adventures and losing track of time. Now, she resides near a wildlife preserve outside Chicago, writing stories, riding horses, hiking with her dogs, creating abstract paintings in her studio, and hanging with loved ones. She still loves the desert and always stands barefoot under a full moon. Nothing makes her happier than witnessing women reclaim their worth and return home to themselves. Shared instagram @sarahandcorinne and linktree: linktr.ee/sarahandcorinne MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant and dynamic EJ Jamele — CEO of crowdMGMT, producer, brand architect, and talent manager to some of the most sought-after artists in the beauty and entertainment industries. Our conversation goes far beyond brand strategy and success stories. EJ and I explore how discomfort can be one of our greatest teachers — especially when it comes to learning how to learn, growing our social awareness, and navigating a diverse world in values-based ways. EJ's insight into leadership, collaboration, and creative excellence is both inspiring and grounding. He reminds us that growth doesn't come from staying comfortable — it comes from being curious, humble, and willing to stretch beyond what we know. If you've ever wondered how to align ambition with authenticity, or how to lead with both courage and compassion, this is a conversation you won't want to miss. Tune in to hear how EJ uses discomfort as a tool for doing better, being better and building communities that thrive on awareness, integrity and creative freedom. MORE ABOUT EJ: EJ Jamele is the CEO and founder of crowdMGMT, a brand & talent management and full-service productions firm representing an exclusive roster of multi-faceted artists in the beauty and lifestyle industries. As a dynamic production house, crowdMGMT creates compelling content across all media - from targeted social campaigns to major advertising spots, television shows, streaming content, and film projects. The company's prestigious client list includes leading publications, global brands, TV networks, fashion houses and celebrities such as VOGUE, Vanity Fair, Essence, L'Officiel, #LEGEND, ABC, VH1, FX, The Kardashians, Ciara, Mary J. Blige, Jeep, Balmain, Versace, L'Oreal, PUMA, Jennifer Hudson, V Magazine and countless others. EJ's dedication to the industry extends beyond production and management - he served as a board member and annual state scholarship pageant producer for the Miss America Connecticut chapter, and co-produced the EFFIE Award-winning "Know Your Status" LIFE BEAT org stage concert series, where all attendees took confidential HIV tests as entry to the venue. He serves as an executive contributor to The Makeup Show and regularly speaks and advises for a network of over sixty thousand pro and aspiring beauty industry artists globally. His commercial and entertainment work has garnered billions of impressions, featured on Good Morning America, VH1, MTV, BET, Billboard Magazine, V Magazine, Essence Magazine, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Complex Media and many more. As a talent manager to some of the industry's most sought-after artists, EJ brings his keen eye for talent development and media projects to every endeavor. He fosters a culture of high-level collaboration among clients and colleagues, facilitating inclusive projects within the crowdMGMT artist roster and network. EJ states, "I believe that by elevating one another, my clients will maintain both longevity and creative advantage in their respective industries and it's my job to curate a roster of like-minded elite talent to maintain and elevate that advantage for us all." Television audiences may recognize him from appearances on VH1's "Lala Anthony's Full Court Life" and "The Real Housewives of New Jersey," highlighting his expertise and clients. He continues to forge forward in all aspects of his career, as he would say, "AVANTI!" IG: instagram.com/EJ_Jamele MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social plat

A solo episode to introduce the next season of the podcast! ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if grief isn't just something to overcome, but a guide toward deeper wisdom and wholeness? In this episode, I sit down with Ursula Taylor - former litigation attorney turned holistic conflict resolution expert - to explore how grief, when approached with awareness, can transform both healing and leadership. Together, we discuss the power of emotional intelligence, embodied awareness, and the ways unresolved pain shows up in our personal and professional lives. Ursula shares how listening to the body's signals - rather than relying solely on strategy - can foster resilience, unlock intuitive guidance and create more human-centered solutions, even in the most complex conflicts. If you're navigating loss, holding space for others, or leading through challenging conversations, this episode will invite you to slow down, tune in, and reimagine what resolution truly means. MORE ABOUT URSULA: Ursula Taylor empowers individuals and teams to navigate and resolve conflicts effectively through strategic, holistic approaches that extend beyond traditional dispute resolution. With a unique blend of intuition, discernment, analytical expertise, and hands-on experience, she helps clients uncover the full scope of conflicts, including their emotional and psychological dimensions. She collaborates with individuals and leaders who value business success, collaboration, and productivity, offering innovative solutions to address and prevent costly, unpredictable disputes. Website: www.conflictreimagined.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ursula-taylor-b0ba4729/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode of Make Discomfort Your Btch*, I talk with Brandon Marshall about the moment everything shifted - when he was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes as an adult. Brandon shares how that unexpected and life-altering diagnosis became a catalyst for radical self-responsibility, deeper self-awareness, and a renewed sense of purpose in both life and business. We explore how learning to live with a chronic illness forced him to stop outsourcing his well-being and start taking ownership of his mindset, habits, and choices. From this deeply personal journey came the values that now shape his leadership in his work. This is a conversation about resilience, rethinking your limits, and the power of turning a hard moment into your greatest teacher. You don't want to miss it. MORE ABOUT BRANDON: Brandon is a driven entrepreneur and the founder of a specialized staffing agency focused on education and healthcare. With a background in recruiting and business development with nearly a decade of experience in the industry, he has built a reputation for creating people first staffing models that balance purpose and performance. Since launching his agency, Brandon has been recognized for his relationship driven approach—prioritizing trust, transparency, and long-term partnerships with both clients and clinicians. His leadership style reflects a deep commitment to supporting communities through meaningful, high-quality placements. Originally from the suburbs of Chicago, Brandon remains active in local AZ initiatives and is a familiar presence at education and healthcare conferences across the country. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this powerful conversation, Sahar Modares and I unpack a truth that many of us are just beginning to understand: growth doesn't have to come through suffering. We talk about how hope is a skill—one many of us need to relearn—and how reclaiming it can shift everything from how we lead to how we live. If you've ever felt stuck in the belief that struggle is the only path forward, this episode will breathe fresh air into your mindset and offer a new lens on healing, growth, and resilience. MORE ABOUT SAHAR: Sahar Modares is a catalyst for light, sparking transformation in those she meets. She helps people move from their head into their heart and body, where authentic connections and true collaboration can flourish. Her background in sales and marketing and studies in psychology lead her to become an entrepreneur, writer, energy worker, and mother. Her journeys span continents building businesses, creating executive support, conducting and supporting luxury sales, and finally ghostwriting for CEOs. Through her work, she amplifies leaders' voices, crafting stories that inspire growth and deepen trust. Sahar's mission is to help others remember their own brilliance and make a positive impact, one meaningful connection at a time. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What does it really mean to become your own authority? In this episode, I sit down with the brilliantly quirky Tanya Ruckstuhl - psychotherapist, writer and author of How to Be a Human and Not An A$$hole - to talk about self-trust, personal growth and why social skills matter now more than ever. We explore how to stop outsourcing your power, navigate relationships with more clarity and embrace the messy, magical work of being fully human. Tune in for wisdom, humor and a few unexpected truth bombs that inevitably drop when two therapists get together. MORE ABOUT TANYA: Tanya Ruckstuhl, LICSW is a writer and psychotherapist working with individuals and couples in North Seattle, and a mother and step mother to three twenty-three-year-olds who crown her biggest dork on the planet. She loves gardening, dancing and hanging out with friends. She recently published a self-help book on social skills, How to Be a Human and Not An A$$hole, available at Amazon.com. You can find her website at www.TherapistSeattle.net as well as her award-winning mental health blog at https://seattletherapist.wordpress.com/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What does it look like to move through discomfort without rushing to escape it? In this honest and powerful episode, I sit down with Hope Rose - former ultra-endurance athlete, self-published author and master of navigating the middle - to talk about what it means to stay with hard things while they're still happening. We dig into: 🔥 The power of not bypassing discomfort 🧭 Daily practices that support staying present through struggle 🌱 How living intentionally—even in pain—creates lasting transformation 💡 Why discomfort isn't the enemy, but a teacher Hope doesn't just talk about resilience - she lives it. This conversation is raw, grounded and full of wisdom for anyone in the thick of it. Press play when you're ready to make discomfort your b*tch! MORE ABOUT HOPE ROSE: Sometimes life calls us to a purpose we never expected. That's exactly what birthed Hope Rose. A movement inspired by the Founder's own extreme loss and grief. Believing that a life altering event this big serves a divine purpose, she is lending her voice to share with others that their story can be transformed into a beautiful masterpiece. Rising from the ashes can be beautiful but often times lonely. The vision is to bring Hope Rose to every soul that is in desire of support, guidance, and a way to transform their ashes into alchemy. Hope Rose's background in several decades of entrepreneurship is the perfect foundation for this next endeavor. A previous sponsored ultra endurance athlete, a self-published author of a health+wellness book, and featured in many publications such as NBC Nightly News, Today Show, Hope Rose is excited to birth the next chapter of her life and serve+support as many souls as possible. www.instagram.com/hoperosespeaks www.hoperosespeaks.com MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, I talk with Daniel A. Miller - best-selling author, poet, painter and former attorney - about what happens when our need for control becomes the very thing holding us back. Danny shares how a series of life-shaking events forced him to confront his tightly gripped approach to life, which was leading to self-neglect and outcomes far from what he truly wanted. Through his book The Way of the Wave and our conversation, Danny invites us to consider a different way: one built on self-trust, acceptance and riding the natural currents of life rather than resisting them. If you've ever white-knuckled your way through change or tried to force clarity before it's ready, this episode is your permission slip to soften, trust and let the wave carry you forward. 🌊 Tune in for powerful insight on how surrender isn't giving up—it's the beginning of truly showing up. MORE ABOUT DANNY: Daniel A. Miller is a best-selling author, former attorney, painter, poet and nationally ranked senior tennis player who spent much of his life tightly gripping control—until a rapid-fire series of traumatic events brought him to his knees. His latest book, The Way of the Wave: Nature's Model for Navigating Life's Currents, distills the lessons from his nearly 40-year journey of learning to "go with the Wave"—a path that helped him let go, find peace, and move forward with greater clarity and trust. He is also the author of Losing Control, Finding Serenity and The Gifts of Acceptance. Website: https://danielamiller.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielamillerauthor Book Link: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Wave-Natures-Navigating-Currents-ebook/dp/B0D9HZY1GR MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What do skincare, panic disorder, and high-achieving women have in common? In this powerful conversation with Dr. Jeanne Retief, we explore what it means to find genuine control when life feels out of control. Jeanne shares how her journey with panic disorder became the catalyst for creating FIGGI Beauty—an intentional skincare line for sensitive souls—and why true healing starts from the inside out. We dig into how mental and emotional strain can show up physically, why looking inward is the most courageous first step, and how self-care is more than bubble baths—it's a radical act of resilience. Tune in to hear Jeanne's story of turning discomfort into purpose, and how you can, too. 💫 MORE ABOUT JEANNE Jeanne is a skincare innovator, mental health advocate, entrepreneur, and mother. After building a successful career in international human rights law, she faced a life-changing diagnosis of Panic Disorder in 2015. Instead of letting it define her, she used it as a catalyst to create FIGGI Beauty, a skincare line designed for sensitive souls, and FIGGI Soul, a platform dedicated to open, honest conversations around mental health. FIGGI is currently sold online and at various indie beauty retailers across the USA, with two major retailer collaborations set to be announced soon. They've also just launched in the UK, marking a huge milestone in their global expansion. As a business owner, mother, and mental health advocate, Jeanne brings a unique perspective on balancing ambition, self-care, and well-being. She can offer an engaging discussion on: Turning personal struggles into purpose-driven entrepreneurship The power of self-care as a mental health tool Breaking the stigma around anxiety and high-achieving women The science behind FIGGI Beauty's formulations and why skincare is more than skin-deep The journey of scaling a beauty brand from a passion project to international success Motherhood, entrepreneurship, and navigating life's curveballs with resilience MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if creativity isn't a talent, but a birthright? In this energizing conversation, I sit down with Pia Leichter—creative partner, coach, and author of Welcome to the Creative Club—to talk about what really fuels creativity: self-trust, pausing, and the courage to follow your inner spark. We explore: ✨ How creativity lives in the smallest moments ✨ What gets in the way of creative expression (spoiler: it's not lack of talent) ✨ Why building self-trust expands your capacity to create ✨ The radical idea that all humans are creative If you've ever said, "I'm not creative," this one's for you. Let's reclaim the joy, mess, and magic of making life your biggest art project. SHOW NOTES: Nancy C. Andreasen's Article MORE ABOUT PIA: Ready to press play? Pia Leichter is a creative partner, published author, certified coach, and entrepreneur. Her path has been anything but ordinary: a recovering nomad, she's reported as a journalist in Sri Lanka, graduated summa cum laude from NYU, and worked as an award-winning creative director for some of the biggest brands in the world. Now, as the founder of Kollektiv Studio, she's uniquely positioned to co-create wild visions and ventures. She recently published Welcome to the Creative Club, a book that challenges everything people thought they knew about creativity. Praised by Google's Global Head of Creative & Innovation as "life-changing" and by iconic fashion designer Betsey Johnson as "a wild ride," this part-memoir, part-guide invites readers to make life their biggest art project and reclaim their creative power. Get a copy of her book: https://www.amazon.com/Welcome-Creative-Club-Biggest-Project/dp/B0DPJ8L4NM/ref=sr_1_1 Book a chemistry call: https://calendly.com/kollektivstudio/coaching-exploration-call More about her work: https://kollektiv.studio/ Connect through weekly field notes: https://kollektiv.studio/newsletter Connect on social: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pialeichter/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, I sit down with Tara Harris—visionary CEO and founder of Femeflex, the revolutionary brand behind the world's first Pantiless Panty Liner—to talk about the power of the pivot. Tara shares how a bold life shift opened up a new world of possibility for her and others, and how her lifelong pattern of ingenuity and being solutions-focused helped her disrupt an entire industry. From college halls at Morris Brown to Emmy gift bags in Hollywood, Tara's journey is one of innovation, empowerment, and redefining comfort on her own terms. 💡 If you're navigating a transition or dreaming up something big—this one's for you. 🎧 Tune in now wherever you get your podcasts. MORE ABOUT TARA: Tara Harris is the visionary CEO and Founder of Femeflex, a groundbreaking brand behind the world's first Pantiless Panty Liner. A proud graduate of Morris Brown College, Tara brings a unique perspective to entrepreneurship in the feminine hygiene industry. With a mission to empower women and redefine comfort, she has created a product that challenges traditional approaches to feminine hygiene and personal freedom. PROFESSIONAL HIGHLIGHTS • Founder and CEO of Femeflex, innovator of the Pantiless Panty Liner • Graduate of Morris Brown College, a Historically Black College and University • Collaborator with Impressions of Beauty on HBCU campuses • Disruptor in the feminine hygiene industry • Featured in Hollywood Emmy Award Nominees' gift bags in 2023 • Entrepreneur focused on women's empowerment and liberation @femeflex on IG MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if transformation didn't have to be so hard? In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Danita Young—transformational coach, founder of the Align Method, and creator of Booty Bands—to talk about how real change begins when we start asking ourselves different questions. We dive into how most of us are unconsciously asking contracting questions—the kind that keep us small, stuck, and spinning in anxiety and procrastination. Danita shares how to shift into expanding questions—the kind that open you up to possibility, clarity, and empowered decision-making. Her Align Method has helped thousands of high performers move from overwhelmed to aligned in under an hour a week—without meds or surface fixes. If you're ready to lead yourself with more clarity and intention, this conversation is for you. ✨ You don't have to suffer to grow. ✨ Ask better questions. Make empowered choices. Step into expansion. MORE ABOUT DANITA: Danita Young is a transformational coach for 15 years. She's dedicated her life to finding the solution to creating a lasting transformation to overcome anxiety, procrastination so you can step into your full potential. She calls it her Align Method, it is simple and effective and it works in under 1 hour per week without meds or surface fixes. Align has helped 1,000's of people around the world 🔗 Learn more at AlignWithDanita.com 💪 And check out BootyBands.com for more of Danita's work. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: We discuss (at a high level, with no details) topics like suicide ideation, self-harm, and other unhelpful coping strategies. Please check in with yourself before listening. Parenting is hard enough—navigating a teen or young adult's mental health crisis can feel overwhelming and isolating. In my conversation with Tara Rolstad, we dive into the complexities of supporting young people through mental health struggles This episode is for you if you: ✔️ Parent, mentor, or support young people in any capacity ✔️ Want to be better equipped to help those in your life struggling with mental illness ✔️ Need guidance on how to show up without needing all the "right" answers Tara brings over 15 years of experience as a mental health expert, speaker, and advocate, offering practical, compassionate insights. As she reminds us: "It is not about perfection, or about having the perfect answers. It's about your PRESENCE." This is an important conversation that can help you support yourself and those you care about. Listen in—you won't want to miss it. 💙 Tara Rolstad is a mental health expert, professional speaker, author, and trained advocate with more than 15 years of experience who helps organizations break open powerful conversations about mental health, wellness, and resilience. Her unique, skillful combination of expertise, authenticity, and humor helps audiences better understand mental health, know when to get help and understand optimum wellness. Instagram MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

What if just one person believing in your dream could change everything? In my latest conversation with Bianca Bee, we dive into the immense impact of support—whether from a mentor, a friend, or even a peer who sees your potential. Bianca shares her journey from Detroit to LA at just 17, how she built a media empire, and why therapy, peer mentorship, and paying it forward are essential for navigating discomfort. Join us for an inspiring discussion on resilience, ambition, and the power of pivoting to achieve your goals. You won't want to miss this one! MORE ABOUT BIANCA: Bianca Bee, an entrepreneur and author from Detroit, moved to Los Angeles at 17 to attend film school. She has since worked with major brands like The Oprah Winfrey Network, TMZ, VH1, E! News, and The Steve Harvey Show, before relocating to New York City as a Booking Producer for The Mel Robbins Show and Nick Cannon Daytime Talk Show. At just 19, Bianca created her own talk show, highlighting young entrepreneurs and interviewing celebrities. She also became a self-published author with The 20's Chronicles, Plot. Plan & Slay, and her latest release, Resting Bee Face. Bianca's passion for beauty led her to found BFF Cosmetics Company, a brand dedicated to empowering millennials. She has collaborated with companies like Fenty Beauty, Ipsy, and Rolling Out, and received the Young Entrepreneur Award from the Small Marketing Business Association. Website: https://itsbiancabee.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/itsbiancabee/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

On this episode of Make Discomfort Your Btch*, I'm joined by the incredible Brittni Cosgrove, a transformational life and business coach who helps ambitious souls step into their most magnetic, confident, and authentic selves. We dive deep into the dangers of bypassing the hard work of navigating discomfort—because no, you can't just mindset your way through it or slap on some toxic positivity. Brittni breaks down why embracing all parts of ourselves is key to true growth and shares two powerful strategies for making discomfort your b*tch. If you're ready to stop self-sabotaging, push past subconscious limits, and actually see the results you crave, you won't want to miss this conversation. Tune in now and get inspired to lean into that juicy middle of transformation. MORE ABOUT BRITTNI: Brittni is a Transformational Life & Business Coach. She helps ambitious souls become their most magnetic, authentic, and confident self so they can create a bigger impact doing what they love. Whether you're scaling your business, starting a nonprofit, or deepening your relationships, Brittni will help you overcome subconscious set points and master your mindset so you can stop self-sabotaging and see the results you crave. Brittni is a certified Mastery Coach, breathwork facilitator, and speaker. Additionally, Brittni sits on the board of the nonprofit Travel Through Trauma and is the organization's resident Life Coach. Brittni uses her voice to help humanity break free from self-imposed limitations, shaer glass ceilings, leap into the unknown, and collectively uplevel to shift the world into one of more passion, purpose, and peace. https://www.instagram.com/brittni.cosgrove?igsh=YjRpbXBqZHgyeG96 MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

If you're in this space, you must believe that leaning into discomfort is a key to unlocking more opportunities. My guest Clenetta Frazier also believes this to be true. She joins me today to share how embracing the unknown has pushed her to take bigger risks—personally and professionally. We also dive into why being surrounded by the right people and cultivating a mindset aligned with your future self are essential for your growth. If you need some inspiration to step outside your comfort zone, this episode is for you! MORE ABOUT CLENETTA: Clenetta Frazier, The HR Whisperer and CEO of Edmund Enterprises, is a serial entrepreneur, author, and Fortune 50 Sr. HR Leader with over 20 years' experience in the Automotive, Manufacturing, Oil & Gas, and Healthcare industries. She leverages her expertise to lead her team through a business first lens with HR infused that provides clients with Strategic Whispers that deliver Bold Results, The HR Whisperer Way! Edmund Enterprises is a holding company that houses both an HR Firm, The HR Whisperer, and Financial Services Agency, FIT Agency. They are your one-stop shop for ALL things people-related! With over 100 years of executive HR experience (combined) the firm provides Strategic People Solutions. Whether you need Recruiting, Employee Relations, Compensation, Offshore Virtual Assistant Staffing, Payroll, Employee Benefits (Insurance & Beyond), or benefits for yourself, they've got you covered! The HR Whisperer, doesn't just help businesses stay compliant—they turn these challenges into opportunities for growth, retention, and strategic workforce alignment. Strategic Business Solutions Powered by THE HR WHISPERER Book: A Case for Cultural Competence In Business OffShore Staffing Services MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

If dating feels like a minefield of awkward moments, self-doubt, and uncertainty—you're not alone. But what if those moments of discomfort were actually the key to deeper connection and personal growth? In this episode, I sit down with Cat Cantrill, the Scottsdale Matchmaker, to talk about how she helps clients take ownership of their dating experiences, lean into curiosity, and navigate the process with more confidence and ease. Cat's approach isn't about playing games—it's about showing up as your most authentic self and learning to embrace the journey. This episode is the perfect follow-up to my guest spot on Cat's podcast, Dear Matchmaker—so start there, then come back for even more wisdom from Cat! You don't want to miss this conversation. 🎧💡 Just to note, there were a few internet glitches in our conversation that couldn't quite be edited out so I apologize in advance for any of those tiny disruptions! SHOW NOTES: Dear Matchmaker Podcast Episode MORE ABOUT CAT: Cat Cantrill is a renowned matchmaker and dating coach, leveraging her expertise in psychology and sociology to guide singles toward meaningful connections since 2015. As the founder of The Scottsdale Matchmaker, she offers bespoke matchmaking, dating coaching, and styling services, utilizing empathy and relationship science to refine clients' dating strategies. Her approach is practical and no-nonsense, helping individuals gain clarity on what they truly seek in a partner. Host of the top-ranked podcast, Dear Matchmaker, Cat has been featured on ABC, CBS, PBS, and has been recognized in major publications, including DatingAdvice.com as an industry leader and Fortune Magazine as an elite matchmaker. A native of Scottsdale, Arizona, she divides her time between Iowa and Arizona, balancing her professional endeavors with community involvement. Links: Website: www.scottsdalematchmaker.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/catcantrill/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@catcantrill MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Just my thoughts on aging, gratitude and choosing self-trust today on the podcast! MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Rejection and disappointment are inevitable, but what if they didn't have to derail you? In this episode, leadership coach and author Tracey Gee shares insights from The Magic of Knowing What You Want, offering a powerful framework to help you navigate setbacks with clarity and confidence. We'll explore how to reframe rejection, uncover the wisdom in your desires, and take aligned action—so you can move forward with resilience instead of staying stuck. If you've ever felt lost in the fog of uncertainty, this conversation is for you! BOOK DESCRIPTION: The Magic of Knowing What You Want: A Practical Guide to Unearthing the Wisdom of Your Desires "A comprehensive toolkit designed to help you navigate the intricate paths of ambition and self-doubt. . . an invaluable companion." — Jennifer Alvarez, SVP of Brand and Chief Creative Officer of the Miami Heat What do you really want? It's an uncomplicated question until you try to answer it meaningfully. Whether prompted by transition, disruption, or curiosity about how to live more aligned with your values, we've all been there, feeling frozen, stuck, or lost in the fog of competing, half-baked desires, unsure how to move forward. In The Magic of Knowing What You Want, leadership coach Tracey Gee walks you through a proven framework of identifying, clarifying, and embodying your desires. With interactive exercises, relatable case studies, and thoughtful questions, Gee helps you discover what you really want, teaches you how to turn those desires into action, and shows you that a thriving, abundant life is closer than you think. MORE ABOUT TRACEY: Tracey Gee is a certified leadership coach and consultant dedicated to guiding individuals toward transformative self-awareness and meaningful personal and professional growth. As an author, Tracey draws insight from her extensive experience across workshops, speaking engagements, and personalized coaching sessions. She is also a certified facilitator in four frameworks — Gallup CliftonStrengths, Working Genius, Enneagram, and Cultural Intelligence. Her diverse clientele includes UC Berkeley, Firm Foundation, AltaMed, Nomi Network, Coca-Cola, Amazon, and the Miami Heat. Tracey is originally from the Bay Area of California and now lives in Los Angeles with her husband, children, and dog, Kona. She loves coffee shops and every dog she's ever met. https://traceygee.me https://www.instagram.com/traceygee.me/ https://www.tiktok.com/@traceygee.me https://www.linkedin.com/in/traceysgee/ MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

If you've ever struggled to put your knowledge into action, this episode is for you! Dr. Brian Smith, co-author of The Recipe for Student Well-Being, shares how choosing an identity that aligns with our goals can be the key to real, lasting change. With a decade of experience in mental health counseling and deep expertise in behavioral science, Brian has dedicated his career to translating research into practical strategies that drive real impact in education and beyond. But these tools aren't just theoretical—they've been invaluable in his own life as he navigated cancer and recovery, helping him stay grounded, resilient, and forward-focused. Tune in to hear how adopting the right mindset and strategies can empower you to take action, overcome challenges, and create meaningful change for yourself and those you support. MORE ABOUT BRIAN: After a decade in community and school-based mental health counseling, Dr. Brian Smith sought science-backed answers to effectively support young people's social, emotional, and behavioral success. This pursuit led him to his PhD studies and a career dedicated to translating research into powerful interventions, training, and professional development that drive meaningful change. He is the co-author of The Recipe for Student Well-being, published by Solution Tree, alongside Clay Cook and Aria Fiat. Dr. Smith has led multidisciplinary teams at two organizations focused on developing effective K-12 Social and Emotional Learning (SEL) curricula. Through his work, he has collaborated with top researchers, consulted with schools, and utilized Human-Centered Design methods to create impactful, research-based solutions for educators. With deep expertise in behavioral science research on child and adolescent thriving, education outcomes, positive behavior change, and resilience, Dr. Smith is a skilled writer for both scientific and professional audiences. His passion lies in developing practical, evidence-based strategies to foster well-being and success for young people and the adults who support them. Linkedin MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

How do we close the gap between who we are personally and who we strive to be professionally? In this episode, award-winning entrepreneur and philanthropist Lori Pappas shares insights from her new book, The Magic of Yes: Embrace the Wise Woman Within. We explore how to recognize wisdom in our own lives, navigate reinvention, and apply the DREAM framework to turn challenges into opportunities. Through powerful storytelling and life lessons, Lori reveals how saying "yes" to curiosity and self-discovery can unlock deeper fulfillment and purpose. Don't miss this conversation on resilience, transformation, and charting a path that truly aligns with who you are meant to be. MORE ABOUT LORI: Lori Pappas has led a remarkable life as an entrepreneur, mentor, and philanthropist. Her early experiences fueled her drive to redefine her beliefs and chart a life of success and service. In her 50s, Pappas founded a transformative charity in Africa, impacting lives through water, sanitation, literacy, reproductive health, and women's empowerment initiatives. Now in her 70s, Pappas inspires others through her reflections and storytelling. Website: www.loripappas.com Facebook Group: CLICK HERE Substack: CLICK HERE MORE ABOUT HER BOOK: From a traumatic childhood to becoming an award-winning entrepreneur, philanthropist, and now acclaimed author Lori Pappas, her story is one of resilience, transformation, and triumph. Her new book, The Magic of Yes: Embrace the Wise Woman Within, invites readers to explore their inner strength, rediscover their essence, and chart a life filled with authenticity and purpose. MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

This week, I sit down with Monique Elliott, a powerhouse in mental health, coaching, and leadership, to unpack a topic we all wrestle with—honoring both our emotional and physical pain instead of dismissing it. Monique dives deep into how we gaslight ourselves, often internalizing the dismissive messages of others as a misguided way to cope. She shares her own journey of finding her voice, breaking free from these patterns, and helping others do the same. As a licensed clinical social worker, executive life coach, and founder of Savy Counseling Services, Monique has worked with high performers—including celebrities and executives—guiding them through life transitions with clarity and confidence. Her insights will leave you feeling seen, empowered, and ready to stop minimizing your own experiences. Don't miss this conversation! Tune in now and let's start honoring our full selves. MORE ABOUT MONIQUE: Monique Elliott is a licensed clinical social worker, executive life coach, and dynamic entrepreneur, dedicated to empowering individuals and athletes through life transitions. With a master's degree in social work, Monique has built a distinguished career by offering tailored coaching and support to help clients reach their personal and professional goals. As the founder of Savy Counseling Services and Monique's Locker, she works with clients across various sectors, including celebrities and business executives, guiding them to overcome obstacles and achieve success. Her leadership extends to S.A.V.Y. Success Achieved When Visioned by You, a platform focused on fostering personal growth and vision realization. Monique is also the producer and host of the impactful TV show Mind Health Matters, where she shares insights on mental health, wellness, and personal empowerment. An in-demand speaker, she motivates business executives and entrepreneurs to achieve monetary success while maintaining a balanced and fulfilled life. A global author, Monique's writing and speaking engagements inspire countless individuals to embrace resilience and strive for excellence. Her work in women's empowerment is reflected in her leadership at prominent conferences and events, where she continues to champion the voices of women in business, leadership, and beyond. With a passion for transforming lives, Monique Elliott remains at the forefront of coaching, growth mindset, and empowerment, helping people vision and achieve the success they deserve. Email: [email protected] Website: www.savyvision.com MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, I'm joined by Alexia Hoffman, creator of The Fulfillment Blueprint, to discuss her belief that achieving your goals sometimes requires blowing up your life—and embracing the discomfort that comes with it. Alexia shares how leaving a lacrosse scholarship at 19 led her to an incredible real estate career, building a portfolio of over 60 properties by age 23. Along the way, she discovered the power of aligning ambition with fulfillment, creating environments that foster growth, confidence and work-life balance. We also explore how Alexia balances multiple businesses, including real estate acquisitions and coaching, while raising three daughters under two. From her entrepreneurial journey to founding Mom Boss Central, a supportive community for working moms, Alexia offers insights and strategies to help others bridge the gap between where they are and their most fulfilled life. This conversation is packed with inspiration and actionable advice for anyone ready to take bold steps toward their goals. MORE ABOUT ALEXIA: Have you ever realized that your goals aren't big enough to live the life of your dreams? Alexia Hoffman spent years setting goals that others said were too big, only to discover they weren't big enough. Starting her real estate career at 19, she sold just one home in her first six months. Less than a year later, she was making six figures, and within three years, she had completely transformed her life. Now, Alexia sells real estate, hosts a podcast, coaches entrepreneurs, has an online community for entrepreneurial moms, and continues to start new businesses. She is also the co-owner of a real estate acquisition and development company dedicated to bettering the community. Alexia helps people bridge the gap between the goals they are setting and their dream life. Links: https://www.alexiahoffman.com/ https://www.instagram.com/alexiahoffmanco/ https://www.facebook.com/alexiarhoffman/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexiahoffman/ https://media.rss.com/mombosscentral/feed.xml MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this inspiring episode, we dive into the journey of Ron Higgs, a trailblazing leader, engineer and business executive. Growing up, Ron didn't have models for what he aspired to be, but he found refuge and inspiration in his local library—a safe space that became the cornerstone of his path forward. Through a mentorship program, Ron discovered the tools and guidance to dream big and navigate a world that often presented challenges as a Black man in America. Ron shares how these experiences shaped his leadership philosophy and the work he does today. We'll explore the obstacles he overcame, the strategies he used to achieve his dreams, and how he now pays it forward to the very library and youth organizations that set him on his path. Tune in for a powerful conversation about resilience, leadership, and the transformative impact of mentorship. MORE ABOUT RON: Ron Higgs is a seasoned leader, engineer, business executive, and published author with over 25 years of experience across leadership, operations, engineering management, and program management. He has successfully led teams in startups, small companies, and large corporations, navigating diverse industries and complex challenges. As an Executive Coach, Strategic Business Advisor, and Fractional COO, Ron leverages his naval aviation background to shape his approach to leadership and strategy. Coaching has been a natural extension of Ron's career, beginning with his role as a Naval Officer. With a strong foundation in mathematics and engineering and extensive experience in technical leadership, Ron specializes in coaching leaders and executives from technical fields. He guides them through the transition from individual contributors to effective managers and leaders, drawing on his deep understanding of the unique challenges they face. Ron holds a BS in Mathematics from the US Naval Academy, an MS in Systems Engineering from the Naval Postgraduate School, and a certificate in Engineering Flight Test from the US Naval Test Pilot School. https://www.linkedin.com/in/ron-higgs/ https://wolfmanagementsolutions.com MORE ABOUT ME: I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

I'm a mental health therapist, speaker, author and educator who helps organizations bridge the gap between knowing and doing the things that foster well-being, resilience and success. With expertise in school counseling, trauma-informed practices, and social-emotional intelligence (SEI), I help teams address the root causes of issues such as burnout, communication breakdowns, and resistance to change—rather than just treating surface-level symptoms. My engaging, evidence-based approach equips audiences with the skills to navigate discomfort, build trust and create healthier, more adaptive workplaces. I'm also a "Resolutionist" with Empowered Workplace Dispute Resolution, where I leverage my trauma-informed expertise to guide difficult conversations with compassion and clarity. I create safe spaces for resolving conflicts, turning challenges into growth opportunities. Whether working with frontline workers, organizational teams or educational leaders, I help people feel seen, heard and valued—transforming disputes into deeper understanding. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * If you know (or are) a business owner, nonprofit leader, or team manager who's ready to invest in their people and create real, lasting change, connect us! Let's partner to build workplaces where well-being and success go hand in hand. My online membership space is an incredible and affordable value add that helps you get at the root of obstacles to success and overall wellness. * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Welcome back to the show! In today's solo episode, we're diving into one of the most common defense mechanisms we all tend to lean on when we hear feedback we don't like. If you've ever found yourself getting defensive or shutting down in these moments, you're not alone—but what if there was a better way to respond? I'll be sharing practical strategies to help you move past the knee-jerk reaction and embrace feedback as an opportunity for growth. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, we're diving deep with Julie Jones, a former police officer and SWAT team member turned Award-Winning Speaker, International Bestselling Author, and Breakthrough Coach. Julie's journey from bottling up emotions to embracing authenticity offers powerful lessons for anyone feeling stuck. Join us as we explore her transition from the high-stakes world of law enforcement to empowering individuals and teams with the tools they need to thrive. Learn how Julie's story of courage and self-discovery can inspire you to stop waiting and start living today! MORE ABOUT JULIE: Julie Jones, a former police officer and SWAT member, empowers individuals to conquer fears, embrace authenticity, and seize each moment. An Award-Winning Speaker, International Bestselling Author, and Breakthrough Coach, she hosts the TV show "Stop Waiting Start Living" and the Get S#*t Done podcast. Certified in NLP, Mental and Emotional Release, and Hypnosis, Julie's expertise in the Working Genius facilitates personal and team breakthroughs. A dynamic networker, she catalyzes business growth and community impact. Recognized as a top influencer, Julie's legacy is defined by relentless fundraising for local causes. Facebook Instagram LinkedIn Website MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Fein, the author of Breath Taking, to explore some of life's most challenging uncertainties and unexpected blessings. Jessica shares her journey of learning to let go of the need to control the future and embracing the freedom that comes with being present. We talk about how fear of the unknown can paralyze us, but also how powerful it can be to release that fear and find victory in the moment. Tune in as we discuss what it means to live fully, find peace, and breathe through the unknown. This conversation is for anyone looking to find strength in uncertainty and beauty in the present. MORE ABOUT JESSICA FEIN: Jessica Fein is the author of Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes and host of the "I Don't Know How You Do It" podcast, which features people whose lives seem unimaginable and who triumph over seemingly impossible challenges. Her writing has appeared in Newsweek, Psychology Today, The BostonGlobe, HuffPost, Scary Mommy, Zibby Mag, Kveller, andmore. Jessica is a relentless warrior in the memory of her dynamic daughter whom she lost to rare disease in 2022. Her work encompasses hope and humor, grit and grace --the tools that make up her personal survival kit. Jessica serves on the Board of Directors of Mito Action. She's the mother of three, whom she and her husband adopted from Guatemala. They live outside of Boston with their quasi-service dog, who trained himself. To learn more visit www.jessicafeinstories.com BOOK REVIEWS: "More than an honest and humorous memoir, Breath Taking can be the guide star so many seek when life hands them more than they ever imagined they could endure." --Daniel DeFabio, rare disease filmmaker and Co-founder of The Disorder Channel "A story of relentless heartbreak met with wit, strength, and resilience." –Jennifer Weisel Bailey, ELLE Magazine MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

My guest Anzara shares how she shifted from trying to avoid or get through discomfort as quickly as possible, to being able to sit with it and learn from it, modeling and teaching her kids to do the same. This practice was especially helpful when she left her position at a school district she worked in for almost 20 years for a job that really lit her up. I can't wait for you to learn from this powerhouse of a human! Up by Thomas Rhett MORE ABOUT ANZARA: Anzara Miller has been in education for 25 years as an administrator, professional developer, technology specialist, and middle school Spanish teacher. She has a Master's in Educational Leadership from Concordia University Portland and a Master of Arts in Teaching from the University of Portland. As Director of Leadership and Development for the Center for Strengthening the Teaching Profession (CSTP) and her past roles in Shoreline School District, Anzara provides training, coaching, and support for teachers and administrators in improving their practice. Anzara's expertise is in developing and facilitating professional learning for adults to lead them in productive conversation and collaboration. She supports educators at the state level through her work as a Learning Focused Supervision trainer, Instructional Framework Specialist and State Lead for the Danielson Framework for Teaching. [email protected] Linkedin MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Today we meet Sarah Ward, a Sex and Style Coach who's reshaped her relationship with discomfort—transforming it from something to avoid into a powerful source of wisdom. Sarah shares her journey from bypassing her unease and shifting responsibility to others to finding strength through embodiment practices. Discover how tuning into her own inner wisdom unlocked new layers of personal empowerment and confidence. This episode dives deep into her unique perspective on harnessing inner truth, tapping into embodied awareness, and embracing discomfort as a path to growth. Don't miss this inspiring conversation!

On today's episode, I'm joined by Andrea Turnbow, the inspiring founder of The Grief Nook. Andrea shares her personal journey through grief and how it led her to create safe, creative spaces for others to honor their emotions and process loss. Hear how she's transformed her own experience with grief into powerful practices that help people find solace and strength. You won't want to miss her insights on the healing power of community and creativity. MORE ABOUT ANDREA: Andrea is the founder of The Grief Nook, a comfortable space to creatively grieve in community. Through her workshops, support groups, speaking events, and individual support, she helps grievers discover ways to process and express their grief through creativity, connection, and tradition. Her guidance brings them closer to their desires and goals through the power of their own innate abilities. Upcoming Events with Andrea: Support and Sound Meditation for Grief: https://hdsouth.org/event/support-and-sound-meditation-for-grief/ Holiday Workshop for Bereaved Hearts: https://www.thegriefnook.com/holiday-workshop-for-bereaved-hearts Links: Instagram Events & Offerings Website LinkedIn MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

In this episode, Jon shares how choosing personal responsibility, accountability, and making amends transformed his life and relationships. We dive into the discomfort of facing our own missteps and the role self-forgiveness plays in rebuilding trust. Jon's story shows that while it's challenging to 'do better to be better,' the deep connection and fulfillment that come from healthier relationships make the work truly worth it. MORE ABOUT JON: Jon is an avid outdoorsman who enjoys hiking and camping. He is the founder of The Negotiated Apology Project where he teaches people how to resolve disputes through apologies using problem-solving skills he learned in law school. He also offers mediation based on The Negotiated Apology, public relations consulting, and keynote speeches to uplift and inspire. He has made podcast appearances where he's spoken on self-forgiveness, reconciliation dynamics in the East Asian community, and the intersection between apologies and masculinity. Website: thenegotiatedapology.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/thenegotiatedapologyproject/?hl=en FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557791894716 November 19th event: https://events.humanitix.com/the-apology-workshop-holiday-edition MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

On the next episode, I sit down with Lori Schneider, a Phoenix-based realtor with a fascinating backstory as a former teacher. Lori's career shift wasn't just about switching industries, but also about transforming herself. She once led her classroom in survival mode—harsh, rigid, and demanding respect. But over time, she learned that true connection comes from earning respect, not demanding it, and that compassion was the key to meaningful relationships. Her journey will inspire you to rethink leadership, whether in the classroom, the workplace, or in life. You won't want to miss this conversation! MORE ABOUT LORI: Growing up in a small Arizona town taught Lori that your work ethic defines you, your reputation follows you, everyone has an important story, and common sense keeps you out of a whole lot of trouble. Before becoming a REALTOR®, Lori taught Middle and High School Language Arts, where she applied the values she learned in her hometown to help her students thrive not only as learners but also as individuals. These experiences shaped her ability to connect with people, understand their unique stories, and guide them toward success. Running her real estate practice with these same principles has allowed it to flourish over the last 19 years. Lori's clients benefit from her deep knowledge of the community and hyper-local real estate trends. She has built a network of professional connections based on trust and excellent working relationships. Lori believes that everyone's story matters—whether buying, selling, or simply seeking a confidential consultation. From $42,000 to $3,000,000, Phoenicians have entrusted Lori Schneider with their valued real estate transactions since 2005. Website IG @LoriSchneiderRealtor FB Lori Schneider, Realtor MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

My guest Ehmandah created an incredible platform for women to tell their stories after she experienced incredible discomfort in a partnered relationship. Our conversation covers topics such as boundary setting, self-compassion and getting to deeper layers of healing and growing. I think you'll glean a lot from this conversation AND I want to offer a trigger warning: We discuss domestic violence in this episode so please check in with yourself before proceeding. MORE ABOUT EHMANDAH: Ehmandah Ramsey, your #1 purpose pusher, si a multifaceted powerhouse, blending her roles as a coach, speaker, entrepreneur, Founder of She Stories, and host of Dope Confidence Podcast. Her journey, marked by resilience and triumph over adversity as a single mother and survivor of domestic violence, fuels her passion for empowering others. With over 15 years of experience ni the field of life guidance, she's provided spiritual care at a residential treatment facility and facilitated workshops for renowned organizations like the LA Dodgers Foundation, fostering real-life transformations. Ehmandah founded She Stories, providing a sacred space for women and individuals to find their voice, with over 200 stories shared since 2017. Through She Stories Inc., she partners with universities and organizations to provide feminine hygiene to underserved women and girls. Ehmandah's passion for empowering others extends to herdedication to assisting families affected by domestic violence and homelessness, as she serves on several boards committed to these causes. In addition to her various endeavors, Ehmandah Ramsey co- founded Women Who Shine of Washington State, where she continues to foster authenticity and courage in women. Through her coaching, speaking engagements, and community initiatives, she is a beacon of hope, empowering others to unleash their ful potential and live lives filled with purpose and fulfillment. Instagram Website MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

I'm thrilled to have Kelly as my guest—she's a serial entrepreneur who has discovered that much of her success comes from leaning into the discomfort that comes with business ownership. Through personal and professional development, Kelly has built an incredible toolkit that helps her navigate challenges with confidence. One of her key insights? Staying deeply attuned to her body and listening to what it communicates, even when those messages are uncomfortable. Today, we'll explore how this approach has shaped both her business and her life. MORE ABOUT KELLY LORENZEN: Kelly Lorenzen, CEO of KLM Consulting, Marketing, and Management is an award-winning entrepreneur with over 20 years of business ownership experience. She is a native of Arizona, graduated from ASU with degree in Small Business, Entrepreneurship and Communications and earned her PMP certification. She is a mom, wife, connector, community builder and philanthropist. Facebook Linkedin MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Welcome to today's episode! I'm excited to introduce my guest, Richard, who has dedicated both his personal and professional life to fostering human connection in meaningful ways. Richard's journey began with his own experience of loneliness as a child and teen—a feeling he once thought was his burden alone. Through his journey, Richard discovered that he wasn't alone in these struggles, and this realization fueled his passion for helping others connect. Today, we'll dive into his inspiring story and the powerful insights he's gained along the way. MORE ABOUT RICHARD LEE-THAI: Richard Lee-Thai is a TEDx Speaker, Connection Consultant, and co-author of "Become Your Superself: Connect with Yourself to Connect with Others." His TEDx talk: "How to Find Excuses to Connect" outlines how people can make meaningful connections easier. His ultimate vision is to create a world without loneliness. Growing up, we never had classes on social skills. Addressing this lack of education, Richard engages audiences with interactive presentations that leave them feeling more socially confident and equipped with tools to make meaningful connections in their personal and professional lives. He is also a podcaster, Associate Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation, and Adjunct Instructor at the Southern Alberta Institute of Technology. His motto is: "You never know how any connection can transform your life." Connections can happen anywhere and anytime, so he encourages you to find that excuse to connect! Links Website Linkedin Instagram Facebook Email MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Subscribe to my newsletter for exclusive content, the latest news and more! I post a few times a month so I won't be inundating your inbox * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

My conversation with Erin Galloway-Ormsby centers around how her pattern of saying yes to uncomfortable things has opened a lot of doors for her to make her dreams and others' dreams come true. You won't want to miss all of the nuggets of wisdom in this episode! Erin Galloway-Ormsby is the founder of Habitize Publishing, host of the Press Publish Podcast, and author of Spilled Confetti. With over 20+ years of experience working with companies, families, and individuals, she has helped people from all over the world create and implement habits that make their lives better. Her Master's Degree in Human Development and Family Science from The Ohio State University laid the path to be an empathetic leader and her innovative role in education at Johns Hopkins University built up her grit, but it's the daily routines of parenthood that revealed how her habits are a daily practice in bravery and boundaries. Press Publish Podcast Substack Press Publish on IG MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

My guest John realized that when he became self aware enough to ask for help, he was able to add more tools to navigate the uncomfortable of life to his toolbox. John shares his experience with recovery through sobriety as an anchor to the conversation. Meet John! A BIT MORE ABOUT JOHN GILLEN: John has worked on a farm and gun range, delivered packages for UPS and been fortunate to be a part of a small organization that grew to one of the largest privately held multinational corporations in the world. John has led and managed hundreds of people and their unique personalities. Currently, John owns a consulting and recruiting firm in Scottsdale and strive to help businesses build healthy cultural environments for their people to work in and hematches great candidates to great careers assisting all to realize a better future. All that John has experienced has guided him to a path of recovery, being clean and sober for 15 years. John recognizes himself as just another person with several above and below average qualities. John has struggled and excelled personally and professionally. Just like all of us. John strives to be a non-judgmental and practice active listening knowing that there are many ways to interpret any situation. John is Colorado born and raised, SoCal casual in East Coast attire behaving Southern proper! A little bit preppy with rock 'n roll adornments. John is a water polo player that is an average golfer, an excellent shotgun shooter while striving to be a better father, friend, leader and companion every day. His true passions in life come from being entertained by people that are truly great at their craft. PATRICE & ASSOCIATES LINKEDIN PERSONAL APPERANCE AZTV MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Today, my guest and I are talking about a very shared experience of trying to disrupt unhelpful thought and behavior patterns around conflict and relationships and how to navigate them in healthier, more connected ways. My guest has been on previous episode in season one of the podcast about trying new things, and that episode will be linked in the show notes if you can't get enough of Abbie's story and her darling Midwestern accent. Abbie Covington describes herself as just a human trying to figure out life, relationships, and marriage. I hope you enjoy this episode! Abbie's previous episode can be found on Apple or Spotify. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Rebecca has been leaning into discomfort from a young age and that continued until 2020 when, after several hard years navigating life stuff she didn't choose, she ended up burning out. She tucked in to heal and grow, which was necessary but also made her world very small. She has since entered into 2024 proclaiming it the year of discomfort in order to expand and grow in different ways. I'm excited for you to meet her! Rebecca is a certified health coach, yoga teacher, wife, mom of four and founder of Shift for Health. She helps menopausal women understand what's happening in their bodies and what they can do about it so that they can feel like themselves again. You can visit her website at www.shiftforhealth.com or join her on instagram at @shiftforhealth. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

My guest Sophia realized she couldn't truly lean into her leadership at work until she connected with and owned parts of herself she was hiding. Sophia also shares how being more of her audacious self helped her develop resilience. I can't wait for you to meet Sophia! Sophia Lovasz is a seasoned retail leader with over 30 years of experience in collegiate retail and strategic relationship building, leading brick and mortar operations and ecommerce on college campuses. Throughout her career, she developed a keen understanding of the unique challenges and opportunities that come with serving diverse student, faculty and staff populations. During that time, she graduated with a Bachelor's degree in Professional Studies, with an HR certificate, at Barry University, and received her Masters of Business Administration degree at Northeastern University. Sophia is passionate about leveling the playing field for small business owners by providing and creating educational resources while advocating for inclusivity and equity. Sophia grew up working for her Haitian immigrant parents in their retail business and saw first hand the impact that is made when you build with the community in mind. It is that experience that drives her passion for continuous learning, storytelling, and enabling others. Sophia is also the Founder and CEO of Simply Visibility, where she helps students, employees, and entrepreneurs use social media to attract opportunities so they don't have to chase them. She believes that finding your voice is the key to unlocking your value and building credibility in your community and industry. Additionally she is proud to serve as a digital content strategist at Local First Arizona, a venture mentor at the J. Orin Edson Entrepreneurship & Innovation Institute at Arizona State University, and as a mentor in the We Rise Black Business Accelerator program for Local First Arizona. When she isn't edu-taining audiences on LinkedIn, TikTok, or Instagram as a content creator, she is either taking rides in Waymo's fully autonomous taxi, spending time with her family, gardening, reading, or working on puzzles. Connect with Sophia at [email protected] and www.simplyvisibility.com WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event. Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.

Welcome to the world of a multi-passionate entrepreneur who centers her life around helping others (and myself!) move through discomfort with more calm and confidence! In this episode I share how I came into this work and practice what I teach by making discomfort my b*tch. MORE WAYS TO CONNECT WITH ME: * Book me for a workshop or speaking event! Email me at [email protected] * Read or listen to my book Could It Be Better? An unorthodox approach to experiencing more joy and connection in relationships * Find me @cheranderton on Instagram and TikTok Disclaimer: My podcast and other work on social platforms are for educational purposes only and are not meant to be a replacement for professional mental health services. We are not creating a client/therapist relationship through social media, including comments and direct messages. This platform is not monitored 24/7 so if you feel unsafe or need immediate help in any way, please call an emergency number that can meet your needs.