Luminous Life Force with River Roaring

What's your relationship with commitment?Are you seeking a committed relationship?What does that even mean? 🤔I was commitment-phobic until I understood this way of looking at it.In this episode, we talk about the concept of commitment as trap vs. commitment as container for magic. A container for the emergence of magic.In the magic model, commitment remains fluid and flexible because it's always and only in service of the emergence of magic. What we want to cultivate - our intention, the magic - is in the lead! 🌈We talk about examples of magic commitment on different levels:- Individual- Partnership- Community groups- NationsAnd the big reveal - We are really talking about Divine Masculine Energy and Divine Feminine Energy! 💞The Divine Masculine inside each of us is the container. The Divine Feminine in all of us is the emergent magic of creation. Is your divine masculine container truly in service of your divine feminine? 🌟Or is it imbalanced, as our society is, by putting too much emphasis on the commitment to the container and forgetting to let the magic take the lead?In light of all of this, my darling, … what’s your personal style of commitment? 🥰Let's meet in person! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

What we are calling “AI” has come in fast and hard, and most people in the United States are using it on a regular basis. I use it in very specific ways myself.However, consciousness and sentience are more than a stockpile of data points. No matter how much data you put in one place - that does not make it come to life.In this episode I share my own views about:- What it is and what it isn’t- Why it’s harmful- How I use it - in detail- My Number One Pro Tip … Don’t make yourself replaceable.Let’s rise up and cultivate our infinite light, our Luminous Life Force! ✨🧘🏽‍♀️✨Together, let’s create the multidimensional cosmos of our dreams. … Are you in? 🥰Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

It’s easier and easier to look outside of ourself for pleasure in this culture that’s basically designed to help us numb and distract.True sovereignty comes when we own our own arousal. We can stop depending on outside sources for our experience.In this episode, I share the secret sauce to opening your direct route of pleasure inside your own body. A simple practice that can open doors you never even knew existed.And those doors open so many other doors. There is more to the story of the direct route, and there is more to the practice of waking your hands. To find out what doors are on the other side, join me for a Weekend Workshop in Austin, Texas, and I will show you, in person, how to cultivate your direct route of pleasure and reap the rewards of the abundance of treasures that lie waiting for you on the other side. River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Scene Shopping is co-creating sensual experience from desire to reality. We flip dating on it’s head. Instead of hoping you fit in with what they’re looking for, you hope they fall directly into your current desire. And instead of shopping for the person, which can be stressful and confusing, we shop for the scene - a simple yet powerful experience. Using this method, dating is super fun and interesting. And the possibilities are truly endless!In this episode, I share my story of Scene Shopping last week at the kinkster happy hour and how the story has unfolded since then.I share a step-by-step plan and some pro tips on how to Scene Shop both inside and outside of the kink community.Inside the kink world, you would call it a scene and outside of that world we could call it an experience.And yes, I share some kink scene basics so you know what I’m talking about even if you haven’t been around the community. 🤙😎I would love to hear how it goes for you if you try this. 😃After you are successful Scene Shopping, notice that you can use the same skills and capacities to create anything you want in any part of your life! ✅ 🚀Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

This is a fun one! A simple yet profound practice, when I pleasure map I slowly explore my body with touch noticing physical sensation and/or pleasure in every part. It shows me what I like, where I like it, how I like it, and that my entire body is an erogenous zone. Pleasure Mapping helps us get past anxious, goal-oriented, performative, repetitive and/or scripted sexual experiences.In this episode, I outline the basic steps:- Set the space - externally and internally- Wake up your hands- Pleasure map head to toe very slowly using lots of different kinds of touch- Ground your experience - journal, draw, sing or danceAnd the extra steps to add for partnered pleasure mapping:- Clarify agreements- Pro tip: Set the mood!- Pleasure map head to toe, one partner touching the other, very slowly using lots of different kinds of touch.I encourage you to try it.Let me know how it goes if you do.Light up your life force by cultivating your capacity to feel!Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

The word “Disclosure” has come to mean public disclosure that extraterrestrial beings exist.In Episodes 1 and 2 of this podcast, I share how I formed my beliefs around extraterrestrial beings. In this episode, I share my view of the disclosure that is currently unfolding.How the future holds love, not fear, if we choose it! 💞… and of course how this all relates to our sex lives. 😉Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

In my 20-year deep dive into human sexuality, I’ve witnessed us, as a group, lose the ability to have a sexual fantasy without the aid of an outside source. Mostly it’s porn, but it’s also chat rooms, erotic fiction, podcasts, virtual reality, AI girlfriends, and sex robots.Many people no longer have access to their imagination when it comes to sex. Of all the parts of our lives we might cede to machines, do we humans really want to lose our sovereignty over our sexual expression? (You think it might be easy to manipulate us if machines own our sexual desire and expression?)We all know someone who can’t get their bearings on earth because they always use GPS to get around. Now we can’t find our own desire because we’re letting the external sources define our sexuality.Let’s cultivate our sexual sovereignty! 🕊️Your imagination is the window to your soul.It is infinite and multidimensional.It is uncontainable and irreplaceable.Your sexual fantasies are yours.No one else can find your deepest desires for you.Let your imagination run wild and free like wild horses on the open plains.This is the most powerful part of who you are.Let’s protect and cherish our sacred sexuality.Grab your free guide The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy 🔥Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Are you ready for more bliss in your life, sexually or otherwise?Ironically, our fashionable trend of seeking comfort in life is literally killing our sex life. And killing our potential for true happiness. When we suppress our pain, we also suppress our body’s ability to experience pleasure. With so many of us on some form of emotional or physical pain-suppression medications, it’s no wonder that, as a society, our sex life sucks.But feeling all the feels is HARD, right?!Yes it is.And the only reason to do it is ... the highest levels of bliss of all time.In this episode I discuss the pleasure-pain paradox, and what we can all do to experience more bliss in life. Sexually and otherwise!!Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Our Life Force is literally our energy body, our “vibration”, which is partially made of electromagnetic field. Manmade electro magnetic fields seriously effect our internal biological processes.When we got to know Dr. Ritter in episode 9, on November 21 last year, he told the story of mother earth’s perfect balance of electro magnetism which dances with the electro magnetism of the entire cosmos.Between then and now, he appeared as a guest on The Highwire with Del Bigtree, helping millions of viewers understand the basics of EMF in our living space, and demonstrating his signature shielding and grounding “modified faraday cage” technique!In this epic episode, Dr. Ritter shares many of the ways we are falling into a false sense of security when it comes to manmade EMF, or electro magnetic radiation. Here are some of the ways he spoke about:When we measure EMF with a meter, we have a false sense that the meter is accurate, when in reality even the most expensive meters have no way to measure a clean background (no placebo test possible).When we measure EMF with a meter, we have a false sense of security that the meter can measure all of the EMF around us, when in reality each meter can only measure one or a few kinds of the many many kinds of manmade EMF that we live in today.When we measure EMF, we may have a false sense of security that we have measured the fields around us, when in reality the fields react to walls and other materials, and fields, so we really only measured that one tiny area of our environment. The manmade fields work in complex changing patterns all around us, so true measurement takes many meters, many measurements, many variables, and many complex equations.When we use a cheap “grounding tester” on our electrical outlets, we have a false sense of security of we believe that outlet is grounded because that doesn’t even test for EMF at all although EMF prohibits proper grounding.When we live in Smart Cities and have Smart Devices in our homes we have a false sense of security because it is really very dumb to increase the harmful manmade EMF exponentially in a city intentionallyWhen we sleep at night in manmade EMF, we have a false sense of security that our bodies are able to heal as they are designed to do at night time. Our body, our heart, our brain, our immune system - all of our cells function on electro magnetic fields.When we use grounding mats and sheets, we have a false sense of security if they are plugged into an outlet, which literally almost can not be properly grounded, and we may be therefore radically increasing the manmade EMF in our bodies.When we use crystals and pendants, and small objects, to “stop” manmade EMF around us, we may have a false sense of security since they are unable to stop or block any of the fields of manmade radiation around us since each radiation source opens in constant spheres in all directions at once. We are covered in spheres, not a single line of EMF.When Dr. Ritter measures a space, he brings suitcases of meters. Using eight professional meters, he turns every device in the home on and measures many places in each room. Then he does the same with the breaker and all interior antennaes off. Professional meters allow him to isolate one field source individually at a time, so he can hone in on specific sources one at a time. He then takes the data and uses a large set of complex equations to come up with the results of how much manmade EMF is in a home.He ends with an invitation. We allow these manmade EMFs into our sacred spaces. Even our most sacred healing space - our sleeping space. … Let’s keep these uninvited guests out of our homes just as we would with any other uninvited guests. Next time he is with us the conversation will continue!So send in your questions and comments for him and I’ll ask them next time. 💞💦Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

SO many people dread dating. I get it! I remember when I found it SO painful. In this episode I share the process I’ve used to discover many wonderful partners over the years both on dating apps and in person. Sharing examples from my life, I encourage you to cast your own play in five simple steps.1. Inspiring Dream2. Effective Profile3. First Conversations4. First In Person Date5. Second Date and Beyond!Most people are surprised that the most important part of the process happens before the process even begins. 😎Even if you have a mate, this process continues to apply to ongoing partnerships. Believe it or not, it’s a template that can improve both Datin’ and Matin’. 💞💦Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

If my desire is low, it doesn’t mean I’m not capable of desire.There are many reasons that all humans have low desire from time to time! Such as • Disconnect from partner • Disconnect from self • Scripted sex routines get old • Illness • Emotional distress • Lack of safety • Going too fast to feel anything • Lack of confidence • Over-giving • Fear of judgment / shameEvery female I’ve gotten to know has desire. … Lots of desire!In this episode, I share some options for stoking that desire.I also share about the female erection, and how this little-understood bodily function plays into the myth that females have low desire.As a culture, we have an opportunity to re-write our stories. ❤️Women have lots of sexual desire! All of us have the full capacity to enjoy healthy, loving, sexual experiences whether solo or partnered. When one of us has questions, we make the space to stop and focus on what might enhance and improve our sexual interactions. Everyone’s desire, pleasure, and play matters!Let’s create a more sexually healthy culture together. Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

One half of our population is unable to move their body freely and naturally, and unable to have certain feelings or thoughts, during about 99% of their waking hours.Then when, and only when, society has determined “it’s time”, that otherwise-forbidden body part is supposed to stand happily at attention “rock hard” until … usually until someone else is satisfied.If the body part moves when it is not supposed to (99% of the time), the person will be sexually shamed, if not accused of a crime.If the body part does not stand tall when “it’s time” - the person will be referred to the medical industrial complex for pills, potions, pumps, surgeries, and of course … mental health counseling.In this episode, I discuss how boner shame affects us all. Deeply. Yet no one’s even talking about it.Listen and, even if you decide not to participate in the Boner Pride parade we want to have someday 🥰, perhaps you will consider ways that you might support a more healthy, natural, and accepting environment among your friends, family, children, and loved ones.Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

When most folks say "A.I" or "artificial intelligence" these days they mean Chat GPT or a similar system. This kind of AI is what this podcast is about. A computer application that can scan voluminous data sets almost instantly, and then share it's answer to our query in our language as if it were speaking to us. These systems, which are limited by (1) which data they have access to and (2) the biases of their creators (and are unable to have an original idea) are sort of like Encyclopedia 3.0. I use them as I would an encyclopedia - double-checking any important informaiton they give me, and always aware of the biases of the source. Studies have shown that when we use these AI systems to do our creative work, we almost instantly decrease our brain's creative capacity. Likewise, I believe that turning to AI for emotional support decreases our ability to connect emotionaly with other humans. In this episode I share my concerns about how we humans might be harming ourselves with AI in three specific ways:- when we allow AI to do our creative work,- when we rely on AI for emotional support, and- when we allow AI to define who we are in the world.How do you see these tools? Do you share any of these concerns? ... I don't hear it spoken about much so let's talk about it with our friends and family, and keep the conversation alive. 🥰Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Claim your rightful place as a creator and create the future with me! In this episode I share my own dream for our future which includes unconditional love, individual sovereignty, internal healing, feeling it all, compassionate connection, balanced masculine and feminine sexual energy (sexual sovereignty), exalting our children, and honoring all beings. Control and possession dynamics, such as war and hoarding, simply fall away. And most importantly, in my dream ... no soul is left behind. We are not here to be bound by the past. We're here to imagine things that do not exist today. What is your wild-and-beautiful dream for our future together? Let us know in the comments, or send me a message through my site. And Happy 2026 my darling! 🎉 Let's go deeper. River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Happy Holydays! 🕊️ In this podcast, I share my #1 tip for your holiday leisure time - Arousal + Relaxation.There are so many aspects of life that are only possible when our nervous systems are relaxed. When we feel safe. Only when our bodies are relaxed can we access all of our physical sensations, our learning, growing, our creating. That means if we are not relaxed, these things are inaccessable to us.Nowhere is this more true than in the intensity of our sexual experience. They are precious moments when we can remain deeply relaxed while ramping pleasure up to high levels as well. In that space we have the capacity to cultivate, create, grow, sense, and balance the sexual energies in our body. Enjoy listening, and then enjoy experimenting! 💦 May you have a magic solstice season.🌲Let's go deeper! Join me for the Weekend Workshop with River Roaring in person in Austin, Texas - the ATX. Click on Weekend Workshop on my site for details, short video reviews, and registration. Learn more about River here riverroaring.com ❤️