Luminous Life Force with River Roaring

What's your relationship with commitment?Are you seeking a committed relationship?What does that even mean? 🤔I was commitment-phobic until I understood this way of looking at it.In this episode, we talk about the concept of commitment as trap vs. commitment as container for magic. A container for the emergence of magic.In the magic model, commitment remains fluid and flexible because it's always and only in service of the emergence of magic. What we want to cultivate - our intention, the magic - is in the lead! 🌈We talk about examples of magic commitment on different levels:- Individual- Partnership- Community groups- NationsAnd the big reveal - We are really talking about Divine Masculine Energy and Divine Feminine Energy! 💞The Divine Masculine inside each of us is the container. The Divine Feminine in all of us is the emergent magic of creation. Is your divine masculine container truly in service of your divine feminine? 🌟Or is it imbalanced, as our society is, by putting too much emphasis on the commitment to the container and forgetting to let the magic take the lead?In light of all of this, my darling, … what’s your personal style of commitment? 🥰Let's meet in person! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

What we are calling “AI” has come in fast and hard, and most people in the United States are using it on a regular basis. I use it in very specific ways myself.However, consciousness and sentience are more than a stockpile of data points. No matter how much data you put in one place - that does not make it come to life.In this episode I share my own views about:- What it is and what it isn’t- Why it’s harmful- How I use it - in detail- My Number One Pro Tip … Don’t make yourself replaceable.Let’s rise up and cultivate our infinite light, our Luminous Life Force! ✨🧘🏽‍♀️✨Together, let’s create the multidimensional cosmos of our dreams. … Are you in? 🥰Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

It’s easier and easier to look outside of ourself for pleasure in this culture that’s basically designed to help us numb and distract.True sovereignty comes when we own our own arousal. We can stop depending on outside sources for our experience.In this episode, I share the secret sauce to opening your direct route of pleasure inside your own body. A simple practice that can open doors you never even knew existed.And those doors open so many other doors. There is more to the story of the direct route, and there is more to the practice of waking your hands. To find out what doors are on the other side, join me for a Weekend Workshop in Austin, Texas, and I will show you, in person, how to cultivate your direct route of pleasure and reap the rewards of the abundance of treasures that lie waiting for you on the other side. River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Scene Shopping is co-creating sensual experience from desire to reality. We flip dating on it’s head. Instead of hoping you fit in with what they’re looking for, you hope they fall directly into your current desire. And instead of shopping for the person, which can be stressful and confusing, we shop for the scene - a simple yet powerful experience. Using this method, dating is super fun and interesting. And the possibilities are truly endless!In this episode, I share my story of Scene Shopping last week at the kinkster happy hour and how the story has unfolded since then.I share a step-by-step plan and some pro tips on how to Scene Shop both inside and outside of the kink community.Inside the kink world, you would call it a scene and outside of that world we could call it an experience.And yes, I share some kink scene basics so you know what I’m talking about even if you haven’t been around the community. 🤙😎I would love to hear how it goes for you if you try this. 😃After you are successful Scene Shopping, notice that you can use the same skills and capacities to create anything you want in any part of your life! ✅ 🚀Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

This is a fun one! A simple yet profound practice, when I pleasure map I slowly explore my body with touch noticing physical sensation and/or pleasure in every part. It shows me what I like, where I like it, how I like it, and that my entire body is an erogenous zone. Pleasure Mapping helps us get past anxious, goal-oriented, performative, repetitive and/or scripted sexual experiences.In this episode, I outline the basic steps:- Set the space - externally and internally- Wake up your hands- Pleasure map head to toe very slowly using lots of different kinds of touch- Ground your experience - journal, draw, sing or danceAnd the extra steps to add for partnered pleasure mapping:- Clarify agreements- Pro tip: Set the mood!- Pleasure map head to toe, one partner touching the other, very slowly using lots of different kinds of touch.I encourage you to try it.Let me know how it goes if you do.Light up your life force by cultivating your capacity to feel!Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

The word “Disclosure” has come to mean public disclosure that extraterrestrial beings exist.In Episodes 1 and 2 of this podcast, I share how I formed my beliefs around extraterrestrial beings. In this episode, I share my view of the disclosure that is currently unfolding.How the future holds love, not fear, if we choose it! 💞… and of course how this all relates to our sex lives. 😉Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

In my 20-year deep dive into human sexuality, I’ve witnessed us, as a group, lose the ability to have a sexual fantasy without the aid of an outside source. Mostly it’s porn, but it’s also chat rooms, erotic fiction, podcasts, virtual reality, AI girlfriends, and sex robots.Many people no longer have access to their imagination when it comes to sex. Of all the parts of our lives we might cede to machines, do we humans really want to lose our sovereignty over our sexual expression? (You think it might be easy to manipulate us if machines own our sexual desire and expression?)We all know someone who can’t get their bearings on earth because they always use GPS to get around. Now we can’t find our own desire because we’re letting the external sources define our sexuality.Let’s cultivate our sexual sovereignty! 🕊️Your imagination is the window to your soul.It is infinite and multidimensional.It is uncontainable and irreplaceable.Your sexual fantasies are yours.No one else can find your deepest desires for you.Let your imagination run wild and free like wild horses on the open plains.This is the most powerful part of who you are.Let’s protect and cherish our sacred sexuality.Grab your free guide The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy 🔥Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️

Are you ready for more bliss in your life, sexually or otherwise?Ironically, our fashionable trend of seeking comfort in life is literally killing our sex life. And killing our potential for true happiness. When we suppress our pain, we also suppress our body’s ability to experience pleasure. With so many of us on some form of emotional or physical pain-suppression medications, it’s no wonder that, as a society, our sex life sucks.But feeling all the feels is HARD, right?!Yes it is.And the only reason to do it is ... the highest levels of bliss of all time.In this episode I discuss the pleasure-pain paradox, and what we can all do to experience more bliss in life. Sexually and otherwise!!Let's go deeper! River Roaring is an experienced erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness. Learn more at riverroaring.com ❤️