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This decade continues to be heavy and transformational. We have so much deprogramming that has to happen. Undoing what has been indoctrinated and ingrained so deeply.With all that is happening in the world, people are seeking out healing. And there is nothing wrong with acknowledging that need. Problem is, healers and their chosen modalities have been vilified. To the point where even healers felt like they were being pressured into falling back or not practicing because of persecution. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

October 2025October signals more quiet, appreciating the darkness and slowing down. There are some intense energies this month. We need to work on finding emotional balance and working through frustrations as our social structures disintegrate.Take off your shoes, get comfortable, settle in. If you resonate with the information here, Buy Me A Coffee or two. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

For years I’ve been talking about the importance of using Intuition and Discernment. At one point, it was discussed that both should be used for navigating daily and not solely for stranger danger or to help us escape.So where do we go from here?Especially with the world so full of chaos.We still need to be attuned. And that may be difficult because of so much clutter. Our newsfeeds are cluttered. Our minds are cluttered. Our hearts are cluttered. We have been on a collision course with destiny and karma at a high speed.Somewhere in there, we may have abandoned the things that we need, like being intuitively connected and attuned.Check out the conversation and let me know what resonates with you.If this post and conversation resonates with you, feel free to Buy Me A Coffee. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

New Moon in VirgoHow can we chill with the mental acrobatics?Virgos usually find safety in clarity. A New Moon is a time for us to check in and see if we are where we want to be. Don’t feel overly pressed with this idea. You can have more aggressive goals or you can have a presence of mind to just be and find and experience joy. You are in charge of creating your peace of mind.Thanks for reading Love ! This post is public so feel free to share it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Venus is in Cancer. It's a time to find balance in Love and relationships. It's a clingy alignment, but people who like attention as their love language should only date other people who do as well. It's time for us to do less bickering about our relationships and spend more time with those we are compatible with. Venus in Cancer is a giver, so that means they need to do less dealing knowingly with takers. This month's Lovescopes are focused on how we could use more empathy, in a proactive way. Reminders that everyone you meet isn't long term, and despite that, the connection can still be fruitful. Love is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.If this post resonates with you, feel free to Buy Me A Coffee This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Tune in now to check out this beautiful conversation with historian, writer, and genealogist Ja’el Gordon. I had a blast, once again having a word with Ja’el. If you missed the first conversation, click to watch below and then click above to watch the newest conversation. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

New Moon in Gemini + Astrology InsightsWe are also talking about the Pisces/Aries shifts happening in some of our outer planets and how that affects us. In this conversation we are talking about how to better express ourselves and communicate, in general and regarding emotions. We need to explore themes of independence as opposed to isolation as well as how revisionism and anti-intellectualism is causing issues in today's society. Listen to the end to know how to use the New Moon energy in your everyday.The link I referenced for Neptune Generations -Neptune Generations-You can read the original New Moon in Gemini post hereIf this information resonates with you Buy Me A Coffee or subscribe to this blog community This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

We are almost halfway through 2025, a year that is halfway through the decade. I wanted to do a rewind so we can look back at what has come to pass so we know what to look forward to.Take a look at the past years below and then tune in to the audio and chat with me about where you are so far. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Wrapping up this 21 Day experienceCheck out the audio for more This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

A word on solo dates and when you enjoy spending time alone. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Where you connect your energy makes a huge difference.Listen to the audio and chat with me about your journey! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

One of the precepts of Reiki says “For today, I will not worry.”Now how does that wworkWorry is sort of a normal experience, until it starts to take up too much mental and emotional space.Chexk out today's audio clip for a message on worry. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

How you treat yourself matters. Be as kind to yourself as you encourage yourself to be to others. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

The art of the Woosah…being able to breathe and think first, then act, if necessary. Let me know you relate. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Feet on the ground. Come back to your body. It's the only way to be able to focus. When our energy is scattered, it's difficult to make decisions. Your anxiety may be high. You won't feel confident in your discernment.Ground your energy so you can direct it where needed. Try the quick exercise in the recording. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

The ability to self-reflect has been huge for me on this journey. To be able to pause and really think about what you want and then what you need is necessary. We have to constantly take inventory in this life experience.Reiki has helped me with that. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Reiki has definitely helped me to be more present. Being present helps me stay grounded and focused. It can be overwhelming to be the type of person who feels things so deeply. Reiki has helped me to manage that overwhelm and to learn how to examine those feelings, moods, etc and not let the emotions take over. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

I’ll tell you, I have learned so much about myself on this journey with Reiki. Other people consider me to be patient, and maybe now I’m seeing what they see, a little bit. One thing I like is that I’ve learned that my intensity isn’t a bad thing. Being able to channel my emotions and not be such an energetic live wire has been my goal. It’s something I have to continuously work on. And I don’t get it right all of the time. But the awareness is key.If you missed the previous posts start here This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Reiki has helped me truly keep my mind, body, and soul in balance. It’s been an intentional space of self-care. A space where I can rest my mind, and focus on my own health the same way that I focus on the clients and family members that I care for. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

This story time is about my first experience with Reiki.Have you had a Reiki session before?If so, please share your experiences in the comments!Love is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Today, my focus with my Reiki practice is about listening. A huge area where Reiki has helped me is with my intuition. I feel more clear now on what I am experiencing, I spend less time fumbling with things that don’t matter, and I make decisions more confidently. There is a mental balance there that helps me listen to my body and rest when needed, or seek medical attention as well. I am also more attuned with how things like people’s thoughts and moods, affect me in a somatic way so I can do what’s necessary for me to remove any unwanted energies. Thanks for reading Love ! This post is public so feel free to share it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Reiki has been a saving grace for me for the past decade. I’m sharing this 21 Day Challenge with you as a means of transparency on my own healing journey, in hopes that you gain something from it for yourself.Read more here on the healing art of Reiki This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

A bit on discernment….Tune in and chat with meThen share this space with others This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Protect your energy and use your discernment. We have a lot happening right now and we have to decipher what's real and what's not. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

My goals with the Love blog were to have a space of full creativity that made it free for me to talk about the things I love and to share it with other people who wanted to have the same conversations!If you are here and want to join that conversation with me you can spread Love byBecoming a paid community member at $5/moContinue to enjoy the Love blog free and share the Love by sharing links and posts that resonate with you in your community!Super simple!And thanks for being part of my community! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Where is Chiron in your chart?During Chiron retrograde, I am offering Chiron Healing sessions. You can get a 1:1 reading with me ($65, 40 mins) or a written report ($99). We use your natal info to personalize the information. Does the energy of Chiron resonate with you?I would love to assist you with your healing journey. Know that healing isn’t linear and there isn’t one right way to do things!If you would like a healing session or a written report, email [email protected]. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

* Not enough of those who are called have awakened to their calling and stepped into their gifts. It’s keeping us behind.* Listen to the audio to hear more on the second vision I had of the charismatic “leader” that keeps showing up in my visions.* We are slowly being attuned to accept sound bites of information to incite us. This pushes us towards specific agendas in a group think set that can prove to be majorly detrimental and dangerous. * Things that don’t matter: gender wards, personal agendas and squabbles from politicians, money (will become obsolete currency, especially the U.S. dollar tanking and not being worth anything overseas)* Things that do matter: community, compassion, kindness, genuine (soul) connections* Plates are shifting under our feet* Places that are typically snow capped will be melting and drying out. Sea level will be lower. * There are two many news cycles that have us distracted. We are being force fed things that keep us overly sensitized, incited, angry, and off kilter.* There is a food shortage, specifically meat (chicken, red meat)…this has to do with life cycles and population.* What is real? Only those attuned to spirit can tell. There will be a race of AI like, engineered “people”. You can tell they don’t have souls through their eyes and clairsentience, but you have to be attuned. Many people will miss this. * Master Teachers will continue to have a period of long silence, occasionally peeking out to speak. They are currently living and experiencing. Those that continue to talk and speak loudly are not the Master Teachers. Love is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Tune in the podcast episode below so we can start the conversation!Soul Codes- Sunday Moment This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

A little lesson from my mother about dating. For whatever reason, this conversation that I had with her when I was maybe 15 came to my mind and heart today. Back then, I wasn’t fully understanding. Today, I understand it to be a conversation about knowing what you deserve and also making sure you give the same to others. It’s a conversation about asking for the entire thing as well as being capable of giving as much. A conversation about leadership and balance in a relationship. A conversation about vision and sight and being around people that have the ability to see more when you can’t and when you see more when they don’t, they are the type of person who can follow your lead. It was a conversation about mind expansion. And not dating potential, but being realistic about the version of the person presented to you, as well as the version of you that you present to them and the world. At the time, it was a little over my head. Today, I get it. Love is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Talk to me and tell me what you think! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Take a listen. I tell you a bit about where my writing journey started. Come back and leave a comment and tell me where you are on your journey! Love is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

When is the last time you sat in our own energy? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

I remember being in grade school. When we had to sit at that cluster of desks. I was new to the elementary school and there was a part of me that was aware that many of the kids I was with had been in school with each other since maybe Kindergarten. That meant, to me, that I was late forming relationships with everyone. At that point, I was at a table with three boys. I can’t tell you now, how long they had been friends before I arrived. I just remember that they were chatting so much. With a flow. Chatting and drawing. Drawing and chatting. Now, don’t get me wrong, being the only girl, there were plenty of conversations where I was included and welcomed. I’m going to say that before I share the rest of the conversation. The boys at this table were really cool (I’m still really cool with all three, 30 something years later).Now, I can’t remember what this particular conversation was about. Being self-aware now, I just remember that I was inserting myself in a conversation that wasn’t concerning me. One of the boys pointed it out. Elementary school aged me was a bit bruised by his comment that I was butting in. Who was he to say that I couldn’t add to the conversation?The reality? I didn’t actually have anything to add to the conversation because I had absolutely no clue who they were talking about and what they were talking about. The reality? (From the self-aware me) I was inserting myself because I wasn’t comfortable being quiet and I wanted to be seen and included. The reality? That conversation didn’t have anything to do with me and they didn’t owe me to fill me in on what they were discussing just because we all had to sit at that table. They were allowed to have that conversation. I’m going to insert a pause right here for those of you whose minds have immediately called these young men sexist or misogynistic. If that’s what you think, you will have a problem accepting the rest of what I am saying here. They weren’t misogynistic or shutting me down because I was a girl. Like I said, I was included in all other conversation. But this one, I didn’t belong in. I find much of society doing the same today. Inserting the self in spaces where you aren’t supposed to be. Because the idea that “One doesn’t belong” seems oppositional. We understand that for so long, minority groups have been marginalized and not accepted in places that they could otherwise thrive because of differences beyond their control. Here, the discussion for me isn’t about knocking down doors necessarily to be included in places that will allow proper representation. This discussion is about how society has formed a behavior of bulldozing into places you don’t have to be, simply because those places are public and one feels like they are owed a seat at said proverbial table. Or because one needs an already formed platform to push their personal agendas. What makes you want to assert your self into places not meant for you?Why is this deemed a space of overcoming and lauded as an achievement? Especially when those already there are clear that they don’t want to make a seat at the table for you?What would happen if you took that same energy and created your own seats and your own table? My assumption is that most don’t want to do that because they want the perceived benefit of what is already formed and running (ie spotlight, audience, funding, social standing, clout). Someone else told you that this is the place to be in order for you to be who you are, and when they didn’t let you in, it was taken personally. In light of my own personal story, I learned that you can create and cultivate your won spaces and doing so is important. It allows you to more easily create seats for others. In order to do this, you have to be a trailblazer and willing to do what’s needed to create the image you want. You have to know that people won’t be accepting initially in some cases or that what you created may not measure up to the larger thing, so there will be comparisons. Push through. Those current spaces are crowded.Someone needs you to create that space. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

Joy.For too long we’ve thought that it was a destination. It’s a state of being. Existing. What does Joy look like for you? Have you been introduced? Have you and Happiness been acquainted?Have you crossed paths with Peace?Would you recognize them if you encountered them?The last sentence is part of the issue. These states of being exist but if you don’t recognize them, none of it matters. Suffering is a part of the human experience, yet we aren’t supposed to live there. Heavy. Weighed down. Becoming so familiar with that albatross around your neck. The anchor holding you in the water, no matter how high the tide rises. We’ve come to a point where we desperately need to pivot. Desperately need leadership that shows us what things look like on the other side of all of this pain and trauma and heaviness. What if leadership changed the channel and showed us another frequency that was made for us as well? One that you could elevate to, even after something in life weighs you down. An existence that gives you clarity and peace of mind. Many of us have trouble fathoming that you can live that way. It requires a faith walk. It requires confidence and optimism. It requires dedication and a firm decision to take off all of which weighs you down and claim something different. Too often, people hold tight to all the horrible occurrences and create their very identity out of the endurance of hardships. So that means that you would refuse the “good” and uplifting experiences because you haven’t read that story. You’re more familiar with how the story goes for the former. So much so, you’ve told that story over and over again and you know it by heart. When a new story comes along, the chance at an existence where you are introduced to Peace and Joy, many choose not to walk. Citing the fact that they don’t know what’s ahead. I’ve even heard people say that a life with so much positivity doesn’t seem authentic.That’s not true. You’ve just created a habit of pain. So much so that you won’t identify with things like success, achievement, Love, contentment, or the like, without that pain. When you live with the habit of pain, pain has to come first. Somehow you’ve convinced yourself that if that pain comes first, it makes you worthy of those positive things, that by the way, don’t weigh you down. That kind of thinking keeps you anchored in the ocean. The tide rising and out of your control. You have to choose Joy.In doing so, you have to put in the effort to get acquainted. Perhaps you’ve been introduced to Joy and Peace by someone else who lives in those vibrations. Maybe, no one at all in your circle has this existence and you have to venture out on your own. Either way, the road ahead is a choice. You have to do the work to understand and accept that you deserve Joy. So when you encounter it, you can claim it. Contrary to the (unbalanced) popular opinion that positivity can be toxic, living in the frequency of Joy, Peace, Happiness, is a rite of the human existence. We’ve gotten too far out of experiencing our feelings properly. And this concept of living in the frequency is not linear or concrete. There is suffering AND there is Peace. Life is not filled with one or the other. As a matter of fact, you can be suffering and still have a sense of Peace. Because in confidence and faith, you understand that the human experience is layered and things can coexist and all be valid. You choose to move through the suffering, not live there. How fulfilling life is, is up to us ultimately. It’s a personal decision, among all of the ups and downs. Among all of the ebbs and flows. Just because you may not have chosen Joy before, it doesn’t mean you can’t be empowered to change your mind.Have you subscribed to Love? This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe

A little about what’s new over here at the Love Blog. I’m super excited to make a few changes and hope you will come along with me for the ride! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tamaraangela.substack.com/subscribe