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Listen or Don't Podcast has been publishing since 2023, and across the 3 years since has built a catalogue of 45 episodes. That works out to roughly 20 hours of audio in total. Releases follow a monthly cadence, with the show now in its 3rd season.

Episodes typically run twenty to thirty-five minutes — most land between 25 min and 32 min — and the run-time is fairly consistent across the catalogue. The publisher flags most episodes as explicit, so expect adult themes or strong language throughout. It is catalogued as a EN-US-language Society & Culture show.

The show is still active — the most recent episode landed 1 months ago, though releases have slowed compared with earlier in the run. The busiest year was 2023, with 32 episodes published. Published by Jill & Shakira.

Episodes
45
Running
2023–2026 · 3y
Median length
28 min
Cadence
Monthly

From the publisher

A  mostly weekly podcast featuring raw, uncut and unfiltered conversations between 2 midlife girlfriends sharing their life experiences. Listen or Don't, either way, we'll be fine.

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45. Dancing with the Rhythms of Life

Apr 10, 202630 min

S3 Ep 4444. Doing Nothing is Everything

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What if indulging in your guilty pleasures could lead to a life-changing journey of self-awareness and creativity? On this episode of the Listener Don't Podcast, we embark on a lively exploration of fashion, inspiration, and personal balance. Our conversation kicks off with a playful exchange about the personal "drugs" that light up our days, from the allure of television marathons to the thrill of shopping. As we navigate the often uninspiring world of fast fashion, particularly on platforms like Instagram, we celebrate the liberation and creativity found in street fashion across bustling cities like New York and Chicago.The discussion takes a reflective turn as we ponder the pressures of productivity and the guilt that accompanies downtime. We share personal anecdotes about the challenge of transitioning from 'fun employment' to a structured work routine and the societal pressures that equate self-worth with daily achievements. Through candid reflections, we champion the idea that doing nothing is not only okay but valuable, encouraging listeners to embrace moments of rest without guilt. Our experiences remind us of the importance of maintaining energy-boosting practices and finding balance in both personal and professional spheres.In a final spirited exchange, we dive into the captivating world of TikTok trends and the musical genius of Kendrick Lamar. We discuss the intriguing "black wife effect" trend and the fascinating transformation it represents, while also appreciating iconic interracial couples like Lisa Bonet and Jason Momoa. Wrapping up with a heartfelt conversation on appreciating unique personal qualities, we highlight the beauty of kindness, humor, and generosity in our relationships. This episode is a rollercoaster of laughs, love, and self-discovery, and we hope you enjoy the ride as much as we did creating it.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Dec 21, 202431 min

S3 Ep 4343. Feathers & Paddles, Oh My!

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In this heart-to-heart, we lay bare the threads of personal growth, the nuances of relationships and the gentle art of cultivating patience and self-compassion. Witness the beauty of metamorphosis as we explore how self-responsibility draws the map of our journey through the world's changing landscapes.From the vibrant heartbeat of Los Angeles to the tranquility of a yoga studio sanctuary, travel with us on a voyage of spiritual and romantic discovery. A friend's poignant struggle with love and the face of death serves as a poignant reminder of how spiritual evolution can redefine our relationship goals. And as we mark milestones like Jeff's 50th birthday, we delve into how a life unaccompanied by children colors our experiences of aging and wellness. Join us for a conversation that intertwines meditation, holistic living, and the pursuit of a life in harmony with one's deepest truths—a discussion that promises not just insights but a mirror to our own lives.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

May 10, 202431 min

S3 Ep 4242. Permission to be Authentically You

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Have you ever slipped into a scent that reshaped your day as effortlessly as a favorite outfit? Shakira and I invite you to a world where every splash of perfume and swipe of lipstick is an act of self-celebration and expression. Our heart-to-heart unfolds the layers of personal care rituals that embolden our spirits, from my lavish 'everything shower' complete with dry brushing and Turkish exfoliation, to JIll's knack for elevating her presence through her master class finesse. Join us as we exchange notes on the small, yet profound, personal touches that keep us feeling our most radiant selves.Amidst the sensory symphony of self-care, we traverse the introspective tide of eclipse energy, contemplating its profound impact on personal growth and the all-too-familiar weariness it can bring. As the celestial dance prompts us to reflect on our paths, we embrace rest not as an indulgence but as a radical act of resistance—against societal pressures and our own relentless hustle. Imagine giving yourself permission to pause, to align with the universe's rhythms, and to honor rest as essential to our well-being and creativity.Navigating the tightrope of corporate landscapes often means measuring the gap between personal values and workplace culture. With candid vulnerability, we dissect the importance of recognizing when professional demands begin to gnaw at the essence of who we are. We share stories and strategies for upholding boundaries, ensuring that in the quest for success, we do not lose the very core that defines us. Whether you're contemplating a career pivot or seeking validation for your next 'nothing' day, let this conversation be your compass, guiding you towards authenticity and tranquility in all aspects of life.Links:ReWilding for Women on Instagram @rewildingforwomenRest in Resistance BookTurkish Mit on AmazonPerfume by Frederic MalleThanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Apr 19, 202438 min

S3 Ep 4141. Older and Wiser

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Have you ever let the ebb and flow of the ocean's tides slow the pace of your heartbeat? Our latest voyage into the heart of Hawaii has gifted us with tales of serenity, self-discovery, and the surprising joys found in a simple way of being. We unwind the threads of time spent in nature's embrace, where the power of pausing became our greatest ally. Join us as we recount the enchantment of letting go, the challenges of maintaining a connection to the world beyond the islands, and the practicalities of dreaming about a life in paradise.The symphony of life is a delicate balance between movement and stillness, and nowhere is this more evident than in our physical pursuits. Swinging racquets and pounding pavement, we've learned lessons in humility and recalibration that only a return to the body can teach. This episode isn't just about the solo journey of a tennis enthusiast; it's an intimate look at the transformative nature of fitness, the art of listening to the wisdom of our aging bodies, and the liberation found in eschewing relentless routines for a dance with balance.Let's not skirt around the existential; we all face moments where the path diverges, and we must choose between the comfort of old patterns and the courage of growth. Hear the heartfelt story of how a career setback became an unexpected catalyst for enlightenment, self-awareness, and embracing trust over control. Together, we celebrate the spiritual practices that ground us and the anticipation of future gatherings that fill us with joy and readiness. Raise your glass to adventures on the horizon and the beauty of a life lived from the highest self.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Mar 29, 202428 min

S3 Ep 4040. Trusting in the Ebb and Flow

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As we peel back the layers of life's constant flux, Shakira shares an intimate recounting of the resurgence and serenity of her time away from home, painting a picture of the paradox between comfort and the sense of being adrift. Our exchange transitions to the sun-soaked narratives from a soul-stirring San Diego sojourn, where yoga's communal breath became a poignant connector, and shared loss wove a thread of unspoken understanding with a fellow yogi. Embracing joblessness not as a setback but as a quiet reprieve, we find solace in the idea that sometimes life’s upheavals are veiled invitations to rediscover our truest self.Navigating the professional seas can be tumultuous, as Shakira elucidates from her voyage on an all-female leadership team once poised at the helm of empowerment. Her voice carries the weight of triumphs and the echo of trials faced amidst the ever-shifting boardroom dynamics. The loss of senior female leadership to a more homogenous replacement is not just a narrative twist—it's a call to arms for the cruciality of diversity and strategic thought in the echelons of power. As Shakira bids farewell to a chapter dense with mentorship and growth, the anticipation of new beginnings where inclusive values steer the ship is a lighthouse beckoning on the horizon.Lastly, we confront the stormy weather of toxic workplaces and the courage it takes to hoist the sails and chart a course towards self-respect. A tale of dismissal becomes a tale of empowerment, as Shakira recounts the pivotal awakening to her own worth in the face of professional adversity. This episode is a compass for anyone navigating their own career crossroads, a testament to the importance of integrity, and an anthem for aligning one's vocational journey with personal values. It's a candid reflection on heeding life’s nudges, trusting in the ebb and flow, and remaining open to the wonders that await beyond the bend.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Mar 15, 202426 min

S3 Ep 3939. Chasing the Illusion

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Ever forked out top dollar for a service that left you both lighter in the wallet and heavy with disappointment? We wade through the murky waters of household cleanliness and the daunting quest for a spotless abode. It's a candid look at the high stakes of dust bunnies and streak-free stainless steel — a tale that might just mirror your own.But it's not all about the dust; we scrub deeper into the world of personal hygiene rituals. Have you ever wondered if there's more to life than a quick shower lather? Prepare to be transported to the steamy rooms of the Turkish Hamam, where exfoliation is an art form and 'noodles' of dead skin are a badge of honor. We debate the merits of a good scrub and the transformative magic of a humble washcloth. It's an eye-opening session guaranteed to make you see your bathroom routine in a whole new light.Lastly, we take a detour through the glitz and glam of Hollywood. From the iconic scent of patchouli to the dramatic physical metamorphoses for the silver screen, we dissect the pressures of maintaining an ageless appearance amidst a culture that idolizes youth. Our conversation veers from nostalgia for the '90s distinctiveness to today's uniform beauty templates, all while celebrating the charm of natural aging.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Feb 16, 202436 min

S3 Ep 3838. A Lifetime of Choices & Love w/ Special Guest Jeff

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Discover the intricate dance of a relationship that has weathered the test of time, as my husband Jeff joins me at the microphone to weave a tapestry of stories spanning three decades. Our conversation ventures beyond the surface, revealing how the art of communication has both challenged and enriched the bond we share. We take you on a journey from the giddiness of our dating days to the solid foundation we've built in our marriage, passing through the milestones and miscues that have taught us to move in lockstep with one another.As Jeff and I reminisce about our life's narrative, the deliberate choices that have kept our partnership strong and central emerge as the beating heart of our story. From choosing to remain childfree to our bold moves across cities, each step has been a testament to our commitment to one another. Listen as we unfold the layers of leaving behind corporate life for a pursuit of personal fulfillment through life coaching, yoga, and entrepreneurship; a testament to the belief that happiness isn't found in a paycheck, but in living authentically. Join us for this intimate exploration into the enduring love and growth that defines our union.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Feb 9, 202422 min

S3 Ep 3737. The Power of Genuine Connection

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Ever had one of those days where you just can't seem to muster the energy to tackle your day? We've all been there, and in this laugh-packed episode, we share our own hilarious low-energy tales, including a surprising mood lift from a celebrity video! But we're not just about the giggles; we also get real about the intimate connection between our physical fitness and emotional health. Join us as we recount tales from the gym, discover the peace found within the walls of a yoga studio, and celebrate the communities that help us thrive in our wellness journeys.Sometimes, it's the people we meet along the way that make all the difference. We're peeling back the layers of phrases like "holding space" to uncover the raw authenticity and self-compassion they can foster. It's a heartfelt exploration of finding one's tribe and the power of genuine connections, where laughter and learning go hand in hand.Lastly, we tip our hats to the spontaneous beats of life that often bring us the most joy. We share stories that highlight the beauty of unscripted moments and the strength found in opening up about our challenges. It's an ode to the people who've held us up when we were too weary to stand, and a high-five to the magical, unplanned adventures that enrich our lives. Wrap yourself in a big virtual hug and tune in to an episode that's all about embracing the unpredictable, nurturing love, and finding the courage to step outside the comfort zone.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Feb 2, 202434 min

S3 Ep 3636. Easy Love Part3 w/Special Guest Jenny

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Embracing Vulnerability and Connection in Relationships. Ever felt the weight of the world on your shoulders and yearned for a place to lay down that burden? Our latest heart-to-heart with Jenny unravels the complex tapestry of emotional support for men, challenging the stoic facades often demanded by society. As we traverse topics from the vulnerability in men and the unique pressures within LGBTQ+ relationships, to the universal quest for understanding and support in love, we promise you a deeper comprehension of the roles we play in each other's healing journeys.Redefining masculinity isn't just a catchphrase; it's a revolution in our intimate connections. Together with Jenny, we scrutinize the traditional scripts that confine men and women's emotional expressions and look beyond monogamy to the rich spectrum of relationship structures like polyamory. Learn how personal growth and shedding societal ideals can not only transform relationships but also help us evolve into our truest selves. This episode isn't just about questioning norms; it's about breaking free from them.Strap in for a candid reflection on the trials and triumphs of the modern dating landscape, where we share personal anecdotes and lessons on setting boundaries and handling rejection with ease. From crafting an assertive persona on dating apps to deciphering sincerity in a sea of digital profiles, we guide you through the maze of finding genuine connections in an often superficial world. Join us as we reveal the strategies that can help you navigate love, online and offline, with your heart and mind in sync.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Jan 25, 202431 min

S3 Ep 3535. Choosing a Different Path w/Special Guest Jenny

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Have you ever felt the weight of expectation to tread the well-worn path of parenthood? Our latest episode peels back the layers of societal norms that pressure women to have children, as we share the powerful realization that choosing a child-free life can be as fulfilling as any other. We dive into the heart of this personal subject, with anecdotes and insights that celebrate the freedom to decide what family means to us. This episode offers a mix of experiences and those of influential women who found solace in embracing life choices that veer from the conventional.Transitioning from the expectations of family life to the embrace of aging, we bask in the wisdom of cultural icons like Jane Fonda and Martha Stewart. Their stories of vulnerability, authenticity, and the cultivation of unexpected friendships exemplify how to age with grace and gusto. Furthermore, we discuss how the spaces we inhabit, right down to our dishwasher loading strategies, reflect the complexities of our personalities. "Home Organization and Personal Preferences" is not just a discussion about tidiness—it's about the deeper connections between how we arrange our lives and how we live them. This episode is a tapestry of candid reflections on the decisions that define us, the relationships that shape us, and the spaces we call home.Links to referenced podcast and clips:Wiser Than Me with Jane Fonda: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/julia-gets-wise-with-jane-fonda/id1678559416?i=1000608323289Martha Stuart and Rick Ross: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3mwZYgSF-cThanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Jan 19, 202421 min

S3 Ep 3434. Easy Love Part 2 w/Special Guest Jenny

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Embarking on a three-decade love affair that sprouted in the least romantic of places—a fast-food joint—has taught one dynamic duo the true essence of a long-lasting relationship. As they unfold the tale of their union, we peer into the intricacies of personal evolution, the art of self-acceptance, and the transformative power of emotional intelligence. They're not shy about the rough patches, either, sharing how, at times, the romance dimmed to a platonic coexistence, and the steps taken to rekindle the spark.Steering away from the conventional, we engage with a pioneer of polyamory, who challenges the traditional norms by sharing the harmonious blend of transparency, communication, and values needed to maintain a multi-partner relationship. Far from the myth that one person can fulfill every need, we learn about the dance of balancing multiple connections and the vital role outside friendships play in supporting this unique web of love. It's a candid insight into the world where "more than one" doesn't dilute love but enriches it, demanding a level of openness and trust not often discussed in typical relationship dialogues.Through laughter, shared adventures, and even the navigation of new insecurities, this compelling account underscores that the journey of self-discovery and embracing love is an evergreen adventure, no matter the age. Join us as we traverse the broad spectrum of love, from its fledgling beginnings to the seasoned bonds that withstand the test of time.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Jan 12, 202440 min

S3 Ep 3333. Easy Love Part 1 w/Special Guest Jenny

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When the effervescent Jenny joins our podcast, we're reminded of the kind of laughter and depth that only a friend can bring. Our latest episode is a testament to that irreplaceable connection, capturing the essence of unscripted exchanges amongst true friendships. Whether it's chuckling over the 'J squad' coincidence or musing on "Selling Sunset" marathons, this chat with Jenny is a warm embrace, celebrating the bonds that started life times ago and grew stronger with every mile between us.Love and laughter are the twin stars guiding us through this conversation, as we dissect the sanctuary of friendship compared to the complexities of family dynamics. Here, we bare our hearts about the subtle ways attachment styles weave through our lives, shaping every relationship from platonic to romantic. Sharing our own anecdotes, we illuminate the power of friendships that encourage us to drop the facade and show up as our true selves. These are the bonds that teach us about vulnerability and healing, forming a template for how we connect with others, and possibly even offering solace from past traumas.To close, we confront the myth that love should come easy—a narrative often woven into the tapestry of our lives by glossy social media feeds and reality TV. Our discussion shifts to the 'Ick' factor in romantic relationships and how we grapple with the messiness of love, a stark contrast to the resilience we find in friendships. Embracing love, quirks, and all, we celebrate the acceptance that deepens our connections, whether with ourselves, pets, or partners. Join us as we unravel the complexities of relationships, learning to cherish the beauty in life's imperfections along the way.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Jan 5, 202435 min

S3 Ep 3232: I Don't Deserve This

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Have you ever found yourself eating junk food, not out of hunger but as a form of self-punishment? We dropped our guards in this episode, getting real about our battles with self-destructive behaviors and how guilt and a lack of self-love often drive us to hurt ourselves through a variety of unsupportive habits that have been created. We shared our fears and the urgency we feel to indulge before making lifestyle changes. Most importantly, we emphasized the necessity of addressing these emotional undercurrents and maintaining a life aligned with our highest self.We didn't stop at discussing our struggles with self-destruction. We exposed our fears of making choices that deviate from our well-being, diving into how negative energy often perpetuates these harmful cycles. We also examined our need for external validation, reflecting on how societal expectations shape our actions and self-perceptions. More than anything, we underscored the importance of self-validation, inner healing, and the courage it requires to build a trusting relationship with ourselves. This episode is a testament to the power of honesty, humor, and self-love in overcoming fear and self-destruction.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Dec 8, 202328 min

S3 Ep 3131: Hey Girl, I missed you!

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Ever wondered how a personalized skincare routine could be a game-changer for your overall well-being? Get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and self-care with us as we reveal our experiences and learnings from a French facialist and a friend who's a wizard with unique massage techniques. We'll delve into the holistic approach of our facialist, who taught us the importance of hydration and the miracles it can do for our skin. Nothing short of remarkable, we guarantee you'll learn a thing or two from our friend's massages that beautifully blend elements of kinesiology and chiropractic. In the fast-paced world we live in, isn't it essential to be aware of our body and its needs? As we age, we've found practices like massage, acupuncture, and yoga to enhance our body consciousness, a topic we're excited to share with you. We also uncover the revelations from the books "The Body Keeps the Score" and "Metaphysical Anatomy," exploring the fascinating connection between our physical and emotional health. As we wrap up, we'll dive into healing methods like acupuncture and EMDR therapy, discuss the role of self-awareness and sobriety in our personal growth, and appreciate the value of body workers. We'll also lighten the mood with a fun chat on experimenting with new recipes - heads up for a delicious potato leek soup recipe!Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Nov 24, 202324 min

S2 Ep 3030: The Unexpected Journey

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Ever grappled with the unease and disorientation that comes with navigating through airports? We've all been there. In our latest podcast episode, my co-host and I dissect our own travel experiences and the jitters that come with TSA and screenings—trust me, we know firsthand how overwhelming it can be. But that's not all. As the episode unfolds, we transition into a profound conversation about spiritual presence, personal growth, and identity. We share an intimate story of a spiritual encounter and the experience that will forever change a life. Tune in, as we walk through our personal fears, find solace in the support of those around us, and embark on a journey of self-discovery and acceptance. A rollercoaster ride of laughter, introspection, and emotional conversations await you. Buckle up!Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Nov 10, 202332 min

S2 Ep 2929: Tending the Garden of Life

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Ever wondered how the roots of a plant could mirror our emotional responses and relationships? Now, that's an interesting thought! Deep-rooted emotions, just like those of plants, have the capacity to impact our relationships. Join us as we share a personal journey of self-discovery, growth, and emotional healing through tending the garden and tools like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy. Can you imagine the symbiotic relation between nurturing a garden and fostering a relationship? This episode is a reflection of that analogy. Conversations are like planting seeds in a garden, and deep relationships bloom like flowers from these seeds. Hear about our recent conversation with a long-standing friend, where we delve deeper into our shared experiences and how we have positively impacted one another's growth. The lessons learned from these interactions are priceless, akin to watching a flower bloom in slow motion. Taking it further, we discuss the emotional environment we live in, and how it defines who we are, based on our experiences. We specifically focus on our encounters with EMDR therapy and the positive role it has played in our interpersonal relationships. We discuss the idea of change, and how it can often feel like a death. But, isn't it a rebirth as well? Let's explore that together! Join us for an episode filled with heartfelt stories, introspections, and insights into the world of human emotions and relationships.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Oct 20, 202323 min

S2 Ep 2828: Revolutionary Self-Love

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Join us on this enlightening journey of self-discovery and empowerment, where we aim to inspire and uplift one another. We confront our beliefs and insecurities created by cultural, societal and patriarchal systems and the ways they can manifest in unkind behavior towards ourselves and others. We challenge societal norms of beauty and delve into how self-love and detachment from external validation can work wonders. No, we're not stopping at self-love either, we're also exploring spirituality and its role in our decisions about food, relationships, and other life aspects. I know this discussion has shifted my own perspective as I move forward, I hope you find something that inspires you to think and act differently in your world.Don't forget to tune into the next episode to hear more inspiring conversations with friends.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Oct 13, 202324 min

S2 Ep 2727: Remote Reality

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Ever had a belly-aching laugh with your girlfriends, shared hilarious self-soothing techniques, and then the next moment found yourself knee-deep in discussions about remote work culture and imposter syndrome? Well, that's exactly what we did in this heartening yet reflective episode. We opened up about the delights of our recent girls' weekend, which could easily be a sitcom episode."Can working remotely mess with your relationships, productivity, and self-esteem?" you may wonder. We took a deep-dive into the world of remote work, the pros and cons, and the unseen impacts it has on our lives, especially those sneaky virtual meetings. We discussed how the shift in work culture can affect us, and how imposter syndrome can sneak up on us when we are in our home office, away from the camaraderie of the office space. But fear not, we also shed light on ways to navigate through these challenges and grow from them.As we wrapped up our episode, we shifted gears to talk about some of our favorite things - love, gratitude, and the power of small moments of joy. We highlighted the importance of recharging ourselves and creating meaningful connections, even when it seems impossible. We shared stories about taking time for ourselves, finding happiness in small things, and recognizing when it's time to hit the pause button. So, if you're looking for a blend of laughter, deep reflections, relatable experiences, and a sprinkle of life advice, this episode is just for you. Tune in and join our conversation.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Sep 29, 202325 min

S2 Ep 2626: Navigating The Wilderness of Self

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Are you truly content? Do you yearn for more with every achievement? In our latest chat, we turn the tables on definitions of success and happiness, tackling the often unsettling balance between contentment and desire. We navigate the misleading pressures of materialism and discuss how life's real joy isn't rooted in the price tag, but in the experience itself.We then embark on a journey through the wilderness of self-discovery and relationships, exploring how authenticity is the compass that leads us to profound contentment. By surrendering control, we open up to the beauty of accepting help from others, fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships. But, it's not always smooth sailing – we dig into the necessity of tough conversations and acknowledging our imperfections, crucial for growth and deeper connections.Wrapping up our enlightening discussion, we empower you to bridge the gap between your current state and your desired one. We urge you to embrace the unknown and let life guide you to your next milestone. As we part ways, we leave you with thought-provoking queries from our listeners, reminding us that we're all in this together. So, let's grow together in this community, wishing each other love and luck as we navigate life's beautiful chaos.Thanks friends for being part of the conversation. We hope you had a good time, if so, please leave us a review and share us with your friends. This podcast is sponsored by Jill Dahler Coaching, here to guide you to discover and recover your authentic self. If you're ready to create and live a "Fuck Yeah" life, I'm here for you. Let's connect at jilldahler.com. Until next time!

Aug 25, 202326 min
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