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Happy Friday Lifers!This episode is a day behind because we recorded an entire episode without realising a microphone wasn’t plugged in. Yep, it finally happened. But to be fair it took 18 months and over 100 episodes before it happened so really we think we’ve done pretty darn well! Anyhow it’s here now so get it in your ears. We have special guest host Matty J recoding with Britt today answering all your deep and burning questions because, well, Laura basically has an arm hanging out of her and the birth of her next child is imminent so we’ve cut her some slack and put her on bed rest and we hope you can cut her some slack too! Besides, you get Matty! On the menu today;What do guys really mean when they say “It’s not you it’s just timing. The timing is wrong” do they really mean that or is that a lame ask excuse and a load of bulls*it?I’m 25 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend is not feeling comfortable being romantic with me in the bedroom. Aka, he doesn’t want any sexy time. This is making me feel pretty bad about myself. Should I let it and should I be worried? Is it just me? Or is this a normal thing for men to feel?Why do so many guys not reply on dating apps!? Why do they leave you on matched or just not respond when you write to them!? It’s really starting to get to me.My partner and I have been together for 6 years, we still love each other and we want to stay together but the spark is just gone.How do we bring it back and get some spice back into life? Matt- Why do some males just pound you during sex - literally pound town from start to end. Curious, does that actually feel good for you guys?We hope you love having Matty J on as much as we love having him visit! (From the lounge room to the studio haha ) Keep the questions coming in guys! Slide on in to our Instagram DM’s @lifeuncutpodcast and title the message “ask uncut”If you loved the ep please hit subscribe, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Tuesday Lifers! We’ve done some big episodes of late regarding egg freezing, fertility and IVF, so we decided it was the perfect time to get someone in that can talk about it first hand. So this week we are chatting to Fiona Falkiner and her fiancé Hayley Willis!Australia first fell in love with Fiona when she graced our screens many moons ago as a contestant on the biggest loser. She then went in to host the show and to forge a very successful career as a model both locally and internationally.Fiona is now in her third trimester after undergoing IVF (but not before they had a few attempts at home on their own ;) ) Hayley is a very well respected sports journalist working in a male dominated industry. We chat all things life before they met, career highlights and lowlights, how body image has changed in the industry, the moment Fiona realised she in fact was more interested in women than men, navigating coming out to their friends, family and Australia, dating in the public eye and of course their fertility journey.You can find the girls @fionafalkiner @hayley__willisIf you loved the episode please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, be love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday is here with Ask Uncut!We love giving you guys our unqualified but passionate yet questionable advice!We randomly had so many wedding questions this week ! Something must be in the air! ( What is it? Seriously, tell me, asking for a friend)So we decided to tackle two common wedding questions and then of course a relationship/family problem."What are the rules at a wedding with gifts.... ie my friends didn't give me one, does this mean I can get away with not giving them one? What is the acceptable amount to give?""Halppppppppppp I hate my brothers girlfriend. She is mean and rude and he deserves better. Can I and should I tell him what I really think? Or just sit back and watch him burn""Do I have to go to my friends hens party and wedding? I don't really want to but how can I say no!? Also she didn't even invite my boyfriend!?"What do you guys think about inviting your friends partners to weddings? Yay nor Nay? Find out what we think on todays episode.Keep those questions rolling in guys to our insta @lifeuncutpodcast and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Let's be real. We are all going to go through a period in our lives where we come across some sort of hurdle with a friend. Be it a disagreement, growing apart, having emotionally draining and toxic friendships to full blown friendship breakups. It's all part of this crazy thing we call life. Every week we receive multiple questions about navigating friendships and hot dam we do our darndest to give you the advice you need. But because of the good humans we are we decided to go above and beyond this week and have a professional weigh in to give you some much needed and very qualified advice.Enter Dr Hannah Korell.Hannah is both a Clinical Neuropsychologist and a Registered Psychologist. She completed her university training and PhD in neuropsychology at the University of Melbourne. Hannah has spent over a decade becoming an expert in why the brain makes us do the things we do (and sometimes the things we don't want to do!) Fierce mental health advocate, Hannah brings and psychology together to explain common life dilemmas, minus the BS. Part of this no BS approach was releasing her book HOW TO BREAK UP WITH FRIENDS. She get into the nitty gritty on what makes a real friend, toxic friendships, how to attract good friends, the effect is has on your health and navigating a breakup.You can find Hannah at @nobullpsychIf you loved the episode please hit subscribe, 5 stars and join in the discussion on our Insta page @lifeuncutpodcast.... and share the love, because well, we love love. xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This podcast episode discusses sexual assault, coercive control and living in a cult, This may be triggering to victim survivors. If you need help or someone to talk to, you can call 1800 RESPECT or visit respect.gov.au.“My name is India Oxenberg. I was in a cult for seven years. I didn't want to be saved,"This is the harrowing opening line to Stan's four-part docuseries that explores the NXIVM cult. The cult started as a US-based self-improvement group, led by Keith Raniere, but in the end the group was exposed for the dark and disturbing cult that it was.For 20 years from 1998 and 2018, Raniere recruited thousands of people under the guise of personal development seminars and self improvement sessions even luring in several celebrities and socialites with the most prolific being Smallville star Allison Mack.Over a long period of time, NXIVM faced a multitude of accusations of systemic sexual abuse of female members by Raniere and members of his inner circle. India was a part of this cult, without knowledge that it was a cult, for 7 years.The last two of which she was a part of a secret sub group within the cult called DOS, which is a Latin phrase that translates to "Master over Slave Women," It was at this point India was expected to engage in sex acts with Keith Raniere, to act as a slave to Smallville star Allison Mack and to be a master to her own two slaves. It was also here that she was held down naked and branded with Keiths initials on her stomach without anaesthetic and while being filmed. We are so grateful to have India join us today to personally tell us her story. How she got involved with the group, what life was life inside, the perpetual yet slow grooming, the coercive control, the manipulation and brain washing, the things she was made to do, the collateral she was forced to put down to ensure her silence. She speaks candidly about when things turned sexual, her inhumane branding and eventually how she found her way out and her life after the cult.You can follow India @indiaoxenbergFollow us @lifeuncutpodcast @brittany_hockley @ladyandacatIf you're one of our scallywags that loves the podcast but hasn't left 5 stars or a review yet, well, we wont hold it against you but also, like, why you do us dirty.Please, subscribe and tell your friends, tell your mum, your cousin and your dog and share the love, because, well, we love love. xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday is backkkkkk!We missed giving you our unqualified but ridiculously enthusiastic and passionate advice! Today we chat age gaps. Is it an issue? Can you date older? Can you date younger? As one listener says “I really liked him until I found out his age”Next is something a little different, we chat circumcision. Should you circumcise your child!? What are the pros and cons? Obviously we don’t have penis’ so can’t speak from experience lol. But we come armed with plenty of facts and opinions. HELP! I can’t stop catching feelings! Every time I sleep with someone my feelings come rolling in! I feel like I’m setting myself up for disaster. (Spoiler - you probably are)Guys you know the drill! Tell your mum, tell your dad, your friends and your dog and share the love, because, well, we love love xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lifers! We are back! It is our first episode back for the year and we wanted to kick it off with something fun, different and a little weird! So we decided to chat with a very highly recommended psychic medium - aptly named David the Medium - and see what the future holds for us and well, basically if Brittany will ever find love. Lolz.As a medium David connects with people that have passed over to the other side, meaning he can deliver messages and communicate on our behalf with those that have passed. You’ll have to tune in to see if we had any luck connecting with and loved ones.He also predicts the sex of Laura’s baby and well, we can’t wait to see how that one plays out!!This chat is full of tears, laughter, predictions and inappropriate jokes, all in all it was an eye opening experience so strap on in.If you want to check out David on Instagram and book in a reading for yourself you can find him @davidthemediumDon’t forget to join our Facebook discussion group and follow us on Instagram @lifeuncutpodcastIf you love listening to us you can hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love x--See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

HAPPY FREAKING NEW YEARS EVE LIFERS!On todays little stroll down memory lane we are bringing fireworks... well, less fire works and more gaslighting, but this is one heated little episode.This is episode 29 from season 3 and it is one of our favourite episodes as so many people have experienced this behaviour or been guilty of it themselves and it is so very relatable.Pop some champas and settle back for this recap episode - Big love to you all.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Wandering down Memory lane day 2!Today on "Britt and Laura are taking a mini Christmas break but didn't want to leave you hanging so rehashed some of our older and favourite episodes" we are rolling alllll the way back to Season 1, episode 3. Back when we were brand new little podcast virgins and still working out what buttons did what, but we were determined to share stories and content that would in some way help and change peoples life, even if it was just one person. As this was one of the more popular episodes and was aired so long ago we thought it was time to re share it with all our new listeners!This episode is called "So I dated a sociopath" and it's an episode we often refer back to in our current episodes as it had such a huge impact on Britts life. It also had such an amazing response at the time from listeners saying it helped them through their own tough and toxic times and made them realise that;A) They are not alone and there is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of andB) That this is no way is a reflection on them and there is light at the end of the tunnel,It shaped Britt into who she is today and knowing it is shedding light on situations that aren't often spoken about makes sharing it all the more important.See you soon you big bunch of legends!Remember, If you loved the episode please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love. xIf you haven't joined our facebook group, well what on earth have you been doing!? Join the conversation at Life Uncut Podcast group and swing by @lifeuncutpodcast on instagram to ride the lollercoaster with us. xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lifers take a walk with us down memory lane! This week while we are holidaying with our martinis (Brittany) and soda waters (Laura) we are rehashing some of our favourite episodes.The last episode we released before taking a wee Christmas break was episode 100, and we can't believe how far this little podcast has come over the past 18 months. Todays episode is freaking WILD and not for the faint of heart.We are taking you all the way back to episode 13 from February this year, where we interviewed the hilariously inappropriate comedy duo Ashley and Rayna from Girls Gotta Eat an American podcast that covers all the things we here at Life Uncut love.Girls Gotta Eat is a powerhouse in the USA and receives over 2.5 million monthly downloads. it's raunchy, it's wild and its a lolacoaster with a side of panalol.We hope you love the ride!If you haven't joined our facebook group get in on the conversation Life Uncut Podcast Group and instagram is the @lifeuncutpodcast.... follow along xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Guyssss it’s our last episode of the year!!And what a crazy year it has been!Ok so what’s on the menu today. We certainly cover some ground!We take a look back on the year that was, reflect on our last years resolutions - did we achieve them? How do we feel about them?Of course we have accidentally unfiltered for you, but first we dissect a fb discussion question on whether it’s ok to ignore men who approach you to chat, or is that just plain rude. Do we owe them anything? Should we be polite if we feel uncomfortable? Do you owe it to a man to be nice?Britt has a very out of character run in with a man on her first and last night out for the year because #2020 is finishing the year a sly dog. We recognise that being alone at this time of year can be hard, but we want you to know you are never completely alone. There is always someone to talk to and someone that cares.. even if you jump on our fb group to join the chats with some likeminded and beautiful humans!We thought what better way to wrap up the last episode than with an Ask uncut regarding a girl who embarrasses herself at her work Christmas party. Fitting.We can’t THANKK YOU enough for all of you love and support this year. We ADORE each and every one of you. We read all your emails and messages and we areSo grateful for the amazing community that has been created. We couldn’t and wouldn’t be able to do this without you. You’ve all supported and helped us so much and we can only hope you have felt supported and loved too. If it weren’t for you guys we never would have won the Listeners Choice at the Australian podcast awards, an award we are so chuffed with. We can’t wait for a bigger and better 2021. Until then, join the fun and join some healthy and usually hilarious conversation on the fb discussion group - Life Uncut Podcast. Have a safe and healthy Christmas and New Years and let’s roll in to the new year with good energy, great intentions and filled with love and optimism.Please, if you’ve gotten this far and you haven’t hit 5 stars or left a review yet, well you sly dog what are you waiting for.Please, share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happppy Thursday lifers! Holy smokes it comes around quickly dunnit!Starting with some cracker accidentally unfiltered’s and ‘can’t believe they said that’s’ before jumping into a meaty and ever so insightful topic, conflict styles.We’ve spoken about love languages and attachment styles in the past and we think this is a really great way to complete the conversation and tie them all in together. The 5 conflict styles we discuss are -Conflict avoiders -volatile couples -validating couples-hostile couples-hostile-detached couples.These are so important to understand about yourself and your partner so you can work towards a happier, healthier relationship. So, which one are you!? You can do your own conflict style test here If you love the episode please hit subscribe, 5 starts, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xOh, and join our Instagram and fb discussion group lifers, it’s where the magic (and lols) happen! @lifeuncutpodcastPeace x-- See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Tuesday lifers! We are doing another switcheroo this week and bringing you Ask uncut today, but we have good reason! You’ll have to listen to find out though. Some things just can’t be avoided!We have a great one for you with some very relatable questions and some good solid lols. But before we get into that, some jerk had the nerve to put a girls face through a “how pretty are you?” app before deciding if her would date her... then proceeded to give her her feedback before they had even met and WTF JERRY THERES A REASON YOU’RE SINGLE JERK OFF. As you can tell, we are not ok with this. Okies, into the episode;Firstly, what do you do if you can’t stand the noises your partner makes when he’s having sex!? Can you tell him? Do you just put up with it and hope for the best? What if your partner never told you he loved you. But showed you in other ways. Is that enough? This one related back to the good old love languages and we both have different ideas on it.Lastly, but definitely not least, we have one listener who’s bf keeps getting sent nudes in a group chat and she ain’t ok with it. How do you navigate that one!? We will be back with our big juicey episode on Thursday guys!Thanks for all your love recently, so many of you taking the time to leave reviews and have great meaningful discussions on the Facebook group! If you aren’t a member, where you at!?@lifeuncutpodcastHit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week again Lifers, it's Therapy Thursday and we have a very special one ready to serve up!Britt is away on a much deserved holiday - and today its Laura and Matty J taking the reins answering all your relationship questions!Here are the questions we tackle in todays episode : My partner is going to a bucks party where there are going to be strippers and I don't want him to go, am I over reacting? Are you always attracted to each other? My husband and I have different fighting styles, he avoids conflict and I need reassurance which ends in our fights escalating even if the original fight is over something inconsequential - how can we resolve this? I need to break up with my boyfriend.... should I do it before or after Christmas? Find us on Facebook at Life Uncut Podcast and on Instagram @LifeuncutpodcastIf you loved todays episode please hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lifers, today we have one of the most serious and most harrowing episodes we have ever done, but it is something we feel is so important to speak about.One in four will experience violence at the hands of an intimate partner and the most dangerous place for a women is in the house. This statistic unfortunately rang true for Dr Angela Jay when she was attacked in her own home by an ex partner. It was 2016 when Angela decided to download tinder and start dating again after ending things with her husband. That is where she met a funny, intelligent, tall dark and handsome man by the name of Paul Lambert. Things started off well, but went downhill rapidly, so Angela ended things. It wasn't long before he would try and kill her.Angela bravely talks us through what happened to her and discusses the signs she missed, life after the attack and where you can go for help if you are experiencing any form of domestic violence or if you need to exit a toxic relationship.If you haven't already join us on insta and our facebook discussion group @lifeuncutdiscussionPlease, hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xIf this conversation brings up any issues for you, or if you just feel like you need to speak to someone, please call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732). This 24-hour national sexual assault, family and domestic violence counselling line for any Australian who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.It doesn’t matter where you live, they will take your call and, if need be, refer you to a service closer to home.If you are in immediate danger call 000. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey Lifers!Yes it's Thursday but we are delivering you our big, juicy, meaty Tuesday episode today! (blame this weeks episode switcheroo on the fact we thought Laura was going in to labour - valid excuse 😂) but boy do we have a positively good one for you!After Laura's pregnancy scare we talk a bit about... well..... pregnancy and touch on the really wonderful news Dan Andrews recently shared around miscarriage and the solace this change in legislation will bring to grieving women and families.Britt is sharing her egg freezing journey with us all, then it's time for some accidentally unfiltered stories.On the menu today - TOXIC POSITIVITY!What is that you say? Well we are glad you asked!The phrase “toxic positivity” refers to the concept that keeping positive, happy and upbeat are the only feeling you should have and is the right way to live your life. It means only focusing on positive things and rejecting anything that may trigger negative emotions. We are currently seeing this everywhere in life. Sounds great right!?The fact is, when you deny or avoid unpleasant and negative emotions, you actually make them bigger .We unpack that and more so strap in folks.Find us on Facebook at Life Uncut Podcast and on Instagram @LifeuncutpodcastIf you loved todays episode please hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love.And also that is what helps us grow so please and thank you we love you. xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday is here!! Even though it’s only Tuesday!We very occasionally mix up our weeks programming when life throws us a curve ball annnnnd that’s exactly what happened. Laura’s needed a bit of R & R with this pregnancy, so Britt searched high and low for a special replacement but time was of the essence... sooooo we got Matt. Lolz.Naaa we love having Matt on to give his very wise male perspective on things! This week Britt and Matt chat about picking up in a bar, that is, how to do it and how to give the impression you’re open to it. One poor lass has already been through hell when her fiancé cheated and left her for her cousin (jerk) but now she’s expected to go to their wedding... sorry WHAT!?Talking about your exes on a first date. Is the first date etiquette!? Should it be avoided? Should you be offended if they choose not to talk about it?Christmas is just around the corner and we should be excited to be with loved ones! Unless of course your partner hasn’t invited you... is this as bad as it sounds or can couples do their own thing over the holidays? If you loved the episode please hit 5 starts, leave a review if you’re feeling extra generous and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week guys! Where you hit us with your deepest and most troubling problems and we give you our deepest and sometimes troubling answers. JOKES our answers are always very heartfelt, considered and come from a place of love and experience. Today we have an accidental message slip up. HELP! I sent a message to my friend saying that one of our other friends babies looked like a potato.... but I accidentally sent it to the mum! My boyfriend broke up with me because I told him I didn't want him to hand out with another girl... All my friends are getting married and having babies, how can I be happy for them without resenting my boyfriend as I want to get married too. My ex has intimate photos of me and I want him to delete them, what should I do? We absolutely LOVE ask uncut so please keep your questions rolling in! (literally any topic is welcome) And if you love the episode please share the love, because, well, we love love xThis episode is proudly brought to you by ToniMay jewellery - shop 30% OFF Black Friday Sale when you use the code BLACKFRIDAY - Sale ends midnight Monday 30th - Shop here https://www.tonimay.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today we have the absolute powerhouse that is Sabrina Frederick joining us and we are so excited to bring you this episode!! Sabrina is not only an elite athlete paving the way for women in AFL, but she is also keeping us glued to our screens as we watch the highly addictive yet controversial reality TV show that is SAS Australia. Sabrina describes herself with the simple yet powerful statement 'I’m a Black woman in a same sex relationship working in a male dominated sport" and we talk about all of that.We chat all things AFL, how Sabrina got into the sport, she tells us all about her fiance, how they met and who proposed to whom. Then the scene that divided the nation, the boxing match between Sabrina and Nick "honey badger' Cummins, we find out what really went down, along with some other SAS goss of course! Like who she would take into battle if she could only choose one person, and it may not be who you think!Sabrina opens up and talks about her experiences and her thoughts on the Black Lives Matter movement and some of the issues she faced growing up. All in all this was such a beautiful conversation and we can all learn a lot from the inspiration that is Sabrina Frederick. You can follow Sabrina @sabzizzleIf you loved the episode you know the drill! Leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xps. Thank you so much to everyone that voted for us in the Australian podcast awards, thanks to you WE WON ahhhhhhh WE'RE NOT CRYING YOU'RE CRYING! We love you all for sharing the love! xxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week guys! Where you hit us with your deepest and most troubling problems and we give you our deepest and sometimes troubling answers. JOKES our answers are always very heartfelt, considered and come from a place of love and experience. Today we have an international student whose boyfriend just pulled the pin on their partnership visa, meaning she wouldn't easily be able to stay, but he still wants to be with her. Is this cool? Should she stay? Should she give up? Should she go and marry someone else for a visa!? (Of course not don't be silly that is very illegal) Then a relatively simple yet wildly common question, "How soon is too soon to move on? Should you get under someone to get over someone?" (if the man in question has a last name Hemsworth than yes, the answer is always yes, get under)Then we have a woman that found something in her husband's email that you never want to see. When and how can she confront him, especially when she was searching through his email to start with!We absolutely LOVE ask uncut so please keep your questions rolling in! (literally any topic is welcome) And if you love the episode please share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are so excited about today’s episode Lifers!!We have the ridiculously qualified and ridiculously lovely Dr Cheryl Phua in to chat all things fertility!!Cheryl works at Genea - a world leading fertility clinic, and specialises in infertility and reproductive endocrinology (CREI), including female and male factor infertility, reproductive endocrinology, adolescent gynaecology, andrology and menopause management and is very active in the research department (whilst we were interviewing Cheryl she was also on call to deliver babies, so there’s not much this woman can’t do in the world of fertility!) There is something for every age and stage of life in this episode as we talk IVF, egg freezing, costs, contraception, infertility, endometriosis, PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome) and more. We learnt so much and we really think you will too. We want you to know that you are not alone no matter where you are in your journey and that help is not inaccessible!! If you know someone who may benefit from this episode (let’s be real, we feel like all women can) send it their way and share us in your stories!! We love seeing that and this is an important one!A big thank you to today’s sponsor @geneafertility - leading the way in fertility advances for 30 years!They are helping us to get the fertility word out! If you need any help in any of the above or anything that we spoke out throughout the episode you can find out more by going to https://www.genea.com.au/fertility-collective/making-babiesWe hope you get as much out of this as we did!Ps. Please take two quick seconds to vote for us in the podcast awards because we would love to win (obvs) we will love you for it and it will make all those midnight records in our pyjamas on no sleep worth it! Just CLICK HERE type in Life Uncut as your vote then go to your email to confirm it! That’s it!!Hit 5 stars, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your girls were on radio!HERE IT IS LIFERS, a very cheeky bonus episode of our first radio segment on KIIS FM.Answering all your life uncut questions live and having a good old laugh with Mitch Churri.This is a packaged up little Bonus Episode of our second and final segment.We will be back to our normal scheduling on Tuesday, but hope you enjoy these fun little morsels.BIG LOVE - Laura and BrittSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Your girls were on radio!HERE IT IS LIFERS, a very cheeky bonus episode of our first radio segment on KIIS FM.Answering all your life uncut questions live and having a good old laugh with Mitch Churri.This is a packaged up little Bonus Episode of our first night, and we will be dropping night 2 on Sunday for anyone who wasn't able to listen to it live.We will be back to our normal scheduling on Tuesday, but hope you enjoy these fun little morsels.BIG LOVE - Laura and BrittSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy LIFE UNCUT DAY lifers! We hope your week is off to a flying start!We’ve got a big ep coming up today. We have our sister bachelorettes Elly and Beckie on and ask them the hard questions. We chat all things breakups and 'sort of' love declarations, find out where Elly’s love story is at and suss out if all the media speculation about Frazer chatting up other girls is true. Then we hear about Beckie’s heartbreak, how this devastating breakup was delivered (spoiler- it’s not cool) and where it all went wrong.But before that, we chat call-out culture.Call out culture is a modern form of reprimanding on social media, after Laura shook things up on her own social media over the weekend - we thought we needed to unpack this.Should we be doing it? And if so, how?Thank you to today’s sponsor Tribe skincare. It’s not only Australian made and cruelty free, but it’s all natural and Vegan too. Go to www.tribeskincare.com.au and use code LIFEUNCUT for 10% off. Thanks for listening Lifers, if you enjoyed please hit 5 stars, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love.Ps. Please take two quick seconds to vote for us in the podcast awards because we would love to win (obvs) we will love you for it and it will make all those midnight records in our pyjamas on no sleep worth it! Just go to https://australianpodcastawards.com/vote type in Life Uncut as your vote then go to your email to confirm it! That’s it!!Peace x-- See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's that time of the week again Therapy Thursday where we answer your deep dark and burning questions.This week we have some saucy relationship questions -Help - my boyfriend broke up with me after 6 years, but he still tells me he loves me everyday and misses me, and that we will be together in the future - he just need 5 years or so to figure his sh*t outHelp - I got ghosted, but he still watches my instagram stories... What does it mean?Help - I've been seeing this guy for 4 months, but he isn't ready to make it official... what do I do?We are also hot damn excited to have been nominated for the Best New Podcast in the Australian Podcast awards and would love you forever if you would take 1 minute out of your day to cast your vote here :https://australianpodcastawards.com/voteWANT MORE LIFE UNCUT? Of course you do :Pyou can find us on instagram @lifeuncutpodcast or join our Facebook group (you guessed it) - Life Uncut Podcast!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Tuesday lifers!!Boy do we have a sexy episode for you! We thought it was about time we answered some more of your deep, dark and sexy questions and because we’ve been working with the amazing team over @bumble_australia we thought it would be great to get their leading relationship therapist and sexologist on to answer all your questions! Chantelle Otten, Bumbles go to sexologist. is a Psycho-Sexologist who is passionate about empowering people to feel great about their sexual health, self-esteem, communication and education. With a background in scientific research, sexual medicine, and counselling, she believes that sexuality and self-esteem are an integral part of life, which everyone is entitled to. We are also hot damn excited to have been nominated for the Best New Podcast in the Australian Podcast awards and would love you forever if you would take 1 minute out of your day to cast your vote here :https://australianpodcastawards.com/voteA big fat loving thank you to today’s sponsor @bumble_australia the app that empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online. The app where women make the first move. WANT MORE LIFE UNCUT? Of course you do :Pyou can find us on instagram @lifeuncutpodcast or join our Facebook group (you guessed it) - Life Uncut Podcast!You can find more of the gem that is Chantelle @chantelle_otten_sexologistSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Yikes is it therapy Thursday again already!? Our quick, down and dirty ep is here and on today’s menu we have: A listeners crush has just jumped ship and is now boning her friend.... Yikes! A deep, soul searching question about what’s more important, instant chemistry or a deeper connection HELP! My partner can’t make me orgasm, but I’ve never had this problem before! All in a days work Lifers!Enjoy the ep and if you haven’t subscribed stop being cheeky and go hit that button!Have a great weekend and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In the words of Ross and Rachel, WE WERE ON A BREAK!Lifers, there’s going to come a time in most of our lives where we feel unsettled, uncomfortable, suffocated, anxious and maybe just a little confused in our relationship. Maybe you just need to figure some shit out on your own for a hot second, maybe it’s trying to forgive an infidelity, deciding if you want kids or maybe it’s more lifestyle based like wanting to focus on a career change! Either way you need to figure it out alone. But here’s the thing, you still love your partner and don’t want it to end! It’s tricky territory... but sounds like you guys need a break!!We tend to shudder when we hear the words ‘break’ but it’s not necessarily the worst thing and definitely isn’t the end of the world like we are made to believe! There are some things you can do to make it go more smoothly though and to bring you back bigger, better, stronger and more in love than ever. And we’re going to tell you. Thanks to todays sponsor @bumble_australia we are also bringing you some great conversation starters and opening lines... Britt and Laura both share their (slightly weird) opener and we want to know who’s you think is better (let’s be real, it’s ‘the best of a bad bunch’ kinda vibe)If you want to take Bumbles quick online quiz to see your dating style you can do so here https://thebeehive.bumble.com/conversation-starters-generator/If you listen every week but haven’t actually hit that subscribe button yet or left a review... WHERE YOU AT!? Haha but seriously. As an independent podcast this is the stuff that really helps us grow and keeps us in your ears each week. So what are you waiting for! Have a great week guys and share the love, because, well, we love love! XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"Your age doesn’t determine if you can be successful, and your bank account doesn’t determine if you are happy."Today we are talking timeline pressures, career changes and running your own race!But before we do that we have some hella cute Bumble success stories! Have you noticed we are all in hurry to get there, wherever that may be! In a hurry to grow up, graduate, become successful, in a hurry to get things done. We get upset when things don’t go our way, when results are not achieved instantly. It’s one big race and we are petrified of being left behind.Timelines have consciously or subconsciously been ingrained in our minds from the beginning. Whether it was uni graduation by 21, owning property before 30, getting married and having kids by 35 or retirement by 60. It seems there is always something that should have been done by a certain age or time. Maybe somewhere along the way you've wanted to change your career path but the thought of change and failure is too much, so you just don't.But then, society has this funny way of making us feel that if we don’t accomplish these deadlines, we are failing. We start existing in this vicious cycle of feeling unaccomplished, unsuccessful and a little lost. We start questioning why we aren’t where we were 'meant' to be. We start comparing our timelines to others timelines. Well, we are here to tell you that your journey is YOURS and hot damn you can run that race any way you see fit!Thanks to todays sponsor @bumble_australia , where women are empowered to take control of their dating life and make the first move.If you love hearing us twice a week guys pretty please do us a solid and hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Tuesday Lifers! This week because Laura has been severely unwell and hasn’t been able to get out of bed we’ve had to mix it up a little and do the old switcheroo! So today we are bringing you ‘ask uncut’ and on Thursday you’ll get your juicy episode (hopefully Laura can talk again by then!)Not only that but we have a special guest joining Britt today to answer your deepest, darkest questions... (drum roll please) it’s Laura’s other half Matt! About time we got a males perspective right?! We thought we’d really take advantage of his ‘expertise’ so we chat all things ghosting - why guys do it and also how to let them down easy, we chat jealousy and uncertainty in relationships, and how to know the difference between ‘grass is always greener’ or if you actually want to end the relationship.You don’t want to miss this one!If you enjoy the episode guys please hit subscribe, 5 stars and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s Tuesday lifers! And we are taking a walk with the green eyed monster. But first we are unpacking you most hilarious Bumble online dating stories thanks to todays sponsor - you guessed it Bumble!Chances are, unless you’re a a beautiful, unique, mythical unicorn mermaid, you’ve experienced jealousy at some stage of your life, especially in romantic relationships. Maybe for reasons that are warranted or maybe it comes from a place of deep insecurity, either way we are going to get to the bottom of it because it is not conducive to a healthy relationship.There is one kind of jealousy that we are really going to deep dive into, and that is retrospective or retroactive jealousy, which is when one experiences painful thoughts and an intense overwhelming and all consuming curiosity and obsession with their partners past relationships and sexual history. And let us tell you, it’s real and never ends well. Thank you to today’s sponsor, Bumble. The dating app where women make the first move. An app that empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online.If you like having us in your ears guys please hit subscribe, 5 stars and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday lifers!Our short, sharp and sometimes sexy question session.We have one girl in a long term relationship that feels their sex Life isn’t enough.. should she leave?Where do single people meet these days and how do you meet them in the wild?And is it ok/should we be asking partners to get STI checks before sleeping with them....If you have a question for Life Uncut, slide on into our DM's on Instagram @lifeuncutpodcastHit subscribe, 5 stars and share the love. Because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Happy Tuesday guys! We have a bloody big episode for you today with back to back interviews!First up we have the first ever Bachelorette sisters Elly and Becky Miles! We get to know the girls, chat embarrassing stories and how exactly a double sister bachelorette actually works! Then we jump into something a little more serious but something we feel very passionately about. This past few weeks we’ve seen an online dating story go viral. And not for reasons you may hope.Ebonie Sanderson, a local bondi woman has come forward detailing the horrific abuse she received online from a man named Tom McGuirk. What we all first thought was just a tirade of abusive messages and voicemails simply because she declined to spend the night with him, turned in much more, with women from all over coming forward to detail their abuse at the hands of Tom McGuirk. From abusive messages, to voicemails, multiple fake accounts in order to troll, to blackmail and threats of stalking.We wanted to get Ebony on to talk us through her experience , why she felt compelled to go public and to have a wider conversation about consent. This is an important conversation guys so please share with your friends! Hit subscribe, five stars and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s Therapy Thursday lifers!Gosh it comes around quick doesn’t it! We hope you’ve had a more exciting week than we have this week! Britt almost dated Zac Efron but didn’t because Laura forgot to tell her he was eating dinner across the road from her house. Once we got past that slippery little detail that was so easily forgotten we jumped in to answering your questions!! This week we have a work dilemma. How to tell your boss you’re uncomfortable with some of his vocabulary. A girl that was broken up with by the love of her life and didn’t see it coming. She wants to know “what she did wrong so she can avoid doing it again” and girl, you did nothing!! And a realllllll pickle... how do you tell the guy you’ve not that long ago started dating that he’s going bald because he may not actually know.... or do you even tell him at all? What a predicament! Thanks for tuning in lifers! We love and appreciate every one of you!See you next week!Please share the love, because, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Boy do we have a big one for you! On Tursday night we all sat down to watch the Bachelor Finale and our boy Locky broke the cardinal bach sin by telling both final girls that he was in love with them, in this episode we sit down with runner up Bella Varelis to ask the question on everyones tongues.... What they actual F***? Bella unpacks everything from the very beginning, to what really happened in lockdown, what went down with Irena and what we didn’t see in the finale. We also hit Bella with a bunch of rumours to find out what’s real and what’s not.If you're a Bachi fan, this is one BIG episode you don’t want to miss.If you’re not part of the Facebook discussion group yet what are you even doing!? Jump on and become apart of the amazing community there! Life Uncut PodcastIf you loved the episode and want to hear more of us in your ears weekly please hit 5 starts, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday! Haiiiii guys! We hope you are having a killer week! We love bringing you these short, sharp and sexy ask Uncut episodes!First up, You’ll never believe what happened to one of our poor listeners this week! If you thought you were having a bad day this will make you feel better! Then we are talking ghosting, closure from ghosting, vagina pet names and what to do when your long term partner just absolutely annoys the shit out of you. Enjoy and see you next week lifers!Share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Buckle up Lifers we have a big one today!Firstly, Laura announced she is having baby number 2 and we couldn't be happier! She kept that a bloody good secret did't she! We chat all about her finding out, telling Matt, how and why she kept it a secret for 5 months, how this pregnancy is different and if she knows what she is having.Then we get in to the big stuff. Mean girl behaviour, Internalised mysogyny, Internalised sexism, whatever you want to call it. We seem to be seeing it everywhere at the moment, thanks to the likes of reality tv, articles, social media, within our own friendship groups, So we wanted to take a deep dive and get all disecty with it. Find out exactly what it is, why it is still so prevalent in this day and age and what we can do about it. All in all we found the research so interesting and we think this is a great conversation to take to your family and friends! Let's get in to it shall we!?If you guys love listening please share this with a friend or family. We are an independent podcast and we want to stay in your ears! So please if you're feeling generous, or even if you're not (lols) please his subscribe, 5 stars, and leave a review because this is what helps us to grow!And share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Narcissism. The word gives you the shivers right!? Its a term that often gets thrown around, we hear people speak about it a lot, but it can be really hard to pinpoint if you're actually dating one.The official definition of a narcissist, according to the Mayo Clinic, is a person who often lacks empathy, acts entitled, arrogant, and prioritizes themselves above all else.We want to deep dive into some narcissistic tendencies, red flags to look out for like love bombing, and what to do if you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies.It’s important to remember that we are not clinical psychologists, but we are two women who have both had intense relationships with people that fit this mould and we want to shed some light on it in the hopes that it can help others. We talk about our own experiences and share learned information. If you want to keep us in your ears, please hit 5 starts, leave a review, tell your friends and share the love, because, well, we love love. XTthis episode could be triggering for someone that has had dealings with people like this in the past. If that is you, you may want to reconsider listening. Please remember, If you’re having troubles in any aspect of your life, you’re not alone and websites such as lifeline are always there to help. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello, It's your fav unqualified therapists Britt and Laura! We’ve gone rogue this week and switched things around due to a hectic schedule... meaning you get Thursdays Ask Uncut a touch easy and the meaty juicy episode for this week will drop on Thursday!Just keeping you on your toes Lifers! Today’s listeners questions include: My partner has a huge gambling problem, can he change and do I stay or do I leave? My bf wants me to do anal all the time but I hate it. How do I navigate this? My parter wants to move away without me, I can’t go with him because of uni. Am I allowed to be upset? And what does this mean? Oh, and Britts dad has his own accidentally unfiltered!If you guys love listening to us please tell your mum, your dad, your friends and your dog and anyone else that will listen. Hit 5 starts, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Therapy Thursday is here and on the menu today we have a difficult conversation between a daughter and her mum, a woman that is super turned off by the guy she’s sleeping with and a guy that just keeps on breaking a girls heart. How many times are you allowed to let someone go and come back?Oh also, Britt cried reminiscing and it’s weird. What are these new found emotions? HahaThanks for tuning in lifers and keep those questions rolling in to @lifeuncutpidcast and please share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lifers, we were a little slow off the ranks today, but boy do we have a biggy for you!First up on todays episode we are talking about that Adele photo that is causing a stir, then we dive into a little bit of Bach Chat, followed by our favourite Accidentally Unfiltered stories for the week.... and then for the main course we have something a little different for you today.We are getting serious and talking about Pink Tax, and the hidden costs of being female.So what is pink tax? Glad you asked! It’s gender based price discrimination. Basically women are still paying more for certain items than men are, even if the items are identical, effectively shelling out a 'pink tax' simply for being female.Is it not bad enough that women on average are still earning less than our male counterparts!? Even though they often can’t even multitask!? (Ok that part is not fact per se but a it’s strong opinion) But now it costs us more to shop too!? HOW IS THIS HAPPENING!It’s time we all know about this and become smarter consumers.If you also didn’t know about this topic, or think that maybe a friend didn’t know about this, or just liked the episode, share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Here we answer your deep dark and burning questions for the week. Therapy Thursday!Should you delete photos of your ex? Staying with a partner because of pregnancy, and how to tell a friend who has recently miscarried that you're pregnant?It's a big one!If you love listening, please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love. XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For some reason society has made ‘30’ the magic number for women to have gotten their life together, fallen in love, bought property and have kids on the way. And that if you haven’t you’re a failure and you’re being left behind. Well, we are here to tell you, they are wrong and everyone is on a different path and why being single at any age can be amazing.It’s you friendly reminder that you don’t need to give up, buy 10 dogs and move to Alaska to live out your days alone. Join the convo as we talk pros and cons of being single in your 30s. If you love listening as much as we love recording then hit 5 stars, leave a sneaky review, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

THERAPY THURSDAY! Your free weekly therapy session with two completely unqualified but deeply passionate women whom are armed with a microphone and an opinion. A dangerous combination indeed!From boyfriends messaging other women to wanting to steal your best friends child’s name... no issue is left unturned.If you love listening, please hit subscribe, 5 stars, leave a review and share the love, because, well, we love love. XSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hello Lifers and welcome back to one of our favourite 'T' Day's of the week, Tuesday... which is also LIFE UNCUT day!Straight off the bat Britt is well and truely back in the dating game Halle- f*king -lujah, and praise be to the love Gods.We do the mandatory Bach chat, unpack last weeks episodes and get to the bottom of Areeba's ham sandwich. Followed by our favourite part of the episode - Accidentally Unfiltered.In what fun ways has your upbringing messed you up? Today we get deep and introspective and chat about attachment styles and Attachment Theory. Attachment styles are important they form how we make bonds with our romantic partners and they are heavily linked to our parents and our upbringing. Some might call it Daddy issues, we call it attachment Theory!We unpack our own attachment styles and you can too by taking this test:More in depth test - https://bit.ly/2CFLHhCSlightly quicker test - https://bit.ly/3awaIrQJoin in on the conversation by joining our Facebook Group Life Uncut Podcast and following @lifeuncutpodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lifers we promised you this little bonus episode AND HERE IT IS!!! A whole ep of strictly Accidentally Unfiltered stories and solid 10/10 belly laughs.Thanks to our sponsor for todays episode Jacobs Creek! Try Jacobs Creek now for 30% off with free shipping, just search Jacobs Creek Podcast!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever wondered what a sexologist is? What they do and why they do it? Well sure as hell did, so we decided it was about time we got one on the pod to answer all your steamy, saucy questions. We have Australian sexologist extraordinaire Juliet Allen on the show today and we put the call out to you guys to ask her some questions, and let’s just say she answered them and then some!What a sexy, insightful laugh this episode is! It was our pleasure!Find Juliet on Instagram @juliet_allenOr listen to her podcast by searching for the Authentic Sex Podcast.Jump on board and if you enjoyed the ep please hit 5 stars, review, subscribe and share the love because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It’s Thursday Lifers so strap on in for your free therapy session!A 25 year old virgin that that is ready to have sex but is worried he will judge her when he finds out it is her first timeHe’s ghosted me after 2 dates but watches all my stories.... what does this mean? Is this a sign he’s still interested!? I’m a bridesmaid for a good friend and we are having all sorts of problems within the bridal party... but I’m not close enough with the other girl to address it... help!My partner of 8 years has a serious drug problem and in turn has some mental health issues. I want a break or to reassess but I’m not sure how.If you loved the episode guys hit subscribe, 5 stars and leave a sneaky little review to help us grow and please, share the love, because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

FINALLY WE CAN FREE BRITTANY!!!!Here it is guys, the episode you've been waiting for.... Britt is answering all your big questions about BIP. What happened with her and Timm? Are they still together? Who got a 'bad edit'? And how the f*ck do they order food in Paradise.The big questions, the funny questions and the tea served with a side of raw feelings.If you have loved this episode please send some love back by leaving us a cheeky little review you scallywag, subscribe and share the love, because WE LOVE LOVE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Wassasup!! Therapy Thursday is coming in hot!- “I hooked up with someone my friend hooked up with a few weeks ago and now she’s cutting me out of her life!? Is she over reacting or am I actually that bad!?”- Who’s responsibility is it to provide condoms on a one night stand!? - My ex slid straight into my besties DMs and tried to have sex with her... do I call him out on it and cause a drama or make like a tree a leaf it (get it, ‘leave it’) lol.Thanks for having us in your ears lifers! Keep the questions rolling in so we can keep giving you hilarious yet heartfelt, unqualified yet wisdom filled advice! Hit 5 stars, leave a review and share the love because, well, we love love xSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.