Boyfriend Edition #2: Why Exhausted Dads Struggle in Bed

Being a great dad changes your life in powerful ways, but it doesn’t mean your sex life has to suffer. In this video, we talk honestly about how fatherhood affects intimacy, desire, and connection, and why many men quietly struggle with balancing responsibility and a healthy sex life. You’ll learn how stress, exhaustion, and shifting priorities can impact desire, and what helps couples stay connected without guilt or pressure. And if you’re a woman watching this, it will help you better understand and support your husband as you navigate this season together. If you want to be present for your kids and maintain a passionate, fulfilling relationship, this conversation will show you why being a great dad doesn’t have to mean bad sex.

About the Guest:

*Mike Kohl Expertise: Mike Kohl is the founder of Health Biz Scale, where he empowers functional medicine, naturopathic, and health-focused practices to scale sustainably and attract 15–25+ new patients every month—without burnout.With 20 years as a software engineer scaling applications from $0 to $500M, Mike combines battle-tested tech expertise with cutting-edge AI-driven SEO, "Search Everywhere" optimization (Google + ChatGPT + emerging platforms), paid ads, high-converting funnels, and custom software to help clinics dominate online patient acquisition in 2026 and beyond.He's on a mission to help healthcare entrepreneurs break free from feast-or-famine cycles, book consistent high-value patients, and build thriving practices that actually change lives."Patients aren't just Googling anymore—they're asking AI who's the best functional medicine doctor near them for hormones, gut health, or hormones." — Mike Kohl https://healthbizscale.com/

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Timestamps:

(0:00) Introduction and overview: Fatherhood, career, and sex life (1:13) Combining fatherhood with a thriving sex life and career (2:27) Time management, boundaries, and fatherhood's influence on intimacy (4:21) Co-alignment with your partner and creating a sacred bedroom space (6:10) Daily actions to sustain connection and intimacy (8:53) Sponsor: Mystery Vibe products (12:14) Sponsor: Mature Allure podcast (12:55) Shared activities, flirtiness, and love's capacity in fatherhood (17:14) Lasting longer in bed: Techniques and partner roles (24:31) Pelvic floor control's impact on intimacy and changing positions (26:19) Embracing fun, connection, and concluding with a special offer (27:29) Outro and call to share the podcast