Kodsnack 323 - Paying attention is an active pursuit, with Judy Rees

<p>Recorded at <a href="https://oredev.org/2018/home">Øredev 2018</a>, Fredrik talks to <a href="https://judyrees.co.uk/">Judy Rees</a>. We start from Judy&rsquo;s presentation <a href="https://vimeo.com/302043072">Getting them to get it</a> and discuss the challenges of really listening, communication, and the how the <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clean_Language">clean language</a> technique can help you both understand others better, and get your own ideas across better as well.</p> <p>Thank you <a href="http://www.cloudnet.se">Cloudnet</a> for sponsoring our <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_private_server">VPS</a>!</p> <p>Comments, questions or tips? We are <a href="https://www.twitter.com/kodsnack">@kodsnack</a>, <a href="https://www.twitter.com/tobiashieta">@tobiashieta</a>, <a href="https://www.twitter.com/oferlund">@oferlund</a> and <a href="https://www.twitter.com/bjoreman">@bjoreman</a> on Twitter, have a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/kodsnack">page on Facebook</a> and can be emailed at <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a> if you want to write longer. We read everything we receive.</p> <p>If you enjoy Kodsnack we would love a <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/se/podcast/kodsnack/id561631498?l=en">review in iTunes</a>! You can also support the podcast by <a href="https://ko-fi.com/kodsnack" rel="payment">buying us a coffee (or two!) through Ko-fi</a>.</p> <h2 id="links">Links</h2> <ul> <li><a href="https://oredev.org/2018/home">Øredev 2018</a></li> <li><a href="https://judyrees.co.uk/">Judy Rees</a></li> <li>Judy&rsquo;s presentations at Øredev 2018 - <a href="https://vimeo.com/302043072">Getting them to get it</a>, and <a href="https://vimeo.com/302701592">Overcoming the difficulties of remote meetings</a></li> <li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clean_Language">Clean language</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/woodyzuill">Woody Zuill</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/xraylistening">Judy on Youtube</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/olaflewitz">Olaf Lewitz</a></li> <li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christopher_Voss">Chris Voss</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Never-Split-Difference-Negotiating-Depended-ebook/dp/B014DUR7L2">Never split the difference</a> - Chris' book</li> <li><a href="https://cleanlearning.co.uk/resources/faq/who-is-david-grove">David Grove</a> - discoverer(?) of clean language</li> <li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teletext">Teletext</a></li> <li><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arrival_%28film%29">Arrival</a></li> <li><a href="https://cleanlearning.co.uk/are/caitlin-walker">Caitlin Walker</a></li> <li><a href="https://cleanlearning.co.uk/are/penny-tompkins">Penny Tompkins</a> and <a href="https://cleanlearning.co.uk/are/james-lawley">James Lawley</a></li> <li><a href="https://cleanlearning.co.uk/">cleanlanguage.co.uk</a></li> <li><a href="http://learncleanlanguage.com/">learncleanlanguage.com</a></li> </ul> <h2 id="titles">Titles</h2> <ul> <li>I would present you as a Jedi master</li> <li>Jedi mistress</li> <li>A master listener</li> <li>As a result of paying attention</li> <li>Listening has such a low status in the world</li> <li>Don&rsquo;t talk and don&rsquo;t think about talking</li> <li>It&rsquo;s against our programming to pay complete attention</li> <li>Paying attention is an active pursuit</li> <li>A question is a much more precise tool</li> <li>The nearest thing the FBI have to a Jedi mind trick</li> <li>The tools to reason about conversation</li> <li>See through the leaves</li> <li>Enabling them to heal themselves</li> <li>It&rsquo;s designed for use with humans</li> <li>People are really rubbish at saying what they want in all kinds of domains of their lives</li> <li>Humanity is currently the limit</li> <li>The modeling brain</li> <li>Their model of David&rsquo;s model</li> </ul>