Kinkyboys Podcast

Si from the teabags and joystixxx podcast comes over to talk about a very big, and very personal topic for the both of us. We go through how being on the autistic spectrum intersects with our kink lives and fetishes. We give an explanation of what living with ASD can be like and do a dive into how it informs who we are as kinky people. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Craig and Arhzur look at ways to ensure two parts of your life don’t clash, and what to do to keep yourself safe from employers finding out about your kinky life. https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Support the show at: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Have you just found out your partner has a fetish that you previously had no idea about? Seems from a lot of mail we have received, this is quite common, so we give some advice. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

With so many people putting on weight thanks to lockdown, we thought it’s best to talk about loving your body even if you’re not entirely happy with how it looks now. Master David joins us to talk about the methods to help with positive self-image, the roots of disliking your body and our own personal histories with dealing with our own bodies and to answer listener questions. With thanks to the winner of our fatboy summer contest, Targurs, for our album art photo.

content warning: uses of the F-slur and discussion of emotional distress. A listener email leads us to talk at length about internalized shame about our kinks.The places shame can lead you and the catharsis of being openly yourself. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

The Internet’s favorite daddy Kristofer Weston joins us today to talk to us about his interest in pony play. We talk about what makes pony play so hot, the mindset and different styles of play. We also discuss the current state of the porn industries, and the good and the bad about services like only fans. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Our second episode on our listener mail. We talk at length about if Findom is a form of sex-work and go off on a weird little tangent on bitcoin paypal.me/musculature Recon.com/busterBDSM To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

We received a lot of feedback about Buster’s Findom episode, so we have dedicated an episode (well, it ended up being 2 episodes long) to answer your questions and one or two criticisms. warning, towards the end we get capital P political and talk about our own political positions. Buster can be found at: paypal.me/musculature Recon.com/busterBDSM To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

We revisit erotic hypnosis and talk with David, a professional Erotic hypnotist, to pick his brain on the subject. David takes us through what hypnosis is, and the many ways you can safely use it. We also talk about his own efforts to build a space for the online community of guys into the fetish. You can join up to his site at hypnoguys.com and find his personal profile here Or email him at [email protected] To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

This episode Craig and Arzur talk about designing your own play-space. What considerations you need to take into account, how to utilize space, some theme ideas how to pick equipment you will actually use and much more. We would love to see your playspaces and all the fun things you’ve done with them. just use the hashtag #kbPlayspaces so we can see and retweet/repost all your wonderful designs To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

To Donate to the Outside Project: https://www.goldengiving.com/secure/donation/the-outside-project Today we interview author David Ledain about his new book: Having Gay Sex: A Guide to Male Homosexual Sex. David can be reached at: https://twitter.com/DavidLedain The book can be found HERE To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

DomtopLad explains his role as a bull Cucking other men.

David Takes us through the 101 of spanking. We cover whats sexy about spanking, what implements you can use, how to structure a scene, safety and aftercare for a bruised ass. To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Today we discuss the history between the Gay leather community and the police, and the changing societal context around fetishising police uniforms. 00:00 Intro 04:45 Nazi Uniforms 08:45 History between LGBT people and Police 12:30 Uniform Fetish 14:45 UK Vs US policing 19:08 Changing trends in leather 24:00 LGBT’s reclaiming iconography 30:15 Queering Cop iconography 35:30 Fetishising ANTIFA 41:20 Wrapup To contact the show, we can be found at: [email protected] https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://www.facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast https://woof.group/@kinkyboyspod https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

This Episode we do a deep dive into knowing when to stop. We talk limits, consent considerations how to set healthy boundaries with other and within yourself. Most importantly how to recognize when things are getting a bit out of hand. CW: this episode features a live humiliation and degradation scene between Buster and Touko which includes use of the hard F. To contact the show, we can be found at: [email protected] https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://www.facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast https://woof.group/@kinkyboyspod https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

Returning guest Buster is joined by Bootblack Touko to Discuss the ins and outs of what a Healthy Findom relationship can look like.We discuss:- What is a turn on about using money for domination and the psychology of money as a form of power.- The difference between a healthy findom relationship and taking advantage of people- How public shaming of subs with a Findom fetish makes things worse.- How to keep things interesting- The difference between a Findom and a twitter cashmaster- Red flags and safety concerns Buster can be found at: paypal.me/musculature Recon.com/busterBDSM Tokou can be found at: https://twitter.com/bootblacktouko To support the show, we can be found at: paypal.me/esquilaxhttps://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

Today we talk about musk! The wonderful world of scent play. What is musk 0.43 The psychology of a scent fetish 3.15 The science of scent 4.42 Play suggestions 10.12 safety 15.28 To contact the show, we can be found at: [email protected] https://twitter.com/kinkyboyspod https://www.facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast https://woof.group/@kinkyboyspod https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod The backing music for this episode is: Slinky by Ron Gelinas Chillout Lounge | https://soundcloud.com/atmospheric-music-portal Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.com Creative Commons Attribution 3.0 Unported License https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/deed.en_US 15.28

This episode we talk about all the fun you can have in front of a webcam, all the shiny new internet enabled toys available and how to maintain Dom/sub dynamics over a distance.

In the First of our 2020 season, we have Zentai Spot on to talk us through everything you need to know about Electro play.

We read through listeners most embarrassing sex stories and talk about what went wrong and what can be learned from them.

As a bit of seasonal fun for Halloween, we Have returning guest Eddie on to talk about his interest in bloodplay and Vampires! Check out the NSFW twitter choose your own adventure created by my friend Ox: https://twitter.com/HisNameIsOx/status/1181911565001465856 Check out Eddie’s blog here: http://anexperimentintruth.blogspot.com/ To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

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Arhzur takes us through chastity play from the dom’s side. We talk about how to keep a boy in chastity, the appeal of chastity, how to size up a boys cage correctly and safety concerns. Contact us: [email protected] twitter: @kinkyboyspod facebook: /kinkyboyspodcast discord: https://discord.gg/FT4CPXT Support us: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

support us on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod This week we answer listener mail! 1:53- Tristian asks about Gimps, Drones, and the relationship between rubber and leather 25:21- Ray writes in to talk about His balloon popping fetish and fellow ‘Looners’ 37:50- Sexy and kinky videogames Contact us: [email protected] twitter: @kinkyboyspod facebook: /kinkyboyspodcast discord: https://discord.gg/FT4CPXT

Continuing on with our discussion about the issues facing the leather community we Talk about how to keep spaces for LGBT+ and kink communities both in the real world and online. We also delve into the role Community Titles play as platforms for change.

Not our normal kind of Episode. This time around I interview Mr Leather UK 2019, Buster, as we do a deep dive into the evolving state of our community and how Algorithms and corporate platforms are threatening kink and queer communities

Guest Goma talks about his longstanding fetish for masks and how they are used in his play.

Like the show? support us on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Today we talk with Ralf about the real Clear fetish initiative and the London sober social. We talk about the the reasons for a sober social, the connection of queer spaces and alcohol, the meth epidemic in gay men and Ralf’s own story.

For the UK’s LGBT History month we interview the manager of the London leather archives, Steph Dickers about his work archiving and creating a record of the UK’s leather and BDSM culture. Support us on patreon: https://patreon.com/kinkyboyspod To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Support us on Patreon This episode Craig, Adam, and Arzur sit down to cover hypnosis. What is it, how to use it and what fun can be had. We also do a postmortem on the Tumblr pornageddon. Any questions or comments can be sent to our Twitter, Mastodon or Email at https://kinkyboyspodcast.com/contact-us/

It is with a lot of sadness that with recent events in the BDSM community, we felt it necessary to cover this topic. please be warned this episode contains discussions of abusive behaviors. If you are at risk please dont hesitate to use the resorces provided below Call an abuse hotline. National Domestic Abuse Hotline (US) 1−800−799−7233 https://www.thehotline.org National Domestic Violence Helpline (UK): 0808 2000 247 http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk 1800RESPECT (AUS): 1800737732 https://www.1800respect.org.au

Today we talk with a friend of the show, author Pablo Greene, about His final book in the ‘how to kill a superhero’ series, titled ‘GOLD’ SPOILER WARNING: this half of the episode is for people who have read the book (or those that don’t mind spoilers) as we talk about the meaning and ideas behind specific plot points.

Today we talk with friend of the show, author Pablo Greene, about His final book in the ‘how to kill a superhero’ series, titled ‘GOLD’ In this spoiler free half of the interview we discuss the themes of the book, the writers process, the benefits of a healthy BDSM exploration, the current political age, and much much more. If you wish to contact the show, email: [email protected] facebook: facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast/ twitter: @kinkyboyspod mastodon: kinky.business/@bootblackcub Thankyou to the TPOK network for hosting us. If you would like to support the show we now have a patreon: https://www.patreon.com/kinkyboyspod

Today we talk with James from splat HQ to talk about his love of Gunge and WAM (Wet And Messy) play. We talk about the fun that can be had getting messy, what foodstuffs and products can be used for gunge play and where to find material and people also into gunge. if you wish to contact james, he can be found on twitter at: @fitgeek_uk If you wish to contact the show,  email: [email protected] facebook: facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast/ twitter: @kinkyboyspod mastodon: kinky.business/@bootblackcub To contact Azur, you can find him at: telegram: @artairGeal mastodon: kinky.business/@Arzhur

Recently, we had a guest who discussed his experiences with silicone injections and genital enlargement. As part of that podcast, we discussed the risks and concerns associated with that procedure. However, a recent incident — unrelated to this specific show or its guest — has encouraged us to draft an additional, more specific warning. On November 16, a well-known silicone injection user — @gitbigger on Twitter — died due to lung failure, which was brought on by an injection gone wrong. We’ve been told that the person performing the injection accidentally hit a vein, and that this allowed the silicone to travel into life-threatening places. Our condolences go out to his family, his partner and his friends. Before undertaking any BDSM activity, it’s very, very important to both know and plan for all the possible things that can go wrong. But some activities are not guaranteed safe under any circumstances. Unlicensed medical procedures fall under that heading. Even licensed surgical procedures can be risky, but without proper licensure and supervision, the risks are significantly greater. That includes more than just injury and disfigurement. “Death” is most definitely on that list of risks. As always, the major choices in your life are your own to make. Just think them through seriously and carefully before you make them. Because some of those choices can only be made once, and once done, they cannot be undone.

Today we Explore a unique roleplaying fetish with Porkchop and Beaux, who will be talking us through the in’s and outs of rolpalying a canibal scene, from setting the mood to kitchenware props and explaining the underlying turn ons and psychology behind this fetish. if you wish to contact Porkchop or Beaux you can find them at: Beaux @hornsNbeef Porkchop: @porkchophog If you wish to contact the show,  email: [email protected] facebook: facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast/ twitter: @kinkyboyspod mastodon: kinky.business/@bootblackcub To contact Azur, you can find him at: telegram: @artairGeal mastodon: kinky.business/@Arzhur

Today we talk all about cigars with Daddy T. We go through all the types of play cigars can be used for, what to expect for your first experience and safety concerns. We also talk in depth about how to get started with cigars as a hobby, from purchasing sources, cigar types, and flavours and storage. If you wish to contact Daddy T you can find him at Bluesky: http://@d4ddyt.bsky.social Mastodon: @[email protected] Chapters (00:00:00) Introduction (00:00:52) Tony’s Journey into Cigar Play (00:08:20) Kinds of Cigar Play (00:12:18) Picking your Cigars (00:26:14) Safety for Cigar Play (00:29:46) Cigar Events and Culture (00:40:18) Storing and Smoking Cigars Properly (00:47:00) How to Smoke a Cigar  

IMPORTANT UPDATE: https://kinkyboyspodcast.com/podcast/important-addendum-on-silicone-body-mods/ Today we talk to Chris, a man who has put a lot of work into modifying his whole body, but today we are specifically exploring his journey of modifying his cock and balls with silicone injections. We cover the medical and legal implications of trying this and we also talk about how modding his genitals has brought surprising benefits. Before: after: If you wish to contact the show, email: [email protected] facebook: facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast/ twitter: @kinkyboyspod mastodon: kinky.business/@bootblackcub To contact Azur, you can find him at: telegram: @artairGeal mastodon: kinky.business/@Arzhur

Today we bring you the lovely Azur on the show to give you all a crash course in using Fursuits in kink play as well as an introduction to care for fursuits, providers, self-care and cautions when using a suit.  We also talk deep into the current state of the fursuit community and its conflicted nature around the furry fandom and its relationship to sex, including recent news stories around the subject and furries media portrayal in general If you wish to contact the show,  email: [email protected] facebook: facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast/ twitter: @kinkyboyspod mastodon: kinky.business/@bootblackcub To contact Azur, you can find him at: telegram: @artairGeal mastodon: kinky.business/@Arzhur

Today Craig and Adam discuss the phenomenon of ASMR, the unique sensory reaction some people have to select audio stimulus and how this intersects with Kinky play and the debate of is ASMR primarily non sexual. We also discuss the current challenges facing London’s kink community in the face of kink spaces falling victim to the cities ever-increasing gentrification. todays show is sponsored by how to kill a superhero Links: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autonomous_sensory_meridian_response

Rembering those who are no longer with Us.

Please consider supporting the show at patreon.com/kinkyboyspod Today’s guest is Bull Delamotte, a dedicated muscle-bull who has come on to our show today to talk about how his successful bodybuilding career mixes with his love of muscle growth and how it all ties into his submission and what he is looking for from a D/S relationship. Why being a physically huge sub turns him on, and why size differences in couples are attractiveSteroid use: the good, the bad and the honestThe stress and extremes needed to get show-ready in bodybuildingwhat it means to identify as a ‘bull’Dealing with dysmorphia If you wish to follow Bull you can find him at :@XXXL_Bull To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

note: this was originally posted as 2 episodes, however the files got corrupted in a past host migration, so this has been reposted as one episode from the editing files we were able to recover. Adult Film star and powerbotom Dolan wolf joins us today to discuss his work in the gay porn industry, His views on how masculinity is viewed in gay and kinky culture and what role porn has in shaping our expectation and fetishes. For the conclusion of our interview with adult film actor Dolan Wolf we talk about his major fetish: fisting. We talk further into porn’s role in the gay community before cover what beginners need to consider when starting down the road to fisting play, how Dolan himself got into it and what he gets out of the act. Dolan can be found on twitter at @DolanWolfXXX To contact the show, we can be found at: Contact Us One time donation: paypal.me/esquilax

Today we interview Daniel about the kink scene in Hungary and about the event he’s planing. The essay mentioned in the podcast: https://fetlife.com/users/3899639/posts/3806338 If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast twitter.com/kinkyboyspod This is brought to you by howtokillasuperhero.net

Due to Adam moving across the pond we are marking our first cross continental recording with a discussion on the differences we have noticed between kink communities in different parts of the world. If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast twitter.com/kinkyboyspod This is brought to you by howtokillasuperhero.net

WARNING: This episode contains descriptions of consent violations both factual and fictitious. Today Adam and Craig delve into the ins and outs of Consent and kink and BDSM play. From the basics of pre play negotiation and continued consent to more advanced topics and unique issues with consent in kink and BDSM play. Basic consent ideas How to have a Pre scene discussion What’s the difference between hard limits and soft limits Be ready to clearly set ideas, don’t be vague Talk about the reasons behind your limits, don’t just give a laundry list. Absence of no isn’t the same as yes. The ‘enthusiastic yes’ concept Explain the concept of Continued consent Ongoing discussions in a scene. Both the tops and bottoms responsibility The traffic light system Advanced consent ideas Dangers of shifting limits in subspace Dangers of going nonverbal Playing without a safeword Implicit expectations of play spaces, darkrooms/orgy rooms ect, knowing the space. Clear ways to give nonverbal consent Clear ways to show nonverbal refusal of Consent How to protect yourself The difficulty with grey areas of consent Violation without a deliberate violator Our thoughts on how to handle  these events as a sub Our thoughts on how to handle events if you’re the top in question The concept of rashomon in conflict For further exploration of these issues and concepts, I highly recommend these episodes of Graydancer’s Ropecast http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4141987 http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4251755http://directory.libsyn.com/episode/index/id/4293354 If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast twitter.com/kinkyboyspod This is brought to you by howtokillasuperhero.net

Today our guest is the wonderful Sir Dave, who is here to talk about his experiences working as a Pro dom as well as his passion for bootblacking. If you would like to comment on anything talked about here today, or want to hear us talk about particular fetishes, or even wish to come on the show to talk about it yourself, you can reach us by Email, Facebook or Twitter at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast twitter.com/kinkyboyspod This is brought to you by howtokillasuperhero.net

In light of the recent news article about Tony the tiger being bombarded with fury porn, we thought it would be timely to talk about the often niche fetishes found in furry porn. We also have a discussion about what to do when names in a comunity stur up drama and recons growing bot problem

This week we have the lovely Pup Sparks talking us through the do’s and DO NOTs of saline and pumping of the balls and cock. We hear about his experiences and errors. We also are super excited to announce our first ever competition! In celebration of our Sponsor, Pablo Greene, releasing the 3rd how to kill a superhero book we are giving away one of his sexy singlets. To enter just send us a selfie or an illustration of you as a superhero (pre existing or made up) to [email protected] with “superhero selfie” in the subject line. Good Luck! Also, our guest was kind enough to give us a photo example of the results: Feel free to give us your comments, listener letters, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast @kinkyboyspod on twitter today’s sponsor is Howtokillasuperhero.net

This Episode we Talk with the eloquent pup Brock on his experiences using high protocol for his power exchange relationships. We also get a report on how the first Mr Puppy UK went at the 2015 November pup social. Today we cover: What is meant by “high protocol” Brock’s personal experience and examples of high protocol Why would you use protocol and its benefits Safety concerns when using protocol in private and in public The first Mr Puppy UK contest what its been like setting up a contest Advice for those wanting to start a leather/kink title Feel free to give us your comments, listener letters, topic suggestions and questions you may want answering at: [email protected] facebook.com/kinkyboyspodcast @kinkyboyspod on twitter today’s sponsor is Howtokillasuperhero.net