196: Q&A! No Libido, Writing Erotica, & Taking Charge

<p>Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram! </p> <p><br></p> <p>QUESTION TIME STAMPS:</p> <p>4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn’t like lingerie/games/toys/etc?”</p> <p>7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?”</p> <p>9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can’t- advice?”</p> <p>16:00 “I’ve been married for a month and I haven’t had a climax, any advice?” </p> <p>17:36 “My husband hasn’t finished in over a month now, what do I do?”</p> <p>19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?”</p> <p>23:00 “Why don’t I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.”</p> <p>24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?”</p> <p>27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.”</p> <p>29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won’t be able to relax enough.”</p> <p>31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?”</p> <p>32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don’t want to just lay there”</p> <p><br></p> <p>Links from today’s episode:</p> <ul> <li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/kingdom-sexuality/id1570384112?i=1000623662163" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Vaginismus Episode</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/painfree.intimacy/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">@painfree.intimacy</a></li> <li><a href="https://letsgetchecked.7no9.net/c/2786172/507335/8695?&u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.letsgetchecked.com%3Flgc_code%3DKINGDOM%26lgc_saving%3D25" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Let’s Get Checked</a>: KINGDOM for 25% off</li> <li><a href="https://mycounselor.online/ksm/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Christian Counselling </a>$25 off your first month with our link!</li> <li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/kingdom-sexuality/id1570384112?i=1000620508594" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex</a></li> <li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/kingdom-sexuality/id1570384112?i=1000651052753" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/3AtwsDp" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The Penis Book</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/product-page/30-prayers-bundle" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">KS Prayer Bundle</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/4c5zm0F" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Better Sex Through Mindfulness</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/product-page/starting-life-together-bundle" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Starting Life Together Bundle</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/product-page/the-ultimate-newlywed-guide" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Ultimate Wedding Night Guide</a></li> <li><a href="https://amzn.to/3MpZvgI" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Awaken Love</a></li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p><a href="https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/uniteandignite">⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠</a></p> <p><br></p> <p>Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out!</p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kingdomsexuality/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p> <p><a href="https://facebook.com/groups/kspodcast/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/kingdomsexuality">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p> <p>⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠<a href="https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/">⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></p>

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