It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Eating ass, sucking cock, and eating pussy are all the things Abbie and the rest of us fellow humans enjoy. What better way to end the year with an expertly curated and horny-cum-helpful compilation tutorial on how to eat arse, how to prepare for your own arse being eaten, how to suck cock, and just how to eat pussy (or tell someone you want your pussy to be eaten)? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Christmas is only a few days away and Abbie's got some unorthodox holiday advice: What should you fill your Christmas stockings with? Why is changing your ex's name on your phone the wisest thing you'll ever do? And why is morning sex suddenly so essential? Merry Christmas and happy holidays! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A while back, I sat down with Australian feminist queen Clementine Ford to answer questions such as: What is it like having sex while being insecure? What exactly is the male gaze? And how do you deal with aggressive men? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The final episode of the year! Abbie cries a lot then talks about the US election and the importance of Australians knowing who they are voting for. See you in Jan 2021!  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Abbie is joined by hosts of Reputation Rehab, Kirsten and Zoe. Abbie was a guest on the show (check it out on ABC iView) but it's now time for Abbie to return the favour. Zoe and Kirsten give advice to new mums and discuss their new show Reputation Rehab and analyse with Abbie how the media works, and why we always need a  reminder that nothing we see on TV is really real. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Abbie is joined by ROWDIE WALDEN (@rowdiewalden), the host of Spotifys Search Engine Sex (check it out, it's awseome). Rowdie and Abbie talk about preparing for anal, communication in relationships, Rowdie tells a hilarrious doctor's office-based story and they answer some of your questions! Check out Search Engine Sex on Spotify  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie rants about a man in her DMs who told her that she would demand respect if she wasn't so vulgar and dressed more modestly, to which she responds "fuck off". She then talks about the "cute but psycho" idea of controlling partners and then answers a listener question about whether wanting financial stability in a partner is shallow/toxic! Email [email protected] for topic suggestions, guest suggestions, advice questions or comments!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week's episode is a little late, sorry! Abbie rants about a controversial Brownlow dress, tells you how to eat ass and then answer a question about forgiving yourself. Weird mix, but just go with it.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The first of mini episodes (now called IT'S A LITTLE) that will be extras from the usual Tuesday installment, or just random thoughts that Abbie has. Today Abbie gets her birth chart read so you can see what a full reading is like from an Astrologer Jaz Borri is an empowerment astrologer & self-discovery mentor from Sydney, Australia. Using modern mysticism, Jaz is passionately in service to the 21st century woman who feels just as she did: lost, heavy minded and ready for change. After years of struggling with a mental health disorder, codependency, toxic relationships & unworthiness she created her women's empowerment business in service to her mission: to inspire unapologetic authenticity and ensure no woman, ever again, lives unbeknownst or in fear of their own power IG: @jazborri https://www.instagram.com/jazborri/ WEBSITE: https://www.jbhaus.com/ BOOK YOUR SESSION: https://www.jbhaus.com/book-online JAZ'S PERSONAL PODCAST "ABRACADABRA": https://open.spotify.com/show/4af7iqIKf5Ue5GdxTjbVge?si=3iQRX-G3SSKpNMKPEaYp6g JAZ'S FEMINIST PODCAST "QUITE FRANKLY": https://open.spotify.com/show/1JsytCvGJj1HnMYPo9tY6x?si=w_I-Y8D2SGe71gd-uXtebg   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Abbie has a chat with Astrologer Jaz Borri! Jaz Borri is an empowerment astrologer & self-discovery mentor from Sydney, Australia. Using modern mysticism, Jaz is passionately in service to the 21st century woman who feels just as she did: lost, heavy minded and ready for change. After years of struggling with a mental health disorder, codependency, toxic relationships & unworthiness she created her women's empowerment business in service to her mission: to inspire unapologetic authenticity and ensure no woman, ever again, lives unbeknownst or in fear of their own power IG: @jazborri https://www.instagram.com/jazborri/ WEBSITE: https://www.jbhaus.com/ BOOK YOUR SESSION: https://www.jbhaus.com/book-online JAZ'S PERSONAL PODCAST "ABRACADABRA": https://open.spotify.com/show/4af7iqIKf5Ue5GdxTjbVge?si=3iQRX-G3SSKpNMKPEaYp6g JAZ'S FEMINIST PODCAST "QUITE FRANKLY": https://open.spotify.com/show/1JsytCvGJj1HnMYPo9tY6x?si=w_I-Y8D2SGe71gd-uXtebg Email [email protected] for questions comment suggestions Head to itsalotpodcast.com for merch and everything else!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie reads your stories you have emailed in about your wild exes, including lots of cheating and drama. She finishes the episode off with a little advice on how to get over your own awful ex. It's A Lot now has a website and new email address. itsalotpodcast.com [email protected]  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

EBTIL has revoked his consent to have this episode continued.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: In this episode we talk a lot about vulvas, being two cis women who have only slept with cis women, our language defaulted to binary and cis language. I just wanted to say that we both acknowledge that not all women have vulvas and not all vulva owners are women, and we still have work to do in fully converting our language.  This week Abbie is joined by her friend Ellie who is the founder of Comfortable In My Skin. Comfortable In My Skin is a project started by Ellie in which she photographs vulvas whenever and wherever she can to help with vulva acceptance. Her website, https://www.comfortableinmyskin.com.au/ is an amazing resource.  Abbie and Ellie discuss how to pleasure a vulva, how to ask your partner for oral, the nightmare that is Bacterial Vaginosis and how we can grow to love our vulvas, and be "Comfortable In My Skin" (ha ha ha).  Contact Ellie at @comfortableinmyskin_ or via her website 
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HABITUAL NUTTER This week Abbie is joined by Lillian Ahenkan akaFLEX MAMI!!!! Flex is an absolutely glorious human who has made critical thinking *cool* again with her card game REFLEX along with her incredible IG stories full of reddit threads, and her two podcasts (Bobo and Flex and Whatever I want).   Flex and Abbie play REFLEX, asnwering a question each, then go on to answer a listener's question about her consistently lack lustre sex life (which inevitably leads the girls down a path comparing porn watching habits, duh.) They then chat about Flex's career, her journey with sexuality and how she got to the place that she is today and finish off with some quick fire questions from the podcast group!  If you like It's A Lot, remember to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend! You can find Flex at @flex.mami on Instagram, and all things Flex related can be found https://linktr.ee/flex.mami   
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Abbie dissects a tweet that says the following: I'm the kind of girl that says I want a boyfriend but any time a guy tries to get to know me I'm like "nah not you"??? I'm the reason I'm fucking single". Lotsa issues but nothing we can examine! 
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Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross. 
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It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, how to just be "better" in bed (and how to deal with someone not being able to cum or get hard) and how to deal with being bisexual... even though she doesnt really know yet either.  Here is the link to the Ask Abbie mentioned:  https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-do-i-ask-for-what-i-really-want-in-bed-47723030  
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Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety! 
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Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you! 
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Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817 
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Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny. 
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Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email [email protected] for questions or topic suggestions 
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This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status.  Simon's Friend - who remains unnamed, has been thrown into a long distance relationship. Since the move, Simons unnamed friend has found out that her loving partner doesn't think he can commit to a physically monogamous relationship. However his emotion and spiritual commitment is to her.  This episode is a very interesting perspective on modern dating and how to navigate your partners needs, but also a reminder not to forget your own wants, needs and desires.  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to [email protected]  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week is a little late, and a little different. Abbie had a date, her first date since her most recent break up. After Abbie being turned down multiple times on a drunken night, Danny Clayton finally agreed to a date. This is a big big deal. Learn how Abbie actually is in the dating game, with a play by play recount of Abbie and Danny's first meeting through to the end of their first date.  After their date, they give each other a report card, and have an insightful and funny chat about dating in general from both of their perspectives.  Huge "will they, won't they?" energy in this one. Hope you all enjoy this change from the regular format!    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional Labor  I wonder which woman you are using for free Therapy today ?  This week Abbie finally gets a chance to sit down and chat with Soaliha, who you probably know from the podcast group. Soaliha is all all round gem, and this chat is a testament to that.  In this episode, Abbie and Soaliha unravel that mess that is - Male toxicity and Emotional Labor. As women, it's fair to say we have ALL been there to take out a man's emotional garbage. Not just boyfriends, all men. Safe to say, It's A Lot!  Mentioned in this Episode  https://www.5why.com.au/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-freebritney-movement/ You can follow Soaliha on  Instagram @soalihaofficial  Twitter @soaliha_ For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to [email protected]  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie talks about being happy while being single, answers a question about a failed threesome, gives some advice on how to not fear that everyone hates you and describes in detail how to give a blow job (SORRY MUM AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS) The Daily Mail will have a field day.   Ask Abbie: How to be Single Past Life Regression – Brian Weiss Feeld App for Threesomes and other alternate sex scenes   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week abbie speaks to April, also known as “The Bodzilla” all about flags in relationships. Not all flags have to be the Colour RED, Abbie and April breakdown the Red, Yellow and evn green flags to navigate dating. Discussing how we can be blinded by flags and allow certain behaviors to slip under the radar when we are with someone we THINK is right for us.  Follow April on Instagram  @thebodzilla Mentioned in this Episode   Vush  - Use code ABBIE for 65% Off  thebodzilla.com For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to [email protected]  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: Suicide, mental health, abortion This week Abbie talks about her preparation for BIP and how she feels about being on reality TV once again. She then answers questions regarding her abortion, how to keep a FWB situation fulfilling for both parties and whether feminism has a place in Bach Nation. The link to Abbie's IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/tv/B7aSjvWFuSR/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet Follow @itsalotpod on instagram!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Abbie is joined by the amazing Gina Savage. Gina discusses her ongoing battle with Melanoma and the incredible work she is doing to raise awareness and fight the illness. Gina shares her inspiring message around her purpose and how fundraising and awareness has sparked her drive to help those around her and make a positive impact on lives.  The chat is funny and heartfelt, just like Gina  You can find Gina here! Instagram @ginassavage1 Everyday Hero Donate link  For more information:  Cancer.org Melanoma Information  If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to [email protected]  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by amazing listener of the show, Susana Danielle Downes. This is the first installment of a new kind of episode that gives you, the listener the opportunity to share Abbie's platform. Susana is Miss Earth Australia, a bi-racial Filipino woman who we adore! In this chat, Abbie and Susana answer your questions on anxiety around dating, Owning your sexual pleasure and Susanas incredible story.  You can find Susana here! IG: https://www.instagram.com/sanadanielle/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/SusanaDownes Her Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/crown-and-song/id1513294022 Website: https://www.sanadanielle.com Mentioned in this Episode   She Comes First - Audible , Amazon If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to [email protected]  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by the incredible Sunny and Glo. In this chat they speak on their experience as Black Womeb of Colour and their thoughts on topics such as performative activism, the expectation that has been placed on them to be in a position of presence, education and damage control when they are hurt themselves in the worlds happenings and people in positions of power checking their own bias.  A notable quote from the episode from Glo: “Our culture is up for grabs, people view our culture our bodies our space as just something you can access”  Follow Sunny and Glo on Instagram  @sunny_adcock @glo.wav Listen to Self Love by GLO on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/track/5ooc3kv0RL8XUsjkzojEJU?si=_ifPQxa5Qk2hofnOWByBIg Mentioned in this Episode   Dear white people - https://www.netflix.com/au/title/80095698 Homegoing Yaa Gyasi - Audible , Good Reads  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A special message of love to Abbie's wonderful grandmother who was sadly lost this past week. We love you Grandma, we will always love you.  TRIGGER WARNING: This episode sexual health, Mental health  This week is an open, honest, sit down chat with you guys! Answering some of your burning questions,.  This week Abbie chats about STI Stigmas, Anxiety around making new friends, the beloved vulva and a good old fashioned rant about women working in make dominated industries.  It's A LOT this week.  Mentioned in this Episode  Rapid - https://www.rapid.org.au/ The vulva gallery @the.vulva.gallery Comfortable in my skin - @comfortableinmyskin_ The labia library - http://www.labialibrary.org.au/   For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod Abbie is not a mental health professional, any advice is speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine in 13 11 14. If you have any questions, comments or concerns please email Abbie at [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: Fat Shaming, Disordered Eating, Anxiety and Depression, Body Dysmorphia  Usually Abbie gives a little intro but this week she was sick, and could barely talk! So we get right into it.  This week Abbie is joined by the gorgeous, smart and feminist Demi Lynch, founder of The Nasty Woman Club (media company and podcast. Demi and Abbie decide to give each other recommendations for resources from BIPOC and then answer a question about one night stands as a feminist.  Demi talks about the struggles of fat phobia in regards to doctor visits, clothes shopping, dating, having sex and all the things in between!  You can find the Nasty Woman Club here https://instagram.com/thenastywomanclub?igshid=zif7uo1j41kb Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/thenastywomanclub/ Website Thenastywomanclub.com Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-nasty-woman-club/id1450127920 The recommendations from Demi were @blakbusiness and @clothingthegap Abbie Recommended "Homegoing" By Yaa Gyasi   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and abusive relationships  A playful episode with Phoebe Thompson to discuss navigating the world as fierce and proud to be, sexual woman. Phoebe opens up about her physical appearance, the male gaze, her character portrayal on Love Island and the type of “love” she recieves to her DMs. Some noteworthy quotes from this episode are “Just a little bit of labia” and “Big naked Whore.” Phoebe is a role model when it comes to owning your sexuality, which is discussed in this episode with Abbie.  Please note, this episode was recorded prior to the incredibly devastating events unfolding in the US. Abbie breaks down her throughs and useful links in the beginning of this episode. You can find those mentioned below.  You can follow Phoebe on insta @phoebethompson_x Photo referred to in this episode  PHOTO 1  Mentioned in this Episode  People To Follow  Bobo and Flex Podcast Flex Mami  Erika Hart  Shishi Rose  Ms Packyetti  Where you can Donate  George Floyd Memorial Fund By his bother Minnesota Freedom Fund  I run with Maud - Justice for Ahmaud Arbery Fundraiser  Justice For Breonna Taylor Petition and Fundraiser  National Bail Out Fund - Free Black Mans  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod Abbie and Phoebe Thompson featured in this episode are not mental health professionals, any advice is speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine on 13 11 14. If you are struggling with violence at home, please visit Reach Out 1800 RESPECT  or LifeLine    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health, PCOS and Endometriosis   Abbie is joined by the incredible woman that is Erin Barnett. Erin openly and candidly discusses her journey with PCOS and Endometriosis and sheds some light on what it is like to live with these conditions daily. This episode is informative and really breaks down what life is like for those who suffer with this condition.   You can follow Erin on instagram @erin.alysha   Mentioned in this Episode Modibodi - use code ABBIE10 for 10% off your order Vush - use code ABBIE for 65% off your order   For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook Or follow on Instagram @itsalotpod   Abbie and those featured in this episode are not mental health professionals, any advice is speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine in 13 11 14. For more information on Endometriosis, please visit Endometriosis Australia   If you have any questions, comments or concerns please email Abbie at [email protected]   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health, suicide and abortion  Abbie is joined by her closest friends to answer your questions in this weeks episode. Join them for an honest, laid back chat with a few wines. Deep dive into questions from adult friendship breakups, supporting your friends in an abortion and knowing you are enough just the way you are.  Mentioned in this Episode  Song - Vera Blue - Settle  SPOTIFY, ITUNES, YOUTUBE  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod Abbie and those featured in this episode are not mental health professionals, any advice is speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine in 13 11 14. If you have any questions, comments or concerns please email Abbie at [email protected]   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie rants about everything this week. Things get ugly.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie is joined by the three hosts of Clit Talk (@clittalkshow) (https://clittalkshow.com/about) Sugar, Katie and Lindsey. They talk about period sex, the changes in their relationships that have come from the increased lockdown laws in Los Angeles at the time of recording, open relationships, and their attendance of a sex party in 2018. The books mentioned are Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino  The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy You can listen to Clit Talk on any of your usual podcasting platforms! As always, you can find me @abbiechatfield on Instagram, or you can join the podcast group IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on Facebook. Follow the pod @itsalotpod on IG.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Abbie is joined by two powerhouses in fitness and instagram success; LAURA HENSHAW and STEPH CLAIRE SMITH. Together they own the fitness empire Keep It Cleaner and host their own podcast KIC Pod. Abbie, Steph and Laura talk about being productive in isolation, answer a question about unknowingly being "the other woman" and then go into a deep dive about Steph and Laura's career and how they handle all the pressure.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is a solo episode is Abbie talking about instances of [redacted] having THE AUDACITY  Follow Abbie on Instagram (@abbiechatfield)  Follow the podcast on instagram (@itsalotpod)  Email the podcast at [email protected] with any questions, comments or corrections!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and suicide. We're back! After another out of date COVID-19 chat, Abbie and PHOEBE PARSONS (Host of Confessions of a Trainwreck) answer some listener questions about self care v kicking goals, dating someone who suffers from mental health issues then do a deep dive into their own experiences with mental health. Neither Abbie nor Phoebe are mental health professionals, and they both are speaking from personal experiences only. If you are struggling, please seek professional mental health treatment or call LifeLine in 13 11 14. If you have any questions, comments or concerns please email Abbie at [email protected]   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie gets to interview someone she greatly admires and fan girls along the way, CLEMENTINE FORD. The author of two ground breaking books, BOYS WILL BE BOYS and FIGHT LIKE A GIRL and all around badass, Clem is someone that we should all listen to. Abbie and Clementina answer some questions about having sex while being insecure (for various reasons) and then do a deep dive into the male gaze. Clementine has her own podcast, The Big Sister Hotline and she can be found on instagram @clementine_ford Follow @abbiechatfield @itsalotpod Join the facebook group here   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The first solo episode for Abbie, she gives advice on coping machanisms to use during COVID-19 and also other miscellaneous Q&As. Find It's a Lot on insatrgam at @itsalotpod and email your questions into [email protected]   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 4! We made it despite feeling like the world is ending! Abbie starts off crying in the intro talking about the virus that she said she DID NOT want to talk about, but then makes up for it by giving you a bomb episode with ZARA MCDONALD and MICHELLE ANDREWS, hosts and founders of Shameless and Love Etc. They talk about what COVID-19 was like at the time of recording (11 days ago... which feels like 11 years ago) and give advice to a listener who is feeling insecure about her boyfriend liking photos of girls who look nothing like her. Then, they talk about Zara and Michelle's amazing careers thus far, and you are gifted with some advice. Michelle and Zara host Shameless and Love Etc, both of which you should listen to RIGHT NOW if you're part of the 1% of my listeners who don't already. Socials: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield It's A Lot Pod @itsalotpod Zara McDonald @zamcdonald Michelle Andrews @michelleandrews1 Shameless Podcast @shamelesspodcast   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Bonus quarantine ep! Episode 3! Woohoo! In this episode Abbie is joined by the stunning french goddess and host of Honestly the Podcast (@honestly.the.podcast) ALIENOR CHEVALLIER (@broctoprod) to discuss the Rules of French Dating. After Abbie and Alienor had some tea together the day before recording, Abbie realised that there are so many different ways to date, and the French seem to have it right. This is basically the guide to owning your dating life rather than just going along for the ride. Alienor and Abbie spill some tea about a potential famous hookup and give some great advice to another listener in need, and also discuss monogamy and alternative set ups to happy functioning relationships. Get it in your ears! Also, sorry about the dodgy sound in some parts with ambulances in the back ground, we recorded this in the middle of Paddington on a main road If you are feeling anxious about COVID-19 please DM Alienor at @honestly.the.podcast for some assistance. She is amazing   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: Eating Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Suicide Hello! In this episode if It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield, Abs is joined by host of Confessions of a Trainwreck Phoebe Parsons (@phoebeacp). Abbie and Phoebe have some body positivity homework for you and challenge you to be involved in #YouGotTheShot, a challenge to upload photos where you think "Hmmmmm I can do better than that". Be brave! Upload the pic! #YouGotTheShot and tag @abbiechatfield @itsalotpod and @phoebeacp so we can repost! Phoebe and Abbie answer a Q&A from a gal who slept with her work crush only for him to not feel the same way. They then do a deep dive into Phoebe's eating disorder and talk about the toxicity and guilt from all the different possible avenues.  Note: Phoebe's experience and personal journey with her eating disorder is entirely her own and any advice given by her or Abbie is not to be taken as medical advice. If you are struggling with an eating disorder, depression, anxiety or any other mental health issue please contact a medical professional. Link to It's A Lot Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/133190938121195   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's here! The first episode of It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. Thank you for tuning in! On this episode, Abbie (@abbiechatfield) is joined by the brilliant, hilarious, stunning woman that is Gab Steele (@gabsteele). Gab is a full time model and has her own podcast called Having A Gab (@havingagab) and she and Abbie refuse to shy away from topics that may be considered "unladylike". They discuss feminism, masturbation, their ever evolving dating preferences and not settling because you're scared of being alone and any other topics in between that may arise after a bottle of red with your gal pal. If you have any questions, comments, corrections or suggestions email Abbie at [email protected]   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's here! Well, almost. This is a little trailer for It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. Abbie gives a summary of what to expect with the podcast and promises you Episode 1 to launch on 10th of March 2020! Subscribe now to not miss an episode.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.