Inspirational Comedy with Dr. Michael Smalley

The first step in letting go in love is identifying the actual problem or issue you need to release...and there are three ways you handle it causing chaos in your life! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip  

Today’s show features professor Kris DeJeet as he joins me for the second episode in Release, the power, and freedom of letting go in love. Why is today important? As you’ll hear, what other choice do you have when life becomes overwhelmingly miserable. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip  Are you struggling in your marriage with... Difficulty communicating and asserting your needs? Lack of intimacy and feeling disconnected? Feeling stuck because you keep having the same fights over and over again? Feeling easily triggered by built-up resentment? Don't waste another day hurting! Let me help: https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip  Subscribe and follow on the platform of your choosing: https://www.facebook.com/TheSmalleyInstitute/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVJKB_dISNEdalQe2UVGX5g  https://www.twitch.tv/comedyoflove  https://discord.gg/spJh32daGY 

The first of a new series I'm calling ¡Release! It is one of the most fundamental things we have to learn to do in our relationships...but most of us want nothing to do with it! Instead of deeply connecting with our partner we choose to behave in ways that only sabotage our deepest need - to feel connected and loved. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip  Are you struggling in your marriage with... Difficulty communicating and asserting your needs? Lack of intimacy and feeling disconnected? Feeling stuck because you keep having the same fights over and over again? Feeling easily triggered by built-up resentment? Don't waste another day hurting! Let me help: https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip 

Ever been in a no-win scenario in life? You feel the loss of control and nothing you do can make the pain stop? Me too! I've got friend, pastor, and psychology professor Stew Grant on the show! Don't miss it! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip  If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more.

My friend and colleague sent me a devotional he wrote for himself. I knew instantly it would bless anyone willing to listen and believe! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/a-devotion-about-trust 

The conversation I overheard this morning upset me so much I finally had to record again!

Challenge accepted! One word can make all the difference in the world to your relationship! For the notes and more, https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/what-is-one-word-that-can-change-my-marriage 

You need to hear this one! Gaslighting, laziness, and more can be dealt with if you are willing to do what works! https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/how-do-i-stay-with-a-miserable-spouse 

The final strategy may be (ok...it is!) the best part of the entire Unbreakable series! Now don't mess it up.

You are in a precarious position, things are getting better, but... Now is the time to rebuild friendship and lean into your new normal.

You need to know the right questions to ask and answer because the wrong questions will lead you down a path of destruction!

If you feel betrayed in your relationship then follow these steps and wait for the miracle!

Here's what you have to do to have a chance at reconciliation after a traumatic wound.

Any type of betrayal can cause emotional distress, but you might experience lingering trauma when someone you depend on to respect your needs and generally help safeguard your well-being violates the trust you’ve placed in them. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/blog/unbreakable-wounds-vs-betrayal 

The thing you want most from your spouse is often what is broken the most! Trust. A new series is about to start, Unbreakable, Three Proven Strategies to Overcome Hurt, Betrayal, and Broken Promises So You Can Trust Again!

An answer to the question, "Where do you get help when the only reason you are still married is that 1) divorce is too expensive, and 2) homicide is illegal. (No, this is not a prank question. The only reason I have stayed this long is the above. I have gotten some really bad advice over the years, most of it from 'Christian counselors' and clergy.)"  

A special interview with Jeff Reeter! Countless books focus on leadership. Numerous podcasts and TedTalks speak about leading others, leading organizations, developing leaders, and so on. But before you can lead others well, much less discover real success or leave a legacy that others will remember you for, you must first learn to lead yourself.

A deep question and an answer needing to be heard! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip

As always, there is something you need to ask yourself first. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip

Just because your wife didn't get the grand gesture of love... 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip 

You may not be a rule breaker...until you watch this! And learn how to actually calm down someone you've offended. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more. https://www.smalleyinstitute.com/vip 

This question was meant to be! While putting my notes together my wife did something that totally set me up to negative belief her to death! 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more.

The guy asked the question! You can't blame me for the answer. 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain. Become a VIP! Learn more.

The answer that launched a thousand ships, filled by men, all asking the same question. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

"How much should I ask about an adulterous relationship that has ended?" If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

"Sexless marriage. How can a spouse deal with this when they are not willing to talk about it and not willing to go to counseling? Married 9 years, no intimacy in over 4 years, and maybe 20 times in the other 5 years." If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

If the word "submit" sparks a firestorm of negative emotions, then you really need to watch this one! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

Gentleman, you better be doing these three things or you are missing out! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

It has to stop if it is true. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

It saddens me to answer this question. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

Are there any in-laws that respect boundaries? If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

A fellow learner wants to know, "What is the single best predictor of whether a couple who goes through your program will make it." If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

The problem may be with you trying to get her to love you again. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

Is it always up to one spouse to instigate sex? Wouldn't it leave the instigator feeling under wanted if they are always having to start the festivities? If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

It worked! Now you better get ready and do the following. Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

Lack of control stinks! Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

You never even thought of asking this! Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

You thought you knew how to apologize, but you were wrong! Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

It does not make sense but trust me, it's the only thing that works! Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

The one thing you can do is this... Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

The awesome power of terrible choices and the end result of humility. Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

It's the answer to one of your biggest questions, "How'd this happen?" Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! If you’re out there, and this title has grabbed your attention, then you’d better sign up for this powerful online course. Because if you don’t get the lessons down from this course, you won’t be able to do any of the things necessary to win back your wife’s heart. Join here.

You feel it's time to dial 911 for your marriage! But who is going to answer?  Join the free online community at www.smalleyinstitute.com and sign up for the Hero's Guide to Winning Back Your Wife! More than ever before, you have to know the pitfalls and radical things you must do in order to win back the heart of your wife. You can do it! You just better know how to win this battle. Join here.

This is the one I've been looking to the most! Actual tears when I discovered it and then created my notes for the show! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

We've turned the corner and you are ready to turn betrayal into deeper intimacy! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

We are turning the corner on Primal Panic and focusing in on genuine healing! Now drop whatever you are doing and flush it. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

This is who you want to be if you ever want to overcome the pain of feeling betrayed. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

"We need to talk." Possibly the four worst words this style of panic reaction could ever hear! If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

Ever feel like your words and actions were not achieving the deepest desire of your heart? You keep reacting in ways that push people further and further away? If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.

When primal panic sets in, watch out! Your heart is in the right place but your words and actions keep pushing your loved ones further away. If an epic, in-depth online experience is something you’d be interested in covering the discussion today or access to any of the downloads mentioned, and even better, 24/7 digital access to coaching from Dr. Michael Smalley, a path towards healing your pain, tools to shape your communication and intimacy, assessments to guide you, and a community of support from people who will cheer you on as you journey to the relationship you want. Join the VIP Inner Circle! Learn more.