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OOOOH this is a good one. I have a firm belief that our thoughts create our life. Watch your thoughts they become words, watch your words they become actions, watch your actions they become habits, watch your habits they become character, watch your character, it becomes your destiny. It all starts with your thoughts. Where you are in your life is a result of the thoughts you think. Your thoughts become a chain reaction in your life.

Mamas I have ANOTHER treat for you! In this week's interview, I talk with Christine McAlister - she is a bestselling author of The Income Replacement Formula: Seven Simple Steps To Doing What You Love And Making Six Figures From Anywhere and a business coach, and the founder Life With Passion. She helps high-achievers all over the world to replace their incomes (and then some!) and quit and stay out of their 9-5s, by building businesses out of their passions. Christine's interview is raw and vulnerable. She talks about a tragedy in her life that shifted everything for her. Through this tragedy, Life with Passion was born and the need to help others to live a life with meaning, purpose and happiness doing what they love vs "working." Learn more in the show notes for this episode!

MAMAS!!! Oh my goodness what an awesome interview for you all! I had the pleasure of interviewing Cayla Craft who is a mom of 3, ER nurse turned self-made millionaire. Ladies, this boss babe has a story you will all want to hear. Cayla talks about her childhood and the victim mentality she adopted early on in her life and how she broke through that to become the victor of her life. See the full show notes on the Divorced Mommy website

Join me as I take you through a two part series on my journey to entrepreneurship and the personal development and growth that happened along the way. There are so many things I have learned that are applicable to many circumstances in life, including divorce and separation. This week's episode will be about the journey and next week's episode I will net out the top 10 things I have learned from the many books and podcasts I have consumed over the last two years. Enjoy!

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So excited to be bringing you Episode 5 and the FIRST interview on the Divorced Mommy podcast! Victoria McCooey is a transformational divorce coach, motivational speaker and founder of The Divorce Course for Women. She has had numerous articles published on DivorceForce.com, Ezine Articles, IveMovedOn.com and has been interviewed on "Women of Strength TV", "Unleash Your Mojo Online" and "You Be You & I'll Be Me" podcast. She's helped scores of women acquire the skills and courage necessary to leave toxic marriages and create happy new lives they can't wait to live. She has an amazing offer for all of you! Sign up for her free program in September! 30 Days to Face Divorce Fearlessly. Receive a new video in your inbox every day in the month of September to help you be fearless!!! Click the link below! 30 Days to Face Divorce Fearlessly

Hey mamas! Wow, I can't believe the feedback from all of you brave and bold mamas! First thank you so much. It means the world to me because I am on the other end of the microphone and want to be sure what is coming to your ears is what you want to hear. So keep it coming!! Another way to say thank you in addition to letting me, is to leave a rating or review. This will help the podcast reach other mamas that need it. THANK YOU! Now, on to episode 4....... Hey mamas! How are you doing, if you live in the northeast, it is still summer, your kids are still home. I saw this great meeem/meme? On Facebook that so sums up how the summer goes with kids. You start the summer as Mary Poppins and end the summer as Miss Hannigan - lol. When my kids were little, I would NEVER have felt that way and I may even have even been shocked a mom could feel that way. Trust me, we all get there lol I do love summer, but it loses its luster by mid August! While I love the spontaneous lazy days of summer. But then I crave the structure of September! I also always end up buying myself new notebooks and pens too! Lol So I hope you have been enjoying and finding value in the first 3 episodes of Divorced Mommy. It would mean the world if you could leave a review or rating as that helps immensely in getting Divorced Mommy out to more moms out there who need it. Part of the iTunes algorithm :). Also, if you would like to reach out directly, ask me any questions, or request certain topics, send me an email at [email protected]. and also feel free to read more on my actual blog www.divorcedmommy.blog Looking forward to connecting with you! So today's topic may be a tough one. It is about your kids dad. I will preface this episode by saying, that I know there are real bad guys out there. I know that there are dads that truly do not deserve the title. There are dads that are abusive or toxic for a child's life. Those guys are not included in this discussion. This is about the dad that truly loves his kids. The kids truly love him. And in your heart you know you want your kids and their dad to have an amazing relationship, or at least the opportunity to develop one. So, no matter how and why you and your ex-husband ended your marriage, he will always be their dad. This is where it can get so tricky. You, as YOU, as your own person with a life, feelings and emotions may be having an incredibly difficult time seeing, communicating or frankly being nice to him. I get it. On the flip side, you have these kids, who are already feeling what they are feeling that their parents are no longer together (or will have these feelings once they grasp the change in their lives). They want their daddy around, they want to see him and not have it be something else taken away. You know what I am going to say, it requires you to be stronger than you have ever been in your life. It will require you to compartmentalize the feelings you have right now about your ex and shift your thoughts and feelings about him as your kids father. It may seem simple, but it is not always easy. I am going to give you some tips that will help you navigate this minefield of emotions. 1.) The number one tip I want you to embrace and try to implement immediately, is to stop calling him or referring to him as your ex. Instead call him your kids dad. This simple almost subtle shift is anything but. But calling him your kids dad, in your head, to others, in front of your kids will have an impact you can't even begin to imagine. Think about it, when you start a sentence with "my ex-husband….." It is an immediate negative. There is nothing positive in the term ex-husband. That title immediately puts your brain and heart in self defense or anger mode even if it is subconcious. It also makes the receiver of that term have emotions of pity, judgement, sadness. By referring to him as your kids dad, it is an incredibly positive term. It tells your brain over and over again that that is who he is regardless of anything else he may be. It also tells your brain to prioritize that feeling you have about him. It has an incredibly positive impact on those you are talking to about him. And most importantly, when your kids hear this, it makes them HAPPY even if that too is subconscious for now. But it matters for the long term. And even though you may not feel it to be possible now, I can tell you 11 years later of constantly referring to my ex-husband and my kids dad that is 100% how I see him, how I feel about him. And I truly care about his happiness and that of his fiancee. Truly I say that with no ill feelings in my bones. It is actually so WEIRD to me to call him my ex when I just said it. I truly don't see him that way. I don't even call his mom my ex-mother in law. I call her my kids grandma. POWERFUL So tip one, refer to him immediately going forward as your kids dad. 2.) Be careful who and what you say about your kids dad to others. This one is a big one and will be much harder than t

Download episode here Hey mamas! Hope you have enjoyed the first two episodes of the Divorced Mommy podcast! Make sure to follow on Instagram at Divorced Mommy In this episode I share my story and journey of getting divorced and navigating co-parenting. 11 years later we have survived (so far!) and thriving. I hope you find value in it!! Here are some links to many things I mention in this episode! Check out my first business! Haven Boutique or on Instagram @haventheboutique Podcast Resources Christy Wright Business Boutique Smart Passive Income Podcast She Did It Her Way RISE Podcast with Rachel Hollis Going Scared with Jessica Honegger The Marie Forleo Podcast Be sure to check out Episode 1 and Episode 2 of the podcast if you haven't already! Would you like to know what your kids want you to understand as you navigate the waters of co-parenting? Click the link below and you will get an email with a downloadable PDF that my daughter wrote, The Top 10 Things Your Child Wants You To Know Now. It is full of gold! Top 10 Things Your Child Wants You to Know Email me if you have questions or are interested in specific topics! [email protected]

Helping divorced mommies create the life they want and their children need! I share my journey as a divorced mom and the lessons, hurdles and insights from the last 11 years of being a divorced mommy. We have an opportunity to flip the script on divorce!

Helping divorced mommies create the life they want and their children need! I share my journey as a divorced mom and the lessons, hurdles and insights from the last 11 years of being a divorced mommy. We have an opportunity to flip the script on divorce!

Helping divorced mommies create the life they want and their children need! I share my journey as a divorced mom and the lessons, hurdles and insights from the last 11 years of being a divorced mommy. We have an opportunity to flip the script on divorce. It does not need to be filled with shame, anxiety or anger. We can create intentional lives for ourselves and our children. Let's do this together!