I Don't Get It

The girls get together to recap and analyze everything that Wells, Jared, and Chris (Cupcake) discussed in the previous weeks podcast. Including kissing on a first date, letting a girl down easy, and the "chase." Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bachelor Alum & favorites Wells Adams, Jared Haibon, & Chris "Cakes" Strandburg take over for Ashley, Lauren, and Naz and talk about things they don't get about women. The guys talk about everything from ghosting, how to properly break up with a girl and some excuses guys use when they're just not that into you. They also talk about playing games in relationships. The boys are honest, raw, and hold nothing back. Get your pen and pencil ready!Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ghostbusters is back! Naz, Lauren, and Ashley help Amanda, a girl who feels like she’s being ghosted by a guy she recently started dating. Find out what the ghoster tells Amanda in this cringe-worthy episode of Ghostbusters. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Does your mom keep reminding you about your biological clock? Anxious that your timeframe to have children is getting smaller and smaller with each failed relationship? Well no worries! Because Bachelor alums Carly Bass and Whitney Bischoff are on this week’s podcast discussing the process of freezing their eggs and Whitney gives her expert advice on when the right time is to start considering freezing for yourself. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The women are joined by tv host and actress Daniella Monet to discuss the argument that has broken up many friendships: Is it okay to date your friends ex? The discussion leads to other question such as can you put dibs on a guy? Or how close is your friendship? The women even discuss the concept "Bros over Hoes". Is it okay to pick a guy over your girls? The girls also ask Daniella if she ever gets jealous in her relationship. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Access Hollywood producer Oscar Gracey went to interview Harry Styles at the recent press junket for the movie Dunkirk. As a self proclaimed "stan" (stalker fan), Oscar went into to full on panic mode. Listen to him regale the I Don't Get It girls with this ultimate fangirl tale.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chris "Cupcake" Strandburg from Kaitlyn Bristowe's season of The Bachelorette tries to explain why men are waiting to settle down until later in life. He believes that society doesn't force them to grow up and become men as quickly as it used to. He claims the self-discovery process, technology, and medicine are allowing for a longer maturation period that has guys delaying marriage and children. Listen to see how the girls react to this news and his suggestion to start dating guys in their 40s! Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The I Don’t Get It gals have a pop icon on this week’s show. The very talented Aaron Carter comes on to talk about his new album, dating, and how he has stayed so strong while going through some difficult times including the death of his sister. Also find out why Ashley and Aaron’s “fling” never worked out. Aaron Carter is back everyone! Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chances are you've been 'Ghosted' before. And if you haven't and you don't know what it means, Ghosting is the act of breaking off a relationship with someone by ending all communication suddenly with no warning or heads up. So messed up.. Ghosting has become commonplace these days and Naz, Ashley, and Lauren want to do something about it. SO, the girls are officially starting a segment on the podcast called Ghostbusters. You can call in, tell the girls the story of the guy/girl who ghosted you and they will CALL THEM ON THE LINE AND ASK THEM WHY THEY GHOSTED YOU!? I mean it just takes a few seconds to say "hey, it's over" right? In today's episode of the IDGI podcast, Britton from New York calls the girls and tells them about a guy who ghosted her. The girls call the guy on the line and for the first time in a month, Britton and her guy speak. You won't want to miss out on this one...#Ghostbusters! Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley, Naz and Lauren discuss the uncomfortable issue that the majority of women have a few times in their life… the dreaded UTI. A young female Urologist, Dr. Rice, calls in to discuss how to prevent the issue from ever arising and what to do right when someone feels that urinary discomfort. Of course the girls go into some sexual escapades that go hand in hand with developing a urinary tract infection. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On today's show, Ashley and Naz have a friendly girl chat analyzing first and second dates they both experienced this week. The Bachelor's Olivia Caridi calls in to regale us with a less than successful dating story she endured this week as well. Will these girls be getting another date? Listen and find out! Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's get real for a second: how many of you have ever tried to hack into your significant other's phone? What about their e-mail or snapchat account? Ashley, Lauren & Naz talk about the concept of hacking and how it's become commonplace in relationships. The girls talk to Bachelor favorite Amanda Stanton who found out she was in the wrong relationship after looking in his phone. The girls also take phone calls from fans who have hacked their way into catching a cheater. Finally, we hear from famous hacker YT Cracker about what he's hacked and an easy tip for unlocking someone phone. And if you have a dog, you should definitely try the Wag app we talked about in this episode, which is like the uber of dog-walking! It is awesome (and Ashley's dogs agree). Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comDownload the app and let us know what you think of it. Use this link: https://app.adjust.com/24ow1dSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The talented, the beautiful, the all around full package...It's HARRRYYY STYYYLESSSS. The ladies discuss all things Harry Styles from his debut solo album to his dating life, and their full blown obsession with the young musician. Whether he's singing with One Direction, singing a duet with Stevie Nicks, or just being adorable on Twitter, Harry can do no wrong. If you're not a fan of Harry Styles, they will do a damn good job of convincing you to be.  Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The I Don't Get It girls will never get what it's like to be pregnant until it actually happens to them. It seems so far in the future, especially for Ashley I & Naz. They discuss what pregnancy does to the body and soul with Bachelor favorite, first-time mom, and currently 6-months pregnant, Jade Tolbert. Later in the episode, Ashley and Lauren's cousin, Kristina, joins the podcast to describe the terror of giving birth and the beauty of having a family.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As every Bachelor fan knows, Ashley Iaconetti is a virgin, but she still has sexy stories. In this episode of the I Don't Get It podcast, she reveals just how experienced she is. And even though Ashley hasn't gone all the way, she finds first time sex stories fascinating so Lauren & Naz indulge Ashley's curiosity and reveal their secrets. Bachelor alums Sarah Vendal and Danielle Lombard join in the conversation and share their cherry-popping memories as well.  Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The trio of gals interview a high schooler and discuss the difference between going to high school in the early 2000's compared to today. They ask high schooler Jerilyn, about dating, cliques, bullying, and the pressures of being in high school during this new social media age. Seems like being in high school right now isn't too different from being in your mid to late 20's... Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever see a celebrity couple that just doesn't seem to fit? Naz, Ashley, and Lauren list off the couples they do and do not get. The girls analyze the inner workings of many past and present celebrity relationships, some of those including the classic Ben Affleck and JLo, and adorable Chris Pratt and Anna Farris. What couple don't you get? Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There are two kinds of people in this world. Those of us that went to Coachella, and those of us that didn't. Except those of us that didn't go, can say we pretty much DID go, because our entire Instagram feed for the past 2 weekends has been #Coachella. Is Coachella even about the music anymore? Or is it just a photo taking festival? Coachella has become more of a scene than the cool free-spirit music festival it started out as. For the first time ever Ashley, Lauren and Naz all sat down to discuss their opinions on the now mainstream - Coachella Music Festival - a festival none of them have ever been to, but they don't think they would like. They just don't get Coachella. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you post photos just so that you can get that little high you get when your crush "likes" it? Social media has changed the dating landscape immensely. Instagram can help you get dates (sliding into DMs), confirm that a guy is single or taken (girlfriend pics, tagged pics), and can assure you've got his attention (likes, duh). And that's only Instagram! Each social app has a feature that can help you determine how much someone likes you romantically...or so we think? Ashley and Naz (She's back!) discuss their experiences with dating and social media.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The sisterly bond is a beautiful and unique thing. Ashley and Lauren are similar in so many ways but there a few things they just don't get about each other. The girls delve into their likes and dislikes that don't quite match up with each other. Ashley loves peanut butter and jelly, socializing, going to dinner with friends. Lauren loves Taco Bell, lounging in bed, and delivery. Find out more about this opposing duo and how they argue their favorite things in this week's I Don't Get It Podcast. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wonder how some women seem to have it all? Ashley and Lauren talk to the former editor-in-chief of Seventeen magazine, Anne Shoket author of the new book "The Big Life." Shoket an expert in "adulting." In "The Big Life" she helps guide millennials struggling to have a balance creating a career and juggling it along with friendship, romance, and hobbies. Shoket discusses with Ashley and Lauren what has worked for her in achieving her "Big Life." Later on, the girls bring their dad on to discuss the difference between dating now in contrast to back when Dr. Iaconetti met their mom in 1978. Is it best to meet and grow together or establish yourself first and then come together? That's the big question the girls explore in this podcast. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley and Lauren take a trip home where they uncover their old childhood diaries. The girls read embarrassing entries from their early teen years in truly cringe-worthy format. Ashley not only finds her childhood diary, but a very juicy "Bachelor journal." She reads entries from her time in the Bachelor mansion, and expresses her admiration for Chris Soules and the Bachelor Family she's now part of. Everybody get ready to flashback to middle school because things are about to get awkward!Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley and Lauren definitely don't understand why anyone would choose to "go out" rather than spend a night cozy on the couch. They did some research and went out and had two drinks. They came home, put sweatpants on and while a little buzzed and vented about how sucky "going out" is, along with having girl talk about warm-feeling crushes, eating free food, and UTIs. Ashley and Lauren apologizing for all the horrible singing in the episode. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We don't get first kisses. Ashley grew up listening to Hitch AKA Will Smith's kissing advice. According to Hitch, the guy needs to go 90% of the way in and the girl closes the kiss by making 10% of the move. Is this really how it should be? Do you need to endure the awkward silence and the eye contact at the end of a date? Ashley explores this topic with ex BAE and Bachelor in Paradise alum Wells Adams. They talk about what makes a good kiss and all the Bachelor family members they've indirectly kissed. The conversation evolves into funny dating stories and dirty (literally) details of the their Bachelor family friends. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley gets bloated really easily and is so confused by how some couples keep in their farts around each other. It gets super uncomfortable! She and Lauren discuss if this is okay and their experiences holding in their farts around boys and boyfriends. They call their Bachelor in Paradise friends Jade and Tanner to see how they deal with farting...and pooping...in their marriage, along with other TMI bodily functions. Does being open about pooping and farting strip a relationship of its romance or does it make for a better relationship?Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley recently went on four dates with the same guy. She gave him chances because he was good on paper and respectfully asked her out. She describes her third date when she felt it necessary to kiss a guy she didn't want to kiss for the first time. They then fast forward to their fourth date, on Valentine's Day, when she became officially grossed out. Jared joins in on the conversation and talks about the best moves to make in this situation, who should be paying, and transparent facial expressions. Fellow Bachelor in Paradise friend Carly Waddell calls in and discusses how she went from grossed out to friends to an engaged couple with fiance Evan Bass. She gives her advice on what to do in a situation you "don't feel" at first. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley and her special guest, The Bachelor's Jared Haibon, discuss what guys really mean when they say “let’s take it slow” or what it probably happening when a girl is “confused” in a relationship. Jared discusses why “games” normally have to be played in dating. Jared tries to teach Ashley how to have confidence when a guy she likes makes her nervous. Ashley and Jared then reminisce about the most memorable moments of their relationship, like when she threw up in his car, when he found her the most attractive, and the Bachelor in Paradise letter. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Haley and Emily Ferguson, best known as "the twins" from The Bachelor franchise join Ashley and Lauren this week as they discuss everything from blow up techniques to Valentine's Day gift giving. Their conversation surrounding chivalry and sweetness will certainly confuse male listeners. The old fashioned pursuit rarely works in the millennial era. The ladies discuss the common dating phenomenon among woman called "Being grosses out." Haley and Ashley reflect upon the anxiety of first kisses. The ladies also play a Bachelor family version of "Marry, Fuck, Kill" while revealing juicy inside Bachelor Nation scoop.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Has someone ever said "You're so pretty and smart... why are you still single?" Well, the Iaconetti sisters delve into reasons women tend to push away the nice guys and say come hither to the bad boys. Ashley analyzes her inability to crush often, and particularly crush on guys who reciprocate feelings towards her, while also asking for some advice in a current dating scenario. Lauren discusses her dislike for traditional courting. The girls also discuss the discomfort, nervousness, and dread that come with the beginning stages of a romantic relationship.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don’t get why their magical childhood feelings have disintegrated with age. What happened to those enchanted times of daydreaming about Justin Timberlake and Leonardo DiCaprio without a care in the world? Now when a crush is formed in adulthood, those new whimsical crush feelings turn into worries and dare say it…REALITY. The girls also delve into their experiences with their first menstrual cycle and the terror/ embarrassment that ensued. Find out who still wears pads opposed to tampons and who dabbled in masturbation before they even knew what they were doing. Beware, it gets graphic.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ashely and Lauren Iaconetti just don't get why women have to go through a million steps just to get ready. Why do we have to wear makeup and pluck our eyebrows? They debate whether women should wear makeup everyday or whether they should let their skin breathe. They reveal what plastic surgery they've had and how much landscaping they have going on in the bikini area. And we're not sure how it came up, but Ashely admits to her obsession with Clay Aiken, but equally embarrassing was the time Lauren pooped in the bathtub. The ladies talk about every step of their beauty routine from Botox to shaving, and debate what works and what is a waste of time. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Add cool girls to the list of things Ashley and Lauren Iaconetti don't get. You might think, wait, these chicks were on the Bachelor, they ARE cool girls, but believe it or not they don't agree. And while they're at it, they just don't get fuck boys...or is it fuckbois. Whatever. They don't get them. And what's up with ghosting? Who thinks it's ok to just abandon a friend or relationship without a trace. We discuss...Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why does it seem like loving moments always invite awkwardness??? This week Ashley I brings in her sister Lauren to discuss sticky situations in dating. Ashley describes a crush she had on one of her teachers and why it went horribly wrong. We get to hear the unsavory details of the time she threw up around her long-time crush Jared from the Bachelor. Lauren and Ashely debate which stomach issues are the most embarrassing to have on a date, and so much more. It gets very...AWKWARD. Enjoy!Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In the first episode of the I Don't Get it Podcast, Ashley I (Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) and her bestie, Naz Perez (producer, Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise) talk about how they met and why they are kindred spirits. These two beauties realized they both were unlucky in love and had never had boyfriends, and then realized there were lots of things that baffled them about the world. They find themselves saying to each other, "I don't get it!" about all the other "normal" people and things in their lives. They know they're not alone, though, and know there's lots of things you guys don't get either. They are excited to have weekly discussions about all the things they don't get, and this will be the first of many. So grab a coffee or wine and sit down with your new best friends, Ashley and Naz, and hear about the world from their point of view. Today, listen to their explanation for why they don't have boyfriends, and see if you agree.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.