Honey We're Home

It's officially summer in the city, and the girlies are sweaty but happy. The question on the top of all of our minds: are we actually wearing capri pants this summer? This week the girly pops get in to the nitty gritty of what’s "in" and how tf we’re supposed to style peplum and jelly sandals without looking like we're Phil of the Future straight from 2009. Niki is in love with track pants while Caro says butter yellow and flowy maxi skirts are here to stay. We promise this is as educational as it gets on Honey We’re Home, just a bunch of washed up married people trying to figure out how to stay relevant. Stay hot hunnies. 🍯 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Honeys, we’re BAAAAACK, and we’re talking sh*t. It’s been a hot minute since Nicole and Caroline were in the studio together, so obviously there’s a lot of tea to spill. From Caro’s European escapades with Taylor Swift to Nicole’s trip back to her hometown country roots (she grew up in a corn field), there’s a full month of crazy happenings to revisit. The girls end with discussing their current baby fever state of the union and talk about how everyone around them is having kids. This episode is easy, breezy, and chaotic, just how we want our entire summers to feel. Xoxo. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Honeys, class is in session. Nicole's in the studio this week with one of our most highly-requested guests: her elderly sister, Jenna. Fresh off of a wild night out in the city, the Pellegrino girls get right into chatting all things motherhood. They discuss mom guilt, never feeling like you're good enough, postpartum depression, trying to maintain energy as a boy mom, "having it all" as a working mom, being a mom without your own mom there to help you, and much more. They laugh, they bicker, and they get deep. Jenna shares her beauty recs since after all, she's in the hot mom "summer of Jenna". This episode is a must listen, trust us. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's episode is fun because the girlies are fresh off of a day in the sun. They start off by going all over the place in the best way possible, chatting about how sometimes you have to treat men like toddlers (JK, but are we?), having revelations through reiki, and how we make life plans then the universe laughs. That leads into a great discussion about how to compromise and choose where to live with your partner. Caro gets super deep and cries at the end, and it's sweet. Enjoy! Xoxo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Once again, the girlies are doing their best this week. Today's episode starts off quite giggly with Niki and Caro catching up about dressing like tweens, living with men, and painting their childhood bedrooms. They then share recs of the week which are ofc related to looking beautiful. Finally, they have answer a listener email about combatting mean girls in a friend group, which leads to a really great discussion. Enjoy!! Xoxo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today's episode is a little shorter than usual (let us know if you like that though, k??) because Nicole was running late but then suddenly showed up in full glam. Caro used the time without her wisely by talking about Taylor Swift. The girls then get in to answering a lengthy but important email about a bride who's putting all of her loved ones to WORK instead of hiring wedding vendors. They then answer some quick AMA questions about wedding perfume, post-wedding depression, and more! Xoxo hope you love it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On today's episode, Nicole is joined by special guest Mike (aka Prop). We get to know alllll the details about Mike that he's never shared with the internet, including how he's always longed for a brother, his top 3 favorite tv shows, how he manifested his dream job, and what it's like being with a partner who's always on her phone. Nicole challenges Mike to dig deep and tell her what he REALLY loves about her, and he spouts off her resume, which makes her slightly freak out. :) Mike then answers a listener email about how to get out of rut in your marriage, and gives advice on how to comfort a grieving partner who's lost a parent. Xoxo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode, the girlies cuddle up (virtually) to the wonderful travel blogger and business woman, @jetsetchristina (aka Christina Haisfield). Niki and Caro pick her brain on the best tips got traveling with kids, including the best locations to take them, and what age is the easiest. They chat about how to pick the right place to "settle down", and why thinking of it as temporary helps you make a better decision in the long run. Christina gives the girls all the tea on how she and Kenny met, her reccomendations of the week in Charleston (will Caro move back?), and they talk all about podcasting in paradise. This one is GOOD for advice and giggles - the girls promise you won’t want to miss it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this week's episode, we're discussing the highly requested topic of mothers in law. Some of you have a wonderful relationship with your MILs (good for you), however for most of you, that's not the case (and that's OK). Before getting into the crazy stories, the girlies kick it off with affordable recs of the week. Then they go through your MIL horror story submissions which are quite literally insane to put it lightly. We guarantee that no matter what your relationship with your MIL is, this episode will make you feel better about it. And at the end of the day, it's probably the husband's fault anyways, so just blame him! OK love you, enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode Caro gets slightly vulnerable about what REALLY led to her quitting her job and how it’s actually been since doing so. Niki goes through what she’s learned so far - and one factor obviously being finances, leads the girls to finally talk about exactly how that goes down in each of their households and get transparent about what they feel like they haven’t figured out yet. Are things shared or kept separate? What is financial therapy and is it the secret ingredient we all need to do as newlyweds?! An episode full of unique perspectives and transparent feelings on work and mental health and how finances are definitely a huge component to figure out in the first years of marriages. Listen for laughs, tears and loads of unsolicited advice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this week’s episode, Nicole recaps her family trip to Florida since she and Mike have the totally one of a kind unique perspective of being the only DINK couple on the vacation (double income no kids, duh). Caro has a freak-out at the mere thought of one of her younger sisters potentially having a future baby before her, and Nicole calms her down by telling her that her world is going to get better once they all grow up and are in a different stage of life together. They discuss the overall dynamics of family trips, and give life hacks for prioritizing your partner and staying sane throughout them. They do recs of the week - Caro’s is a deep and insightful article about relationships and Nicole’s is…….. pants. Then they end with a funny advice email and turn-ons of the week, and get jealous/scared of sales girls because those are the ones you have to watch out for!! Nicole runs away at the end because she has a bladder the size of a gerbil's. <3 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The gals love a girls trip/bachelorette party, and they’re gonna tell you exactly why. Takeaways are: don’t forget to vibe check yourself, take a moment when you need it, ride the banana boat when you see it, and sleep when you get home (it’s a marathon, ladies). Caro has decided she’s not joining the no-drinking bandwagon and Niki goes in to why the bandwagon might actually be for her. A true tale of two sides. Niki gives her non-alcoholic recs of the week and Caro gives her ultimate vacation pedicure hack. There’s no shortage of bachelorette horror stories from both the listeners and the girls to unpack this episode (caro’s mom snuck on to hers?) which lead to a boatload of ideas and tips to make this season’s bachelorettes flow as smoothly as the tequila shots will the second you touch down. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week's episode is about everyone's favorite topic for a relationships podcast: DIVORCE. The girlies both have the pleasure of coming from blended households with divorced parents. Caroline's been to therapy for it, and Nicole has never once confronted her feelings about the topic (shocker), so you're in for a wild ride with this one. They cry, they laugh, they get way too deep and vulnerable, and they unpack all the ways that having divorced parents can affect your marriages today. PS. can divorced dads stop being so dramatic, and actually just move into a NORMAL household after leaving the family?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week the girls are joined by everyone's favorite relationship/sex therapists and hosts of the Shrink Chicks podcast, Emmalee Bierly and Jennifer Chaiken. Em and Jen answer all of our burning questions, from "how do I keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship?" to "how do I maintain desire with my partner?" and "how do I set boundaries with my in-laws?" and beyond. Consider this episode the free couples therapy session you didn't know you needed until now. Be sure to check out the Shrink Chicks podcast and find more of Em and Jen at www.thetherapygroup.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this week's episode, the girls chat all things getting older. Why is it that society tries to make us feel not as "hot" when we get married? Or how about the identity crisis you go through in your late 20s/early 30s when -- God forbid -- your body starts to change? This episode gets deep and while it lasts long, it's so much fun that it somehow still flies by in no time (the same amount of time that Nicole can hold her bladder since she's 31 now and pees non stop). They end the episode with tips on how to feel your most confident self because at the end of the day it's what's on the inside (wholesome af, we know). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week the girls get into a highly requested topic: the division of labor in relationships. We might not be in the 1930s anymore Lucy, but something tells us we will never escape this issue. After debriefing on games, podcasts and personal thoughts on the issue, Caro and Niki get to the uncomfortable meat of if a listener should confront her husband after discovering his online habits, which of course get psycho-analyzed beyond repair. They end with ick of the week and a listener rec! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode the girls go even deeper in to friendships, and the complexities that come with growing up through different life stages together. Some of us are married, some of us are single, and some of us are even going through divorces, but one thing is for sure–we're all in different places. Figuring out how to maintain our relationships with friends, despite different phases of life, isn’t as easy as you might think. The girls get in to suggestions for bringing your single friends in to your married life, the importance of preserving “girl time” and the do’s and dont’s when it comes to friendships like this. They end with love or war, ick + turn on of the week, and the ultimate rec’s for girl time in your 20s and 30s! Happy Tuesday Honeys! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Between the Swift (oops “super”) Bowl and Valentine’s Day, it’s a busy week for all the girlies. Caro and Niki talk best, worst and most hilarious Valentine's day stories, including the year that everyone got the wrong flowers and shower-cried, girlfriend vs. wife energy, and expectations that they have no intentions of apologizing for. They end with Love or War: Valentine’s Day edition and Galentine's gifting recs of the week that are all about spoiling your girlfriends. Tune in for early morning delirious giggles with your favorite crazy wives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week the girls are joined by the guest they’ve been referencing on *literally* every episode, the one and only @kristipartyof6 (and soon to be party of 7!). Kristi talks all about her blended family, her pregnancy journey thus far, and how she met the love of her life. She then shares the pros and cons of raising kids in nyc (hint: it’s a major grind), and how she’s able to get it all done while somehow keeping a positive perspective throughout all the chaos. They end the episode with some nyc-specific recs for the two things that matter most in this world: food and beauty. Follow @kristiipartyof6 on IG and TikTok for more (and while you’re at it follow @honeywerehomepod on IG, duh). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

self care is anything you do for yourself that makes you feel good! whether that's botox, acupuncture, going on a podcast walk or playing a 5 minute meditation. if it makes you smile, the girls are all for it. in this episode listen to the in's and out's of self care for 2024, caroline and nicole dish up every thing they've ever tried (including sound baths), their holy grails of skincare products, and the benefits of being the heatless curl, mouth tape girl curled up to her husband at night. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

the proof is in the pudding so the girls decide to interview their husbands for the most relevant perspective on HWH's favorite subjects. Starting with Caroline and her husband, John, this episode is all about date night theories and ideas, the karma of ick of the week, navigating interracial marriage and so much more. Caroline asks John the hard questions, like why does he hate Christmas and what's the right way to have the baby conversation with a guy, and they end with an enlightening game of love or war. The girls are excited to kick off the presence of more guests on the show in 2024. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you there, universe? It's us and we need some f*cking help right about now. On this week's episode, the girlies catch up on the chaotic month that is January 2024. From Nicole's dog's medical emergency to Caroline's seasonal depression, the new year is truly unhinged, so if you're feeling the same way, just know that you're not alone. After the girls chat about how to support each other when your partner's feeling down, they lighten the mood with a game of Love and War (awards szn themed of course), and end with icks and turn-ons of the week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

you choose your spouse but you don't always choose the package deal they come with. some of us have found our way into the loving arms of our MILs, while others, not so much... listen along for some of the craziest in law scenarios that have made their way to the girls inboxes and as always, some advice you just might not want to take about boundaries and flexibility when it comes to your spouse's fam bam. game of the week is love or war, and it's a doozy. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Are you ready for it?? Literally… is anyone ever? Between prepping for a baby, being able to provide for them, and wondering what and whose timeline you’re supposed to be on, the girlies love to excite each other for babyhood and then send themselves into spiraling fear, all in one breath. But nothing can’t be fixed by a game of love and war (dad edition of course) because in the end we’re all honestly just bobbing along in the same little boat. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes growing up means you finally get a tv in your bedroom.. especially when the only places to go are there or the kitchen. The girls talk about space being tight in this era and if it’s a millennial curse. Why going home to your parents means you have a house and yard to roam in lieu of your charming but cramped one bedroom apartment, how money plays a factor, and a game of love and war that they hope is as funny to you as it was to them. Happy Holidays Honeys! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Splitting the holidays is not for the weak and requires level of the delulu that only the two most annoying girls on the internet can offer you. This episode is full of matching pajamas, stories, self proclaimed insanity and advice (which you just might not want to take) about where to go for each holiday. The girls also share some hilarious listener stories about annoying in-laws that will make you feel better about yours. Happy Holidays HONEYS! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Who does what in your relationship, where are you going to raise kids, how do you get that neighborhood vibe when you're in an apartment in a manhattan? the questions are endless and honestly, the girls don't have the answer, but they're tired of being asked. maybe we can just all sit in it together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's like they tell us we can do it all, but they don't tell us how. The girls go into the very real internalized pressure of becoming "a wife" and honestly, what to do when something has got to give. Watch for a special treat this week as John + Mike submit their icks and Nicole and Caroline blind read them to each other (boys have icks too, we get it) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Friendships are relationships too, but how do they look when we all start experiencing different phases of life at the same time? Nicole and Caroline get real about what it takes to make friendships last long-term, how their dynamics have shifted so far without love being lost, and all about the rules of engagement when it comes to your friends’ spouses. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sometimes changing your last name makes you want to puke your guts out, and that’s okay. Even if at one point you didn’t think twice about it. In this episode, Nicole and Caroline get into last name name changes and what they ultimately did with theirs and why. They also talk getting into a relationship young and how you grow and change in the same direction. And never to be neglected, the icks of the week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In their debut episode, Nicole and Caroline get into their WHY for this podcast and give a sneak peak into both of their relationships (meet cutes, etc.) They have a raw and vulnerable unplanned conversation about the first few years of marriage and real time agree on all the future episodes to come. They top it off with their first ever “ick of the week”, proving that as real and raw as marriage is, sometimes it’s just not that serious. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nicole and Caroline give a taste of their new podcast, Honey We're Home Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.