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#42 Does one of you go? Tips for considering geographical separation
Season 1 · Episode 42

#42 Does one of you go? Tips for considering geographical separation

Holding the Fort Abroad · Rhoda Bangerter

March 18, 202418m 29s

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Show Notes

Synopsis:

In this episode of Holding the Fort Abroad, I dive deep into the decision-making process for split location assignments. We explore practical considerations, maintaining healthy relationships, and the importance of understanding your reasons for pursuing this path. Hear real-life experiences and gain valuable insights from those who have navigated this challenging terrain. Whether it's for a year or several, the decision is yours to make.

Key Takeaways:

Practical Considerations

  • Time differences and impact on communication
  • Flight costs and logistics
  • Flexibility in return timings
  • Visiting the working location
  • Consideration of duration, whether open-ended or fixed term


Relationship Considerations

  • Impact on children of different ages
  • Influence of couple's current relationship status
  • Effects of geographical separation on relationship
  • Building and maintaining intimacy in long-distance relationships
  • Setting intentions for the distance period


Seeking Support

  • Recommendation to involve therapists or outside perspectives
  • Discussing with people who understand and have experience in split location assignments
  • Available resources and individuals who have had similar experiences


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