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Here Comes the Drama with Christa Innis

Here Comes the Drama with Christa Innis

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69: FAN FAVORITE REPLAY: Hijacked Wedding Plans, Boundary Advice Breakdown, and Chaotic Wedding Confessions

May 14, 202630 min

68: Dealing with Burnout, FIL Demands and a Bride Pushed to Her Limits

May 7, 202634 min

67: The Shawnaverse, Dealing with Grief, and and In-Law Chaos with Shawna Lander

Apr 30, 202649 min

66: Guest List Wars, Boundary Battles, and Stepmom Sabotage with Ivette Bracken

Apr 23, 202636 min

65: Friendship Breakup, Legal Advice, and a Sister-in-Law Wedding Meltdown with Salma Qaddourah

Apr 16, 202653 min

Ep 6464: Jealous Sister Behavior, Wedding Day Blowups, and a Last-Minute Family Switch-Up

Family reconciliation, your wedding plans back on track… and just a little more drama to go with it. Again. This week, we read part two of a wedding submission about the sister’s lies, manipulation, and boundary-crossing behavior being finally exposed, forcing a reckoning that flips the entire family dynamic.Family reconciliation, your wedding plans back on track… and just a little more drama to go with it. Again.This week, we read part two of a wedding submission about the sister’s lies, manipulation, and boundary-crossing behavior being finally exposed, forcing a reckoning that flips the entire family dynamic. Just when everything is out in the open and a reset feels possible, the story refuses to end there.As I dive into what happens next, the stress doesn’t slow down, it multiplies. The mother-in-law pulls back, and support starts to feel conditional at best. Every step forward comes with something new to figure out, until the ex-wife’s eight demands take a turn just days before the wedding.Also, turns out the drama had more to say. Our Book 2, Drama Ever After is in the works!Listen to this episode for unexpected turns, family drama, and a wedding that really can’t catch a break.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Living Under One Roof – Staying with family during planning brings tension right back to the surface, proving that proximity doesn’t fix problems. The Wedding Dilemma: Blocked & Uninvited – A listener gets removed from a bachelorette group chat, blocked, and uninvited after already paying for the wedding. The Sister Still Doesn’t Get It – Even after everything is exposed, accountability is shaky, and the behavior doesn’t fully stop. Mother-in-Law Switch-Up – Support starts to shift, energy changes, and what once felt helpful begins to feel uncertain. The Bridal Shower Letdown – Plans that were once promised quietly fall through, leaving the bride to adjust expectations in real time. Money, But Make It Stressful – Loans, shifting budgets, and financial pullbacks turn support into another layer of pressure. Flight Plans in Flux – Travel expectations don’t align, adding tension to an already overloaded timeline. Court Date Before “I Do” – Just one day before the wedding, a legal situation involving the ex-wife raises the stakes and threatens the entire plan. The Drama Doesn’t Peak, It Piles – Instead of one big explosion, this story builds layer by layer, proving some wedding chaos doesn’t end, it evolves. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “When people show you who they are, believe them. ” “ Never loan money you aren't prepared to give away. ” “People don’t communicate, and they just take what one person says instead of actually confronting the situation. It could have all been avoided.” “ I appreciate when people are forward with how they feel and communicating because passive aggression creates more problems.” “E very relationship is so different and nuanced. It's hard to know.” *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Apr 9, 202641 min

Ep 6363: Boudoir Photos Mishap, Relationship Repairs, and an SIL Fallout with Brianna

One wedding reception, a packed dance floor… and one sister-in-law committed to the corner.What begins as a joyful celebration slowly turns tense when a sister-in-law spends most of the night sitting it out. From pre-wedding tension to a reception spent sulking, the mood becomes hard to ignore.In this week’s episode, Brianna joins Christa to talk about emotional repair, communication, and the realities of modern parenting. As a therapist and mom of five, she shares why helping kids name their emotions matters, and why repairing conflict can be more important than avoiding it altogether.Listen in as they unpack the complicated line between feeling excluded and pulling away, and how weddings have a funny way of revealing family dynamics that were already there.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Drink That Sparked It All – A simple pre-wedding drink invitation gets declined due to wedding prep, becomes the wedding tension. Rupture and Repair Parenting – Brianna explains why today’s parenting focuses on helping kids communicate their feelings and work through conflict. Reception Buzzkill – While everyone else celebrates, the sister-in-law spends most of the reception sulking in the corner, refusing to join the party. The Designated Driver Excuse – Weeks later, the real explanation finally surfaces: she’d been asked to be the designated driver and let it ruin the entire weekend. Adult Tantrums Explained – Brianna breaks down how insecurity and poor communication can turn into attention-seeking behavior in adulthood. Family Roles Disrupted – Christa and Brianna discuss how weddings can trigger tension when siblings struggle with changing family dynamics. Choosing Peace Over Drama – After repeated conflict, the couple ultimately steps back from the relationship rather than continue accommodating the behavior. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “I think consistency to me is more important than finding a niche.” – Brianna “Everything's political, sorry.” – Brianna “You don't have to have something major going on in your life to go to therapy.” –Brianna “It's so important to teach your children how to say how they feel.” – Brianna “Some conditions are better left in the past” – Brianna “If you're not enjoying what you're doing or what you're creating, it's gonna seem so much more of a hassle.” – Christa Innis “Newsflash, everything is political.” – Christa Innis “You don't want people at your wedding that you don't want.” – Christa Innis “The beauty of social media is like the connection.” – Christa Innis “I always think like with these mother-in-law stories or the sister stories, you are just creating more of a barrier.” – Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About BriannaBrianna is a therapist, and mom of five boys—and in between all that, she’s also a content creator.Her content spans mental health insights, thrifting finds, political commentary, parenting moments, and the realities. Blending millennial humor and professional perspective, she approaches a wide range of topics with honesty. Whether she’s talking about parenting, politics, or everyday challenges, her perspective stays grounded.Somewhere between content creator and mom-of-five life experience, Brianna offers the kind of perspective that helps make sense of life’s more complicated moments.Follow Brianna: YouTube Website Instagram TikTok Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Apr 2, 20261h 8m

Ep 6262: Proposal Ambush, Sister Seduction, and Passed out Bride with The Cliffnotes Gal

Here’s your engagement, your champagne… and a complimentary family drama on the side.What was meant to be a romantic waterfall engagement turned into a champagne ambush, sister betrayal, and a bridal shop break down. From body-shaming comments to financial manipulation, this submission spirals fast, but thankfully, so do the boundaries.This week, The Cliffnotes Gal joins Christa to break down family control tactics, engagement sabotage, and what happens when your own sister crosses the line. Known for turning viral chaos into sharp, fast recaps, she brings her no-nonsense perspective on authenticity, trauma boundaries, and staying real online.Listen in for green-flag fiancé moments, hard truths about toxic parents, and the reminder that protecting your peace isn’t dramatic, it’s necessary.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Engagement Hijacked – What should’ve been a private waterfall proposal quickly turned into a champagne ambush with mom and her friends cheering from the sidelines. Passed Out at Her Own Wedding – A diabetic low mid-vows left The Cliffnotes Gal with a blackout ceremony, a brain fog reception Blessing Revoked – Dad agrees to the engagement, until he doesn’t… and suddenly claims he never gave his approval. The Boundary Reset – When money, guilt, and ultimatums escalate, the only option left might be choosing peace over family pressure. “If They Don’t Know Your Birthday…” – The Cliffnotes Gal’s rule of thumb for wedding guest lists: no birthday knowledge, no invite. Sister Seduction Scandal – Two weeks after the engagement, the bride’s own sister begins telling the fiancé she’s the “better option.” Her Ethical Line with Storytelling – She will not duet nor stitch the stories involving SA or deeply traumatic abuse, especially as a survivor herself. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Perfection. This is so fake. It is so fake.” -The Cliffnotes Gal “Perfection doesn’t happen. That’s the thing.” -The Cliffnotes Gal “If it’s not positive and bringing you joy, then why have it?” -The Cliffnotes Gal “They haven’t proven that they’re worthy enough to be there.” -The Cliffnotes Gal “If they don’t know your birthday, they don’t need to be there.” -The Cliffnotes Gal "I think it's like we wanna continually give chances, especially for family or people we've known for a long time." -Christa Innis “You need to be firm with your boundaries now.”-Christa Innis “That’s why people stay in like toxic family relationships for so long because they’re like, well, it is family...But no one deserves to be treated that way” -Christa Innis "They want real people with real content." -Christa Innis “Blood is thicker than water… I think they’re using that as a manipulative tactic.” -Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About The Cliffnotes GalThe Cliffnotes Gal is the internet’s trusted shortcut through chaos. This viral storyteller transforms long, winding TikTok sagas into one-minute recaps.She built a platform by saying what everyone else took 15 minutes to say, in just a minute or two. With 20 million views on TikTok, and a notebook full of handwritten recaps, she shortens the noise without losing the nuance. Her approach to content is rooted in respect: for the storyteller, for the audience, and for herself. Cliff Note: She saves your lunch break and your attention span.Follow The Cliffnotes Gal: YouTube Website Instagram TikTok Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Mar 26, 202656 min

Ep 6161: Wedding Guest Lies, Toxic In-Laws & Mind Reader Magic - with Joe Diamond

These are the types of drama so layered, even a mind reader wouldn’t see them coming.What started as a simple suggestion to shorten the mother-son dance spiraled into accusations of gold digging, manipulation, and a full-blown family boycott threat. When your fiancé works for the family business and his mom insists on private meetings to question the marriage, it’s no longer just wedding planning, it’s a power struggle.This week, renowned mind reader and entertainer Joe Diamond joins Christa to unpack toxic dynamics, hierarchy games, and emotional manipulation. Drawing from more than two decades of performing at weddings and high-stakes events, Joe shares sharp insight on family power plays, setting boundaries, and why sometimes the boldest move might be a hard reset, or even eloping.Listen in for bold advice, boundary talk, and the reminder that keeping the peace should never cost you your own.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Intuition Test That Shocked Christa – Joe reads Christa’s childhood crush initials over Zoom and leaves her speechless. The Mechanical Bull Disaster – Why outdoor events and bad planning can ruin even the best entertainment. The Wedding That Was Canceled Three Weeks Before – When the groom ran off with the bride’s best friend. Yes, really. Mother-Son Dance Meltdown – A simple suggestion to shorten dances triggers the first red flag. “She’s a Gold Digger” – When family wealth and insecurity collide before the wedding. The 13-Year-Old Ultimatum – One child invite turns into a family boycott threat. Hard Reset Advice – Joe suggests two bold moves: work for the family business… or elope. Hierarchy Games & Peacekeeping – Christa breaks down why keeping the peace can cost you everything. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “It’s not even about the 13-year-old. It’s about control.” -Christa Innis “If they can threaten not to come, you can threaten to elope.” -Christa Innis “I would not want someone who hates me planning something meant to celebrate me.” -Christa Innis “Keeping the peace shouldn’t cost you your own.” -Christa Innis “The second someone calls you a gold digger, credibility gone.” -Christa Innis “The bride and groom said no. That should be the end of it.” -Christa Innis “Boundaries aren’t disrespectful, they’re protective.” -Christa Innis “You don’t play their game. You surpass it.” -Christa Innis “The way relationships begin is typically the way they continue.” -Joe Diamond “You can’t just expect it’s going to be better one day.” -Joe Diamond “You’re trying to play chess and she’s the pigeon. You either learn the culture or reset the board.” -Joe Diamond “Don’t wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty — and the pig likes it.” -Joe Diamond “Mind reading is an art, not a science.” -Joe Diamond “The real star of the show is the audience.” -Joe Diamond “It’s not about being right. It’s about how you made people feel.” -Joe Diamond *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About JoeJoe Diamond is known as The Midwest Mystic, America’s greatest mind reader and a world record-holding entertainer who transforms ordinary gatherings into unforgettable shared experiences. He creates modern mysteries for real audiences. And yes, he really does pull thoughts out of people’s minds. Blending clean comedy, intuitive psychology, and interactive mind reading, Joe has spent over 20 years amazing audiences from intimate living rooms to 2,000-seat theaters. His philosophy is simple: the audience is the real star of the show.No smoke machines. No special effects. Just connection, laughter, and the kind of mystery that leaves people asking, “How did he know?”Follow Joe Diamond: YouTube Website Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Mar 19, 20261h 24m

Ep 6060: Stolen Money, Bridesmaid Fallout, and a Reception Meltdown

“He never proposed… but she booked the wedding anyway.”In this week’s wild submission, a bride schedules her own wedding without a proposal, spirals into a blackout reception meltdown, and leaves her guests walking out before sunset. But that’s not even the biggest twist.Then, I dive into a complicated bridesmaid fallout during a real-life family crisis and ask the hard question: where do boundaries end and empathy begin? This solo episode is messy, dramatic, and full of hard lessons.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Booked Without a Proposal – A bride schedules her wedding date without her partner’s knowledge… and chaos follows from there. The Blackout Reception Meltdown – Guests leave by 6PM after the bride spirals, curses people out, and blames everyone else. Vendor Money Mystery – Thousands were “paid”… except the vendors never received it. Sibling Jealousy Showdown – A bride faces pressure to make her unsupportive sister maid of honor. Missing Cousin, Bridesmaid Fallout – A heartbreaking family situation collides with wedding deadlines and communication breakdowns. When Weddings Expose True Dynamics – From control issues to emotional manipulation, the red flags were loud. Would You Rather? Wedding Edition – Exes, divorced parents, awkward photos… we’re choosing chaos or calm. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “If you’re already struggling, marriage and kids are not going to fix it.” “Just because someone is family doesn’t mean they automatically get a spot in your wedding.” “Be really firm on what you want and surround yourself with people who are going to love you and support you.” “You cannot expect people to fund a wedding you can’t afford.” “Nice people without boundaries get walked all over.” “Other people’s lives don’t stop just because you’re getting married.” *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Mar 12, 202633 min

Ep 5959: Copycat Rings, Serial Cheater and Trusting Your Intuition — with Beth Hoffberg

If the universe sends you red flags before the wedding… should you walk away?This week’s episode is pure chaos, the kind that keeps escalating until you’re just saying “No way.” A custom engagement ring copycat, a mom who tried to wear white, a drunken brother peeing in venue plants who ended up in jail, and a groom who never stopped cheating. What started as young love quickly spiraled into generational patterns, manipulation, and betrayal.Then, Christa sits down with certified life coach and tarot reader Beth Hoffberg to unpack intuition, soulmates, generational patterns, and the uncomfortable truth about obstacles before marriage. When is it just wedding stress… and when is it the universe trying to tell you something? If you’ve ever ignored your gut, this one’s for you.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Copycat Ring & White Dress Drama – A mother buys the exact same custom engagement ring and later tries to wear white to the wedding. Reception Meltdown & Jail Time – A drunken brother spirals into plant-peeing chaos, fistfights, and a three-day jail stay, turning the reception into full-blown disaster. Cheating Since Day One – From early infidelity to post-wedding betrayal, the groom’s behavior proves that ignored red flags don’t disappear after “I do.” Soulmates vs. Toxic Patterns – Beth breaks down the myth of “the one,” the danger of spiritual bypassing, and why healthy relationships still require work. Maid of Honor Demotion – A candid conversation about reciprocity in friendships and why it’s okay to step back when someone isn’t showing up for you. Wedding Red Flags as Marriage Clues – Christa and Beth discuss when wedding chaos is normal… and when it’s a preview of deeper issues to come. Breaking Generational Cycles – The bride ultimately chooses a different path than her mother’s toxic relationship history, proving you don’t have to repeat the past. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.” - Christa Innis “The wedding is the precursor to the marriage. If there’s chaos now, pay attention.” - Christa Innis “If your gut says something’s off, it usually is.” - Christa Innis “You can’t build a peaceful marriage on ignored red flags.” - Christa Innis “Keeping the peace doesn’t mean hurting yourself, it means not pouring gasoline on someone else’s fire.” - Christa Innis “Not every bad wedding is a sign, but when it’s one thing after another after another? That’s a pattern.” - Christa Innis “Ending a relationship doesn’t always mean it was a failure.” - Beth Hoffberg “I don’t believe in ‘the one.’ I believe in many ones.” - Beth Hoffberg “If you have to force someone to marry you, it’s already over.” - Beth Hoffberg “Your mud has purpose.” - Beth Hoffberg “She’s not her mom. She is her own person and she doesn’t have to repeat that pattern.” - Beth Hoffberg “Every wedding is going to have some things go wrong, that doesn’t mean you’re not supposed to get married. But when it’s every single area that’s drama, obstacles like that are sometimes there for a reason.” - Beth Hoffberg *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About BethBeth Hoffberg, known on TikTok as @intuitivelybeth, is a trauma-educated astrologer, intuitive tarot reader, and certified life coach with a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. With over a decade of experience, she blends psychology, spirituality, and real-life experience to help people heal from toxic relationships, trust their intuition, and build healthier partnerships.Beth shares relationship insights, tarot readings, and astrology guidance on Tiktok (and her astrology account @astrologybeth), plus offers personal readings and coaching through her website.Follow Beth Hoffberg: Tiktok Youtube Website Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Mar 5, 20261h 20m

Ep 5858: A $16K Scam, a Shocking Threat, & Knowing Your Limits - with Kendra Matthies

They cried. They complained. They blamed everyone else. And then the check bounced.This week’s wedding submission spirals into accusations, threats, and a bounced $16K check that leaves vendors stunned. Joined by Kendra Matthies, Christa dissects the chaos, calling out toxic wedding norms, contract misunderstandings, and entitlement disguised as innocence. Then we dive into wedding confessions: maid of honor regrets, guest list battles, and the quiet urge to just elope. Buckle up, this one is totally WILD!JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Step Back to Protect Health – The burnout no one talks about, and how constant entitlement can push vendors to their breaking point. The $16K Wedding Scam – A venue hosts a full wedding… then the final check bounces and chaos erupts. Cake on the Floor, Tears in the Room – Accusations fly after a cake mishap sparks emotional manipulation and blame. “We Know the Owner” Energy – Why entitlement shows up loudest at weddings and small businesses feel it hardest. Pastor Threats & Legal Pressure – A shocking twist involving church leadership and intimidation tactics. Vendor Survival Tips – Kendra breaks down contracts, deposits, and protecting your business. Elopement Temptation – Skipping the drama and choosing peace over performance. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “My wedding is important to me, but I don’t expect it to be the most important thing in everyone else’s life.” - Christa Innis “I feel like if I’m doing too much work, I’m not enough of a mom or not enough of a wife or a friend.” - Christa Innis “Contracts exist because of people like this.” - Christa Innis “Your wedding was literally built on a lie.” - Christa Innis “People love boundaries until they apply to them.” - Christa Innis “At some point, this stops being ignorance and starts being entitlement.” - Christa Innis “You don’t have to have a chronic illness to need to know your limits.” - Kendra Matthies “Give an inch, they take a mile, every single time.” - Kendra Matthies “If you signed the contract, that’s on you. Don’t blindly sign, consult.” - Kendra Matthies “As a business owner, your pricing should protect you, not depend on tips.” - Kendra Matthies “Stop expecting discounts from people you barely know.” - Kendra Matthies “It is never worth it to put yourself in debt for a wedding.” - Kendra Matthies “There are twenty-four hours in a day, and we’re not awake for all of them.” - Kendra Matthies *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About KendraKendra Matthies is a Michigan‑based bridal makeup artist, licensed esthetician, beauty educator, and social creator with over a million fans across social platforms. She’s built her career helping hundreds of brides glow on their big day and teaching other artists how to thrive in the beauty world, with real talk about technique, clients, and the sometimes brutal backstage truth of weddings and events. Follow Kendra Matthies: Facebook Tiktok Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Feb 26, 20261h 36m

Ep 5757: MOH Betrayal, Secrets Uncovered, & a Full Bridezilla Meltdown with Jubilee Dawn

This bride didn’t want a friend, she wanted free labor.This week’s listener submission delivers peak bridezilla chaos: free bridesmaid dresses turned into unpaid labor, public bridesmaid demotions, and a cold cutoff once the wedding was over. A painful reminder that pleasing people can invite the wrong kind of power.This week, Christa sits down with Jubilee Dawn to unpack a story that cuts even deeper. A 17-year friendship that unraveled after a wedding alcohol “reimbursement” exposed money scams, blind loyalty, and manipulation buried for years. From betrayal to boundaries, this episode proves weddings don’t change people, they reveal them.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Maid of Honor Betrayal - A 17-year friendship collapses after a wedding alcohol “reimbursement” exposes manipulation and gaslighting. The Receipt That Changed Everything - Credit card statements uncover a pattern of financial abuse far bigger than one wedding. Forced Forgiveness & Gaslighting - Confrontation is met with defensiveness, religious pressure, and zero accountability. Losing Half the Bridal Party - Setting boundaries reveals enablers unwilling to face the truth. Bridezilla & Free Labor - A listener story exposes kindness exploited for unpaid dresses and wedding work. Public Humiliation on Display - Bridesmaids are demoted, helpers yelled at, and friends treated like staff. When Weddings Reveal Character - Weddings don’t create drama, they expose power, patterns, and priorities. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “ Weddings bring out people's true colors. How people are people.” - Christa Innis “Being sensitive doesn’t make you weak—it means you notice when something’s wrong.” - Christa Innis “ I think learning to put up boundaries in a healthy way has been a big part of my healing.” - Jubilee Dawn “You don’t owe anyone access to you just because you’ve known them a long time.” - Christa Innis “Forgiveness without accountability isn’t healing, it’s just more harm.” - Jubilee Dawn “Being a bridesmaid is not payment for free labor.” - Christa Innis “If everyone’s ex is ‘crazy,’ maybe it’s not the exes.” - Christa Innis “I spent years believing everyone was good. Healing taught me that boundaries matter more than optimism.” - Jubilee Dawn “After 17 years, I realized I never actually knew her.” - Jubilee Dawn “You’re not dramatic for noticing patterns, you’re paying attention.” - Christa Innis “Walking away was the hardest and healthiest choice I’ve ever made.” - Jubilee Dawn “Losing half my bridal party hurt, but losing my peace would’ve hurt more.” - Jubilee Dawn “Being kind doesn’t mean being available for exploitation.” - Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.About JubileeJubilee Dawn is a prominent content creator, advocate, and storyteller known for sharing raw, honest conversations about religious deconstruction, purity culture, and healing from toxic systems. Through her platforms on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube, Jubilee opens up about personal experiences, survivor stories, and the complicated realities of setting boundaries, especially when it comes to relationships, faith, and family dynamics. She hosts two podcasts entitled "Healed-ish" and “The Overshare Hour”, where she blends vulnerability, humor, and hard truths to help others feel less alone and more empowered.Follow Jubilee Dawn: Tiktok Instagram Youtube Spotify Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Feb 19, 20261h 10m

Ep 5656: Am I the Bridezilla? Drama at a Funeral and Reception Interrogations

“Am I still the most important woman in your life?”In this week’s jaw-dropping submission, I dive into a bride’s story of boundary-crossing chaos that exploded during wedding week, from hospital drama and rehearsal dinner meltdowns to ceremony-day tantrums and reception sabotage. This MIL is all about being the “most important woman” in her son’s life, and trust me, it’s WILD.I react in real time, call out the red flags, and give my unfiltered advice on how to protect your peace and set boundaries.Plus, don’t forget to enter the anniversary giveaway! Subscribe to the HCTD podcast and YouTube channel, drop a comment saying “entered” on this episode, and you could win. Buckle up, this one’s a long ride.Here are the winners from the last giveaway:@charlynestyles@itsjhonagurl@partisgoingsomewhere@alliyahdennisseJOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Anniversary Giveaway Celebration – I kick things off by celebrating one year of Here Comes The Drama and share how you can enter to win gift cards. “Am I Being a Bridezilla?” Dilemma – A bride reached out asking if she was being controlling as her bridesmaids pushed back on dresses, budgets, and bachelorette party expectations. I break it all down. Bachelorette Budget Blowups – Money tension flares when expectations weren’t clearly communicated. I weigh in on fairness, financial boundaries, and how to handle these sticky situations. Hair & Makeup Control Debate – I get real about when it’s reasonable to set appearance guidelines for your bridal party… and when it’s straight-up micromanaging. Mother-in-Law Wedding Horror Story – A jaw-dropping submission shows years of boundary violations that spiral into full-blown chaos during wedding week. The “Most Important Woman” Moment – At a funeral lunch, the MIL asks the groom if she’s still the most important woman in his life. I break down why this is a huge red flag and how to handle it. Wedding Day Meltdowns – From rehearsal dinner drama to groom suite invasions and family photo hijacking, I walk through the wedding-day disasters and what could’ve been done differently. Boundary Advice & Protecting Your Peace – I close the episode with actionable advice on standing up for your partner, setting limits with toxic relatives, and keeping your emotional well-being front and center. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “When you agree to be a bridesmaid, you’re agreeing to the bride’s vision.” “Communication would’ve saved about 80% of this wedding stress.” “Your wedding gifts are gifts — not emotional leverage.” “You don’t get unlimited access to someone’s life just because you share DNA.” “If someone is competing with their child’s spouse, that’s not love, that’s control.” “Protecting your peace is more important than keeping toxic people comfortable.” “Your wedding is not the place for someone else’s emotional meltdown.” “Being family doesn’t excuse toxic behavior.” *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Feb 12, 202657 min

Ep 5555: Wedding Finances, Honeymoon Hacks & an MIL Meltdown — with Sara Margulis

The MIL stole their car keys… on the morning of their honeymoon.This week on Here Comes The Drama, a listener shares a “drama-free” wedding that takes a sharp turn the next morning. What should have been a quiet newlywed breakfast spirals into a full-blown hotel lobby meltdown when a mother-in-law demands a ride to the airport, refuses to take no for an answer, and crosses every boundary imaginable.Plus, Christa and Honeyfund CEO Sara Margulis break down honeymoon funds, modern gift etiquette, and why couples need to stop planning weddings they can’t afford. From Shark Tank success to wedding-industry pressure, Sara shares what couples actually need to start thinking beyond that ‘one big day’.We’re celebrating one year of Here Comes The Drama! 🎉 Subscribe to my podcast and YouTube channel, and comment “Entered” on this episode’s YouTube video for a chance to win one $150 Visa gift card or one of two $25 Amazon gift cards. Winners will be announced on March 12.Download the Honeyfund App iOS Android JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Cash Gifts vs. Entitlement – Why asking for a honeymoon fund isn’t rude, but treating wedding guests like ATMs absolutely is. The Honeymoon Morning Meltdown – A “drama-free” wedding explodes when a mother-in-law steals car keys and demands a ride to the airport. Wedding Industry Pressure – How FOMO-driven marketing pushes couples to plan weddings they can’t realistically afford. Boundaries as a United Front – Why marriage requires choosing your partner first, especially when family crosses the line. From Shark Tank to Wedding World – Sara Margulis shares how Honeyfund grew and why fee-free gifting matters to modern couples. Honeymoon Planning Mistakes – The biggest financial mistakes couples make when planning travel—and how to avoid them. Choosing Peace Over Chaos – Why limiting contact with toxic family members can be necessary, even years after the wedding. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Don’t look at people as dollar signs at your wedding, look at them as people.” - Christa Innis “If you’d rather have someone there for a gift than their presence, you shouldn’t invite them. Be more excited to have them there versus a gift.” - Christa Innis “There are so many ways to make a wedding work at any budget — ultimately, it’s about the marriage, not the one big day.” - Sara Margulis “A gift is always at the discretion of the giver. You should never expect anything.” - Sara Margulis “Never plan a wedding where you’re counting on gifts to cover the cost.” - Sara Margulis “Nobody has any business expecting anything from a couple in the first weeks of marriage.” - Sara Margulis “Wedding drama doesn’t always end when the music stops.” - Christa Innis “Issues with in-laws come up all the time — and marriage is when you learn to stand united.” - Sara Margulis “Marriage works when you put each other first before everyone else.” - Sara Margulis “All the villains have a backstory — but that doesn’t excuse the behavior.” - Sara Margulis “Boundaries aren’t rude. They’re necessary.” - Christa Innis “The gift of experiences has become more important than the gift of stuff.” - Sara Margulis “FOMO-based wedding marketing makes people feel less than — and it needs to stop.” - Sara Margulis “If you wake up after your wedding broke and stressed, that’s not a great start.” - Sara Margulis “Boundaries don’t end relationships, they protect them.” - Sara Margulis About SaraSara Margulis is the co-founder and CEO of Honeyfund, a mission-driven platform that has empowered nearly 1.6 million couples to receive more than $1 billion in wedding gifts. What began as a personal project to fund her own honeymoon has grown into a company helping couples celebrate love and build a financially strong future.With a background in psychology and digital marketing, Sara leads Honeyfund with heart-centered, human-first leadership.She gained national attention after a memorable appearance on Shark Tank, where she secured an investment from Kevin O’Leary – not just for her savvy pitch, but for her vision of love and generosity powering a business. Her journey continues to inspire both entrepreneurs and couples alike.Follow Sara Margulis: Website Tiktok Instagram LinkedIn *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormF

Feb 5, 202659 min

Ep 5454: One-Year Anniversary Special: Audience Favorites, BIG Giveaway & a Toxic Engagement Story

Older. Employed. Owned a car. Buying a house. Apparently, those were the “red flags.”This week marks one year of Here Comes The Drama (yay!), and I’m sharing a deeply personal, most bizarre wedding story where an engagement triggered years of emotional manipulation, financial pressure, and escalating abuse. From blessing requests gone wrong to explosive ultimatums, we unpack how toxic family dynamics can surface during major life milestones. This story is heavy, but important.Plus, we’re celebrating one year of Here Comes The Drama! 🎉 Subscribe to my podcast and YouTube channel, and comment “Entered” on this episode’s YouTube video for a chance to win one $150 Visa gift card or one of two $25 Amazon gift cards. Winners will be announced on March 12.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Podcast Turns One – We’re celebrating one full year of Here Comes The Drama with a special giveaway: a $150 Visa gift card or one of two $25 Amazon gift cards. Would You Rather: Wedding Edition – I’m answering your toughest “would you rather” wedding dilemmas, from feuding relatives to money with strings attached, during our one year special episode. The “Blessing” That Became an Interrogation – What should’ve been a respectful conversation spirals into grilling, accusations, and power plays. Control Disguised as Concern – Parents frame normal age gaps, financial stability, and independence as red flags to maintain control. Financial Manipulation & Wedding Ultimatums – From demanding a master’s degree to refusing wedding support, money becomes leverage. The Attic Incident – Screaming, verbal abuse, and a father apologizing to the boyfriend instead of his daughter push everything over the edge. Choosing Safety & Ending the Cycle – Moving out, going no contact, and protecting future children becomes the ultimate act of healing. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode Control doesn’t always show up as anger, sometimes it shows up as “concern.” When your independence threatens someone, the behavior will escalate. Green flags can look like red flags to people who benefit from your dependence. Money with strings attached is never a gift. Protecting your peace sometimes means choosing distance, even when it’s painful. Ending the cycle is an act of love for the next generation. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jan 29, 202633 min

Ep 5353: Wedding Etiquette 101, Rapid Fire Questions & the Bad Luck Bride — with Mariah Humbert

What do you do when your entire wedding falls apart… and somehow still becomes perfect?This week’s listener story is pure, unfiltered chaos: the kind that makes you say, “No way this actually happened,” and yet every twist is real. A bride writes in with a saga of disappearing vendors, stolen deposits, a coordinator who quit 48 hours before the ceremony, a cheetah-print-wearing replacement photographer, a DJ cancellation that led to a 300-song DIY playlist (later destroyed by a guest hitting shuffle) — a wedding mayhem at its finest.Christa and etiquette expert Mariah Humbert break down the madness, the humor, and the unexpected life lessons in the mess: communication, flexibility, emotional intelligence, and remembering what actually matters. Because sometimes the weddings that go “wrong” end up being the ones you remember forever.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Wedding Mayhem & Resilience – How one bride navigated disappearing vendors, last-minute disasters, and chaos on the big day while still celebrating joyfully. Balancing Tradition & Personal Meaning – How couples can honor family customs without losing the parts of the day that matter most to them. The Stress Trap – Why brides often look back wishing they stressed less—and what mindset helps you avoid that spiral. Wedding Gifts Gone Wild – Listener confessions reveal the strangest gifts ever received… including a used kitchen appliance and a mountain of condoms. Regifting Rules – Mariah breaks down the etiquette: yes, you can regift… but absolutely not if it’s visibly used. The Wearing-Black Debate – Is black at a wedding disrespectful? Mariah explains the evolving etiquette and cultural considerations. Mindset on the Big Day – Why waking up with the right perspective can make or break your wedding. Making the Day Good for Everyone – The power couples have to influence the emotional tone of the entire event. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “If you wake up on the wrong side of the bed and stub your toe, it’s the end of the world. If the sun’s shining? You laugh it off.” – Christa Innis “Three things are gonna go wrong today—whatever. Just enjoy being surrounded by people who love you.” – Christa Innis “You don’t want those little things getting to you on a day you’ve waited your whole life for.” – Christa Innis “I’m always reading stories about wedding etiquette, but hearing it from an expert hits different.” – Christa Innis “Know your options… and maybe don’t gift someone a used turkey roaster.” – Christa Innis “Your job is to create a great experience for guests without losing the wedding you dreamed of.” – Mariah Humbert “Respect the traditions that matter to your family, but don’t let them erase what’s meaningful to you as a couple.” – Mariah Humbert “The one thing I wish I did differently was stress a little less.” – Mariah Humbert “Regifting is fine—but if it’s used, that’s a hard no.” – Mariah Humbert “Black at a wedding isn’t taboo anymore. Just be mindful of cultural context.” – Mariah Humbert About MariahMariah Grumet Humbert is a renowned etiquette expert and author, specializing in weddings and social celebrations. With years of experience guiding couples, families, and event hosts, Mariah combines her expertise with a warm, approachable style, helping people navigate the often tricky world of etiquette with confidence and grace. She is the author of What Do I Do: Every Wedding Etiquette Question Answered and The Essential Wedding Planner, and she shares her knowledge across her website and social platforms, including Instagram and TikTok. Known for her practical advice, attention to detail, and ability to bring calm and clarity to high-stress situations, Mariah is the go-to resource for anyone looking to celebrate life’s milestones with style, respect, and ease.Follow Mariah Website Tiktok Instagram Your ultimate wedding etiquette guide is here! Mariah Humbert answers every question you didn’t know you had—so your big day is smooth, stylish, and stress-free: What Do I Do?: Every Wedding Etiquette Question Answered*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr

Jan 22, 202649 min

Ep 5252: Wedding Feuds, Toxic Family Drama, and The Invisible String with Sarah Wizeman

Ever wondered what happens when your wedding is full of chaos and family feuds?This week on Here Comes The Drama, the wedding chaos reaches next-level insanity! Christa dives into a jaw-dropping story about no-kids wedding rules, a sister’s outrageous demands, and family drama that almost derailed the big day. Then, Christa and Sarah Wizeman break down the wildest wedding confessions from listeners, from toxic in-laws to surprise pregnancy announcements to overzealous sister-in-laws calling off weddings! Plus, Sarah shares her incredible journey as an author, her book The Invisible String, and her plans for monthly romance and bridal story releases—complete with skits on TikTok and YouTube. This episode is packed with drama, laughs, and insider wedding chaos you won’t want to miss.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Sister Drama & Guest List Battles – A no-kids rule sparks chaos when a bride’s sister insists her boyfriend’s daughter be included, leading to ultimatums, family arguments, and threats to skip the wedding entirely. Family Feuds & Step-Family Tension – Mom favoritism and step-family dynamics collide, creating heated conflicts over invitations and long-lasting emotional fallout. Long-Term Grudges & Wedding Fallout – Even small wedding decisions ripple for years—the bride and her sister barely speak, showing how family drama can outlast the celebration. Family Drama & Healing – Sarah opens up about her own wedding, her dad’s no-contact stance, and finding peace with supportive loved ones. The Invisible String Books – Discussion of Sarah’s two books, detailing connections, romance, and how her wedding experiences inspired storytelling. Skits That Educate – How Sarah turns real-life wedding chaos into relatable skits that teach communication and reflection. Wedding Proposal & Pregnancy Drama – Evaluating awkward and potentially disruptive moments at weddings, and how to handle them with grace. Vendor Chaos Stories – Tales of photographers and other vendors nearly derailing weddings, and how couples navigated it. Upcoming Projects & Skits – Sarah teases her monthly book releases, including a Hallmark-style Christmas tree farm story. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “People show their true colors in weddings—and it’s wild what comes out when the pressure’s on.” - Christa Innis “Sometimes the drama reveals who really has your back—and who doesn’t.” - Christa Innis “Watching chaos unfold in real life makes you rethink your own behavior too.” - Christa Innis “I never knew mothers-in-law could try to cancel weddings… until I heard it firsthand.” - Christa Innis “The right skit can turn drama into a lesson everyone remembers.”” - Christa Innis “By sharing my story, I realized I’m not alone—and neither is anyone else going through it.” - Sarah Wizeman “Wedding drama forced me to be grateful for the people who really showed up for me.” - Sarah Wizeman “Turning these moments into skits helps others reflect and even heal their own relationships.” - Sarah Wizeman “Communication is always the best. I tried reaching out, even when it didn’t work, because it’s worth it.” - Sarah Wizeman “Even without the perfect wedding, I found the perfect people around me who mattered most.” - Sarah Wizeman About SarahSarah Wizeman is the queen of TikTok wedding stories, from unhinged skits to “did-that-really-happen?” confessionals — and she is truly one of the most personable humans on the internet. She’s also an author (yes, a full-on romantic comedy writer!), and I’ve linked her books below because you’re absolutely going to want more of her after this episode. We had an absolute blast chatting, and she even shared her own jaw-dropping wedding drama that left me stunned — plus we dove into some wild listener submissions that took the chaos to a whole new level.Follow Sarah Tiktok Youtube Get 'The Invisible String' by Sarah Wizeman *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jan 15, 20261h 8m

Ep 5151: Rogue Maid of Honor, a Stolen $2,000 Veil, and DIY Wedding Confessions

“How does a seven-day wedding turn into disappearing bridesmaids, stolen wedding items, and a maid of honor who controls everything?”This week, I reflect on the fast pace of life in 2026 and share my personal goal for the year: finding pockets of presence amidst the chaos. Also, this week’s story is pure chaos: a wedding planned in one impossibly long week, a maid of honor sabotaging dresses, crushes, timelines, and even the bride’s veil, plus last-minute drama that left everyone questioning why she was chosen at all. In this episode, I break down the red flags, the boundaries, and why wedding parties should not be unpaid labor.Plus! New Year Giveaway: Win 1 of 4 $50 Amazon gift cards! Share a photo or screenshot of you listening, tag me @heychristainnis, and you’re entered. Winners will be announced on February 12!JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments A Wedding Planned in Seven Days – The couple caves to outside pressure and plans a full wedding in one impossibly chaotic week. The Maid of Honor’s Jealous Control – Emily dictates outfits, decisions, and even the wedding party lineup, manipulating the bride at every turn. Drama at Hair & Makeup – Emily confronts the bridesmaids, accuses them of betrayal, and storms off with half the bridal party. Addiction Secrets Revealed – A bridesmaid confides Emily’s struggles to the bride, igniting emotional fallout at the worst possible moment. Stolen Luxury Items – From shoplifting expensive décor to gifting a stolen $2,000 veil, the maid of honor's behavior escalates fast. Setup Chaos & Missing Support – The bride is forced to hammer tent stakes and manage heavy labor while her wedding party disappears. Crush Drama & Vanishing Acts – Emily leaves the wedding to chase her crush—while also flirting with the bridesmaid’s crush out of pure chaos. Lice, Lies, and Last-Minute Regrets – The bridesmaid catches lice from Emily twice, and the bride later admits she wishes she’d chosen a different maid of honor. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “How long is this week? This is the longest week I’ve ever heard of.” - Christa Innis “We cannot assume that being in your wedding party means unpaid labor.” - Christa Innis “Keep the bride out of the drama—especially the week of the wedding.” - Christa Innis “At some point, we have to take responsibility for ourselves.” - Christa Innis “If you’re planning a wedding in seven days, keep it stupid simple.” - Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jan 8, 202638 min

Ep 5050: The Mother of All Wedding Meltdowns: Stolen Funds, Sequin Gowns, & Shopping Disasters

Ever had your dream wedding hijacked by family drama?In this episode, I’m re-sharing an episode previously released for Patreon only, where we dive into wild mothers of the bride and the chaos they can create. From stolen wedding funds and sequin gowns to rehearsal dinner meltdowns, I walk you through four jaw-dropping stories straight from the Vault. These are the moments that make you laugh, gasp, and maybe rethink your own wedding planning.I also break down real-life etiquette fails, awkward tension, and lessons on setting boundaries—all while keeping the champagne flowing. Trust me, these moms are full of surprises.Plus, I’m celebrating episode 50 with a giveaway: four $50 Amazon gift cards! Just share a screenshot or post about the podcast and tag me @HeyChristaInnis.Grab a drink, tune in, and get ready for chaos, laughs, and jaw-dropping wedding drama!JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Stolen Wedding Funds – A mother takes thousands from the wedding fund, forcing the bride to DIY the night before. Hard Liquor Threats – The groom’s mom and uncle threaten to skip the wedding over drink options, showing how minor disagreements escalate fast. Bridesmaid & Groom Chaos – Drunk family members disrupt the reception, creating tension and awkwardness for everyone. Sequin Overload – The mother-of-the-bride shows up in a floor-length sequin gown for a rustic barn wedding. Rehearsal Dinner Meltdown – Miscommunication over invitations and payments spirals into public confrontations and tears. Family Whisper Wars – Moms and aunts whisper, judge, and hold grudges, overshadowing the bride’s excitement. Emotional Support Saves the Day – The mother-in-law steps in to comfort the bride during a meltdown. Episode 50 Giveaway – Celebrate with me! Four $50 Amazon gift cards up for grabs—just share a screenshot or post about the podcast and tag me @HeyChristaInnis. Half-Apologies & Lessons Learned – Despite chaos, boundaries and communication slowly restore some peace before the wedding. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “If you are paying for the wedding, it doesn’t mean you get to control everything—mutual respect goes a long way.” - Christa Innis “Wearing white as the mother of the bride? Passive-aggressive flex. Just don’t.” - Christa Innis “Let the bride and groom enjoy their day—don’t spill the drama before it even starts.” - Christa Innis “Family whispers, unspoken grudges, and judgmental glares—this is why weddings need champagne.” - Christa Innis “At the end of the day, it’s your choice. No right or wrong, just boundaries and keeping the peace.” - Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jan 1, 202638 min

Ep 4949: Mustard Dresses, Missing Bridesmaids, and Vegas Meltdowns

Would you still call her a bridesmaid if she skipped your wedding… to buy a car?I’m diving into one of the wildest submissions yet, the friend who threw a fit over a free mustard dress, ghosted the bridal prep, and flat-out didn’t show on the wedding day because her parents were offended. Yes. It gets worse.I also react to a viral Bridezilla story packed with outrageous demands, from $2,000 bridesmaid costs to rewriting heartfelt toasts. Plus, I roast some spicy wedding takes that had me saying, make it make sense!Note: This is a re-share of a previously Patreon-only episode — now unleashed for everyone who loves a little bridal chaos.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Mustard Dress Meltdown – A bridesmaid spirals over a gifted dress and turns the friendship icy. The No-Show That Shocked Me – She skipped my wedding for a brand-new car purchase. Priorities? Bridezilla Reddit Deep Dive – From insane budgets to forced Vegas trips, this bride broke every rule. Savage Wedding Takes – Family pressure, glam expectations, and MOH salary debates get roasted. Patreon Confessions Unlocked – Behind-the-scenes chaos now shared with the full drama squad. Boundaries vs Bonding – When being “too nice” costs you peace — and a dress. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “If you’re mad about a free dress, maybe the dress isn’t the problem.” - Christa Innis “The second someone tells me to dye my hair for a wedding? I’m out.” - Christa Innis “This isn’t a royal coronation, it’s a ceremony… relax.” - Christa Innis “Some people don’t want to be in your wedding — they want a front row seat to complain.” - Christa Innis “At that point? That’s not a bridesmaid. That’s emotional sabotage in heels.” - Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Dec 25, 202542 min

Ep 4848: Wedding Tornado, DIY Confessions, and Raw Photo Dilemma with Mackenna Hillis

Ever had your perfect wedding day ruined by Mother Nature? This week’s story submission had it all: a forecast for a sunny, dreamy outdoor ceremony, completely upended by flash flooding, thunder, and lightning while the bride and her bridesmaids were still at the salon. From soggy dresses to late groomsmen, a misnamed officiant, and a brother-in-law signing the marriage license incorrectly, total chaos. Yet the bride’s attitude remained unshakable.Mackenna and Christa dive into surviving unpredictable weather with backup plans, navigating multi-wedding venues and unexpected guest drama, and why little disasters, muddy dresses, eaten dinners, and wild relatives, don’t have to ruin the day.They also explore jaw-dropping DIY wedding confessions, from postpartum moms breaking their bodies for receptions that flopped to well-meaning family members being treated like unpaid staff. By the end, the storm passed, the photos were stunning, and the memories? Truly unforgettable.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Wedding Weather Chaos – A bride’s perfect sunny forecast turned into torrential rain, flash floods, and even a near tornado, proving that Mother Nature always keeps weddings interesting. Timing Troubles – Despite major delays getting to the venue and groomsmen running late, the ceremony only started five minutes behind schedule, showing quick thinking and adaptability saves the day. Vendor and Guest Mishaps – From officiants mixing up names to siblings eating the bride’s dinner, unexpected hiccups kept everyone on their toes—but didn’t ruin the celebration. DIY Wedding Insights – Mackenna and Christa discuss the joys and stress of DIY weddings, emphasizing knowing your limits, enjoying the process, and having supportive friends and family. Postpartum Supermom Moment – One bride cooked all the food just 19 days after a C-section, only to have guests not show up—a testament to dedication (and the chaos that can come with DIY weddings). Respecting Helpers – Stories of friends and family being treated like staff instead of loved ones highlighted the importance of gratitude and kindness at weddings. Memorable Family Styles – From hideous DIY dresses to motorcycle-riding grandparents arriving in leather and denim, the hosts celebrate letting family members own their style and quirks for authentic memories. Photography Perspective – Mackenna shares how professional photographers navigate wedding chaos, from unexpected weather to ensuring the couple gets the photos they deserve. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “There’s DIY for fun… and then there’s DIY for emotional damage.” - Christa Innis “Who is asking a postpartum mom to cook a whole wedding meal? Be serious.” - Christa Innis “The minute you treat people like staff instead of family, I’m side-eyeing you.” - Christa Innis “If it doesn’t bring you joy, it’s not a cute craft — it’s a stressor.” - Christa Innis “That’s not just a wedding drama… that’s a boundary violation.” - Christa Innis “Nineteen days postpartum and cooking? I could barely imagine standing.” - Mackenna “If someone’s helping, you don’t get to boss them around.” - Mackenna “That would make me mad as the bride AND as the friend.” - Mackenna “You have to know your relationship before calling out that dress.” - Mackenna “Some people just have their own style… even if it hurts a little to look at.” - Mackenna About MackennaMackenna is a Middle Tennessee photographer specializing in weddings, maternity, Fresh48, branding, lifestyle, and senior sessions. Known for her steady presence and calm, grounded energy, she’s captured every kind of wedding day—messy, emotional, beautiful, and everything in between. With an eye for real moments and a heart for her couples, Mackenna brings warmth, adaptability, and storytelling to every gallery she delivers.Follow Mackenna Facebook Instagram *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Dec 18, 202557 min

Ep 4747: The MOH Who Quit by Text, Tough Truths, and Vendor Confessions with Bethy Abdissa

Not all wedding horror stories start at the altar… some start with a “best friend” and a suspicious text message.This week, Christa sits down (again!) with wedding planner Bethy Abdissa for a raw, honest, and slightly unhinged look at what really happens behind the scenes… and yes, they dive headfirst into another jaw-dropping story that had them both saying: I’m sorry… WHAT? From timeline disasters to emotional design moments (sticky note love letters on cocktail napkins?!) Bethy gives the inside scoop on what couples get right, and where things spiral fast. And when Christa reads a listener’s submission about a maid of honor who drops out via text? Let’s just say… the tea is piping hot.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments MOH Drops It Like A Hot Potato – A maid of honor quits via text and the bride’s friendship spiral gets put under the microscope. Vendor Confessions From Hell – Real stories of photographers missing key moments and caterers showing up painfully late. Stress vs Preparedness – Why the brides who feel a little stressed are usually the most on top of their planning. Overstepping vs Support – When “helpful” bridesmaids cross the line and create more tension than peace. Emotional Design Done Right – From recreated love notes on napkins to guest experiences that hit straight in the feels. The 45-Wedding Summer – Bethy’s busiest season yet and the chaos that comes with it. Why You NEED a Coordinator – The forgotten hero who keeps your wedding from imploding in real time. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “That should be a T-shirt: DJs are my best friends and my worst enemies.” - Christa Innis “If they’re a little too calm, I start getting nervous.” - Christa Innis “People always need something to pick at. It’s emotional support cheese.” - Christa Innis “You never notice delays… until you’re cold and starving at your table.” - Christa Innis “Those extra set of hands come very handy.” - Christa Innis “If the caterer is two hours late, you just start praying.” - Bethy Abdissa “No stop means I can get you to 125K real quick.” - Bethy Abdissa “Flexibility matters, but boundaries matter more.” - Bethy Abdissa “I avoided that DJ like the plague.” - Bethy Abdissa “You’d rather lose a vendor than lose your coordinator.” - Bethy Abdissa About BethyBethy Abdissa is a dynamic wedding planner, content creator, and entrepreneur with a passion for storytelling and cultural inclusivity. Originally from Ethiopia, she moved to the United States 15 years ago and began her professional journey in finance and accounting. After realizing the corporate world wasn’t her calling, Bethy took a bold leap in 2022 to pursue her true passion: event planning.With over three years of experience as a wedding planner and a lifelong love for party planning, Bethy now specializes in coordinating weddings across the U.S., particularly in the DC, Maryland, Virginia, and Minneapolis areas. She’s also diving into the world of content creation—sharing makeup tips, hair styling, wedding insights, and self-development reflections through her TikTok channel, @Bethy_Creates. Long term, Bethy is working toward becoming a therapist, bringing her full-circle journey of creativity, empathy, and purpose to life.Follow BethyTiktok *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Dec 11, 20251h 8m

Ep 4646: Rules of Engagement, Hot Takes, and A Sister Rivalry with Lucette Brown

Ever been caught in sibling competition over life milestones?In this episode, Christa Innis and Lucette Brown dive into one listener’s wild tale of wedding conflicts. They cover topics such as handling toxic relationships, sibling rivalry, and balancing personal happiness with family expectations. The episode also includes unpopular opinions on wedding traditions, a humorous take on wedding speeches gone wrong, and the pressures of planning events. The episode ends with a rapid-fire Q&A about event planning and a heartfelt discussion on maintaining supportive family relationships.Join Christa and Lucette Brown as they unpack jealousy, toxicity, and the importance of support in family dynamics—plus, discover how to survive wedding chaos without losing your sanity.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Engagement Jealousy – Listener feels overlooked as her sister gets proposed to first despite being “less established.” Diamond Drama – Comparison of a real diamond versus an Etsy ring sparks tension and hurt feelings. Dress Appointment Feuds – Fat-phobic comments create conflict between sisters during bridesmaid dress shopping. Wedding Route Differences – One sister chooses Vegas elopement while the other plans a traditional wedding, escalating rivalry. Maid of Honor Dispute – Listener isn’t chosen as sister’s maid of honor, highlighting boundary and favoritism issues. Family Dynamics & Toxicity – Pent-up anger and competition reveal deeper familial struggles. Lesson in Support – Christa and Lucette discuss the importance of healthy boundaries and emotional support. Wedding Speech Nightmares – Confessions of inappropriate, cringe-worthy wedding speeches illustrate common wedding missteps. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Everyone has different boxes to check, don't compare your journey to theirs.” - Lucette Brown “Your feelings are always valid, but toxicity isn’t excusable just because it’s family.” - Lucette Brown “Let them be, sometimes you can’t force people into your bubble.” - Lucette Brown “If you’re unhappy with someone, either hash it out or step back.” - Lucette Brown “Just because someone’s your sister doesn’t mean they get a free pass to hurt you.” - Lucette Brown “If they can’t handle celebrating each other, just be guests at the wedding.” - Christa Innis “Pent-up anger doesn’t mix well with a bridal party; it's a recipe for disaster.” - Christa Innis “It’s not about the diamond or the dress, it's about who makes you feel supported.” - Christa Innis “Don’t hold resentment on your wedding day. Life’s too short for that.” - Christa Innis “Sometimes, cutting ties temporarily is the healthiest choice for both sides.” - Christa Innis “Not inviting toxic family members is self-care, not drama.” - Christa Innis About LucetteLucette Brown is a marketing professional with over 15 years of experience in the industry, focusing on digital and interactive channels. She has worked with senior staff members to achieve record sales, company growth, and strategic objectives. Lucette has extensive experience in wedding and event planning, which she translates into creative content through her TikTok and Instagram account. She also has training from Second City and iO Theater in Chicago, where she developed her storytelling skills. Currently based in Australia, Lucette continues to work in marketing and create content about the wedding and events industry.Follow Lucette Instagram Tiktok *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Dec 4, 20251h 4m

Ep 4545: Thanksgiving Special: Gratitude, Growth & Empowering Moments

What have weddings taught me after 45 episodes? More than I ever expected.From runaway brides to mothers-in-law who weaponize place cards, this past year has been filled with stories that cracked me open, lifted me up, and changed the way I see relationships entirely. In today’s special Thanksgiving episode, I’m bringing you the most heartfelt, jaw-dropping, empowering moments from the show — the ones that made me pause, tear up, rethink, and laugh out loud. These are the stories that reminded me why I started HCTD in the first place.Whether it’s choosing yourself, challenging tradition, or surviving the wildly unexpected, these moments will stick with you the way they stuck with me.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Check out the full featured episodes here: Education Hot Seats, Reality Checks & a Red Flag Romance — with Colleen Borgert Hired Bridesmaids, Fake Weddings, and a Parking Lot Party with Jen Glantz Baby Bumps, Brawls & Breaking the System with Payal Desai Sister Betrayal, Blood on the Dress & Wedding Regrets with My Best Friend, Ivette Bracken Queer Fashion, Wedding Etiquette and a SIL Showdown with Kati Kons Dress Codes, Divided Families & Day-Of Disasters With Lisa Pontius Career Pivots, Friendship Red Flags, and a Trashed Groomsuite — with Rebecca Rogers The Mental Load, Modern Motherhood & Drama That Sent Someone Packing — with Paige Connell Relationship Red Flags, Family Dynamics, and a Shocking ICU Revelation with Kate Gray, LMFT Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Real-Life Rom-Com – A wedding party meet-cute turns into a love story that proves fate sometimes shows up exactly when it should. The “I Don’t Want to Do This” Bride – Minutes before walking down the aisle, a bride confesses she hates the groom… and the solution is unlike anything you’ve heard. Internalized Misogyny in Marriage – A candid conversation about gender roles, cooking, and the pressure women still feel to “perform” domestic duties. The Dress Fitting Disaster – My own wedding dress nightmare involving blood, chaos, and an unexpectedly emotional hug. Fighting for Nontraditional Fashion – How one stylist is helping brides and grooms redefine what wedding attire should look like. Listener Story: When “Next of Kin” Turns Toxic – A partner is shut out of the ICU by her boyfriend’s mother after a tragic accident — and the fallout is heartbreaking. Listener Story: MIL Wedding Takeover – A mother-in-law forces half the guest list to be cut… for her tennis buddies. Yes, really. Listener Story: The Pocket Money Getaway – When a bride jokes about needing “escape cash,” the truth behind the humor becomes painfully real. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "If you’re wearing white to a wedding and you’re not the bride, you KNOW what you’re doing." - Christa "Cutting someone from your guest list isn’t personal—it’s practical. It’s your day, not a family reunion." - Christa "Traditions are great, but they shouldn’t hold you hostage. Your wedding should feel like YOU." - Christa "Weddings are about celebrating love, not throwing a party to impress people you barely talk to." - Ivette "If you have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping your boundaries—choose YOU." - Ivette *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Nov 27, 202558 min

Ep 4444: MILs, Feuds & Furry Guests — From the Vault with My MOH Ivette

When "I do" turns into "I don't know what to do." Wild.From unexpected guest list debates to a mother-in-law meltdown that left everyone speechless, Me and my best friend Ivette dive into the wild world of wedding chaos. This episode is packed with hot takes, emotional moments, and wedding horror stories you won’t believe! Should couples feel obligated to invite family? Is banning kids a crime? And why are so many in-laws acting like it’s THEIR big day?Listen in as I and my BFF and MOH Ivette spill the tea, share our own experiences, and remind you—it’s YOUR wedding, your rules.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Me and Ivette’s friendship journey—how we met and became inseparable Wedding guest list debates: Obligation vs. personal preference Mother-in-law horror stories: When family feuds take center stage Unpopular wedding opinions: Kids at weddings, guests wearing white, and more The pressure of tradition: When “that’s how it’s always been done” doesn’t work for you Wedding planning vs. Marriage preparation—what really matters? Bridesmaids & boundaries: What’s fair to expect from your wedding party? The most shocking wedding confessions submitted by listeners Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode "If you’re wearing white to a wedding and you’re not the bride, you KNOW what you’re doing." - Christa "Cutting someone from your guest list isn’t personal—it’s practical. It’s your day, not a family reunion." - Christa "Traditions are great, but they shouldn’t hold you hostage. Your wedding should feel like YOU." - Christa "Weddings are about celebrating love, not throwing a party to impress people you barely talk to." - Ivette "If you have to choose between keeping the peace and keeping your boundaries—choose YOU." - Ivette About IvetteIvette is not just a special guest—she’s one of my closest friends and the matron of honor from my own wedding. As a supportive friend who has been part of my journey long before Here Comes the Drama was even an idea, Ivette brings warmth, humor, and thoughtful insights to the conversation. With a deep appreciation for meaningful relationships and personal growth, she shares her take on wedding traditions, family dynamics, and setting boundaries in the chaos of wedding planning. Whether reflecting on her own experiences or reacting to jaw-dropping wedding drama, Ivette keeps it real with heart and honesty.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Nov 20, 202546 min

Ep 4343: Toxic Friends, Controlling Moms & Vendor Nightmares: Behind the Wedding Curtain

Ever heard of a maid of honor who made the entire wedding about herself?This episode features one of the wildest maid of honor stories ever submitted — from crashing bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower and stirring up chaos on the big day. Her behavior had everyone on edge.We’re also diving into stories about controlling parents putting financial pressure on young couples, vendors who ghost or show up late, and wedding speeches so cringe you’ll feel secondhand embarrassment.Get ready for jaw-dropping confessions, real talk, and a few laughs to help you survive the wedding madness without losing your mind.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Rogue Maid of Honor – From stealing attention at bridal appointments to sabotaging the shower, Megan’s jealousy wreaks havoc on the bride’s big moments. Controlling Parents – Navigating financial stress and overbearing advice from family during engagement and wedding planning. Vendor Nightmares – Photographers, makeup artists, and florists causing stress with miscommunications or mistakes. Wedding Speech Fails – Cringeworthy, inappropriate, and backhanded speeches that leave guests shocked. Bachelorette Party Chaos – Territorial bridesmaids, random guests, and drama that escalates tensions. Red Flags & Green Flags – Spotting warning signs in friends, family, and vendors to protect your day. Friendship Breakups – Weddings bring out everyone’s real personality — red flags just show up in heels. Therapy & Support Systems – Leaning on your partner and friends to endure drama while keeping wedding planning joyful. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Some people just can’t let you shine, and it’s okay to snip them out of your life.” — Christa Innis “Red flags at weddings are everywhere, from sketchy vendors to toxic bridesmaids.” — Christa Innis “Chaos loves company, but misery loves company even more.” — Christa Innis “You don’t give a microphone to someone who obviously hates you.” — Christa Innis “True colors always come out during big life moments, and that’s a gift in disguise.” — Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Nov 13, 202537 min

Ep 4242: Late Vendor, Red Flags & A Family Dressed in all Black

What happens when your in-laws hate you so much they all wear black to your wedding? This week, I’m diving into a listener story that starts with a secret elopement and ends in family chaos. We're talking group chat meltdowns, cold shoulders, and a mother-in-law who calls her “the family shame.”Then we’re spilling tea on a viral makeup artist who showed up late, blamed her calendar, and still thought a partial refund was enough. Spoiler: I have thoughts.Plus, the latest round of wedding confessions, from best men brawling to guests peeing in driveways. Because no matter how pretty the venue, no wedding is safe from the drama.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Viral Makeup Artist Fiasco – A vendor misses her call time and chaos unfolds. Christa breaks down what went wrong and whether the bride deserved a full refund. When to Ask for a Refund – Contracts, accountability, and why communication can make or break your big day. Fan Feedback That Hit Home – Christa reacts to a listener review suggesting new segment cues—and reveals how she’s improving the show. Red Flag vs. Green Flag: Wedding Edition – From brides demanding weight loss to car-obsessed grooms, Christa calls out what’s toxic vs. totally fine. The In-Law Showdown – One bride’s family nightmare that ended in heartbreak. Vendor Etiquette 101 – Why feeding your photographer isn’t just polite—it’s part of the contract. Family & Guest Drama Galore – From white jumpsuits to banned phones, Christa dishes on the social politics of weddings. Confessions Corner Returns – Real listener confessions: fights, public pee, and champagne theft. Christa’s Takeaway – A reminder to protect your peace, laugh through the madness, and maybe rethink that guest list. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “We are not giving nutrition plans or weight loss goals to our friends. That’s not our job, that’s a red flag.” – Christa Innis “If your makeup artist is late enough to delay the ceremony, I’d be hoping for a full refund, at least emotionally.” – Christa Innis “Let’s normalize letting people go if it’s not vibing. Even bridesmaids, it’s kind of like a job, right?” – Christa Innis “You can’t expect guests to lock their phones away in a box; it’s a wedding, not a top-secret mission.” – Christa Innis “Apparently, we’re a top leisure podcast even though I’m out here raising your blood pressure every week.” – Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Nov 6, 202536 min

Ep 4141: Highlights, Hard Truths & an Unexpected Wedding Crasher with Bailey Lavender

What happens when wedding day expectations clash with reality?From boundary-crossing vendors to guests who take things a little too far, this episode unpacks the chaos that unfolds when people forget who the day is really about.Bailey Lavender joins me for a candid chat on green flags, red flags, and how to set boundaries without being labeled a “bridezilla.” We share laughs, lessons, and real talk about communication, kindness, and staying true to yourself, no matter what drama comes your way.Because at the end of the day, the best weddings aren’t perfect, they’re honest, intentional, and unapologetically you.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Seamstress Saga – A wedding vendor takes “involvement” way too far, crossing professional boundaries and ruining key moments. When Vendors Forget Their Job – Christa and Bailey share why staying in your lane is crucial on someone else’s wedding day. The Bridesmaid Balancing Act – How to set limits and choose roles you can actually handle with love, not guilt. Boundaries ≠ Bridezilla – Why being firm about your expectations doesn’t make you difficult—it makes you wise. Kindness vs. People-Pleasing – Bailey opens up about learning when to say no to protect her peace (and her friendships). The Power of Professionalism – From photographers to coordinators, why doing your job well means knowing when to step back. The Cost of “Yes” Culture – How saying yes to everything can actually hurt the people you’re trying to help. Reclaiming the Moment – The bride’s plan to recreate her photos becomes a lesson in healing and taking back joy. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Being firm with your boundaries doesn’t make you a bridezilla—it makes you smart.” - Christa Innis “You can’t do it all, and saying yes to everything can actually hurt the people you’re trying to help.” - Christa Innis “Knowing your friends, and your limits, is key to surviving wedding season with your sanity intact.” - Christa Innis “It’s okay to decline being in a wedding if it’s not the right fit. Support can still look like showing up as a guest.” - Christa Innis “There’s a reason rules exist, because someone somewhere broke them first.” - Christa Innis “You have to show up wholeheartedly for what they’re asking of you, or you’re letting them down.” - Bailey Lavender “I can’t enjoy your day if I’m on the clock—so pick one: stylist or bridesmaid.” - Bailey Lavender “They forget it’s somebody’s important day and start thinking, ‘What can I get out of this?’” - Bailey Lavender “Not all kindness means saying yes, sometimes it means standing firm and protecting your peace.” - Bailey Lavender “Those Type A brides? They’ve got it right, they’re just making sure nothing ruins their day.” - Bailey Lavender About BaileyBailey Lavender is a vibrant hairstylist and digital creator known for her bold aesthetic and engaging online presence. She shares hair transformations, fashion finds, and lifestyle content across platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. With a passion for creative color work and community events like the San Antonio Hair Show, Bailey blends artistry with influence, inviting followers into her world of beauty, style, and self-expression.Follow Bailey Facebook Instagram Youtube Website Tiktok *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Oct 30, 20251h 6m

Ep 4040: A Postpartum Wedding, Seating Chart Snafu, and More Wedding Day Shockers

Imagine being told to pack up your three-day-old newborn and 18-month-old toddler, drive three and a half hours through a snowstorm… all to make it to a wedding. Wild, right?That’s just the beginning of this week’s story: because the drama only snowballs into kids being banned from weddings and a brother-in-law stuck in the middle! I’m also sharing the ultimate mother-in-law move: trying to hijack the bride’s carefully planned seating chart just to cozy up to her ex. You cannot make this stuff up.And of course, we’ll wrap it all up with quick-hit confessions: think sabotaged bouquets, off-white dresses, and a garter-removal protest that had the whole room cringing.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Snowstorm Showdown – A couple was expected to drive 3.5 hours through a blizzard with a three-day-old newborn and a toddler. Fresh Out of Delivery – The bride still demanded attendance, even though the mom had just given birth days before. MIL’s Seating-Chart Sabotage – Another listener story of a mother-in-law secretly trying to swap the bride’s seating plan at the venue. The 11-Year Revenge Laugh – Despite her MIL predicting divorce within a year, the couple is still happily married over a decade later. Bridal Shower Gone Wrong – The MIL’s last-minute bridal-shower invite left the bride’s family scrambling. Family Photo Standoff – The MIL refused joint photos, forcing the wedding photographer into an awkward split-family shoot. Confessions Segment – From a guest who slept in the groom’s bed with the best man to the cousin yelling during the garter toss. The Ivory Dress Excuse – A rehearsal-dinner fiasco when a sister tried to pass off an off-white dress as “not white.” Song-Stealing Drama – A future sister-in-law sparks outrage over a DJ playing “her wedding song” at someone else’s reception. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “People always say these MIL horror stories can’t be real… but I get them in my inbox every single week.” - Christa Innis “If you feel the need to say, ‘It’s not white, it’s ivory,’ then guess what? It’s probably white.” - Christa Innis “Some venues just don’t want to tell a pushy relative ‘no’, and that’s how the seating-chart sabotage begins.” - Christa Innis “I would love to hear these stories from the mother-in-law’s perspective. What does she think actually happened?” - Christa Innis “If a tradition makes everyone cringe—like the garter toss, maybe it’s time we let that one die.” - Christa Innis *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Oct 23, 202537 min

Ep 3939: Drunk Groom, Lost Eye & Celebrity Breakups with Cora Lakey

Ever seen a groom so drunk the venue owner had to hold him up for the cake cutting?Yeah… it’s that kind of episode. Christa and Cora Lakey spill the tea on one of the wildest wedding stories ever submitted: Fireball shots, a missing glass eye, and a bride in tears.From chaotic ceremonies to healing after heartbreak, this episode dives into what happens when boundaries vanish: on the aisle and in real life. Buckle up for celebrity breakups, red flags, and hard-earned lessons about love, growth, and protecting your peace.Some weddings are beautiful. This one? Unforgettable.JOIN ME IN GREECE OCTOBER 2026!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Dream Dress Derailed – A bride’s excitement is crushed when her mom says she can’t buy the dress because of her “back fat.” Cora’s Divorce Diaries – Cora shares how six months post-divorce brought her more growth than six years of marriage. Celebrity Illusions – Why perfect celebrity couples (and Instagram lives) aren’t what they seem. In-Laws Behaving Badly – The real cost of not setting boundaries early. Wedding Horror Story of the Year – A groom too drunk to stand, a glass-eyed guest crawling on the dance floor, and a bride who ran off crying. Generational Shifts in Marriage – How modern couples are redefining partnership and equality. Healing After Heartbreak – Learning self-worth and the power of starting over. Red Flag vs. Green Flag Game – The outrageous bridal party moments that test your patience (and loyalty). Boundaries Aren’t Mean – Why saying no is the most loving thing you can do for yourself. Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode “Boundaries aren’t mean. They’re how you take care of yourself—especially on your wedding day.” - Christa Innis “If someone’s money comes with strings attached, sometimes it’s better to say no.” - Christa Innis “Why do parents think they’re ‘giving us away’? I was already out living my life!” - Christa Innis “Your family should make you feel good on your wedding day, not add to the drama.” - Christa Innis “You deserve a wedding that feels like you—not a performance for everyone else.” - Christa Innis “Don’t accept money if it means losing control of your own wedding.” - Cora Lakey “I walked myself down the aisle because it felt right for me—that’s what matters.” - Cora Lakey “The people who push your boundaries usually have the strongest ones themselves.” - Cora Lakey “Weddings expose family dynamics in ways you can’t ignore—but it makes you stronger.” - Cora Lakey “Your wedding day is the perfect time to start doing things your way, no apologies.” - Cora Lakey About CoraCora Lakey is a lifestyle content creator and social media influencer who shares thoughtful reflections on wellness, personal growth, and life experiences, including navigating her divorce. She actively produces content on YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram, offering guidance and inspiration in areas such as self-care, emotional healing, healthy living, and mental well-being. Beyond sharing tips, she cultivates a supportive online community, engaging with followers to foster personal growth and resilience. Cora also adapts her content strategy across different platforms, blending storytelling, practical advice, and authentic insights to connect with a broad audience while encouraging positive lifestyle changes.Follow Cora Tiktok Instagram Youtube Website *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Oct 16, 202557 min

Ep 3838: Venmo Requests, Demanding In-Laws & A Bride’s Outrageous Ask

What’s worse: your dad bailing on your wedding and then sending you a Venmo request for the deposit, or your mother-in-law going on vacation with his ex? Yeah… welcome to this week’s chaos. I’m kicking things off with a brand new game: red flag vs. green flag wedding edition. Spoiler alert, locking up guest phones? HARD no. Then I’m diving headfirst into one of the messiest three-wedding family sagas you’ve ever heard. We’re talking divorces, mistresses, and family photos that should’ve come with a seating chart and a referee.And of course, I wrap it up with your confessions, the kind that remind us all that where there’s a wedding, there’s always, always drama.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Red Flag vs. Green Flag – We rapid-fire hot takes on wedding behaviors, from cash bars to late-night Taco Bell. The Phone Lock-Up Debate – Why banning phones is fine, but locking them away is a serious overstep. Dad’s Venmo Request – A father skips his daughter’s wedding… then asks for the venue money back. Seriously. Three Weddings, Endless Chaos – One family, three ceremonies, and a whole lot of awkward divisions. Mistress to Missus – The audacity of a dad marrying the woman he cheated with and expecting everyone to play along. The Peacekeeper Sister – Navigating sibling loyalties when parents’ drama overshadows the big day. Confessions Corner – Listeners spill about future in-laws inviting exes, surprise proposals, and engagement slip-ups. Storytelling Skits – Why I am ready to turn messy dad drama into my next viral skit. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Oct 9, 202534 min

Ep 3737: The Forced Bridesmaid, the Wedding Villain, and a Shocking Twist

“My sister wore a WHITE GOWN… to my rehearsal dinner.”Yep, that actually happened. This week, I’m spilling not one, but two jaw-dropping wedding stories where guests went full villain mode. We’re talking sisters stealing the spotlight, friends acting like frenemies, and a guest who thought white was her color—brace yourself.From family members who just can’t let go to attention-seekers desperate to make the day all about them, I’m breaking down the messy details with my signature mix of sass, humor, and straight talk.And it doesn’t stop there, confessions at the end of the episode include a drunken maid of honor, a mother-in-law in a massive black hat, and even a vow renewal request that will leave you SPEECHLESS.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Unpopular Opinions Unpacked – I’m diving into engagement rings, proposals, and why surprise proposals might actually be the worst idea. This or That: Wedding Edition – From cheesy DJs to awkward speeches, I’m debating the biggest wedding dilemmas. Sister Showdown – Bride’s big day was almost derailed by her sister’s shocking white dress choice. Frenemy in White – Yep, it’s the infamous Sabrina story—how one guest tried (and failed) to steal the spotlight. Mother-in-Law Chaos – When a MIL shows up in black and white with a statement hat, you know it’s personal. Vendor Nightmares – Let me tell you why hiring family as your photographer is a recipe for regret. Drunk Maid of Honor – One bride’s sister turned into a tipsy disaster before the ceremony even began. Confessions & Closing Tea – I’m wrapping up with jaw-dropping listener confessions and, of course, a little gratitude moment. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Oct 2, 202535 min

Ep 3636: Makeup Artist Drama, Reality TV, and Toxic Bridesmaid Who Ruins the Wedding with Antoinette

What kind of bridesmaid shows up in white to your bridal shower… with her mom in a matching “bride” sash?Christa and Antoinette start off with some fun chatter about Antoinette’s heroic job before jumping into the wild tale of Erica, the bridesmaid who just couldn’t stand not being the center of attention. From sulking on a pontoon boat to hijacking the bridal shower, her jealousy turned every moment into a spectacle.This episode is full of outrageous behavior, red flags in friendships, and lessons on boundaries, jealousy, and protecting your peace while planning your big day.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Jealous Bridesmaid - Erica sulks during a boat ride after hearing about her friend’s engagement, igniting a downward spiral of jealousy. Disrespectful Comments - The moment Erica's jealousy flares when she makes a rude comment about the bride’s proposal ring. Bridal Shower Drama - Erica shows up in white at the bride’s bridal shower, making the event all about herself. Bachelorette Trip Tantrum - Erica and her boyfriend’s constant complaints and early departure from the bachelorette weekend. Bridal Shower Exit - Erica leaves the shower early with an excuse, hinting at deeper unresolved issues. Blocked & Uninvited - After a final confrontation, Erica blocks the bride and bridesmaids, effectively ending the friendship. Red Flags & Final Decisions - The bride reflects on the red flags in Erica’s behavior and why she should have cut ties earlier. About Antoinette:Meet Antoinette (@msrazzledazzle), your reality TV and pop culture bestie. With over 37K followers and 3.2 million likes on TikTok, she’s built a vibrant community around her sharp takes, playful commentary, and unapologetic love for all things drama. From Love Island to Black Mirror, Antoinette dives into the juiciest corners of reality TV with wit, warmth, and a dash of razzle-dazzle. Whether she’s spilling tea or breaking down the latest season of Summer House, she brings a voice that’s both relatable and razor-sharp.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Antoinette: Tiktok Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Sep 25, 20251h 0m

Ep 3535: A Shocking Bridezilla, Wedding Rules Gone Wild & a Book #2 Sneak Peek

What happens when a bride bans her bridesmaids from getting engaged or pregnant for two years? Welcome to today’s Bridezilla saga.Christa reacts to a viral Reddit wedding horror story filled with outrageous demands: daily group chats, pricey dress fittings years in advance, and rules like “don’t look hotter than the bride.”Then the chaos shifts to family feuds, shower invites without wedding invites, parents footing the bill, and a brother who plays the victim at every turn. Two weddings, endless drama, and a crash course in setting boundaries.PLUS—Christa reads a juicy snippet from book two of her Here Comes the Drama series!My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The No-Life Rule – Bride tells bridesmaids they can’t get engaged or pregnant for two years before her wedding. The Price of Friendship – Bridesmaids expected to cover all her meals, drinks, Ubers, and bachelorette trip costs. Dress Code Chaos – Costly bridesmaid dresses ordered a year early, plus mandatory “mock try-on” videos. Group Chat Prison – Multiple platforms, constant tagging, and shaming if bridesmaids didn’t reply instantly. Body Shaming Bombshell – Bride tells a postpartum bridesmaid to “lose the baby weight” for the wedding. Copycat Behavior – Bride mimics her friend’s pets, car, hobbies, and even pregnancy timing. Family Feud Fallout – Brother refuses to invite his own siblings to his daughter’s wedding, after demanding generous shower gifts. Empty Pews, Full Drama – The wedding day ends with two-thirds of the bride’s side of the church empty. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Sep 18, 202540 min

Ep 3434: Education Hot Seats, Reality Checks & a Red Flag Romance — with Colleen Borgert

Weddings can bring out the best and the worst in families but what happens when the drama takes center stage?In this episode, Christa and Colleen Borgert dive deep into a story about a whirlwind engagement, a strained family dynamic, and a wedding that almost didn’t happen. Did the bride make the right choice when she called off the marriage after just one month?Tune in as Christa and Colleen share candid thoughts on red flags, family loyalty, and how important it is to trust your instincts when the pressure's on. A powerful reminder that it’s never too late to walk away from a bad relationship.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Engagement Red Flags - The couple’s whirlwind engagement raised questions about moving too fast and overlooking key signs. Family Drama Unfolds - The bride’s experience with her fiancé’s family dynamics and how it impacted her big day. The Sister's Role - Colleen shares her thoughts on the fiancé's younger sister and the implications of her behavior. Unspoken Expectations - How family members’ expectations can shape wedding plans, and the consequences of unmet expectations. The Pushback on No Kids Policy - Colleen's wedding no-kids policy and the pushback it created from family members. Taking Control of Your Wedding - The importance of setting boundaries with family members and ensuring the wedding day feels right for the couple. Dealing with Toxic Family Members - The challenges of navigating toxic family relationships and prioritizing your own happiness. A Bold Divorce Decision - The courage it took for the bride to end the marriage and choose a life that was healthier for her. About Colleen:Colleen Borgert is a Catholic ESL Director, wife, and mom with 15 years of experience in education. She is passionate about advocating for all students and dedicated to unlearning and growing into the best version of herself. Colleen's journey into TikTok began as a way to raise awareness for a comfort closet in her school, providing essential items like toothbrushes, socks, and deodorant for at-risk students. Her efforts gained traction, and after the election, her content evolved to reflect the changing landscape of education. Now, Colleen shares insights on shifting educational laws and provides parents with important updates on what’s happening in their local schools.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Colleen Borgert: Website TikTok Instagram LinkedIn Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Sep 11, 202559 min

Ep 3333: The Mental Load, Modern Motherhood & Drama That Sent Someone Packing — with Paige Connell

Ever wonder what happens when a mother-in-law goes full wedding meltdown mode? This episode dives into an unforgettable wedding story where chaos, drama, and unexpected twists steal the spotlight. From limo mix-ups and cross necklace demands to elopements and courthouse ceremonies, these real-life tales prove weddings rarely go as planned.Listen as Christa and Paige navigate fiery family dynamics, outrageous demands, and the art of keeping your day stress-free despite unpredictable relatives.Whether it’s dodging drama or finding joy in the unexpected, these stories remind us that love, and a little patience, always wins.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Guest List War – How a simple seating decision spiraled into a full family fight. Bridesmaid Betrayal – The shocking move the bridesmaid made behind her back. Mother-in-Law Overreach – The bold demands that crossed every line. Setting Boundaries Under Fire – The moment the bride decided to stand her ground. Choosing Peace Over People-Pleasing – Why walking away from tradition saved her sanity. The Fallout After the Wedding – The lasting impact of these choices on family relationships. What Paige Would Do Differently – Her biggest takeaway for anyone planning a wedding. About Paige:Paige is a working mother of four who shares relatable content on TikTok and Instagram, highlighting the everyday experiences of women balancing motherhood, careers, and relationships. Known for her candid insights on the mental load of motherhood and the challenges of creating equity at home and work, Paige’s content resonates with millions. She also advocates for affordable childcare, paid leave, and reproductive rights, sparking important conversations about what families need to thrive. Her impactful voice and relatable storytelling have led to features in Scary Mommy, The Today Show, Good Morning America, and more.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Paige Connell: Website TikTok Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Sep 4, 202545 min

Ep 3232: Stories from the Vault: My In-Laws Hijacked My Wedding!” (+ Bonus Teaser!)

Ever wonder what happens when a mother of the groom tries to hijack her son’s holiday plans?Grab your wine, because this episode is a rollercoaster of family drama and jaw-dropping holiday chaos. Christa shares part 1 of Here Comes The Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story, diving into Kate’s controlling ways and Ferris’ careful navigation to protect his relationship with Sloan. From Thanksgiving meltdowns to snow-covered windows, emotions flare, boundaries are tested, and secrets threaten to spill.Stick around for the jaw-dropper: a carefully planned vacation turns into a perfect surprise. Will mom ruin it or finally learn to step back? Listen in and experience holiday drama like never before.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Birthday Special Announcement – Christa shares it’s her birthday and gives listeners a bonus look at a Patreon episode. Podcast & Book Updates – Highlights the audiobook release and exclusive author’s note for fans. Fiancé’s Silence – The groom-to-be stays surprisingly calm, brushing off the friend’s toxic behavior. Family Dynamics – Relatives get involved, adding fuel to the fire and complicating emotions. Mother of the Groom Chaos – Kate panics over Ferris and Sloan’s Christmas vacation, creating tension. Holiday Meltdown – Thanksgiving turns dramatic with red wine stains, snow, and heightened emotions. Ferris’ Firm Stand – Ferris sets boundaries with his mom while remaining respectful, protecting his relationship. Subtle Support from Ted – Dad quietly navigates the drama, encouraging Ferris without escalating tension. Vacation Planning Drama – Kate tries to insert herself into the couple’s plans despite their wishes. Surprise Proposal Tease – Ferris plans a proposal, creating a cliffhanger moment that leaves everyone on edge. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Aug 28, 202557 min

Ep 3131: Hired Bridesmaids, Fake Weddings, and a Parking Lot Party with Jen Glantz

Weddings and meltdowns? A tale as old as time. In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, Christa chats with Jen Glantz, professional bridesmaid and founder of Bridesmaid for Hire, about the chaos, comedy, and confessions that come with walking down the aisle.From makeup disasters to fire alarms (yes, really), we hear a wild listener story that proves a great attitude and a solid DJ can save any wedding. Jen also shares her bold take on why the bridesmaid tradition might be on its way out — and we are HERE for it.So grab your glass of champagne and tune in for secrets, laughs, and a whole lot of drama. Because if it didn’t go off the rails at least once, was it even a wedding?My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments When Makeup Goes Rogue – One bridesmaid's obsession with touch-ups led to mismatched foundation and delayed the entire glam schedule. A perfect example of beauty chaos in action. Locked in the Bridal Suite – Just minutes before the ceremony, the bride was accidentally locked in a historic art museum room by a kid… and had to be freed by maintenance. The Corn-on-the-Cob Catastrophe – Steam from dinner set off the museum’s smoke detectors, forcing a full-on evacuation mid-wedding. Yes, over corn. Dancing in the Parking Lot – With no venue access, the bartender rolled out drinks and the DJ kept the party going outside. Crisis = avoided. The Uninvited Plus-One – An estranged wife of a guest showed up unannounced and partied like she was on the list. Because of course she did. The Case for Bridesmaid Extinction – Jen shares her spicy hot take that bridesmaids aren’t just unnecessary, they're on their way out completely. Strangers Are the Best Listeners – Jen opens up about why she connects more deeply with strangers than friends, and how that makes her job as a pro bridesmaid uniquely powerful. Chaos, Confessions, and a Wedding That Still Won – Despite the disasters, the couple (and their guests) still call it the most fun wedding they’ve ever been to, and that’s the real win. About Jen:Jen Glantz turned a closet full of bridesmaid dresses into a bold idea: what if you could hire a professional bridesmaid? After joking about always being a bridesmaid, a lightbulb moment, and a Craigslist ad, led to 250+ inquiries in two days. In 2014, she launched Bridesmaid for Hire, offering unbiased support in a $300B wedding industry. Since then, Jen’s helped hundreds of clients, trained a team of pros, and become the go-to expert on wedding chaos, featured on the TODAY Show, GMA, and more.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Jen Glantz: Website TikTok Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Aug 21, 202545 min

Ep 3030: The Best of the Best: Brides, Betrayals, and Shocking Moments

Ever wondered what happens when your maid of honor ghosts you before the wedding? Or when your vendors vanish right after the ceremony?In this solo episode, we relive the wildest guest submissions from Here Comes the Drama, and trust—these stories are chaotic, cringey, and completely unforgettable: Baby Bumps, Brawls & Breaking the System with Payal Desai Vegas Vows, MIL Meltdown, and Uninvited Guests with Saron Olkaba Mother-in-Law Drama: Wedding Secrets, Demands, and Hot Takes with Suzanne Lambert Career Pivots, Friendship Red Flags, and a Trashed Groomsuite — with Rebecca Rogers Money Fights, Fake Promises, and a Forgetful DJ with Cassie Horrell From unexpected RSVP dropouts to emotional fallouts with best friends, I walk through the most jaw-dropping stories that left couples speechless, and sometimes, in tears. Whether you're planning your own wedding or just love the mess, these listener tales offer both caution and catharsis.And yes, we're naming names (well, not really)—but we are talking about the friend who asked for a dress budget… then didn’t show up. Buckle up for the confessions that didn’t make the seating chart.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Maid of Honor Vanishes - One listener shares how her MOH disappeared before the wedding—and never explained why. No-Show Vendors - A couple pays in full for vendors who left immediately after the ceremony with no warning. Ghosted by a Guest - A friend confirms attendance, asks about the dress code… and never shows up. Mother-in-Law Cold Shoulder - One bride describes how her MIL ignored her while she walked in wearing white. Unexpected Plus-One - A groomsman brings a date who tries to break into the groom’s suite. RSVP Regret - Brides reflect on the pain of rearranging for people who backed out last minute. Dress Paid, Friendship Lost - A bride pays for her friend’s dress, who then stops speaking to her. Bridesmaid Burnout - Emotional stories from women who sacrificed time, money, and mental health for other people’s weddings. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Aug 14, 202545 min

Ep 2929: Sister Betrayal, Blood on the Dress & Wedding Regrets with My Best Friend, Ivette Bracken

What do you do when the person who’s supposed to love you the most becomes your loudest bully?In this episode, Ivette and I dive headfirst into the betrayal, the shame, and the silence that followed. We talk about what it means to grow up misunderstood, to be mocked for your mental health, and to finally say, “I’m done.”If you’ve ever had to protect your peace at the cost of a relationship or felt that sick gut-drop when someone weaponizes your vulnerability this one’s for you. It’s raw. It’s painful. And it might be the most honest we’ve ever gotten.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Blood on the Wedding DressChrista shares a surreal moment at her dress fitting involving actual blood and the wild way it was handled. Private Tears vs. Public PanicIvette chooses where she'd rather break down on wedding day, sparking a convo about emotional safety and stage fright. Therapy or Voice Notes?A lighthearted but revealing take on whether pre-wedding therapy trumps endless best friend venting. The Dress Fitting BreakdownChrista unexpectedly spirals while recalling her fitting fiasco and finally tells the story in full. Boundaries, Brides, and Breakdown MomentsThe duo unpacks what it really takes to stay sane and self-respecting in the pressure cooker of wedding culture. The Speech That Cut DeepAt the rehearsal dinner, her sister mocked her mental health journey in front of everyone—with a cruel “joke” about her depression that left the room stunned. Golden Child Gone RogueThe submitter opens up about growing up in her sister’s shadow—the loud, confident sibling who never took her mental health seriously and finally crossed the line. Depression Isn't a PunchlineChrista and Ivette get real about how damaging it is when mental illness becomes a family joke—and why staying silent is no longer an option. About Ivette:Ivette is a mommy, a wife, and a psychotherapist in training. She loves girl talk and giving unsolicited advice. She's all about conversations that matter because she believes people matter. She was also Christa’s Maid of Honor in her wedding. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Aug 7, 20251h 7m

Ep 2828: Relationship Red Flags, Family Dynamics, and a Shocking ICU Revelation with Kate Gray, LMFT

“You're just the mother of his child.”That one sentence cut deeper than any legal document could fix. When a tragic motorcycle accident left her partner in a coma, our storyteller learned the hard way what “not being married” really meant. What followed? A secret wedding, a livid mother-in-law, and a decades-long family rift and guest Kate Gray dissect this jaw-dropping submission with raw empathy, real questions, and a heavy dose of “WHAT just happened?” They unpack what happens when legal ties or the lack of them collide with family loyalty and personal boundaries.Also in this episode: ruined wedding invites, Karen-level MIL energy, and the emotional weight of doing what's best for your own future even if it means letting go of your past. If you’ve ever doubted whether the legal stuff really matters, this story will have you rethinking everything.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Life-Changing Crash – A traumatic brain injury left her partner in a coma… and her completely powerless. Locked Out of the ICU – Despite living together and raising a child, she was denied access to his medical care by his own mother. Secret Wedding Surprise – They threw a barbecue that turned into a surprise wedding… and the MIL didn’t know until the cake rolled out. Family Fallout – What followed was over a decade of strained family dynamics, emotional boundaries, and financial detangling. Power of Legal Ties – Kate and Christa explore how love, legality, and next-of-kin status affect real lives in unexpected emergencies. Enmeshment & Control – What happens when parents can’t emotionally separate from their adult children? Boundaries vs Protection – Should you tell your partner everything—even when it might hurt them? MIL Chaos Strikes Again – Christa shares the viral story of a MIL destroying wedding invites out of spite. About Kate:Kate Gray, better known online as Codependency Kate, is a couples therapist, married mom, and refreshingly real voice on all things relationships. With a deep understanding of family systems, emotional boundaries, and the unspoken chaos behind “normal” wedding and marriage dynamics, Kate offers the kind of education you wish someone had given you sooner. Her mission? To help you stop blaming yourself and start understanding the why behind your relationship struggles. Kate doesn’t just talk theory, she gets into the messy, emotional, behind-the-scenes stuff that can make or break partnerships, especially when family dynamics, trauma, or toxic in-laws get involved. Her content bridges the gap between formal therapy and real-life application, empowering listeners with language, tools, and clarity to protect what matters most.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Kate Gray: Youtube TikTok Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jul 31, 202557 min

Ep 2727: Money Moves, Wedding Scams & Saying No with Financial Expert Tori Dunlap

What would you do if your dream wedding turned into a financial nightmare overnight?In this jaw-dropping episode, Christa and financial expert, bestselling author of Financial Feminist, host of the #1 financial podcast for women, and founder of Her First $100K Tori Dunlap (@herfirst100k) dive into a listener’s wild story about ghosted coordinators, surprise charges, and maxed-out credit cards — all on the big day. You’ll learn exactly how to fight back when a venue drops the ball and your wallet pays the price.Grab your notebook, because you’ll want to keep these must-know negotiation strategies in your back pocket for any big event.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Wedding Venue Gone Wrong – Hear how one couple’s fairytale venue turned into a triple-coordinator fiasco. Ghosted Before “I Do” – The shocking story of unanswered emails, no-shows, and last-minute coordinator swaps. Surprise Costs & Credit Card Stress – Learn what happens when unexpected charges hit your wedding budget. What You Can Actually Dispute – Tori explains how to use your credit card company as your best wedding ally. Gather That Paper Trail – Christa and Tori share why documentation is the real wedding day MVP. Negotiation is NOT “Being a Karen” – The difference between advocating for yourself vs. just complaining. Know Your Rights as a Bride – Actionable advice on contracts, refunds, and holding vendors accountable. About Tori:Tori Dunlap is an internationally-recognized money and career expert, New York Times bestselling author, and podcast host. After saving $100,000 at age 25, Tori quit her corporate job in marketing and founded Her First $100K to fight financial inequality by giving women actionable resources to better their money. She has helped over five million women negotiate salary, pay off debt, build savings, and invest. Author of the instant New York Times bestselling book “Financial Feminist”; host of the #1 Business Podcast, Financial Feminist; a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree; and co-creator of Treasury, an investing education platform that has over $100M invested (featured on New York Times Business front page), Tori's work has been featured on Good Morning America, TODAY, the New York Times, CNN, BBC and more. Tori now travels the world writing and speaking about personal finance, online businesses, and confidence for women.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Tori Dunlap: Website LinkedIn Instagram TikTok Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jul 24, 202548 min

Ep 2626: Queer Fashion, Wedding Etiquette and a SIL Showdown with Kati Kons

What happens when a bride’s sister demands the wedding photos be moved — because she’s pregnant? This episode dives into a real-life story filled with family tension, wedding day stress, and boundary crossing. Christa and Kati unpack the drama behind the scenes: from feelings of entitlement to unspoken rivalries and the pressure of making a wedding day perfect for everyone.If you’ve ever wondered how far you should bend for family or what’s really acceptable at weddings, this episode is for you. Plus, they share honest reflections on friendship, jealousy, and the tricky art of RSVP etiquette.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Photo Location Drama — Should a bride accommodate a pregnant sister’s request to move photo shoots on the wedding day? Family Tension and Silent Rivalry — Exploring possible jealousy and competition between siblings at weddings. When Love Isn’t Transactional — Discussing the expectation of reciprocity in wedding roles and attendance. The Importance of RSVP Etiquette — How a simple “yes” or “no” can save the bride and groom headaches. Photographer vs. Planner Roles — Why having a dedicated wedding planner is crucial to avoid chaos. Pregnancy and Wedding Participation — Respecting health and energy limits without guilt-tripping. Friendship Boundaries Post-Wedding — Navigating hurt feelings when friends can’t attend your big day. Legal Marriage vs. Long-Term Partnerships — When wedding guest lists exclude “non-married” partners, and why that’s problematic. About Kati:Kati Kons is a queer wedding fashion stylist based in Washington, D.C. They specialize in helping queer individuals find affirming and non-traditional attire for weddings and other formal events. Kati works with nearlyweds, guests, and vendors, guiding them through the process of finding attire that reflects their personal style and identity. They are known for their inclusive and affirming approach to wedding fashion, particularly for those who may not find themselves represented in traditional wedding attire.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Kati Kons: TikTok YouTube Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jul 17, 20251h 3m

Ep 2525: “My Best Friend’s Wedding”: Insane Demands, $600 Suit, and A Secret Scandal

What happens when wedding planning turns into a battleground of loyalty, identity, and deception?In this gripping episode, the best man shares her emotional journey navigating a chaotic wedding filled with hidden truths, impossible demands, and fractured friendships. From forced tattoo cover-ups to $600 suits no one wanted, the pressure mounts in every corner. Listen as Christa breaks down the complex dynamics of love, friendship, and toxic relationships that threaten to unravel the celebration. This story reveals the heavy cost of “perfect” weddings and the price paid when people are asked to change who they are.Join us for an unforgettable episode that goes beyond the ceremony to expose the real drama behind the scenes — and the heartbreak that follows.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments Tattoo Controversy – The best man is asked to cover her tattoos for photos, while bridesmaids proudly display theirs, highlighting unfair double standards. Wardrobe Wars – Confusing and costly suit fittings with last-minute fabric changes create tension and frustration among the groomsmen. Friendship vs. Fiancé – The groom’s conflicted loyalty between his future wife and longtime best friend creates emotional turmoil. Makeup Mandate – Pressure to get professional makeup done causes discomfort and unnecessary expenses for the bridal party. Secrets Revealed – A shocking discovery about the bride’s past threatens the foundation of the couple’s relationship. Wedding Day Hypocrisy – Visible tattoos on bridesmaids but hidden on the best man expose inconsistencies in wedding expectations. Emotional Speech – The best man’s heartfelt and surprising wedding speech leaves everyone stunned, even the groom. Aftermath & Reflection – Four months later, the fallout continues with strained relationships and unresolved issues. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jul 10, 202531 min

Ep 2424: Wedding Nightmare, Bridesmaid Burnout & Hot Takes With Lisandra Vazquez

Ever felt like saying no to being a bridesmaid? Lisandra Vazquez spills the raw truth about why she’s done with being in wedding parties… forever.From destination weddings she never even made it to, to the awkward aftermath when friends cut ties, Lisandra and Christa unpack the messy side of adult friendships, money guilt, and wedding obligations no one talks about.If you’ve ever felt pressured to go broke for someone else’s big day, grab your headphones. You’re not alone and this episode is your permission slip to protect your peace.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Join me on Patreon and get bonus content every month! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments When Destination Weddings Become Too Much – The shocking story of how a canceled flight ended a friendship for good. Hot Takes On Outdated Traditions – Garter tosses, group chats, and destination showers—Lisandra says what we’re all thinking. Real Talk: It’s Okay To Walk Away – How standing up for your time, money, and sanity saves friendships worth keeping. Comedy, Culture & Creative Hustle – Lisandra shares her creative journey from acting to stand-up and finding her voice online. Permission To Protect Your Peace – Christa and Lisandra wrap with empowering advice for anyone feeling stuck in wedding guilt. About LisandraLisandra is a Puerto Rican-born, Atlanta-based stand up comedian, actor, activist, and creator. With a background in acting and improv, Lisandra's high-energy yet dry storytelling point of view is based on her experiences as a Latina millennial, her take on pop culture, politics, and more. She is a regular at the Laughing Skull Lounge and has performed all over the country.She has opened for Aida Rodriguez, Dulcé Sloan, Lace Larrabee, and other touring comics.She has worked with organizations like Climate Power, Generation180, GasLeaks, and more.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Lisandra TikTok YouTube Instagram Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jul 3, 202554 min

Ep 2323: Career Pivots, Friendship Red Flags, and a Trashed Groomsuite — with Rebecca Rogers

What would you do if a random wedding guest ate your lunch, faked an emergency, and trashed the groom suite? Rebecca Rogers joins Christa for one of the most unhinged stories HCTD has ever featured.They also get real about toxic friendships, the loneliness of online work, and the importance of recognizing red flags—at weddings and in life. Rebecca opens up about her teaching-to-TikTok pivot, setting boundaries, and why she’ll never apologize for using her voice.This one’s part comedy, part therapy, and all chaos. (Also: how not to propose during a graduation.)My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Join me on Patreon and get bonus content every month! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Infamous Wedding Crasher - A guest of a groomsman eats the bride’s lunch, causes chaos in the suites, and ends the night with a shocking twist. From Classroom to Camera - How Rebecca accidentally became a viral voice for teachers and learned to advocate through storytelling and humor. Finding Your Voice Online - They talk about isolation as creators, building authentic community, and what it means to be truly seen. About RebeccaRebecca Rogers is a former high school teacher based in Raleigh, North Carolina, with a BA in History and a licensure in Social Studies Education. She first turned to social media during remote learning as a creative way to connect with her students—and quickly found her voice online. Since then, she has grown her presence into a full-fledged brand, with over 2 million followers across TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram. Widely recognized as a “teacher influencer,” Rebecca uses her platform to educate, entertain, and inspire, all with the goal of making the world a better place—one smile at a time.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Rebecca TikTok YouTube Instagram Facebook Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jun 26, 20251h 18m

Ep 2222: Dress Codes, Divided Families & Day-Of Disasters With Lisa P.

What happens when a dream wedding breaks more than just budgets?In this episode, Lisa Pontius shares how her whirlwind romance turned into a wedding that fractured friendships—literally.From unexpected parent fallout to the silent war of traditions and finances, Christa and Lisa unpack the hidden landmines of wedding planning that no one warns you about.Plus, they dive into viral hot takes—from guest dress codes to social media restrictions—and ask: are you really ready to get married, or just pressured to?My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Join me on Patreon and get bonus content every month! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments When the In-Laws Stop Speaking – Lisa shares how her and her husband’s parents became friends, then stopped speaking after the wedding drama unfolded. Wedding Planning Pressure Cooker – Money, expectations, and tradition clashed hard during Lisa’s wedding, revealing everyone’s “ugliest selves.” The Myth of the Perfect Day – Lisa reflects on being the bride: “I wish I had been a guest at my own wedding.” Setting Social Media Limits – Can couples really control what guests post? Lisa shares her surprisingly balanced take. Marriage > Wedding – With 12 years of marriage behind her, Lisa offers clarity on what really matters post-vows. Planning Regrets and Lessons Learned – Why day-of coordinators are non-negotiable, and what every bride should do first. About LisaLisa Pontius is a New Yorker-turned-Charleston housewife who brings bold opinions, vintage glam, and real talk to every conversation. A former culinary school grad and kitchen pirate, Lisa traded 12-hour shifts for southern living—and never looked back. She first began sharing her story online during the pandemic and quickly found her voice talking about motherhood, self-worth, toxic relationships, and societal norms—always with a splash of style. Now known for her blend of 1950s glamour and modern edge, Lisa dishes up a mix of fashion, fire, and unfiltered honesty that's anything but boring.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Lisa P. TikTok Website Instagram Facebook Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jun 19, 202548 min

Ep 2121: Book Launch Day + A Wedding Party Meltdown You Won’t Believe

What happens when a bride hates planning her own wedding, but demands a Vegas blowout and expects everyone else to make it magical?In this episode, I share my biggest milestone yet: the official launch of my debut book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story, plus a jaw-dropping listener-submitted story that defines the word “ungrateful.”I also break down wedding hot takes, the importance of boundaries, and why saying “no” is sometimes the most loving thing you can do—for others and yourself. Oh, and did we mention the bride cried in the club bathroom three separate times?Listen to me read a new Ferris & Sloan excerpt, tackle controversial wedding traditions, and respond to one of the wildest bridal party betrayals I’ve ever received.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Join me on Patreon and get bonus content every month! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The Book Is Officially Out – After months of teasing, I’m announcing my book launch and revealing what inspired me to turn viral confessions into a physical page-turner. The Vegas Bachelorette Breakdown – I relive one of the most unforgettable submissions about a bride who ended up crying in the club, and what it revealed about modern wedding expectations. Why I Wrote This Book – This isn’t just tea. It’s a time capsule of the emotional chaos, family dynamics, and societal pressure that weddings bring out in people. The Confession Selection Process – I explain how I chose which stories made it into the book, and why some were just too wild (or too heartbreaking) to publish. From Podcast to Print – How Here Comes the Drama evolved from mic to manuscript—and how my audience helped shape every chapter. Wedding Culture Needs a Wake-Up Call – I reflect on how the wedding industry has normalized unrealistic standards, and what we can do about it. The Stories That Stayed With Me – I share the one story I almost couldn’t include—and why it haunts me in the best way. Advice for the Brides Who Feel the Pressure – A personal reminder for anyone planning a wedding: you’re allowed to say no. *This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jun 12, 202526 min

Ep 2020: Money Fights, Fake Promises, and a Forgetful DJ with Cassie Horrell

What do you do when your DJ forgets the first dance and narrates the cake cutting like it’s a football game?Christa and Cassie are back with some jaw-dropping stories from the wedding trenches! This episode dives into vendor red flags, social media pressure, and one mother-in-law so toxic, the entire wedding had a shocking surprise! From aisle music glitches to guest list drama, it’s a cautionary tale and a comedy of errors.Plus: how to stand firm when everyone has an opinion, why comparison will kill your joy, and what to do when your wedding no longer feels like your own.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live!Get the book!Join me on Patreon and get bonus content every month! Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments The DJ Debacle – Cassie shares an awkward, cringey moment where a DJ forgot the first dance... then asked the couple for the song in front of their guests. Narrating the Cake Cutting?! – When a DJ goes full sportscaster, it’s not the vibe—Christa and Cassie relive a moment that made the whole room cringe. MIL Drama That Killed the Wedding – A real listener story: secret recordings, family feuds, and a mom who refused to take responsibility. Ghosted by the Music – Another wedding, another music fail—this time with a mysteriously silent aisle walk that left the bride shaken. Elopement vs. Expectations – When family opinions derail your plans, Christa and Cassie talk about how to take the wheel back. About CassieCassie Horrell is a seasoned wedding planner and event coordinator known for her ability to handle even the most unpredictable wedding day chaos with humor and grace. With years of experience in the industry, Cassie has seen it all—from heartwarming moments to jaw-dropping disasters—and she’s not afraid to spill the tea. She’s passionate about helping couples navigate the stress of wedding planning, set boundaries with overbearing family members, and create a day that feels authentically theirs. Whether it’s dodging last-minute guest list surprises or dealing with wedding etiquette debates, Cassie brings expertise, real talk, and a whole lot of laughs.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Cassie Horrell TikTok Instagram Facebook Join the Drama with Christa Innis: Website Tiktok Instagram YouTube Facebook Get ‘Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris & Sloan Story’ on Amazon Got Wedding Drama? We Want to Hear It!Your stories make Here Comes the Drama what it is! Share your unforgettable wedding tales, hilarious mishaps, or unbelievable moments with us. Whether it’s a wild confession or a story worth a skit, we can’t wait to hear it.Submit your story today: Story Submission FormFollow us on social media for updates and sneak peeks at upcoming episodes. Your stories inspire the drama, the laughs, and the lessons we love to share!A Team Dklutr Production

Jun 5, 202543 min