GreatMan Podcast

Welcome to episode 100! Thanks for listening, and thanks for impacting the world with us. In this episode Stephen reflects on the disturbing correlation between mass shooters and fatherlessness. The US likes to talk about the danger of Muslim terrorists. And while extremism is real, Stephen argues that the biggest danger threatening our peace and safety is the young, white, untethered, unfathered, and unprincipled men gunning down innocent civilians. Tune in as Stephen discusses 10 shocking statistics that show just how deep the roots of this issue go. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Earlier this summer, on July 16, Stephen issued A Summer Challenge here on the GreatMan Podcast: “Go to the people in your life, and ask them to tell you what you can do to be a better man.” Today, Stephen shares some of the feedback he’s personally received through taking on this challenge. Plus, get the inside scoop on some exciting things on the GreatMan horizon: a recent trip to Peru, Spanish translations, a new book (Men on Fire), a non-profit, and more! (What did you learn as a result of “A Summer Challenge?” We’d like to know! Reply on social media or email [email protected].) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Many guys have recently asked, “How can I extend my influence? How can I help others?” Stephen answers this question by explaining the Greek word “oikos," which means “household” (or “extended family”). The word “economics” comes from “oikos” (economics = law of the household). In this episode you’ll learn how to identify, impact, and extend your manly oikos. You can do it. You should do it. Tune in for the tools and resources that will support you in this critical endeavor. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Joshua asks, what is the purpose of initiation and ritual among men? Learn why men are wired for rituals and seasons – and what you can do to build and foster ritual in the lives of your sons and the men around you. From childhood to adolescence to marriage to fatherhood, rites of passage have the power to profoundly shape and guide noble lives. Harness their power and make them a part of your toolbox. Recommended in this podcast for young fathers: Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Pain and hardship is a part of life. In fact, these things may even be the price of an exceptional life. There’s no avoiding them. Happy Warriors know that there is glory and victory on the other side. They’re made better by the struggle. Every swing of the sword and push of the shield invigorates these men. They love to overcome adversity and raise a glass with their band of brothers to celebrate the sweet victories of life. May we, in our age, band together as Happy Warriors to contend against the challenges of life. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In almost every kind of debate you need to engage in verbal martial arts. That is to say, use the opponent’s force against him by conceding everything you can truthfully concede. In this episode, Stephen addresses a question he heard from many men at a recent conference: “How do you answer the critics of manhood?” Tune in to learn how you can simultaneously engage with critics, condemn the indefensible, and show them a better way. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Men are made for adventure. Yet so many guys are “over-domesticated.” You know how it goes: gradually, the pressures and duties of daily life begin to take over. We spend our time taking care of our homes, families, cars, and careers, while we neglect attending to our inner zeal and passion. Men, you need to have regular activities in your life that force excitement and adventure upon you. Every man at every age needs to look at his life, identify the boredom, and build in the excitement, passion, and adventure that he was made for. If you don’t do this you are putting yourself and those around you at tremendous risk. Note: This episode originally aired in March 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It’s peak summertime, and Stephen wants to present you with a summer challenge. Go to the people in your life (spouse, kids, mentors, siblings), and ask them to tell you what you can do to be a better man. Tell them you know that they love you. This isn’t about getting compliments. You’re looking for key insights that are going to shape you and your ability to have an impact on your world. Stephen will do this, too, and report back in a few weeks to share some of the feedback he receives from loved ones. Listen to the episode for more guidance – plus, an exciting announcement about next year! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if you built a culture in which language ennobled, excited, and thrilled people? In this episode, Stephen shares the language he uses with his friends, wife, and children. Learn how ennobling language impacts relationships, destinies, and cultures. Then, start weaving these words and phrases into your own conversations. Your son’s basketball team is comprised of “heroes,” the young law student is “your honor,” and your wife is “my love.” Change your words and observe the effect of your new language. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Posit this with us: If there is a God and if He created you, then He created you as a man. Of course, we all sustain wounds and deformities that pierce the soul and heart, keeping us from becoming the men we are meant to be. But, again, if there is a God and if He made you, then He desires for you to fulfill your destiny of becoming a great man. In this episode, Stephen offers encouragement and truth: God can restore you to what you were made to be before the grief, wounds, and hurt. Ask Him to exercise that power in your life. Here’s how… See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Churches are often the only organizations that budget to impact men on a regular basis. But most churches miss the mark. In this episode, Stephen speaks directly to men’s ministries. (Though, as always, all are welcome here in the GreatMan Podcast.) Listen in to discover how a men’s ministry should function, who’s doing it well in the U.S., and why you can’t afford to miss out on bringing in the men. Note: This episode originally aired in July 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There’s one thing that all successful people share. One thing that guides their lives. It’s this: they make sure that they have a place and time that functions as the control room of their lives. People who achieve are people who live the “examined life.” (The Ancients, after all, taught us that the unexamined life is not worth living.) Achievers set lofty goals and accomplish them because they take the time to ponder their life and map out a strategy. In this episode, learn why you need to get in the “air traffic control tower” of your own life. Stephen shares advice about how to do this and why it’s so critical, especially for young men. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chad asks, “If comfort’s your biggest enemy, what are you doing to make yourself uncomfortable?” Find out why men need hardship, what the Ancient Greeks had to say about “soft” living, and why Stephen always has firm performance goals set before him… even while spending many months of the year on the road. Finally, Stephen challenges men to develop hardship and opposition in their own lives. Push your boundaries. Onward and upward. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We become what we behold. So, what are you putting in front of your eyes? Stephen shares four summer book recommendations for men, including two novels and two non-fiction books. Strengthen your vision of great manhood, tackle hard-hitting themes of honor and courage, and find your spirit ennobled through these works… Rise of the Servant Kings: What the Bible Says About Being a Man by Ken Harrison | Amazon Sacred Duty: A Soldier's Tour at Arlington National Cemetery by Tom Cotton | Amazon The Killer Angels: A Novel of the Civil War by Michael Shaara | Amazon Peace Like a River by Leif Enger | Amazon See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As much as he’s sorry to see the word “toxic” put in front of the word “masculinity,” Stephen suggests that this word’s ancient Greek roots might provide us with a helpful framework for understanding the damage a man can do. The Greek word “toxikon" refers very specifically to the poison on the tip of an arrow. When a man is “toxic,” he sends out poisonous arrows into his own soul and the souls of others. Toxic men harm themselves and others by abusing the powers that God has given them to use for good. Resources mentioned in this episode: Sign up for the GreatMan Digest. Do the 14-Day "Manly Men" Bible Study. Listen to the new Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men audiobook. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Please note: This episode includes sexual content. Parents, consider listening alone first, then discussing with your sons. Pornography is at the root of many issues in our world, from domestic abuse to sex trafficking. In this hard-hitting episode, Stephen drills down on one specific problem: porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Younger men are now experiencing ED as a result of regular use of pornography. Learn about the problems, the studies, and the solutions connected to P.I.E.D. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Stephen takes a rapid-fire round to answer your questions on everything from divorce to grooming to sexual addiction and more. Like this episode? Check out 2018’s “Answers to Men’s Questions.” Have a question for Stephen? Email [email protected], and we’ll try to include an answer in the next Q&A episode. Links for new GreatMan content can be found here... Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men (Audiobook): https://amzn.to/2EhwpMB Two-Week Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men Devotional: http://bit.ly/Manly-Devotional See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ninety percent of the churches in America do not have any kind of men’s program or ministry. Even if you’re non-religious or of a different religion, you should find this disturbing. Why? Because in the US, at least, churches are the primary organization investing in the development of men. Listen to this episode to learn more about this crisis and what it means for our culture. Stick around to the end for a special challenge from Stephen! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In aptitude tests, men pale in comparison to women in all categories except for two: abstract thought and aggression (or “vision/drive”). Men, your role is to be the vision keeper. Part of being a good husband, father, and leader is being able to develop and encourage a noble vision for all that is within your field. What if a son, for example, not only had a father, but had a father who held vision for the son’s life? A father who could identify the son’s gifts and encourage him to greatness? What an impact that could have! Developing and sharing a vision is one of the arts of noble manhood. Learn more about its role in this episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There’s something that divides those who are engaging, big-hearted, and generous… and those who are seemingly incapable of drawing out the best in others. It is the force of self. Those of us striving to be good men can be affected by this force, so it’s critically important that we are aware of it, that we might keep it at bay in our pursuit of noble manhood. | “Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs.” – Jonah 2:8 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Men are powerful when they speak. Their words are carriers of truth, comfort, and destiny. Forget the awesomeness of words, and you risk doing severe damage. This week, Stephen challenges listeners to think about their “verbal strategies.” What do the people in your life need to hear from you? Where do they need encouragement? How can you uplift your friends, family, and those around you? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Please note: This episode includes sexual content. Parents, consider listening alone first, then discussing with your sons. (Specific content warnings are given throughout.) Growing up in Europe, Stephen was surrounded by porn. In Berlin, it was on the billboards, daytime soap operas, and in the locker rooms. Of course, Stephen is opposed to porn, but not just because he’s a Christian. Join us in this episode for a discussion of how porn is rewiring our souls, brains, and very culture. From P.I.E.D. (porn-induced erectile dysfunction) to unhappy marriages, porn can be an unbelievably corrosive force. Whether or not you struggle with pornography, tune in to this episode for perspective, encouragement, and help. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Stephen wants to help you get ahead of the curve. Before summer gets here… before you’re busy with vacation, plans, kids’ activities… set your mind to completing these four challenges. From exercising the mind and body to building the spirit, these four specific challenges will help you in your pursuit of living a life of noble manhood. Don’t miss this opportunity to reset your habits and change your course in life for the better! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In order to be a great man – a righteous man – you have to be intentional. It will. Not. Happen. Naturally. Most men have been deposited into their adult years directly from whatever culture they were created in: sports, military, physical labor, etc. Many never move beyond these phases. They never gain a righteous vision of what it means to be a man. They don’t enlist the help of others to fulfill such a vision. In this episode, learn why being an intentional man is important, and how to get started. Note: This episode of the GreatMan Podcast was originally published on April 17, 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We have many listeners who have come to the idea of pursuing noble manhood fairly recently. If you’ve been building a vision for noble manhood and walking with a band of brothers, it’s time to do one more thing: go and address your wrongs. Knowing how to go back to the major moments in your life and make things right is one of the arts of great manhood. We all have people in our pasts whom we have wronged. Let’s live with integrity and make things right. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Does great manhood ever feel like a big “project” to you? Does it feel like some massive undertaking like going to law school or building a house? It doesn’t always have to be like that. Today, let’s have some fun and talk about the small things that go into great manhood. Stephen shares some of his many micro-disciplines in areas such as health, learning, and romance, that have become a part of his regular routine. Men, we are habit-driven creatures. Let’s maximize the opportunity this presents to us! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This is a difficult topic. Even if you’re very happily married (or not married at all), listen to this episode so that you’ll have resources and perspective that will allow you to support your band of brothers through a divorce. Having gone through a divorce, himself, Stephen shares keen insights with regards to walking through the process as peacefully as possible. Don’t walk alone. Be humble and big-hearted. Turn toward your kids. And keep asking yourself, “What kind of man do I want to be on the other side of this experience?” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“You become what you behold,” is a great truth of life. You get around a group of guys who cuss all the time… you’ll start doing the same. You’re in a group that drinks a lot… you’ll start drinking a lot, too. In this episode, Stephen shares the specific strategies and methods he uses for nurturing the spirit and setting sights high. How are you putting nobility, righteousness, and great manhood before your eyes? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Men are often told they should be good or noble primarily in the context of their roles as husbands and fathers. While, yes, your wife and children deserve to have a good man, a noble man in their lives, they are not the main reason why you should be a good man. You’re called to be a great man simply because that is who you’re meant to be – regardless of culture, religion, place in time and history, or family structure. This week, Stephen’s challenging men to own themselves first. You are called to be a good man for God and yourself first. The rest will then follow. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A recent survey asked men whether they liked strong women. On the whole, men said they admire strong women… from a distance. Guys, it’s important to recognize that we are not in a tug of war with women. We are not fighting over a limited pie. Let’s get two things straight: (1) men are in decline, and (2) women have not taken anything from men. Until a man is secure in who he is, he’s going to be resentful, bitter, and miserable to strong women (and men) alike. Let’s get whole, and let’s welcome strong women into positions of leadership and power. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“Memento Mori” has served men as a motivation throughout the centuries. Latin for “remember death,” this phrase has prompted ancients and moderns alike to contemplate their own mortality and the meaning of their lives. With advances in science, many of you may very well live into your nineties or beyond 100. Your opportunity for impact is greater than your forefathers. So, what higher values will you live for? What purposes are you meant to accomplish? Force the question of destiny to the fore, and, like Churchill advises, “When the notes of life ring false, men should correct them by referring to the tuning fork of death.” See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In addition to having a band of brothers, many men can benefit from one-on-one coaching. We all have certain deformities of the soul. We all sustain wounds from neglect or the wrong input. That doesn’t mean we have to live in a permanently misshapen state. In this episode, discover the value of one-on-one coaching and the reasons why it may be a good fit for you. For more information, email [email protected]. (Disclaimer: The Mansfield Group does not earn any profits from coaching services booked with third-party men’s coaches on GreatMan.TV.) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you seen the Gillette commercial, “The Best Men Can Be?” (Find the link below.) The ad takes aim at “Toxic Masculinity” by drawing attention to the #MeToo movement, recent allegations of sexual assault, bullying, and the prevailing “boys will be boys” mindset. Some love it. Others see it as a harsh slap in the face of masculinity. In this episode, Stephen weighs in with his take regarding the film, the backlash, and what the conversation says about the current state of manhood. Watch Now: https://youtu.be/koPmuEyP3a0 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

JT McCraw is one of Nashville’s premiere builders. He’s also a builder of men. In this episode, he describes the process and hard work that’s a part of every remodel – of both the home and the soul. Follow along as he discusses how we must rethink our spaces according to our needs, remove the filth, and suspend the disbelief that keeps us from pushing ahead into noble manhood. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

“The tragedy of life is what dies inside of a man while he lives,” said Albert Schweitzer. There is a spirt in a man that’s meant to be strong and bold. It’s intended to guide, empower, and ennoble. How you live either strengthens or weakens the manly spirit within you. In this episode, Stephen challenges men with the question, “Are you dying? Or are you gaining strength?” Note: This episode originally aired on January 2, 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

As we begin a new year, pause. Look around you. What can you do to make an impact in the lives of men at work, school, your place of worship, or sports team? How can you help men fight the battles they must fight to become the men they’re meant to be? In this episode, Stephen offers several practical suggestions. Whatever your status or role in the community, you can use the suggestions in this episode to have a real impact in restoring noble manhood. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Perhaps you watched the events of President George H.W. Bush’s funeral. It was beautiful, inspiring, and patriotic. One of the most reported moments occurred when President George W. Bush became choked up while eulogizing his father. The clip was sometimes aired as an oddity. Why? Our culture treats a man’s tears as strange, unmanly. This attitude sends a certain message about manhood: that men shouldn’t show tenderness – and certainly not tears in public. Emotion is perceived as a sign of weakness or even mental imbalance. In this episode, Stephen urges a middle way. Your goal is not to be shut down emotionally, but to feel everything and temper your expression based on the context and moment. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Rabbi Daniel Lapin, known widely as America’s Rabbi, is a noted rabbinic scholar, best-selling author, and TV host. Today he’s challenging men to engage in the restoration of fatherhood. Rabbi Lapin is a fascinating speaker who brings new insights to the GreatMan Podcast. Don’t miss this episode! For more information, visit rabbidaniellapin.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Men sometimes have a way of pulling back during the holidays. The gifts, cooking, and decorating may feel like domestic tasks in which women usually take the lead. Guys, you need to be fully engaged in the holiday season – for yourself, those you lead, and those around you. Listen to this episode for some quick encouragement and a challenge. May you be changed by the giving, loving, and celebrating of Christmas. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Imagine a football team whose coaching philosophy centered on one issue: “Don’t get penalties!” The players would be so focused on avoiding penalties that you’d end up with a team of hesitant guys worried they shouldn’t play too hard. The team would be terrible. Many pastors and leaders take a similar approach in speaking to men. They berate men for not being good husbands or fathers, for looking at porn, for over-eating, over-drinking… the list goes on. Yes, those are issues that need to be addressed, but this shame and guilt-based approach does nothing but produce shame-ridden men. In this episode, Stephen proposes a different way, one that offers a vision for noble manhood. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Story is a powerful vehicle. When we learn through a story our brains use less energy to absorb information. We are even more likely to recall that information when learned via story. Part of being a great man is being a great storyteller. This doesn’t have to be complicated. Story is simple. Something lights you up and moves you, then you share it with those around you. This holiday season, share noble stories with your friends and family. Your stories will have the power to change the culture around you, as well as the state of your own soul. Here’s how… See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Knowing how to extend honor is one of the great arts of manhood. Smack talk and cutting up with the guys is great, but those can’t be your only gears all the time. As the holidays approach, let’s learn and practice the art of honoring others. In this episode, you’ll learn how to identify and commend what’s honorable in the lives of your father, friends, and family. This is a practice that will ennoble your own soul while also drawing out the best in others. It doesn’t have to be weird or accompanied by a King James tone! Learn the tactics in this episode, then accept the challenge presented to you at the end. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Michael Fletcher is a man’s man. He has run over 27 marathons and impacts thousands of men through Manna Church, located in Fayetteville, NC, on the edge of Fort Bragg. Michael is the first guest to appear on the GreatMan Podcast, and today he’s going to challenge you to fulfill your purpose as a leader and as a man. His message is clear, humorous, powerful, and shaped by a deep understanding of men. (And, who knows, maybe you’ll discover you’ve got more in common with a guy holding a rifle in a lawn chair at 16,000 feet than you ever thought possible!) For more, visit MichaelFletcher.TV. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

A shooting at a synagogue, a series of pipe bombs… the violence continues to infiltrate our daily lives. If you’re a young man, in particular, it’s increasingly likely that at some point in your life you could be exposed to an act of terroristic violence: a threat in your local school, mall, restaurant, bar, church, or synagogue. It’s time that we talk about what manhood looks like in a time of crisis. What does a man do in the face of these threats? How does a man prepare himself for a crisis? Listen to this episode to set your plan of action. Don’t let fear and panic catch you off guard. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mark your calendar! October 25 is St. Crispin’s Day, made famous by King Henry V’s rousing speech given in 1415 at the Battle of Agincourt. While we don’t know all of the actual words spoken that day, William Shakespeare filled in the gaps with his imagination nearly 200 years later in his play, Henry V. From this speech we get that immortal call to arms, “We few, we happy few, we band of brothers.” This October 25, read the speech for yourself (available here). See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

About 30 young men were on a discussion board looking for information that they just couldn’t find anywhere else… no fathers or brothers to talk to. Sadly, they were all completely wrong about the topic. Men, if we want to restore noble manhood, we have to foster a culture where conversations can happen. Older men, develop a culture around you in which you’re willing to share the lore of manhood. Younger men, find older, noble men who can teach you things. Nothing should be laughable or off limits. The lore of manhood doesn’t stem from locker room conversations and men’s health magazines. It’s born from a culture of noble manhood. This episode was originally published on February 20, 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What does the Kavanaugh confirmation process tell us about great and noble manhood in our generation? Stephen posits that our lasting challenge is not so much the politics of left and right, but the legitimate issue that women are often abused and the people who most often abuse them are often untethered, unprincipled, and unfathered men. Gentlemen, this is not a moment to be offended, but a moment to realize that there are legitimate claims being made and society isn’t hearing them. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

There are many types of pride, but the kind of pride most endemic to men is the kind that results from not receiving affirmation earlier in life. You probably know a guy like this who lives in a Palace of Self. He gets a sentence quoted in the paper and then puts the clipping on his wall and talks about it for weeks. In this episode, you’ll be challenged to take an inventory of your own self and susceptibility to pride. Furthermore, you’ll learn why a GreatMan can call out the praiseworthy features in others’ lives. Learn how to affirm men around you and strengthen the good in their lives through genuine affirmation. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let’s talk about Kavanaugh. Not about whether or not the allegations are true or whether or not he should sit on the Supreme Court. Instead, let’s focus on how the sexual revolution of the 1960s changed manhood and on how it’s harming men who have lived all these years without a code. Society is correcting itself (as it should) through the #MeToo movement. Today, there is a reckoning. Women are right. And men are paying a price for living the unprincipled lifestyles that society urged upon them. Men, you need a code. If you don’t have guiding beliefs about how to conduct yourself, society will swallow you up. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The strength and glory of a man are exhibited when he takes responsibility. It’s at the heart of noble manhood. Owning your responsibility is more than just checking off a list of household chores. (Though that’s part of it.) Being responsible in a manly way includes taking charge in the broader sense of your “field” – that is, your relationships, obligations to community, and self. Take responsibility and prosperity will follow. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.