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Dealing With Conflict: Conflict Should Be Private (Within Reason)

Dealing With Conflict: Conflict Should Be Private (Within Reason)

Graham Chapel Wesleyan Church

May 11, 2025

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Show Notes

Welcome Graham fam! We are so glad you could watch Sunday morning online with us.

Introduction:

  • Happy Mother’s Day! Thank you to all the mothers for your special calling.
  • Week two of dealing with conflict; encouragement to handle conflict well.
  • James 1:2-3: Consider troubles as opportunities for growth.

Scripture:

  • Acts 15:36-41
  • Matthew 18:15-17 (Correcting Another Believer)

Points:

  1. Don’t try to win:
    • Winning involves rules, audiences, and referees, making conflicts public.
    • Winning can lead to resentment and is a worldly mentality.
    • Philippians 2:3-4: Be humble and think of others as better than yourselves.
    • Aim for peace, love, and restoration instead of winning.
  2. Don’t pick sides:
    • Avoid being dragged into others’ conflicts as a referee or audience.
    • Encourage private resolution first, as per Matthew 18:15-17.
    • If needed, involve 1-2 unbiased, mature believers to help resolve the issue.
    • 1 Corinthians 1:10: Live in harmony and avoid divisions.
  3. Don’t get distracted:
    • Conflict is not the most important thing; focus on the mission and calling.
    • Paul and Barnabas disagreed but continued their ministry separately.
    • Understand that sometimes moving past unresolved conflict is necessary for the greater mission.

Closing:

  • Luke 17:3-4: Forgive repeatedly if there is repentance.
  • Serious conflicts need resolution; follow Matthew 18:15-17.
  • Aim for peace, unity, and forgiveness.

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