I'm so f'ing multi-orgasmic - Stacey (replay)

Stacey grew up aware of and comfortable with her own pleasure from an early age. She has a daughter and is twice divorced. She's had a rich sex life, and now finds happiness, satisfaction, and opportunity for personal growth in open relationships.

Stacey is a 45-year-old, cis-gender female, who describes herself as Black, heterosexual, and non-monogamous. She is currently single and open to exploring a relationship with a "primary partner."

This is a re-broadcast of episode 5.

• Her first memory of sexual desire, at about age 6, is of playing with a "male" doll and rubbing its hand on her vulva.
• Stacey shares early childhood memories of making out with girls, imitating intimacy as she sees in families on TV, and low-level sexually exploring for pleasure with a male cousin. She knows enough to keep these secrets from grownups.
• She talks about her first make-out as a teen.
• Pleasure dynamic in sexual explorations and experiences is focused on herself even from the start.
• She tells the story of losing her virginity.
• Stacey tells her mom she's had sex.
• She associates the ability/need to communicate with feelings around intimacy, and notes the difference between physical intimacy and sexual intimacy.
• Stacey realizes she's been able to work through anger by directing it at her mother, because her mother was emotionally available for it.
• Stacey embraces being comfortable with sexuality with her own daughter, and talks about the positive energetic impact of good sex.
• Stacey opens up about her first "real" boyfriend, the distinction being that it was "reciprocal."
• She meets her first husband.
• She currently practices ethical non-monogamy, but shares how non-monogamy was more like cheating with earlier relationships and marriages. She also shares what it looks like with her current lovers.
• Stacey and Leah discuss orgasms, and ways to be multi-orgasmic.

Audio extras for this episode are:

• The full, unedited interview with Stacey

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EPISODE CREDITS:

Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco

Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak