I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa
Good Girls Talk About Sex · Leah Carey
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Show Notes
Lisa is a 40-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, currently in a relationship that is heterosexual, monogamous, and long-distance. She has also long been attracted to women and is considering the likelihood that she is bisexual.
Major themes in this episode include body image and eating disorders, sex outside marriage, long distance relationships, and exploring kink.
- Lisa's discovery of sexual pleasure in the shower
- Growing up as a gymnast, giving her a heightened sense of body awareness as a kid
- Developing an eating disorder
- Lisa's first experience of dating and sexual exploration
- "Losing" her virginity
- Having a partner stop penetration when asked
- Having bad sex in college
- Getting married right out of college and meeting her sexual needs outside the marriage
- Having flings during work travel
- Lisa's ability to compartmentalize sex from a relationship
- Communicating relationship needs/boundaries/parameters over the course of a relationship
- Lisa's second marriage and its unhealthy aspects
- Opening up to kink and anal sex
- Exploring new fantasies with her current partner
- The day Lisa's partner thanked Leah on Instagram for opening new vistas in their relationship!
- How they keep sex alive in a long distance relationship
- How Lisa talks to her kids about sex and consent
- The ramifications of leaving a trail of sexy pics in today's digital world
Audio extras for this episode are:
- Lisa and I discuss the confusion we've both encountered around bisexuality
- Lisa talks about the prevalence of GHB, a date rape drug, when she was in college
- The extended Q&A
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EPISODE CREDITS:
Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email) Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco
Transcript creation – Jan Acielo Music – Nazar Rybak