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Ep 308Unf*ck Your Brain And Learn To Be More Confident Ft. Kara Lowentheil

This week Aleen is joined by Kara Lowentheil, Master Certified Confidence Coach and host of the UnF*ck Your Brain podcast, which helps women overcome self-critical thoughts that are undermining their confidence (and happiness). Kara is a former Women’s Rights Lawyer, who uses her law degree and cognitive-psychology based techniques to help women become stronger versions of themselves. The conversation kicks off with Kara sharing why she thinks many women are people pleasers (thanks society), what it actually means to unf*ck your brain and how to do it. We then dive into perfection: how women are on the hunt to find it, but why it's important for us to recognize that perfection is not reality and that “faking it till we make it” is not helping anyone. Get ready to have your eyes opened—Aleen has already started changing her daily thought processes after her convo with Kara. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 202251 min

Ep 307We All Fake Tie Our Shoes In Workout Classes Ft. Ashley Fern

Aleen is rejoined by Ashley Fern (@disco_infern0), our in-house workout woman and the face behind @betchestravel. Aleen and Ashley dive into their Non-Scale Wins of the week. Aleen then reads a listener submitted Dear DST asking whether it’s considered going “backwards” in your intuitive eating journey if you want to make some changes to your diet to support your workout routine. Ashley then gives us an update on her new workout sneakers and Aleen drops some sneaker knowledge (she’s a former Footlocker employee, so she knows her shit). Ashley wraps up the ep with her latest workout report on Barry’s Bootcamp and shares how it compares to the other exercises classes she's mentioned on the show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 31, 202234 min

Ep 306Let’s Clear Up Some Confusion Around Nutrition Ft. Vanessa Rissetto

We're excited to have Vanessa Rissetto, Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and co-founder of Culina Health, back on this week's pod. Vanessa joins us to talk about WTF diet culture actually is and what it’s not. Aleen and Vanessa kickoff the convo by discussing what Aleen has learned so far working with a dietician. They then discuss how nutrition will never be a *one-size fits all* (which is key to remember when scrolling social media) and Vanessa stresses how important that is when dealing with her clients. We then answer a lot of listener-submitted questions about the confusing and sometimes contradicting “facts” about nutrition, how to talk to kids about food or appearance comments, and why Doritos are Vanessa’s favorite food. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 20221h 11m

Ep 305Putting Less Effort Into My Looks Shouldn't Make Me Unprofessional Ft. Jordana Abraham

This week Aleen is joined by Jordana Abraham, Betches co-founder and co-host of the U Up? podcast. They start things off by sharing some Non-Scale Wins, which include Aleen getting back into the kitchen and Jordana pushing herself out of her comfort zone (we love to see it). Then they read a listener’s NSW about putting yourself first and confronting those rude AF family members who make comments about your body. Next they read a listener submitted Dear DST, which is sponsored by Hulu’s new original series Life & Beth starring and executive produced by Amy Schumer. This week’s email is about how much time it takes to present yourself “professionally” as a woman and the difference in beauty standards for. women. Finally, we talk about learning how to present yourself in a professional yet comfortable way (shout-out to our gold hoops). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 24, 202223 min

Ep 304Why I Wake Up At 5:17am Every Morning Ft. Liz Plosser

This week Aleen is joined by Liz Plosser, Editor-In-Chief at Women’s Health and author of her new book, “Own Your Morning.” Liz kicks off the episode by telling us about her 15+ year career in the wellness industry, before sharing the benefits of a good morning routine. Liz dives into why she wrote a book about mornings, exactly what her morning routine is (you’ll want to take notes), and how she’s been able to find happiness in waking up before the sun. Liz also shares her pro tips for making mornings a little less sucky. From prepping for your morning the night before to getting more fresh air at the start of your day (sunlight is nature’s espresso martini), Liz gives some great advice for everyone, even those who aren’t “morning people.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 202251 min

Ep 303TikTok Wellness Trends That Have Got To Go Ft. Nicole Pellegrino

Aleen is rejoined by Nicole Pellegrino, Betches’ Director of TikTok and the face behind @betchesbrides. We kickoff by hearing Nicole’s NSW of the week, about making an overdue doctor’s appointment and Aleen’s NSW about finding the feng shui that she was missing in her life. Then, we read a listener NSW about forming harmful habits after watching too many “What I Ate In The Day” TikToks. Ever notice how all of those videos start with mirror selfies? Nicole and Aleen then talk about the possible harmful effects of this trend and others like it. We then dig into the Dear DST of the week, which is about learning how to stop comparing yourself to others (why is it so hard?!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 17, 202242 min

Ep 302I Was The ‘Chubby Kid’ On Tv, Then I Lost 100 Lbs Ft. Josh Peck

This week, Aleen is joined by Nickelodeon legend and author of his new book Happy People Are Annoying, Josh Peck! The episode kicks off with Aleen and Josh reminiscing on their childhoods and that time a few years ago when they were both on an influencer trip in Mexico together (!?). Josh then tells us about his book, which includes lessons that he learned from being the “chubby funny kid” (aka Josh Nichols on Drake & Josh) and how losing 100+ pounds is something that no one can seem to get over. Then, we chat about life lessons that Josh hopes to teach his son and how standing in his own way caused him to miss out on some career opportunities (like a part in one of the most iconic movies of all time). Finally, Josh and Aleen confess their favorite shows growing up. Everyone remembers Summer Sanders right? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 202254 min

Ep 301Here’s A List Of My Restaurant Pet Peeves FT. Jared Freid

Aleen is rejoined by Jared Freid for this week’s Dear DST. Warning: you once again will be hungry after listening to this episode. We kickoff by talking about our pet peeves when going to restaurants with other people. Let's be real - who wants to share? Then, we hear Jared’s long-winded, but of course hilarious NSW and Aleen shares one about a form of exercise she was recently reunited with. We then read a listener NSW about curating your social media feed, so you aren’t targeted by annoying diet culture-y or overly hunger producing content. Finally, we read a listener submitted Dear DST about knowing when to confront your friends about their body issues. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 10, 202238 min

Ep 300Thoughts While Picking At The Bread Basket Ft. Jared Freid

This week, we’re celebrating our 300th DST episode with Jared Freid, aka Betches fav stand-up comedian and the cohost of U Up? The episode kicks off with us reminiscing on how far we’ve come over the years. Then, Jared tells us a story about at v fancy dinner he had, he got in a fight with the "bread basket" (bread baskets > fancy crackers) and how one drink brought him down a food delivery rabbit hole. He then gives us updates on his wellness journey - shout-out to Jared’s wellness glam squad: @alixturoff_rd, @forzag and @gordonstylehouse__ . Finally, Aleen & Jared answer some listener questions and then Aleen's set the mood of the week. Fair warning: you will be hungry after listening to this ep. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 20221h 0m

Ep 299Please Tell My Apple Watch To STFU Ft. Ashley Fern

Aleen is joined by our in-house workout woman, Ashley Fern (also behind @betchestravel - go follow). To kick off the episode, Ashley and Aleen share their NSW - Ashley talks about how freeing taking a break from your Apple Watch can be, and Aleen gives us the details of her new at home workout product she's been loving. Then, they read a listener email about an eye opening workout experience and talk how important it is to not feel peer pressure from others in your workout classes. Ashley then gives her latest workout report, on a not-so-great experience she had at a studio and she also shares her *current* fav at-home workout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 3, 202233 min

Ep 298Do You Spend Too Much Time On Drama? Ft. Cy Wakeman

This week, Aleen is joined by professional drama researcher, Cy Wakeman, who's coming out with a new book called: Life's Messy, Live Happy: Things Don't Have to Be Perfect for You to Be Content - all about how to remove the drama from your life. Cy has been researching this topic for the last 20+ years and has found that on average a person spends nearly 2.5 hours per day in drama (no, no, no drama). Throughout the ep, Cy teaches us how to be less dramatic in both our personal and professional lives - through a change in perspective. Finally, we end with a new segment called DST Moods, where we set an intention for the week ahead! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 27, 202254 min

Ep 297Consistency Doesn't Mean Doing The Same Workout Non-Stop FT. Danielle Friedman

Aleen is rejoined by Danielle Friedman (@daniellefriedmanwrites) who is an award-winning journalist and author of Let’s Get Physical: How Women Discovered Exercise and Reshaped the World. The convo kicks off with Danielle sharing her Non-Scale Win, which the DST'ers who are parents will def relate to and Aleen shares a win about journaling. Next, they dive into a listener's emails about overcoming health struggles to realize the importance of working out and how to set boundaries from feeling guilty on days where we skip our workouts. The episode wraps up with some insights from Aleen and Danielle about ways to be more excited for a workout and how to avoid making your workout feel like a chore. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 24, 202217 min

Ep 296Barre Class Started As A Sex Class (And Other Lessons In Women’s Fitness History)

Aleen is joined this week by Danielle Friedman who is an award-winning journalist and author of Let’s Get Physical: How Women Discovered Exercise and Reshaped the World. The book shares the history behind the workouts that we’re all now obsessed with, the sexualized nature of some of the moves, the women who revolutionized women’s fitness, and how clothing trends have evolved over the years (can you even imagine wearing a girdle to workout?) Throughout the ep, Danielle paints a behind-the-scenes picture of how the fitness industry has become what it is today and how we became so workout obsessed. Finally, we end by sharing our DST confessions of the week, about the most boring workout classes we’ve ever done. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 20, 202253 min

Ep 295No One Cares How You Look At Your Friend’s Wedding Ft. Nicole Pellegrino

Aleen is joined by Nicole Pellegrino, host of the Betches Brides podcast and the face behind @betchesbrides on Instagram. With wedding season just around the corner—and nearly 2.5 million weddings expected to happen this year—we can all relate to wanting to feel our best on the big day, whether you’re the one getting married or just a guest. Aleen and Nicole share their Non-Scale Wins for the week, including one about TikTok success (what else?). Then they answer a Dear DST email (shocker:it’s about weddings) with some helpful tips for surviving the season. They wrap up the ep with some pro-tips on feeling your best at a wedding, because we’ll all be attending a sh*t ton of them soon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 17, 202234 min

Ep 294The Downsides Of Insta-Therapy Ft. Seerut Chawla

This week Aleen's joined by Seerut Chawla (@seerutkchawla), a London based psychotherapist who focuses on Trauma Informed Therapy, who has a tough love approach to mental health advocacy on social media. Seerut shares her perspective on what therapy has become on Instagram aka the phenomenon she calls “insta therapy”, and examples of how to spot it. She talks about why she thinks it's not helpful or genuine and more on why you should avoid it. Then, Seerut defines what trauma actually is and explains why it's different than what you may think. This leads to a discussion of the downsides and potentially lasting effects of taking mental health advice that you get from social media too seriously and why it doesn’t replace seeking professional help. Finally, we end breaking down the DST confession topic of the week (hint: grab your popcorn). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 13, 202248 min

Ep 293Switching Therapists is Totally Normal FT. @JustMe.Rod

Aleen is rejoined by Rod Thill (aka @JustMe.Rod)—the millennial culture aficionado, mental health advocate and hilarious TikToker. The convo kicks off with Rod sharing his Non-Scale Win about creating a new routine with his meal schedule and Aleen shares an update on her strength training journey. Next, they dive into listener emails about finding a balance and the importance of celebrating the small wins (you're doing amazing sweetie). The episode wraps up with some insight from Rod— about his tips for finding a new therapist and the necessary steps to take while "test driving" one out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 10, 202216 min

Ep 292Men Struggle With Body Image Too FT. @Rod

This week Aleen is joined by mental health champion, millennial culture aficionado, and hilarious TikToker Rod Thill (aka @JustMe.Rod). They dive right in to talk about Rod's struggles with body dysmorphia, combatting an eating disorder and finding *much needed* comfort from therapy. Rod then divulges the difficult sides of having such a popular social platform—where it’s not all fun and games—and how he manages to use his platform for good, even when he’s not feeling his best. Moral of the story? Everyone struggles behind the scenes—even Rod. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 6, 202245 min

Ep 291Help, I'm Too Lazy To Make Healthy Meals Ft. Tamar Samuels & Vanessa Rissetto of Culina Health

This week Aleen's rejoined by Registered Dietitian Nutritionists Tamar Samuels and Vanessa Rissetto, co-founders of Culina Health. The convo kicks off with Aleen, Tamar, and Vanessa sharing some Non-Scale Wins and giving their pro-tips for conquering adult struggles like not having enough time between meetings to make a healthy lunch and not over snacking before dinner. Then, they dive into a few listener emails and give even more advice that we needed to hear. The trio then talk about getting back into the kitchen (trust us, it's easier to do than you think), the importance of eating a balanced meal, and why sandwiches are not getting the attention they deserve (yes, you should absolutely eat both slices of bread). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 3, 202225 min

Ep 290Finally, A Nutritionist Who Hates Kale Ft. Tamar Samuels & Vanessa Rissetto of Culina Health

Aleen is joined by Tamar Samuels and Vanessa Rissetto, Registered Dietitian Nutritionists and co-founders of Culina Health. Tamar and Vanessa talk about why they believe food is medicine, how nutrition is not one-size-fits-all, and give tips on how to make eating nutritious meals less daunting. They also share their real feelings towards leafy greens (spoiler: ew, kale) and what Instagram often gets wrong about nutrition. Finally, we play a game of “DST Confessions” in which Aleen, Vanessa, and Tamar must all confess to something about our favorite topic (food obviously). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 30, 202250 min

Ep 289Our Latest Workout Obsessions Ft. Ashley Fern

On this Thursday’s episode, Aleen is joined by Ashley Fern, returning DST guest and the face behind @betchestravel (go follow if you haven’t already). They start by sharing their Non-Scale Wins of the week, presented by Impossible Foods, which includes Aleen's truly “virtual” workout experience and a listener submission about putting your mental health first. Then, Ashley joins us for a new segment, "Workout Woman", where she'll be testing out & sharing new workouts she's been loving (or not) both IRL & at-home. For Ashley's first workout, she shares a detailed review of her recent intense (ugh) group cardio session. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 27, 202227 min

Ep 288Why Can’t I Believe People When They Say I Look Good? Ft. Morgan Simianer From Cheer

This week Aleen is joined by Morgan Simianer, star of everybody’s favorite bingeable Netflix reality series Cheer. Morgan tells us what she’s been up to in the past two years since finding sudden fame with the team from Navarro College in season one. Aleen and Morgan talk about what it’s like to be a high profile (and high pressure) athlete, both mentally and physically, as well as how Morgan’s life has changed since the show aired. We also hear about what’s next for Morgan now that her cheering career is behind her, which surprising thing gives her the most anxiety (hint: it’s not flying through the air in a death-defying stunt), and what it feels like to be getting compliments from strangers when you don’t see yourself that way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 23, 202234 min

Ep 287Admit It, You Stare At Yourself On Zoom Ft. Drs Lindsay & Lexie Kite

Aleen is rejoined by sisters Dr. Lindsay Kite and Dr. Lexie Kite, co-authors of the book More Than a Body: Your Body Is an Instrument, Not an Ornament for this week's Dear DST. The conversation kicks off with Lexie, Lindsay and Aleen sharing their Non-Scale Wins. Next, they dig into some listener emails about breaking bad habits and how we can fight off the peer pressure that some of us feel to keep up with the "norm" of beauty standards (cough cough, botox and fillers). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 20, 202227 min

Ep 286Stop Looking At Your Body And Start Living In It Ft. Drs. Lindsay & Lexie Kite

This week, Aleen is joined by Dr. Lindsay Kite and Dr. Lexie Kite, co-authors of the book More Than a Body: Your Body Is an Instrument, Not an Ornament and identical twins. They’re also co-directors of the nonprofit Beauty Redefined. Lindsay and Lexie work to help women understand that having a positive body image isn’t just about believing your body looks good, it’s knowing your body IS good—regardless of how it looks. They share lessons on how we can better ourselves, while acknowledging we’re human and will inevitably compare ourselves to others more than we’d like to admit. They also break down their approach of inspiring younger generations to feel the same. Start being nicer to your body by reading their book: https://amzn.to/3qkS9Av and find out more about their online courses at www.morethanabody.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 16, 20221h 4m

Ep 285We All Judge People Ft. Jordan Syatt

Aleen is back with Celebrity Fitness Trainer Jordan Syatt for this week’s Dear DST episode. We kick things off by sharing our Non-Scale Wins of the week and then read some listener emails. Both emails share a common (and very relatable) theme: body image. The first emailer is focused on their post-wedding body image, and the other on the body image of someone they’re dating. Jordan shares that it’s okay to value your health as one of the most important things in any relationship, and judgey-ness isn’t all bad. I mean, we all judge people constantly, right? Right?!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 13, 202223 min

Ep 284Low Intensity Cardio Can Be Just As Good As HIIT Ft. Jordan Syatt

Aleen is reunited with one of the most requested DST guests, celebrity trainer and lover of big salads, Jordan Syatt! They start by catching up on everything Jordan’s been up to since he was last on the show in 2019 (where did time go?) including a big relationship change, a cross-country move, and a new fitness hobby. Then they talk about fitness best practices, wellness must-dos & don’ts, and a whole lot more. Plus, they discuss popular fitness myths & the truth behind them, including why Jordan thinks HIIT is not it and why low intensity cardio workouts are still super beneficial for your health. Finally, Aleen and Jordan answers some interesting listener-submitted questions and have a quick convo about Harry Potter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 9, 202252 min

Ep 283The 4th Annual DST Resolutions Episode

Happy New Year! Sami and Aleen start the year with a brief reflection on 2021 before sharing a bittersweet announcement about the podcast, and discuss what’s in store for DST this coming year. Then they react to the resolutions they set for 2021 - from finding new hobbies to starting a family, we listen to all the resolutions that they met (or more likely… didn’t meet) throughout the year. Finally, they end the show by setting some ‘loose commitments’ for 2022, because let’s be real: ‘resolutions’ is a strong word. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 2, 202250 min

Ep 282The Final Dear DST of 2021

Sami and Aleen are back for the final episode of Dear DST of 2021. We kick off by sharing our Non-Scale Wins and then dig into listeners' emails, which focus on the importance of getting a second medical opinion and how to set little goals for yourself to avoid doom scrolling on social media. Let’s continue to be the best version of ourselves in the new year and take these WTF moments and turn them into taking control of our problems. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 30, 202122 min

Ep 281The 411 On Endometriosis Ft. Dr. Sandra Gelbard

This week we’re joined by Dr. Sandra Gelbard, a board certified internal medicine physician, who previously served as the Chief Medical Officer of the Endometriosis Foundation of America. Dr. Gelbard gives us an extensive overview of endometriosis, clears up some misconceptions and gives us tips on how to best support loved ones who may be experiencing it themselves. You can read more in Vogue about Dr. Gelbard's approach to treating endometriosis and how she's helped many women including Lena Dunham to make tough medical decisions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 26, 202134 min

If I Had A Do Over... (DST: Back For Seconds Excerpt)

As a special holiday treat, DST presents an excerpt from the latest Back for Seconds episode, as Sami and Aleen admit what they wish they could change about the past. To hear more, subscribe now on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and check out the episode entitled “Sami And Aleen Admit Their Wellness Regrets”. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 24, 20214 min

Ep 280The Most Shocking Listener Emails Ft. Caroline Dooner

Sami and Aleen are back for this week’s Dear DST episode with author and ex-dieter Caroline Dooner. They kick off the episode by sharing their Non-Scale Wins and then dig into some intense listener emails. Both of this week’s scenarios are about inappropriate comments made about weight, both for good and for bad (mostly bad). They give tips for how to turn wtf situations into learning moments, and handling awkward situations moving forward. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 23, 202131 min

Ep 279Burnout Is F*cking Real Ft. Caroline Dooner

Sami and Aleen are re-joined by author of The F*CK It Diet and returning DST guest, Caroline Dooner, to talk about that all-too-familiar topic: burnout. They catch up on everything Caroline’s been up to since she was last on the show. Then they talk about her new book, TIRED AS F*CK, and discuss the best ways to avoid burnout, both at home and at work. (Is there even a difference anymore?) Caroline also shares some tips on how to say no to the things that don’t bring joy to our lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 19, 20211h 4m

Ep 278Overdue Non-Scale Wins & Silencing Unwanted Noise

Today for Dear DST Sami and Aleen are back together! They chat about Aleen’s first few months of motherhood, Sami shares more details on her embryo freezing process, and they read a listener non-scale-win about giving yourself grace during the winter months of the year. It’s too f*cking cold to move anyway. Then they respond to a listener email about telling people the real reason you’ve lost weight (illness) and communicating that their unwanted compliments are actually… well, unwanted. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 16, 202128 min

Ep 277The Post-Baby Body Episode

Welcome back Aleen! Today Sami and Aleen are back together, catching up on post-baby body anxiety, a new look on life, and Sami’s embryo freezing journey. Aleen shares her insights on her body image now that she’s a mom, how her views of her body have shifted after giving birth, and much more. Then we dig into Sami’s embryo freezing journey - why she did it, how it went, and what’s next. We’re so happy that Sami and Aleen are back, and we get to catch up on where everyone is now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 12, 20211h 8m

Ep 276How To Respond To Backhanded Compliments

Sami is back for a solo Dear DST episode, starting with a holiday focused Non-Scale Win that we can all relate to now that we're in holiday season. She then shares some of her other Non-Scale Wins, talks about the process of freezing her embryos and more. Next, a listener writes in with a Dear DST email about backhanded compliments and how frustrating they can be. Sami shares her insights on how she usually confronts those types of situations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 9, 202128 min

Ep 275What It’s Really Like Being A Plus Size Model Ft. Catie Li

Today Sami is joined by Catie Li, plus size model, influencer and overall badass. Catie and Sami chat about Catie’s journey as a plus sized model and how behind the fashion industry is in the world of extended sizing. Catie then shares her best tips for extended sizing shoppers, what staples are a must-have in every woman’s closet and so much more. Finally, Catie shares some details on how she’s determined to help all women feel comfortable in their own skin like she’s been able to learn how to do over the years as a self proclaimed “overnight success ten years in the making.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 5, 202158 min

Ep 274Am I The Only One Dealing With Too Much Sweat?

Sami is back for a solo Dear DST episode, starting with an amazing listener Non Scale Win about bouncing back from a pre-wedding freakout and wearing the bridesmaid dress with confidence. Sami also talks about the beauty of tailoring a dress to your own body (and how confident it can make you feel). Then she shares a couple of NSWs of her own, including one about getting back in the pool and another about actually setting a doctor’s appointment (and not looking at the number on the scale). Next, a listener writes in with a Dear DST email about the all-too-relatable issue of excess sweat and how to find a solution that works for you. Sami tells us about her own experience with sweat and offers some tips for solutions that work for her. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 2, 202123 min

Ep 273How to Become Your Most Confident Self Ft. Serena Kerrigan

Today Sami is joined by the one, the only, the self-styled Queen of Confidence, content creator Serena F*cking Kerrigan—or SFK for short. They start off by chatting about the ultimate act of self love (spoiler: it’s self pleasure), which inspired Serena’s new card game. SFK then divulges why she had to start an OnlyFans to avoid getting shadowbanned—tea!—before the conversation shifts towards Serena’s speciality, confidence. From feeling insecure about weight to the importance of using that exact verb “feeling,” instead of “I am,” they get into the nitty gritty nature of confidence with all its ups and downs. Finally, Sami and Serena delve into changing your frame of thought with direct tips on how to become your most confident, sexy self. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 28, 202158 min

Ep 272Should I Take Sides In The Thanksgiving Family Drama?

Sami starts off today’s Thanksgiving episode of Dear DST by sharing her own holiday plans—including making her first ever turkey—and getting into the struggles that come along with these kinds of family gatherings. Then, Sami reads a listener’s Non Scale Win about dropping those self-created food “rules” and buying herself not one, but two pumpkin pies—how good does that sound?! Sami then shares a NSW of her own, and reflects on a recent DST: Back for Seconds episode about living with grief. Finally, we close the episode with a Dear DST email about navigating the all too familiar Thanksgiving family drama. Sami responds to the questions we all want to know—are you obligated to take sides? And is it possible to avoid a family fall-out? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 25, 202123 min

Ep 271How To Shop For Your Body Type Ft. Katie Sturino

Sami is joined by a fan favorite, the founder of Megababe and author of Body Talk, Katie Sturino. They start by talking about influences on body image during our formative years (we’re looking at you Gwyneth). Then they dive into a conversation about shopping for all body types, including actual brand recommendations if you’re looking for extended sizing options. They talk about the line between focusing on healthy choices for your body, and the looming influence of diet culture. Sami tells us what led to her shift in diet thinking before and after her wedding last year, and they discuss the threat of treating your wedding photos as a benchmark. Finally, they close things with a playbook for changing your attitude toward negative body thoughts and finding confidence in yourself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 21, 202144 min

Ep 270Can You Trick Someone Into Thinking You’re More Attractive? Ft. Jared Freid

On this Thursday’s episode, Sami is joined by stand-up comedian and U Up? co-host, Jared Freid. They start off by discussing how excited they are for Jordana’s wedding. Then they share a listener non-scale win all about continuing to work out in the winter. Then they share some NSWs of their own; Jared’s about letting himself enjoy a cookie, and Sami’s about finally scheduling her embryo freezing. Finally, they read a Dear DST about how to be confident in your body while dating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 18, 202124 min

Ep 269Talking To Guys About Your Biological Clock Ft. Jared Freid

This week, Sami is joined by our favorite stand-up comedian and U Up? co-host, Jared Freid. They start off by discussing dating at different ages, how dating is different for men and women, and deciding when’s the right time to have children. Then they discuss how the pandemic has changed their lifestyles forever, deciding to have that extra drink, and late-night eating. Finally, Sami & Jared answer some listener submitted questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 14, 20211h 13m

Ep 268Who Cares What Size You Are If The Clothes Fit? Ft. Marisa Kabas

On this Thursday’s episode, Sami is joined by writer, Marisa Kabas. They start off by reading a listener non-scale win all about being okay with sizing up in their jeans. Then Sami shares her NSW, which was about recording a Back For Seconds with her Mom about the loss of her brother, Zachary. Finally, they read a Dear DST about how to tell your doctor to stop commenting on your weight. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 11, 202120 min

Ep 267Have You Ever Been Fat Shamed By Your Doctor? Ft. Marisa Kabas

This week Sami is joined by writer Marisa Kabas. They start off by discussing Marisa’s experience dealing with weight stigma in heath care and having to diagnosis herself. They also discuss feeling judged by doctors who can’t see past their weight, being haunted by doctors who won’t stop showing us their BMI charts, and why it’s important to always advocate for yourself. They also talk about hospital bills, what pituitary tumors are, and functional medicine. Finally, they read some listener submitted stories about weight bias in medicine. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 7, 202145 min

Ep 266The Fashion Industry Needs To Change, Not Our Bodies

Sami starts off by reading a listener Non-Scale Win all about accepting their body and buying clothes that actually fit. Then she shares some NSWs of her own, including one about how she feels confident when she wears clothes that fit properly, and another about completing the DST-Peloton community ride. Finally, she reads a Dear DST about how to break-up with the scale. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 4, 202114 min

Ep 265Why Acceptance & Closure Are Myths Ft. Grief Expert, Claire Bidwell Smith

This week Sami is joined by renowned grief expert, therapist, and author, Claire Bidwell Smith. They start off by discussing some misconceptions about grief, how long people think grief lasts vs. how long it actually lasts, and feeling like you have unprocessed grief. They also discuss losing someone during Covid, experiencing anger, and how to access unprocessed grief. Then they discuss the 5 stages of grief, what acceptance actually feels like, and different types of grief such as the loss of a romantic relationship. They also talk about dreaming about a lost loved one, the first steps to take to process grief, and why it's important to find support. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 31, 202139 min

Ep 264Dating With Body Insecurities Ft. Jordana Abraham

This Thursday, Sami is joined by Betches co-founder and U Up? podcast host, Jordana Abraham. They start things off by discussing their non-scale wins, including one about starting to play tennis again, and another about starting to cut back on unnecessary drinking. Then they read a listener NSW about being confident in their wedding dress. Finally, they read a Dear DST about how to deal with being insecure about your body while dating. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 28, 202129 min

Ep 263Everyone Gets Rejected No Matter How They Look Ft. Jordana Abraham

This week, Sami is joined by Betches co-founder and U Up? podcast host, Jordana Abraham. They start off by discussing if looks really matter, the pros and cons of dating apps, and practical dating advice. Then they unpack a book called The Rules, how to get back on the playing field, and questions you should ask yourself when you first start to date someone. Finally, they discuss comparing yourself to people on social media, why everyone gets rejected, and how to talk to your partner about your body insecurities. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 24, 20211h 6m

Ep 262Unpopular Opinion: I Don’t Feel Better When I Work Out Ft. Sean Kilby

This Thursday, Sami is joined by Betches’ Senior Director of Podcasts, Sean Kilby. They discuss gaining 40 pounds, getting into working out, and why working out sometimes doesn’t actually make you feel better. They also discuss starting to love vegetables, if working out can actually be a hobby, and why relief is the best feeling. Next they read a listener non-scale win about taking the time to recover after getting surgery. Finally, the hosts share their NSWs, including one about taking your vacation days and making the most of your trip, and another about being comfortable being on TV for the first time in a bigger body. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 21, 202145 min

Ep 261Ignore The Shitty Workouts & Just Do The Ones You Love Ft. Sydney Miller

This week, Sami is joined by HOUSEWORK founder and SoulCycle Master Instructor, Sydney Miller. They start off by discussing how to find the right motivation behind your workout, why there’s a workout for everyone, and what inspired Sydney to start her own workout community called HOUSEWORK. Then Sydney shares her weekly routine and why committing to a workout for just 10 minutes a day can greatly improve your life. They also discuss the pressures to look a certain way, why cutting out certain foods isn’t worth it, and how to find the best pump up music. Finally, Sydney talks about the process of freezing her eggs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 17, 202149 min

Ep 260Sami’s Lightning Round: Intuitive Eating & Weight Fluctuation

Sami hosts this Thursday’s lightning round episode. She starts off by talking about the many hats she wears at Betches, what job she would be doing if she wasn’t working at Betches, and how to stop comparing yourself. She also talks about intuitive eating, her relationship with Avi, and botox. Then she talks about feeling like your friends are thinner than you, her favorite foods, and how to deal with your worst body image moments. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 13, 202132 min