Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind Podcast

Forget spouse against spouse. Corey makes the case for treating divorce like a family system, not a fight, and shows why you may need to lead even if your ex won’t. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

When tensions rise, Corey shares why sometimes the smartest move in divorce is doing nothing at all. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Most people want answers in divorce; Corey explains why better questions matter more. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

What happens when both spouses want to divorce well, but emotions still threaten to derail the plan? Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

When both sides are in operator mode, Corey shows how to stop the spiral before it turns into all-out war. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Corey explains how to stay grounded when you want peace and your spouse chooses conflict. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Most people don’t need more legal tactics; they need a better lens. In this powerful episode, Corey Shapiro challenges you to stop spinning in circles and start asking the one question that changes everything: What am I trading that isn’t equal?Because staying stuck isn’t neutral, it’s expensive. It drains your time, your peace, and your power. If you’re caught in indecision or obsession, this episode is your wake-up call.What You’ll Learn:Why thinking like an Architect, not an Operator, is the first step to clarityHow to avoid pouring your kid’s college fund into your conflictThe 3-phase map of divorce: Get Clarity, Get Going, Get Your Life BackHow to stop trading peace for control and truth for approvalThe power of a single question to reset your mindset and protect your futurePower Line:What am I trading that isn’t equal?Core Insight:You’re not broken, you’re just in the fog. But every decision you make in this fog will shape what comes next. This podcast is here to hold the map while you walk.Action Step:Fill in the blank:“I’ve been trading ___ for ___.”Then ask: Is it worth it?Closing Thought:You don’t build a house without a blueprint. Don’t try to build your future that way either.You’ve got this.Even if you don’t believe it yet, Corey believes it for you. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

A high-profile lawyer doesn’t always mean high-quality results. In this final episode of our Divorce Attorney Styles series, Corey Shapiro explains what a “Top Dog” attorney really brings to the table, why reputation can be misleading, and how to protect your case — and your budget — from intimidation theater. Whether you’re facing off with a name-brand firm or just feeling outgunned, this episode will help you stay strategic.What You'll Learn:Why some clients hire big-name attorneys they can't afford, and what happens nextThe difference between legal skill and legal theaterWhen a Top Dog might actually be the right moveHow to spot whether you’re paying for reputation or resultsWhat to ask your own attorney if the other side brings in a heavy-hitterPower Line:Don’t confuse a big name with a big threat.Core Takeaway:You don’t win by matching swagger. You win by staying smart. Understand who you’re really dealing with, what matters in your case, and how to choose the legal strategy that works for your life, not your fear.Next Step:Ask your attorney:“Have you worked with this opposing counsel before?”“How do you plan to respond to their strategy?”“What are we doing to keep the case efficient and focused?”Closing Thought:You don’t need to be the loudest voice in the room. You just need to know what you’re building and how to protect it.You’ve got this.And if you don’t believe it yet, Corey believes it for you. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

If your ex’s attorney is loud, aggressive, or constantly stirring up drama, it’s easy to panic. Especially if your attorney is calm, measured, and quiet. You start wondering—am I losing?In this episode, divorce coach Corey Shapiro breaks down the third divorce attorney style: The Boxer. Not flashy. Not chaotic. But steady, strategic, and ready to strike—only when it counts.You’ll learn:What a “Boxer” attorney looks like (and why they might seem disengaged)Why tactical silence can be stronger than reactive noiseHow to know if your attorney is playing defense—or building a quiet offenseWhat questions to ask if you’re unsure who’s really fighting for youPower Line:“You’re not losing. You’re lasting.”Because lasting takes more strength than lashing out.Next Steps:Ask your attorney: Are we being tactical or just quiet?Get clear on the plan. If they’re prepping depositions, trial outlines, or settlement proposals—they’re moving.If they’re not? It might be time for a second opinion. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

If your divorce feels like a boxing match, you might be up against a brawler—someone who’s obsessed with one issue and won’t let go. In this episode, divorce coach and attorney Corey Shapiro unpacks the “brawler” attorney style: what it looks like, how it operates, and how to respond without getting knocked out.Brawlers aren’t random. They’re focused, strategic, and exhausting. But there’s a smarter way through.In this episode, Corey covers:How to tell if you’re dealing with a brawlerWhy one obsessive issue can drain your entire caseTwo smart strategies: Own it or expose itHow to protect your peace, time, and credibilityPower Phrase:“Expose it or own it.”Say it when you feel cornered. Say it before your next move.Who it’s for:If you’re facing aggressive accusations, constant pressure, or feel like you’re being backed into a corner, this episode will help you reclaim your clarity and stand your ground.Corey Shapiro helps you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter, so you can get divorced without losing your mind. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

If every message from your ex or their attorney feels like an ambush, you’re not imagining it—you’re dealing with a swarmer. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot the tactics that thrive on chaos and keep you stuck in reaction mode. You’ll learn how to stay steady, shut down the noise, and make strategic moves that actually move your case forward. I’m giving you four clear tools—and one mantra—to help you stop feeding the fire and start taking your power back. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Sometimes it’s not just your ex—it’s their attorney. In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the four types of divorce lawyers who fuel conflict instead of resolution—and how to stay steady when the other side plays dirty. If you’re months (or years) in and wondering, “Why is this still dragging on?”—this will help you get clear, get grounded, and start moving forward again. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Everyone worries about money. But what about the hours, months—even years—this could steal from your life?In this episode, I unpack the real cost of conflict: your time, your energy, your peace. I’ll share five ways I help clients protect their calendar and their sanity—including how to avoid pointless meetings, use a 24-hour pause to regain control, and stop letting divorce drama hijack your weekends.Because the longer it drags, the more it drains. And you’ve got a life to get back to. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Divorce can drag on for years—and no one tells you how much it will take out of you.In this episode, I talk about why your energy is your most precious resource and how to protect it like a budget. I’ll share three simple tools I use with clients—movement, gratitude, and meditation—to help refill your tank and stop pouring yourself into every fire.This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about staying strong for the moments that matter.If you’re running on fumes, start here. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Divorce is expensive, but it should not cost your financial future. In this episode, we break down three hidden traps that often drain money without you realizing it. You will learn how to spot billing abuse, understand the risks of attorney fee dynamics between spouses, and explore alternatives to open-ended hourly rates. If you are worried about how much this is costing or unsure if your legal team is using your resources wisely, this episode will help you take back control. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Divorce is expensive, but not just in dollars. Emotional spending is what drains people the fastest. In this episode, we look at the real cost of reactivity, the difference between fear-based and faith-based decisions, and how to cut your emotional output by half. This is how you stop fueling the conflict and start protecting your future.Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

A divorce doesn't end when the papers are signed. Not when there are birthdays, graduations, and future weddings ahead. In this episode, we introduce the Divorce Budget, a four-part framework that helps you protect your emotions, finances, energy, and time. If you want to avoid decisions that drain your future, this is where to start.Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over two decades of experience. I’ve seen how divorce can derail even the strongest among us. My job is to help you stop reacting, start thinking, and fight back smarter. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

Welcome to Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind—the podcast that helps you stay creative, not reactive, during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I’m Corey Shapiro, a NYC divorce attorney with over 20 years of experience, and I’ve seen firsthand how divorce can derail even the strongest of us. Let’s get you through this—stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next. Corey Shapiro. NYC divorce attorney. 25 years in family law. Child of divorce. This podcast is based on his book, Getting Divorced Without Losing Your Mind (mybook.gettingdivorced.org).Video: youtube.com/@gettingdivorcedAudio and video editing by Chris Mottram. Recorded at Melrose Podcasts NYC.New episodes every Thursday.For information and entertainment only. Not legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.