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S6 Ep 1Should you change your personality to make (and keep!) friends? An examination of The Big 5 Personality Traits at the Intersection of Friendship with friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson [Patreon Excerpt]

Welcome back to a new season, baby! (And we're on YouTube!)----Listen, I know this might sound harsh, but hear me out:There is a research study that examines the ways that certain aspects of your personality impact the way you form and maintain friendships. This week we're :digging into the study to better understand how we can better show up in friendshipsevaluating the personality domains that most impact relationship qualitygetting homework to help us adapt the parts of our personality that have gotten in the way of quality friendships while maintaining our authenticity [Patreon exclusive]While you should definitely keep the essence of who you are and not look for ways to adapt to please others, it's worth evaluating the ways that some (malleable!) aspects of your personality might need to be adapted if they're having a consistently negative impact on your friendships.------------** DID YOU KNOW you can enjoy this same episode on YouTube? **You can also access the FULL EPISODE by coming to "Office Hours" (our Patreon community). Get access now at www.betterfemalefriendships.com/podcast** If you're serious about making new connections with other women in 2025, we're weeks away from the Women's Connection Summit happening on March 7-8 in sunny Tampa, Fl. Wanna be an attendee (or heck, even a sponsor)? Get the details at www.womensconnectionsummit.comMajor thanks to the Women's Relational Health Institute for sponsoring this episode of the Friend Forward podcast.

Jan 9, 202515 min

S5 Ep 214See you in January 2025! (Season Finale)

With the election, hurricane evacuations, holidays, and behind-the-scenes projects, the Friend Forward team is taking a break. In this episode, friendship expert and host Danielle Bayard Jackson shares three reasons we're in our "rest era" and what you can expect when we return.----*Book Danielle to speak at your event at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.*Suggest a topic for the episode at betterfemalefriendships.com*Grab a copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships*Follow us on Instagram

Nov 4, 20247 min

S5 Ep 213The fine line between caring and codependency with Terri Cole

How do you know if you're showing care or showing codependency? How do you deal with a friend who's involvement in your life feels overwhelming? How do we show love for one another without losing ourselves? In this week's episode of the Friend Forward podcast, we'll speak with psychotherapist Terri Cole whose new book -- Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Co-Dependence-- aims to answer those very questions.----------------Shhhhh! Details for our Women's Summit were quietly published today. Check it out here.---------------Want bonus and extended podcast episode? Join our private Friend Forward Group Chat here.---------------Looking for a new book club selection? Grab your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships today.---------------Connect with Danielle on Instagram.Book Danielle Bayard Jackson to speak at your event.

Oct 17, 202421 min

S5 Ep 212Reality TV as a female friendship ritual and bonding agent (a conversation with the hosts of the "2 Black Girls, 1 Rose" podcast)

Reality tv often gets a bad wrap, but for girlfriends who watch together, it becomes a bonding agent. Why is that? The hosts of the wildly popular "2 Black Girls, 1 Rose" podcast are real life besties who break it all down on this week's episode.Be sure to listen to their show wherever you listen to podcasts, and join their Patreon for a deeper dive into all things reality tv.-----To learn more about what the research reveals about the mechanics of women's friendships, buy your copy of Danielle Bayard Jackson's new book, Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships.----Want to learn and connect in real life? Save the date for March 7-8, 2025 for a two-day event in Tampa, Florida. Details to come.

Oct 3, 202428 min

S5 Ep 211WHY DOES THIS EPISODE FEEL LIKE FREE THERAPY? (A conversation about conflict and safety with Domenique Harrison)

Research finds that on the other side of healthy conflict, people report feeling closer to one another. But what happens when we don't actually have the skills to navigate hard conversations? Domenique Harrison offers therapy at the intersection of race and relationships, and in this episode, she shares some of the key skills necessary to walk through difficult interactions with people we care about (whether or not racialized issues are at the heart of the conversation).If you know you need to get better at tough talks but you're not sure where to start, this episode is for you.-------[Note: The insights shared in this episode are not, in fact, therapy. Please talk to your personal mental healthcare provider before applying notes from this conversation.]-------Learn more at betterfemalefriendships.com.-------**Mystery event** Save the date for March 7-8, 2025 (and book a flight to Tampa, Florida!). More details to come.

Sep 28, 202422 min

S5 Ep 210The commodification of friendship: 4 signs it's not authentic

The word "community" is being thrown around by a lot of brands and organizations, but what does that word really mean? Whether you're a community builder or a woman looking to experience a real sense of community, listen to this episode of Friend Forward to learn four traits of authentic community so you can find spaces where you truly belong. Host and friendship educator Danielle Bayard Jackson breaks it down for you.---Want an in-person community experience? Save the date and book a flight to Tampa, Florida for March 7-8, 2025. Details to come (!!!!).----Buy your copy of Danielle's new book Fighting for our Friendships and host a discussion with your book club this month!----Want to book a speaker who specializes in the science of women's conflict and connection, connect with us at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com and learn more about speaker Danielle Bayard Jackson here. ** Follow Danielle Bayard Jackson on Instagram

Sep 19, 202418 min

S5 Ep 209The beauty and danger of friendship introductions, friendship overlap, and friendship poaching (Part 2)

Is "friendship poaching" really a thing? And when it happens to you, what should you do? In part 1, we looked at the benefits and risks of introducing friends to one another, but in part 2, we'll unpack the anxiety around "friend stealing".-------Want vlogs, bonus episodes, a monthly book club, and additional friendship research? Join the Friend Forward Group Chat.--------Grab your copy of "Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships" and read it with your book club!----Have an upcoming event? Host Danielle Bayard Jackson has been leading engaging, research-based presentations for over a decade. Book her to speak at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.----SPONSORED BY TELL PUBLIC RELATIONSHost Danielle Bayard Jackson's insights have been featured on national talk shows, NBC News, New York Times, Washington Post and other media outlets. She's also served as the official spokesperson for Bumble's new app "Bumble for Friends", and she has secured interviews on some of the country's top podcasts.If you're looking for the same kind of visibility for your brand, visit us at Tellpublicrelations.com to come up with a game plan of how you can get more of the shine that you deserve.

Sep 13, 202420 min

S5 Ep 208The beauty and danger of friendship introductions, friendship overlap, and friendship poaching (Part 1)

Should you introduce your friends to one another? In this episode, we'll explore the benefits of having what network researchers refer to as high friendship overlap. We'll also look at the main reason women are reluctant to connect their friends: the potential for "poaching", which we'll address in part 2. Want vlogs, bonus episodes, a monthly book club, and additional friendship research? Join the Friend Forward Group Chat.--------Grab your copy of "Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships" and read it with your book club!----Have an upcoming event? Host Danielle Bayard Jackson has been leading engaging, research-based presentations for over a decade. Book her to speak at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.

Sep 12, 202421 min

S5 Ep 207Are you currently settling for "unwanted friendships"?

In this week's episode of the Friend Forward podcast, host and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares insights for women who feel like they've passively cultivated a friendship network filled with relationships that they don't even really want. Tune in to learn how to navigate this situation with more clarity and confidence.-------Looking for your next book club read? Order your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships. and we'll send you an exclusive "facilitator's guide" (free!) to help you lead the conversation with your book club. Send confirmation of your order number to hello(at)betterfemalefriendships(dot)com and we'll send you this free resource.---Want Danielle to speak at your event? Email our team at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.---In this episode, Danielle briefly hinted at an event taking place in Tampa, Florida on March 8, 2025. We can't share too much yet, but save the date!

Aug 29, 202415 min

S5 Ep 206To the woman who's afraid to let her guard down in new friendships

Got trust issues? In this week's episode, host and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares 4 ways to gradually and responsibly allow yourself to be more trusting in your female friendships.Want two bonus strategies? We reserve extra content (including bonus episodes!) for members of the private Friend Forward Group Chat. Join here.-----LAST CHANCE TO JOIN OUR GROUP COACHING PROGRAM, "FRIENDSHIP ELEVATED". We have our welcome call kicking off next week which means you have three days left to register. Join at betterfemalefriendships.com/friendship-elevated---- Want Danielle to speak at your event? Email our team at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.---Are you in a transitional period in your life and ready to take a serious friendship inventory? We strongly suggest this activity to experience genuine "aha" moments about what needs to shift in your friendship landscape.

Aug 22, 202419 min

S5 Ep 205Are your friends secretly using "A.I. companions?"

People are turning to "artificial companions" to supplement (and sometimes replace) what they're getting from real-life friends. What are the pros and cons of using A.I for friendship? Why do people seek this kind of connection? And what are the broader implications of this trend?In this week's episode of the Friend Forward podcast, Danielle Bayard Jackson actually formed her own A.I friend and is reporting back. Listen to this episode to learn more about friendship at the intersection of artificial intelligence.----Book a personal session with Danielle here.-----Book Danielle to lead a workshop or be a keynote speaker at your upcoming events by emailing info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com.-----Last chance to join the Friendship Elevated Group Coaching Program. Learn more here.-----Buy your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships (and read it with your book club!) here.

Aug 15, 202425 min

S5 Ep 204"She ghosted me. Now what?"

Ghosting is nothing new, but it does seem like it's become a more common option for those who want to end a relationship. New research suggests that platonic ghosting is just as painful as being ghosted by a romantic partner.But what do you do when it happens to you?In this week's episode of the Friend Forward podcast, host and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson offers 4 steps to help you decrease the time you spend ruminating and internalizing and finally move toward action that will help you heal.-----------------Want to book a one-on-one session with Danielle? Visit us here.----------------ONLY 9 DAYS LEFT TO REGISTER FOR FRIENDSHIP ELEVATED (and receive "early bird" pricing). Join us as we work through research, exercises and lessons -- with bi-weekly coaching from Danielle herself-- for four intense months together. Learn more here: betterfemalefriendships.com/friendship-elevated--- Hire Danielle to speak at your conference! Contact our team at [email protected]

Aug 10, 202422 min

S5 Ep 203Avoid these 4 phrases when meeting new friends

In the market for new friends? In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares 4 phrases to avoid. ----Buy your copy of "Fighting for our Friendships" and read it with your book club or women's organization! Order your copy here.------Want to become a friendship coach? We're designing a high-level certification program. Learn more by emailing us at hello(at)betterfemalefriendships(dot)com.-----Want to experience a real transformation in your friendships? Doors to our (final?!) group coaching program, Friendship Elevated, are NOW OPEN. Learn more here.---- Want to stop ruminating about a frustrating friendship issue? Talk to a trained professional. Book your call here.-----Want to book Danielle to speak at your event? Email info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com

Aug 2, 202418 min

S5 Ep 202*BONUS* For the woman who feels alone in her private friendship struggles...

In this episode, you'll hear 3 women speak about the friendship issues they experienced and how shaking off the embarrassment of pursuing support for their relational health made a huge difference.----ANNOUNCEMENT!Doors for the 16-week Friendship Elevated Group Coaching Program JUST OPENED. Enjoy 20% off registration when you sign-up before August 18. Join us as we come together in an intimate community for bi-weekly coaching (led by founder Danielle Bayard Jackson), five video modules, out-of-the-box exercises, and research-based strategies to help women begin enjoying more satisfaction in their female friendships.Learn more at betterfemalefriendships.com/friendship-elevated-------Grab your copy of the new book Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Friendships-----Book Danielle to speak by contacting her team at info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com----THANK YOU TO THIS EPISODE'S SPONSOR: TELL Public Relations, a woman-owned PR agency dedicated to helping female entrepreneurs get more visibility.Learn how to get publicity for your business this (competitive!) holiday season by attending TELL's virtual workshop. Details at tellpublicrelations.com.And don't forget your weekly dose of visibility tips by listening to the TELL Me in Ten Podcast to learn publicity tips in ten minutes or less.

Jul 31, 202424 min

S5 Ep 201Does being a "good friend" to some mean being a "bad friend" to others?

In this episode, host and friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson discusses the idea that being a good friend to some might mean being a bad friend to others. She explores four points to consider when choosing which friendships to prioritize: being a good friend is relative, time is a limited resource, only 50% of friendships are reciprocal, and some people may be displeased with your choices. She encourages listeners to take inventory of their friendships and consider concentrating their efforts on their top three to five friends.Keywordsfriendships, good friend, bad friend, overwhelm, prioritize, time management, reciprocal friendshipsTakeawaysBeing a good friend is relative and different people have different expectations of what it means to be a good friend.Time is a limited resource, and investing in certain friendships means other friendships may receive less attention.Only 50% of friendships are reciprocal, meaning that not all friends rank each other the same way.When choosing which friendships to prioritize, some people may be displeased or have expectations that you're not meeting.Chapters00:00Introduction: The Complexity of Women's Friendships02:25Chapter 1: Being a Good Friend is Relative05:02Chapter 2: The Hidden Costs of Leaning into Certain Friendships07:41Chapter 3: Understanding the Reciprocity of Friendships13:26Chapter 4: Dealing with Displeased Friends: The Consequence of Prioritizing16:15Conclusion: Taking Inventory of Your Friendships-----------Buy Danielle's book "Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships"Book a private coaching sessionTake a friendship inventoryJoin the (final?!) cohort of our group coaching program, Friendship Elevated **BOOK DANIELLE TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT: email info(at)tellpublicrelations(dot)com

Jul 26, 202422 min

S5 Ep 200Three ways to keep your "hibernation friends"

Sometimes life's circumstances become so overwhelming that you find yourself withdrawing from friends. During your "hibernation" period, you hope that they'll stick around without getting upset, losing interest, or questioning the friendship. So what exactly is a hibernation friend and what can we do to ensure that we have the kind of friendships that make it through?-- In this episode, Danielle Bayard Jackson-- host and friendship expert-- announces a pivot in the business. Before entering into this new season, she's decided to revive one-on-one group coaching sessions for a limited time.To book your session visit us at betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching.----To book Danielle to speak at your event, please contact info@tellpublicrelations(dot)com. We are currently booked for October 2024, but have availability in September and November.---Enjoying the podcast? Consider buying Danielle's book: Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships

Jul 18, 202422 min

S5 Ep 199For the woman who desires more "active" friendships

In this week's episode of the podcast, Danielle Bayard Jackson-- host and friendship expert-- shares how she discovered she's in a new friendship season, and what she's doing to build more active friendships. To experience your own "aha" moments, take your friendship inventory buy clicking this link and using code "summersale" to enjoy 30% off within the next 7 days:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory

Jul 5, 202433 min

S5 Ep 198How to feel more comfortable going out solo

It can be intimidating to go out into the world and enjoy new experiences on your own. But what are the benefits? And are there strategies to help you to enjoy the experience?In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson offers three mindset shifts that will embolden you, followed by 6 tangible tips for engaging more confidently.-----Join us in DC for the final stop of the "Fighting for our Friendships" book tour, moderated by Dr. Marisa G. Franco on July 12. Tickets at betterfemalefriendships.comTake the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory

Jun 28, 202418 min

S5 Ep 197Friends are not enough. Use the "5-3-1 Rule" to improve your social health// With social scientist Kasley Killam

What is social health, and how can you improve it? Today we're speaking with Harvard-trained social scientist Kasley Killam who's been studying social health for ten years. Her new book, The Art and Science of Connection, is the world's first book on social health, and we're going to get clear on why this is an actual domain of our overall health.Spoiler: It can't be solved by just talking to your bestie once a week. It's much deeper than that.-----Take the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory-----Buy Danielle's book Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships

Jun 20, 202421 min

S5 Ep 196Dating and friendships: How can partnered women support their dating friends? A conversation with Lily Womble

As a single woman who is actively dating, it can be tough to get adequate support from your friends. Sometimes they mean well, but the things they say and do can feel dismissive or insulting, and that can begin to create a certain emotional distance that's hard to recover from.That's where dating expert Lily Womble comes in. In Lily's new book "Thank You, More Please", she breaks down how women can get more adequate support from their friends along their dating journey.As always, the unedited version of this interview can be found in our private community, The Group Chat.----Take the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventoryTo learn more about the research around women's connection and conflict, visit Betterfemalefriendships.com

Jun 13, 202417 min

S5 Ep 195Summer kick-off: "Modern Friendship" with author Anna Goldfarb

After a brief hiatus, we're back and ready to hit you with some fresh content to kick-off the summer!In this episode, we share an excerpt from our interview with Anna Goldfarb (@annagoldfarb), journalist and author of the new book Modern Friendship.We also chat a bit about the "Fighting four our Friendships" book tour. Three of the last four stops were sold out! But we're only halfway done. Come hang out with us in the few remaining cities:6/7: Raleigh/ Durham6/13: Orlando6/20: Chicago7/12: DC (with a very special guest!)Details at Betterfemalefriendships.com-----Take the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory---Are you curious about what the latest research reveals about the mechanics of women's friendships? Order your copy of Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships and then host a book club meeting for it this summer!

Jun 6, 202420 min

S5 Ep 194To the woman who's about to swear-off female friendship... Responses from listeners

We recently posted this video to TikTok, and there were women in the comments who said they don't want friends... many of them specifically lamenting the perils of being friends with other women. What do we say to those who are feeling that way? And for women who ARE feeling that way: what would it take to have you change your mind?In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, we share responses that we received on Instagram to this question: For women who used to feel like they didn't need friendship (specifically friendship with other women), what made you begin to open up?*If you're enjoying this conversation, you'd love the new book "Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Friendships".----------*You can also share your personal friendship stories with Danielle on her book tour.FIGHTING FOR OUR FRIENDSHIPS TOUR5/13 TAMPA5/18 LOS ANGELES5/30 NYC6/4 ATLANTA Buy your ticket NOW before registration closes!*Connect with Danielle on Instagram.---*Invite Danielle to speak at your event by contacting Sam at [email protected] the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory

May 10, 202418 min

S5 Ep 193How much time are we ACTUALLY spending with friends? The answer may surprise you.

The American Time Use Survey finds that the average amount of time Americans spend with their friends each week has dropped significantly. In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, host Danielle Bayard Jackson-- female friendship expert and educator-- shares what the research says about spending time together. She also shares her personal three-month experiment of trying to triple her time with friends... and 7 barriers that came up for her during the process.-----Take the Friend Forward Friendship Inventory, including an activity workbook and 45-minute guided video. You will immediately gain clarity on who to prioritize and what shifts need to be made in your friendship landscape:https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/inventory-----** Order Danielle's book (and get your preorder bonuses before they expire!) at Betterfemalefriendships.com/fighting-for-our-friendships** Want to book Danielle to speak at your event? With more than 15 years of experience in education and with tons of formal keynote presentations and workshops under her belt, she's ready to bring a personalized experience to you and your audience. Contact [email protected]** Follow Danielle on Instagram @daniellebayardjackson

May 2, 202419 min

S5 Ep 192The Three Affinities of Female Friendship-- A Framework of Women's Connection by Danielle Bayard Jackson

Sometimes it can feel like there are so many "girl codes" to memorize along our journey toward connection with other women. But after six years of studying the research on women's conflict and cooperation, host and female friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson noticed three themes that continue to emerge. She synthesized what she's learned and created an original framework called The Three Affinities of Female Friendship to explain the three things that account for women's connection-- and disconnection-- according to the research.You'll find a more in-depth explanation of this theory in chapter 2 of Danielle's book Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships.It comes out in 12 days, which means you have less than 2 weeks to claim your preorder bonuses before they disappear.Connect with Danielle on social media @daniellebayardjacksonBook Danielle to speak at your upcoming event by contacting Sam at [email protected] the details of Danielle's book tour (!!!)[This episode is sponsored by TELL Public Relations. Ever wonder how Danielle is booking so many media appearances, speaking gigs, book delas and brand partnerships? If you'd like this kind of visibility for your own brand, visit Tellpublicrelations.com.]

Apr 25, 202415 min

S5 Ep 191How Being A Bridesmaid Can Make Or Break A Friendship - Jen Glantz, A Bridesmaid-For-Hire Spills The Tea

Would you ever pay someone to be your bridesmaid? And how would you feel if you were a bridesmaid at a wedding and you learned that a fellow bridesmaid had been hired to stand beside you? And finally, what reasons would a woman even have to pay for an extra bridesmaid?Today, on the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert is joined by Jen Glantz, writer and an official bridesmaid for hire. In this episode, Danielle and Jen discuss the reasons why Jen gets hired for this role (and it might not be what you think), how being a bridesmaid can make or break a friendship, and how to navigate this role with grace, while keeping your friendships intact. And if you’re a bride-to-be, there’s some gold advice for you too. And, as always, stay tuned for this week’s homework. To connect with Jen Glantz, you can find her on @jenglantz or at @bridesmaidforhire.**And you can now pre-order Danielle’s new book, Fighting For Our Friendships* here!**Pre-ordering means you receive three pre-order bonuses, including audio courses that will not be available publicly. If you’ve not already claimed these bonuses, head to https://www.betterfemalefriendships.com/fighting-for-our-friendships to do so before they expire on May 7th!To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday.Want to join our Book Club and join in the conversation? Join us here. To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjacksonStay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforwardTo explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coachingBook Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Apr 18, 202429 min

S5 Ep 190Six surprising ways to be vulnerable in your friendships (that don't involve having an emotional breakdown)

Oftentimes when we hear people speak of "vulnerability," we picture an image of someone tearfully sharing about their childhood or expressing heavy feelings. But there are other ways to show vulnerability that can help you grow closer to friends that don't involve sharing secrets or having an emotional breakdown. If you've committed to being a bit more vulnerable in your female friendships, this episode will provide 6 specific examples of how to open up that you may have been overlooking.Host Danielle Bayard Jackson, host and friendship educator, will walk you through it.*** This content can be found in chapter 8 of Danielle Bayard Jackson's new book, Fighting for our Friendships: The Science and Art of Conflict and Connection in Women's Relationships. You have a few weeks left to preorder your copy (and claim your bonuses!). Order your book here and then claim your bonuses at betterfemalefriendships.com-----Follow us on Instagram so you're always in the know: @friendforward----Book Danielle to speak at your women's conference, event, or seminar by connecting with Sam at [email protected] YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:This episode is sponsored by TELL Public Relations, a visibility agency for women of color. If you've seen the way host Danielle Bayard Jackson has secured speaking engagements, book deals, brand deals, and media coverage and want to experience the same levels of visibility for your own brand, visit tellpublicrelations.com today.

Apr 11, 202421 min

S5 Ep 189Four Questions To Ask Yourself To Identify If Your Conflict Avoidance Is Becoming An Issue

It’s been a few weeks since you first noticed a pattern emerge in one of your friendships. You’ve been trying to convince yourself that it’s not a big deal and that it’s not even worth addressing, but over time you’re realising that your silence on the issue is costing you in more ways than one. In today’s episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson is discussing conflict avoidance and the ways it might be costing you, and she’ll be sharing four questions that you can ask yourself to identify if this avoidance is becoming an issue you need to address. So if you’ve got a potential conflict that you’ve been avoiding with a friend, and you’re considering whether or not to raise it with her, then this episode is for you. And, as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework. The questions I’m sharing with you today are straight out of a chapter of my book, Fighting For Our Friendships, which comes out on May 7th. If you haven’t pre-ordered your copy, you can do so now by clicking here, and claim three pre-order bonuses. To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘+ Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday. To connect with Danielle wants to hear about it - drop her a DM at @friendforward on Instagram or visit us 24/7 at www.betterfemalefriendships.com Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here. To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her on Instagram  Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coachingBook Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Apr 4, 202416 min

S5 Ep 188What to do when you realize you're not your bestie's bestie

The research on women's friendships finds that women tend to greatly value "mutual prioritization" in our same-sex friendships. So when we discover that we're NOT our bestie's bestie, it can be a major gut punch. In today's episode of the Friend Forward podcast with host Danielle Bayard Jackson, female friendship expert, you'll learn three guiding questions to ask to help you manage feelings of disappointment when you learn your friend may not reciprocate in the ways you "rank" one another. And, as always, stay tuned for this week’s homework.  ** SIX WEEKS LEFT to PREORDER YOUR COPY OF Danielle’s new book, Fighting For Our Friendships*  here! TO CLAIM YOUR PREORDER BONUSES** Pre-order your copy to receive three pre-order bonuses, including audio courses that will not be available publicly. Follow Danielle on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjacksonBook Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event:  [email protected] ------If you're an entrepreneur or brand leader who wants to learn about how Danielle is able to secure natioanl speaking engagements media coverage, and brand deals, visit https://www.tellpublicrelations.com and join the waitlist for a private membership that will show you how to increase visiblity for your brand in the same way.

Mar 28, 202415 min

S5 Ep 187Authenticity, Oversharing, and the Value of Not-So-Deep Friendships: A Conversation with Israa Nasir

You’re walking home from a friend’s party when you begin to replay a conversation you had with someone you met and, as you recall the way you dived right into personal life details within the first three minutes, you’re wondering if you overshared… Other people might regret opening up in that way but not you, because you often say - if it’s not a deep friendship, then I don’t want it - but is that really a healthy mantra? In today’s episode, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson speaks to Israa Nasir, a psychotherapist, speaker and writer, about the intricacies of certain friendships, challenging the belief that relationships must be intensely intimate to hold value. Together they discuss how different friendships can meet various emotional needs, and they also bust some myths about authenticity and oversharing.  And, as always, stay tuned for this week’s homework.  To connect with Israa Nasir, you can find her on Instagram, and to access the workshop referenced in this episode,  you can join her substack here too.  **And you can now pre-order Danielle’s new book, Fighting For Our Friendships* here!** Pre-order your copy to receive three pre-order bonuses, including audio courses that will not be available publicly. To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday. Want to join our Book Club and join in the conversation? Join us here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Mar 21, 202424 min

S5 Ep 186Why We Yearn For Friendship Groups, And The Pros & Cons of Groups vs Dyads

You’re out shopping and you see a group of four women walk by, sipping on coffee, pushing their carts and laughing at something together, and you feel a little sting. You’re wondering if you’ll ever experience that group dynamic again the way you did when you were younger, and you’re secretly wishing that you had a solid friendship group, in the way so many other people seem to.  In today’s episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert explores why we yearn for friendship groups, especially in our 30s, what the research has to say about it, and the pros and cons of friendship groups as opposed to dyadic friendships. So if this issue has been top of mind lately, then this episode is for you. If you’re desiring a little more vulnerability, depth and intimacy from your friendships, then this is the episode for you.  And, as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.  If you’re in a period where you’re trying to better understand women’s friendships, specifically relating to how to position yourself to make new like-minded friends as a woman in her 30s, you can join the waiting list for Danielle’s “Five Stages Of Adult Friendship” course here. To pre-order Danielle’s book, Fighting For Our Friendships, click here If you want to get your hands on the extended learning guide related to last week’s podcast episode, exploring the barriers to vulnerability in friendship (totally free of charge for a limited time only), grab your guide at betterfemalefriendships.com.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘+ Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday. To connect with Danielle wants to hear about it - drop her a DM at @friendforward on Instagram or visit us 24/7 at  www.betterfemalefriendships.com Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Mar 14, 202414 min

S5 Ep 185Four Reasons Why Your Friends Are Not Being Vulnerable With You

You’re walking home after a coffee date with a new friend and begin to reflect on the time that you spent together. You really like hanging out with her, but you realize that she doesn’t share anything about herself with you, at least not anything personal, and come to think of it, you have another friend who’s the same… In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson explores four reasons why your friends might not be opening up to you. If you’re desiring a little more vulnerability, depth and intimacy from your friendships, then this is the episode for you. If you want to delve even deeper into this topic, and get scripts, strategies and exercises to extend your learning, Danielle is offering an extended learning guide on this particular topic, totally free of charge for a limited time only! To grab your guide, head to betterfemalefriendships.com. And, as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework. To pre-order Danielle’s book, Fighting For Our Friendships, click hereTo never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘+ Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday.To connect with Danielle wants to hear about it - drop her a DM at @friendforward on Instagram or visit us 24/7 at  www.betterfemalefriendships.comWant to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here. To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforwardTo explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Mar 7, 202420 min

S5 Ep 184Three Surprising Ways Your Friendships Impact Your Marriage

Here, on the Friend Forward podcast, we’ve explored the issue of friendship at the intersection of our romantic relationships in a myriad of different ways, but today on the show we are specifically exploring the question of, how do your friendships impact your marriage? This is a question that’s been top of mind for our resident friendship expert, Danielle Bayard Jackson, since reading Rhaina Cohen’s book, The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life With Friendship At The Center. If you’ve ever wondered if, once you find your person, friendships are less important, well then this is the episode for you, as Danielle shares three surprising ways that your friendships impact your marriage.  And, as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.  You can listen to the episodes that further explore issues surrounding friendships and relationships, below:  How your friendships may be impacting your dating life and relationships with Dr. Tara of Luvbites - Listen here   Is your PARTNER the reason that your friendships are on life support? - Listen here  To pre-order Danielle’s book, Fighting For Our Friendships, click here To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘+ Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  To connect with Danielle wants to hear about it - drop her a DM at @friendforward on Instagram or visit us 24/7 at  www.betterfemalefriendships.com Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Feb 29, 202414 min

S5 Ep 183What to do when you're stuck in the middle of a boyfriend and a best friend who don't get along, with Ore Agbaje-Williams, author of “The Three of us”

A recent survey of 13,000 recipients found that 44% of people have reduced the time they spent with a friend because they didn’t like her partner. So what can you do if your best friend and your partner don’t get along? If you’re feeling stuck in the middle, then this episode is for you. Today I am joined by Ore Agbaje-Williams, author of the book, “The Three Of Us”, which is the book we are currently reading in your book club and Ore herself is joining us in our discussion! (Click here to join us too!)“The Three Of Us” is a fictional story about a woman whose husband and best friend don’t get along, and so I wanted to invite Ore on to the show to discuss this issue and share her insights on the matter. And stay tuned until the end because I’ll be providing three tangible tips of what you can do if you find yourself stuck in the middle between your best friend and your partner. And as always, I’ll be sending you on your way with some homework… To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays. To connect with Ore Agbaje-Williams, you can find her on Instagram, and you can purchase her book here too. Want to join our Book Club and join in the conversation? Join us here. To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforwardTo explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Feb 22, 202416 min

S5 Ep 182[REBROADCAST] Platonic Love vs. Romantic Love -- Notes on Prioritizing Friendship with Dr. Christina Douyon

For women, is romantic love more valuable than platonic love? And if so, what role does our culture play in influencing the ways that we prioritize these relationships? Today, on the Friend Forward podcast, we are rebroadcasting an episode that first aired three years ago, because it is one that is so powerful and still so relevant to share around this Galentine’s Day. In this conversation, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson talks with Dr. Christina Douyon, a psychologist and race & culture researcher who Danielle met when they both attended the University of Florida. They discuss how we define the role of platonic love, and how this differs to how we define and often prioritize the romantic relationships in our lives, society’s role in this, how this can be damaging for our overall satisfaction in our relationships, whether the term “best friend” is problematic or not, and the difficulties surrounding balancing our roles and responsibilities in different relationships. And, stay tuned until the end where they share five ways to see if your friendships are growth-fostering relationships. And for this week’s homework, of course. And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework. To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here. To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays. To connect with Dr. Christina Douyon, you can find her on Instagram and you can visit the Face Race website here. Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Feb 15, 202432 min

S5 Ep 1816 Hot Takes On Female Friendships

These days, when somebody says that they have a “hot take”, it can, especially on social media, be a way of being purposely controversial and going against the grain to create some spicy content that elicits comments, likes and engagement.    However, when it comes to friendship, there is sometimes a discourse around particular topics that leans a certain way, and our resident friendship expert, Danielle Bayard Jackson, holds a somewhat contradictory position on some of these. These topics are nuanced and a discussion around them is due, and so in this episode, Danielle shares her six hot takes on female friendship.   So if you’ve been looking for guidance with firmer positioning on a couple of different friendship topics, then this episode is for you.  And whether you agree or disagree, Danielle wants to hear about it - drop her a DM at @friendforward on Instagram or visit us 24/7 at  www.betterfemalefriendships.com   And stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.   To find out more about Danielle’s upcoming friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.   To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.   Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.   To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her on Instagram   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]   

Feb 8, 202423 min

S5 Ep 180Girl Problems: “How Do I Feel Less Guilty After Setting A Boundary and Stepping Back From A Friendship?”

Welcome to "Girl Problems" a bi-weekly segment from the Friend Forward podcast, coming to you every other Tuesday.   Today’s episode addresses a listener’s friendship question regarding the notion of guilt. Our listener is currently undergoing a friendship transition, where she is stepping back from a friendship she no longer feels aligned with. Whilst she is happy to let this relationship dissolve, she is also feeling guilty about setting her boundaries in this way and opting out of the friendship.   Join us as our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson offers her expert insights on the matter, and shares the three questions that our listener can ask herself to help feel her feel less guilty in this situation.     If you have an issue or question you’d like Danielle’s insight on, drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at @friendforward or visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠   To find out more information about Danielle’s upcoming event next month in Tampa, click here.   Click the ‘Follow’ button now to never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast. Brand new episodes are released every Thursday, and our Girl Problems episodes every other Tuesday.   If you want to join our Book Club and check out what we’re reading this month, join us here.   And if you want to submit a question of your own, visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠or drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at⁠ @friendforward.⁠   To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   Explore coaching with Danielle at www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching   Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]  

Feb 6, 20246 min

Ep 179What We Get Wrong About "Accountability" In Friendship

The word “accountability” is used pretty often both on social media and in real life situations, but what does it really mean, and how does it play out with regard to friendships?   You may be able to recall a time when you attempted to hold a friend accountable for a decision she had made, and been met with annoyance, anger and even withdrawal, leaving you wondering if you should have just kept your mouth shut. But is this ultimately what friends are for?   In this week’s episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson talks about why accountability is so uncomfortable, both for the person giving it and the person on the receiving end. She also breaks down the difference between accountability and shaming, and provides her expert advice on how to deliver it with love because ultimately, accountability is an unavoidable part of an intimate friendship.    To find out more about Danielle’s upcoming friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.   Check out Danielle's video on this topic here.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.    Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.    To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]    

Feb 1, 202415 min

S5 Ep 178How Burnout Is Affecting Your Friendships And What You Can Do About It, with Emily Ballesteros

Between financial stress and the many other ongoing demands on our time and energy in this modern world, the issue of burnout is real. It’s not about being lazy or not being invested, it’s simply about not having anything left to give. With no capacity left to nurture our friendships, burning is affecting our relationships and ironically, it’s community and support that we need to buffer ourselves against the effects of it.    In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson talks to Emily Ballesteros, a burnout management coach, and author of the upcoming book titled The Cure for Burnout: How to Find Balance and Reclaim Your Life, to talk about the relationship between burnout and friendships.    And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.    To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.    To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.    To connect with Emily Ballesteros, you can find her on Instagram and you can check out her website here.   Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.    To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]   

Jan 25, 202426 min

S5 Ep 177Girl Problems: “I’m Finding It Tough To Make New Friends And I’m Feeling Hopeless - Am I Missing Something?”

Welcome to "Girl Problems" a bi-weekly segment from the Friend Forward podcast, coming to you every other Tuesday. In today's episode we address a listener’s issue, where she is finding it tough to meet like-minded women and make new friends and is starting to feel a little hopeless about the whole situation.  She enjoys socializing and she’s confident in talking to new people, but she is struggling to find the time and energy to connect with new potential friends and, when she does make the time and the effort, she finds it hard to find like-minded people who are genuinely interested in forming real friendships.  Join us as our resident friendship expert, Danielle Bayard Jackson, sheds some light on this issue, delivers some research-backed validation and offers some tangible advice regarding mindset shifts on how to tackle this issue.  If you have an issue or question you’d like Danielle’s insight on, drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at @friendforward or visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠  Click the ‘Follow’ button now to never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast. Brand new episodes are released every Thursday, and our Girl Problems episodes every other Tuesday.  To find out more about Danielle’s Women’s Connection Summit event, happening in March in sunny Tampa, click here. It’s going to be three days of connection with like-minded women who are being intentional about their friendships, just like you. If you want to join our Book Club and check out what we’re reading this month, join us here.  And if you want to submit a question of your own, visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠or drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at⁠ @friendforward.⁠ To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward Explore coaching with Danielle at www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Jan 23, 20248 min

S5 Ep 176Four Phrases To Say In A Fight With A Friend, To Help Resolve Conflict

You’re sitting alone in the living room, phone in hand, mouth hanging open, suspended in total disbelief - you just got off a call with a friend and what started as a seemingly normal conversation took a turn when she surprised you by sharing that you rubbed her the wrong way recently with something you said at a dinner. Despite trying your best to stay composed, you two somehow slipped into an exchange of blame, scorekeeping and defensiveness, and you’re not sure how to recover. If you’ve ever found yourself in a similar situation, then this episode of the Friend Forward podcast is for you. In this episode, our resident friendship expert shares her own experience of a misunderstanding with a friend, and tells of how her and her friend managed to resolve things, swiftly and effectively, in a conversation that kept both of them feeling safe, seen and understanding. In this episode, Danielle shares the four phrases that you can use during your next disagreement with a friend, that will prevent things from going left, real fast.  To find out more about Danielle’s upcoming friendship event, where women will gather to share stories like this one, happening in March 2024, click here.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  To join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day challenge, click here Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Jan 18, 202413 min

S5 Ep 175Friendship Breakups - A Personal Reflection On Recent Events

This episode is a little different for the Friend Forward podcast, as our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares a personal story of her own, relating to a struggle she has recently gone through in one of her own friendships.    In the five or six years that Danielle has been building this platform, she has rarely shared much about herself and her personal life, but whilst Danielle thrives in sharing her expertise and her knowledge of recent research about women’s cooperation, communication and conflict, she too is a woman who is out there trying to communicate, cooperate and navigate the complexities of female friendships. So let this episode be a reminder that we are all in this together.    To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, where women will gather to share stories like this one, happening in March 2024, click here.    To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.    To join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day challenge, click here   Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.    To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]   

Jan 11, 20248 min

S5 Ep 174Girl Problems: “My Friend Just Blocked Me On Instagram And I Have No Idea Why”

Welcome to "Girl Problems" a bi-weekly segment from the Friend Forward podcast, coming to you every other Tuesday.   While I've never blocked a friend, I've certainly unfriended a friend in an emotionally impulsive state. It was so regrettable, and I often hear women talk about being on both sides of similar scenarios, when a friend withdraws without explanation. Today's episode responds to a friendship issue one of our listeners is facing, where she recently discovered that her friend had blocked her on Instagram and she has no idea why. Join me as I share my insight on the situation.    If you have an issue or question you’d like Danielle’s advice on, drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at @friendforward or visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠    Click the ‘Follow’ button now to never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast. Brand new episodes are released every Thursday, and our Girl Problems episodes every other Tuesday.     If you want to join our Book Club and check out what we’re reading this month, join us here. =   And to join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day Challenge, click here.   And if you want to submit a question of your own, visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠or drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at⁠ @friendforward.⁠   To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening next month in sunny Tampa, click here.    To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward    Explore coaching with Danielle at www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching   Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Jan 9, 20247 min

S5 Ep 173Picking Your People: Choosing the Right Friends to Prioritize and Pursue – A Conversation with Nina Badzin

If you had it your way, you’d be open to grabbing coffee or drinks with anyone who asks and, because of that attitude, you’ve probably developed a pretty broad social network. However, this attitude may also leave you feeling overwhelmed, overextended, and confused about who to give your precious time. So, as we bring in the new year, you may be wanting to put some thought into figuring out exactly what friendships to invest in, because it does require work – the texting, planning, coordinating, calling, holding space, showing up - so how do you know what friendships are worth it? In this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson is talking to Nina Badzin, author and host of the show, Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship, about how to know who to pursue when you’re being intentional about your friendships. Nina receives so many anonymous letters from listeners each year, so she’s the perfect person to shed some light on this topic. And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  To connect with Nina Badzin, you can reach out to her on Instagram, and you can check out all her podcast has to offer here. Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Jan 4, 202419 min

S5 Ep 172Three Ways To Deepen Your Surface-Level Friendships

A lot of us have friendships that we just accept will stay as surface-level relationships, or perhaps we talk ourselves out of taking the next steps to explore if there might be capacity for something deeper to evolve after all. Today, on the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares three tactical strategies that you can use to be more intentional about deepening your so far surface-level friendships, as we head into the new year.  And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  To join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day challenge, click here Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Dec 28, 202314 min

S5 Ep 171Girl Problems: “My Friend Isn’t Putting The Same Amount of Effort Into Maintaining Our Relationship As I Am - Should I Give Up?”

Welcome to “Girl Problems”, a bi-weekly segment from the Friend Forward podcast, coming to you every other Tuesday.  Today’s question comes from a listener whose relationship with her best friend of 7 years has recently grown distant and, after several failed attempts to cultivate more connection, is feeling like her efforts to maintain the relationship are becoming a little onesided. Our listener asks our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson if she is missing a hint here, and would it be wrong to just give up? Tune is as Danielle shares her advice on the matter.  Click the ‘Follow’ button now to never miss an episode of the Friend Forward podcast. Brand new episodes are released every Thursday, and our Girl Problems episodes every other Tuesday.  And if you want to submit a question of your own, visit us at betterfemalefriendships.com or dop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at @friendforward.  Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  And to join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day challenge, click here To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Dec 26, 20234 min

S5 Ep 170How To Apologize To A Friend

There are many resolutions that we tend to make as we enter the new year and when it comes to friendship, we might commit to making more time for friends or making new friends altogether. But what about making things right with friends? If there’s a friend in your life to whom you owe an apology, then this is the episode for you. Join our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson as she offers her advice on how to apologize to a friend to help you enter 2024 with a clean slate, a clear conscience and possible reconnection.    And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.    This episode features audio from Danielle’s most recent YouTube video, so if you’d like to watch this episode, head over to her YouTube channel and check it out.    To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ episodes are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.    Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.    And to join the “Be A Better Friend” (BABF) 21-day challenge, click here   To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.    To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]   

Dec 21, 202315 min

S5 Ep 169Three Ways To Manage Feelings Of Rejection In Your Female Friendships

It happened last week when you reached out to a new-ish friend, and she never got back to you. It also happened last month with a friend who went off on a coffee date with a mutual friend but didn’t extend an invitation to you. And it happened last night when you had a moment of vulnerability with someone, and she didn’t respond in the way that you were hoping. These are all examples of rejection, and when it happens, yes it can really sting. In today’s episode of Friend Forward, our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson shares three ways to manage your feelings of rejection when it comes to your female friendships, to help you recover and to help you cope, in these situations. And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.  And to join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day challenge, click here To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.  To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Dec 14, 202313 min

S5 Ep 168Girl Problems: “How Do You Respond When A Friend Gets Defensive?”

Welcome to "Girl Problems" a bi-weekly segment from the Friend Forward podcast, coming to you every other Tuesday.   Today's episode addresses a listener’s question regarding a situation where she tried to speak to her friend about an issue that had hurt her, and was met with defensiveness and accusations of being “over-sensitive”, leading her to ask, how are you supposed to respond when a friend acts this way? Tune in as our resident friendship expert Danielle Bayard Jackson offers her advice on the matter.   Click the ‘Follow’ button now to never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast. Brand new episodes are released every Thursday, and our Girl Problems episodes every other Tuesday.     If you want to join our Book Club and check out what we’re reading this month, join us here.     And to join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day Challenge, click here.     And if you want to submit a question of your own, visit us at ⁠Betterfemalefriendships.com ⁠or drop us a DM or a voice note at Instagram at⁠ @friendforward.⁠     To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening next month in sunny Tampa, click here.     To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson     Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward     Explore coaching with Danielle at www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching     Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Dec 12, 20236 min

S5 Ep 167An Honest Conversation with Taryn Delanie Smith - Friendship envy, guy's girls and how to be a good hype woman

Our resident friendship expert, Danielle Bayard Jackson, first met Taryn Delanie Smith at a launch party that Bumble hosted for its new App, Bumble For Friends, earlier this year in New York City. Taryn Delanie Smith has over a million followers on TikTok and is a former Miss New York, taking the crown in 2022. She is known online for being kind, intelligent and gracious, and she lived up to all of these expectations in real life. Danielle and Taryn got talking and the conversation quickly moved on to discussing the science and art of female friendships. Taryn asked Danielle about you, the kind of women here who listen to the podcast, and so Danielle invited her on to the show to speak about all things female friendship. Tune in to hear Danielle and Taryn discuss friendship envy, “guy’s girls”, how to be a good hype woman, what it was really like behind the scenes at the pageant, the importance of giving your platonic friendships the same grace as your romantic relationships, and much much more. And as always, stay tuned for this week’s homework.  Related Episodes:        “I’m not like other girls”: 4 Reasons Why Some Women Prefer To Be Friends With Men” – listen here          Three Reasons why “wedding drama” strains your female friendships, with Kara Maureen, The Bridal Coach –listen here   Connect with Taryn Delanie Smith on Instagram and TikTok.  To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.  To join the “Be A Better Friend” 21-day Challenge, click here.  Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.   To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.   To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson  Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward  To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected] 

Dec 7, 202331 min

S5 Ep 166How To Maintain Long-Distance Friendships When You're Scared The Relationship Will Fade Away

You’re in the middle of a late-night social media scroll, and you notice that your feed is showing you video after video of women doing things with their friends – picnics, target runs, book clubs – and on nearly every video, you find yourself tagging your bestie, sending her ideas of activities, despite knowing deep down that they’ll likely never materialise.   You’ve been long-distance friends for over two years now, and it's surprisingly really hard. Sometimes sending memes doesn’t feel like enough, and while you hate to admit it, you’re starting to notice a bit of distancing happening within your friendship.    On this episode of the Friend Forward podcast, our resident friendship expert, Danielle Bayard Jackson shares mindset shifts and strategies that you can use to help keep these friendships strong, because your girl is worth the effort.   And as always, stay tuned to the end for this week’s homework.     References:   -       To find out more about the research study, ‘Social Media Study Shows Proximity Is the Strongest Predictor of Friendship’, click here   -       To view the TikTok video Danielle references in this episode, click here     To never miss an episode of the Friend Forward Podcast, click the ‘Follow’ button now. New episodes are released every Thursday, and our ‘Girl Problems’ segment are released bi-weekly on Tuesdays.   Want to join our Book Club and see what we’re reading this month? Join us here.   To find out more about Danielle’s Friendship event, happening in March 2024, click here.   To explore more of Danielle’s friendship expertise, connect with her at https://www.instagram.com/daniellebayardjackson   Stay updated with the latest episodes and podcast updates at https://www.instagram.com/friendforward   To explore coaching with Danielle visit www.betterfemalefriendships.com/coaching Book Danielle to speak at your upcoming conference or event, by emailing [email protected]

Nov 30, 202311 min