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Ep 90Mama's Legacy | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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May 10, 202146 min

Ep 89There is a Superhero in Me | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

May 3, 202143 min

Ep 88Burden Bearer | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Apr 25, 202146 min

Ep 87The Blessing of Brokenness | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Apr 19, 202146 min

Ep 86Always Give More Than Expected | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Apr 12, 202140 min

Ep 85The Big Lie | Reverend Andra D. Sparks

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Apr 5, 202137 min

Ep 84Fresh Vision for Future Victory | Rev. Dr. Timothy J. Woods, Sr.

Mar 29, 202130 min

Ep 83Are you able to walk with your Pastor as he walks with God? | Rev. Michael Matthews

Mar 25, 202135 min

Ep 82Are You Guilty or Not Guilty of Being a Christian? | Rev. Cassanova Bristow

Mar 16, 202136 min

Ep 81Don't Shoot the Messenger | Rev. Antquan Hill

Mar 8, 202144 min

Ep 80What Does The Lord Require of You? | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Mar 2, 202143 min

Ep 79I Feel Like A Misfit | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Feb 21, 202147 min

Ep 78The Worse Things Good Parents Do | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Feb 16, 202153 min

Ep 77Me and My Real Family | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Feb 9, 202155 min

Ep 76Can We Be Friends? |Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Feb 2, 202147 min

Ep 75My First Love | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Jan 26, 202150 min

Ep 74The Reason Why I Sing | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

1/17/2021SERMON SERIES:“RENEWED”Speaker: Pastor SparksScripture: Eph. 2:10; Acts 9:1-18-Are you & The Lord ok?-Do you know what your purpose is in The Lord, and are you living it?-So many things in our life require renewal (drivers license, passport, vows, professional licenses, etc), so it only makes sense that we renew relationship—especially ours w/ The Lord-Your purpose & vocation aren’t typically the same thing; it can be, but it doesn’t have to beDon’t confuse level of employment with worth of purpose!God Made You On Purpose & For a PurposeDon’t ever think you’re “self-made”; you can’t make yourself because you didn’t make yourself!When we use what God has given us in service to Him, we should be excited & happy when doing it!Finding purpose has no age limit! You May Be Suffering From a Misplaced PurposeWhat you’re doing may not be what you need to be doing; that doesn’t mean it’s wrong, but maybe just that you can be much more impactful elsewhere (not job, but purpose)You May Experience a Divine DisruptionSometimes God will allow something to happen that seems—initially—as a negative, but it turns out being exactly what you need to get you where you’re supposed to be!Others May Have to Help Guide You to the Path to PurposeDon’t neglect help from those who can help you get to the next level of your lifeYou aren’t meant to “go it alone”! Who is the Ananias in your life?Renewed Purpose Will Always Align w/ What God Has Already Stated in the BibleGod’s not going to let your “come up” benefit only you; Renewed purpose for our lives is something we can’t do on our own; God’s not going let your “come up” be something you can do without HimRenewed purpose is confirmed thru obedience; step out on faith and trust Him to get you where you’re supposed to be!Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Jan 19, 202153 min

Ep 73The Day My Life Changed | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

SERMON SERIES:“RENEWED”Speaker: Pastor SparksScripture: Luke 19:1-10; Psalm 51:10-12-Your age has nothing to do w/ how “advanced” you are in your spiritual walk-If you feel like life has been dumping on you, know that you’re not alone—AND—scripture is filled w/ people who had their fair share of issues! A Renewed Spirit is a Clean Spirit (Psalm 51) How clean is your spiritual filter? Sometimes, we feel detached & bogged down simply because our “filters” have too much junk in them The more we allow “little things” to add up, the more—over time—we get clogged up Jesus Initiates Conversation & Conversion (Luke 19) In the story of the blind man sitting by the road (Luke 18) & Zacchaeus (Luke 19), what these two men have in common—despite their economic differences—is that religious folks tried to keep them away from Jesus After having been looked down on his whole life (bc of his stature & profession), Jesus looked UP at Zacchaeus The fact Jesus “came to that spot” (the tree Zacchaeus was in) signifies that Jesus knows—and can meet us—exactly where we are! Jesus also honored Zacchaeus by calling his name; the name of a person who was looked down on all his life by others, was called by Jesus Be careful trying to witness to folks when you don’t even have a relationship w/ folks; you trying to turn somebody on to Christ could actually have the opposite effect. Be relational, not confrontational Sincere Change Requires Repentance Zacchaeus was saved the second he dropped down out of the tree! Don’t make it more difficult than it has to be, all you gotta do to get Jesus is accept Jesus, and the second you do...you’re saved! Zacchaeus made the personal decision to give away half his possessions bc he knew he’d gotten it by cheating folks! He made the decision to SHOW he was a new person! Outward actions show inward change!Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Jan 11, 202150 min

Ep 72Baggage | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

January 3, 2020

Jan 4, 202151 min

Ep 71Turn the Page | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Speaker: Pastor SparksText: Philippians 3:12-14-An optimist stays up past midnight to see the new year come in, the pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves-Paul wrote this scripture while in prison1. Everybody Has Errors In Their PastThere are some things in your life you wish you could press 'backspace' onPaul was as religious as they come, but he still messed up!The reason I have an imperfect past is because of the junk/sin in my life2. You Don't Have To Be In Bondage To Our PastSome of us stay stuck on the page of our mess upsWe have bookmarked the page and we keep rereading the same pagePaul said to forget what is behind and STRAIN towards what's ahead!You do not have to be a slave to what's behind you3. No Matter Your Current Circumstances, You Can Start A New ChapterColonel Sanders was 63 years old when he launched into KFCAt 43, Circuit Court Judge Helen Shores Lee (first black civil circuit judge in Jefferson county) STARTED law school after a career as a clinical psychologist4. Change Requires Intentional, Determined EffortAll of us would get closer if all we had to do was sit & wait with our hands folded; Paul said we have to PRESS!You have to actively try to be better!We'll press for a ton of other things before we press to get things better with ChristWhat do I do to make this relationship better? I HAVE TO BE CONTENT. To do that:A. I have to turn the page on a casual relationship with JesusNo more DIY faithYou have to be willing to be taughtIf you're not being fed, do you have an appetite?Stop being a decent devilThe kingdom of God does not need any thugs or heavenly hustlers---Christ is supposed to change you!2 Corinthians 5:17Stop worrying about keeping it real and just BE real!Stop acting like someone makes you come to church/work in the churchIf you're pressing, you ought to WANT to be and do in the church!B. Turn the page on unforgivenessMove on and let it go!Some princes come with mud on their boots & know less than you, BUT they know how to love you the way you want to be loved---that's enough!C. Turn the page on THAT sinWhatever your THAT sin is, stop it!You have to care more about your reputation!Don't present yourself one way but live another!D. Turn the page on handling God's money your wayYou don't have to be rich to live wellE. Turn the page on being commonCommon means you're mediocre or of inferior quality; lacking rank or distinctionZig Ziglar: A rut is a grave with the ends kicked out We're not in a rut anywhere else in our lives (cars we drive, clothes we wear, techology, etc) but we're ok with an average relationship with ChristSermon Notes Courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Dec 27, 202058 min

Ep 70The Power of Love | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Dec 21, 202033 min

Ep 69This Joy That I Have | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

ADVENT SEASON 2020“REDISCOVER CHRISTMAS:Good News In Troubling Times”Speaker: Pastor SparksText: Luke 1:5-7-If all the stores that sold gifts, closed, Christmas would STILL be here-Just like a circus elephant is able to stay chained [to a small stake and a rope] because it’s been conditioned since birth, the enemy plays on our minds and conditions us to remember when we were “chained”. And unfortunately, all he has to do to keep us chained/stuck in our past, is remind us of the time when we were chained...-It’s time for you to get unstuck from what you’ve experienced and come into the FULLNESS of freedom that you’ve been given in Christ!-Your joy has nothing to do with your strength, might, or power, but it has everything to do with who you believe is in control and who you put your faith in!-We can never allow ourselves to get in a place of saying “I can’t wait til Christmas is over”; if you’re in that place, it might be time to check what your Christmas spirit is rooted in...It’s Ok to Be Joyful—AND HAPPYJoy should be present in spite of situations; and you should absolutely be happy when something good happens to you!The two things are NOT mutually exclusive or at odds with one another!Christmas, at its core, comes with joy. If you don’t feel it, ask yourself what you’re celebrating in this seasonJoy Is Our Strength (Nehemiah 8:10)If you’re struggling to tap into your joy, you need to remind yourself of how you felt when you first fell in love w/ Jesus—and what led you there!It’s possible to forever have this joy because THE WORLD DIDNT GIVE IT...SO THE WORLD CANT TAKE IT AWAY!We Can Choose JoyWe can choose how we react to our circumstancesRejoice is the verb form of “joy”; re- signifies that it’s something you DO AGAIN. In order to REjoice, that means you can constantly tap into the joy you’ve experienced before!Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Dec 14, 202050 min

Ep 68Peace In the Storm | Rev. Andra Sparks

Rev. Andra D. Sparks This sermon series is entitled Rediscover Christmas. The weekly themes will be December 6- Peace December 13- Joy December 20-Love This year, Forty-fifth Street Baptist Church will be engaged in reading a plan containing devotions for each of the four weeks before Christmas. Based around the weekly themes of hope, peace, joy, and love, there are seven devotions for each theme. The Advent season begins on Sunday, November 29th. For a copy of the devotional, please visit - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1NJhLhfDhHNtINm_WfXkdvnDAwYTFbjod/view?usp=sharing To give to the ministry - https://app.easytithe.com/App/Giving/fort7600279oly Spirit lead you on a journey of peace, joy, and love—and ultimately to a deep encounter with Jesus.

Dec 6, 202043 min

Ep 67Hope of the World | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

This sermon series is entitled Rediscover Christmas. The weekly themes will be November 29- Hope December 6- Peace December 13- Joy December 20-Love >> This year, Forty-fifth Street Baptist Church will be engaged in reading a plan containing devotions for each of the four weeks before Christmas. Based around the weekly themes of hope, peace, joy, and love, there are seven devotions for each theme. The Advent season begins on Sunday, November 29th. >> May this be a season of wonder for you. May it be a rediscovery of Christmas. And may the Holy Spirit lead you on a journey of peace, joy, and love—and ultimately to a deep encounter with Jesus. For a copy of the devotional, please visit - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1NJhLhfDhHNtINm_WfXkdvnDAwYTFbjod/view?usp=sharing

Dec 1, 202058 min

Ep 66Costly Love | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Nov 23, 202050 min

Ep 65When God Says No | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Nov 16, 202036 min

Ep 64Do Nothingism | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Nov 8, 202050 min

Ep 63What Am I Supposed To Do With My Money? | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

11/1/2020

Nov 3, 202057 min

Ep 62If I Can help Somebody 2 | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

10/25/2020

Oct 28, 202048 min

Ep 61Who You Gonna Vote For? | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

10/18/2020

Oct 18, 202057 min

Ep 60I Am Not Throwing Away My Shot | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Oct 11, 2020 Notes from "I'm Not Throwing Away My Shot"...10/11/20 Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Mark 10:46-52 -What have you been doing in this time we’ve been in this pandemic? -Preparation is necessary so that you can rise to the occasion when the occasion presents itself! Don’t wait until the moment hits, put in the work before the moment so you can meet the moment! -In this scripture, we meet “Blind Bartimaeus”; in those times, the prefix “bar-” meant “son of”, so Bartimaeus means “son of Timaeus” So, how do you NOT throw away your shot? 1. Use What You Have Until You Get What You Want * Bartimaeus couldn’t see, but his other senses were heightened. His sense of smell was sharper, his hearing was clearer, so there were things he could smell & hear that others couldn’t * Some ppl spend so much time wishing for something they don’t have, that they can’t utilize the things they do have 2. Recognize This May Be Your Only Chance * Never take an opportunity for granted because you may never get it again! 3. Don’t Let Folks Get In Your Head * People who haven’t experienced your desperation can’t tell you how to respond in your desperation * Bartimaeus didn’t let the crowd telling him to “shut up” keep him from getting to Jesus! 4. Swallow Your Pride * Plain & simple, Bartimaeus wasn’t too proud to beg! * He was willing to be looked at crazy if it meant he could get closer to Jesus! 5. Let Go of Anything Holding You Back * Before you can correct folks, you gotta show you care for folks * Bartimaeus threw his cloak aside, meaning he was willing to let go of anything that stood in between him & Jesus! * We’ve gotta put our stock in something more secure than stuff that can be here today, gone tomorrow 6. One Day You’ll Understand God’s Purpose for You * Only what you do for Christ will last * Until your purpose is revealed to you, keep preparing! Sermon Notes Courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Oct 12, 202041 min

Ep 59I have Learned To Be Content | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

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Oct 4, 202050 min

Ep 58Somebody Prayed for Me! - Effective Prayer (4) | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Sept 27, 2020 PRAYER MONTH 2020 Sermon Series: “Powerful Prayers for People With Problems” Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Luke 22:31-32 -Intercession: An entreaty in favor of another, especially a prayer or petition to God on behalf of another (in other words, making a plea or putting in a good word for someone else who may or may not not be in a position to do so) -Jesus is telling Peter, in the midst of Peter requesting a special place in the Kingdom, that Satan has been trying to get at Peter...but Jesus reassured him that he’s taken care of because He’s been praying for Peter. -We ought to make a habit of praying for others more than we pray for ourselves! -Do you make listening to other people a priority? Or are you only consumed with what’s happening in your life? -Satan doesn’t want you to succeed...and you’re not a threat to him if you’re not doing The Lord’s work... -Satan has no real power (meaning he can’t control anyone or anything), BUT, he’s a master manipulator. -In this scripture, when Jesus says “you”, it’s interpretation is plural; this means that even though He’s directing the message at Peter, He’s talking to ALL the disciples (and us too)! -In this scripture, when Jesus says “desires”, the interpretation reads that Satan is begging for the opportunity to attack Peter (and us) 1. Jesus is Our Intercessor * Because Jesus actively intercedes for us, we’re protected from the enemy’s attacks because our Savior covers us! 2. I’ve Gotta Repent When I Mess Up * When we mess up, we have to fess up; tell The Lord that we’ve done wrong, repent (leave the behavior we’re guilty of), and go back to Him—and He always welcomes us back! 3. The Believer’s Responsibility is to Help Strengthen Others * If Christ has restored you, it only makes sense to help others receive restoration as well! Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Sep 28, 202043 min

Ep 57Lessons from The Prophet Daniel P2 - Effective Prayer (3) | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Sept 20, 2020 “Effective Prayer: Lessons From the Prophet Daniel” Part 2 PRAYER MONTH 2020 Sermon Series: “Powerful Prayers for People With Problems” Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Daniel, chapters 9:12(b)-20 -When Daniel got put in the lion’s den, he was 80 years old -The enemy is crafty; he’ll either try to lead you into wrong or pervert the right you’re doing and try to make it wrong -When the king signed that decree aimed at making Daniel’s prayer time wrong, Daniel went to his house and do what he normally did: Prayed. -God appreciates relationship! While He hears the most random, out-of-the-blue prayer, how much better is it to be someone God hears from regularly?! -Daniel tried to keep his LIVING right, so it wouldn’t affect God’s LISTENING to Him -When your internal person is on point, it typically results in positive external relationships Prayer Pointers to Consider 1. Blaming God Isn’t Really Prayer * God doesn’t cause disaster, He allows it * The same God you choose to call on afterward is the same God you can call on beforehand; so don’t blame God for trouble 2. Review God’s Record in General—and in Your Life * God is the God that not only gets you outta trouble, but keeps you outta trouble! * Look back at all He’s done for you and others! He hasn’t changed and He won’t change! * Ain’t no such thing as God “going out of business” 3. Pray for His Sake * When you pray for His sake, you’re telling Him it’s for His glory; you’re asking Him to do something in accordance with His character * If we wanna bring glory to God, let’s talk to Him more! 4. Remember, If It Wasn’t For His Grace... * We don’t deserve any good thing God gives us! 5. God’s Response to Our Prayers is Immediate * God doesn’t have to “think about” anything * You may pray for something today that takes 5 years to come; God said “yes” the second you prayed, but you won’t be ready for it until 5 years from now! * God responds IMMEDIATELY—there is no delay to His response! You may have to grow into the “yes” or He may say “no” because He has something better prepared for you 6. When You Pray, Help Is On the Way 7. Angels Are Watching Over Us * You have no clue how many situations you’ve been saved from—that you had no idea were even situations—bc angels were watching over you! Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Sep 22, 202048 min

Ep 56Lessons from The Prophet Daniel - Effective Prayer (2) | Rev. Andra D. Sparks

9/13/2020 “Effective Prayer: Lessons From the Prophet Daniel” PRAYER MONTH 2020 Sermon Series: “Powerful Prayers for People With Problems” Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Daniel, chapters 9-11 -Daniel is considered one of the most righteous men in history -Daniel served at the top of a pagan (godless) government for over 50 years...and still kept his faithfulness to God! This is significant because the higher you get elevated, the more shots people try to take at you -There is nothing like being able to talk to God for yourself! There is nothing that prevents you from coming to God WHENEVER you want or need to... -Daniel carried himself in such a way that even his captors respected and acknowledged his dietary choices Lessons to Learn from Daniel 1. Start Your Prayer By Studying Scripture (Daniel 9:1-2) * The Word will never lead you wrong; and when you pray knowing the character of God, you get better results because you ask things according to His will & His purpose * To get stronger as a prayer, study the Word more 2. Let Scripture Lead You to Your Prayer Subject (Daniel 9:3) * If prayer is the train, then scripture ought to be the rails it rides on 3. Humility Gets Heaven’s Attention (Daniel 9:3; 11-12) * Arrogant prayer is an oxymoron * We’re not even worthy to approach God, yet He allows us to; so, while we should always approach Him as a “loving”, we also need to remember He’s our “Father” * Pride has zero place in our prayers, so never forget your place and who you’re talking to * Stop going to The Lord as if He owes you something! 4. Prepare to Talk to The King (Daniel 9:4) * The King deserves praise! Before you ask for anything, praise Him! 5. Clear the Pathway of Your Heart (Daniel 9:5-6) * Don’t try to “spin” your sin. Wrong is wrong, and if you’ve done wrong, be real with God & acknowledge it Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Sep 16, 202046 min

Ep 55The Mystery of Prayer - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

"The Mystery of Prayer"...9/6/20 PRAYER MONTH 2020 Sermon Series: “Powerful Prayers for People With Problems” Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Matthew 18:18-20 -Do you pray when you don’t have a problem? Or are you only an emergency prayer? -Prayer has changed things AND people! -Prayer has kept a child from doing something dangerous; prayer has saved marriages; prayer has made a supervisor change her mind from firing you to giving you another chance; prayer has saved folks from the brink of death -Prayer is a mystery; how does God navigate conflicting prayer requests??? If one is praying for “sun” and another is praying for “rain”, whose request does God honor? -What does “binding & loosing” mean? Jesus is saying ordinary people can exercise extraordinary power based on our relationship w/ God. -We believe, erroneously, that earth is “down here” & heaven is “up there” -God only does what fits His purposes; so binding & loosing is not some overwhelming power we have to declare something and it is so, but rather our ability to tap into His power when we ask according to His will! -The same way you believe you can go to a light switch, flip it, and a room gets filled with light, is the same way we SHOULD believe in the presence, power, & ability of our God! -If we bind sickness on this side, and God’s will is for healing to take place on this side, then heaven hears us and binds that sickness -Intercessory Prayer is helping another person by praying for them. -Prayer is multiplied exponentially by unity! Coming together with other believers in prayer results in a unique harmony that blesses heaven! -The real power of prayer is the presence of Jesus praying with you; heaven doesn’t hear my prayer bc I’m so dynamic or so spiritual, but because Jesus is in the midst of my prayer! -Our prayers ARE because Jesus IS! -Prayer is: God the Son praying to God the Father in the power of God the Spirit, in the prayer room of your heart! Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Sep 8, 202043 min

Ep 54Anchored In The Lord - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

"Anchored in The Lord"...8/30/20 Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Romans 5:1-11 -One of the reasons we don’t grow in Christ is bc we won’t read His Word -As long as we’ve got Jesus, we’ll ALWAYS be taken care of! In this scripture, we’re able to... 1. Realize Our Present Position * We are accepted by God & have complete peace with Him! * If you haven’t accepted Christ, you’re constantly at war with God; but if you’ve accepted Christ, you’re fully at peace with God! * After our acceptance of Christ, we are JUSTIFIED, meaning it’s just as if we had not sinned. Wow. * I am in a constant state of grace! I’ve got access to God & I’ve been accepted by God 2. Recognize God’s Purposes * Everything God has blessed me with is for Kingdom-building purposes! * You gotta apply your anchor to a solid foundation, so when heavy winds blow, buckets of rain splash, & the waves crash, you are unmoved because your anchor is connected to a Source stronger than all of that! 3. Recall God’s Amazing Love * Christ died for us when we didn’t hardly deserve it; Christ died for us even as we killed Him; Christ accepted us simply because we turned to Him—no hoops to jump through, no crazy ritual, just asking Him to be the Lord of our lives 4. Rejoice in the Presence of God * Regardless of what life throws at us, we can have an unstoppable joy because our anchor is the greatest Source imaginable! * WE. ARE. FOREVER. SAFE! -To accept Christ as your Lord & Savior, simply ask Him! Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Sep 1, 202037 min

Ep 53That Moment - Rev. Richard Cade

Aug 24, 202022 min

Ep 52What God Has Joined Together (6) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Aug 16, 2020 "What God Has Joined Together" 8/16/20 Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Various (Genesis 1:18-28; Colossians 3:23; Lamentations 3:22-23) -Why did you get married? -Did you even think about The Lord when you got married or only “oh Lord!” -Before you can fully understand what marriage is, you gotta know what it ISN’T. Marriage is NOT... 1. A strategy to make you whole * Degree, good job, car, house, marriage is not the order for marriage. Marriage happens when it happens, but to force it as the “next step” on your journey is to devalue the significance of it * Marriage acts as a highlighter over your problems. Marriage doesn’t solve your issues, it simply highlights them 2. The cure for being lonely * Lonely people become lonely married people! * Trying to have someone serve as your constant, ever present emotional partner is draining 3. Your escape from being bored * Boredom doesn’t come primarily from a lack of EXTERNAL stimulus, but instead from a lack of INTERNAL stimulus -To fully understand and enjoy marriage, we have to seek God first; our marriage has a purpose as laid out in Genesis 1:18-28. When we seek God first... 1. It gives my marriage purpose * You won’t fulfill your purpose in God until you & that spouse are on the same page moving in the same direction! * In the (b) part of verse 28, God gave Adam & Eve a unified purpose. God has given you your spouse a reason for existing together! * Building a home is a purpose; raising children is a purpose; building a Godly business, etc. is a purpose * Marriage is not marriage if all you do is focus on your stuff and handling your own individual needs * CHALLENGE: Over the next 7 days, pray WITH & FOR your spouse 2. Gives my marriage maturity * A mature marriage has a head; not a boss, but a head * There’s absolutely equality in marriage, but 3. Gives my marriage grace * There’s no successful marriage without a measure of grace, without understanding that people are flawed & need the same grace Christ gives us! Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Aug 16, 202036 min

Ep 51Secrets & Lies Ruin Lives (5) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

"Secrets & Lies Ruin Lives" 8/9/20 Sermon Series: “REAL LOVE” A Relationship Rehab Series Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Joshua 7:24-26 -Withholding information is just another form of lying (a half-truth is a whole lie) -Intimacy means to be “fully-known” & it is a by-product of truth-telling Waterlines in our lives: * Image waterline is what we want the public to see & it’s what we work hard to make impressive * Spouse waterline is a step beyond the image waterline because our spouse knows a deeper level than the public; while the public sees the nice outfit, our spouse knows we got holes in our socks! * “Hiddenness” waterline is the line that holds the stuff we don’t want/allow anyone else to really see or know Learn to tell the truth to three people: 1. Yourself - It’s foolish to try to deceive ourselves! 1 John 1:8 says that if we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth isn’t in us. When I believe the lies I tell myself, I’m in a dangerous place 2. Your Spouse (Friends) - You need someone to keep you accountable! 3. God - He already knows, so why not have a conversation with someone who knows you FULLY...yet loves you DEEPLY?! 1 John 1:9 says that if we confess our sins, God is faithful & will forgive us and cleanse us! We gotta go thru a heart change to get better: 1. Value truth-telling more than image-building (it’s ok to not have it all together!) 2. Value transparency more than accountability (there can’t be true accountability without transparency first) 3. Value intimacy more than the absence of conflict ” Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Aug 10, 202046 min

Ep 50Unforgiveness (4) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

Aug 2, 2020

Aug 3, 202042 min

Ep 49These Three Words (3) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

"These Three Words"...7/26/20 PART 3 PART 2 - https://youtu.be/KfIhHZ-ggoM "These Three Words"...7/26/20 Sermon Series: “REAL LOVE” A Relationship Rehab Series Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: 1 Samuel 25 -There are times in relationships where we simply just don’t get it right -Sometimes it’s not the act, but the discussion after the act that hurts the most. We gotta know HOW to talk to each other! -While the words “I love you” are uber important, “I am sorry” are just as important -There’s no way you can join two lives together without stepping on each other’s toes at times -In this scripture, Nabal—and a ton of people—were spared because Nabal’s wife, Abigail, stepped in and apologized to David on Nabal’s behalf, thus saving the lives of her entire household -Do you know how to apologize? WHY APOLOGIZE? * Because it’s a way of recognizing & acknowledging our wrongs, and by doing so we clear the air with others to help restore relationship -Understand though, that apologies don’t automatically equate to forgiveness. Do your part and let the other person come around when they’re ready ELEMENTS OF A HEALTHY APOLOGY * Address everyone involved * This includes the innocent bystanders that heard/saw/experienced the junk you did * Avoid “if”, “but”, & “maybe” * When we use these terms, we lessen what we’ve done and put the responsibility on the other person * Admit specifically what you’ve done * Acknowledge the hurt * Empathy goes a long way; it’s hard to acknowledge hurting someone when you don’t put yourself in their shoes * Accept the consequences * The person may not forgive you...but that’s their right. Do your part and give them space to process it as they see fit * Alter your behavior * If your apology isn’t combined with changed behavior, it’s a hollow, ineffective, insincere apology * Ask for forgiveness & allow time * “I’m sorry” acknowledges behavior; “will you forgive me?” requests righting the relationship. * Time is a healer 3x5 Apology Rules * Express regret * Accept Responsibility * Make restitution * Genuine repentance * Request forgiveness Sermon Notes courtesy of Deacon Anthony Sparks

Jul 26, 202047 min

Ep 48Unrealistic Expectations (2) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

July 19, 2020

Jul 19, 202042 min

Ep 47Crumbs (1) - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

7/12/2020 Part One of the "I Only Have Eyes For You Relationship/Refresh Series"

Jul 12, 202048 min

Ep 46The Day Jesus Got Really Angry - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

7/5/2020

Jul 5, 202035 min

Ep 45THE JUST-US LEAGUE - Deacon Cedric D. Sparks Sr.

June 28, 2020

Jun 29, 202049 min

Ep 44Where Are You Man? - Rev. Cassanova Bristow

- June 14, 2020 This is Week 2 of The Shades of Fatherhood Series To give to the ministry - https://app.easytithe.com/App/Giving/fort7600279 Follow us on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/45baptistchurch/ Follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/45thstreetbc/

Jun 15, 202025 min

Ep 43Daddy Lessons - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

June 7, 2020 Sermon Series: “Shades of a Father“ Speaker: Pastor Sparks Text: Matthew 3:16-17 1. A Father ANNOUNCES His Son • Good fathers are never ashamed of their children! • Regardless of how a child is brought here, once he/she is here, don’t ever let them know a time that you aren’t thankful to have them in your life! • A Father ADORES His Son • Children can live without a lot of things, but love isn’t one of them • Next to giving your child the knowledge of having a relationship w/ The Lord, the best thing a father can give his child unconditional love o Unconditional means that if no one else affirms, likes, appreciates them, daddy will o Unconditional means you love them thru their mistakes o Unconditional means we love them like God loves us! • You can love your child unconditionally without approving of the junk they sometimes do • Don’t starve your children of your love and affection! We are physical beings created for physical interaction; how you nurture your children plays a significant role in how they respond to the world around them • Make telling your children “I love you” a regular occurrence • A Father ACCEPTS His Son • God said “I’m well pleased”, which signified God’s approval of His Son; when’s the last time you told your child “I’m proud of you”? • A child’s responsibility is to be what God has created them to be, not be what parents think they should be • Don’t hold your children hostage with your expectations • Don’t hold the mistakes of your children over their head • A Father APPRENTICES His Son • A good father gives his son some work to do • If you want your children to have a meaningful life, teach them how to do some work • Your children may not want to follow in your footsteps, but they should pick SOMETHING up from you that makes them better! • Do your children want to follow Jesus based on your relationship with Jesus? -- -Deacon Anthony D. Sparks

Jun 7, 202043 min

Ep 42The Seen & the Unseen - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

May 31, 202040 min

Ep 41DORCAS- May The Work I've Done Speak For Me - Rev. Andra D. Sparks

May 24, 2020

May 24, 202044 min