Focus on the Family Commentary

Do your teenagers rely on you too much to solve their problems? Jim Daly offers ways to help your teen think through challenging circumstances and find solutions on their own. (Original air date: Oct. 28, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

America is built on the principles of justice, human dignity, and freedom for all, but we've never fulfilled those ideals perfectly. Jim Daly explains why the way forward for America is now what it's always been – a stumbling journey forward.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Is your marriage a struggle because you don't think it measures up to other couples? Jim Daly explains why a peek behind closed doors would reveal just how imperfect other marriages really are. (Original air date: March 12, 2014)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When we go through tough times, we have two choices: face reality ... or embrace reality. Jim Daly explains how to put your past in the past and set yourself free to embrace your future.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Parenting children is a lot like gardening. Jim Daly explains how to work with what you have, so you can reap a good harvest even when conditions aren't perfect. (Original air date: Aug. 26, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Many marriages fail because couples are confused about what true manhood is all about. Jim Daly shares how John Wayne helped his son learn two important characteristics about masculinity. (Previous air date: June 16, 2016)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Building a strong marriage can be as difficult as hitting a fastball. Jim Daly explains how to hit a home run for your marriage by instilling your relationship with trust and respect.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Have you ever noticed how good things often come from bad experiences? Jim Daly explains how failure can become a doorway to success. (Previous air date: May 20, 2014)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Rules are an important parenting tool. But too many can overwhelm a child. Jim Daly explains how to help your children improve their behavior by doing away with long rule sheets and simplifying your expectations.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The more expensive something is, the better its quality, right? That may not be true when it comes to a college education. Jim Daly shares why your kids' futures don't depend on attending a college that's out of your price range. (Previous air date: May 9, 2016)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Is there meaning in suffering? Jim Daly shares the true story of the only person officially recognized by Japan for surviving both atomic bombs in 1945. (Previous air date: Aug. 16, 2019)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Did you know that the term "teenager" wasn't a part of the American lexicon until 1941? Jim Daly explains how to launch your teenagers into adulthood by giving them the independence they want ... and need.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The doors that lead to our future can open right in front of us at any given moment. Jim Daly shares a personal story that demonstrates how to notice those opportunities by keeping your eyes peeled and your heart open. (Previous air date: July 1, 2016)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Successful marriages don't thrive because of chemistry, good luck, or wishful thinking. Jim Daly shares how successful couples make their marriage better by excelling in three key areas of their relationship.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Independence is a wonderful thing ... but so is community when you need help. Jim Daly shares the story about neighbors who came together to help a 90-year-old World War Two veteran take his afternoon walks. (Previous air date: June 7, 2018)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1131801If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you think of power, words like “strength” and “dominance” may come to mind. But power is a surprisingly delicate thing. Jim Daly shares why it takes wisdom for parents to know when to exert authority and when to let go. (Previous air date: Aug. 21, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Marriages thrive on desire, not obligation. Jim Daly explains how a man can make his wife’s heart come alive by treating their relationship like a flower in need of TLC, instead of a stuffy rule book to follow.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

An increasing number of public venues like restaurants and movie theaters are banning children. It’s supposed to create a more hospitable environment for adults. But is there a better solution than excluding children from public places? Jim Daly answers that question. (Previous air date: Feb. 23, 2018)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Some couples argue with one goal in mind: to win at all costs. Jim Daly explains how couples can have a relationship that thrives by keeping what’s most important in focus and attacking the problem, not each other.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Is getting your kids to bed a conflict that wages on night after night? Jim Daly explains how to win bedtime battles with your children by setting and keeping boundaries with confidence. (Previous air date: July 2, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Many kids struggle with poor self-esteem. Jim Daly explains why it's better to encourage children to find joy in whatever talent they've got instead of demanding they be successful at everything. (Original air date: Aug. 14, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A relationship is only as strong as its secrets. Jim Daly explains why one of the greatest steps a couple can take to build a strong, healthy marriage is to talk openly with each other about the state of their relationship.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The Griffin brothers play in the NFL. Jim Daly explains why, even more than their connection on the football field, their story is a beautiful example of the power of family. (Previous air date: Sept. 3, 2019)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

According to one study, 63 percent of people who say they feel lonely are currently married. Jim Daly shares how couples can overcome loneliness and build connection and intimacy that flourishes.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Parents aren't perfect, which means we can hurt our kids' feelings, often without even knowing it. Jim Daly explains how, and why, to create a safe opportunity for your children to point out areas where you aren't practicing what you preach. (Original air date: June 5, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

In today’s fast-paced society, it’s easy to feel isolated, even though we’re surrounded by people. Jim Daly explains why in everyday situations or life-altering events, community is where we find the support we need to thrive. (Original air date: June 3, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If your marriage is in conflict, it’s easy to lose sight of solutions. Jim Daly shares how to restore your relationship by remembering the building blocks of recovery: forgiveness, reconciliation, and restoration, all banded together by trust.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A change to your career can be a great opportunity ... or it can be the worst thing that ever happened to your family. It all depends on how you handle the choices you’re facing. Jim Daly shares how to make good career decisions that will protect what matters most in your life. (Original air date: March 8, 2016)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

What would you do if your boss asked you to train someone for your job so well that you’d no longer be needed? Jim Daly explains why effective parenting is about allowing good and bad choices to become your child’s responsibility to manage instead of yours.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Do you need a radical change in your life? There’s a reason such moments are called “breakthroughs.” Jim Daly explains how to break through barriers that keep you from a new and better life. (Original air date: Nov. 28, 2011)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Romance is good for a marriage, but romantic feelings eventually fade. Jim Daly shares why unconditional love can not only transform a marriage … it can transform a life. Original air date: December 12, 2018.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If you’re a parent, you already recognize that the word “no” is a vital parenting tool. But it can be over-used. Jim Daly explains why the word “yes” is just as important as the word “no.”Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Do you have a long-held dream you’ve put off for years? What if going after it isn’t as far-fetched as you once believed? Jim Daly explains why it’s never too late to pursue your dreams. Original air date: August 15, 2014.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

If you went into business, what kind of a partner would you look for? What about a partner in marriage? Jim Daly shares the characteristics you’ll want in a spouse to have a happy, successful marriage.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Suffering and heartache isolate us from other people. Jim Daly explains why the journey of healing begins with one small step: discovering that we’re not alone. Original air date: April 2, 2012.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Life can be tough. We all suffer. Jim Daly shares how your greatest strengths can often grow out of your deepest pain.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Do you ever feel like a broken record trying to teach your kids important values? What if that’s not a bad thing? Jim Daly explains why it’s important for parents to consistently define what a life of integrity and character looks like. (Original Air Date: June 28, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1117301If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Our country’s divisions have always run deep. The trouble isn’t that we disagree. It’s that we oppose each other. Jim Daly shares why there’s always room for two people to get beneath negative labels and to connect on a human level.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

In recent years, downsizing has become a popular choice with many families. Jim Daly explains why our choice of lifestyles costs us something beyond the visible price tag. (Original Air Date: March 5, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd= 1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Most parents would love for the parenting journey to stretch out before them straight and true, so they can see miles ahead with certainty. Jim Daly explains why, if there’s one thing moms and dads can count on, it’s that parenting is unpredictable.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

A lot of couples want an intimate, romantic marriage. What they have instead more closely resembles a business relationship. Jim Daly shares how couples can reignite their passion by connecting with each other at a heart level.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

One of the biggest troubles with busyness is it keeps family members apart. Fortunately, there’s a simple way to bridge the gap until you can be together again. Jim Daly shares how little notes to one another can keep your family connected. (Original air date: July 10, 2013)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Achieving great things requires a can-do attitude. But success is often about knowing when to walk away. Jim Daly shares the story of a West Point graduate who discovered on the face of Mount Everest how bad choices can affect everyday life.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Have you lost all hope of having a happy marriage? If so, Jim Daly explains why the tough spot you’re in right now doesn’t have to be where you stay. (Original air date: Jan. 28, 2015)Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Forgiveness can be tough. What makes it easier is understanding how to forgive someone who has hurt you. Jim Daly explains how to forgive one layer at a time.Support family ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

When you get right down to it, kids don’t expect dads to be perfect. They just want dads to be present. Jim Daly explains why being there is how dads can positively influence their children. (Original Air Date: 6/19/15)Support Family Ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Father’s Day is a holiday designed to honor fathers. But what if your dad wasn’t a very honorable man? Jim Daly shares how and why to honor a dad who wasn’t all he should have been. (Original Aire Date: 6/14/12)Support Family Ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

Couples need two things to build a successful marriage. Jim Daly shares why a willingness to stick together when the going gets tough and the support of community are the secrets to a strong relationship.Support Family Ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The key to building a relationship with your teenagers is not rules. It’s winning their hearts. Jim Daly explains why when your relationship is strong, obedience will follow – but rules without relationship leads to rebellion.Support Family Ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

The modern feminist movement has been underway for nearly fifty years. The results have been a mixed bag. Jim Daly explains how both the good and the bad of feminism have impacted the culture.Support Family Ministry: https://store.focusonthefamily.com/singleitem/checkout/donation/item/panele?refcd=1103702If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback: https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/