Female by Design

Orgasm is a gift created and formed by God. And, as women you have a unique capacity for pleasure with incredible benefits. Your body is wonderfully made with intention and purpose, which includes your sexuality. A great sex life doeesn't happen by accident. In this episode you will find practical ideas to consider as you learn about orgasm, pursuing pleasure and increased intimacy in your marriage. Listen in and be encouraged as you consider TEN IDEAS and FOUR STEPS to enhance your approach to pleasure in your marriage bed. Mentioned in this episode: Dr. Jennifer Degler, CWIVES (Christian Wives Initiating Valuing Enjoying Sex) Related Episodes: Ep. 111 Your Wonderful Female Body - Orgasm Pt. 1 Ep. 105 Your Wonderful Female Body - Clitoris Ep. 92 Pleasure Series Pt. 1 - Reclaiming Your Orgasmic Potential Ep.93 Pleasure Series Pt. 2 - Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with Dr. Jennifer Degler Ep. 94 Pleasure Series Pt. 3 - Your Orgasm Questions with Dr. Jennifer Degler Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex

Come along with me and let's bring the truth of God into your home through the gift of music as we prayerfully prepare to launch Heaven in Your Home Family Music. In this episode you'll hear how a little rap based on 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 became a seed not only to plant truth in the hearts of my children, but one planted to bring my talented friend and musician Kathryn Brummer alongside to write beautiful songs based on teaching truths. The catchiness of the rap caught on and all of my kids not only sing it while we're in the kitchen or in the car, but that rap launched us into countless deeper conversations about the significance of God's design, His heart for us, and His amazing plan for how we live in our bodies as male and female. We want to see that happen for families all over the world. We want to see the life-shaping power of music, combined with truth filled theology, form our kids' worldviews and shift the culture of our homes from the inside out. We want to invite you to join us in launching a music platform, Heaven in Your Home Family Music, offering families a foundation-building space to celebrate God's wonderful design and truth through song. We are prayerfully partnering with a producer and studio to bring the music to life THIS MONTH. Won't you partner with us to make this happen. Partner with Heaven in Your Home Family Music, click here. Mentioned in this episode: Everybody Has a Body: God Made Boys and Girls, by Monica Ashour Before The Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors, by Linda Beth Noble and Linda Marie Stewart Related Episodes: Body Talks with Kids Episode 96: Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation Body Talks with Kids Episode 97: Connecting to the Meaning of YOUR Body Body Talks with Kids Episode 98: Big Picture Vision, Small Phrases to Create Impact Body Talks with Kids Episode 99: Celebrating the Body, Celebrating God Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex

Orgasms are a gift created, formed and given straight from the heart of God. This sweet gift will bless your marriage, will bless your interaction with your husband and will give you a glimpse of the pleasure and the wonder that we'll have for eternity with God, where you are lost in wonder and lost in love. In this episode you will learn more about orgasms, including types of orgasm and the intention of orgasm. In addition to the practicals, you will be given a little bit of vision for thinking about orgasm and realizing that it is not the highest goal of our sexual intimacy, but it is an incredible and holy gift that you are worthy of experiencing. This teaching is packed with detail and insight. Be equipped and be encouraged as you continue to educate yourself on your wonderful female body. Mentioned in this episode: Episode 38, How I Pray About My Sex Life Restoring the Pleasure, Clifford Penner and Joyce Penner Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram

The holy pursuit of your female sexuality often involves a healing journey. As you ditch the shame and wounded parts, unpack your story and begin to live as a fully integrated woman, the fruit of freedom is experienced. In this episode, you will hear more of the wonderful ways God has made your female body and hopefully see the goodness of God as you lean into more oneness in your marriage. Reframe unhelpful notions of transactional, duty or climax-focused sex and learn the incredible benefits of slow, intentional love making. You will hear practicals for making the most of sexual arousal to pursue incredible pleasure and experience extended initimacy. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex

Your body and your sexuality were designed by God and He called you good. As we continue this educational and celebratory series on your wonderful female body, today we are leaning in to better understand the female sexual response cycle, which starts with sexual desire. This may require a bit of awareness as you continue to recognize ways you can live more integrated. Growth requires intentionality, so in this episode we are intentionally focusing on sexual desire so that we might become more aligned with God. In this episode you will be encouraged and equipped, on both spiritual and practical levels, to understand and become aware of desire. Mentioned in this episode: Episode 73, Growing Your Sexual Desire - Barriers Episode 74, Growing Your Sexual Desire - Brains Episode 75, Growing Your Sexual Desire - Beliefs Episode 76, Growing Your Sexual Desire - Body Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Grab the free guide, Five Truths about Sex

Sex is a gift from God, given to you with intention and purpose. We're continuing in the summer series, educating ourselves on our body so that we can live in a more celebratory tone when it comes to how we think about our bodies, our femininity and our sexuality. Common views of sex are are often achored in the cultural assumption that sex = erection, entry, thrusting, ejeculation, resolution. Sex is a much more beautiful, layered and fruitful experience. And, the female body is created with incredible responses to complement the male response. In this episode we will begin to unpack what your female body needs and what a more integrated connection between the brain and the body looks like for women. Women need engagement, time, stimulation and connection between the body and the brain. Learn to become more aware of what is happening in your body, and tune in and pay attention to the way your body responds in desire, arousal, climax and resolution. This awareness leads to insight on how to wake up to your body and build more intimacy in your marriage. Friend, let's lean in and understand your wonderful female body and celebrate what God called good. 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well: CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you're newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You'll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you've received over the years. Learn more here. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here. Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Did you know your body was knit together with about 10 erogenous zones? Wow! Learn more about the possibility for pleasure with your husband and be encouraged as this episode educates and celebrates your wonderful female body, which includes erogenous zones. In this summer series we are learning to celebrate our bodies. Let's not just see sex as a duty, something on our to-do list, or a place of shame. Rather, let's learn about how our body works and how God created our body with purpose and intention. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body. We are celebrating erogenous zones. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

Maybe you've heard of the g-spot, but don't have much understanding or idea how it works or even where it is. Let's unpack your good, beautiful female body and celebrate being wonderfully made. We are continuing the summer series with an episode dedicated to the g-spot. It's a holy pursuit to understand your sexual anatomy as you pursue intimacy and pleasure in marriage. So, we are continuing to celebrate as we educate as we get to know our good bodies. After all, our bodies have indicators of God's heart and God's purposes. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body, which includes the g-spot. Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

You are wonderfully made. God's masterpiece. This summer series will educate and celebrate all things about your wonderful female body. And, in this episode we are covering all things about the clitoris. You'll understand more about your anatomy, the good ways God designed you and the incredible ways your clitoris responds to touch and the beautiful capacity for pleasure and hormonal responses. This series is for HOLY WOW as you learn more about your good body, starting with your clitoris. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

You look at a sunset and marvel at God's glory in what He's created. Yet, YOU are His ultimate masterpiece, created with intention and purpose. In this celebratory Summer series, you'll receive bite sized pieces of inspiration, encouragement and celebration as you process and seek to honor your good, beautiful body that God has given you. This episode is an introduction to a brand new Summer series, inviting you to discover your wonderful female body. Let's celebrate as we are educated. Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

Pursuing sexual wholeness is a journey. And, some healing journeys might benefit from the help of a professional counselor. But, what is sex therapy and who is it for? Listen in today and hear from Tish Hedger, a Liscenced Professional Counselor and Clinical Director of MyCounselor Online, as she breaks down the goal of sexual wholeness, the barries that keep you from exprienceing a healthy sexual experience in your marraige and the approach you might expect with a sex therapist. Be encouraged and learn about the role sex therapy might play in your healing journey. About Tish Hedger, MA, LPC: Tish is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) with over 6,000 hours of clinical hours of care and serves as the Clinical Director of MyCounselor Online. She is a trained sex therapist as well as trained in the trauma informed and attachment based therapies of AEDP and EFT. She holds a bachelors in biblical studies and a masters in counseling (MA). Tish is passionate about helping individuals and marriages heal from loss and trauma. Tish has been married since 2005 to a church planter/pastor. She is the mother of two. She enjoys coffee, the outdoors and spending time with her family. Resources Mentioned: MyCounselor Online Soul Virgins by Doug Rosenau and Todd Wilson Restoring the Pleasure, Clifford Penner and Joyce Penner Revelation Wellness with Alisa Keeton And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

While you may see your man as a tower of strength, do you know how to honor and even call forth his holy masculinity? The culture seems to be against our men, either pitting their masculinity as toxic or, even worse, placing them in competition or comparison with women. Challenge yourself to flourish in God's unique role for you as a wife. Learn to come alongside your husband to honor his strength and even speak life and blessing over his sexuality and holy image bearing masculinity. Your journey in loving your husband allows you to see his strength and his vulnerability. In this episode, you'll hear practical ways to speak life over your husband's sexuality, including a few things that may make you blush. And, you'll learn how to honor your husband when he initiates…even when you are far from feeling ready to connect. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website

You were made for closeness and connection. Connection with God, with people and in your marriage. Yet, exhaustion, striving, noise and distractions are real life hurdles to closeness and intimacy. What would it look like to have invitational rest in your life? In this episode, Francie shares from her own journey and experience with the weariness of exhaustion and gently encourages you to lay down the hurdles of rest and simply "come to Him." Let's set aside the barrier of exhaustion and make room for quietness and margin (even if it's a little uncomfortable). You'll hear practical help and ideas, as well as a deeper understanding of the fruitfulness of a life with space and margin. Real authentic connection and intimacy comes from a place of rest. Related Episodes: Episode 72, How and Why I Practice Silent Prayer Growing Desire Series (Episodes 73, 74, 75 and 76) Pursuing Pleasure Series (Episode 92, 93, 94 and 95 Resources Mentioned: Ruth Haley Barton Dwell App And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

God invites you to be captivated by Him. This episode is a sweet celebratory time of sharing my heart, how the Lord captivated my whole heart…and how in the world I ended up as an "intimacy evangelist," encouraging you to know God's heart for your body, your sexuality and your married intimacy. In this episode you'll hear more about my journey from a newlywed bride suddenly trying to flip a switch from, "don't do it," to embracing God's good intentions with married sex. I knew there was more to sex than what the world showed and a story bigger than the silence I sensed from the church. We'll talk about the idea of having a honeymoon marriage, the vision of shalom and having Heaven in your home, and the healing journey that we are all on as we lean into God for transformation. You'll hear from women on the same journey, the ways He is meeting them and the fruitfulness they are experiencing. Let's celebrate, friend. Related Episodes: Episode 1, Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Something worth celebrating is worth talking about. Let's celebrate the goodness of the body because your body has good news written all over it. Your words have the power to speak truth and life over your children, including their body. Bless with your words as you train your children to understand that they were formed in an integrated way. Mind, body and spirit are all of great value and when you bless your children in this manner, you are speaking the truth of God over them. Listen in and hear truth and equipping scripture to help you understand the goodness of the body and how to break down the concepts into teachable nuggets. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is CLOSING THIS WEEK. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Let's talk about image bearing power, because what your body reveals is really good news. As you teach your children to watch for the cultural cues that seek to elevate ideas that don't align with God's goodness, let's look at the good news that the body itself reveals. God uses visible things to reveal what is invisible about His nature. This is true for your body. You can see something about our invisible God through the body. We can know God by observing the things He has made. Sexuality and gender is like a clue to show us what God is like and how we can show God to others through the body. Your body is good! Let's lean in to the good news shown through theology of the body. You'll learn small phrases to help you teach your children about the meaningful purpose of the body…and show them a better way to create a big cultural shift. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is CLOSING THIS WEEK. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Do you want to know how to effectively lead your kids into truth during this confusing time in our culture? It begins with understanding the meaning of what it is to be human…and it starts with YOU. What does it mean to be a fully alive human, made in the image of God from head to toe? And, what does it look like to walk in fullness of knowing why God gave you a body, distinctly male or female with great purpose. God designed your body to be communicators of His glory (Romans 1:20). Your body is GOOD. When we reframe the conversation about the body, gender and sexualty we can shift from a list of rules, and do's and don'ts to a vision of WHY God created our body, our gender, our genitals. Embrace the GOODNESS of what God reveals through your body. Jesus came in a body and we were designed to live in a body, informed by the reality of the love of God. Let's reconnect to the "why" of our humanity. Listen in and hear a simple framework for teaching theology of the body. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

You can't give away something that you don't own yourself. When it comes to talking to your children about their body, their gender and their sexuality the stakes seem increasingly high. And, while you might be looking for the best formula for sharing a Biblical worldview, let's start the conversation with a strong foundation about what your body reveals and why your body matters. In this series, we will unpack a solid foundation and understanding of theology of the body. This understanding provides a framework for a foundation to support you as you teach your children a valuable dialogue that goes beyond a "sex talk" or a "puberty talk." Let's be informed so we can form our children's hearts and minds about their body, their gender and their sexuality in a way that helps them navigate their own journey and also be a light in the world. Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Intimacy doesn't always mean or need to be intercourse. In fact, with the stressors of a busy life, you may need a way to switch gears and connect even if you are tired or in a rut. In today's episode, you'll learn about connecting intimately through sensual, erotic massage. Let's lean in to intimate touch. Sensual massage can be a powerful way to gain confidence and an effective way to communicate about touch as you build connection with your spouse. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we'll kick off the unit on Pleasure this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram

Join my real-life sex mentor, Dr. Jennifer Degler, as we answer your questions about sexual pleasure and orgasm. We cover a range of topics, including sexual arousal, becoming more orgasmic, self-stimulation, constructive ways to talk with your spouse about sexual pleasure and what to do when things are hard. We're answering your questions because this is all God's territory. You'll hear practical, straight talk and be encouraged to walk in more freedom as you pursue sexual intimacy in your marriage. Whether you've been married six months, six years or sixty years, listen in and learn about how your body works. About Dr. Jennifer Degler: Psychologist, life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom, Dr. Jennifer Degler is passionate about helping people create healthy, successful relationships. As a lifelong Kentuckian and UK graduate, she bleeds blue for the Big Blue Nation. You won't find her in a coffee shop (she thinks coffee tastes like dirt), but you are likely to find her kayaking and hiking with her high school sweetheart husband, Jeff, as they enjoy their newly empty nest. Her fabulous and funny adult children, Josie and Jake, delight in telling their friends that their mom runs a sex shop when, in reality, she founded CWIVES, a ministry to help Christian wives make their sex lives sizzle. Sex shop, ministry–sounds just the same to us too. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we'll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Let's reclaim erotic love…because God created it with great purpose. Jump back in to this celebratory series on growing your sexual pleasure and your orgasmic potential. Today you'll be equipped and encouraged as Francie's real-life mentor, Dr. Jennifer Degler, joins to outline practical understanding of your glorious female body. She'll explain the sexual fire triangle that really fans the flame for your marred intimacy and talk about ways t0 help you become more orgasmic. This episode will help you continue to ditch any "religious" notions as you understand your anatomy and the mechanics of the female orgasm. Oh, friend let's learn and celebrate the goodness of sexual pleausure. About Dr. Jennifer Degler: Psychologist, life coach, author, speaker, wife, and mom, Dr. Jennifer Degler is passionate about helping people create healthy, successful relationships. As a lifelong Kentuckian and UK graduate, she bleeds blue for the Big Blue Nation. You won't find her in a coffee shop (she thinks coffee tastes like dirt), but you are likely to find her kayaking and hiking with her high school sweetheart husband, Jeff, as they enjoy their newly empty nest. Her fabulous and funny adult children, Josie and Jake, delight in telling their friends that their mom runs a sex shop when, in reality, she founded CWIVES, a ministry to help Christian wives make their sex lives sizzle. Sex shop, ministry–sounds just the same to us too. Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we'll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Whether you've been married for six weeks or sixteen years, God made your body to experience great sexual pleasure. Yes, friend you are a beautiful, sensual woman made to experience orgasm. Yet, maybe you feel like you're missing a few pieces of the puzzle when it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure and orgasm. While you were made for great pleasure, there seems to be great resistance for many women when it comes to experiencing it. Listen to today's conversation and learn about the beauty of recieving pleasure, uproot the lies and falsehoods of what sexual pleasure is and can be and even walk into the freedom of really letting go in your married intimacy as you pursue orgasm. Friend, sexual pleasure and orgasm is meant to be celebrated. That's the way God designed you with great joy. God Loves Sex: An Honest Conversation about Sexual Desire and Holiness by Dan Allender Click here Do you need a mentor and a God-honoring place to learn about your sexuality? Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship community. Spring enrollment is NOW OPEN and we'll kick off the unit on Pleasure later this month. Click here to learn more. And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, find a little something new to bring to your marriage bed at Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

As we continue to seek beautiful, pleasure-filled, fully alive sexuality in marriage, let's look at more of the goodness of God in this quick episode. Your sexuality was created by the Father with great purpose. Sex is an inviation from the Father to have unity and oneness that leads to abundant fruitfulness. You'll be encouraged and equipped to lean in and walk as a fully alive woman, living in a fruitful relationship that goes well beyond the most secret places in your marriage. You were made for love and to be loved. In This Episode Francie talks about: Sex points to our calling to fruitfulness John 17 We are made for abundant fruitfulness and leading in the world with love. Psalm 133 Results of oneness and the impact on your home and your community Sex is a beautiful love song And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie's favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Your body matters. Yes! And, part of your feminine body includes the monthly arrival of your period. Is it possible to reframe the way we view our period? Rather than thinking of our period as something we dread or try to cover up, how can we reframe our thinking to bless the way God has made us as women? How does our period reveal unique image bearing qualities and why does it matter? This is a unique conversation, but it's really important to you and to our daughters. There is a more beautiful narrative than you might even imagine. In this episode Francie mentions: Theology of the Womb by Christy Angelle Bauman (click here) And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie's favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To subscribe to Francie's newsletter and get more resources, click here Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

How do we lean into sex during exhausting, hard, or stressful seasons? Even during seasons when sex is far from your mind and you just want to fall into your bed with exhaustion at night? In this episode, you'll hear about the ways sex can actually be a "get to" that allows your body to be flooded with feel good hormones to benefit a season of hardship, exhaustion or stress. God has created your body so wonderfully that sex can allow for tremendous stress relief, especially during seasons when you need comfort. Listen in and hear encouragement to help you think about "the more, the more" in your marriage and how frequency in sex can provide incredible health benefits in addition to strengthening your emotional connection. To subscribe to Francie's newsletter and get more resources, click here And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie's favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Have you considered the value of having a mentor to help you grow your womanhood, femininity and your sex life? We tend to live pretty independently, but that's not how God created us to live. We are created for community. It is easy to embrace the idea of mentorship when it comes to spiritual disciplines like prayer, Bible study, child-rearing…but what it would look like to have a mentor that can help you live more fully alive as a woman, in your sexuality. This is all God's territory! Listen in for some good ideas for inviting another woman into your life to explore the theology of the body, the beauty of the way God created women and how to celebrate sexuality and sexual pleasure. It can be as simple as deciding to read a book or listening to this podcast together. A few resources Francie mentions: Authentic Intimacy with Juli Slattery, click here Rethinking Sexuality by Juli Slattery, click here Dr. Jennifer Degler, click here The Discipleship Circle by Francie Winslow (join the waitlist for Spring enrollment), click here And, if you want to avoid the drift and lean into your marriage connection, Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection course. This 5 part study will provide teaching, practicals and declarations to help you grow your marriage connection. Join the Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection, click here To subscribe and get more resources from Francie, click here And, Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click here And, Francie's favorite place to find resources to bring a little something to the marriage bed is Married Dance. Use discount code MerryMarriage for 10% off site wide. Click here Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Join the Jumpstart your Marriage Connection challenge. This signature course was developed to help you avoid the drift in marriage as you build intimacy and connection. Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection will be launching soon. For more information, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses her thoughts about the "Purity Culture". She gives some practicals to overcome these thoughts. She unpacks some of the lies taught back in that day such as Your beauty is too much. Cover it up Sexuality is too scary. Shut it down Francie mentions: The Theology of Her Body The Theology of the Womb Song of Solomon 7:1 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To receive Francie's newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here To register for Jumpstart, click here In today's episode, Francie answers the question from a listener, "Can fantasy in marriage be ok?" The answer is YES! Sex is God-given. God gave you your imagination. Is your fantasy allowing you to better honor your spouse? Francie mentions: James 1:14 Philippians 4:8 Proverbs 5:15 God Loves Sex by Dan Allender Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

In today's episode, Francie discusses how our culture thinks monogamous relationships are boring. How can we grow excitement through our monogamous commitment? How can we grow our sex life and celebrate novelty? Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To receive Francie's newsletter, click here Join the Jumpstart your Marriage Connection challenge. This signature course was developed to help you avoid the drift in marriage as you build intimacy and connection. Jumpstart Your Marriage Connection will be launching soon. For more information, click here To seek a Christian counselor and receive 25% off your initial consultation, click here Francie mentions: Marrieddance.com Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To receive Francie's newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here To register for Jumpstart, click here In today's episode, Francie gives a challenge to join her jumpstart your marriage challenge. It's a chance for us to lean in to our spouse and be intentional, purposeful and mindful. Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To receive Francie's newsletter, click here To seek a counselor, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses Juli's re-release of her book Finding the Hero in Your Husband. After 20 years, Juli has updated the book and discusses the changes in the new release. Francie and Juli discuss the impact of Proverbs 14:1 and the impact it has on our homes. Francie mentions: Titus 2 Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Revisited by Juli Slattery Java with Julie Podcast Proverbs 14:1 A Celebration of Sex by Douglas Rosenau Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Connect with Juli: Website Instagram

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To opt in for the Marriage on Purpose Guide, click here To visit Francie's website and receive the Merry Marriage Gift Guide, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses how we can remember what the Lord has done in our marriage over the past year and talk about it. Doing this helps to shape us and helps us to jump into the new year. Remember what has been and what could be done. Thank the Lord for what he has done. Francie mentions: Psalm 77:11 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses what to do when you're too tired at night for sex- rollover in the morning and give your bodies to each other! Francie mentions: Francie's Date Night Episode Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses gratitude. Gratitude shifts the attitude of our home. When you practice gratitude, be grateful for the things that are touching your heart. Let gratitude be a practice of intentionality. True gratitude leads to deeper relational connection, which fosters deeper intimacy. Francie mentions: Forming: Change By Grace David Takle Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses how to become a sensual wife. God made us to be an image bearer and use all five senses. How can we be fully alive with our five senses? The war for our affections, begins with our attention. Francie mentions: Heaven in Your Home Podcast Episode 1 Genesis 1 Genesis 3 Sex Chat with Christian Wives Podcast Song of Solomon 2:14 Song of Solomon 4:9 Married Sex Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses growth with Christ. What is the common theme in our lives? Is there a spot where God is highlighting how He wants to form us? What is He forming in you? In this episode, Francie mentions: Suffering Is Never for Nothing by Elisabeth Elliot John 6:68 John 6:1 John 6:39 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie interviews Gary Thomas. Gary is a bestselling author and international speaker whose ministry brings people closer to Christ and closer to others. He unites the study of Scripture, church history, and the Christian classics to foster spiritual growth and deeper relationships within the Christian community. In this episode, Francie mentions: Married Sex Pure Pleasure Sacred Marriage Thirsting for God Sacred Pathways Genesis 1 Genesis 3 Song of Songs 2:14 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Connect with Gary Thomas: Website Instagram Facebook Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie finishes up her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses how we can connect with our bodies. In this episode, Francie mentions: Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey God Loves Sex by Dan Allender Psalm 139 jenniferdegler.com Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie continues her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses beliefs about our bodies and sex. Two major truths from this episode: Intimacy requires vulnerability True vulnerability connects us to wounds from our past. Our wounds wrap us around what we really believe. In this episode, Francie mentions: Psalm 139 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Growing Desire Challenge, click here To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie continues her series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. Today she discusses how to clear brainspace. Here's some questions to ask yourself when clearing your brain: How's your thinking about sex? Do you have stinking thinking? Do you even think about it all? What has formed your sex view? In this episode, Francie mentions: Episode 3 Episode 1 God Loves Sex by Dan Allender heatlhywomen.org Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Juli Slattery What Your Body Knows about God by Rob Moll A Celebration of Sex by Douglas Rosenau Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie starts a series about growing sexual desires with Christian women. What have been barriers with sex? Exhaustion Being Busy Being Distracted In this episode, Francie mentions: Season 1 Episode 1 Heaven in Your Home Podcast Jenniferdegler.com God Loves Sex by Dan Allender The Science of Sex Episode Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses the practice of silent prayer and how we can go deeper with Jesus. In this episode, Francie mentions: Zephaniah 3:17 Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton Psalm 46:10 Isaiah 30:15 What Your Body Knows about God by Rob Moll Psalm 139 Centering Prayer App Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. In today's episode, Francie interviews Heather MacFayden. In their discussion, they chat about growing marriage connection in different seasons. They also talk about kids exploring their bodies. Enjoy Francie's first interview on the podcast! To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie interviews Heather MacFayden. In their discussion, they chat about growing marriage connection in different seasons. They also talk about kids exploring their bodies. They round out their conversation with discussing how women can find real community. Francie mentions: The Soul of Shame Don't Mom Alone Episode 153 Don't Mom Alone Episode 243 Don't Mom Alone Episode 328 Don't Mom Alone by Heather MacFayden Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Connect with Heather: Website Facebook Instagram Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses 3 kinds of sexuality- the prude version, the crude version, and the redeemed version. The redeemed version is the garden gift. It's holy, honoring, and brings more healing. In this episode, Francie mentions: Episode 53- How to Plan Marriage Getaways Episode 4- The Ripple Effect of Sex Episode 2- The Science of Sex Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses hope. Hope for your marriage. Hope for your heart. What are we hoping for? Our hope should be my hope in the love of God, nothing else. In this episode, Francie mentions: Romans 5:3 Hebrews 10:22 I Corinthians 13 Season 1 Episodes 1-12 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses the gift of following Jesus and offers and invitation to "come away" with Him. Francie has launched the Heaven in your Home Discipleship Circle for deeper study of the podcast content. If you want to go deeper and come away with the Lord, please join us for this special time. In this episode, Francie mentions: Isaiah 55:1-3 Bible App Matthew 11:28-30 Song of Solomon 2:10 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven in Your Home with your friends by hitting that share button. Thank you for listening.

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie replays a crowd favorite from January 2020. In this episode, Francie discusses We all look at sex through different lenses The 5 W's that form our sex view The way media influences our view of sex Overcoming barriers to intimacy The ache of unmet intimacy Sex is God's idea The amazing reason as to why God made us male and female How and why the first Great Co-Mission was given to a husband and wife "We were not made for self-expression, we were made for God expression"- Francie Winslow In this episode, Francie mentions: Matthew 19: 3-5 Genesis 1:21-29 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife. The good news is your husband will never fully satisfy you. You are known, seen, and loved by the God who made you. In this episode, Francie mentions: Psalm 139 Psalm 63 Isaiah 55:1-3 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife. We have to take care of our heart. Are we allowing others to influence us? Are we stuck in a comparison trap? Are we looking at someone's highlight reels? 4 Practicals: Get in the presence of God regularly Pray for someone who triggers envy and comparison Find spaces in your day to find quiet in the day and allow the truth of God's word to settle you Consider what steps you need to take with social media in order to keep your eyes on Jesus and not what distracts you. In this episode, Francie mentions: I Peter 3 Isaiah 32:17 Psalm 91 Zephaniah 3:17 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!

Thanks for joining Francie on this episode of Heaven in Your Home. We hope you'll be inspired by this episode, and feel led to share it with someone you know would be ministered by Francie's message. To join the Discipleship Circle, click here To receive Francie's newsletter, click here In today's episode, Francie discusses what it means to be a wholehearted wife and what it looks like in a time of struggle. How do we find we find breakthrough when we're not seeing our husband be who he is supposed to be: Choose submission Go to the prayer closet Trust God to do the work in your husband In this episode, Francie mentions: I Peter 3:1 Connect with Francie: Website Instagram Facebook group Please share Heaven In Your Home with your friends!