Family Goals with David Pollack and Pastor J

David and Pastor J sit down with Pastor J’s very own pastor of 38 years, Dr. Dean Register. Their conversation is geared by Dean’s new book “Holy Grit: The Will to Persevere” and just a small preview into his wisdom and awesome teachings from God’s Word. If you are struggling with your faith, your doubts are going or you are ready to give up, this episode is for you. You can also purchase “Holy Grit: The Will to Persevere” here - https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Grit-Persevere-Dean-Register/dp/1664299351

David and Pastor J talk about grief and when you lose a loved one. On October 13th, one our special Graystone members, Jodi Whitaker, suddenly passed away leaving behind her husband, Jeff, and two young kids. David talks about how his small group is impacted and how he has been inspired by Jeff. Please join us as we pray for Jeff and their kids, their families, and all who loved Jodi.

David and Pastor J talk about ways we can fan the flame of our faith. We have a choice to be discipled by Jesus or by the world. That’s reflected in what we listen to, what we watch, and who surrounds us. Find good Christian fellowship with like-minded believers and get plugged into your local church. *This episode was recorded on October 2 before the Holy Land Trip and attacks in Israel. We are continuously praying for Israel, for protection, peace, unity, and wisdom over leadership.

In this episode, David and Pastor J dive into a conversation on the importance of having a faith of your own. We have the privilege of being able to pass our faith onto our kids, but they eventually will have to claim it on their own. What steps do you need to claim your faith and make an impact in your family?

As we continue going through Psalm 1, we discuss that the path of the godly is through the life of service. Jesus, the son of God, was the ultimate example of how to serve others. Are you serving your spouse? your kids? your coworkers? Find ways to put those around you first. Use that model that Jesus set out for us and live a life of the godly. If you are serving others, take a look around you. Who is someone that you can encourage to serve? Give somebody a job. Someone out there is looking for ways to serve, and they just need somebody to give them an opportunity. Empowering those around you can be the best thing you can do. You can listen to Pastor J’s message “The Path of the Godly” at Graystone Church on our website or anywhere you stream your podcasts. graystonechurch.com/messages

David and Pastor J have a conversation with ESPN football analyst and former NFL quarterback, Robert Griffin III. They talk about when he accepted Jesus after tearing his ACL, how his parents’ faith impacted him growing up, and how his spiritual walk plays a big part of his life now. *This episode was recorded on June 5, 2023 before David’s layoff from ESPN.

In this episode, David and Pastor J have a conversation about the truth of God’s word and the part it plays in our lives. We have a real enemy that is twisting the word of God and impacting our culture. What steps can we take to live by the word of God? How can we teach our kids the word of God? Let’s talk about it. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In August, we received an email from one of our listeners in New Jersey. In his email, Garrett shared how he came across the podcast, gave his life to Christ, ordered his family through God’s design, and wanted to be baptized at Graystone Church in Georgia. This testimony blew us away, so we invited Garrett to come on the podcast to share his story with you. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In this episode, David and Pastor J begin with recapping their summers and time off. Then they talk through Jonathan’s message “True Prosperity“. This message touches on meeting with God in our sacred places. What makes a place sacred? What does it look like to meet with God throughout your day? Let’s talk about it. You can listen to Pastor J’s message “True Prosperity” at Graystone Church on our website or anywhere you stream your podcasts. graystonechurch.com/messages This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

We had the privilege to sit down and talk with Clemson University's head football coach, Dabo Swinney. Coach Swinney shares his journey on becoming the Clemson Tigers' head coach and how the atmosphere around the football program has changed over the years. *This episode was recorded on June 5, 2023 before David’s layoff from ESPN. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In this episode, David shares about the ESPN layoff, what he's learning in the process and what could be next through the art of the possible. We praise God for directing David's steps as he continues to share his story for God's glory. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In this episode, David and Pastor J talk through lessons they have learned through their marriages. Whether you have been married a long time, are newly married, or want to be married one day, this is for you. We hope you learn from this episode and seek to strengthen your marriage and relationships. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In this episode, David and Pastor J continue talking about becoming credible through the Beatitudes that Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5. What does it look like for you to pray for others, to show mercy, to stand beside people? "If you want to be incredible, you first have to be credible." We hope you enjoy! This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

In this episode, you will hear about our new sponsor, Compassion International, why we love them, and their mission to release children from poverty in Jesus’ name. We'll recap the Pollack Family Foundation Celebrity Golf Tournament, and then David and Pastor J talk through becoming credible, trustworthy, and building character when no one is watching. Think about it: "If you want to be incredible, you first have to be credible." We hope you enjoy! This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals

Disclaimer: please use discretion when listening around kids. This episode contains sensitive subjects and may not be suitable for your kids. In this episode, David and Pastor J talk through the number one fear that parents have, which is something bad happening to your kids. More specifically, there are many dangers that come with your kids being exposed to or having their own phones. Let's talk about some boundaries and ways to help parents navigate these struggles.This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals.

In this episode, David and Pastor J discuss the differences in teaching and training your kids in the way of the Lord. As believers, we are supposed to look different from the world, and as parents, it's important to model that through our personal walks with Jesus. How do we train them well? How can we prepare them for real life? Let's talk about it.This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals.

In this episode, David and Pastor J finish talking about God’s design for the family and specifically, the husband/father being the leader of the family. What does that mean? What does that look like? Let’s talk about it. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals.

In this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and your relationship with your kids being after your relationship with God and your spouse. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.

In this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and marriage being your next priority after your personal relationship with God. Yes, your marriage must be your number one relationship, even before your kids. Let’s hear why. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.

In this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and the first priority being Jesus. Having your personal relationship with Jesus is the most important for you as a parent/spouse/ individual and they talk about showing your kids how to prioritize God in your life.

In this episode, David and Pastor J talk about exchanging the kid-centered family for God's design for the family. What does that look like? How can we make that happen? Let’s talk about it. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.

This is a look back on episode 9 where David and Pastor J interview Jeff Foxworthy. In this episode, our conversation will include priorities, boundaries, and building trust in our relationships. We hope you are encouraged, and if you would like to hear more of this interview, you can go back to episodes 8 and 10.Episode 8: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791?i=1000541950203Episode 10: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791?i=1000543344534

This episode is from Graystone Church’s 2nd Annual Men’s Conference. David and Pastor J interviewed Matt Luke, former Head Coach for Ole Miss and Offensive Line Coach for UGA. Matt shares some great stories from how he became a college football coach and why he made the choice to leave football. We hope you are encouraged by this interview!

In this episode, Davey and Pastor J talk about loss and tragedies. We understand this episode could be difficult for some of our listeners. Please use discretion, but ultimately we pray that you are encouraged to trust in who God is and His sovereignty.

In this episode, Davey and Pastor J talk about the last of five love languages: gifts and acts of services. Essentially, gifts are not rewards or bribes, but a way you can tell your child that you love them. You can also encounter many opportunities to show your kids you love them by serving them. We hope you are encouraged to show love to your kids through gifts and serving them.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyThe 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationshipshe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatBuilding Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily SmartThe 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively

In this episode, Davey and Pastor talk about the third of five love languages: quality time, which is defined as focused, undivided attention. You will hear various ways that we can be intentional with our kids and even how it can be a sacrifice for us as parents. We hope you are encouraged and take next steps to spending more quality time with your kids.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyThe 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationshipshe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatBuilding Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily SmartThe 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively

In this episode, Davey and Pastor talk about the second of five love languages: words of affirmation. You will hear more specifically about how your words as a parent have more weight on your child than they would from others. Words of affirmation is valuable for you as a parent to give to your child, but you also must know the level that they need to be affirmed and encouraged. If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyThe 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationshipshe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatBuilding Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily SmartThe 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively

In this episode, Davey and Pastor J dive deeper into the first of five love languages: physical touch. You will hear examples of how this can look for our kids at different ages and that it is always necessary. Listen to Matt and Mary Ellen Smith family's testimony here.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyThe 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationshipshe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatBuilding Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily SmartThe 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively

We’re back for Season 4! In this episode, Pastor J and Davey catch up, talk a little NFL, and then we dive into an overview of The 5 Love Languages Of Children book. We are excited about learning more about the five love languages and which ones are primary for our own kids.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that LastsThe 5 Love Languages of Children: The Secret to Loving Children EffectivelyThe 5 Love Languages Singles Edition: The Secret that Will Revolutionize Your Relationshipshe 5 Love Languages for Men: Tools for Making a Good Relationship GreatBuilding Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Stepfamily SmartThe 5 Love Languages of Teenagers: The Secret to Loving Teens Effectively

We are excited about Season 4 of the Family Goals Podcast on Monday, February 6th We have great topics and guests lined up, but we will be starting with “The Five Love Languages for Children” book. We love our kids and know that you love your kids, but let’s make sure they feel loved. See you February 6th!

This is our season 3 finale! Thank you so much for listening. We’ll be back with Season 4 in 2023. In this episode, we dive into the story of Abraham and Isaac and what we can learn from that story. We reflect on God’s goodness, prioritizing our faith in Him, and persevering through difficult times.

There are more distractions than ever that try to break apart our families and marriages. Today we are diving into ways we can fight for our family. The first way is prayer, but more specifically what to pray, then priorities and participation. We hope you are encouraged and pray that we fight for our families to know and love Jesus. Podcast reference: "Fighting for the Next Generation: How We Are Pivoting to Reach Gen Z" by GrowLeader Podcast with Chris Hodges

Welcome back! We are diving more into the story of David and Goliath - the qualities of a champion. These are qualities that we can not only teach our kids to live out, but also model it in our every day lives. This is a continued conversation of episode 47, so be sure to check it out if you haven’t already.

It’s SEC Championship week! We’re excited for the Dawgs to face the Tigers this weekend. On a serious note, we go through the story of David and Goliath from the perspective of a parent and how we help our kids grow and find their own dreams.

You’re listening to part 2 of our conversation with former Georgia football player and Super Bowl champ, Benjamin Watson. If you haven’t listened to part 1 yet, please do and come back for part 2. In this episode, we talk through the parents’ role of discipling their kids. Ultimately, we all need the blood of Christ. May we grow as parents as we teach out kids.

We are excited to have Ben Watson on the podcast with us! This man is a retired NFL player that is all for God and his family. Ben pours out wisdom. We talk through their experience with miscarriage, with marriage, and how he came to know God. Enjoy!

Today’s conversation is around the story of the Prodigal Son. Ultimately, there are no "bad" kids because we are in a fallen world, but we have the opportunity to love them and pray for them. We hope you are encouraged today.

We are honored to have Rece Davis of ESPN College GameDay and Sports Center with us! We talk all things accountability, marriage, parenting, balance, and travel sports. This is a packed interview, and we hope you enjoy it.

Today Davey and Pastor J talk about bearing fruit as we live for God, the importance of accountability, and the real temptation of lust. This is a great discussion for all who may struggle or knows someone who struggles with this with lust.

In the past, we have talked about having a "scorecard" to be able to see how well we're doing and where we can improve. In this episode, we interviewed former minor league baseball player turned entrepreneur, Derek Blacksher, on the concept of the 10 Forms of Wealth. Together we will discover how to use this tool in multiple aspects of life and seek accountability as we long to be our best selves.

In this episode, we start with talking about sports and who will dominate who when playing different sports. Then, we will dive into the story of Jesus calming the storm. No matter where the storm is in your path, remember that God is in control. We want to encourage you to not jump ship when things get hard. Calm waters are ahead. We pray you are encouraged.

It is an honor to speak with former MLB All-Star, Matt Holliday! Matt and his wife, Leslee, are hosts of the Table 40 podcast and currently lead weekly Bible studies for college students in their community. We love hearing his story about living out his faith through professional baseball and through their platform today. He loves being an example for his kids and even allowing his kids to find their own passion in baseball. We all can learn and be encouraged from his story!

Get ready for a GREAT conversation! In this episode, we will be looking at Jesus’ miracles in the book of John. Pastor J and Davey bring great takeaways and challenges for all of us. Also, be ready to laugh! For a Biblical reference to the miracles, you can read John 2:1-12, 5:1-15, 6:1-15, 11:1-16, and 13:1-17.

This is Part 2 of our conversation with Jason Romano. If you missed Part 1, we encourage you to go back and listen to Episode 36. In this episode, we go deeper into parenthood - his relationship with his dad and his relationship with his own daughter today. Hear more of his story through his book “Live to Forgive: Moving Forward When Those We Love Hurt Us.”

We welcome Jason Romano on the podcast! Jason shares his story with us about how he came to faith in Jesus and living out his faith. We hear about the time he left ESPN to work in ministry through Sports Spectrum. This is Part 1 of this interview.

Do you have the faith to reach out and touch Jesus? This is our conversation today based out of Luke 8:40-56, the story of the Jesus raising a dead girl and healing the bleeding woman. Davey and Pastor J bring some great takeaways to the table, and we even hear Davey describe his neck injury as being one of the best days of his life.

We’re back for Season 3! In this episode, we’re diving into the miraculous catch from Luke 5. We discuss the story and what we takeaways, including our response to God when He calls us to action.

The wives are back for one last episode! This is Part 3, so if you haven't listened to Episode 31 or 32, check them out and come back to this one. Today we’ll talk more about communicating your needs to your spouse because no person is the same. At the end of the episode, you’ll hear more about abstinence before marriage, evaluating priorities through your marriage, and a word for the moms who might feel stuck or alone. We hope you are encouraged!

The wives are back! This is Part 2, so if you haven't listened to Episode 31, check it out and come back to this one. In this episode, we’ll dive deeper into love languages in your marriage and learning to connect with your kids. We even talk about prioritizing church over sports and will hear more about the Pollack Family Foundation. Enjoy!

The wives are joining us! We get to hear more about the Davey and Lindsey’s story from the beginning of their relationship to how they have grown into their faith and marriage today.