Episode 116: Why We “Hate” Grindr but Can’t Quit It — with Queerty’s Alex Reimer
Please complete our audience survey. It helps me learn more about you and what you like most about this show. I am always looking for ways to improve our content/podcast/show. http://survey.podtrac.com/start-survey.aspx?pubid=0qI0Tj7TBKvS&ver=standard Writer Alex Reimer from Queerty joins Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay to explore the complex relationship many have with Grindr, a leading LGBTQ+ dating app. Dive into the love-hate saga of Grindr and the rise of new geolocation apps like Sniffies, uncovering why users complain yet can't log off. This episode discusses how these LGBTQ+ dating apps have transformed into a "global gayborhood," affecting queer social spaces in both digital and real-world settings. Together, Alex and host Zach Randles-Friedman unpack dopamine loops, paywalls, AI “wingmen,” and the evolving dynamic between apps and traditional queer hangouts — from P-Town dinners to bathhouses. They also reflect on old-school meet-cute stories, the normalization of open relationships, and concerns about fading IRL social skills. Plus, get insights into the differences in gay vibes between Boston and Chicago, the costs associated with queer nightlife, and predictions for the future of queer media on algorithm-driven platforms. Follow Alex’s work at Queerty for more candid conversations about the LGBTQ+ community and the evolving landscape of queer social spaces. https://www.queerty.com/author/alex-reimer/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ
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Writer Alex Reimer from Queerty joins Everything & Anything… and a Bit Gay to explore the complex relationship many have with Grindr, a leading LGBTQ+ dating app. Dive into the love-hate saga of Grindr and the rise of new geolocation apps like Sniffies, uncovering why users complain yet can't log off. This episode discusses how these LGBTQ+ dating apps have transformed into a "global gayborhood," affecting queer social spaces in both digital and real-world settings.
Together, Alex and host Zach Randles-Friedman unpack dopamine loops, paywalls, AI “wingmen,” and the evolving dynamic between apps and traditional queer hangouts — from P-Town dinners to bathhouses. They also reflect on old-school meet-cute stories, the normalization of open relationships, and concerns about fading IRL social skills. Plus, get insights into the differences in gay vibes between Boston and Chicago, the costs associated with queer nightlife, and predictions for the future of queer media on algorithm-driven platforms.
Follow Alex’s work at Queerty for more candid conversations about the LGBTQ+ community and the evolving landscape of queer social spaces. https://www.queerty.com/author/alex-reimer/
Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com
Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ
Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com
Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ
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