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I Did it My Way

We're back! Meghan got a new car. Melisa is having a moment. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 11, 202331 min

Is This Racist?

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This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: A friend's drinking problem Moving guilt Trying to get back with your ex Microaggressions Don't Blame Them: Not wanting to go to med school Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 10, 20231h 19m

REPLAY: His Mom Came to Our Anniversary Dinner

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Original Air Date: December 2, 2021 Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Racism, Anti-Semitism, Homophobia Melisa is tired of the media not holding men accountable and Meghan reported a woman who threatened her. They then give their thoughts if a listener was wrong in the following situations: Mom wanting access to her college child’s information Boyfriend inviting his mom to his anniversary dinner If you should tell someone that their boyfriend non-consensually touched you A colleague with an “attitude” They also discuss Judge Bruce Schroeder and Dave Portnoy Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 6, 202353 min

REPLAY - Guest: Jessi Smiles - Dog Licks Sheets After Sex

Original Airdate: January 6th, 2020 Jessi Smiles joins us this week to answer your questions on what to do if your co-worker acts coldly around the guy you’re dating, how to handle your boyfriend making fun of your fake tan, easing your boyfriend’s concerns about selling feet pics, and confronting your boyfriend about his addiction to porn. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares their own advice on constant UTI and cuming one way. Join our PRIVATE Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup You must answer all questions correctly to be approved! Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks @jessismiles__ https://twitter.com/jessismiles__ @dontblameme https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/ @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! I’ll do my best to share my wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame me if I screw up your life. I kid! My advice IS AMAZING. - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Check out my YouTube channel: http://youtube.com/meghanrienks Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 3, 20231h 12m

We're Struggling

Meghan and Melisa are having a rough few days. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 28, 202340 min

Dad Asked Me to Sign Immigration Paperwork

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This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: White person asking a Black classmate about white racism Apologizing to a friend that didn't understand boundaries Dad reappearing in your life Going on a trip with a cousin who may not be boosted Don't Blame Them: Telling your parents you aren't religious Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 27, 20231h 5m

Just Gabbing

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Since there wasn't a new episode of But Am I Wrong, we're just using this time to discuss: our love of Tabitha Brown, weird hair growth, Scandal, and milking nuts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 24, 202335 min

Boyfriend is No Longer "In Love" With Me

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But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Blind items are fucked Melisa - Sharing Kate Campbell's thoughts on how we track violence But Are You Wrong: Brother's girlfriend who always makes snarky responses to your instagram If you should block your friend Being left in a club Love vs. In Love But Are They Wrong: The Weeknd and Sam Levinson Principal/Coach Philip Koons Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 23, 20231h 15m

Do We Have a Mole?

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Melisa took a 24 hour trip to Las Vegas and separately met a new cool friend. Meghan has mouth sores, spent some quality time with her nephew, and is starting a new house project. They then discuss Law Roach retiring, and have a slightly delusional conversation about influence, Tony Goldwyn, and of course, Scandal. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 21, 202328 min

Not Wanting to be a Mean Girl

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This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Trio Friendships Maneuvering a relationship with a transphobic friend Update Ex lying to sleep with someone (3.6.2023) Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 20231h 26m

But Am I Wrong Results: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex (+Scandoval Pt 2)

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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex and then discuss more Vanderpump Rules even though they've never seen an episode. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 17, 202338 min

REPLAY: My Boyfriend Doesn't Want to Try to Have Sex Again

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Original Air Day Feb 17, 2022 Meghan believes that the upper middle class is worse than the rich. Melisa is over the commercialization of Valentine's Day, looking at you Build-A-Bear After Dark. They then discuss if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Strangers obsessing over your dog Not including a friend in your bridal shower Anti-vaxx classmate's mother's death Bad sex with long distance boyfriend And in "But Are They Wrong" AKA "Rachel of The Week" they discuss filming unsheltered people and posting on Tiktok and Matt Walsh Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Listen to Don't Blame Me: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me/id1223800566 Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 16, 20231h 7m

Wakanda Forever

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Meghan and Melisa discuss Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 14, 202348 min

Guilt Over a Mutual Break Up

This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Telling your parents you aren't religious anymore Found out your boyfriend physically and emotionally cheated Losing your best friend/ex Don't Blame Them: Standing up to a parent, communicating with your partner, postpartum depression Becoming a Sugar Baby Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 20231h 5m

But Am I Wrong Results: F Off, Partner (Plus Scandoval Chat)

Meghan and Melisa share the results of BAIW: F Off Partner. The also recap the Scandoval... but have never watched Vanderpump Rules. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 10, 202347 min

Boyfriend Wants Me to Pose Like His Ex

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For But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks that jobs should have built in maintenance/admin day Melisa believes that God is a cis man - based on period pains In But Am You Wrong: Boyfriend wants you to recreate his ex's sexy phot Sister's new boyfriend wants to attend your grandmothers' tombstone unveiling Reporting a teacher for being racist Boyfriend hanging out with his friends after being deployed And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: TERF Ruby Sampson Melisa: Culture Vulture Rachel "Raquel Evita" Saraswati Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 9, 20231h 16m

LA Weather Woes + What We're Watching

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Meghan and Melisa discuss the stress the LA weather is putting them through, then chat about the TV shows they're watching: Scandal Poker Face Meredith's Exist From Grey's Anatomy Treason Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 7, 202342 min

Pressured to Make Decisions

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This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Friends rely on me too much Living with an awful couple Moving to a new country Ex lying to sleep with someone Don't Blame Them: Husband doesn't finish Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 202354 min

But Am I Wrong Results: Boob Tape (+Sophia Bush/Rachel Bilson Mistaken Identity)

Meghan and Melisa read the results from Boob Tape But Am I Wrong? episode. Then discuss Love Island. And for some reason Melisa thought Rachel Bilson went to the NAACP Image Awards. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 3, 202324 min

F Off, Partner

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For But Am I Wrong Melisa is annoyed by "Passport Bros" Meghan doesn't believe that some businesses should have social media In But Am You Wrong: Reporting everyone who is racist towards you Tenant not closing the garage Friend and family who won't get fully vaccinated A partner who can't make their own breakfast And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Packers Sanitation Services Meghan: Kelly Family Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 2, 20231h 9m

Melisa's Birthday Present

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Melisa shares the details of her birthday weekend and opens her gift from Meghan and Meghan has finally met her neighbors. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 28, 202333 min

How to Date Casually

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This week Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Ex-friend talking about you on Snap The right time to move to a new country Telling someone you're dating other people Breaking quarantine to shower Exploring your sexual side Don't Blame Them: Jobs where you can't seek mental healthcare Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 27, 20231h 15m

But Am I Wrong Results: Finessing OF Subscribers

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Finessing OF Subscribers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 24, 202336 min

Boob Tape

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For But Am I Wrong Meghan thinks companies are fucking with adderall Melisa is questioning someone's moral's over money In But Am You Wrong: Friend not paying back for boob tape Asking for a friends with benefits Imbalance of power in an age gap relationship Switching jobs And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: PickleMeEverything Melisa: Dana Simmons & Dylan Charles Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 23, 20231h 3m

Family Wants Me to Date Someone I Hate w/ Candice King

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Candice King is back! And for the full episode this time, we promise. They give advice on: Update: Found a sibling Childhood friend wants me to change my wedding date Sister thinks my wedding is an inconvenience Friend going through a depressive episode Avoid a man you don't want Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 20, 20231h 8m

But Am I Wrong Results: Dad Hates Women's Tats

Meghan and Melisa read the Results for Fisting Friday: Dad Hates Women's Tats They then discuss a bad review and unseasoned chicken. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 17, 202338 min

Finessing OF Subscribers

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For But Am I Wrong Melisa is celebrating her birthday however she wants Meghan want to bring back treasure hunts In But Am You Wrong: Bullies tipping you Going on a trip with someone you don't like Asking for cash as a gift Husband not like your tattoos And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Representatives Carlos Gonzalez and Judith Garcia Meghan: Makers and viewers of AI porn Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 16, 20231h 12m

Meghan's Topless

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Meghan stripped down because she's hot and Melisa is sending and receiving interesting gifts. The duo practices saying things without sounding sarcastic and then read THOSE gummy bear reviews. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 14, 202347 min

Husband Didn't Finish w/ Mats

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Mats, the first member of our 5-Timers Club, joins for the annual Valentine's Day episode. They give advice on: Update: Serial monogamous now dating a friend Ex-friend/current roommate spreading lies Being co-dependent with your mom Boyfriend doesn't take initiative Postpartum Sex Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 13, 20231h 12m

But Am I Wrong? Results: Privileged Friends

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Meghan and Melisa read the results from But Am I Wrong? Episode 59. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 10, 202332 min

Dad Hates Women's Tats

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For But Am I Wrong Meghan: People that hate kids Melisa: Politicians should take civics tests In But Am You Wrong: Ghosting a friend that doesn't support you postpartum Father who shares his thoughts on women's bodies Brother uses the living room as his bedroom Manipulative mother that wants to go to therapy And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Jeffree Star Melisa: Florida Nursing Schools Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 9, 20231h 13m

Ziwe Hire Melisa

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Meghan and Melisa have an out of touch conversation about out of touch restaurants in Los Angeles. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 7, 202338 min

Found A Sibling w/ Candice King

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TW: Gun Violence - Call 4 We have our first guest in years! Actor and friend Candice King joins us for part of the episode, but don't worry, she'll be back again soon! They give advice on: Finding something unexpected in your genealogy test Not living up to your mother's dream Having your first kiss Being threatened by your uncle Update: Regifting Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 6, 20231h 21m

But Am I Wrong? Results: Biggest Loser Tradition

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Meghan and Melisa read the results of But Am I Wrong? Episode 58. They also discuss Love Island and How to Build a Sex Room. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 3, 202338 min

Privileged Friends

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For But Am I Wrong Meghan: BridalTok is one of the worst sides of influencing Melisa: Gun violence needs to end and it starts with the manufacturers In But Am You Wrong: Distancing yourself from friends Taking break from a friend Big dog, little kitten During chores during a potential exposure And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Madison Russo Melisa: Pat Grassley Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 2, 20231h 12m

Pad Your Body

See You Next Tuesday Meghan would make a terrible spy/finds mold in her garden level. Melisa is preparing for her birthday party. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 31, 202335 min

Becoming a Sugar Baby

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Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Little white lies Tips on casual sex Not inviting a friend on a trip Getting an offer from a Sugar Daddy Don't Blame Them: Trouble finding a job Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 30, 20231h 18m

But Am I Wrong? Results: I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends

Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am Wrong? I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 27, 202329 min

Biggest Loser Tradition

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tw: Writer #4 - weight loss For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Stop posting videos about white people not washing their bodies Meghan: Body trends do not exist in the way people claim they do In But Am You Wrong: Calling a tow truck on someone Avoiding your roommate Best friend's ex bringing his new girl on a trip Teachers pushing a "Biggest Loser" Challenge And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: •Melisa: La Vergne Police Department sex scandal •Meghan: Ozempic abusers Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 26, 20231h 34m

Trainer Set Me Up With His Brother-In-Law

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Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Found out dad is cheating on mom Keeping a sex buddy casual Irresponsible grandmother Don't Blame Them: Drinking when you turn 21 Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 23, 20231h 4m

But Am I Wrong? Results: Pity Wedding Party Invitation

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Meghan and Melisa read the results to But Am I Wrong? Episode: Pity Wedding Party Invitation then discuss Sorority Life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 20, 202342 min

I Should Be More Important Than My Boyfriend's Friends

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For But Am I Wrong Melisa: People who are disrespectful to service workers shouldn't be in your life Meghan: The aesthetic-fication is too much In But Am You Wrong: Buying friends a belated wedding gift Telling your employer you were overpaid Raising your voice at a family member Spending time with your boyfriend And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: •Melisa: Askern Medical Practice •Meghan: Logan Paul Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 19, 20231h 19m

Disney Pixar's DSM-5

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Extra Content - See You Next Tuesday Meghan and Melisa Discuss: Nickelodeon Auditions Free Food Shark Tank Pitch She-Hulk The MCU The Defenders Bing Bong Hot Take Love of Captain Raymond Hold Marvel's Runaways Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 17, 20231h 0m

Regifting

TW: Call 3- Self-harm Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Update: Ending a friendship Update-ish: Husband won't get a vasectomy Not liking a present Ending a friendship with someone you think will hurt themselves Asking for a monetary gift Don't Blame Them: Issues with living alone Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 16, 20231h 7m

But Am I Wrong? Results: Apologized But Left on Read

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Meghan and Melisa read the result from But Am I Wrong? 1.5.2023. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 13, 202316 min

Pity Wedding Party Invitation

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Trigger Warning Writer #3: Sex Offender For But Am I Wrong Melisa: White people shouldn't vacation on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Meghan: Dippin' Dots isn't the ice cream of the future In But Am You Wrong: Asked to be an usher for a wedding All White people Picking up items from an ex Laundry mishap And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Melisa: Akon Meghan: Brittany Dawn Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 12, 20231h 4m

Good Morning Charlie

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See You Next Tuesday Meghan asks Melisa about Soap Opera characters then shares her love of Uptown Girls. They then discuss all the eras of Charlie's Angels and the lack of respect of women led films. New Years hobbies include Meghan buying a dollhouse and Melisa taking swimming lessons. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 10, 20231h 12m

Messy Friends

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TW: 1st Call - Disordered eating and fatphobia Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Cutting off an emotionally abusive father Turning 21 but not wanting to drink Friend dating a racist Don't Blame Them: Losing Interest during sex and deconstructing fatphobia Buy our merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Follow Us! @meghanrienks www.instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa @by.meghan.and.melisa https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf Need Advice? www.dontblameme.show Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976 International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: [email protected] … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI'll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you're under 18, please get your parent's permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can't blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING. Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron! https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Join the Facebook Group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbmsecretgroup Support the show: https://www.patreon.com/join/dontblameme Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 9, 20231h 22m

But Am I Wrong? Results: Surprise! I'm Not Going to My Party

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Melisa and Meghan debate the difference of the Kids Choice Awards and Teen Choice Awards, then have a spirited discussion about Scream Queens. Finally they reveal the results of But Am I Wrong episode from December 29, 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 6, 202331 min

Apologized But Left on Read

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Trigger Warning in both But Are They Wrong: Ezra Miller, Endangerment of a Minor, and Sexual Coercion For But Am I Wrong Meghan: Stop posting people opening gifts Melisa: Keeping distance from a former friend In But Am You Wrong: Invisible to brother-in-law Upstaging the bride Not responding to a friend's apology Stealing a name And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate: Meghan: Warner Brothers Melisa: Coppin State University Catfishing Scandal Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: Vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelissa Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Follow Us: https://www.instagram.com/meghanandmelisa https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdYV7J5p/ Follow Meghan: https://www.instagram.com/meghanrienks/ https://twitter.com/meghanrienks https://www.youtube.com/c/meghanrienks Follow Melisa: https://www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa/ https://www.instagram.com/diamondmprintproductions https://twitter.com/SheIsNotMelissa Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 5, 202350 min