
Disability After Dark
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Ep 279Episode 279: The ebb and flow of chronic pain and disability w/ daniel sluman
EOn episode 279, I sit down with disabled poet Daniel Sluman as we explore his experiences of disability and chronic pain while using crutches. We talk about the horrors of the benefit system in the UK, going from being invisibly ill to visibly disabled AND he reads from his latest collection single window plus so much more. ENJOY! Follow Daniel & pick up his works at www.danielsluman.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing [email protected] You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 278Episode 278: “I Like My Balls” - talking Cystic Fibrosis, nudism, sex and relationships w/ Artist Dominic Quagliozzi
EIn episode 278, I sit down with my new best friend and artist Dominic Quagliozzi all about his experiences with Cystic Fibrosis. We explore double lung transplants, disclosing CF, is ET a disability movie, nudism & the disabled body, why Dominic likes his balls & a whole lot more. ENJOY! You can follow Dominic at www.ArtistDominic.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark Pre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.com Hire Kristen Williams for disability centric therapy by e-mailing [email protected] You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 277Episode 277: A Cuppa Tea, Equity, Equality & Disability w/ Jo Tolley
EOn episode 277, we go back across the pond to sit with UK based disability activist, Jo Tolley. We explore how she rather reluctantly got into disability activism, and she shares how she didn’t really want to do it at first. Then, Jo talks about the differences for her between equity and equality, and what disability means for her. We also chat whether or not her disability helped explain her sexuality + so much more!You can follow all of Jo’s work here: www.ijot.ukApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkPre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.comGet disability-centered counseling from Kristen Williams, by e-mailing her at [email protected] can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Quarantine & Chill Episode 25: Starting Quarantine & Chill Back Up + how I feel
bonusELet’s get comfy, cozy, crippled and quarantined, Quarantine & Chill is back, friends! This is where we talk about disability and the pandemic. In this episode of Q & C, Andrew tells you all what it’s like at their care home, and how losing staff members because of Omicron has affected care for them. He also invites YOU on the show. Come be a guest on Quarantine & Chill eps, by e-mailing [email protected] using “Quarantine & Chill” in the subject line. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 276Episode 276: The Many Personalities of Me w/ Author & Poet Bailey Gee
EOn episode 276, I sit down with poet and author Bailey Gee as we explore her experiences of Spina Bifida as a disabled person, and how poetry has helped her understand both depression and disability. We talk about therapy and disability too, AND she even reads some poetry for us on the show! Enjoy this one!!You can follow Bailey and buy her books here: http://www.baileygeepoetry.com/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkPre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.comYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
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Ep 275Episode 275: F*ck Andrew Gurza with Daniel Villarreal Part 2
EBack in episode 180, I sit down with my friend Daniel Villarreal as we explore what he thinks sex with a disabled person like me would be like. Well, we had planned to meet soon after that to record part 2, but then the pandemic derailed our plans. Finally, in November of 2021, we got to spend a weekend together to have hot crip sex! On this episode, Daniel joins me again to talk about what sex with me, a complex cripple was like, why it was awesome and more! Enjoy!You can follow Daniel here: https://www.danielvillarrealwrites.com/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkPre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.comYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 274Episode 274: Desirably Different - with Charlotte Faragher
EMERRY GIMPMAS! On episode 274, I sit down with my new friend Charlotte Faragher as we explore her experiences with dating as a woman with spastic quadriplegic CP, we talk about how it feels when people are only attracted to you when they are sloshed, we talk about Charlotte’s ideal date would look like an artsy affair, and what it would be like going on dates and needing care. We also talk about the emotionality surrounding what it feels like to need care, and how it can be soul-crushing sometimes + so much more! We also talk about her work on her Desirably Different Facebook Page. Enjoy!You can follow Charlotte on IG here: https://www.instagram.com/charlottefaragher/You can follow Desirably Different here: https://www.facebook.com/desirablydifferent/?ref=page_internalApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkPre-order your Bump’n Joystick, or get a gift card for a friend at www.getbumpn.comYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 273Episode 273: “Disability is a part of who I am, but it’s not all of me” - with Megan Skaar
EOn episode 273, I really felt like I was chatting with my new best friend! I sit down with Megan @mskaar2242, a soon to be disabled social worker from Wisconsin. We chat about all the things in this one, including Megan’s experience with Cerebral Palsy, disability grief and burnout, disability dating, Grey’s Anatomy and disability + so much more. This was one of my favourites. Enjoy!You can follow Megan on IG here: www.instagram.com/mskaar2242Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can pre-order The Bump'n Joystick here!Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 272Episode 272: “Perhaps she’s doing it for her dad’s attention” - Talking disability, medical gaslighting, queerness w/ disability creator Lori
EOn episode 272, I chat with Lori, a disabled content creator out of the UK. We chat about their experience with EDS, medical gaslighting, what the most accessible queer disabled club might look like + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow all of Lori’s work here: https://linktr.ee/budtobloomApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
A Bump’n Podcast 3: Joystick Tester Bridget Moore tells us why it’s so important
EOn episode 3 of A Bump’n Podcast, I sit down with Joystick tester Bridget Moore from Perth, Australia.She has a number of various disabilities, and she shares how using The Joystick helped her reconnect with her disabled body and her disabled sexuality. It was such a great interview, and we hope you enjoy it.You can follow Bridget on IG here: www.instagram.com/drusillasilk You can pre-order your very own Bump’n Joystick here: https://getbumpn.com/products/pre-order-the-bumpn-joystickYou can buy our book here: https://getbumpn.com/collections/shop See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 271Episode 271 - “I’m Proud to be Disabled, But…” with Felicia
EOn this episode, I invite a guest Felicia back on the show. We talk about her experiences with multiple disabilities, and how it feels when one diagnosis that you have gotten used to, may not be the diagnosis that you have anymore. How do you navigate that? We also talk about Felicia’s disabled sluthood and how to bring up disability when you are in multiple relationships. Felicia and I also explore her new project around death, pain, suicide and disability, “Chronic illness Chronicles” and a whole lot more. Enjoy!You can contact Felicia about this project at [email protected] on Ig https://www.instagram.com/forthe.girlwhowaited/If you or someone you know has dealt with suicidal thoughts or ideation, please reach out to National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
A Bump’n Podcast 2: IT’S HERE!!!!! PRE-SALES FOR THE BUMP’N JOYSTICK ARE OPEN!
bonusEHAPPY INTERNATIONAL DAY OF DISABILITY! We are SO excited to announce that pre-sales for the world’s first disability-driven sex toy are finally open! On this episode of a Bump’n Podcast, Heather and I share our excitement about the release, we talk about some of its pants-dropping features + so much more! Watch our promo video and then pre-order your own Bump’n Joystick now before they’re gone at www.getbumpn.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 270Episode 270 - The Kind of Cripples I Want on TV
EOn this episode, we imagine what would happen if there were more representations of disability on TV and I share with you some ideas that I had for the kinds of cripples I want on TV. From a Marie Kondo type show called “Is This Accessible?” to “Star Crossed Cripples” and a soap called “As The Wheels Turn”, I propose a bunch of new TV that plays on all our fave primetime tropes but ACTUALLY INCLUDES disabled people! Enjoy!Pre-register your interest for the world’s first disability driven sex toy, the Bump’n Joystick. Presales are live on Dec 3rd! Go to www.getbumpn.comApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 269Episode 269 - “We’re Not Allowed To Talk About Disability, Unless it’s Among Ourselves” - w/ Jessica Johnson
EOn this episode, I sit down with Jessica Johnson, a 31 year old black woman with CP, doing her clinical residency to become a counselor in the state of Virginia. We shine a light on ableism in her field, what it feels like to be the only disabled person in the room, trying to be disabled at work, independence, blackness and disability + so much more. You’ll fall in love with her just like I did. Enjoy! You can follow Jessica on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/ladyjess8You can follow Jessica on LinkedIn here: https://linkedin.com/in/jessicasjohnson98You can follow Jessica on IG here: www.instagram.com/jess_perzeverant8Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Head over to www.GetBumpn.com to register your interest for the Bump'n Joystick. Pre-sales open Dec 3rd!Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 268Episode 268 - The Sheer F*cking Chaos of Disability - w/ George Parker
EFor episode 268 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with writer, poet and editor George Parker. We talk about their experience with multiple disabilities including POTS, ME, EDS and more but we also delve into our experiences as non-binary people with disabilities and what our “theyness” means to us as disabled people. I fell in love with George in this interview, and I can’t wait for you to do the same. Enjoy! You can follow George’s work here: www.agparker.co.uk You can get their book Twisted Roots HERE. Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 267Episode 267 - Making Disability Theatre & Access Me w/ Jonathan Seinen
EFor episode 267 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my good friend and fellow theatre maker, as well as the director of our disabled theatre piece Access Me. We talk about what it was like for him to work on a piece of disabled theatre while not being disabled at all himself, what it was like producing a disabled show & how production changes around people’s needs, what we both learned and so much more. You can follow Jonathan’s work by going to www.jonathanseinen.com You can pre-order the book Interdependent Magic, where the Access Me troupe has provided excerpts of the piece HERE. Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
A Bump’n Podcast 1: Say Hello To Bump’n!
bonusEOn this podcast within a podcast, Andrew & Heather let you know why they’ve been so quiet about Handi, and bring you along on their new journey with Bump’n. They share why the name change had to occur, the heartache that went along with all that, but they share why Bump’n is a new way forward for the company! Enjoy! You can follow along on our journey with Bump'n, register your interest to be the first to hear about any new stuff, and even buy our book by logging onto www.getbumpn.com Follow us on socials @getbumpn See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 266Episode 266 - “I was living but not living” - w/ Jonah Sanderson
EFor episode 266 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with Chaplain Jonah Sanderson. We talk about his experiences of growing up as a Jewish person with learning disabilities, being misdiagnosed and cruelly mislabeled. We also explore how Judaism looks at disabilities + so much more. Enjoy!You can connect with Jonah via e-mail here: [email protected] now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 265Episode 265 - Chatting Best Summer Ever w/ Emily Kranking
EFor episode 265 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with star of Hulu’s new film, Best Summer Ever, Emily Kranking. We talk about the importance of a film like this for disabled and non-disabled audiences, what Emily wants to do in her acting + activism careers as someone with Cerebral Palsy, plus so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Emily on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/emilykranking/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 264Episode 264 - Getting an Education w/ George Robinson from Sex Education.
EFor episode 264 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with star of Netflix’s smash hit series Sex Education, George Robinson. We talk about how he views his role of Isaac on the show, and why he loves playing him. We talk his own journey becoming disabled, what it’s like on set, crafting Isaac as a character and not necessarily a disabled character + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow George on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/georgerossrobinson/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 263Episode 263 - “I’m A Bossy Bottom” - Flirting with Disability Advocate Andy Arias
EFor episode 263 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with actor and disability advocate Andy Arias. We talk about how his Cerebral Palsy impacts his ability to be a bottom, spasms down there, how he likes cake eaters, we flirt a lot and so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Andy’s work by going to www.theandyarias.comApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 262Episode 262 “My Queerness Allows Me to Relate to Patients!” Sitting down with Occupational Therapist, The Rainbow OT, Dev Neu.
EFor episode 262 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with The Rainbow OT, Dev Neu. We talk a lot about whether or not they feel they have a disability, we talk about anxiety and professionalism in the OT field, how their queerness and non-binary identity impacts their Occupational Therapy Practice and so much more! One of my favorites! Enjoy!You can follow Dev’s work here: https://linktr.ee/therainbowotApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Bonus! STOMPING ON CP WITH TYLIA FLORES!
bonusESURPRISE! For International Podcast Day, I’m releasing a bonus episode! I sit down with Tylia Flores as we talk about her brand Stomping on CP. She explains why she wanted to make a brand around CP to stomp out stigma, why she became a volunteer firefighter to ensure disabled people had access to help in emergencies, flirting with Cerebral Palsy and more. Enjoy! Follow Tylia’s work here: https://linktr.ee/TyliaFloresApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 261Episode 261- No more ponchos on the runway - w/ Unhidden Clothing Fashion Creator Victoria Jenkins
EOn episode 261, I sit down with Victoria Jenkins from Unhidden Clothing. We talk about her journey building an inclusive fashion brand, her journey becoming disabled herself, how we can be more inclusive in the fashion world + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Victoria’s journey with Unhidden Clothing & more: https://linktr.ee/VictoriaAnnStudio Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 260Episode 260 - “I have all the swagger in the universe” - w/ Dante Bailey
EOn episode 260, I sit down with Dante Bailey; a black man with Cerebral Palsy and a speech impediment. We talk about how people treat him because of his speech impediment, why he does actually have all the swagger in the universe, being black and disabled in America + a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow Dante Bailey here: https://www.instagram.com/d_wheelz_b_fly/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 259Episode 259 - “This is what MS looks like - get ready!” - w/ Kellen Prouse
EOn episode 259, I sit down with Kellen Prouse, and we talk about being diagnosed with MS at 25. We talk about his transitions, how MS culture can be full of toxic positivity, pissing yourself in a coffee shop, how MS impacts intimacy and sex, cannabis and MS + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Kellen’s blog here: www.wheelsandred.com or on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/prouska/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
BONUS! WHAT IF YOU BECAME DISABLED TOMORROW? With bisexual star Papa Loboso
bonusETo celebrate 5 years of Disability After Dark, and because we won Outstanding Adult Series recently, I wanted to drop a bonus episode with adult porn star Papa Loboso. We explore what would happen if he became disabled. He shares some of the ableism he’s had to work through around pity and wanting to help, gut reactions around disability and more! We talk about how being a performer might change on stage and in porn! He even turns the tables by asking me big questions too! Thanks for sticking around and being a part of this show with me. Enjoy!You can follow Papa Loboso and view our porn here: https://justfor.fans/papalobosoxxxApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 258Episode 258 - Speech Language Pathologists Need to Talk About Sex with Laura Wolford
EOn episode 258 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with Speech Language Pathologist & sex educator Laura Wolford from The SPICE Institute all about speech language pathology, and why speech language pathologists need to talk about sex. I make several jokes about swallowing. We talk about Laura’s own journey with whether or not she is disabled and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Laura Wolford & the Spice Institute at www.spiceinstitute.org Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Cripology Episode 1: Fairies, Changelings, and the link to our disabled past
bonusEOn this brand new series on the Disability After Dark feed, Cripology, I shine a bright light on our disabled past by looking at disabled history, something that I am fascinated by. On this episode, we look at the connection between the fairy and changeling folklore and disability. In this first episode, I explore the fact that certain disabilities were often understood as changelings or fairies. We talk about how parents often used folklore mythology to kill their disabled children, and I explore how the changeling myth has impacted disability as we understand it today.If you want to look at the research I used Research paper by Susan Ebberly, 1988. Tell me which other historical things you want me to look at in this series. Write to [email protected] and use the subject line Cripology!NEW EPS (ALMOST) EVERY MONDAY See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 257Episode 257 - “Hi, I’m Sam” - Sitting down with disabled children’s author Sam VanAlstyne
EOn episode 257 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with disabled children’s author Sam Van Alstyne. She tells us all about why she wanted to write her children’s book, “Hi, I’m Sam” for the children in her family AND she even gives us a live reading of the book itself! She talks about her relationship with her mom, we talk about our relationships to caregivers, living in a group home and so much more. You can follow Sam and also buy her book here: https://samvanalstyne.com/ Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 256Episode 256 - “I had to be the “perfect black person” - Talking with Sex Educator Dr. Nadine Thornhill
EOn episode 256 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my colleague and friend Dr. Nadine Thornhill about her experiences being black and having Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. She talks about how she had to be the “perfect black person” and how she was told she wasn’t trying hard enough whilst navigating ADHD pre-diagnosis + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Dr. Nadine Thornhill here: www.nadinethornhill.com Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 255Episode 255 - “They see me as their equal” - Sitting down with celebrity Gabriela Salgado talking adult summer camp for people with disabilities, dating and more!
EOn episode 255 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with Gabriela Salgado as she shares her experience of adult summer camp with the Association of Horizons. We talk about how her experiences at camp make her feel free, and make her feel like, for one week, she isn’t physically disabled. She tells us how dating has been a nightmare for her as a disabled person, how she flipped the switch to live her best disabled life + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Gabriela on Insta at: @gabys_wheellife. Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 254Episode 254 - “I just wanna be a human burrito” - Sitting down with Kyle Romano of the Dis/Ableist Network
EOn episode 254, I sit down with Kyle Romano of the Dis/Ableist Network as we chat about contracting Bacterial Meningitis, wanting to be a human burrito, touch and intimacy, living life as a quad amputee, body image, masculinity, disability, virginity + so much more. This episode is jam packed just like a burrito. Enjoy this one! You can follow Kyle’s work at www.disableist.org or on Insta @disableistkyle Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
BONUS! “We’re best friends!” - Talking to teenagers about their disabled siblings - w/ Lilly & Aaron
bonusEOn this very special bonus episode of the show, I sit down with two 14-year olds, Lilly & Aaron who have siblings with disabilities. They share with me how their relationships with their siblings are awesome and different, but also totally the same as any other brother and sisters. They school me all about ableism and how they see that affecting their siblings. They talk about how they wish sometimes that their siblings weren’t disabled, but how even though they are, Lilly & Aaron know their siblings are human. There is so much hope for the next generation to learn about disability in this episode. Enjoy! You can support Lilly’s Etsy fund where she sells paintings and 20% of profits go to find a cure for her brother’s condition, Friedreich's Ataxia. Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 253Episode 253 - “I Have A Map of Your Scars…. I Have Your Story” - Talking Art, Disability & Art History w/ Josefien Cornette
EOn episode 253 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with disabled art historian Josefien Cornette from Belgium as we explore their experience with fibular hemimelia. Josefien shares how she has learned to handle disability disclosure. From here, we talk about disability representation in art history; Josefien shares her thoughts on this, we talk about knowing there are other disabled artists than just Frida Kahlo + we talk about Josefien’s new project mapping scars, disability grief + so much more! Enjoy! You can follow Josefien’s work at their website here: https://josefiencornette.com/ Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARK You can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 252Episode 252 - What Would Happen if Ginger Gay Porn Star Seamus O’Reilly Was a Wheelchair User? w/ Seamus O’Reilly
EOn episode 252 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with one of my porn crushes; hot, ginger porn star & escort Seamus O’Reilly as we explore what would happen if he became a wheelchair user. We talk about how his thoughts of independence might change, how his sex acts might be different, and how he’d have to approach conversations differently. He also shares his first sexual experience with a disabled client + a whole lot more. Enjoy! You can follow Seamus on Twitter here: www.twitter.com/SeamusOReilly69 Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can sign up for my first class Pro Crip Tips: How Ableism Makes Disabled People Really Feel on Sept 10th here You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARK You can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
The Handicast: Introducing Handi Joystick Testers Part 1 Rachel & Nathan
bonusEWelcome back to the podcast within Disability After Dark, The Handicast! On this episode, Heather and Andrew are excited to talk more about Handi’s first sex toy The Handi Joystick, and introduce you to two people who tested the prototype for us, Nathan and Rachel. Nathan shares with us how he thinks that a toy like this will help so many people around the world + Rachel shares that when using the toy she feels more confident, less shame and is more connected to her body. What amazing feedback! You can follow Rachel at www.instagram.com/rachelworsleyndYou can follow Nathan on at: www.instagram.com/mcwheels94You can order your copy of The Handi Book of Love, Lust and Disability right now at: https://thatshandi.co/collections/shopYou can hear more about our toy The Handi Joystick here: https://thatshandi.co/blogs/handi-blog/introducing-the-handi-joystickBe sure to register your interest to be the first to get your hands on one by going to https://thatshandi.co/pages/register-interest See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 251Episode 251 - “I’ve Outlived My Usefulness” - A Chat with Disabled Theatre Maker Debbie Patterson
EOn episode 251 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my longtime friend and theatre maker Debbie Patterson. We talk about her experiences of Multiple Sclerosis, going from Temporarily Able-Bodied to a wheelchair user. We also chat about our new theatre project Access Me all about queerness, access, sex and disability + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Debbie’s work on her Theatre Company’s Website https://www.sickandtwisted.ca/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 250Episode 250 - It’s a Tough Thing to Speak About, But It’s Real - A CP Life Chat with Kathleen Downes
EOn episode 250 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my new friend with Cerebral Palsy; social worker and self-proclaimed benefits policy lover, Kathleen Downes. We talk about the shitty benefit system in the United States, the disability community and our internal struggles with each other. Kathleen shares her journey with catheters and the joys of lots of people seeing her naked and not in the fun way…. Plus, so much more! Enjoy this one, I sure did! You can follow Kathleen on Insta at www.instagram.com/squeakywheelchair or at her blog www.thesqueakywheelchairblog.comApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
BONUS! Great Flix & Joysticks - Is The Fly a Disability Film? With special guests, Cripple Threat Podcast
bonusEOn this bonus episode of Disability After Dark, I sit down with my podcast pals Cripple Threat Podcast and we explore the 1986 campy, horror classic The Fly to determine if it is a film about disability. Anthony, Jamie and I discuss things about the body, illness, disability and pregnancy + so much more. Enjoy! You can support Cripple Threat Podcast wherever you pod, or follow them on social media at @CripThreatPodApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 662Episode 249 - I Take Off My Prosthetic Leg on Camera - A Second Sit Down w/ Anthony Michael Lopez
EOn episode 249 of Disability After Dark, I have a second sit down with my friend Anthony Michael Lopez to talk about his experiences on his new operatic streaming show Desert In, playing a disabled character who isn’t struggling with just being disabled. We also touch on his disabled childhood, disability grief, disability in the media and so much more. I loved sitting down with my friend again, and I hope you like this chat too. Enjoy! You can follow Anthony Michael Lopez on all socials at @Flittergaggot You can stream his new show Desert In here: https://www.operabox.tv/desert-inApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can buy DISABILITY AFTER DARK themed MERCH HERE. You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 661Episode 248 - “Not Being able to hear is one of the greatest gifts” - Rebecca Alexander
EIn episode 248, I sit down with my new friend Rebecca Alexander who is a psychotherapist out of NYC living with Usher Syndrome. Rebecca shines a bright light on her experience of going deaf-blind, how she is perceived as a disabled practitioner, the grief and loss of disability for her, why deaf-blind sex is better than hearing sex and so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Rebecca on her website: rebalexander.comYou can buy new Disability After Dark merch here!Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
WE HAVE DISABILITY AFTER DARK MERCH!!!
bonusEWE HAVE DISABILITY AFTER DARK MERCH! WOO! My lovely friends at TeePublic help me set it up, and I can't wait to share it with you. Click on this link to check out the new merch with our slogan "Shining A Bright Light on Disability Stories" in stylized purple font.https://www.teepublic.com/stores/disability-after-dark/hoodie?ref_id=23680Wooo! Pick up your Disability After Dark Merch today!xo Andrew See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 247Episode 247 - Is Zach of The Try Guys Disabled? - w/ Zach Kornfeld
EOn episode 247 of Disability After Dark, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Youtuber and co-creator of The Try Guys, Zach Kornfeld. We talk about his experiences living with chronic pain and his condition Ankylosing Spondylitis. We talk about how his experience have impacted his content creation, his relationships with the other Try Guys, and we explore whether or not Zach sees himself as disabled. It was a great, important episode and I hope you enjoy.You can follow Zach here: www.instagram.com/korndiddyOr here: www.twitter.com/korndiddyOr here: www.youtube.com/tryguysApply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 246Episode 246 - Maybe It’s Not Gonna Come, and I’m Okay with that - w/ JoJo
EIn episode 246, I sit down with my new friend Jojo as we explore Jojo’s experiences of being a wheelchair user, having Spina Bifida, being hella queer and being asexual. We talk about Jojo’s journey realizing that Jojo was asexual, why Jojo enjoys coming out, the “rocky” coming out as disabled journey, navigating disabled childhood, feeling like Jojo was in the way + so much more. Enjoy! You can follow Jojo on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/jojo.is.a.potato/Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Ep 245Episode 245 - Ableism Crimes Part 2 - The Murder of Gemma Hayter w/ Wine and Crime Gals
EIn episode 245 of Disability After Dark, we look at the darker parts of disability and this week we explore Ableism Crimes Part 2 and the murder of Gemma Hayter. The Wine and Crime gals and I explore her level of disability, failures of the social system to support her, and the circumstances that led to her murder and death. It is important that we shine a light on these issues and crimes against disabled people. You can follow the Wine and Crime gals by listening to their show Wine and Crime on any podcast platform and follow them on socials at @wineandcrimepod Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout! Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ep 244Episode 244 - Is This Self-Care Actually Accessible? Part 1
EIn episode 244 of Disability After Dark, I unpack popular self-care activities like mani/pedis, drinking tea, staying hydrated, getting organized and others to consider how many of these self-care activities are inaccessible to disabled people and why that is. I also bemoan how “standing up straight” is a self-care activity and more! Enjoy!Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going tothis link:https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdarkYou can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out!You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARKYou can get 20% off everything at www.cloneawilly.com including your own DIY molding kit by using promo code DARKPOD at checkout!Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ep 243Episode 243 - A VERY SPECIAL EPISODE - w/ Ryan O’Connell
EIn episode 243 of Disability After Dark, I sit down again with my good friend Ryan O’Connell as we unpack all the amazingness of the 2nd season of his Netflix Series “Special”. He shares what it was like filming season 2, his favorite filming moments, *THAT* Crip Prom + so much more about the series’ final season. Enjoy! You can watch all of Special on Netflix now, and you can follow Ryan on IG at: www.instagram.com/ryanoconn Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing [email protected] or going to this link: https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark You can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out! You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARK Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Ep 242Episode 242- "Acknowledging Disability Is Like Opening Up A Hole That Protects You" - Sherri & Reuben
EIn episode 242 of Disability After Dark, I sit down with the co-owners of Fly Media Productions, Reuben and Sherri. We talk about their multiple disabilities between them which include MECFS, CDG, Tourette’s Syndrome and OCD and they share their hesitancy about coming out about those disabilities around their business. They also describe what flare ups look like for them, I give them tips and tricks on disability as a freelancer AND they share how disability impacts their coupled sex + relationship…. And so much more. Follow Sherri and Reuben at <u>www.flymediaproductions.com</u> Apply now to be on Disability After Dark by e-mailing <u>[email protected]</u> or going to this link: <u>https://calendly.com/disabilityafterdarkpod/disabilityafterdark</u> You can get 50% off almost any item in store at www.adameve.com and 10 FREE GIFTS by using DARKPOD at check out! You can get 15% off your order at ComeAsYouAre.com by using coupon code AFTERDARK Also, support Disability After Dark by pledging to the patreon. www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark