Desire on Fire

Were there dysfunctional dynamics in your upbringing? Maybe you experimented in nightclub life, drinking and drugs, or felt stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics? If so - then tune in for this week's episode! Emily DeBouver comes on the show to share her powerful story of transformation. We discuss her journey from her gogo dancing club days to the magical healing she found when she said fuck yes to following her desires. We get deep into: Emily's upbringing dealing with abuse and reconnecting with her father How mentors and teachers have supported Emily along her journey A magical moment during Covid when Emily had a full-body fuck yes! How emotional turmoil can manifest into illness (and the healing work that it takes to get out of this cycle!) Finding approval for her desires through Pleasure Mastery And more! Connect with Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/em.debouver/ 1:1 coaching: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/4a3t1j173tc9 Blissed Out Membership: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/3ir5zwn0um7b Connection call: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=21936835 Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

You are in for a treat this week as I invite another powerful couple on the show! In today's episode, I speak to women's rightness expert, Ana Del Castillo, and connection and intimacy coach for couples, Ken Blackman. They share their wisdom on how to show up powerfully in your relationships, how women's empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom, and the transformative experience of sharing your vulnerable truths. We get deep into: Ana and Ken's relationship journey and a peek into their sex! Ways to experience deeper connection with your partner How societal conditioning could be impacting your ability to be fully expressed in your life and partnerships (and what to do about it!) Ken's advice to help men have deeper connections inside a partnership Why saying the vulnerable truths is the KEY to intimate coupledom (and more fucking!) Some helpful tips to help you communicate more deeply and effectively with your partner And so much more! Connect with Ana: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ana_del_castillo/ Website: https://www.adlifedesign.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz3D51akUtgzy9To7tR_-rg Connect with Ken: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/ Website: https://kenblackman.com/ Where I write: https://medium.com/straight-talkers Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Imagine if you had all the answers to life's big questions - inside of you. In today's episode, I invite my dear friend Vicky Aldana, coach and guide, to talk all about the special journey that we've shared together and her path to healing. We discuss our first meeting and the profound practice of orgasmic meditation, how our friendship changed forms over the years, and the many gateways and portals that she went through on her spiritual and sexual awakening journey. We get deep into: How orgasmic meditation helped heal Vicky's shame around her body image Why sobriety can play such a role in spiritual and sexual healing (and why some use drugs and alcohol as a tool for spiritual experiences) How our relationship has changed forms over the years and the portals that we went through along the way Vicky's spirituality journey and trusting in a divine plan How to identify the places in your life you need to explore for further healing (hint: it's about feeling free!) And more! Connect with Vicky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vickylizette/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Having challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today's episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other's process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure - together. We get deep into: Carli Jo and Jose's story - from the first kiss to the challenges and turning point in their sex! The end of the honeymoon phase and the challenges they were starting to see in the bedroom Finding out that they had two TOTALLY different definitions of sex (and what this meant for their intimacy) How trying to conceive changed their sex life! A BIG turning point for Jose at a kink retreat How to ask for adjustments in a turned-on way (so your partner can receive them!) And so much more! Connect with Carli Jo + Jose Cabrera: Carli Jo's website: www.carlijo.com Carli Jo's Instagram: www.instagram.com/cannabissensualitycoach Jose's Instagram: www.instagram.com/areofilm Learn more about Kink/BDSM teacher Orpheus Black: https://orpheusblack.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

When you think about dropping into healing work, transforming your life, embracing your feminine - is there some resistance there? In today's episode, I invite my beautiful friend of 15 years, Ilana Seewald, to share her journey from resistance to finding true healing and powerful growth. We get into some juicy stories from our younger years, the transformation that can come from saying the deeper thing, and how to trust your own unique journey so you can have a life filled with more pleasurable sex, orgasms, and relationships! We get deep into: Ilana's resistance to transformational work and her path to healing Some juicy FIRSTS that we experienced together in our younger years Hitting rock bottom and acknowledging her abandonment wounds and harmful patterns in her relationships The BIGGEST shifts that came out of Ilana's time in Landmark How understanding relationships and men have transformed her leadership and career A recent growth edge Ilana found when entering a lovership with a polyamorous man How Desire on Fire and transformational work have impacted her romantic relationships And more! Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

I have had many adventures and magical moments with today's guest, Kendall Wallace, and in this week's episode, we share some juicy, heartwarming (and hilarious!) stories from our years of friendship. We discuss Kendall's passion for adventure and the founding of her travel adventure company, how our relationship to pleasure has evolved our lives and sex, and the impact that sisterhood can have on your transformational journey - wherever you find yourself on the path! We get deep into: Kendall's passion for adventure and founding her company Authentic Travel Adventures How sisterhood and pleasure have impacted her life and projects A sneak peek at my Hawaii Bumble profile (it's pretty juicy!) Why learning to receive is SO important (especially in dating or sexual partnerships!) A breakthrough moment for Kendall when she asked for a desire! Why Kendall peed her pants (2x!) during a trip we took to Italy The weekly self-pleasure call we've had together for the past year and a half And so much more! Connect with Kendall: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendallwallace123/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Ready for the reckoning? In today's episode, I invite Monica Jayne - certified erotic blueprint™, accelerated evolution, and queer competency coach - to talk about her work helping others reckon with everything they are taught so they can live in their authenticity. We dive into her upbringing as a Catholic in a Mormon area, the conditioning she had to release to live as her authentic self, and the journey to getting unstuck from the past and living your dream life - unapologetically! We get deep into: Monica's upbringing and how it sparked her personal development journey Some ways that accelerated evolution is put into practice (and what it is!) The shocking story of her introduction to sexuality in high school (and how it played a role in her beliefs around her own eroticism) Why children of alcoholics typically take on 1 of these 3 roles A realization Monica came to during a journaling practice in a queer competency course The 4 pillars of her teaching that she uses to help her clients recover their authentic selves Societal conditioning around the "typical female" (and how times are changing - finally!) And more! Connect with Monica: Website: https://monicajayne.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iammonicajayne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monica.jayne.me/ Take the Erotic Blueprint™️ Quiz: bit.ly/bpquizfun Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Not sure where to start with a conscious sex conversation? Naming your desires, communicating boundaries, asking a lover to get tested - you are not alone if you feel some resistance or fear around talking about these things with a partner. In today's episode, I invite Kevin Hart - my dear friend, former lover, and sex and intimacy coach - to talk about conscious sexuality. We discuss the role it played in our sexual relationship, why the RBDSM conversation is so powerful (and advice for how to have it!) and the beauty that comes from a fully conscious sexual experience. We get deep into: Kevin's journey from the tech world to becoming a sex and intimacy coach in Bali Noticing sexual energy between us and having our first conversation about being intimate with each other (and why I was nervous!) A deep dive into the RBDSM conversation so you can get more comfortable having it with a potential sexual partner (or a current partner!) Helpful tips for what to ask in a safe sex conversation and examples of what it might sound like A sexy little story from Kevin about when I made his jaw drop Why it might feel like a conscious sex conversation could ruin the mood (and why you should still have it!) Some advice for finding common ground with your partner around your individual desires And more! Connect with Kevin: [email protected] Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you feel empowered in the bedroom? Are you getting everything you desire with your partner or in sexual play with a new person? Altering that connection in the bedroom and understanding each other's bodies can be confronting, but there are tools to help! In today's episode, I dive into my TOP THREE practices to enhance the pleasure potential in the bedroom and get you the sex you truly desire. I get deep into: An empowering exercise to help discover what you and your partner like (this is especially helpful if you have a difficult time sharing what you like) Why taking penetration off the table can take your pleasure to a whole new level (and your partner's too!) How the practice of edging (or peaking) can stimulate sexual and orgasmic energy Some of my tips for giving feedback in the bedroom (and what you have to be willing to do for this to work well!) And so much more! Join our Pleasure Challenge! (Use code: WITHPLEASURE for a discount!) https://www.desireonfirelive.com/?r_done=1 Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What does it look like to run a business and grow in sisterhood with your best friend - all while prioritizing pleasure? Well, in today's episode, my business partner Ellie and I give you a peek behind the scenes of our partnership and intimacy work. We share our experiences as we've grown and transformed our business and the inner guidance that informs our programs and teachings. Join us as we get vulnerable about our partnership and why we feel so deeply called to do this work. We get deep into: How our partnership has grown over the last 3 years and the tools we use to stay grounded and in connection with each other One of the BIGGEST ways we have grown in our sisterhood and business (and why this isn't the most popular view) Why we invested in a new business coach to restructure and help us reach more people Embracing the pivot from in-person events to an amazing global and virtual community! A game-changing resource that helped us understand our values on a deeper level How sensuality is connected to how much money you are able to bring into your life Our practice around scarcity and how we drop into more abundance and trust And so much more! Connect with Ellie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie Website: https://www.thepleasurechallenge.com Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And our retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What does living a desire-led life really look like in practice? In today's episode, I get real and vulnerable about relationships - how I move through them consciously, ALL the juicy details of my recent Bali lovership (I share some super intimate stories), and what it really looks like to stay grounded while exploring intimacy and desire. I get deep into: The conditioning we have around monogamy and releasing the restrictions we put on ourselves Asking my lover to get tested and why we waited to have intercourse How I dealt with my recent lover having sex with someone else The relation-shift ritual we practiced before I left Bali for the U.S. (and what came from it!) And so much more juiciness! Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

You can be single - and happy. You can be married - and happy. But if you are still wondering why you haven't found the right person or why neither of these identities has led to true happiness for you - then tune in for this week's episode! On today's show, I talk to corporate lawyer turned self-love expert, Fabi Dorea, about her journey to healing, leaving a relationship that wasn't serving her, and discovering self-love and true connection by committing to loving herself first. We get deep into: Fabi's journey from corporate lawyer to self-love expert and (w)holistic coach Her process and rituals for marrying herself first (and the transformation that has come from it!) The deep conditioning from her family around standards of beauty How she integrated the shadow sides of herself and what fears emerged during the process What finding the "right" person actually takes (hint: you hold the power here) How Fabi called in her current partner and her journey to opening up sexually And more! Connect with Fabi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Fabi_dorea/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What if you could have the best orgasm of your life from one simple touch? What if I told you this is not only possible for you, but that you already have everything you need to get there - you just have to tap into it? In today's episode, I invite my dear friend and connection expert, Stephanie Dickinson, to talk about how she embodies authentic relating and spiritual practices in her life to experience more eroticism and connection and how you can start building conscious and intimate connections in your life so you can enjoy all that your sexuality has to offer. We get deep into: The tools and practices that help Stephanie take clients from "this isn't working" to "this feels so good" What authentic relating can look like in actual practice How goddess meditation has impacted her sexuality and access to pleasure Why women often fall into martyrdom and ignore our cycles (and why this is so harmful!) How Stephanie physically orgasmed while sitting still and alone in meditation Why I love giving oral sex now, why I didn't before, and the shift that got me there! A super juicy experience Stephanie had with her partner (hint: they weren't even touching) Why the conditioning you have around sex, turn-on, and male/female libido could be limiting what you experience sexually And so much more! Connect with Stephanie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanie_dickinson_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephanie.dickinson.583 Website: https://stephanie-dickinson.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

How would it feel to be multi-orgasmic? To feel connected to every part of your body? Truth is - YOU are orgasmic. You get to be free in your body - you just have to follow the call! In today's episode, I talk to my Bali roommate and Divine Sensual Awakening Coach, Yani Kramer, about her journey to divine sensual awakening and her work in helping others step into their more connected and orgasmic selves. Join us as we dive into releasing the shame around your genitals and connecting to your life force energy to transform your life and sex! We get deep into: Yani's journey from feeling stuck to finding sensual awakening Why both masculine and feminine energies were needed to host her workshops The importance of her morning practices (and how to make space for your own!) Releasing the shame around your genitals (we are not just talking about our pussies!) How you can increase sensation and sensitivity in your body so you can experience longer, stronger, and more full-body orgasms One of the BIGGEST insights she brings to the couples she works with How you can heal your body by tapping into your life force energy What tantric massage is and how she guides her clients through this practice How my new partner and I are able to feel orgasmic and satiated WITHOUT penetration! And so much more! Connect with Yani: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yaniverse___ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yaniverseyaniverse Divine Sensual Playlist https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0bTwRvZEesKNjkf4fWCYxW?si=RBnLgQzGQ5KwNcunMuX8SA&utm_source=copy-link Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Have you ever had trouble relating to the women in your life? Or maybe you've always had a lot of female friends, but something tells you those relationships could go deeper? In today's episode, I talk ALL things sisterhood - communication dynamics, acknowledging and healing sisterhood wounds, and some advanced practices to help you go deeper with the women in your life. We get deep into: Some of the most common issues in sisterhood communication (and ways to fix this in your own relationships!) Why you NEED this one thing to have deep relationships with women My advice for what to do when feeling triggered or irritated with another woman Healing the wounds and trauma around sisterhood so you can deepen the connection with the sisters in your life A small step you can take today to start repairing a relationship in your life The role your sisters can play in your romantic relationships (hint: this is SO important!) Why you might be attracted to a man in a relationship with another woman (and some juicy insight on what this can mean!) And so much more! Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Your body has the answers, the wisdom is within you. In today's episode, I invite doula coach and educator Ivy Joeva to share her experiences and wisdom about the journey to parenthood and her passion as a guide for fertility, vitality, and empowered births. We dive into topics of how to baby-proof your relationship, dealing with changes in libido during and after pregnancy (for both the women and their partners!), and how conception, pregnancy, and birth can be a gateway to deeper healing. We get deep into: Ivy's journey to becoming a doula and the transformation in her life from her work The ripple effects of her maternal grandmother's birthing experience and how past traumas can affect your journey to parenthood How traditional talk therapy can sometimes fall short (and how Ivy supports her clients move through layers of grief) Why relationship to self is so VITAL during this journey Some helpful practices for couples to stay connected during pregnancy and postpartum Orgasmic birth and what you can do to achieve this powerful experience Why some male partners lose libido during or after pregnancy And so much more! Connect with Ivy: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivyjoeva/ Website: http://ivyjoeva.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We have a special episode for you this week! Tune in for a double dose of pleasure as I am joined by "The Best You've Ever Had" podcast host, Kelley Bode - my Bali roommate, best friend, and fellow intimacy coach. We share all the juicy details of how we integrate our pleasure practices into our daily lives and how you can live a more turned-on and desire-filled life by adopting daily practices of tuning into your own body and getting clear on your deepest desires. We're diving into: Why we have chosen to live life as a practice and the beautiful transformations that have come from it Releasing the ego around being an expert at everything (and the freedom that comes from being an amateur!) Kelley's morning self-pleasure practice of "peaking" (you only need 5 minutes!) Why it can be so helpful to set a container for your daily practices Connecting consciously to our pussies EVERY DAY My daily food practice and how it prepares my nervous system for digestion The importance of personal responsibility as a practice Some edges that Kelley and I discovered around expressing our desires to our lovers (and how they were received by the men!) And so much more! Connect with Kelley: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90 Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We can hold a lot of trauma and conditioning around the concept of masculinity. But what would be possible if we released those limiting beliefs and instead began to do the work of healing our relationship to the masculine? In today's episode, I talk with coach and expert in radical courage, Tanja Diamond, and co-founder of Rising Kings Movement, Robert Schwenkler. We discuss their shared passion for expanding and deepening the male sexual capacity, the harmful messaging around masculinity in today's culture, and the beauty and power that can be found in the empowerment of men. We get deep into: The harmful messaging that the masculine is inherently dangerous A staggering U.S. statistic about couples and their sex lives Why Tanja describes the way people are orgasming today as violent Doing the work to metabolize the shame and conditioning from our youth An important question to ask yourself if you are searching for a guide/teacher/mentor Some advice from Tanja if you want to invite your man into sexuality work Working through emasculating patterns or behaviors And so much more! Connect with Tanja: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tantratanja/ Website: https://learningtantra.com/ Connect with Robert: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rrschwenkler/ Website: https://sexualhealingmen.com Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Are you a spiritual seeker? Do you have a desire to find the key to true health and happiness? In today's show, I talk with the incredible Jerome Braggs, gifted and intuitive channel and self-love teacher, about his journey from being given 48 hours to live to ultimately finding true healing. We dive deep into all things self-love - what it really takes to love ourselves, why it's the greatest medicine on the planet, and why it is the real secret to health, happiness, and living a delicious life. We get deep into: Jerome's powerful journey to healing through self-love after an AIDS and kidney failure diagnosis His experience with crossing over to another dimension and speaking to his higher self The root cause of people-pleasing and the power of releasing these behaviors Acknowledging your soul body and its need to be fed The one thing that shifted for Jerome that helped heal his people-pleasing tendencies How his journey with disease helped him reconnect to the 3 basic truths And so much more! Connect with Jerome on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerome_braggs/ Connect with him on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/coachjeromebraggs Join his Self-Love Academy: https://jeromebraggs.com/self-love-academy/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

On today's show, I invite the hosts of Clit Talk - Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar - to talk about their pleasure positive work. We dive into all things pleasure - slowing down to drop into our desire, finding time for a self-pleasure practice, and curating a pleasure positive lifestyle by dropping the walls and conditioning we have around our sex, our CLITS (this is not a bad word!), and our own erotic freedom. We get deep into: What CLIT stands for and why reframing the messaging around this word is important A FREE self-pleasure resource from Clit Talk that you don't want to miss out on! The difference between orgasm and climax (and why understanding it will open up your self-pleasure practice!) Finding a balance between the masculine and feminine energies within us The surprising (and super juicy!) place Katie got pregnant How masturbating helped cure one of my guests of her back pain! The big gap in sex education and what needs to change A little tip about deep throating that can help prepare you for anal sex And so much more! Follow Clit Talk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/clittalkshow/ Check out their website: https://clittalkshow.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We all have the privilege of choosing where we put our attention - it can drastically transform our lives! In today's episode, I have a powerful and awakening conversation with Orgasmic Meditation and relationship coach Shareeah Woods about where she chooses to direct her attention and energy in her life. We get deep into the constructs of race and its effect on the individual and the collective, and how we can all take part in personal healing. We get deep into: Why Shareeah does not subscribe to the construct of race How she deciphers the term "colorblind" and why it might surprise you One of the most important ways we can start to heal ourselves from hate and separation Shareeah's advice for looking beyond the current narrative while still deeply honoring the experiences of others How confronting and challenging the energy field of division and separation can be Shareeah's thoughts on what hate really is (and how to accept the feelings of others with more compassion) The black and white construct and why it does not exist in many other countries outside of the U.S. Our "defense response" and how to accept it as part of the human process Why dropping the resistance to the thing you want changed can actually help you create the change you want to see in the world! And so much more! Connect with Shareeah: [email protected] https://www.facebook.com/shareeah Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Today is a very special day on the podcast - I invite my mother, Shellie Batuski, to share her powerful and unique transformational story! As a student of communication and personal development since the 1980s, Shellie shares how that journey to inner work and healing led to manifesting her truest desires and creating a happy, empowered, and fulfilling life. We get deep into: Shellie's upbringing and the catalyst that ultimately led to her transformational journey The "don't rely on a man" narrative and how this could be holding you back from true intimacy with a partner Discovering her desires AND her right to express them (and how life-changing this can be!) The powerful program that ultimately changed the direction of her life How she manifested a husband named David (and cut through 6 months of dating in one week!) One of the BIGGEST shifts she made in her life and how it helped her stop blaming others What it's like to be a mother to a sex and intimacy coach How pleasure and sex play a role in her 33-year marriage And so much more! Connect with Shellie: [email protected] Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

The world is not focused on uplifting women, we have to do the work ourselves! In today's episode, I talk with champion for women and creator of Revelle, JoAnna Hartzmark about her mission to reshape the future of retail by putting women's needs at the forefront of the conversation. We discuss the inconsistency of women's clothing sizing, the attempt to ignore our complex bodies, and the power of healing our wounds and conditioning around what it means to look and feel beautiful. We get deep into: JoAnna's journey to body confidence and why she is so passionate about her work Her mission to match the technical fit of clothing to the emotional fit Unlearning the triggers around being "too big" for a certain size The importance of healing the inner wounds around body shame and finding acceptance Addressing the structural biases and systems of oppression in our society And so much more! Learn more about Revelle Nation: https://revellenation.com/ & https://www.instagram.com/revellenation/ JoAnna's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joannahartzmark/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have a self-pleasure practice? Do you feel sexually fulfilled (without a partner)? In today's episode, I dive into this juicy topic by revealing how I incorporate a self-pleasure practice into my life, how it has evolved over time, and how you can release any resistance you have around it so you can start to explore the powerful healing, beauty, and magnetism of a self-pleasure practice in your life. I get deep into: Why the word "masturbation" just doesn't work for me How I developed a reliance on a vibrator for orgasms (and I how I broke through that barrier) The various teachers, mentors, and classes that have contributed to my practice Incorporating a practice called "peaking" into self-pleasure Why I masturbate with my friends on a weekly Zoom call How you can use a glass wand to de-armour your pussy! Some practical ways you can start healing any trauma in your genitals Why having a consistent self-pleasure practice has brought more men, clients, and creativity into my life (and why this is all possible for you too!) And more! Sign up for the upcoming Desire on Fire Pleasure Challenge! www.ThePleasureChallenge.com Orgasmic Meditation: https://instituteofom.com/ Lauren Harkness - Teaches Peaking practice + Tantra: https://www.radiantecstasy.com/ Carli Jo - Teaches Jade Egg practice + other sensuality practices: https://carlijo.com/ Layla Martin - Teaches Jade Egg, Self Pleasure and Sexuality practices: https://laylamartin.com/ Yoni Wands and Eggs: https://www.yonicrystals.love Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

There are many ways addiction can show up in our lives and this can keep us trapped in an existence that isn't aligned with our truest self. But we can find deep transformation in the acknowledgment of our addictive patterns. On today's episode, I talk to coach and author Dean Powell about his powerful journey with addiction, finding a path to healing, and his passion to help others to not only break their addictions, but live and thrive beyond them. We get deep into: Dean's religious upbringing and learning to trust his intuition His journey with addiction and how it played into his relationship dynamics Seeking help and feeling shame in recovery Dean's thoughts on the spectrum of addiction One IMPORTANT piece we need to look at to be able to transform How he talks to his kids about drugs and the concept of parenting from your own pain The first step in a healing journey (and how useful this can be for anyone!) How his drug use affected his sex life Developing an attention level and felt sense of what is being said and unsaid (and how this can help in your relationships) And so much more! Learn more about Dean: https://www.lifetorque.com.au/ Dean's IG: https://www.instagram.com/addiction_ary/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

From good girl to free woman, from pastor to getting paid to take her clothes off - on today's episode, I have a deep conversation with life coach Nikole Mitchell about her incredible awakening journey. We discuss her path from her early conservative upbringing, to finding sexual freedom and liberation through the realization that sexuality and spirituality go hand in hand and embracing the sacred work of reuniting these two constructs. We get deep into: The religious conditioning from growing up in a conservative, baptist family and what Nikole had to release to embark on her awakening journey Why she credits seminary for helping her lose her faith Honoring our desires and reclaiming them as GOOD Confronting stories from childhood and what choosing to follow your inner voice can do for your life! Why following your pleasure and claiming your desires is NOT convenient or easy (but still SO worth it!) What support Nikole had when leaving her faith and why this changed everything Nikole's transformed sex life and not having a partnered orgasm during her 12-year marriage Why it's so important to do inner work if you are in a stigmatized role Exploring her boundaries and why she is so public with her sexuality and sex work Why Nikole still lives with her ex-husband (and why it works!) How being in alignment with your true desires will attract the right people to you (and repel the wrong ones!) And so much more, you don't want to miss this one! Connect with Nikole: https://nikolemitchell.com/ https://onlyfans.com/nikolemitchell Nikole's IG: https://www.instagram.com/mitchellnikole/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Why do we keep it a secret when pleasure is so fucking beautiful? Following your pleasure and allowing others to witness it can be so healing. Over the weekend, I attended a Play Party with my best friend and roommate Kelley and on today's episode, we dive into the sacred and loving experience of attending a Temple Night. Join us as we talk through our shared journey with the intimate practices and the sober, conscious, and connected play. We get deep into: What a Play Party really is and why calling it a sex party can be inaccurate Why I am able to enjoy this experience even though I am not especially attracted to group sexual activities The sensual playground and environment of the party How the group acknowledged their level of play, desires, and boundaries for the evening Why valuing consent is such a HUGE part of conscious play parties The exercises that helped us practice saying yes and no to specific desires Allowing a man to touch my goddess dough (belly rolls) and receiving his love for my body Opening to receive masculine attention, energy, and love How you can honor a man's desire and still say no to it (without shaming him!) Why Kelley chose not to touch at all with one of her partner's of the night (and what she chose to do instead) How Kelley honored her celibacy while still receiving the beauty of the experience The RBDSM conscious sex conversation and how important it is to talk about after care And so much more juiciness! Connect with Kelley: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Dealing with resistance to being in your own body? Maybe your body just doesn't feel like a safe place to be? On today's show I invite Nitika Chopra, chronic illness advocate and creator of Chronicon, to talk about her personal journey to healing and the passion she has for her mission to inspire self-love and help others learn to thrive with chronic illness. We get deep into: Nitika's journey to advocacy and creating her platform for chronically ill folks to build connection What can happen when you make healing the ultimate goal in your life The one thing her inner voice told her that changed her whole life How damaging the toxic positivity cycle can be and how Nitika broke out of it Balancing the spiritual with the real pain and trauma that disease brings Recognizing trauma in the body and how powerful it can be for transformation Why Nitika started working with a therapist even though it was outside the norm in her culture The relationship between pain and pleasure and how that has shown up in her life An important first step to discovering your own pleasure (and why it's okay if you find this difficult!) And so much more! Learn more about Nitika: https://nitikachopra.com/ Learn more about Chronicon: https://www.instagram.com/chroniconofficial/ Nitika's IG: https://www.instagram.com/nitikachopra/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Your pleasure benefits the pleasure of ALL. The journey to pleasure looks different for everyone and on today's show I talk to The Pussy Priestess™ Josefina Bashout about her path to pleasure and how she holds space for women to become strong, confident and sexually liberated. We get deep into the alternative path to healing she found through Eastern holistic medicine and finding our power and pleasure through connecting to our divine feminine energy. We get deep into: Discovering her strong lineage line to sexual healing work Feeling sexual shame and punishment in her youth and how that showed up in her sex Releasing the stigma around pleasure and the vibrational energy that it can have in your life Receiving a devastating medical diagnosis and her alternative path to healing The importance of sisterhood support How your emotions may be manifesting in your body and how to identify them What the patriarchy wants us to believe about ourselves as women and how it could be holding us back The TRUTH about why we're not allowed into shamanic ritual ceremony spaces while we are bleeding One IMPORTANT tool to use when feeling a victim to, or managing, something not in alignment with your truest self And so much more! Learn more about Josefina: http://www.josefinabashout.com Josefina's IG: https://www.instagram.com/josefinabashout/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What happens when we combine pursuing pleasure with our true purpose? Everything. Every juicy, little thing you desire can happen for you. On today's episode, I have a powerful conversation with happiness and purpose expert Carin Rockind about her passion for helping women find their purpose so they can lead empowered lives and how trusting your truest desires can benefit you and everyone in your life. We get deep into: Carin's journey to positive psychology and her passion for bringing purpose and happiness to the world The pivotal moment in her life when she identified her purpose (such a powerful story!) How community and sisterhood impact pursuing your purpose The myths around purpose and how to release the conditioning around these concepts How she built her business from consistently pursuing opportunities that felt in alignment What purpose truly is and the 3 aspects to finding yours! Why listening to this ONE THING changed everything for Carin A practical exercise to identify the things that are really important to you Why feminine leadership is a NECESSITY right now And so much more! Connect with Carin: Website: https://carinrockind.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/PurposeGirlsGroup Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carinrockind/ Podcast: http://carinrockind.com/podcast (or wherever you listen to podcasts) Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

How do we erase the stigma around sex workers, around our own desires and the way we interact with the world? On today's show, I dive into a juicy conversation with Jimmy Clabots about his journey as a creative and escort and what came from following his intuition and healing his core wounds to get sober and allow his true self to be shown to the world. We get deep into: Jimmy's journey from musician/actor to becoming an escort and pursuing his passion for screenwriting His struggle with addiction and his incredible story of the road to recovery The ONE thing he needs in his long term recovery for it to really work for him How he holds space to help people get better at looking at themselves Being a thrill seeker and the road from stripper to escort at 28 years old His Enneagram Test score and how addiction might play a factor Jimmy's preferences in the bedroom Building trust as an escort and his experiences with his clients Healing core wounds from childhood and releasing conditioned beliefs around sexuality And so much more! Jimmy's IG: https://www.instagram.com/jimmychanges/ Join us for The Desire on Fire Experience Nov 13-15 (use code "pleasurequeen" for $500 off!): http://www.desireonfirelive.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Sometimes the journey to discovery can be long, but the more we surround ourselves with the light, the faster the process. On today's episode, I dive in with yoga and meditation teacher Shayna Hiller about her own journey to self discovery and her passion for reminding people of their inherent capacity to bring their deepest desires to life. We get into how we can honor and own who we truly are as we continue to grow and how we can release conditioned beliefs in our lives to find more balance. We get deep into: Shayna's health and yoga journey and the catalyst that started it all Acknowledging our patterns and finding a safe space to explore them The learned skills that eventually changed Shayna for the better Why she was celibate and single for 10 years of her life and the common fear that leads to celibacy How we commonly misunderstand what chaos can do in our lives Shayna's journey to discovery in her 6 year partnership Conditioning around relationships and the various forms a relationship can take when we release this conditioning The ways we cause our own imbalances and suffering through the supposed need for duality Societal conditioning around food and exercise and the harm it can do How we can really love how we look in the mirror (it's truly possible!) And SO much more! Join us for The Desire on Fire Experience Nov 13-15 (use code "pleasurequeen" for $500 off!): http://www.desireonfirelive.com/ Learn more about Shayna: http://www.shaynahiller.com Shayna's IG: https://www.instagram.com/shaynahiller/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have the relationship you truly desire? On today's show, I invite relationship and intimacy expert Alexandra Stockwell to talk about building stable, long lasting and sexy relationships through the uncompromising commitment to show up fully free and authentic in your life and partnership. Join us as we dive into all the juicy pleasure that you can find in your committed relationship and how you can connect deeply with your partner and turn the heat way up in the bedroom. We get deep into: Alexandra's greatest resource to help her clients in their relationships and sex The pride/shame dynamic and how that can be playing a role in your relationship A challenge most marriages see after a number of years and how you can shift it The ONE thing you can change to lead to more connection and intimacy with your partner (it works like magic!) How you can achieve a delicious, passionate relationship that grows with the decades One of the easiest ways to clear resentment in your relationship The MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do to turn up the heat in the bedroom How you can reach the height of sexual ecstasy in a busy marriage Recognizing your partner's orgasmic arc The importance of positive reinforcement for your male partner And so much more! Learn more about Alexandra: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/ Alexandra's IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.relationship.catalyst/ Join the Desire on Fire Experience weekend Nov 13-15: https://www.desireonfirelive.com/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

When we allow our desire to take the lead, beautiful things can happen! On today's show I talk with the amazing LA based coach Cailin McDuff about finding the permission to explore her sexuality and feeding the hunger she felt to connect more and push her sexual edges. Dive in with us as we talk through surrendering to the masculine and what it can look like when you strip down the layers of shame around your sex. We get deep into: Releasing the conditioning around sexuality that we learn in childhood Losing her virginity at a later age and experiencing her first orgasm at 32 Future tripping and learning to surrender to the now What a transactional climax is and how orgasmic meditation completely changed Cailin's sex Finding comfort in your own sexuality and the power of permission DS play, what it is (and what it isn't!) What kink really is and why it might not be what you think Acknowledging your sexual edges and why that might be the place to start exploring And more! Learn more about Cailin here: https://www.cailinmcduff.com/ Cailin's IG: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you have a desire to unleash something within that feels untapped? Our identity and ways of being can be very tied to our early conditioning and today I talk with my new friend Abigail Gazda about tapping into our truest identity. We dive into her journey as a clarity coach and unraveling our authentic selves by releasing our conditioning with patience and surrender so we can have all the things that we want. We get deep into: Abigail's journey to becoming a motivational speaker, author, and life coach The 2 pieces of "unbecoming" and how you can find your true identity Losing her identity through an injury and her struggle with addiction Honoring what came up during her divorce and becoming her independent self The importance of offering your gifts to the world Surrendering to shifts in your identity and trusting the bigger path The pivotal moment in her path when she connected to the divine feminine Finding alignment with the feminine and masculine energies within us Negative stories around nudity and identifying her shadow side How becoming clear on her own desire birthed two powerful books Her plant medicine journey and receiving love from her current partner A big announcement from Abigail! Subtle communication during sex and intimacy with her partner And so much more! Learn more about Abigail: http://www.abigailgazda.com/ Abigail's IG: https://www.instagram.com/_instagail_/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

What does it look like or feel like when we are unfulfilled? It can be easy to fall into the trap of our conditioning and end up in a place where we may feel stuck or dissatisfied. On today's show I talk with my best friend, amazing coach, and new mama Victoria Carmel. We dive into the choice to live intentionally and purposefully in our relationships with ourselves and others and how to release limiting beliefs around what it means to be a woman and a mother. We get deep into: How you can identify lack of satisfaction in your life. The first moment Victoria felt a connection with her now husband and what feeling it evoked. Feelings of jealousy and anger and how to let that sensation work through the body. Accepting her partner's NO and the important impact it had on her personal development. The secret to how Victoria got through a time of uncertainty in the early days of her relationship. How resentment can hold us back from healthy relationships (and how to fix it!) Actively choosing motherhood and struggling with the Madonna or Mother duality. Why Victoria rejected common conditioning around pregnancy and all the things she did differently. How you can be learning to check in with your body and what you could be doing to work through physical pain (without medicating it!) And more! Learn more about Victoria: https://www.wellcuratedwellness.com/ Victoria's IG: https://www.instagram.com/_mamavic_/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Finding the permission to express, explore, and expand our pleasure and the sensation in our bodies is such a powerful discovery. My guest today, Demetra Nyx, is a beautifully connected writer and coach who shows women how to be shameless and fully expressed so they can realize the full range of what's possible in their lives. Join us as we dive into exploring our own liberation and learning to fully receive the pleasure that we all deserve. We get deep into: Demetra's current partner and how feeling fully seen by him has changed her sex. Using your intuition to make scary choices in your life. The first moment she remembers feeling truly in control of her own pleasure. Talk therapy and somatic coaching and what might be missing from your therapy. How to hold yourself through big emotions and how important the body is in this process. Demetra's journey of writing and her expression without limitations. Why her account got taken down by Instagram. The idea that everything is happening FOR you and not TO you. Her class: Queen of Blow Jobs, and her favorite tip to give a great blow job (hint: it's not about technique!) The power of being in the feminine energy and what releasing control can do for your sex. And more! Learn more about Demetra: https://demetranyx.com/ Demetra's IG: https://www.instagram.com/demetra_nyx_/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Learning how to identify our feelings and unhealthy patterns can be very confronting and push many edges, but it can lead to more connection and a deeper truth (and that is so worth it!) On today's episode, I invite my friend Molly Godfrey to come talk about her profound journey to sobriety, her sexual awakening, and finding herself through deep healing. We dive into the importance of doing the vulnerable thing and how to release our limiting beliefs around what it means to be satisfied and free. We get deep into: The feeling of emptiness that led to Molly's journey of self-discovery. Expressing desires and what that can mean for your sex. The conditioning around what to do if we are unhappy or unsatisfied. How Molly's internalized shame and guilt manifested in her life and how she began to heal it. The many ways addiction can show up and the importance of identifying it. Her intimate journey to finding nourishing and powerful sex. And more! Learn more about Molly: https://mollygodfrey.com Molly's IG: https://www.instagram.com/askformolly/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

We are told a lot of stories about our own sexuality. And no matter what you've been told or how that is manifesting in your sex today, it is possible for you to live a fulfilled and orgasmic life! Today I talk with sensuality coach and one of my best friends, Carli Jo. She is the founder of Queen of Pleasure, a 12 week coaching program to help empower women and couples to tap into their true, erotic beings. We get into her journey to pleasure and how it plays into her marriage, her evolving relationship with combining sex and cannabis, and how you can shed the past and give birth to your erotic being today. We dive deep into: Her mission of sexual freedom and the idea that it is achievable for EVERYONE. Rejecting the superiority complex and giving ourselves the permission to learn. Sexual shame as a child and how that physically manifested in her life. The conditioning around sensitivity and how you can reframe what it means to be a sensitive person. A surprising statistic about orgasms that gets it SO WRONG. The experience of vaginal pain during sex and how this can be linked to unresolved trauma (and the one thing you need to do to break the cycle!) How cannabis showed Carli Jo what was possible in her sex life. What a Jade Egg is (and where it goes) Orgasmic energy and that climax is not the only path to get there. How she found a solution to a complicated and unfulfilling sex life with her husband. And more! Find out more about Carli Jo here: https://carlijo.com/ Carli Jo's IG: https://www.instagram.com/cannabissensualitycoach/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Freedom in communication, in relationships, in life - we are conditioned to reject this idea. One partner, for the rest of our lives - that is the only option, right? On today's episode I welcome Lydia Billings, photographer, teacher, and director of programs for 100cameras. We get deep into how freedom translates into her love life, where her curiosity about polyamory led her, and the true power of deep communication. We dive deep into: The celebration and cultural expectations of women (and of our body hair!) Her experience as a queer and polyamorous women and the role that plays in her marriage. Listening to our inner voice when it tells us a relationship isn't aligned. Depth of communication in relationships and what we can do to really SEE our partners. A unique perspective on love as an unlimited force. Jealousy in polyamorous relationships (hint: it applies to monogamy too!) And so much more! Learn more about Lydia here: https://www.lydiabillings.com/ Lydia's IG: https://www.instagram.com/lydstollbill/ Check out the amazing non-profit she's involved in: https://www.100cameras.org/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

All of us have the potential to live fully in our pleasure and to find the joy and peace of living in our integrity and deeply connecting with the world around us. Today I welcome speaker, author, and yoga culture advocate Susanna Barkataki to share her passion for unity and transcending our own limitations through the honored practice of yoga. Join us as we discuss the value of preserving tradition, the damage cultural appropriation can do, and how truly transformational it can be to practice yoga in an inclusive and honorable way. We get into: Cultural appropriation, the damage it causes, and ways to stop the harm. The importance of acknowledgment when using ceremonies and traditions from others' cultures. Western yoga's focus on the physical and a look into the MANY other ways into a yoga practice. The importance of a connection to the divine and how that impacts our relationships. Masculine and feminine energy and the different ways we can talk about these kinds of topics in a more trans-inclusive and non-binary way. And more! Learn more about Susanna: https://www.susannabarkataki.com/ Susanna's IG: https://www.instagram.com/susannabarkataki/ Join Susanna's mastermind: http://namastemasterclass.com Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

6 years ago I asked Geena a question, "Do you want an ordinary life or an extraordinary life?" On today's episode, I talk with Geena about the personal development journey that sparked from that question and the passion this social justice queen has for ALL people. We dive into Geena's experience as a queer womxn and how gender constructs, sexual identity and conditioning, and self-acceptance have all contributed to G's story. We get into juicy topics like: Femininity and the conditioning around gender constructs. What a "responder" is and how it relates to our own self-acceptance. The importance of communicating in the bedroom and how it can drastically change your intimate life. How sexual education, outside of the cultural norm of male/female intercourse, is severely lacking. Why Geena dropped the she/her pronoun. The concept of sexual fluidity and how it is not widely understood even within some LGBTQIA communities. Interracial relationships and G's commitment to becoming a better ally. And more! Connect with Geena on IG: https://www.instagram.com/geegru/ Learn more about the fight for human rights: https://www.instagram.com/heard.hub/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

The disconnection from our truest selves is often disregarded in our society. The impact this can have on our relationship to our bodies, to ourselves, and to our sexuality can be life-altering. On today's episode I invite Paola Ucelo, yogi and breath and movement teacher, to get deep into her journey of self-discovery and finally giving herself the permission to follow her pleasure. Join us as we discuss how we can embody inner peace and find the empowerment to dismantle a lifetime of suppression and conditioning to live our very best lives. We dive into: Perceptions of pleasure from a young age. Cultural conditioning around pleasure and how this applies to sexual curiosity. Deep healing work and reclaiming the sensual self. The 3 phases of healing and how to release the things that no longer feel good in your life. The catalyst that dismantled her marriage and the biggest lesson she learned. Her experience with plant medicine and how she found her current partner. And so much more! Connect with Paola on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paolaucelo_/ Join Paola's FREE live event! http://Womxnempowered.com Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

On today's episode I'm sharing my journey of when I sat in ceremony, for the first time, with the plant medicine, Ayahuasca. This ritual, when done with intention and gratitude can be SO life-changing and was an immensely profound and deeply healing experience for me. It highlighted a lot about my relationships and guided me to some strong realizations about the importance of feeling chosen, connecting and honoring our ancestry, and the beauty of truly giving and receiving someone's love. Join me as I get as vulnerable as I can to share the many insights I gained and the lasting impact I know this will have on my life and everyone who is in a relationship with me. I get deep into: The ritual, from the initial taste to the beginning as I started to swim through consciousness. My last relationship and the surprising realization about its connection to my health. A vision I had of my sister, crying with her as we discussed my insights, and the question I implore anyone with siblings to ask themselves. Blocks around feeling chosen and admitting need and how I broke the cycle after my experience. Reaching "The Grandmother" and what racism is really a rejection of. The 'bully complex' and its relevance to Candace Owens and Trump's presidency. Masculine and feminine dynamics and the profound revelation I had about men and their presence in our lives. My huge realization about "break-ups" and a funny story about my current partner Jan. And so much more! (guys, seriously - so MANY downloads!) Send me a DM and share with me your biggest takeaways! https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Let's drop into desire today as I share space with my new Bali beau, Jan! We get deep into all the juicy details about our new relationship, how he has been crowned "boundary daddy" by my friends, and how our differing desires in the bedroom play out in our sex life. Join us as we discuss how we stay in a place of honesty, growth, and pleasure with each other and how we give to each other without compromising our own boundaries and needs. I can't wait for you to hear this one! We get into: What to do if your partner's Erotic Blueprint is much different than your own (hint: one of us is kinky!) Self development and the desire to go internal vs. express to others. Online dating - how me met, the experience for men vs. women, and Jan's experience with sex and Tinder. A recent desire that has come up for Jan and how we are working through it. And so much more! Learn your Erotic Blueprint! https://bit.ly/2usIDAQ Connect with Jan-Willem Van der Heiden: https://nl.linkedin.com/in/jvanderheiden Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Can we show up even if it's a little bit messy? Have conversations about race, ask ourselves if we are truly enlightened, leave space for necessary growth? In today's episode, I welcome the inspirational self-love coach and yoga teacher Sabi Kerr as we learn about her journey, of following her curiosities and using her voice in a new way. We talk about the declaration of self-worth by accepting where we are, finding safety in who we are, and treating life as an exploration. We get deep into: The good/bad binary and its relation to the race conversation. How to release the pressure of perfection. Racial gaslighting and how it hinders progress. Common blocks to self-worth. The awareness of deep racial conditioning in the seemingly enlightened self-development world. And so much more! Learn more about Sabi here: http://www.sabikerr.com/ Sabi's IG: www.instagram.com/sabi.kerr Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

On today's show, I invite you to drop into some romance as I speak with new friends Jaymin and Eri. This beautiful couple walks us through their journey as speakers, coaches, and authors and their passion to help people create more authentic and connected lives. We go deep into their conscious partnership and the quality of connection that they have committed to with each other. Join us as we talk through questioning traditional conditioning around marriage and the daily choice to connect more deeply with the world around us. We get into: Their 4 weddings and multiple proposals! Being President and Vice President in their home and how that plays out in parenting roles. Romantic adventure and the willingness to receive those gestures and adoration. Eri's discovery of herself as a lover after becoming a mom. The unique way they come back together when they fall into disconnection in their relationship. Ethical non-monogamy and creating space and safety to share desires. And so much more! Find out more about Eri Kardos + Jaymin Patel here: https://jayminspeaks.com/ https://www.EriKardos.com www.instagram.com/coacherikardos www.facebook.com/EriKardosCoaching Eri's Love on Lockdown Challenge Registration: https://www.facebook.com/events/697502307481818/ Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

On today's episode, I go deep with the inspiring Haifa Beseisso, travel vlogger and ambassador for change. Haifa travels the world, creating meaningful content to help bridge the gaps of cultural understanding. She brings such an authentic, beautiful heart to the topic of diversity and challenging the norms that we live inside of today. Come join us as we talk through celebrating our wins, transforming our minds, and nourishing our souls. We talk through: How her Youtube fame has affected her life and relationships. Giving ourselves permission to celebrate even the smallest wins because "moments felt are moments lived!" The simplest thing I do EVERY DAY to take care of myself and stay in my pleasure. Her insight on turning her inner "judges" into "muses". Pairing the Law of Attraction belief with meaningful action, so you can get results. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! How and when to set them and why they are so important. And so much more! Check out Haifa's Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/flywithhaifa Haifa's IG: https://www.instagram.com/flywithhaifa/ Haifa's Self-Love Video that I'm in! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1tdYndqe4g Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

After an attempt at suicide at the early age of 25, Naomi Cambridge took a journey to self-actualization. With some initial resistance, she went on to surrender to her calling and has been coaching men and women to create successful, healthy relationships ever since. On today's show, we talk through her journey with intimacy coaching, surrendering to the greater things holding us, and the knowing that everything in life is a relationship. We discuss: How her personal desire for a family has propelled her journey. Defective coping mechanisms and how they relate to mental illness. Listening to messages and signs instead of dismissing them. Sexual codependency and its specific effect on men. Illuminating relationship patterns and releasing the ones that do not serve us. And much more! Learn more about Naomi here: https://www.naomicambridge.com/ Naomi's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/naomicambridge/ Check out our co-ed retreat! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/desire-ignited-at-home-co-ed-immersion-tickets-106716540044 Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

On today's episode, I speak with two powerful voices in the sexual healing space, Lidia Bonilla and Devi Maisha. We get into big topics like trauma healing, anti-racism, the transformation that comes from chaos, and their personal experiences as black women in this industry and in this country. We dive into: Finding opportunity for growth amidst chaos and discomfort. Shadow Work and how especially important it is right now. Using pleasure as a tool to rewire the brain. Generational trauma and its effects. The shifts in their communities that have sparked hope and the desired change for the future. And so much more! Learn more about Devi here: https://www.sensualenergyalchemy.com Devi's IG: https://www.instagram.com/sensualenergyalchemy/ Learn more about Lidia here: https://www.lidiabonilla.com/ Lidia's IG: https://www.instagram.com/lidiabonilla.co/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ourturnedontribe Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/