Decisions, Decisions

On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence, beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [01:55]. The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magic City, unpacking what it says about Atlanta’s identity, capitalism, and cultural branding [02:52], before settling into guest introductions and commentary on podcast dynamics and media chemistry [03:45]. The hosts address online criticism and gender discourse in digital spaces [05:10], share anecdotes from a night out in Atlanta that spark conversations about networking, optics, and influence [09:17], and reflect on ignorance in the context of current events and viral headlines [14:29]. The episode deepens with a historical lens on the NAACP’s rebranding efforts and legacy [15:50], followed by a candid dialogue about exceptionalism within the Black community and the pressures it creates [20:07]. A thoughtful debate on reparations, land ownership, and economic justice unfolds [23:01], layered with broader commentary on Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity [25:52]. Later, the crew analyzes the viral Tez Johnson proposal controversy and what it reveals about social expectations and public judgment [36:27], before shifting into urgent discussions around the Epstein files, political apologies, and elite accountability [43:14]. The hosts confront difficult societal conversations surrounding pedophilia and institutional complicity [51:58], examine rising geopolitical tensions and concerns about global conflict [57:02], and close with a powerful call to action encouraging awareness, civic engagement, and informed participation in today’s socio-political climate [01:11:27]. Blending cultural commentary, political analysis, and social critique, this episode underscores the importance of engagement, accountability, and historical literacy in navigating modern America. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV  This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should ever let your man propose at a baby shower. Things get spicy as the trio debates cheating, sex workers and accountability, side chick energy, emotional affairs, independence in relationships, and the boundaries around husbands having close female friends.  OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... Decisions, Decisions!  **Trigger Warning: SA, SH, Trafficking ** This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord, author of From Porn to the Pulpit, as the episode opens with prayer before Danielle shares her introduction to ministry, the difficulty of speaking about mental health, and her early experiences with exploitation while underage, including her pregnancy and the moment her mother learned the truth. She discusses running away after giving birth, entering the stripping industry, the assumptions placed on her about sex work, being introduced to drugs through a church connection, her first client, life on the blade, and her transition from prostitution to porn, including the reality of her clientele, while the conversation also explores morality within sex work, the possibility of returning to a corporate career, the classification of sugar babies, and the demands tied to maintaining a luxury lifestyle. Danielle recounts surviving multiple overdoses, the role of scripture in her life, the emotional response her story brings out in the room, her turning point, a kidnapping in which she believed she would die before being freed by a stranger, and the events that redirected her path back to faith and ministry, along with a discussion on language, her story being adapted into a stage play, and her present-day work. Support Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord: https://linktr.ee/daniellewmm EP 460: From Porn to the Pulpit (feat. Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord) OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a layered, culture-forward conversation unpacking race, sports, media, and accountability. The episode opens with reflections on Black History Month and the intersection of sports and cultural celebration [00:55], before shifting into personal stories and sharp observations about Atlanta culture, identity, and lived experience in the city [03:46]. The crew adds humor with tales of strip club adventures and the role of food culture in shaping Atlanta’s social scene [07:26], which leads into a spirited debate about Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity and its influence on music, media, and migration trends [13:04]. The conversation deepens with an analysis of the WNBA’s labor negotiations and ongoing pay disparities, highlighting the broader conversation about gender equity in professional sports [20:15], followed by a sobering discussion about the healthcare crisis, rising medical costs, and celebrity GoFundMe campaigns that expose systemic failures in access to care [33:22]. From there, the hosts examine representation in media through the lens of Captain Durag, unpacking how Black culture is framed, commodified, and consumed across digital platforms [39:53]. Hip-hop drama resurfaces as they break down the ongoing feud between 50 Cent and T.I., exploring how personal attacks intersect with legacy, ego, and the broader culture of celebrity conflict [50:14]. The episode widens into current events and social commentary, emphasizing civic awareness and cultural responsibility [01:01:17], before closing with a critical discussion of the Epstein files, power dynamics, and the urgent need for community engagement and informed action [01:21:55]. Blending humor, nostalgia, and serious political critique, this episode delivers sharp insight into Black culture, sports economics, healthcare inequality, media representation, and hip-hop controversy in today’s social climate. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mandii B and Weezy return for a solo episode where they catch up on recent experiences, from being labeled the “Pee Pee Girls” and awkward moments that ruin intimacy to Alexa interruptions and music choices during sex. The conversation moves through nightlife encounters, calling Assante for advice, discussions around gay-baiting, body compliments, and appearance, before getting into tops and bottoms, cities known for threesomes and open relationships, bringing up partners in conversation, and a round of Kinky Court. Later, they react to public carpet engagements, play “We Listen and We Judge” with incel discourse included, address a man extending his time with an escort before the COPS are called. Finally we get to our reactionary, where we talk about how long we need to wait after a break-up before finally being on the search for another. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation blending pop culture, sports, politics, and music industry insight. The episode opens with current events and trending pop culture moments that set the tone for a lively, humorous, and critical dialogue [00:55], before shifting into nostalgic concert experiences and how live music fandom has evolved across generations [06:00]. The crew breaks down a legacy pop concert performance and what it reveals about longevity, audience loyalty, and stagecraft [11:55], then pivots into political commentary surrounding ICE, immigration narratives, and how celebrity voices influence public understanding of policy issues [18:02], including reactions tied to high-profile artists and Homeland Security conversations [22:06]. Music industry perspective deepens with artist-focused insights and commentary on independence, messaging, and creative positioning [26:48], before the discussion widens into sports and broader cultural reflection [33:12]. A major segment of the episode centers on the artistic and cultural impact of Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl performance, with layered analysis of symbolism, staging, and representation on one of entertainment’s biggest platforms [40:57], followed by a technical and creative breakdown of performance art at the Super Bowl level [50:41]. The hosts then evaluate the highs and lows of NBA All-Star Weekend, calling it a mixed experience and debating whether modern formats have lost their original spirit [56:46], which leads into a broader nostalgia-versus-modernity debate around how major sports showcases have changed [01:04:36]. The conversation continues with discussion of dance team inclusivity and evolving standards in sports entertainment [01:12:26], athlete political expression and the fallout from press conference moments [01:19:54], and finally the internet’s reaction to a controversial Michael Jordan fan interaction, used as a case study in celebrity optics and viral judgment [01:30:00]. Blending humor, critique, and cultural analysis, this episode captures how music, sports, and politics increasingly collide in today’s media ecosystem and more. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a timely deep dive into Black History Month, racist laws in America, cultural stereotypes, and modern racism, opening with a frank discussion about the legacy and ongoing effects of racist legislation and why historical truth still faces resistance today [00:53]. The crew connects these themes to their own personal education journeys and lived experiences with how Black history is taught — or omitted — in schools [02:46], leading into a candid conversation about ignorance, self-education, and the gaps many adults still have in understanding Black historical contributions [06:04]. They then unpack the controversy surrounding Critical Race Theory and curriculum limitations, examining how political pressure shapes what students are allowed to learn [08:55], before spotlighting key historical figures and their lasting social and cultural impact [11:49]. The discussion expands into cultural stereotypes and long-standing misconceptions about Black identity [15:02], followed by a nuanced breakdown of racial slurs, historical context, and how language evolves across generations [17:51]. From there, the hosts return to the structural level, outlining major racist laws and their real historical consequences [21:03], including miscegenation laws and the policing of interracial relationships [23:50]. The conversation then bridges past to present through examples of modern racism and current events [27:07], before shifting toward media analysis and the portrayal of Black culture in pop culture and entertainment [30:02]. Music is highlighted as a powerful tool of protest, preservation, and social commentary within Black history [32:47], with specific attention paid to controversial songs and their cultural ripple effects [36:03]. The episode closes with a direct call to action for listeners to pursue deeper education, cultural literacy, and historical awareness beyond performative celebration [38:52], reinforcing the show’s commitment to informed dialogue around Black history, race, education, and representation.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of Decisions Decisions is a full chaos cocktail. Mandi B and Weezy are back with takes on Valentine’s Day, situationships, long-distance sex, celebrity mess, and relationship “goals” that are really just lies on Instagram. They kick things off with jokes, hair talk, Atlanta vibes, and confusion over who tf is actually famous anymore. From celebrity All-Star games to Grammy weekend FOMO, nothing is safe. They get into music debates, and why some movies from the 90s just hit harder than anything out now. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, open with emotional reflections on the current news cycle and its psychological toll on everyday life [01:11], leading into a candid conversation about whether shame still has a place in society and how accountability shapes behavior [04:31]. The trio examine the real-world consequences of inappropriate conduct [10:36] and the permanence of digital footprints in an era where online actions rarely disappear [12:55], before unpacking broader concerns around community trust and social responsibility [14:03]. The discussion turns urgent as they address the arrest of journalists and the implications for press freedom [22:41], followed by a deeper dive into the increasingly blurred lines between politics and pop culture [27:02]and the notable silence of hip-hop voices on major social issues [28:41]. Later, the hosts analyze Nicki Minaj’scontroversial political alignments [39:39] and critique Candace Owens’ polarizing statements [49:04], before shifting to a reflective conversation on Derrick Rose’s jersey retirement and lasting legacy [01:02:03]. The episode closes with broader reflections on the state of American society [01:06:36] and a spirited discussion around Cam Newton’scomments on platonic relationships and gender dynamics [01:07:04], reinforcing the show’s commitment to examining culture, politics, and accountability with nuance and honesty. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Decisions, Decisions is back with Mandii B and WeezyWTF  going SOLO this week, with Eddin in the building. This episode runs through riding a man you actually start to like, men judging other men for having ugly girlfriends, a wild deep dive into a couple that drinks their own pee (and why that’s dangerous), another round of Heauxetry, the 10 guys women should be with before finding the one, and getting clear on long-term dating goals. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents...Selective Ignorance! In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging, culture-forward conversation that blends humor, critique, and social commentary. The episode opens with reflections on a recent winter storm and the collective panic it caused, including questionable food preparation decisions and general storm-time ignorance [00:00–05:05]. From there, the discussion pivots into the evolving creator economy, unpacking what true ownership looks like through the lens of Kevin Hart’s licensing deal and Kavi Lamay’s groundbreaking AI digital twin, raising the question of whether everyone — and everything — is ultimately for sale [26:32]. The energy shifts as the crew dives into the lucrative and often-overlooked power of advertising jingles, sparked by a viral Dr. Pepper jingle that earned its creator a major payout, leading into a hilarious, improvised jingle-creation challenge that showcases the hosts’ chemistry and creativity [41:11–42:41], while also examining the fine line between catchy marketing and provocative advertising [47:22]. Balancing the fun with heavier topics, the conversation turns toward literacy and media access in prisons and why storytelling and education still matter behind bars [52:44], followed by a nuanced breakdown of Kanye West’s recent apology and how public perception, accountability, and redemption play out in real time [58:03]. The episode closes with a candid discussion on relationship dynamics, centered around Cam’ron and his ex, exploring communication, ego, and emotional maturity in modern relationships [01:11:39]. Altogether, the episode captures Selective Ignorance at its best — blending sharp humor, cultural critique, and thoughtful dialogue about ownership, media, and accountability in today’s attention economy.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Mandii and Weezy are riding solo this week and getting straight to the mess. The ladies break down the tackiest moves they’ve ever seen in dating, unpack the absolute worst reasons people have ended relationships, and bring back another round of We Listen and We Judge.   OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a layered conversation that blends breaking news, cultural critique, and sharp humor, beginning with a viral American Airlines emergency landingthat sparks a candid discussion about fear, entitlement, and survival instincts as passengers prioritized carry-on luggage over safety [01:25]. That moment opens a broader examination of common sense in crises and how individual behavior reflects larger societal issues. The episode then shifts to pop culture and current events, including pointed reactions to the Golden Globes and what award-season optics reveal about race, recognition, and media narratives [15:37]. From there, the tone deepens as the hosts unpack the controversy surrounding Morris Brown College, following the firing of its president amid ongoing accreditation struggles [20:27], which leads into Jah’s in-depth breakdown of the state of HBCUs and higher education funding in America [01:04:23]. He highlights the alarming reality that nearly 60% of HBCUs risk losing federal funding due to high student loan default rates, connecting these systemic challenges to broader conversations about the American Dream, institutional support, and cultural responsibility. The episode later pivots to lighter but still culturally revealing territory with a discussion of Kirstie Scott’s divorce and the rigid dating norms within Jehovah’s Witness culture, offering context on how faith, relationships, and public perception collide [01:08:27]. The conversation closes with a humorous yet critical take on Cam Newton’s podcast blunder, using the moment to interrogate media representation, stereotypes, and the scrutiny placed on Black men in public-facing platforms [01:21:35]. Balancing serious discourse on education, race, and institutional power with timely celebrity commentary, this episode delivers an engaging, thought-provoking listen that encourages awareness, accountability, and cultural literacy.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The ladies are back SOLO this week. The ladies are back SOLO this week. Mandii B and Weezy WTF kick things off with Weezy reflecting on feeling washed in her 30s and how outside nights hit different now, before Mandii gets into her Sunday errands and personal routines. The conversation shifts to a discussion about cities with fewer children and more adults, what that says about lifestyle choices, and the types of questions that can reveal everything you need to know on a date. Weezy later shares a story about hearing hater gossip through friends, leading into broader conversations about relationships, attraction, and social dynamics, wrapping the episode with open thoughts and ongoing debates that carry through the rest of the discussion. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, host Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a sharp, culturally grounded conversation that blends humor, social critique, and forward-looking commentary. The episode opens with Mandii recounting an “ignorant moment” at a birthday dinner that spirals into a broader reflection on food literacy, consumer awareness, and how everyday ignorance shows up in seemingly small choices [00:51, 09:30], before the crew formally settles in with introductions and playful banter [02:59]. The discussion quickly pivots to a provocative question—whether gambling is becoming the new crack epidemic in America [01:36]—using recent celebrity controversies and viral internet reactions as an entry point [02:03]. From there, the crew unpack relationship expectations and accountability [23:52] before zooming out to make bold political predictions for 2026 [34:27], examining how gambling, capitalism, and policy intersect. The episode takes a deeper investigative turn with a breakdown of the RICO case and the Stake controversy [42:43], sparking debates about the ethics of accepting money [45:09], ownership and influence within the gambling industry [45:42], and the tangible impact gambling has on low-income communities [47:59, 49:48], including comparisons to other forms of addiction [49:26]. The conversation further critiques the hypocrisy of capitalism within hip-hop culture [54:00], transitions into commentary on controversial church practices and the commercialization of modern faith [56:48], and revisits celebrity fashion debates—specifically the scrutiny faced by women in the public eye [57:26]. In the final stretch, the crew reflects on the business of podcasting, media ownership, and power dynamics in digital culture [01:19:52], before closing with final thoughts and teasers for future episodes [01:23:49].  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Mandii and Weezy are back with their FIRST guest of 2026. Joining the ladies this episode is entertainment reporter, TV personality and producer, Zuri Hall! The ladies kick things off unpacking the realities of egg freezing, why no one was talking about it when we were younger, and the emotional, financial, and relational layers that come with planning your future as a woman. The conversation goes even deeper into questioning motherhood, costs, having kids with a partner, and what choosing a surrogate really looks like.   Egg Freezing In Chicago:https://ovaeggfreezing.com/ If you love great conversations, this one’s for you. Emmy-winning TV host Zuri Hall flips the script with NOT ABOUT SPORTS, with new episodes every other week on YouTube. Watch the show here: http://youtube.com/@zurihall Zuri goes one-on-one with your sports faves, diving deep into everything except the game — the people behind the headlines, the relationships, the identity shifts, and the moments that actually matter. From love and purpose to passion and legacy, it’s about finding new reasons to cheer for the humans behind the game. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Mandii and Weezy are back in 2026 for another year of Decisions, Decisions, kicking things off by recording fresh in front of an audience and immediately diving into chaos, questionable gifts, and unmet expectations. After the gift exchange, Mandii & Weezy catch up on finding new family members & canceling a Turks & Caicos trip over keeping principles.  We find out if all of the nice guys are married, why a pastor is going around farting on the congregation, proving the theory that all trumpers are ugly and much more! OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Join us in this special year-end wrap-up episode of 'Decisions. Decisions.' as we celebrate our first year as a rebranded podcast. We revisit our top favorite episodes from 'Decisions. Decisions' and 'Whorible Decisions,' share our personal highlights, set goals for the future, and discuss memorable moments from the past year. From sex clubs and unique love stories to hilarious and revealing celebrity interviews, we’ll take you through the laughter and lessons that defined our 2025. Don't miss the funny, raw, and intimate clips from our favorite episodes, and get a sneak peek into what we have planned for 2026. Happy New Year, and thank you for being part of our journey!   OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this holiday edition of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for a layered, reflective conversation unpacking the cultural, emotional, and commercial realities of the holiday season. The episode opens with a warm introduction to the holidays and the shifting energy that comes with this time of year [00:00], setting the tone for a discussion rooted in nostalgia, cultural awareness, and modern-day realities. The hosts reflect on childhood Christmas memories and past holiday crazes, revisiting the toys, traditions, and moments that defined earlier eras [02:47], before examining how Christmas hits differently in adulthood—especially when navigating single life, expectations, and social pressure during the season [06:05]. From there, the conversation expands into cultural perspectives on how Christmas is celebrated across communities, highlighting both shared traditions and meaningful differences [08:56]. A deeper historical lens is applied as the crew breaks down the origins and evolution of Christmas, unpacking how religion, capitalism, and culture have reshaped the holiday over time [12:05]. That history connects directly to a discussion on Christmas crazes, consumer trends, and the role of marketing, questioning what gets lost when tradition becomes transactional [14:57]. The symbolism of Santa Claus and cultural identity is also explored, challenging how myths are constructed and who they are designed to serve [18:07]. As the episode progresses, the conversation turns toward historical revisionism and dominant cultural narratives, examining how certain stories are amplified while others are erased [37:37]. This naturally leads into a candid discussion about Black identity, the African American experience, and cultural inclusion during the holidays [39:34], followed by a thoughtful breakdown of Kwanzaa as a cultural alternative that emphasizes community, heritage, and self-determination [42:58]. Lighter moments balance the depth as the hosts touch on sports as part of holiday traditions [46:35], before diving into the timeless role of Christmas movies and holiday music in shaping seasonal mood and memory [54:41]. The conversation then turns to celebrity commentary and controversies surrounding Christmas, highlighting how public figures influence cultural debates during the season [01:00:51]. As the episode winds down, Mandii, A-King, and Jayson discuss the realities of navigating family plans and emotional boundaries during the holidays [01:01:19], along with the often-overlooked workplace dynamics, expectations, and burnout that come with end-of-year professional life [01:05:36]. The episode closes with reflective energy, positioning the holiday season as both a moment of pause and a bridge into the new year ahead.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X  @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of Decisions, Decisions features the OMG Girlz as they stop by for a wide-ranging conversation covering their growth into womanhood, zodiac signs, ice breakers, and the realities of motherhood. The group talks about DMs, celebrity crushes, fanning out over famous faces, and the artists that shaped their sound, before jumping into playful moments like a dare with an acapella nursery rhyme and a quick-pick debate between finances and “sizes” (IYKYK) . The discussion continues into dating dynamics, navigating men who see multiple people, dating criminals, crashing out on a man, lessons learned from regret, and what fans can expect from their upcoming music. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this 2025 Year-End Wrap-Up episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by a special roundtable featuring Deante Kyle, Jason “Jah” Lee, and JoJo Alonzo for a wide-ranging reflection on the defining political, cultural, and personal moments of 2025. The conversation opens with a sweeping review of the year’s political climate and cultural shifts [00:52], setting the tone for a thoughtful breakdown of how public policy, media narratives, and social movements shaped everyday life. From there, the panel transitions into personal reflections on navigating 2025 as individuals [03:37], leading into an honest discussion around neurodivergence and identity [04:06], including how language, labels, and self-definition evolved throughout the year [05:22]. The group examines stereotypes and community dynamics [08:03], before unpacking the lasting societal impact of the pandemic [10:15] and how it reshaped ideas around corporate responsibility, humanity, and social justice [11:59]. As the conversation deepens, the hosts challenge modern ideas of victimhood and accountability [13:12], segueing into a critical analysis of celebrity involvement in politics [16:33] and the outsized influence public figures wield within Black communities [18:19]. They discuss the rise of controversial personalities [20:56], emphasizing the urgent need for stronger, more intentional Black voices in media [23:08] and increased investment in Black-owned platforms and storytelling [25:56]. The episode also interrogates celebrity idolization through the lens of figures like Diddy [27:48], expanding into broader conversations around cultural representation in entertainment [30:09], performative allyship [32:00], and the dangers of celebrity worship [34:19]. The panel revisits the complexity of victimhood narratives [36:34], questioning how money, power, and morality intersect in public discourse [39:12]. In the final stretch, the discussion turns toward the future—examining the rapid evolution of AI and technology [41:15], the environmental concerns tied to innovation [46:41], and what these developments mean for humanity moving forward. The episode concludes with reflective final thoughts on lessons learned in 2025 and the importance of individual action, community care, and accountability as society looks ahead [50:22]. This year-end conversation offers a layered, unfiltered look at politics, culture, technology, and identity—cementing Selective Ignorance as a space for critical thought, honest dialogue, and forward-thinking reflection. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media @deante.kyle @gritsandeggspodcast @mrhiphopobama @_jojoalonzo Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies are joined by comedian Tahir Moore for a conversation covering everything from food debates and big group dinners to navigating parenting moments like his daughter bringing a boy home. Tahir shares his experience living in an open and poly relationship, including how it started, traveling with partners, dealing with jealousy, going to therapy, and the reactions from his therapist and his children. The trio also talks about the dynamics within multiple-partner households, boundaries around voyeurism, partner disagreements, and how presence is shared among everyone involved. During Truth and Dare they explore desires, assertiveness, intimacy challenges, early experiences, and a vibrator sales dare before moving into Heauxtry and closing with Tahir’s biggest lesson from being poly. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this expansive episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B sits down with super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a deep, multilayered conversation that bridges culture, technology, ethics, and identity. The episode opens with Mandii’s intro and book promo [00:00] before the crew dives into the evolving intersection of sci-fi and reality [00:54], exploring how futuristic concepts—from AI to virtual identity—are rapidly becoming part of everyday life. They quickly shift into the impact of celebrity controversies and the algorithm-driven world of social media [02:17], highlighting how online behavior distorts public perception. This leads to a candid exploration of ignorance in social interactions [03:49], examining the blurred lines between intention, offense, and personal accountability. The discussion broadens into cultural biases and stereotypes [21:25], unpacking how upbringing, environment, and media shape the ways people interpret the world. That conversation sets the stage for a rich breakdown of Apple TV’s Pluribus[31:45], where the group examines its philosophical themes, including collective identity [34:44], the pursuit of happiness [37:39], and the role of suffering in defining human experience [40:11]. As the hosts navigate cultural perspectives and language barriers [42:28], they reflect on autonomy, free will, and the human experience [45:18], tying these concepts to larger societal structures like capitalism versus socialism [48:09]. This flows into a discussion on the ripple effects of individual actions [51:34], especially in relation to convenience, overconsumption, fast fashion, and how happiness often comes with hidden ethical costs [54:38]. The complexity of choice becomes a major theme, as the group unpacks the illusion of choice and the manufactured nature of happiness [01:00:02], eventually highlighting why genuine choice remains essential to humanity [01:02:44]. Race, identity, and internal community dynamics surface next, with an honest conversation about colorism and its impact within the Black community [01:11:55]. From there, the hosts turn to tipping culture and stereotypes [01:17:06], exposing how social expectations shape perceptions of class, service, and respect. That leads to a humorous yet pointed discussion on punctuality [01:23:45], exploring the deeper cultural meanings behind being late—or being on time. The episode wraps with a reflection on accountability and growth in public discourse [01:28:59], and finally, the complexities of family dynamics, misinformation, and how beliefs evolve over generations [01:37:11]. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Chy & Winter of the Behind The Likes podcast to talk break-ups and make-ups, how reading the signs and picking up the energy on tour affects relationships,the moments when advice given on the mic goes left, and why 86% of married men are married. The ladies tap into their playful side with a round of Heauxtry, where they guess songs and let their inner heaux sing through, before diving into their favorite parts of “corn” and just how petty things can get after a breakup. They also get real about dealing with violence, feeling attacked by a friend, setting boundaries within a friendship and business, and how Chy & Winter work through their most recent argument while keeping their bond and partnership solid. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and special guest Jason “Jah” Lee for a sharp, unfiltered deep dive into politics, celebrity accountability, cultural contradictions, and personal moments of ignorance. The conversation kicks off with a breakdown of the newly released Epstein files, as the crew explores their political and cultural impact [00:52]—from what the revelations mean for public trust to how power and privilege shape the narrative in America. The group then pivots into real-life chaos with a series of “ignorant moments,” where Mandii and the fellas share candid stories about heated confrontations and the trials of unreliable cleaning services [11:01], offering humor alongside relatable frustrations. The discussion picks up intensity as they examine celebrity accountability, spotlighting public figures like The Game and Matt Barnes [24:01], and questioning how much transparency we truly expect from those with massive platforms. The Epstein files resurface later in the episode [38:50], this time through the lens of political manipulation, media spin, and shifting public perception. From there, the crew delves into Nicki Minaj’s controversial alignment with the Trump administration [48:45], unpacking the broader implications of celebrity influence, political endorsements, and fan-driven loyalty. The conversation takes a spiritual turn when they explore Young Thug’s surprising decision to seek guidance from a rabbi [01:06:36], sparking a broader discussion about personal resets, faith, and unexpected paths to clarity. The episode closes with a provocative “Am I Ignorant?” segment [01:16:24], challenging cultural norms around inheritance, family dynamics, and whether cousins are entitled to a caregiver’s final wishes. “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the guests on Social Media@mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies are joined by author & sex therapist, Dr. Donna Oriowo to talk all about her new book Drink Water & Mind Your Business and the real-life choices that inspired it. From unpacking “texturism” and Weezy’s hair salon horror stories to the dangerous narratives around “fat body genocide” and why health has become just another weapon to judge people, the trio gets into how our bodies, beauty standards, and self-talk shape the way we move through the world.They also dive into asking to go raw, communicating honestly with yourself, and why giving yourself the love you deserve is the prerequisite for any relationship.The ladies play a little Truth & Dare to tap into their inner phone seggs operator. Plus, Dr. Donna breaks down situationships, “shut up” rings, and the biggest takeaways from Drink Water & Mind Your Business so you can protect your peace, your heart, and your edges. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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In this Thanksgiving-themed episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and journalist Jayson Rodriguez for an insightful, humorous, and culturally rich exploration of the holiday’s deeper meaning, pop culture impact, and evolving traditions. Kicking things off with context and vibes [00:00], they set the tone by unpacking what Thanksgiving represents today—beyond turkey, football, and family photos—for Black and Brown communities, touching on gratitude, identity, and the social expectations that come with the holiday. The trio dives into the lesser-discussed origins of Thanksgiving [05:07], challenging myths from grade school narratives and exploring how history, colonialism, and Native American contributions are often overlooked in mainstream storytelling. This leads naturally into a lively breakdown of culinary traditions and family dynamics [09:51], from whose mac and cheese passes the test to the politics of potlucks, kitchen hierarchies, and the emotional weight food carries across generations. By [15:05], the conversation shifts toward Thanksgiving and capitalism, unpacking how the holiday transformed into a marketing engine—from over-the-top grocery ads to seasonal branding and the economics behind the holiday dinner table. That sets up a global lens on Thanksgiving [19:56], examining how other countries interpret or remix the holiday—through diaspora traditions, Caribbean influence, and cultural adaptation. As football enters the chat [25:02], Mandii, A-King, and Jayson explore the historical connection between the NFL and Thanksgiving, including how football became almost as essential to the holiday as stuffing and sweet potato pie. From there, they seamlessly pivot into the commercial aftermath—the birth of Black Friday [33:42], tracing its evolution from chaotic, door-busting retail mania to today’s online-driven, algorithm-powered consumer culture. Conversation returns to food and nostalgia [39:20], where they compare Thanksgiving food preferences, from classic vs. experimental menus, and why certain dishes are sacred: no raisins in the potato salad, no shortcuts on sweet potato pie, and why fried turkey is a forever MVP. Things take a hilarious and philosophical turn at [48:43], when the group explores the ethics and absurdity of cloning pets—sparked by real-life celebrity stories and the rising cost of “designer grief.” Finally, the episode closes on a reflective note [56:43], as they discuss gratitude, community, chosen family, and how Thanksgiving has evolved into a celebration far beyond its historical roots—emphasizing connection, culture, and conscious living in today’s world.  “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies are joined by Ryan Mitchell of HighKey! The trio dives into the need formore queer identity represented in media and whether gay men actually watch football. Fromthere, the ladies jump into Truth & Dare, being anti-ponchos and brunch boots, true-crime dateenergy, and diving nose deep into “Bump Bump Bump”. They also unpack circling back afterghosting, navigating religious fears, and the honest moments where we listen and we judge.Ryan breaks down the landscape of gay-dating apps, first-time hookups, cleaning toys, andeven gets into Mandii & Weezy’s bi-racial cards.Finally, they close out with a heartfelt turntoward gratitude in love and sex. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week, Mandii & Weezy sit down with Danielle Campbell and Raheem DeVaughn for an open, judgment-free conversation on HIV prevention, testing, and how to make sexual health talks feel a lot less awkward. Danielle joins the ladies to break down the importance of PrEP, how to ask a partner for their test results without killing the vibe, why Planned Parenthood asks so many questions, and the real framework people need to feel comfortable getting tested. The crew gets into the nerves that come after you get tested, the correct way to screen for different STDs (including the ones hiding in your mouth), the reality of HPV turning into genital warts, plus a fun detour into the Top Ten Best Cities for Black Singles. Then Raheem DeVaughn taps in to talk about being an advocate for PrEP, the conversations men often avoid around protection, and what it was like having his PCP bring up PrEP for the first time. There’s a moment about Weezy being nervous while getting tested, an ice breaker that gets interesting fast, and a spicy round of Smash or Pass that leads into a real talk on the homophobia still associated with PrEP. The group dives into how often people actually avoid condoms and how to bring up PrEP to male friends, sons, or potential partners. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy sit down with the magnetic Jodie K. Taylor for an insightful, funny, and brutally honest conversation about dating, confidence, and knowing your worth. The ladies dive into everything from red carpet elegance and finance bro fantasies to how women are navigating modern expectations in love, money, and identity. Jodie breaks down “The Box Theory,” exploring how people categorize potential partners — and how to get out of the box someone’s put you in. The trio also get into dating 10/10s, why softness can be hard to hold onto, and how self-awareness and honesty shape better relationships. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us your questions [email protected]  Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies sit down with author and Curvy Curly Conscious movement leader Shelah Marie for a conversation packed with transparency, accountability, and a whole lot of softness. Shelah opens up about her new book “UnRuly,” the importance of emotional safety in relationships, and how healing isn’t always gentle but it is necessary. They get into navigating public perception in marriage, when “pick me” energy is intentional, and why Black women deserve tenderness without having to earn it.Getting into why her and her husband Ace Hood look like a Hedo Couple.The controversy again of Ayesha Curry and her relationship with Steph and being desired. Plus, the crew dives into boundaries, shooting your shot as a couple, and why showing your body doesn’t mean you don’t value your mind. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.